I love how you not only analyzed Billie's personality in easy to understand language, but how you've also connected with your audience. wow. I look forward to future videos of yours, keep it up!
he explains it in a way where i can kinda understand Se people... this is a function i absolutely don't have, dont know, dont feel, and never understood about other people ahaha like "how can there be people like that?" is/was my existential question ahaha -infp
Only problem is, she was also very strongly implying that others should hurt on her behalf, and in the same way she herself experiences hurting. An "Unless you suffer for me, and in a way that IIIII can validate, you're not my friend" kind of deal. Quite off-putting honestly, but yeah, at least she seems to practice what she preaches (ie expects of others).
@@ShaSha-zq3my "I want people to hurt because they miss me" That's a sentence you say when you expect people to hurt on your behalf. I'm sorry, it's right there written in the pudding. And let me be clear, why not. Though I find it pretty absurd to even ask yourself such a question and not stop at "wait, why would they hurt anyways? They are living their life, I am not that important, and I should be happy they feel great". And how can one say stuff like "how do people not miss me" and not die of shame on the spot because of how freaking entitled that sounds xD
2:27 yeah as an XNFP can confirm, couldn't care less about groups, it's always about the individual and what they're experiencing and trying to help them.
I don't know if someone has mentioned it already but I love how you coined cognitive functions as "personality superpowers." It's very reassuring and comforting tbh. 🥺
Even as a INFP, I was literally crying about feeling so understood through the explanation of introverted feeling through Billie. Another great in-depth vid Eric! ✨👏✨
I am an INFP and am struggling and trying to understand better this feeling of not being understood, so this video made me quite emotional and gave me a lot to think about. Thanks, Eric
@@emmasofia4601 you mean mbti? and i personally think it is because of our own. Personal personalities are what makes us well us and what make us individuals
I'm an INFP and I'm having a pretty bad day. I literally broke down into tears when you say "you might not be as alone or unseen as you feel. Even though it might not feel like it, there are quality people out there that do care, that do see you, that can appreciate and accept you." Thanks for making my day a little better, Eric. I'm writing that quote down on my journal. :')
I will like him to try vivziepop Theres not much known about her compared to other artist Making it a harder yet more interesting to figure her personality out She provably infp
I cried dude. I relate to her SO much. She makes me feel less alone. Even though that might sound lame. I don’t care. She literally is able to make me smile and feel happy at any time❤️
Could you analyze the personality of AURORA, she´s known to be a hallmark INFP because of her individuality like Billie but it would be interesting to hear your view. Billie Eilish has talked about her in interviews as an inspiration. There's tons of high quality interviews with her.
@@NoOne-wt6om Yeah she could be, but in that case she has strong Ni. The reason I see her as an Ne user is becase of how she always gives unexpected answers in interviews that aren't very Se like to me, and she expresses her self in a very detached way. Maybe she's an ISFP jumper.
Hello guys, personally I see Aurora as a main Fe user, I know the internet is all about Aurora being the INFP fairy queen lol Maybe I'm wrong though, so that makes me excited for this video too lol
i've never heard the exact way i feel in words. i teared up watching this because i've really been struggling will feeling misunderstood and not fully appreciated by the people around me and it's caused me to disconnect from some of my closest friends. thank you for putting my feelings into words in this video and making me understand myself more💗
No actually and this comment just had me tear up even more bc I feel like I’m not alone I hid the way I truly was to fit in or make friends but I still felt empty it became a useless act. As I got older i chose to be my fully authentic self now I have a great friend group that makes me feel loved and seen I don’t deserve them AT ALL but I’m so grateful for them. I know it’s hard right now and gets draining but if you be yourself you’ll attract people who understand you and take away that numb/empty feeling love I promise so hang on.
@@lovelylayla2803 thank you so much for this comment though aksjks. i'm holding out knowing one day i will find someone who actually gets me because i'm ✍️manifesting it✍️. there's so many more people at college and i'll be around people who are into the same stuff as me so hopefully i can create connections where i'm not suspicious of everyone😻 anyways i love u
same here, I can’t talk and express myself very well. when i’m angry, sad, annoyed, i went quiet or else i would explode, either say something bad, raise my voice or cry my ass off and i hate that sm. still working on that tho
I'm INFJ. I love LOVE her so much. I wish I could be like her in many ways. She voices what I often think inwardly but am afraid to say openly like she does.
Such a great explanation of Fi! Some people might misunderstand fi for being completely focused on yourself, but it's a function that comes with so much empathy for others and a deep understanding of other's feelings
I knew it! I had a feeling she was an ISFP! I'm INFP. As a fellow introverted feeler, I can relate a lot to Billie with all her "feel" and "feeling" talk. :) Love Billie!!
Lmao as an ISFP I literally cried during the whole video because I could relate so much to Billie's struggles, feelings of loneliness and being misunderstood, feeling that the people you love don't really see your worth or you as you are. Most of the time I tend to come to even believe it's the truth and it's because there's something essentially wrong with me, that people like me less because I'm deeply flawed, less interesting. Then I saw this video, and it made me realize it's all probably just a psychological construct created by my brain. And by the way, even if it's not, well frick them people. That was very interesting to hear you describe dominant Fi so well and its dynamics with the external world. Also... Could you stop making me cry by telling the truth? This is getting rude. 😂 Just joking, great video, as always.
Uhh I can’t relate even more!!! I always feel a sense of deep care for others and then I look into the care others have for me, and it feels so nonexistent. I’m so lonely, I don’t feel understood, and I get into an argument with myself saying: what did you do wrong for them to dislike you soo much? Am I that uninteresting, or annoying, are they judging me? Your comment is so enlightening. Reading, it’s probably just a “psychological construct” - honestly, I prob am reading into my emotions and the thoughts of others too much. That thought actually does help buff my feelings
Yeah, so, I also have this doubt, when does your Fi personally actually turns to be your mental illness, and not just your personality? Also, is everyone with BPD automatically an Fi? Any psychologists out there pls clarify
@@mariaeugenia578 I don't have BPD though, lol. To be fair, I do have some mental health issues, but not that, mainly lack of self-esteem, inability to trust my own abilities and to trust others (hello enneagram 6), and defense mechanisms of dissociation from reality; all of that being due to a bad and quite traumatic childhood. But it's not the case for all Fi dominants or users. Are you an Fi user yourself?
ISFP here! Eric you got me, we were both crying at the end! I was asking myself if you were going to give us any advice, and what you said was so beautiful and true; zoom out and appreciate that it's ok to not be 100% understood but appreciate the people in your life. It's not even funny, I've struggled with those intense feelings for my whole life and they're currently trying to sabotage my relationship (why doesn't he understand me or want what I want? ) Yet I don't take the time to explain I just ruminate in my feelings! It's easy to articulate that it's a problem but hard to fix when we seem to be wired that way, but it was very refreshing to hear that truthful and sympathetic view of ISFPs, almost theraputic. Thank you Eric!
I cried when you were covering the time where she was overwhelmed, it got me emotional too :,) your channel is soooo underrated! deserves so much more attention
as an ENFP, the Fi analysis made me so emotional. it's like one of those moments when you think "god, this is *EXACTLY* how i feel. i didn't know someone could feel this *exact* emotion in this *exact* way. has everyone been feeling like this all along?" and just by realizing this, i felt a whole other emotion like opening my eyes to bright light for a split second
I have been waiting for This for só long.. I think I'm an ISFP as well For a Ti user you understand Fi sooo well 🙏🙏 And you weren't agressive, or understimating of our feelings, you were everything we could ask for, accepting and loving ♥️ Thank you só much, it feels só good to be seen
I deeply relate to this . It’s almost like you know what you’re feeling and the feelings are so strong and deep rooted you almost don’t feel like opening up to anyone , even your loved ones because you know no one will ever fully understand you and your feelings . I’m an infp. Similar to billy in many ways . Love her 💗
I never comment on other youtuber’s videos but I just love your channel so much! Your analysis of the Fi function in Billie Eilish was spot on! Keep doing what you’re doing, Eric!!
I thought this was gonna be a fun lil video then I ended up crying from you talking about how Fi doms can feel misunderstood but that we can still find our people... thanks for that, I needed to hear it :D - a lonely INFP teen
i'm an INFP-T and i LOVE Billie Eilish haha. this was really cool to see. i love that u used the documentary for this, because it shows many intimate moments that you wouldn't see in an interview.
Would love a video on why INTJ's and ENFP's are so good together. Every relationship I've ever looked at and thought "I want that kind of relationship" they have been INTJ+ENFP.
@@talkshh @Efua There's plenty of fictional examples but I think that looking at fictional examples is iffy and unreliable. In terms of real-life examples, other than the people I personally know, there's LiJo and her boyfriend, My ENFP-ness and his girlfriend, the woman who started the dating app Birdy has interviewed a few ENFP+INTJ couples, and there are more examples but I can't think off the top of my head right now
@@MiaRose02 i mean the intp i know is a heartless data monster lol, but he is an immature intp, I know not all intps are like this, althoughig intps are still less likely to get emotional than say, an infp who would get emotional much easier... (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
@@kssgpv I don’t feel comfortable with my emotions, but I wouldn’t call myself cold. I struggle to understand my own and other people’s emotions, but I really care how other people feel.
@@blame7513 knowing plenty of isfj’s no he’s definitely not, the man is born to entertain, but i’m interested to see it put down in this kind of video format
Woooow this was so Emotional and inspiring. I'm an Fi and i completely relate ♥️😭 Thank you so much for this video and every other video Eric! I love how you invest yourself into these videos and explain everything so clearly and beautifully. Thank you
i literally cried during this video im a strong introverted feeler and this video really made me feel like I was understood even for just a little bit thank you so much
I always thought me and Billie were different (me very feminine and her a tomboy) but similar at the same time, now I know why we’re similar, the lyrics, the emotions always all over the place, the darkness, too much feelings pouring out of our hearts and the feeling of being to sensitive for this world. This really made me connect with her a lot and with every other INFP. We’re not so alone after all.
As an INFP I relate to her a lot. I feel like Fi is misunderstood sometimes, with people thinking it's selfish etc. But this made me appreciate my Fi. I think ISFP's are cool and I wish I knew more of them. I think we'd vibe
Before getting into the video, I feel she is an INFP. She's very empathetic and she's also very much aware of her own feeling. She's sucha generous person and I relate to her bc I'm also an INFP Edit: okay she's ISFP. A little different in some things. I love her sm 💚🥑
Waiting for the premiere, I am guessing she is an ISFP, but I could be wrong. Love your work and I would appreciate it if you analysed Ben Barnes or Aurora!)
10:27 For some reason that specific moment just hit me hard... It made me emotional and teary eyed, but i know it has something to do with the vibe and music as well 11:07 I can relate to feeling sad & lonely. I've always found it hard to express myself more often than not, which is one reason why writing lyrics sometimes helps me. Not completely though. Completely to me would mean having it recorded. 12:15 Is so incredibly wholesome. She really is just all about her music and surroundings. Letting it soak in.
I felt disconnected when I was younger. It's not too bad now. Thinking back on those experiences and feelings, I feel like I lost so much time in my own inner world that I wasn't really connecting with others. It's still hard for me to truly focus in the moment sometimes but I just start to think about how that would make the other person feel. When I talk I would want someone to hear me back, so I try to do the same.
I've felt that isolation and loneliness. It was something I had to learn how to deal with. Other people can help you, but in the end, you have to rely on your own strength to push on even if you aren't getting the support you want and need from your loved ones.
Man. I saw the comments on IG and just had to get here. I thought I wouldn't get teary-eyed. Yet, here we are. I've never wanted to admit my Fi even after you rightly figured I was INFP. But each time I hear how relevant that is to me, it hurts. The strong desire to be understood, yet knowing I know myself too well to ever be fully understood. Only yesterday, I sent a piece of my writing to a friend and he said my ability to self-reflect is my greatest asset. That's why I started writing. But when it gets too dark to write, those feelings return and it's even harder to express them to anyone because there's the bias that they'll never really get it. What's the point? Thanks for the encouragement man. Your videos are giving me both knowledge and hope on how to leverage my true nature to improve my life.
Intraverted feelers are very often described as being to look cold and/or distand because of the depth of their Fi but Eilish doesn't have problem with expressing her feelings, any thought on why that happens? Also, great video, but I think you could have also talked about the Fi-Te and Se-Ni axis as a whole
Why am I crying right now? I relate too much🥲 Btw if you see this, I would really love to see you react to BTS and analyze the members' personalities, I enjoy your videos so much I love the way you explain the functions 💕
Based on what they've said/published so far about their MBTI-types: RM: ENFP Jin: INTP Suga: INFP/INTP j-hope: ESFJ Jimin: ENFJ V: ENFP Jungkook: ISFP (I've seen people aggressively argue about Suga's personality type - some say he's INTJ or INFJ - I would say he's definitely an INxx type but I'm also pretty sure that we're mainly seeing a chronically depressed (and often sleep deprived) version of his personality which makes him seem "lazy" or "cold" to some people (the "savage suga" stereotype also stems from his old "I don't give a f***"-persona while in reality he cares a lot about other people) - so I think an analysis of his personality would be really interesting to see.)
@@nehalilisays yes that's why I'm very curious to see what Eric has to say about them, also I see Te in Yoongi and I'm pretty convinced that Namjoon is probably an INFJ with that adorable Se inferior of his...I'm no expert, so I could be wrong
Fellow ISFP here has to say, that you did a good Job with identifing one of us, especialy with the severie lack of examples of, how she interact with Cats. That would have been a extra Big sciencetific argument, for or aginst her ISFP-being.
this is exactly how I am and this is why I connect with her on so many levels & thanks for making it clear for so many ppl out there so they can understand us
Love how you explain the cognitive functions, but don't over explain for those who already know all about them. Another thing I have noticed about ISFPs is their aesthetic. They are almost always very fashionable in their own unique way. Billie being a prime example.
Yup! Not always enough to bet their whole type on but definitely an amazing clue :) Thanks for noticing about the balance with explaining! It’s very tricky to find the correct amount or way to explain that’s accessible but not overdone!
When I first discovered billie eilish I instantly felt so drawn to her like she was the first person who understood me and I could relate to so so much for the first time and now I see we have the same personality 😭🩷
This video made me cry and I checked the comments and apparently I'm not alone we are all crying over here hehe💗🥺 I wasn't even sure why but maybe I can relate to what's being said, I also feel lonely misunderstood and like no one misses me, especially during the pandemic because I lost a lot of friends and I don't get along with my family so it's just a whole lot of loneliness. Making coffee the night before so I can wake up to it and be able to get out of my bed. I don't think my personality is quite the same as Billies but I can just relate to how she feels.😞💗🍓‼
Oh my gosh I related to this so much as an Fi dom. Gotta love my ISFP cousins. I constantly wonder why people can't just feel things and be more in touch with them. When people tell me they are having trouble knowing how/what they are feeling, that is quite confusing I admit. But I try to be patient knowing they are using different cognitive functions than me. What you say is true though. Eventually the RIGHT people WILL connect with/find you, or you them, value you for who you are, not invalidate or dismiss your feelings just because the tribe may not always get it or value it, they will be there for you and make you feel loved and excepted. It took me forever to find this small, yet invaluable group of people, and I had to go through a lot of emotional hell to get here, but I'm SO thankful to finally say that this is the most emotionally healthy I have ever been in my entire adult life. It's been a long road. Love your channel, Eric. Keep up the great work!
Wow that was amazing to read. I had to go thru a lot of emotional hell to find better quality close friends too that helped me actually feel seen and cared for instead of just floating anonymously alongside them. I know exactly what you mean. I think it’s crazy how Fi’s know exactly how everything makes them feel. I remember looking at my ENFP friend and going - “everything?...why?” So crazy for me to imagine. I do relate in the sense that I’m always checking the reasoning of every little thing with my Ti...but still haha doing that with my feelings! I can’t imagine!
I'm already aware I'm not as outgoing as Billie Eilish (I always test as an INTJ), but every explanation of the cognitive functions felt super relatable to me, and then I realized it's the same functions as INTJ's have but in another order. There were so many relatable things like how she dresses, how she wants to be seen as an individual because that's how she sees people, how she got overwhelmed and needed a nudge to see the bigger picture, and how she expresses herself as she wants to and not how she should. Does this make sense for me to relate to? Could ISFP and INTJ be kinda closely related because of the same functions? I've always had so much respect for Billie because she seems so aware and in tune with herself, maybe now I know why.
FUN FACT: Bille started her carrear with Aurora. Aurora is the reason why we are seeing billie right now. And she is an amazing artist l hope you'll look at her talent. (edit: its not the reason its a little spark actualy)
As an infp and a HUGE billie stan I relate to her so much so yes I agree with the comments saying she’s an infp bc I myself look at my experiences and even if I don’t relate I would be like “if I was this person“ and empathize with them.She’s denfintaly one of us ^^!
I'm glad I found this channel, you're explaining everything so clearly and I felt like I totally could relate to a lot, because of Fi dominance as an INFP. Thank you so much!
Your channel is so visionary 😍 Excellent and not to overdone explanations. I’m in admiration with your analysis... Such a meticulous work! 👌👏😍 Much support from Berlin
This was a great video. I almost teared up to! When you realize the context of the situation in regard to her personality it makes everything that much more powerful.
I haven't really watched any TH-cam in a few months... and then I come back and see you're at 27k subscribers! Yesssss Eric! Soooo happy that your awesome work is getting seen and your channel is growing so quickly because you 100% deserve it! Now I guess it's time to go binge on all the videos I missed... :D
I like your videos a lot! one small thing i'd advise is to talk about the differences between dominant and auxiliary functions, eg the differences between IxFP and ExFP
thank you for making these videos !! the night i discovered your channel i binge watched all of what you had at the time and jeez im so excited for more personality analyses. sending you much luck in what u do :D
Another INFP who feels somewhat seen by this video and explanation of introverted feeling. I thought I was completely alone with feeling such a very specific, convoluted way but i can see from there comments that it just comes with the infp territory. Thanks!!
From mbti tests to tumblr blogs... and it was you who's been able to explain each function this well honestly! Here we go again down this rabbit hole to understand the human psyche... and perhaps pick up another existential crisis along the path hehe
Great video! You always explain the functions really clear and concise and I feel like I always get a better grasp of the functions from each of your videos! Thank you for this, Eric! Btw what do you think about analyzing fictional characters sometime? I'm really interested on what you'll find for Zuko from Avatar: The Last Airbender. There's a big debate going around whether he's ISFP or INFP, and even ISTJ! It's confusing to say the least 😅
I love how you not only analyzed Billie's personality in easy to understand language, but how you've also connected with your audience. wow. I look forward to future videos of yours, keep it up!
🌸 thanks arisu
Wow this made me cry. As INFP it's really hard when you don't find the people who feel as you do
Same
Hugs! 🌸
I cried too
I'm an INFP too and I also cried..
Lol. I was just about to ask if this made anyone else cry too
You explained Se so clearly.
Exactly! When he compared it to being like in another country and being hyper aware of your surroundings...the idea of it clicked for me.
he explains it in a way where i can kinda understand Se people... this is a function i absolutely don't have, dont know, dont feel, and never understood about other people ahaha like "how can there be people like that?" is/was my existential question ahaha
-infp
"So? Let it hurt." Big Fi energy. Why wouldn't you let yourself feel all the feels, good or bad? I relate so hard as an INFP.
Only problem is, she was also very strongly implying that others should hurt on her behalf, and in the same way she herself experiences hurting. An "Unless you suffer for me, and in a way that IIIII can validate, you're not my friend" kind of deal. Quite off-putting honestly, but yeah, at least she seems to practice what she preaches (ie expects of others).
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"I want people to hurt because they miss me"
That's a sentence you say when you expect people to hurt on your behalf. I'm sorry, it's right there written in the pudding.
And let me be clear, why not. Though I find it pretty absurd to even ask yourself such a question and not stop at "wait, why would they hurt anyways? They are living their life, I am not that important, and I should be happy they feel great".
And how can one say stuff like "how do people not miss me" and not die of shame on the spot because of how freaking entitled that sounds xD
2:27 yeah as an XNFP can confirm, couldn't care less about groups, it's always about the individual and what they're experiencing and trying to help them.
Saaaame! As an ENFP, I rarely think about people as a group :D
@@enchantedlakes-2150 I KNOWW
Also same as an IXFP (mainly types as S!)
It’s so funny explaining this to Fe’s haha they get so confused. These little differences in perspective really affect things a lot!
@@EricWen Agreed! It's especially difficult in an Fe-heavy work environment, I know all about that... lol
Oh my-Your Fi analysis made tears keep rolling down my face.
Awwwwwww
Same here! TT-TT
Im not an Fi user but I feel sad as well! Why?
I did tooo
same :/
It would be so cool if the celebrities you’ve analyzed reacted to these videos lol
Someday I’m sure that’ll happen haha :)
OMG YES
@@EricWen i doubt, they don't really want to talk about types n all in my opinion
I don't know if someone has mentioned it already but I love how you coined cognitive functions as "personality superpowers." It's very reassuring and comforting tbh. 🥺
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yes yes yes!!!!
he has surprisingly good fe for an intp tbh
Even as a INFP, I was literally crying about feeling so understood through the explanation of introverted feeling through Billie. Another great in-depth vid Eric! ✨👏✨
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I am an INFP and am struggling and trying to understand better this feeling of not being understood, so this video made me quite emotional and gave me a lot to think about. Thanks, Eric
I’m an INFP and I that literally the same for me
The MBPT is complete bullshit tho.... personality types do not exist. It's pseudosciense
@@emmasofia4601 you mean mbti? and i personally think it is because of our own. Personal personalities are what makes us well us and what make us individuals
@@madai4440 You thinks it’s fake or real? Bc yeah, we’re all individuals and therefore can’t be grouped into ”types” of personalities
Sameee
I'm an INFP and I'm having a pretty bad day. I literally broke down into tears when you say "you might not be as alone or unseen as you feel. Even though it might not feel like it, there are quality people out there that do care, that do see you, that can appreciate and accept you." Thanks for making my day a little better, Eric. I'm writing that quote down on my journal. :')
🥺🌸 internet hugs to you Monica! I’m so happy this video could help today be a little better for you 💙 you got this!
@@EricWen definitely💪🏻 keep creating amazing contents and inspiring people!💙
can you do:
- Harry Styles
- Eddie Redmayne
- Aurora
also, i love your videos like they are sooo informative!!
AURORA VOUCH VOUCHHHHH, she's one of my favorite artists :'))
Ooh yes! I’ve always had a feeling Aurora is an infp
@@rainey7044 ME TOO
@@rainey7044 I feel like Aurora is ISFP. Fi dom yes but I see more valued Se than Si also I think she has more emphasized Ni than Ne.
I will like him to try vivziepop
Theres not much known about her compared to other artist
Making it a harder yet more interesting to figure her personality out
She provably infp
I cried dude. I relate to her SO much. She makes me feel less alone. Even though that might sound lame. I don’t care. She literally is able to make me smile and feel happy at any time❤️
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Could you analyze the personality of AURORA, she´s known to be a hallmark INFP because of her individuality like Billie but it would be interesting to hear your view. Billie Eilish has talked about her in interviews as an inspiration. There's tons of high quality interviews with her.
I feel like Aurora is ISFP, too.
@@NoOne-wt6om Yeah she could be, but in that case she has strong Ni. The reason I see her as an Ne user is becase of how she always gives unexpected answers in interviews that aren't very Se like to me, and she expresses her self in a very detached way. Maybe she's an ISFP jumper.
@@davidwillebrand1000 She is Fi-Ni.
Hello guys, personally I see Aurora as a main Fe user, I know the internet is all about Aurora being the INFP fairy queen lol
Maybe I'm wrong though, so that makes me excited for this video too lol
@@asrealkatsikaki6306 I feel like she is ISFP with good tert Ni. She is also a type 9 which may make her seem like Fe user. Do you think she is INFJ?
i've never heard the exact way i feel in words. i teared up watching this because i've really been struggling will feeling misunderstood and not fully appreciated by the people around me and it's caused me to disconnect from some of my closest friends. thank you for putting my feelings into words in this video and making me understand myself more💗
No actually and this comment just had me tear up even more bc I feel like I’m not alone I hid the way I truly was to fit in or make friends but I still felt empty it became a useless act. As I got older i chose to be my fully authentic self now I have a great friend group that makes me feel loved and seen I don’t deserve them AT ALL but I’m so grateful for them. I know it’s hard right now and gets draining but if you be yourself you’ll attract people who understand you and take away that numb/empty feeling love I promise so hang on.
@@sofiaengstrom1288 girl✋😳 i love u
@@lovelylayla2803 thank you so much for this comment though aksjks. i'm holding out knowing one day i will find someone who actually gets me because i'm ✍️manifesting it✍️. there's so many more people at college and i'll be around people who are into the same stuff as me so hopefully i can create connections where i'm not suspicious of everyone😻 anyways i love u
same here, I can’t talk and express myself very well. when i’m angry, sad, annoyed, i went quiet or else i would explode, either say something bad, raise my voice or cry my ass off and i hate that sm. still working on that tho
As a strong introverted feeler(infp) this one made me really emotional and also feel seen. Thank you
I had a dream you were analyzing disney princesses and now I have to tell you this just in case...
YES PLEASE
Belle is an INFP , Ariel is a ESFP
@@jays7259 actually ariel just did what she felt was right the whole time. I think she has very strong Fi
@@jays7259 INFP actually suits Belle, I've never thought about that
@@jays7259 Ariel is more debatable, I myself can't choose between ESFP and ENFP for her
I'm INFJ. I love LOVE her so much. I wish I could be like her in many ways. She voices what I often think inwardly but am afraid to say openly like she does.
I’m also a INFJ I know how you feel
Am also an INFJ, have only met 1 INFJ in person, the moment we met we just clicked and become close really quick. It's funny how that happens.
Such a great explanation of Fi! Some people might misunderstand fi for being completely focused on yourself, but it's a function that comes with so much empathy for others and a deep understanding of other's feelings
Fi is literally about caring about own self opinion only
@@NorinaBlake it's really not
I knew it! I had a feeling she was an ISFP! I'm INFP. As a fellow introverted feeler, I can relate a lot to Billie with all her "feel" and "feeling" talk. :) Love Billie!!
Lmao as an ISFP I literally cried during the whole video because I could relate so much to Billie's struggles, feelings of loneliness and being misunderstood, feeling that the people you love don't really see your worth or you as you are. Most of the time I tend to come to even believe it's the truth and it's because there's something essentially wrong with me, that people like me less because I'm deeply flawed, less interesting. Then I saw this video, and it made me realize it's all probably just a psychological construct created by my brain. And by the way, even if it's not, well frick them people. That was very interesting to hear you describe dominant Fi so well and its dynamics with the external world.
Also... Could you stop making me cry by telling the truth? This is getting rude. 😂 Just joking, great video, as always.
Hugs Aurore! 🥺 i see you! Thanks for sharing!
Uhh I can’t relate even more!!! I always feel a sense of deep care for others and then I look into the care others have for me, and it feels so nonexistent. I’m so lonely, I don’t feel understood, and I get into an argument with myself saying: what did you do wrong for them to dislike you soo much? Am I that uninteresting, or annoying, are they judging me?
Your comment is so enlightening. Reading, it’s probably just a “psychological construct” - honestly, I prob am reading into my emotions and the thoughts of others too much. That thought actually does help buff my feelings
I feel like I'm severely deformed that I have no place in society.
Yeah, so, I also have this doubt, when does your Fi personally actually turns to be your mental illness, and not just your personality? Also, is everyone with BPD automatically an Fi? Any psychologists out there pls clarify
@@mariaeugenia578 I don't have BPD though, lol. To be fair, I do have some mental health issues, but not that, mainly lack of self-esteem, inability to trust my own abilities and to trust others (hello enneagram 6), and defense mechanisms of dissociation from reality; all of that being due to a bad and quite traumatic childhood. But it's not the case for all Fi dominants or users. Are you an Fi user yourself?
ISFP here! Eric you got me, we were both crying at the end! I was asking myself if you were going to give us any advice, and what you said was so beautiful and true; zoom out and appreciate that it's ok to not be 100% understood but appreciate the people in your life. It's not even funny, I've struggled with those intense feelings for my whole life and they're currently trying to sabotage my relationship (why doesn't he understand me or want what I want? ) Yet I don't take the time to explain I just ruminate in my feelings! It's easy to articulate that it's a problem but hard to fix when we seem to be wired that way, but it was very refreshing to hear that truthful and sympathetic view of ISFPs, almost theraputic. Thank you Eric!
Thank you so much for sharing 🌹🌸 internet hugs!
I cried when you were covering the time where she was overwhelmed, it got me emotional too :,) your channel is soooo underrated! deserves so much more attention
as an ENFP, the Fi analysis made me so emotional.
it's like one of those moments when you think "god, this is *EXACTLY* how i feel. i didn't know someone could feel this *exact* emotion in this *exact* way. has everyone been feeling like this all along?"
and just by realizing this, i felt a whole other emotion
like opening my eyes to bright light for a split second
I have been waiting for This for só long.. I think I'm an ISFP as well
For a Ti user you understand Fi sooo well 🙏🙏
And you weren't agressive, or understimating of our feelings, you were everything we could ask for, accepting and loving ♥️ Thank you só much, it feels só good to be seen
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I deeply relate to this . It’s almost like you know what you’re feeling and the feelings are so strong and deep rooted you almost don’t feel like opening up to anyone , even your loved ones because you know no one will ever fully understand you and your feelings . I’m an infp. Similar to billy in many ways . Love her 💗
I never comment on other youtuber’s videos but I just love your channel so much! Your analysis of the Fi function in Billie Eilish was spot on! Keep doing what you’re doing, Eric!!
Thank you ☺️
This is exactly how I feel. Everything she said and you said. 🤣 oh just the first few mins of Fi lol
are you an ISFP? :)
@@dianana7371 I think he said he was an ENFP one time
But she is an ISTP
@@ninjapandathethird6241 Lol no
same, as an ENFP I was like holy shit if that isn’t me. All the Fi descriptions. not so much the Se ones tho
I thought this was gonna be a fun lil video then I ended up crying from you talking about how Fi doms can feel misunderstood but that we can still find our people... thanks for that, I needed to hear it :D - a lonely INFP teen
🌸🙏🏼 there are good people out there for you - it just takes some time!
Ive been saying she is ISFP for a long time now, she is so much like my baby sister. I feel so validated right now 🤩
i'm an INFP-T and i LOVE Billie Eilish haha. this was really cool to see. i love that u used the documentary for this, because it shows many intimate moments that you wouldn't see in an interview.
Would love a video on why INTJ's and ENFP's are so good together. Every relationship I've ever looked at and thought "I want that kind of relationship" they have been INTJ+ENFP.
are there any examples between celebrities or characters?
Fictional - Mr Darcy and Elizabeth Bennett from Pride and Prejudice?
That's something I never thought about actually - I'm not aware of any real life examples! Would be nice to see a real couple though!
@@chasingthesun90 ah right is darcy an intj? i always had doubts. there’s suga and v from bts but they’re friends lol
@@talkshh @Efua There's plenty of fictional examples but I think that looking at fictional examples is iffy and unreliable. In terms of real-life examples, other than the people I personally know, there's LiJo and her boyfriend, My ENFP-ness and his girlfriend, the woman who started the dating app Birdy has interviewed a few ENFP+INTJ couples, and there are more examples but I can't think off the top of my head right now
This was so interesting!!! Thank you so much for taking your time and providing us such good content!!!
You got it Kate! Thanks for being here 🌸🙏🏼
I loooove your channel, i appreciate the effort and the hard work you must put into these videos!
Thank you 😭🙏🏼
I love this so much, and I finally understand how Fi and Se work, thank you for the great video!
When an INTP gets emotional, u KNOW this was sad...
INTP’s are always emotional.
INTP's are emotional people who can be very in tune with their emotions. Not sure why everyone has this idea their heartless data monsters.
@@MiaRose02 i mean the intp i know is a heartless data monster lol, but he is an immature intp, I know not all intps are like this, althoughig intps are still less likely to get emotional than say, an infp who would get emotional much easier... (sorry for any spelling mistakes)
@@MiaRose02 because most of them don't feel comfortable with their feelings and they are cold people.
@@kssgpv I don’t feel comfortable with my emotions, but I wouldn’t call myself cold. I struggle to understand my own and other people’s emotions, but I really care how other people feel.
bestie PLS analyze harry styles’s personality
i think it’s pretty evident that he’s an enfj 🥺
@@blame7513 knowing plenty of isfj’s no he’s definitely not, the man is born to entertain, but i’m interested to see it put down in this kind of video format
Woooow this was so Emotional and inspiring. I'm an Fi and i completely relate ♥️😭 Thank you so much for this video and every other video Eric! I love how you invest yourself into these videos and explain everything so clearly and beautifully. Thank you
Thanks for noticing all the effort and heart I put into these :) I really appreciate that!
i literally cried during this video
im a strong introverted feeler and this video really made me feel like I was understood even for just a little bit
thank you so much
I always thought me and Billie were different (me very feminine and her a tomboy) but similar at the same time, now I know why we’re similar, the lyrics, the emotions always all over the place, the darkness, too much feelings pouring out of our hearts and the feeling of being to sensitive for this world. This really made me connect with her a lot and with every other INFP. We’re not so alone after all.
As an INFP I relate to her a lot. I feel like Fi is misunderstood sometimes, with people thinking it's selfish etc. But this made me appreciate my Fi. I think ISFP's are cool and I wish I knew more of them. I think we'd vibe
I like when you put the function’s progressing bars. It’s interesting because it helps to associate wich statement represents wich function.
I'm a ESTJ and I've Fi in fourth place, but I still cried with this video
Awww!! 🥺
Before getting into the video, I feel she is an INFP. She's very empathetic and she's also very much aware of her own feeling. She's sucha generous person and I relate to her bc I'm also an INFP
Edit: okay she's ISFP. A little different in some things. I love her sm 💚🥑
Se is super obvious in billie
This video made me cry, as an INFP. Thank you so much, Eric.
Waiting for the premiere, I am guessing she is an ISFP, but I could be wrong. Love your work and I would appreciate it if you analysed Ben Barnes or Aurora!)
Yess Aurora!
AURORA!!!! it'll be so interesting to watch that!
Yesssss, Aurora!! It'd be amazing!
10:27 For some reason that specific moment just hit me hard... It made me emotional and teary eyed, but i know it has something to do with the vibe and music as well
11:07 I can relate to feeling sad & lonely. I've always found it hard to express myself more often than not, which is one reason why writing lyrics sometimes helps me.
Not completely though. Completely to me would mean having it recorded.
12:15 Is so incredibly wholesome. She really is just all about her music and surroundings. Letting it soak in.
she started crying in the middle of her song because it was the death anniversary of her friend
i needed this!!! please never stop doing what you’re doing
I feel her being so authentic, i didn't need an explanation. You articulated what i was feeling though ❤️
I felt disconnected when I was younger. It's not too bad now. Thinking back on those experiences and feelings, I feel like I lost so much time in my own inner world that I wasn't really connecting with others. It's still hard for me to truly focus in the moment sometimes but I just start to think about how that would make the other person feel. When I talk I would want someone to hear me back, so I try to do the same.
Let’s gooo bro! You’ve grown so much, very happy to see. I knew you were on the cusp
of a breakout. Well deserved and keep grinding!
Being an infp is so challenging. We feel everything & we are extremely self aware. It can be brutal- but also lovely
this is literally so clear, thank you
I've felt that isolation and loneliness. It was something I had to learn how to deal with. Other people can help you, but in the end, you have to rely on your own strength to push on even if you aren't getting the support you want and need from your loved ones.
Man. I saw the comments on IG and just had to get here. I thought I wouldn't get teary-eyed. Yet, here we are.
I've never wanted to admit my Fi even after you rightly figured I was INFP. But each time I hear how relevant that is to me, it hurts.
The strong desire to be understood, yet knowing I know myself too well to ever be fully understood.
Only yesterday, I sent a piece of my writing to a friend and he said my ability to self-reflect is my greatest asset. That's why I started writing. But when it gets too dark to write, those feelings return and it's even harder to express them to anyone because there's the bias that they'll never really get it. What's the point?
Thanks for the encouragement man. Your videos are giving me both knowledge and hope on how to leverage my true nature to improve my life.
The FI appreciation 😩✨
Intraverted feelers are very often described as being to look cold and/or distand because of the depth of their Fi but Eilish doesn't have problem with expressing her feelings, any thought on why that happens? Also, great video, but I think you could have also talked about the Fi-Te and Se-Ni axis as a whole
Why am I crying right now? I relate too much🥲
Btw if you see this, I would really love to see you react to BTS and analyze the members' personalities, I enjoy your videos so much I love the way you explain the functions 💕
Based on what they've said/published so far about their MBTI-types:
RM: ENFP
Jin: INTP
Suga: INFP/INTP
j-hope: ESFJ
Jimin: ENFJ
V: ENFP
Jungkook: ISFP
(I've seen people aggressively argue about Suga's personality type - some say he's INTJ or INFJ - I would say he's definitely an INxx type but I'm also pretty sure that we're mainly seeing a chronically depressed (and often sleep deprived) version of his personality which makes him seem "lazy" or "cold" to some people (the "savage suga" stereotype also stems from his old "I don't give a f***"-persona while in reality he cares a lot about other people) - so I think an analysis of his personality would be really interesting to see.)
@@nehalilisays yes that's why I'm very curious to see what Eric has to say about them, also I see Te in Yoongi and I'm pretty convinced that Namjoon is probably an INFJ with that adorable Se inferior of his...I'm no expert, so I could be wrong
I've seen billie abt 3 times now and everything you've said was spot on!
So happy you made this video and I really enjoyed watching!! Love seeing your channel grow - great interesting content
You are my favorite personality youtuber! Excited for more content here and on your other channel.
So excited to make more!
Fellow ISFP here has to say, that you did a good Job with identifing one of us, especialy with the severie lack of examples of, how she interact with Cats. That would have been a extra Big sciencetific argument, for or aginst her ISFP-being.
this is exactly how I am and this is why I connect with her on so many levels & thanks for making it clear for so many ppl out there so they can understand us
Love how you explain the cognitive functions, but don't over explain for those who already know all about them.
Another thing I have noticed about ISFPs is their aesthetic. They are almost always very fashionable in their own unique way. Billie being a prime example.
Yup! Not always enough to bet their whole type on but definitely an amazing clue :)
Thanks for noticing about the balance with explaining! It’s very tricky to find the correct amount or way to explain that’s accessible but not overdone!
When I first discovered billie eilish I instantly felt so drawn to her like she was the first person who understood me and I could relate to so so much for the first time and now I see we have the same personality 😭🩷
Please... never stop making this kind of videos, Eric. Thank you so much!
This video made me cry and I checked the comments and apparently I'm not alone we are all crying over here hehe💗🥺 I wasn't even sure why but maybe I can relate to what's being said, I also feel lonely misunderstood and like no one misses me, especially during the pandemic because I lost a lot of friends and I don't get along with my family so it's just a whole lot of loneliness. Making coffee the night before so I can wake up to it and be able to get out of my bed. I don't think my personality is quite the same as Billies but I can just relate to how she feels.😞💗🍓‼
🌸 internet hugs!
@@EricWen 😄🌷
I really needed this today. Thank you.
Did you ever study psychology? Amazing new favorite channel
I realllllly want an INFJ pleaaaaase + Lana del Rey 😍😍
Can you please analyse niall Horan ,, he is the happiest guy for some reason and it would be quite interesting
Oh my gosh I related to this so much as an Fi dom. Gotta love my ISFP cousins.
I constantly wonder why people can't just feel things and be more in touch with them. When people tell me they are having trouble knowing how/what they are feeling, that is quite confusing I admit. But I try to be patient knowing they are using different cognitive functions than me.
What you say is true though. Eventually the RIGHT people WILL connect with/find you, or you them, value you for who you are, not invalidate or dismiss your feelings just because the tribe may not always get it or value it, they will be there for you and make you feel loved and excepted.
It took me forever to find this small, yet invaluable group of people, and I had to go through a lot of emotional hell to get here, but I'm SO thankful to finally say that this is the most emotionally healthy I have ever been in my entire adult life. It's been a long road.
Love your channel, Eric. Keep up the great work!
Wow that was amazing to read. I had to go thru a lot of emotional hell to find better quality close friends too that helped me actually feel seen and cared for instead of just floating anonymously alongside them. I know exactly what you mean.
I think it’s crazy how Fi’s know exactly how everything makes them feel. I remember looking at my ENFP friend and going - “everything?...why?” So crazy for me to imagine. I do relate in the sense that I’m always checking the reasoning of every little thing with my Ti...but still haha doing that with my feelings! I can’t imagine!
This scene where she goes back on stage makes me cry ToT
You are my favorite mbti channel, you explain the functions so well
Thanks so much Lyssa! :)
She was like my favorite singer, and she is still. I’m also an ISFP.
I'm already aware I'm not as outgoing as Billie Eilish (I always test as an INTJ), but every explanation of the cognitive functions felt super relatable to me, and then I realized it's the same functions as INTJ's have but in another order. There were so many relatable things like how she dresses, how she wants to be seen as an individual because that's how she sees people, how she got overwhelmed and needed a nudge to see the bigger picture, and how she expresses herself as she wants to and not how she should. Does this make sense for me to relate to? Could ISFP and INTJ be kinda closely related because of the same functions? I've always had so much respect for Billie because she seems so aware and in tune with herself, maybe now I know why.
yeah maybe look more into ISFP! It seems you have a strong Introverted Feeling side!
Makes me feel good seeing all the Fi people’s comments that this one made you cry, me too guys me too 😢
Love your videos, love you and love Billie! And your animations are fun to watch and keep the visuals moving along. Great job!
FUN FACT: Bille started her carrear with Aurora. Aurora is the reason why we are seeing billie right now. And she is an amazing artist l hope you'll look at her talent. (edit: its not the reason its a little spark actualy)
aurora inspired billie
omg PLEASE do Aurora!!!!!
@@rosellaaparicio4087 she is a norwegian singer and songwriter ı think you should check her songs.
I know this may seem like an odd one out but I would be really interested if you analyzed Oprah! haha. Once again loving your work and content!
Thanks for the suggestion!
Oprah is so obviously an ENFJ
@@phuongong40 haha yes I know :) but an analysis of it would still be interesting!
@@phuongong40 I think she is an ESFJ
As an infp and a HUGE billie stan I relate to her so much so yes I agree with the comments saying she’s an infp bc I myself look at my experiences and even if I don’t relate I would be like “if I was this person“ and empathize with them.She’s denfintaly one of us ^^!
This video and your ESTP emma video allowed me to finally convince my sister that she is, in fact, not an ISFP. Lol UwU Thank you so much!
I'm glad I found this channel, you're explaining everything so clearly and I felt like I totally could relate to a lot, because of Fi dominance as an INFP. Thank you so much!
So amazing! Thank you so much! Please could you do timothee chalamet ?? 🙌🙌
ISFP!!!!! Too much feeling for me but I feel em sometimes when I am watching a movie, LOL.
Your channel is so visionary 😍
Excellent and not to overdone explanations. I’m in admiration with your analysis... Such a meticulous work! 👌👏😍
Much support from Berlin
This was a great video. I almost teared up to! When you realize the context of the situation in regard to her personality it makes everything that much more powerful.
Great job explaining, I'm looking forward to checking out more of your videos!
I love the pieces of advice that you give to each type! I can see how they would be really helpful to each type :)
This is well said, looking forward on watching more of your videos. I love this ❤
I haven't really watched any TH-cam in a few months... and then I come back and see you're at 27k subscribers! Yesssss Eric! Soooo happy that your awesome work is getting seen and your channel is growing so quickly because you 100% deserve it! Now I guess it's time to go binge on all the videos I missed... :D
You're the best! Thank you Jodie!
I like your videos a lot! one small thing i'd advise is to talk about the differences between dominant and auxiliary functions, eg the differences between IxFP and ExFP
In a future video for sure!
thank you for making these videos !! the night i discovered your channel i binge watched all of what you had at the time and jeez im so excited for more personality analyses. sending you much luck in what u do :D
Thank you! Working on making more for you :). Thanks so much for being here!
@@EricWen thank you for making great content !!!
The video was greaaaaat
Thanks so much! :)
wow man that was amazing thanks i was looking for someone who explained it like this
Wow, u explained things so clearly and it was so easy to understand! I'm an INFP and I actually got to know more about myself through this video!
☺️🌸
Another INFP who feels somewhat seen by this video and explanation of introverted feeling. I thought I was completely alone with feeling such a very specific, convoluted way but i can see from there comments that it just comes with the infp territory. Thanks!!
From mbti tests to tumblr blogs... and it was you who's been able to explain each function this well honestly! Here we go again down this rabbit hole to understand the human psyche... and perhaps pick up another existential crisis along the path hehe
I loved this! I love Billie as an artist an a person. Thank you 😊
Great video! You always explain the functions really clear and concise and I feel like I always get a better grasp of the functions from each of your videos! Thank you for this, Eric!
Btw what do you think about analyzing fictional characters sometime? I'm really interested on what you'll find for Zuko from Avatar: The Last Airbender. There's a big debate going around whether he's ISFP or INFP, and even ISTJ! It's confusing to say the least 😅