Natal Venus Square Mars- From selfish to sexy

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  • How the square from Venus to Mars shows up in the birth chart- Frustrating desires and non satisfying sexual, social and romantic encounters.
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  • @angelahite7000
    @angelahite7000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    it wasn't necessarily what I wanted to hear but that was a very good explanation and reading of Venus Square Mars natal chart. I hope I can work through it. I tend to break up relationships as soon as I feel uncomfortable or rejected... I'm afraid to be rejected so I don't get to work but I also don't want to be alone. It is a very humbling aspect

    • @Kholeykolex3
      @Kholeykolex3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      exactly how I feel..

    • @IsabelleEler
      @IsabelleEler ปีที่แล้ว +3

      right on spot! also, little tolerance to frustration

  • @kaylnnnn7155
    @kaylnnnn7155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I have this. I love that you mentioned solutions to work on it. Not a fan of being told about a challenging aspect without any solutions to ways I can evolve with them. Thanks

  • @yourobserver1893
    @yourobserver1893 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I love how you differentiate the conjunction as "who you are" while the square is "who you become" because I agree with that since the square definitely encourages "discipline" on the person who has it. I know people with natal Venus square Mars so this video is so helpful! Thank you as always, Jewel!

  • @MimiTheHamster
    @MimiTheHamster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Venus square Mars is my tightest natal aspect and it’s bizarre because I was asexual for a good part of my life, and even now I’m demisexual, meaning I won’t jump in bed without a strong emotional and spiritual connection. Yes looks are important to me but the heart and soul is what makes me actually do anything with a person, without it I don’t indulge in any lust because it doesn’t appeal to me. So I’m one of the least superficial and hypersexual people I know. But one aspect I do have is being demanding, I need true deep committed love. But only because I have a lot to lose because that’s what I give, a 100 percent. People find me sexy much to my chagrin actually since I hate that kind if attention on me. It makes it hard to find someone who has love for me and not pure lust

    • @nanay3000
      @nanay3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. You must also have venus trine saturn, yes?

    • @mariahbritt2353
      @mariahbritt2353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I fw that 💯

    • @MimiTheHamster
      @MimiTheHamster 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Naomi I have venus square saturn conjunct jupiter and pluto,, so sort of yes lol. Complicated venus

    • @nanay3000
      @nanay3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MimiTheHamster oh wow, that's a lot. Yes, we all have lessons to learn in love 💕. Cancer also rules my 7th house, too and my moon is in Scorpio conjunct pluto , so.....yeah, I definitely need commitment. I am demanding in love, too

    • @nataliadmontalvolopez8895
      @nataliadmontalvolopez8895 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What are your Venus and Mars signs?

  • @lateciadavidson4798
    @lateciadavidson4798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Your interpretation is spot on. I was bullied and embarrassed a lot in school and even college. But after self evaluation I had to change my attitude towards friendship and relationships.

  • @brittniebelcher3341
    @brittniebelcher3341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Very true, this shows up in my chart because I am extremely codependent in all relationships and my needs dont get met so if someone becomes attracted to me, I use that to feel empowered, in control and get my needs met regardless of the other person. This was completely subconcious of course so now that I know, its a whole new ballgame

  • @freedomfighter8101
    @freedomfighter8101 9 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Wow I have had to learn to be mindful of other peoples desires. I have moon in Aries so I thought that’s were my selfishness came from. One way I see the mars/venus square play out for me is with my sexuality. I’m a lesbian and growing up
    I was a bit of tom boy so naturally Throughout high school I was more butch type, but I was never fully butch and I always had feminine mannerisms that I would try to hide. I even remember not being able to decide who’s team to be on when it would be boys vs girls. As I get older (29 now) I’m learning to blend the 2 sides. I’ll wear a tailored suit with a women’s blouse, and have full face of makeup for example. Just learning not to suppress one side for the other. What I’m
    becoming is very different than what I’ve been, and I love it!!!
    Thanks Jewel I really love your video’s keep them coming!

    • @JewelMayberry
      @JewelMayberry  9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I did not touch on the gender confusion or vacillation this square can bring up. It is not unusual to question ones orientation with this aspect. Good for you that you are solving it in a joyful way! I love that style of handling this aspect. Just be it all without judgement.

    • @freedomfighter8101
      @freedomfighter8101 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Gender confusion is a understatement. Its was blend them or die I couldn't keep suppressing parts of me it was getting too hard. Do you think a lot of the trans gender community have this aspect? I often wonder if transsexuals are "satisfied" after transitioning. I know the confusion I went through and had I taken any type of permanent action I don't know that I'd be happy with it, even if I felt strongly about it at one time. I'm sure theres more to it than 1 aspect but I'm curious

    • @midorian12491
      @midorian12491 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Rosana95 mars rules 1st and 8th

    • @loveismybreath3755
      @loveismybreath3755 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wow!!! I too have moon in Aries and it's interesting that you and I have this aspect in common as well because while reading what you said, I resonated SO deeply with it. I'm just now coming out of my shell in regards to feeling like I can be more androgynous. I also finally came to terms with my desire for women. When I was younger I took on the role of the more masculine side when playing with my friends...I also had a hard time identifying with what I felt for women because a part of me also enjoyed being feminine and didn't realize that I could infuse both masculine and feminine qualities about myself...which would then allow me to also open up more about the way I approach women and men in general. I felt suffocated when I was younger only wearing clothes that suited "girls"...now I'm finally embracing what I've wanted for so long, which is more than just clothes..it's all the qualities we can develop within the infusion of both masculine and feminine. Thank you so much for sharing that with us! Made me feel even more connected to how all of this can further our own comprehension of the life we live.

    • @ziggystardust6418
      @ziggystardust6418 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      freedomfighter8101 I have moon in Aries too and Venus TRINE Mars ...I am bi and a "tomboy"

  • @marsinafrica
    @marsinafrica 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    How amazing that this can actually be turned around. I'm 50 and i feel it finally happening. God how I wish i found astrology sooner. This would have helped so much.

    • @Emster549
      @Emster549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi how have you successfully worked on turning this around? What can I do?

  • @mirandamckenzie7036
    @mirandamckenzie7036 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Bit of an eye opener.. most times i only like people based on what attention love or loyalty theyre giving to me. I notice that i rarely put my foot forward to actually pursue them back .. ill be loyal , affectionate & giving but only if i feel wanted by you. Me wanting you is you wanting me. For example a guy called me everyday showed his interest invited me out. I rarely called him first or put my foot forward to be romantic but i was always available.

    • @kssgpv
      @kssgpv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm the opposite of that😄 I care about what I feel the most, I give more than I take. But then again I'm selfish, because I don't care as much about his feelings like you do . I wonder what our charts are like..

    • @LegendaryMel
      @LegendaryMel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is not bad. Actually if you are a girl that is what dating coaches will tell you to do

  • @arlinejernigan
    @arlinejernigan 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    OMG, I finally have hope for the ability to be in a loving relationship, as I overcome my absurd selfishness.

  • @ramilyakhismatulina4938
    @ramilyakhismatulina4938 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm madly in love with your videos! Thanks for your presentation, voice, beauty and sense

    • @bombon825
      @bombon825 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ramilya, are you an Aries Ascendant by any chance?

  • @marceline8488
    @marceline8488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I have Gemini Venus rising square to my Virgo Mars. Probably sounds like a huge red flag to most people 😅 but I actually started to cry at the end of this video because it resonated so much.

  • @luciuschrist6929
    @luciuschrist6929 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I know people see this one as a negative aspect,but I really enjoy it,I'm not into relationships and honestly I'm very selfish except when it comes to my family. Accepting my "$quare" ways has led to more peace and happiness.✌

    • @beautybaby4660
      @beautybaby4660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel you👉🏼👈🏼💕

    • @clarissecatelynn946
      @clarissecatelynn946 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same.. I like the selfishness lol

    • @enodia105
      @enodia105 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You enjoy it because you are unconscious of Daddy Saturn and the long term karma waiting to get your ass. It's always annoyingly predictable to watch people who have little awareness of self and none of God boast about their ignorance as if they were exempt from universal law.✌

    • @babydollhana
      @babydollhana 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah ur real for that 😂

  • @hiddenflower862
    @hiddenflower862 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Venus in Virgo Square, Mars in Gemini

    • @witchymama3439
      @witchymama3439 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hidden Flower how does that energy affect you? my boyfriend has this square with the same placements as you. His is Virgo venus 12th h and Gemini mars 9th h

    • @justasktavi9769
      @justasktavi9769 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      My Virgo Venus is in the 12th house with Gemini Mars in the 9th house. And honestly, I don’t feel like ppl see me. I also find myself falling out with ppl and not even realizing quite what went wrong. It sucks because I’m such a fixer! But when folks ghost, what can you really do? I just let them move on.

    • @JanelleSpeaks
      @JanelleSpeaks 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      venus in virgo 7th sq mars in gem3rd

    • @aquariusmoon3251
      @aquariusmoon3251 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For me it's the opposite) mars virgo, venus gemini.😁

    • @Badlilfairy
      @Badlilfairy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      aquarius moon sameee

  • @adrianaz4350
    @adrianaz4350 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Venus in Aquarius square Mars in Taurus here
    Very good video on the Venus square Mars aspect 👌 I've haven't read or heard it like this before. Definitely checking out your other videos

  • @09LonghornsRule
    @09LonghornsRule 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I will never stop coming back to this video! Grateful for this 🙏 thank you Jewel!

  • @tonyaclark427
    @tonyaclark427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this video very profound! With my sun and rising in Leo with moon in Scorpio... I’m feeling like my relationships are improving the more I work on my self💜✨💜

  • @princessdianaox
    @princessdianaox 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for the ending. Made me optimistic :) I will learn and grow from
    This.
    Venus in Leo and Scorpio in mars.

  • @Poeticdyme
    @Poeticdyme 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    One more thing. I'm very disappointed that this is the longest video in this aspect but NO ONE has discussed Venus representing feminine energy and Mars representing masculine energy and the potential occurrence inside a person when these collide. Plus how this might affect their relationships and friendships with the same or opposite sex overall. There is something deeper with this aspect that is being missed..

    • @onstanz
      @onstanz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Poeticdyme I agree, what are your views on this?

    • @thepisceanlion4171
      @thepisceanlion4171 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Why the disappointment though? It's meant to be educational, not merely for entertainment. Apparently you already know the information you were hoping to hear.

    • @brucewayne2184
      @brucewayne2184 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And what is the potential occurrence?

    • @JanelleSpeaks
      @JanelleSpeaks 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      why dont you make the video

    • @thatgworl2504
      @thatgworl2504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Janelle Speaks lol

  • @JoseGutierrez-we4me
    @JoseGutierrez-we4me 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Venus in Leo, squared by mars in Scorpio . This has been hard for me , I put in work in relationship and get frustrated when I don’t get what I want and it leads to my mars bringing in that aggression . Now that I know what I need to fix I will work on it because it has costed me to lose potential relationships

    • @mistybloom4762
      @mistybloom4762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How's it gone? Have you semi mastered this placement lol

  • @Starshapedjello
    @Starshapedjello 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have this aspect. I’m desirable as hell, but that doesn’t mean I’m satisfied in my relationships. In fact, I’m never satisfied. I have to demand so much in return for all I give. It’s very disheartening that people refuse to give like I do. Venus in Aquarius (2nd house) square mars in taurus (5th house).

    • @Starshapedjello
      @Starshapedjello ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A year later…I reread my comment. Now I’m finally realizing that I don’t communicate my needs in a peaceful way. I’m always going about it in a passive aggressive way that hurts ppls feelings. I’m learning to communicate better. It’s so hard.

  • @Cksncrm
    @Cksncrm ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My sister has this and she's so selfish and quickly becomes frustrated over the tiniest things and becomes hurtful. I hope she learns to evolve and grow out of this to be better because my patience is running out.

  • @interestingtimes3014
    @interestingtimes3014 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love what you said at the end of it after we work through these energies 💖 thank you 🙏

  • @icic5
    @icic5 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Praise you angel I get it now!!!!!! Thank you for shedding light on this!!! I didn’t get it b/c I’d already done the goddess transformation but when you brought up childhood to now I see it!!!

  • @somebodysfalling
    @somebodysfalling 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so helpful, thank you! I very much enjoy your videos on natal aspects and have watched many again and again in effort to better understand myself as well as others. While looking at the charts of two people who both have SEVERE substance addictions, I noticed this was the only aspect they shared other than Saturn in the 12th house and multiple planets in opposition. It's interesting that both have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder...also interesting that Venus Square Mars can mean sweetness vs aggression, softness vs anger, feminine vs masculine, the love-hate theme.

  • @hilmichildofgod
    @hilmichildofgod 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    WOW! You give me so much hope! :D
    AMAZING video! I have Venus in Leo 6th house square Mars in Scorpio 9th house. Looking forward to learn and transform.

  • @Sandra-hc4vo
    @Sandra-hc4vo หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate the positive note at the end. hah nice to leave on a positive. no um i have been the person who um charged ahead and asserted something that no one else was wanting - i feel it was more that I didn't understand social cues growing, didn't get the language people were speaking. then um felt socially like shunned a lot and went to um total isolated phase and now i am slowly rebuilding.
    i have a 4th house aries, (a lilith in aries interpolated) mars in scorpio, venus in leo.

  • @HailOdin-cz1qf
    @HailOdin-cz1qf 7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    i got venus in capricorn squared with mars in libra..

    • @mariaconiramirez6686
      @mariaconiramirez6686 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Odin Odin i have the same placement

    • @npg19283
      @npg19283 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @irenenguyen2364
      @irenenguyen2364 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @SagAqua8
      @SagAqua8 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We have really high standarts

    • @leonela1379
      @leonela1379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not Important seriously!! i hate it, it’s why I can never find someone and be satisfied: always being picky about who I be with

  • @chocolatesugar4434
    @chocolatesugar4434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tend to use my feminine/Venus to get what I need or want/mars. My Venus softens my mars expression, she makes it palatable and seemingly agreeable. But really I'm on a mission.

  • @zechariahmitchell3748
    @zechariahmitchell3748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you broke that down awesome!!!!

  • @Erika-nk9di
    @Erika-nk9di 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Venus in gemini, mars in virgo. I'm only in my twenties, but already have the number of ex'es that is hard to count... I'm tired of breaking up with everyone that is close to me, but otherwise I feel like I'm stuck and my life is just put on hold

    • @Erika-nk9di
      @Erika-nk9di 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nicoleventer5357 omg, mine is on 27 May, 1997.. I think we have a lot in common then😅

    • @Erika-nk9di
      @Erika-nk9di 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nicoleventer5357 I would be happy to chat too, my insta account - erikalilka

    • @Olivia-ds2bd
      @Olivia-ds2bd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello, sorry if I was being intruding. If you don’t mind, could you explain more why you feel stuck to stay in those relationships?

  • @Mjcatsnco
    @Mjcatsnco 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was in love with a guy with this. He WAS as asshole. I was constantly reigning in his ego. I loved him even though I knew this because of my Saturn conjunct his sun. The whole time he thought every thing was cool with his mars square my Venus. He was super hot also

  • @sjn2474
    @sjn2474 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have this aspect, Venus in gemini (6th house) and mars in virgo (10th house) I broke up with my ex of 5 1/2 years for having no ambition or drive and never taking interest or pushing me to achieve my goals. I said i'd rather fail alone than with him holding me back.... I don't regret this, but have to pull myself up on these behaviour patterns with my current partner, so I don't place so much expectation I guess?

  • @paparudaruda656
    @paparudaruda656 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So, my friend has this square (leo venus square scorpio moon and mars) and let me tell you something...if there would have been a photo for the word “selfish” this friend would have won! Yes, I can see the sex-appeal but it’s wortless withouth any empathetic atitude toward others. All I can see is “me, myself and I”, self centered,attention seeker which leeds to frustration for any relationship he’s in...he has hard time when it comes to desociate private life from public life. I meen everything he does is constantly posted on social media, even if he’s having a drink with a friend is already posted on social media but not enjoying the company of his friend (he’s constantly on the phone). Maybe that’s why is is still single at 36 and complainig about it. Hope this was helpful :)
    Bonus: tends to lie and brag a looot!

  • @suncluster
    @suncluster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am dominant Venus in Aquarius square Mars in Taurus, 1H. I feel much more comfortable when I am alone than with other people. I have a tendency to chose partners that lie and manipulate me. I seem to seek it out as it’s familiar to the abusive home I grew up in. My deepest desire is to be surrounded by family and it always seems out of my reach.

    • @meaganedwards5123
      @meaganedwards5123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same exact placements, same feeling. It’s like not being able to find you’re footing and the balance in social and intimate relationships, that’s why I tend to isolate myself at this point. It’s like I’m literally looking at astrology to see if we are just products of our upbringing, or if there’s more to it.

  • @RomiBach
    @RomiBach 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jewel thank you for creating all your videos. I've learned so much from you!!!!

  • @eshadiva6600
    @eshadiva6600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think people are definitely entitled to their desires i just also think i am entitled to mine as well. What usually happens is im just nice fake the funk be polite but i hope someone will eventually reciprocate even my "niceness". When i am too nice people think they can bully me into helping them meet their desires. Then i have to shut the entire thing down or go with it. I feel people project their sexual desires on us alot knowing full well they cant meet ours and have no desire to even try to so this is where they will and do manipulate us. So in order to take a break from this entire process we will enjoy a lot of time as hermits....*shrugs

  • @lelelipo1852
    @lelelipo1852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    venus in scorpio, mars in aquarius. a walking contradiction!

    • @logansundberg6124
      @logansundberg6124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same

    • @madamerage8518
      @madamerage8518 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same with rx mars in cancer and venus aries. a hot boiling mess

  • @malaysiahall335
    @malaysiahall335 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your energy is beautiful

  • @anndavis2920
    @anndavis2920 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Female Venus square Mars ( Aries Sun). When I was younger I gave without thinking about it and never having anyone to give to me when I needed it, taught me to be selfish just like other have treated me in my blood relatives, in sexual relationships, even with my grown children. Just selfishness all around me all the time. Now I am giving myself what I want, when I want it, if & when I can. I love me for loving me more than. Its been wonderful for me. A giver for too long. thank you for this clarity. 9-18-21

  • @bombon825
    @bombon825 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You know what's really fun? Venus in Libra and Mars in Capricorn. Perpetually alone.

    • @niemazaco87
      @niemazaco87 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's really strong placement though. Planets in their kingdoms😊

  • @midorian12491
    @midorian12491 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i have venus square mars, venus square pluto, moon oppose pluto, moon square venus, neptune square ascedent, mercury square ascedent and my moon and mars is in the 8th house........ i need severe help

    • @FashionnArt
      @FashionnArt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh yikes that's tough that you're dealing with all that! ;( I have Venus square Mars and moon opposite Pluto....soooo...love and hate is very true to me thanks to those 2 aspects ;( it's hard, but I can't imagine what you're dealing with :/ Maybe you can see a astrology therapist, I wish I could see one!

    • @jyon494
      @jyon494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Venus square Mars and moon opposite Pluto here too, it hurts I know

    • @kaylnnnn7155
      @kaylnnnn7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dang lol :/

    • @niemazaco87
      @niemazaco87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FashionnArt How does it play out in relationships? I've met someone with exactly these 2 aspects and his behaviour was just so confusing to me. Said he wants a relationship, overpromised things and flew like a bullet haha. Now wants to keep in touch. I'm so confused.

  • @eshadiva6600
    @eshadiva6600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes we are fulfilling a lot and then we get drained because partner is not reciprocating. So we pull back next thing you know you have a stalker on your hands....a stalker you also barely like because you went too far "being nice"

    • @LegendaryMel
      @LegendaryMel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol I know how u feel

  • @amazingyummy2
    @amazingyummy2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    A lot of sexy little bunnies I see on here with this aspect

  • @CcannibalCcat
    @CcannibalCcat 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel called out 😂😂. I have Mars in Cancer in my first squaring my Venus in Aries in my tenth.
    I also have my Jupiter in Libra in my 4th and Capricorn moon in the 7th forming a Cardinal Grand cross with very tight orbs.

  • @paparudaruda656
    @paparudaruda656 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Is this common for someone who has this aspect to go behind the back and cheat (friends and lovers)? Because I have seen too many times happening with his best friends wifes and acted like he has done nothing wrong but being a man.

  • @LORDYAMA322
    @LORDYAMA322 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Venus in Scorpio mars in Leo, literally the only negative aspect in my chart and it's so corrosive.

    • @nataliagoldina429
      @nataliagoldina429 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spencer Holst, I noticed that in a chart full of harmonious aspects one aspect of tension feels like A LOT.

    • @crystalbold2693
      @crystalbold2693 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wht others aspects do u have in ur chart?

    • @LORDYAMA322
      @LORDYAMA322 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've looked further into it and I have much more challenging aspects to the point where it seemed to blend with this one. I have moon virgo square Pluto Scorpio in 7th, mars square jupiter and my ascendant along with mercury libra in the 6th retrograde square Uranus and Neptune In 9th 🤣

    • @LORDYAMA322
      @LORDYAMA322 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not to mention moon conjunct Chiron and opposite Saturn Pisces retrograde in the 11th.. my moon aspects are rough along w mercury and mars..

    • @z88176
      @z88176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, can I ask you some questions related to your Venus square Mars aspect? I'm interested in a guy who has the same placements as you (Scorpio Venus, Leo Mars) and he has Venus square Mars in his natal chart so maybe you might be able to help me understand him from your perspective. In our synastry his Mars sextiles my Venus, his Venus sextiles my Mars, and his Venus placement sits in my 1st house so I don't know if those aspects will help smooth things over or not when it comes to that challenging square in his natal chart.
      When it comes to relationships, what part of the relationship do you normally find your needs aren't being met? Is it the sexual needs, romantic needs, communication needs... or all of the above? Your answer might help me understand what his issues are and how to address them.

  • @Emster549
    @Emster549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is my takeaway correct that the solution with this is to stop being selfish and figure out what someone else’s desire is (and stop thinking about our own desire)?

  • @jillianmclaughlin25
    @jillianmclaughlin25 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Venus in Aries square to Mars in Cancer. So that impulsivity you are talking about... very familiar with it and learning to control it

  • @moongoddess5845
    @moongoddess5845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Venus in Scorpio, Mars in leo.🔥

  • @unnameablespace8945
    @unnameablespace8945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nonduality assisted with harmonizing the venus square mars.

  • @anntyler5205
    @anntyler5205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mars in cancer (7) and venus in Aries(4) also pluto opposite venus. In libra (10) square mars.

  • @lucyk2634
    @lucyk2634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly ME explained! ❤️

  • @niyatkachru4554
    @niyatkachru4554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Interesting. I have an ex bf who has this and he was codependent. Also very popular socially. But had kind of a bad reputation

  • @Verilyisayuntoyou
    @Verilyisayuntoyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting 👍 Venus 12H Leo Square Mars 4H Scorpio.

  • @skaitlyncarter
    @skaitlyncarter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5th house Retrograde Venus in Aries, 8th house Mars in Scorpio. My Venus squares Mars, Neptune and Uranus with an opposition to Jupiter. My Mars squares Jupiter and is in opposition to Uranus and Neptune but trines my ascendant. I am so beyond ignorant to romantic relationships it's a joke. Luckily I have a lot of "positive" Pluto placements to enforce some transformative qualities. Hoping a good deal of learning and introspection will help.

    • @Emster549
      @Emster549 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have all the same aspects but Venus in 4th Mars in 7 Cancer. Really tough stuff to work with. Especially the cardinal nature of it all

  • @jaymesEo6
    @jaymesEo6 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You look so cute in this video. Venus in Aquarius in the 5th square Mars in Taurus in the 9th here. I have always been unlucky in love and even friendships. Love life I tend to attract unavailability too. Is that common with this aspect?
    I also have neptune semi-sextile venus but that's more on the hidden relationships video you did lol!

    • @jaymesEo6
      @jaymesEo6 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree! I don't want perfectly attractive people but unavailable people just entice me more. I'm told I possess a very magnetic sexual aura too. Girls and guys both tell me I'm "hot" especially recently it's kind of strange to have not only the opposite sex but the same sex leer over you sometimes as I'm not like a Leo who likes that sort of thing... but it does have some advantages.

    • @hi-nq5mm
      @hi-nq5mm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oooo ive taurus venus (10th) squaring(1°) aqua mars (7th) so it's like really prominent in my life

    • @Jen-ni8vj
      @Jen-ni8vj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi I have Taurus Venus in 10h and aqua mars in 7h too😳

    • @Jen-ni8vj
      @Jen-ni8vj 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      hi how do you find yours?

  • @DevsEnd
    @DevsEnd 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful analysis!

  • @kayyy.beeeee6173
    @kayyy.beeeee6173 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uhh wow.. I feel Called out. Trying to fix these issues

  • @ddelucia94
    @ddelucia94 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Venus in Scorpio, mars in Leo. I find I can be awkward too but also when I’m flirting I can either be too much for some people or just awkward lol

  • @cristina.adsc3589
    @cristina.adsc3589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    can you do venus sextile mars ? I know someone with venus square mars and have the worst timing when it comes to relationship i swear haha

  • @CV-vb3np
    @CV-vb3np 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    love yr work! especially latest series on natal squares/ inconjuncts
    you had mentioned doing a video on natal pluto square mars...would love to see that. ..also yr thoughts on natal pluto square moon aspect.
    regards,
    Cv

    • @JewelMayberry
      @JewelMayberry  9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will get to both of those soon.

    • @CV-vb3np
      @CV-vb3np 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Jewel Mayberry awesome :))
      Thanks for reply, looking forward!

  • @amazingyummy2
    @amazingyummy2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ha I have Venus in aries square mars in cancer so idk

    • @Moon_LitG
      @Moon_LitG 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😋

    • @Iamjesspowell
      @Iamjesspowell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm Venus in Cancer square Mars in Aries!

    • @Emster549
      @Emster549 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Janay same, 100% agree, cardinal nature adds a whole other element where this aspect is always in my face

  • @Nay-ux8mn
    @Nay-ux8mn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i have this aspect and chiron in my 7th >.< (mhm...) when people are deny or dont agree with my desires, i get butt hurt!!
    mars in virgo, venus in gemini

  • @ariland14
    @ariland14 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have Venus in Aries in the 4th house and mars in cancer in the 7th house.

    • @Emster549
      @Emster549 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same :’(

  • @sweetfootwear
    @sweetfootwear 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your Amazing!!!

  • @serenasonoma5686
    @serenasonoma5686 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Venus in Aries, Mars in Cancer

  • @LoveLeigh313
    @LoveLeigh313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But what if my Venus is in the 9H 🥴

  • @goodluckjoe4241
    @goodluckjoe4241 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do I even have this placement I was on my natal chart and I have a Sagittarius Venus at 2 degrees and mars and Aquarius at 27 degrees I thought it was just a mars and Venus sextile

  • @lacemitchell9895
    @lacemitchell9895 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Could this aspect also make someone an impulsive thief?

    • @mideiagalanou5
      @mideiagalanou5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe in stealing someones heart

  • @myriahquintela7100
    @myriahquintela7100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi there! I have natal mars in Gemini (5H) square natal Venus in Virgo (8H). I also have a natal 7H, 5 planet stellium. I’m very quick to fall in love and also very quick to fall out. I just went through a break up and am thinking a lot about how I relate to others, romantically AND platonically. When I’m in a relationship I have no friends and when I am single I have a bunch of friends. I’ve been through this cycle 4x now as an adult… I want more enduring meaningful relationships. I’ve been concerned that my mars Venus square is going to sabotage me forever but this video was very healing for me to watch. Jupiter will be transiting my mars this year so I expect the lesson to be front and center for me and I’m looking forward to it but also want to be as intentional as possible and I go on my journey of cultivating enduring loving relationships… thank you so much for this video and I look forward to coming back to it through this Jupiter in Gemini transit. Very grateful to you 🙏❤️‍🩹

  • @calgoulden8223
    @calgoulden8223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like this is a cheater aspect, if anyone has this and knows for SURE that they would never cheat, please reply cause I wanna see if I'm wrong

    • @lini8144
      @lini8144 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would never but I also have pluto conjunct ascendant

    • @jaaooo7928
      @jaaooo7928 ปีที่แล้ว

      I got libra mars and capricorn venus and I’ve had a lot of girls but I don’t cuff any lol

    • @jaaooo7928
      @jaaooo7928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It might just be a commitment thing🤷‍♂️

    • @INFJ_Sim
      @INFJ_Sim ปีที่แล้ว

      I have this and I am fervently OPPOSED to cheating. But I will be unhappy in a relationship without a lot of passion. But I would break up before cheating on someone. In fact-ive been cheated on by multiple people (narcissists) and am usually the giver in relationships (empath). I guess you have to look at the other placements in the chart

  • @taniapolychronidi3573
    @taniapolychronidi3573 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    venus in aries 8th house and mars in Sagittarius 5th house...I'm trying
    Taurus sun, virgo moon, leo rising

  • @amberongouori
    @amberongouori 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This always gets me because my my Mars is in Leo (fire, great) but in the 4th house and my Venus is in Scorpio (sad placement lol), but in the 7th house 😂 Venus shows up as a dominant planet (7th house stellium) and Mars is my chart ruler (Aries rising). I don't feel I'm too selfish thankfully ( but I'm told I'm not selfish enough, oh no lmao), I think this aspect just made me more awkward than anything but everything else is pretty accurate growing up. I move quickly with connections rather than seperations I find. (I blame being water Dominant haha) It's actually, of my favourite placements in my chart honestly. I was a huge geek in school 😂 still am now but everyone likes geeks now apparently 😅

  • @evolvinglove7786
    @evolvinglove7786 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mars is Aries square Capricorn. It is work but worth it.

  • @mistercobb8742
    @mistercobb8742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you made Venus square Saturn in natal just wondering.

  • @JenaesBeauty
    @JenaesBeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @xolanineptune3018
    @xolanineptune3018 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sag Venus, Virgo Mars.

  • @Brilleetoile
    @Brilleetoile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Venus in Scorpio square Mars in Leo 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @beautybaby4660
    @beautybaby4660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Venus in Leo square Mars in Scorpiooo 🦁🦞

  • @NiKi-ij2ln
    @NiKi-ij2ln ปีที่แล้ว

    Mars in Libra in 8 house square Venus in Capricorn in 12 house

  • @sarahstenske4268
    @sarahstenske4268 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like I've definitely encountered some incels with this placement... for some people it turns into spiteful revenge. So many people on those crazy online forums have these stories and fantasies of how they became ripped and well dressed just for the chance to pump and dump on random women who they assumed would reject them if they looked different.

    • @JewelMayberry
      @JewelMayberry  ปีที่แล้ว

      That can happen with the hard aspects.

  • @maplesadventures2084
    @maplesadventures2084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mars in Scorpio Venus in Leo square

  • @Masqued1
    @Masqued1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have Venus in Gemini 7H Square Mars in Pisces 4H, Jupiter in Aries 5H Square Saturn in Cancer 8H, Plus I am a Taurus Sun with Scorpio Rising! So you can imagine ;)

  • @wiscochic861plutochic5
    @wiscochic861plutochic5 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Venus in pisces (exalted),mars in Sagittarius

  • @Porkchopapii
    @Porkchopapii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Both my older brother has Venus square Mars and me and my brother has the Venus semi Sextile Mars and I have Venus Quintile Mars the square is so annoying my brother wants Soooo much by do very little for and have some story every single time.

  • @sephir-h2o
    @sephir-h2o 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have Venus in Pisces in the 5th house square Mars in Taurus in the 8th house...but I don't get it 'cause usually the 2 signs are going well together...

    • @JenniferHorna
      @JenniferHorna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2 years late but you have an out of sign square. I also have something similar: Venus in Libra square Mars in Aquarius. I still try to figure out what that means...

  • @MichelleIsProsperous
    @MichelleIsProsperous 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Aquarius heheheheheheeeeeeee

    • @charlesreid6331
      @charlesreid6331 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too

    • @sweetfootwear
      @sweetfootwear 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have an ex w this also. She once gave me a hard time because there was an empty cigarette pack in the compartment on the door of my car. Ruining a great night over something stupid and trivial.

    • @yogaformindbodyspiri
      @yogaformindbodyspiri 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too!

    • @MusicCrackhead
      @MusicCrackhead 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have this too... I need answers lol

    • @banditboybanks5959
      @banditboybanks5959 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Scorpio here... you sexy Lady Michelle, but this might be a stalemate lol

  • @coolbeansmalady2275
    @coolbeansmalady2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This explains a lot 🤦‍♀️ Mars in Scorpio, Venus in Leo

    • @mantuli8500
      @mantuli8500 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol, my crush has this placement. What a selfish prick lol. But he has many challenging placements to moon and sun as well.

  • @algima19
    @algima19 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Venus in 10th house gemini square mars on asc in virgo? I think I can feel that aspect in me, not sure... it sucks, can I have a trine please?

  • @brinalee3362
    @brinalee3362 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This aspect is 0 degrees 😔

  • @kasahzx2346
    @kasahzx2346 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You said in your video that this issue is quite easy to resolve. "It's not like a moon or 9th house theme" what about if this aspect makes a t square with a moon in the 9th house?

  • @eshadiva6600
    @eshadiva6600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes i was nerdy and i still consider myself a nerd lol but lately i have been called a blow up doll smh yup people projecting their sexuality on us smh wow finally got to the end lol

  • @joscelynlew22
    @joscelynlew22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both my Mars and Venus are in Scorpio 3rd house.

  • @aguafria9565
    @aguafria9565 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have this as well as venus square pluto... oh boy

  • @anndavis2920
    @anndavis2920 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Venus Aries & Mars Cancer (fall) is another bad placed planet. Therefore the bad always happening to me in guy relationships. Lots of rejection., lots of competition from others.

  • @zechariahmitchell3748
    @zechariahmitchell3748 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mars in libra in the second house my Venus in cancer in 11th house

  • @sweetcupcake2741
    @sweetcupcake2741 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I mean... not really.
    I have Venus in Gemini mars in Pisces. I do fall very quickly but i do take my time I’m very slow. Very very slow. I’ve never been in a relationship with any guy because I do take everything into consideration

  • @nfa680
    @nfa680 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mars square Uranus please

  • @Sarah-yp8rr
    @Sarah-yp8rr 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have Venus in Aries square mars in cancer with 2•33 degree both in a bad signs!