i don't drink (reflux) so how do i NOT offend Thai's, if i am offered alcohol? Question - is it true if you have a Thai girlfriend/wife you have to pay her parents a monthly allowance as a Farang, if the parents are not wealthy, i don't have a issue with a reasonable amount but if it becomes too expensive then i will run out of money, as i have been warned "No Money-No Honey" and that was from a Thai Lady, i don't think she was joking🤔
Steve, navigating social customs in Thailand can be a bit tricky, but it is manageable. Here are some tips for both of your concerns: If you are offered alcohol and you need to decline, you can do so without offending anyone by simply saying, “I have a health condition that prevents me from drinking alcohol.” Most people will understand and respect this. Alternatively, you can ask for a non-alcoholic beverage instead. Saying “I would love to join you with a soda or juice” shows that you still want to participate socially. Acknowledging the gesture by thanking them and explaining you appreciate the offer shows respect for their hospitality. The idea of providing financial support to your Thai girlfriend or wife’s parents can vary widely. Traditionally, it is not a cultural requirement for a Farang (foreigner) to provide a monthly allowance. However, unfortunately, it has become more common, especially in relationships where there is a significant economic disparity. Nevertheless, if you decide to provide support, it is important to agree on a reasonable amount that will not strain your finances. It is best to discuss any expectations openly with your partner to ensure that both parties are comfortable with the arrangement to avoid misunderstandings. Remember, every relationship is unique, and it is important to find a balance that works for both you and your partner. If you ever feel pressured or uncomfortable, it is more than okay to set boundaries and have honest conversations about your concerns. Furthermore, if the question of no money, no honey arises and you do not believe it to be a joke, I would suggest you rethink your relationship. In any relationship, one always has to start as they mean to go on, however, what do I know? All relationships are different, with that said, in Thailand there is always a choice!!! Hope all this helps. Due diligence. In simpler terms, it is like doing your homework before making any big decision! Best of luck.
@@IsaanFlicksThailand Khop Khun Krup Bob, i like the idea of just asking for a soda/soft drink to join in, thats a win - win. Money is a necessary evil in today's society, in the future i can see it going back to the barter system, but thats a long way off, a few massive natural disasters to go through first.
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i don't drink (reflux) so how do i NOT offend Thai's, if i am offered alcohol?
Question - is it true if you have a Thai girlfriend/wife you have to pay her parents a monthly allowance as a Farang, if the parents are not wealthy, i don't have a issue with a reasonable amount but if it becomes too expensive then i will run out of money, as i have been warned "No Money-No Honey" and that was from a Thai Lady, i don't think she was joking🤔
Steve, navigating social customs in Thailand can be a bit tricky, but it is manageable. Here are some tips for both of your concerns:
If you are offered alcohol and you need to decline, you can do so without offending anyone by simply saying, “I have a health condition that prevents me from drinking alcohol.” Most people will understand and respect this.
Alternatively, you can ask for a non-alcoholic beverage instead. Saying “I would love to join you with a soda or juice” shows that you still want to participate socially.
Acknowledging the gesture by thanking them and explaining you appreciate the offer shows respect for their hospitality.
The idea of providing financial support to your Thai girlfriend or wife’s parents can vary widely.
Traditionally, it is not a cultural requirement for a Farang (foreigner) to provide a monthly allowance. However, unfortunately, it has become more common, especially in relationships where there is a significant economic disparity.
Nevertheless, if you decide to provide support, it is important to agree on a reasonable amount that will not strain your finances. It is best to discuss any expectations openly with your partner to ensure that both parties are comfortable with the arrangement to avoid misunderstandings.
Remember, every relationship is unique, and it is important to find a balance that works for both you and your partner. If you ever feel pressured or uncomfortable, it is more than okay to set boundaries and have honest conversations about your concerns.
Furthermore, if the question of no money, no honey arises and you do not believe it to be a joke, I would suggest you rethink your relationship.
In any relationship, one always has to start as they mean to go on, however, what do I know?
All relationships are different, with that said, in Thailand there is always a choice!!!
Hope all this helps. Due diligence. In simpler terms, it is like doing your homework before making any big decision! Best of luck.
@@IsaanFlicksThailand Khop Khun Krup Bob, i like the idea of just asking for a soda/soft drink to join in, thats a win - win. Money is a necessary evil in today's society, in the future i can see it going back to the barter system, but thats a long way off, a few massive natural disasters to go through first.
You are welcome, Steve, money can be evil but as you said, necessary, and I do believe digital bartering already exists! 🙏🙏🙏