I can't send unborn children to my parents. Also, my parents probably know what I would be up to now thanks to your comment so that just isn't an option now.
I’m finding that my libido goes up and down. I exercise, I journal, I meditate to try and alleviate my stress (which I suspect is the culprit for my low libido) but it doesn’t help. Besides prescription medication are there any natural supplements that could possibly help?
My wife is 100% against medication, 99% against therapy (we’ve tried), has almost 0 libido, and doesn’t want me to touch her about 98% of the time. I just want to feel wanted. And have good sex. Anytime I bring up the topic (which is rarely these days) it quickly turns sour and she usually gets angry. Guess I’m stuck with bad, infrequent, and one way sex for the rest of my life. Hope you’re all enjoying yourselves!
Sigh…pretty common and complete BS on her part. You can bet your ass if it was reversed she’d find what she needed/wanted. If she has zero interest and zero interest in trying to figure it out, then she should be fine with you getting what you need, and it is a need, from the outside.
Just 98% man you are lucky mine is at 100. But thats ok. I have set it up so when I die the kids and the dogs get everything . Then she can go suck d on the corner for beer money.
With men our libido starts us off at age 20 with 5 minutes. The trick for men is the same, which is to be with the same woman. If so by 30 yrs old (his last maturity date which is 'emotional') he should be able to make love to a woman for an hour. By the time he reaches 40 yrs old it should have increased to 2 hours. This is all in preparation to get her to 3 hours at 50 in anticipation for menopause whereby they can hump morning noon and night without safeguards. So with each decade (if he is humpin' rite and not around) he gets one more hour, and one more inch. (when I discovered this mystery I was wondering how my balando got so (much) bigger! lmao) This is what is missing in humanity but the only way it was meant to work to its highest called Infinity. (its in da buuk) There are three levels she is made to have and has been missing since time began. My Heavenly Father even gave ppl the chance to rediscover it during the enclosed pandam covet 19. And what happened? For any couple to find it they would see how their sex life puts everything around it. Instead of them putting the world first and their sex life on a sex diet. This and PMS, FFA, (free floating anxiety) GAD, ADHD (and others) are all countered by a balanced sex life. Otherwise shebabitchto minutemen who can't satisfy her! Domestic abuse. (bad luck chicks - make you want to hit'em instead of hit it'!) All a man has to do is marry a woman he likes to be around and have sex with her every nite 3 weeks out the month. Watch the clock and whenever she is cumming, watch the clock and relax and grip you PC muscle. I weary to repose so... JRT don't listen to sexually frustrated females who do not know what the limit of their sexuality is either. It shows on their faces! You see it like when she comes to work and a female co-workers say, oh you happy. you must had sex this morning.
I had my doctor recommend Addyi and I went to the pharmacist and it was $1000 for a 28 day supply. Insurance doesn't cover it. What else is there that is cheaper? I'm pre-menopausal. Why is men's libido enhancement SO much more accessible. This is frustrating
Right mine is so stressed out cause there is nothing on TV and she is out of doughnuts has gained 60 lbs in the last year and has to turn side ways to get through the door.
The answer is so simple, Low libido is caused by stress. We as humans have way too much on our plate. ESP parents & MORE SPECIFICALLY WOMEN. We have to work, take care of the kids, keep the house clean, remember everything. I think back to the days of when I actually had a strong desire for sex and that was only as a teenager. Once you go into the world and start having responsibilities, stress comes. And it’s too hard to focus when you have 1000 things running through your mind constantly. We need to go back to simpler times. Life should be about fulfilling basic needs and enjoying our time here, not striving to be everything and do everything. Until then, we’re basically doomed.
I KNOW this is my problem. I have so much trouble getting brain to focus for sex..like even during my brain is running through a list of things that need to be done...I also have a problem with disassociating, so I'm outside of my body a lot. My brain is 100% my problem.
This is a really cool channel. Don’t know how I got here. Not having a problem. But I’m enjoying the content and I appreciate the knowledge to keep healthy.
Also how need to look up how to tell my partner is not talking about anything deep or important… and only talking about sex… Makes me feel like that’s all he cares about in the relationship. In a way that doesn’t make him defensive…
Wife's libido was great for the first 15 years or so. Then there was cancer, in which she lost her uterus. Within a couple years, libido fell through the floor. We just lived with that for a few years until we discovered that smoking a little quality weed takes her libido to a whole new level. While the state of euphoria doesn't hang out that long, it takes a couple days for her libido to be back in the trash. That's been her sexual ticket ever since.
well, in my professional opinion whenever a man marries a woman he should be prepared to have sex with her every night for 3 weeks out the month. If he does this then their libidos will prepare the way to augment activity. Women are made like this (for men) the amount of sex you give her, her body will prepare for it. May I ask your ages and how long do you usually copulate? At 30 she needs 1 hr. At 40 she needs 2 hours and at 50 she needs 3 hours a day 3 weeks of the month. It will prevent cancer that comes as a result of the time not being spent.
Yohimbe bark is great stuff : The bark has been used traditionally as an aphrodisiac and to enhance sexual performance. Yohimbe is promoted for erectile dysfunction, athletic performance, weight loss, angina (chest pain caused by not enough blood flow to the heart), high blood pressure, diabetic neuropathy, and more
Me and my gf are almost together for a year and the sex was great but recently she does not wanna do it anymore and everytime I talk to her about it turns into a fight
ain't also trazodone one that may help? essentially serotonin 1a agonists/partial agonists help, bupropion is a weaker version of amphetamine and they both help with either men or women.
@@mr3pointshooter1 This is very straight forward. Add several tighter rubber bands to completely restrict blood flow. In a week your penis should then shrivel (more), then fall off.
@@mr3pointshooter1 Hi Keith 👋 I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….
My mate was having erectile issues and couldnt find a cock ring available abroad where we live to trap the blood,he tried a rubber band awkward; he tried a shoelace awkward; and he tried cutting off the top of a condom to use the lower end best of those options BUT HE has issues that doesnt solve.. The one troubling him most lately is lack of sensation..it is breaking his heart. Sexual pleasure is very important to him and always has been. We have had a wonderful 41 yr relationship THAT way and every other way. He turned 80 yesturday. His issues began at 70 and medicines worked for him a long time. Lately he has beem taking a maintenance low dose of Cialis daily plus Viagra on Sunday when we plan for intercourse. Most often it does work, but there are times it doesnt. I have a higher sex drive than him now due to my thyroid meds, so he kindly plays with me on Wednesdays for an hour or more. He enjoys pleasuring me. My orgasms are much more robust and longer in rolling waves now due to my meds and Estrogen Replacement cream...we have a good time no matter what, an accepting and tolerant attitude is of paramount impotance for us. Sometimes he is so numb he has no idea of the state he is in soft or semi hard...sad that, but we do what we can. Neither of us is ready to give up. Someday hopefully there will be good treatment for ED, one that really works. Perhaps too late for us, but we are going to enjoy what we can, while we can. Both of us have conscientious personalities and are good problem solvers in general, so we will do what is possible about THIS too. We love each other and have great compersion for each other. Wishing YOU all the best. Sybil Francis PhD clinical psychologist /professor (ret)
Hi Dr. Malik great vid, recently an mri of my prostate (stage 1 malignancy) showed i had urethral stricture which is basically scar tissue from catheters and instruments ive had inseterted in my penis. Now im having crazy ED issues and i am infertile. Even tho im 66 i still like to think im a man. Does this condition effect my libido also? Getting answers from my urologist is like pulling teeth. Pls any info would be so appreciated, thanx, stay safe, stay strong, Eddy
Try Gainswave. It removes the plaque that fills up the veins in the perineal area restoring flow. Get a quote for 18 treatments. It works. I'm 73 and when I was 68, even Viagra wouldn't help.
Hey Dr. Rena Malik i have an enquiry. Please help me out. Is there any relation with the memory loss and sex/musterbation? Please kindly make a video on this issue
My wife never had a libido.She does do sex or intimacy or love.All she desires is food,sleep and her precious phone that she seemingly can't live without.
Look this is a solveable problem for one or both you, separately or perhaps together. As a woman who had a good sex life with my first husband at 17 to 24, then I had a terrible sex life with my second husband ages 25 to 32 when he died and finally an astoundingly wonderful sex life with my third mate of 41 yrs.... even NOW at 80 and my age of 75. I KNOW what I am talking about. Consider me your knowledgeable and wise grandmother. I am also.a clInical psychologist and retired professor, A PROFESSIONAL, I KNOW about and have taught about sexual function. I DONT know YOU or your wife. But something is amiss. If you are a very traditional religious person or SHE is, it is possibly PARTLY that. Many highly religious people interpret religious rules very strictly and it can be very inhibiting to sexual desire and response for THEM. Any religion...Christianity, Islam, whatever. That you must think about first. Second cultural expectations and attidudes affect sexual attitudes and abilities to enjoy sex openly and freely in relationships. Then there are individual differences in expectations, desires, lovelmaking skills, openness to being creative in sex, frequency and depth of sexual desire etc. Those may be resolvable issues or maybe they are not. As a woman who has experienced all qualities of a sex life from near zero interest. to moderate to a great interest and satisfaction with my sex life, I just say to you it may be TOLERABLE to settle for little or nothing. That is for you each to decide. If you YEARN for more know that it is possible...that there are women who also yearn for more than they have. I f you are not as skilled as you COULD be in pleasing a woman this is a learnable skill. iF she is not as skilled as she could be same for her. If sex is VERY pleasureable it is a rewarded behavior and occurs regularly ...desire to satisfaction and closeness physcially and emotionally is a loop that turns us again to desire to pleasure another and to be pleasured in return...It is a never ending feedback loop and when the quality experienced is wonderful, it is the one of the greatest pleasures and joys life has to offer...like beautiful experiences in general, or very delicious nourishing food or the perfect outdoor temperature for our bodies to enjoy the freedom of the outdoors...all the basic physiological pleasures of life CAN be yours for MANY people. If you sit down and give up or accept a less than a joyous life well you will be stuck in that state. That is what will happen. You have to work for it, reach for it , to not settle for a few grains of sand in this life. BUT the choice is yours. The action must be yours..only YOU and or HER can make life better. I f she refuses to try or open up to discuss these matters with you,then YOU have to choose..no one can choose for you. But in the end of your life you will he able to say at least I opened my eyes examined the options, and chose. THAT is better than never having the courage to THINK about these things. Wishing you what is best for YOU. But I hear yearning in what you say, otherwise you would not be here. Otherwise you would have made no comment at all, you would be 100% accepting of your fate and you seem to me to be searching. ....Sybil Francis PhD clincial psychologist/professor (ret)
what if anyone hold there ejaculation for 3 or 4 days after a shorter shorter periods of masturbations. what's the consequences are we going to face when that happen.. please answer this
@@brunosusnjara271 Malik is a Pakistani surname, that's a muslim country if I'm not mistaken. That's what he's talking about. In regard to the part about the US being a great country, well... 😂
I would love it if you gave a break down of the supplement Steel Libido Red. I’ve used it for a few years and it is CRAZY how good the erections are. I know it’s not just the citrulline because I’ve tried that alone and it’s not even close. Please please please
No Chemical medicine needed,I did have premature ejaculation earlier but now I can stay 15-45 mins depending how long my partner and I wants,thanks dr udoka on TH-cam
Video is good and informative. But one key information is conspicuously absent. Even after addressing all the issues like fatigue, depression, relationship factors, aging and menopause etc....Let us assume, all desire inhibitors of a woman are addressed successfully ....even after that , an average woman, who is otherwise physiologically ok, can have zero desire for sex. This is normal. Because the women's testosterone level is around 100 times slower than mens average testosterone level. A woman, who is otherwise normal, with zero desire has to be left alone gracefully without subjecting her to any treatment.
And yet they won't put out for the rich ones long term either...beyond the minimum required to get their claws into the guy's bank accounts-- then they'll freeze up like an ice cube until they manage to find a despotic narcissist/sociopath or a serial killer to hook up with.
Are you suffering from? Erectile dysfunction Premature ejaculation Weak and low libido I advice you reach out to dr udoka on TH-cam and get a total cure with his herbs🌿
Not at all ; I mean sometimes yes but, me and my ex-girlfriend used to go to therapy only to learn that a doctor was necessary due to cancer. Relationship wasnt done at all
@@miserablepileofsecrets Cancer? Are you saying that the sex drive was due to someone having cancer? That's not something you need therapy for unless you're talking about the aftermath. And even then why would you go for sexual therapy in that situation?
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 No actually e went to sex therapy to talk about our problems but we still love each other. Thats the point Im making is that we had sexual problems but we still loved each other and therapy was for both of us. And then cancer followed.
What libido meds u recommend for women whose had a hysterectomy? My wifes libido has been affected by this surgery and difficulty in achieving orgasm. Thank u!🙏
Testosterone is a well known cure. Menopause causes low testosterone and it leads to a lack of energy, crappy hair and low libido. Bio identical testosterone can tackle all of this at once. We were not designed to become older than 50 so go nuts
Yep I have a feeling this is my issue, my Harmone dr never EVER tests DHEA under 40 I believe and I’m only 28, she had a weird feeling to test it and mine is the lowest she has ever seen ever and specially for my age it was none existent including my testosterone is extremely low and sex binding harmone too. Mind you I was SA as a child, teen and as an adult so that also plays a role but my poor sweet husband has been so patient and understanding but it’s hard on me to see him suffer and myself because it’s like Im attracted to him and love him but absolutely no libido to the point I could go my whole like without it so I’m praying dhea sr brings it up plus the testosterone to bring up my harmones and that it’ll help with it! Thank you for commenting this it gives me hope!!
Rena, I love your videos and am a relatively new subscriber. I am a PharmD/PA and teach physician assistant students clinical medicine, pharmacology, and pharmacotherapeutics. This videos is especially pertinent in many settings of patient care and should be watched by everyone in an intimate relationship! One critical comment is the avoidance of talking about the cost of the medications you mention. They are extremely cost-prohibitive (Addyi is around $500 USD per month and Vyleesi is about $735 USD per month (depending on frequency of use]). There is very little public discussion about medications for women who have sexual dysfunction. Most drug therapies are focused on male sexual dysfunction (no surprise). I'd love to hear your "real world" take on this subject. Thank you for all you do!
I found sending the kids to their grandparents house works well 🤣
Lol , nice
Every time I go on vacation, I get much more and better sex.
I can't send unborn children to my parents. Also, my parents probably know what I would be up to now thanks to your comment so that just isn't an option now.
Grandparents want to have sex too! LOL!
😂😂😂
I’m finding that my libido goes up and down. I exercise, I journal, I meditate to try and alleviate my stress (which I suspect is the culprit for my low libido) but it doesn’t help. Besides prescription medication are there any natural supplements that could possibly help?
Fantasize and watching porns may be
My wife is 100% against medication, 99% against therapy (we’ve tried), has almost 0 libido, and doesn’t want me to touch her about 98% of the time. I just want to feel wanted. And have good sex. Anytime I bring up the topic (which is rarely these days) it quickly turns sour and she usually gets angry. Guess I’m stuck with bad, infrequent, and one way sex for the rest of my life. Hope you’re all enjoying yourselves!
Sigh…pretty common and complete BS on her part. You can bet your ass if it was reversed she’d find what she needed/wanted. If she has zero interest and zero interest in trying to figure it out, then she should be fine with you getting what you need, and it is a need, from the outside.
Just 98% man you are lucky mine is at 100. But thats ok. I have set it up so when I die the kids and the dogs get everything . Then she can go suck d on the corner for beer money.
Im in the same boat, is feel ya
There must be a reason why she lost interest in you just like I did for my husband
With men our libido starts us off at age 20 with 5 minutes. The trick for men is the same, which is to be with the same woman. If so by 30 yrs old (his last maturity date which is 'emotional') he should be able to make love to a woman for an hour. By the time he reaches 40 yrs old it should have increased to 2 hours. This is all in preparation to get her to 3 hours at 50 in anticipation for menopause whereby they can hump morning noon and night without safeguards. So with each decade (if he is humpin' rite and not around) he gets one more hour, and one more inch. (when I discovered this mystery I was wondering how my balando got so (much) bigger! lmao)
This is what is missing in humanity but the only way it was meant to work to its highest called Infinity. (its in da buuk) There are three levels she is made to have and has been missing since time began. My Heavenly Father even gave ppl the chance to rediscover it during the enclosed pandam covet 19. And what happened? For any couple to find it they would see how their sex life puts everything around it. Instead of them putting the world first and their sex life on a sex diet. This and PMS, FFA, (free floating anxiety) GAD, ADHD (and others) are all countered by a balanced sex life. Otherwise shebabitchto minutemen who can't satisfy her!
Domestic abuse. (bad luck chicks - make you want to hit'em instead of hit it'!) All a man has to do is marry a woman he likes to be around and have sex with her every nite 3 weeks out the month. Watch the clock and whenever she is cumming, watch the clock and relax and grip you PC muscle. I weary to repose so... JRT don't listen to sexually frustrated females who do not know what the limit of their sexuality is either. It shows on their faces! You see it like when she comes to work and a female co-workers say, oh you happy. you must had sex this morning.
I had my doctor recommend Addyi and I went to the pharmacist and it was $1000 for a 28 day supply. Insurance doesn't cover it. What else is there that is cheaper? I'm pre-menopausal. Why is men's libido enhancement SO much more accessible. This is frustrating
You can get it online for $300 for 90 day supply.
Stress is the number one cause of low libido in women.
Ironic since there is a proven stress reliever
Right mine is so stressed out cause there is nothing on TV and she is out of doughnuts has gained 60 lbs in the last year and has to turn side ways to get through the door.
🤔 all this stress and no. 🍑
@@lesliegibbons6917 Are you being serious or just naturally funny?
No, birth control is number 1
The answer is so simple,
Low libido is caused by stress. We as humans have way too much on our plate. ESP parents & MORE SPECIFICALLY WOMEN. We have to work, take care of the kids, keep the house clean, remember everything. I think back to the days of when I actually had a strong desire for sex and that was only as a teenager. Once you go into the world and start having responsibilities, stress comes. And it’s too hard to focus when you have 1000 things running through your mind constantly.
We need to go back to simpler times. Life should be about fulfilling basic needs and enjoying our time here, not striving to be everything and do everything.
Until then, we’re basically doomed.
Yes because you already drop the towel in the ring. Show some effort. Plan. Love.
I KNOW this is my problem. I have so much trouble getting brain to focus for sex..like even during my brain is running through a list of things that need to be done...I also have a problem with disassociating, so I'm outside of my body a lot. My brain is 100% my problem.
This is a really cool channel. Don’t know how I got here. Not having a problem. But I’m enjoying the content and I appreciate the knowledge to keep healthy.
I need to reduce my libido as I’m still single 36 and a workaholic . No time to date 😔. Horrible feeling in the morning 😣
Addyi gave me horrible insomnia and scared me off of any treatment pills! Curious to learn more about the touching therapy
Love your posts Dr. MALIK 🙂
Also how need to look up how to tell my partner is not talking about anything deep or important… and only talking about sex… Makes me feel like that’s all he cares about in the relationship. In a way that doesn’t make him defensive…
Wife's libido was great for the first 15 years or so. Then there was cancer, in which she lost her uterus. Within a couple years, libido fell through the floor. We just lived with that for a few years until we discovered that smoking a little quality weed takes her libido to a whole new level. While the state of euphoria doesn't hang out that long, it takes a couple days for her libido to be back in the trash. That's been her sexual ticket ever since.
Hmmm
Life
well, in my professional opinion whenever a man marries a woman he should be prepared to have sex with her every night for 3 weeks out the month. If he does this then their libidos will prepare the way to augment activity. Women are made like this (for men) the amount of sex you give her, her body will prepare for it. May I ask your ages and how long do you usually copulate? At 30 she needs 1 hr. At 40 she needs 2 hours and at 50 she needs 3 hours a day 3 weeks of the month. It will prevent cancer that comes as a result of the time not being spent.
@@ddmound Professional what? For the record, we are both 48 and post cancer life has opened up that 4th week. 10 years cancer free now...11 next month
@@ddmound you are only a professional of delusions
@@ddmound you are absolutely FULL of it
My wifes thyroid was out of wack and she had 0 libido for 2 years. It went back to normal after she got on a regimen for her thyroid.
So bcz of thyroid people have low libido ? I have thyroid & really low libido & having relationship problems . Idk what to do
Maca powder is a natural remedy that helps also. put it in your oatmeal, smoothes and stuff.
Maca powder is what exactly?
@@vanessat.5799 Powered maca root.
The best way to have a libido is stay single! 🤣
Hahaha 😂
Thanks Dr Malik I need u for my health I'm a young man.
Mmm how young are you baby
Yohimbe bark is great stuff : The bark has been used traditionally as an aphrodisiac and to enhance sexual performance. Yohimbe is promoted for erectile dysfunction, athletic performance, weight loss, angina (chest pain caused by not enough blood flow to the heart), high blood pressure, diabetic neuropathy, and more
Where can good Yohimbe bark be found please?
Be careful of the dose because the side effects are tough.
I used to take it 20 years ago...really put lead in my pencil!
@@toddjohnson5176
You tried it before?
What are the side effects??
@@nosaosayande6308 online or drugstore. It’s over the counter
Dear Rena , your videos are much much knowledge able , kindly also Address the "Low sex drive in males"
Please elaborate the solutions or medications for males.
Anything for low libido in men?
Wait 🤣😂 antidepressant and anti anxiety? I was diagnosed so I took those and I didn’t noticed any changes of my libido.
Okay… I lost my libido due to depression and then taking ssris after. You clearly got lucky because it’s a very common side effect.
Thanks the world's best Queen doctor
Dear Dr. Malik my problem is that I have too much libido. What can I do? I'm a man btw.
Get a few girlfriends
Fast at least 2 times a week
What can be done for women with low libido who are postmenopausal?
Me and my gf are almost together for a year and the sex was great but recently she does not wanna do it anymore and everytime I talk to her about it turns into a fight
ain't also trazodone one that may help? essentially serotonin 1a agonists/partial agonists help, bupropion is a weaker version of amphetamine and they both help with either men or women.
Fascinating topic you chose to discuss.
Rena Your A Very Intelligent and Beautiful Lady
I am a 68 year old male. I tell people my sex drive drove off.
Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker.
Lemon Gin (aka panty-remover)? lol
@@Mr1Tanker Yessss !
Fax machine
What would be your advice to a guy that experiencing numbness down there from wrapping rubber band too tight around the shaft?
It’s been over 4yrs btw I’m worried
@@mr3pointshooter1 This is very straight forward. Add several tighter rubber bands to completely restrict blood flow. In a week your penis should then shrivel (more), then fall off.
@@mr3pointshooter1 Hi Keith 👋 I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this complement. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….
My mate was having erectile issues and couldnt find a cock ring available abroad where we live to trap the blood,he tried a rubber band awkward; he tried a shoelace awkward; and he tried cutting off the top of a condom to use the lower end best of those options BUT HE has issues that doesnt solve.. The one troubling him most lately is lack of sensation..it is breaking his heart.
Sexual pleasure is very important to him and always has been. We have had a wonderful 41 yr relationship THAT way and every other way.
He turned 80 yesturday. His issues began at 70 and medicines worked for him a long time. Lately he has beem taking a maintenance low dose of Cialis daily plus Viagra on Sunday when we plan for intercourse. Most often it does work, but there are times it doesnt. I have a higher sex drive than him now due to my thyroid meds, so he kindly plays with me on Wednesdays for an hour or more. He enjoys pleasuring me. My orgasms are much more robust and longer in rolling waves now due to my meds and Estrogen Replacement cream...we have a good time no matter what, an accepting and tolerant attitude is of paramount impotance for us. Sometimes he is so numb he has no idea of the state he is in soft or semi hard...sad that, but we do what we can. Neither of us is ready to give up. Someday hopefully there will be good treatment for ED, one that really works. Perhaps too late for us, but we are going to enjoy what we can, while we can.
Both of us have conscientious personalities and are good problem solvers in general, so we will do what is possible about THIS too. We love each other and have great compersion for each other.
Wishing YOU all the best.
Sybil Francis PhD clinical psychologist /professor (ret)
Very informative video
"Beautiful voice"
Hi Dr. Malik great vid, recently an mri of my prostate (stage 1 malignancy) showed i had urethral stricture which is basically scar tissue from catheters and instruments ive had inseterted in my penis. Now im having crazy ED issues and i am infertile. Even tho im 66 i still like to think im a man. Does this condition effect my libido also? Getting answers from my urologist is like pulling teeth. Pls any info would be so appreciated, thanx, stay safe, stay strong,
Eddy
Try Gainswave. It removes the plaque that fills up the veins in the perineal area restoring flow. Get a quote for 18 treatments. It works. I'm 73 and when I was 68, even Viagra wouldn't help.
Plz doc make on off label medicine
Pls give subtitles
Hey Dr. Rena Malik i have an enquiry. Please help me out.
Is there any relation with the memory loss and sex/musterbation?
Please kindly make a video on this issue
This is your 3rd time writing this question.
It’s stop it or you will go blind
Does taking estrogen pills helps?! (I’m 25 years, no kids)
Can you do a review of blue chew?
Do you recommend anything to boost sexy drive after having a baby?
1:23 asking neighbor or friends to help with kids, NOPE not in today's world
0:35 …..yeah, but very nearly 100% of their neglected husbands ARE BOTHERED BY IT!
Is it helpful to use the lidocaine and prilocaine mixture gel to apply on vulvar vestibule to reduce the pain during sex for women ?
My wife never had a libido.She does do sex or intimacy or love.All she desires is food,sleep and her precious phone that she seemingly can't live without.
That's your problem why did you marry have in the first place if she is a sexual
Look this is a solveable problem for one or both you, separately or perhaps together. As a woman who had a good sex life with my first husband at 17 to 24, then I had a terrible sex life with my second husband ages 25 to 32 when he died and finally an astoundingly wonderful sex life with my third mate of 41 yrs.... even NOW at 80 and my age of 75. I KNOW what I am talking about.
Consider me your knowledgeable and wise grandmother. I am also.a clInical psychologist and retired professor, A PROFESSIONAL, I KNOW about and have taught about sexual function.
I DONT know YOU or your wife. But something is amiss.
If you are a very traditional religious person or SHE is, it is possibly PARTLY that. Many highly religious people interpret religious rules very strictly and it can be very inhibiting to sexual desire and response for THEM. Any religion...Christianity, Islam, whatever. That you must think about first.
Second cultural expectations and attidudes affect sexual attitudes and abilities to enjoy sex openly and freely in relationships.
Then there are individual differences in expectations, desires, lovelmaking skills, openness to being creative in sex, frequency and depth of sexual desire etc. Those may be resolvable issues or maybe they are not.
As a woman who has experienced all qualities of a sex life from near zero interest. to moderate to a great interest and satisfaction with my sex life, I just say to you it may be TOLERABLE to settle for little or nothing. That is for you each to decide. If you YEARN for more know that it is possible...that there are women who also yearn for more than they have. I f you are not as skilled as you COULD be in pleasing a woman this is a learnable skill. iF she is not as skilled as she could be same for her. If sex is VERY pleasureable it is a rewarded behavior and occurs regularly ...desire to satisfaction and closeness physcially and emotionally is a loop that turns us again to desire to pleasure another and to be pleasured in return...It is a never ending feedback loop and when the quality experienced is wonderful, it is the one of the greatest pleasures and joys life has to offer...like beautiful experiences in general, or very delicious nourishing food or the perfect outdoor temperature for our bodies to enjoy the freedom of the outdoors...all the basic physiological pleasures of life CAN be yours for MANY people. If you sit down and give up or accept a less than a joyous life well you will be stuck in that state. That is what will happen. You have to work for it, reach for it , to not settle for a few grains of sand in this life. BUT the choice is yours. The action must be yours..only YOU and or HER can make life better. I f she refuses to try or open up to discuss these matters with you,then YOU have to choose..no one can choose for you. But in the end of your life you will he able to say at least I opened my eyes examined the options, and chose. THAT is better than never having the courage to THINK about these things.
Wishing you what is best for YOU. But I hear yearning in what you say, otherwise you would not be here. Otherwise you would have made no comment at all, you would be 100% accepting of your fate and you seem to me to be searching.
....Sybil Francis PhD clincial psychologist/professor (ret)
Was she on birth control? That could explain it
😂😂😂😂😂😂😢😮😢sorry
what if anyone hold there ejaculation for 3 or 4 days after a shorter shorter periods of masturbations. what's the consequences are we going to face when that happen.. please answer this
Doc is there a way to remove plaque from penile arteries (angioplasty ) Or it is better to take cialis?
my wife is 66 and I'm 69 been married 47 years and I can't get it up without drugs what can we do?
69ing
Eat raw garlic with honey on an empty stomach
Nahh even if I try I have no more sexual desire for my stupid husband I hope he leaves
Hi
No doctor can figure it out I’m 29 an have zero sec drive I’ve tried everything
What if I'm on the birth control pill?
are women always 'low libido'? because im not sure
First time witnessing Muslim woman being that open,America is indeed great country,God bless America 🤗
????what
@@brunosusnjara271 Malik is a Pakistani surname, that's a muslim country if I'm not mistaken. That's what he's talking about. In regard to the part about the US being a great country, well... 😂
She might not be Muslim tbh
@@andresduques2013 Malik is Arabic for "king", or " royal"
She's a surgeon, what did you expect?
is there a medicene to lower libido?
😂
I don't think I am going to have that problem
What about low libido for men
Best medication: Getting divorced and finding a good lover
any on in your black book is lucky!!! knows what to do and is good looking !!!
Please make a video on Vaginismus
I would love it if you gave a break down of the supplement Steel Libido Red. I’ve used it for a few years and it is CRAZY how good the erections are. I know it’s not just the citrulline because I’ve tried that alone and it’s not even close. Please please please
She doing her part as a woman to help the ladies get child support. Vasectomy will save you a fortune.
No Chemical medicine needed,I did have premature ejaculation earlier but now I can stay 15-45 mins depending how long my partner and I wants,thanks dr udoka on TH-cam
NO CLOSED CAPTIONS = TWO THUMBS DOWN!!! 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎 COME ON, IT'S 2022. TURN IT ON!!!
Nothing available for post menopausal women?
Always 🎯❤️
What if man low sex desire?
No use by any condition. You have knowledge. But not all women.
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DONT MISS SEX DONT NEED SEX AND DONT WANT IT.
Please make a video about thin vaginal tissue. My wife is not able to have ANY PENETRATION. Zero penetration in 7 years.
It's due to birth control
I wonder high bio available collagen and natural estrogen will help. It would build tissues and get it healthier. Protein would be important too.
I have never seen women with low libido...young or old.... 👍😉
You must not be married obviously. Or if so not for long.
Soon as you said fda approved, I got worried
Suberb ❤👄
Forget about flowers, chocolates or a nice dinner out. Buy her a new phone. You can thank me later.
Wear something sexy and watch a Kevin Costner movie
I see feet in tumbnail i think Girls feet is down lay right
Video is good and informative. But one key information is conspicuously absent. Even after addressing all the issues like fatigue, depression, relationship factors, aging and menopause etc....Let us assume, all desire inhibitors of a woman are addressed successfully ....even after that , an average woman, who is otherwise physiologically ok, can have zero desire for sex. This is normal. Because the women's testosterone level is around 100 times slower than mens average testosterone level. A woman, who is otherwise normal, with zero desire has to be left alone gracefully without subjecting her to any treatment.
Then said woman should have no qualms about her man getting what he absolutely needs from someone else.
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Oysters
Money is a non-pharma libido helper. Women don't find poor guys attractive.
And yet they won't put out for the rich ones long term either...beyond the minimum required to get their claws into the guy's bank accounts-- then they'll freeze up like an ice cube until they manage to find a despotic narcissist/sociopath or a serial killer to hook up with.
@@scootertooter6874 lol you seem to have solved the puzzle, i would have to agree
The best medicine for this issue is divorce.
Are you suffering from?
Erectile dysfunction
Premature ejaculation
Weak and low libido
I advice you reach out to dr udoka on TH-cam and get a total cure with his herbs🌿
There needs to be a video for men I don’t understand why it’s only for women
Honestly, if you have to see a therapist on how to be sexual with your partner, the relationship is basically over.
Not at all ; I mean sometimes yes but, me and my ex-girlfriend used to go to therapy only to learn that a doctor was necessary due to cancer. Relationship wasnt done at all
@@miserablepileofsecrets Cancer? Are you saying that the sex drive was due to someone having cancer? That's not something you need therapy for unless you're talking about the aftermath. And even then why would you go for sexual therapy in that situation?
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 She didnt know she had cancer at the time of therapy
@@miserablepileofsecrets But are you saying that the low sex drive was due to cancer?
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 No actually e went to sex therapy to talk about our problems but we still love each other. Thats the point Im making is that we had sexual problems but we still loved each other and therapy was for both of us. And then cancer followed.
Women just need to be traded in by the time they reach 40. Just my experience.
You’re onto something 🤔
Does cold affect women nipples
1- Don’t get married 2- If you do get married get a prenup.
Τώρα ετοιμάζομαι για Αθήνα να φτιαχτεί ο Μακης ο ίδιος τραβεστί να ξεχρεωσει!
Why do we need to have sex?
Really?
What libido meds u recommend for women whose had a hysterectomy? My wifes libido has been affected by this surgery and difficulty in achieving orgasm. Thank u!🙏
My wife started taking DHEA and her libido went through the roof! 25mg in the morning and in the evening. How about doing a video on this supplement?
How old is she?
Testosterone is a well known cure. Menopause causes low testosterone and it leads to a lack of energy, crappy hair and low libido. Bio identical testosterone can tackle all of this at once. We were not designed to become older than 50 so go nuts
What is DHEA?
Thanks for the tip! I'm going to try it.
Yep I have a feeling this is my issue, my Harmone dr never EVER tests DHEA under 40 I believe and I’m only 28, she had a weird feeling to test it and mine is the lowest she has ever seen ever and specially for my age it was none existent including my testosterone is extremely low and sex binding harmone too. Mind you I was SA as a child, teen and as an adult so that also plays a role but my poor sweet husband has been so patient and understanding but it’s hard on me to see him suffer and myself because it’s like Im attracted to him and love him but absolutely no libido to the point I could go my whole like without it so I’m praying dhea sr brings it up plus the testosterone to bring up my harmones and that it’ll help with it! Thank you for commenting this it gives me hope!!
Make sure your girl feels clean and fresh. Give her ALL the tools necessary to feel like a million bucks.
She'll do the rest. Trust me.
Rena, I love your videos and am a relatively new subscriber. I am a PharmD/PA and teach physician assistant students clinical medicine, pharmacology, and pharmacotherapeutics. This videos is especially pertinent in many settings of patient care and should be watched by everyone in an intimate relationship! One critical comment is the avoidance of talking about the cost of the medications you mention. They are extremely cost-prohibitive (Addyi is around $500 USD per month and Vyleesi is about $735 USD per month (depending on frequency of use]). There is very little public discussion about medications for women who have sexual dysfunction. Most drug therapies are focused on male sexual dysfunction (no surprise). I'd love to hear your "real world" take on this subject. Thank you for all you do!
I TRIED IT FOR 6 MONTHS AND
DOES NOT WORK!
They focus on male dysfunction because it effects mens performance in terms of genitalia. For women not as much.
Are there any non pharmaceutical remedies?
My wife’s libido is zero, very hard to live this way, menopause is killing us
I would love to learn more about the Buspar and Wellbutrin treatments. What dosages and if good results pre and post menopausal. Thanks
Hi can u get the topical testosterone for post menopausal women online ? , I live in uk and after 6 yrs single now dating I need help :)
Having a date night with the babysitter 👍👍
My 12-year-old daughter started puberty I wanted to help her Sexual health Her body What does helper What you're saying too
this What you're saying will be okay from my 12-year-old daughter
Great advice as always, you know your stuff
Good info, What kind of doc can prescribe these kind of meds? Can a general practitioner prescribe?
What is a libido?