Oral, Menstrual and Other Rulings Intimacy Series P6 Ft
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The sahaabah preferred taqwa over fatwa. “Leave that which is doubtful for that which is not doubtful”. So if something (with knowledge) is doubtful it’s best to leave it. This is how we safe guard our deen.
Ma Sha Allāh
True...but with the times of today is way harder ...leaving it can easely turn into a chaos in many marriages and people ending up in haram things or even break ups.....
Yea but that's more for the layman. The entire point of having scholars is to get to know what is right and what is wrong.
@@aarfeenanees9147 l didn’t watch/listen to the whole video. There are reputable scholars today who have labeled oral sex as makrooh tahrimi (undesirable of the highest degree).
@@lgic1 I agree with you brother. I personally follow the ruling that it's haram.
I can not tell you how much the Ummah of Muhammad (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) is in need of such advice. Jazak Allahu khair my brothers in Islam for making such useful videos on such topics which are super rarely discussed in our communities.
thank the colonial christainizing and bida dividing sufis.
yes modesty is an asl but they skip over topics and don't ground the ppl to have direction in their life.
Especialy as Muhammed (pibuh) was a real Playboy himself, fucked woman and children of all ages incl sexslaves after he came from battle slauthering the kuffaar
Faiyadfit please please please stop interrrupting Brother Gabriel, and guys PLEASE stop rubbing your hands, it so IMMATURE!
Jazaak Allahu khairan for this series❤
I really enjoyed this
Everyone's a great Muslim in the comment section I see. Most men in their 20's are "immature". These topics are taboo and that is Gabriel's point; that we should talk more freely about it. If we laugh here and there, so what? We know that men achieve their full potential after the age of 40. This is Islamic.
Lol....no they aren't.....they start to loose their potential....
@@andreeaboloca246 nope. If we're talking physically then maybe, but when it comes to maturity and being a "real" man then no. This is supported by the Qur'an, so you can't deny it
So wisdom,not potential ....potential has a different meaning,especially on this topic...Islam says wisdom
@@andreeaboloca246 The topic was maturity in my comment
@@UnknownBeliever01 wrong wording though....but I do get your point
This lesson has great potential. If the co-hosts maintain their composure and behaved more maturly. But the speaker did a decent job. But like I said this could've had more potential.
yea i agree they themselves sounded like kids at times like they were insecure and needed to be forward or something...
brother can you discuss what to do about women with FGM in a future episode?
Daaamn much needed..! 👍🏻👍🏻 thanks for sharing brothers
Jazak Allah Khair
So much knowledge thank you!!!
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i wish you would add arabic subtitles or allow people to do it cuz we desperately need it
Indeed... A lot of the brother's content is unimaginably needed in these times of ignorance.
25:00 Most men and women act as if polygyny is haram.
Eat vagina is clean actually if the woman is hygienic but vaginas are usually clean they are always cleaning themselves discharge and it’s pretty safe baby would get infected if it has bad bacteria
Jazakallahu Khair
Akhi we need a change of moderators, these guys are way above 11 years old. This is unacceptable. We need men in our ummah who are mature.
Definitely this is a big problem when looking for a spouse for us girls - we want and need a mature responsible understanding MAN not a grown boy.
@@chuckboris3844 i am surprised with the name you are a sister.
and yes. Brother Dawud Adib says a true brother/man thinks with one head and is mature with the other! problem with women is their lack of practice and materialism!
Do not talk in free-mixing
I know right but it’s okay it’s just they are shy young men probably never had wife before so it makes them happy 😆 to think about this stufff
Lesson learned: eat it my son.
@@rz._.b entering or just swallowing ? if entering is sinnfull than touching it with the fingers is/should be also sinnful ?!
@@rz._.b semen is pure
2:33: "he is busy being intimate"
Man are you serious? How can you talk like that about a muslim. No shame
I am pretty sure that he has nothing against it. Did you even watch the podcasts? Their characters are pretty clear I think.
It is what it is.
I have a follow up question, even though Oral is not specifically disallowed, some fluids are haram and this going in your mouth would kind of not be allowed?
I don't know but asking
I was thinking about this... pre seminal fluid has urine, i think women's vaginal fluid doesn't... but there is a hadith, i cant recall if its authentic, if a man was covered in pus and blood and he told his wife to LICK HIM CLEAN and she did, she still didn't submit to him properly. so that might effect the ruling. some ppl may differ and we need to respect that.
Plus we need to research the fatwa based the scholars of the madhab we follow. I think this post was not covered in the video (not sure about part one).
Someone in comments also mentioned a ruling about when inn doubt then leave it.
@@nameme5280 yea but recall all 4 mathabs said if we miss a hadith go with that, they all said follow manhaj Salaf, we have to be wholesome and united, clear, and shy and respectful at the same time in asl, and then move forward when needed.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 that hadith is weak. It's a weak addition to the hadith where it states if sajdah was halal to a human, a wife should do it to her husband
That hadith is not weak...
Stop grading hasitj weak you are not scholar.
It was made hasan or saheeh by al albani
Childish and immature behavior by the other two guys certainly hinders the flow of the talk. Muslims don't normally talk about sex unless it's for some educational purpose, and here certainly Gabrial is having a mature talk, and their giggling and deliberate interruption on some intimate points makes it embarrassing.
He’s giving too much sexual details which is appropriate and unnecessary!
I think it adds to brother Gabriel's point. Muslims are so serious when it comes to sex and we don't talk about it, and that is NOT a good thing. Now yes, the two brothers were a little immature, but they are still young and MOST men are like that, let's be honest. A lot of people who say they are immature are probably the same themselves. We can see this by talking to an average Muslim man in his 20s
@God Lord I'm a brother 😂
@God Lord There's a difference between being a simp and honest bro. And also, that was a generalization from you, so are you a simp or a woman?
@@UnknownBeliever01 no many guys even in the west are not, because they are confidant and know its a territorial topic, its like they are being forward because they are insecure, maybe they are reverts and its old habits, so no point made, if anything it shows us how not to do things. oh and inaccurate generalizations are the culprit not accurate ones!
«لا تكثروا الكلام عند مجامعة النساء فمنه يكون الخرس والفأفأة (2)» gabriel whats your opinion on this?
Good podcast but hard to take seriously when the brother in Pink on top left seem to be a little immature in dealing with such issues
Pink top left? What are u talking about man
Are you watching vertically mirrored?
those two boys are too immature and uncomfortable to watch
Lol..the brother is quite bold though.....but u are much fun and pleasant to be around with this comment though ...,are you?
@@andreeaboloca246 ??? it's one thing to be clear, its another thing to sound vular, weird and forward to others like you need to prove something, this is territorial topic after all, I mean gabriel sounded very balanced and professional. I read subtitles and skipped over some parts as i have strong audio memory!
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 my brother...Gabriel was pretty bold and did sound vulgar in some parts....the only " immature " thing was their giggling....not what they said but their little childish laughter ...I was having the same thing while listening with my husband despise being able to discuss with maturity at the same time.... your title says allot about you though my brother.....Allah said in the Quran to leave the sects to Him ...he will judge them,not you...
Verse (6:159) - English
Sahih International: Indeed, those who have divided their religion and become sects - you, [O Muhammad], are not [associated] with them in anything. Their affair is only [left] to Allah ; then He will inform them about what they used to do.
Pickthall: Lo! As for those who sunder their religion and become schismatics, no concern at all hast thou with them. Their case will go to Allah, Who then will tell them what they used to do.
Yusuf Ali: As for those who divide their religion and break up into sects, thou hast no part in them in the least: their affair is with Allah: He will in the end tell them the truth of all that they did.
Shakir: Surely they who divided their religion into parts and became sects, you have no concern with them; their affair is only with Allah, then He will inform them of what they did.
Muhammad Sarwar: Some of those who have divided their religion into different sects are not your concern. Their affairs are in the hands of God Who will show them all that they have done.
Mohsin Khan: Verily, those who divide their religion and break up into sects (all kinds of religious sects), you (O Muhammad SAW) have no concern in them in the least. Their affair is only with Allah, Who then will tell them what they used to do.
Arberry: Those who have made divisions in their religion and become sects, thou art not of them in anything; their affair is unto God, then He will tell them what they have been doing.
@@andreeaboloca246 " leave the sects to Him" - nice cut and paste, no doubt Allah judges, but Allah also taught us to follow that, and teach it! So you are wrong to say not to oppose falsehood when Quran says the truth is clear and teach it, we didn't make new secs, they did when they opposed Quran... grow up!
@@andreeaboloca246 Gabriel seems more mature, i have strong audio memory and skipped over the parts i didn't want to hear using subtitles, the issue is they addressed their audience directly, thats rude, not bold, learn the difference, if anything its good in reminding us some ppl are immature in a territorial topic, or basely, even if you are young and strong feelngs you dont' impose on others, thats clear!
Clear the cash
47:03 @Gabriel Al Romani, could you please elaborate on what you said here? I did not understand
#clearthecache #pleaseher #sexisfromthefitrah
This video could’ve simply cover stuff that shouldn’t be done and the explain the reason behind it rather than giving sexual details about what can be done!
Why?
If he did that trust me people will be then asking what can be done??
Did Sheikh Fawzaan I think say oral sex was not allowed as it resembles what dogs do..
That's not a daleel from quran and sunnah it's just emotional talk
The only thing wrong with it is liquid entering the mouth which could be haram. As for resembling a dog, it's not a strong argument. The prophet(peace be upon him) didn't say it was haram even though he most probably knew about oral, therefore it high likely could be halal. Because, halal until proven haram and not the other way around.
It's cultural issue also..
@@shoaibhaq8680 Don't disrespect the scholars like that. Their opinion might be wrong but it's definitely not emotional talk.
@@aarfeenanees9147 I am all for respecting the shcolars but as Sunni salafis we also know how to evaluate the scholars though we give them massive benefit of the doubt, we aren't those extreme sufis who pray to imams which is shirk, his view could just be his view, and its not conclusive to many!
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Gabriel you should take down this video. You're very mature to handle the subjects in this video but the other two commentators are not.
#clearthecache
Im above average 😃
faiyad sometimes acts so immaturely.
That’s not nice is it. If he has,Then we all do sometimes, and that’sfine so long as we have Hayaa(shyness,especially from Allāh).
@@RochelleHa we all do but not in public right, teaching should always be mature, it was only a reminder of how not to do things, yes be considerate but this is also a territorial topic after all.
how come the prophet never addressed oral? did he forget??? plz someone answer its giving me doubts
There are other things that Prophet didn't address that we ask from Scholars and people of knowledge ask questions but don't worry it's shaitan whispering you doubts
The prophet s/a/w said everything is allowed except anal and sex during menstruation. Scholars explain the grey area that’s why some have a difference of opinion on oral, some say it’s in some say it’s disliked.
You’re not in sin so long as you take a view based on the evidences. Say Athuubilaah when you have wiswaasa.
Don’t ever make a video with these kids
Shaykh is great the boys are childish!
I can’t believe the brother said 5 or 5:1/2 is Normal size my goodness gracious that is little boy size. Ideal size to me is 8-10inches, because it satisfies the women.
Are you a woman?
Lol
Quality over quantity
Why does size even need to be discussed? That is such an inappropriate thing for Muslims to discuss. You don't find Muslims discussing bra sizes etc etc of a Woman!? This only leads to men feeling insecure.
What can a man do about that, Allaah creates how He wills
I'd rather die
Why bro?
You told people not to try to be ‘better than the prophet’, but I tell you try to be like the prophet because one thing for sure he would never say “eat it, son!”. The message could have been known without such terms and gestures! Don’t be better than the prophet but be like him as much as you could! You should not be at such an intimate level with anyone other than your wife, this is wrong and haram. It is good to have modesty, this is what our religion taught us! And you didn’t have to teach the men how to finger and such you could have told them that this this and this is haram/halal, and have communication with your spouse to know what they prefer. This is not helping the Ummah
This is helping the Ummah. In such hyper sexualized society it has become mandatory for men and women to learn how to please their partners. Sometimes such straightforwardness is allowed too.
I agree! It doesn’t need to be too sexual, we have to modest. I think the majority on here are not for education(Allāhu A’lam) but rather to hear all this. We are naturally created to know how to do it and not only that the beauty is to discover all these things, may be a push towards discovering these things to Muslims who no nothing or turn to porn for knowledge. But, teaching exactly how to put your finger in or lick I think that is too much and the Prophet alayhi salaatu wa salaam didn’t teach how to reach climax and licking, and if the error we are in demands it then it should be a serious talk and no joking about(or it’ll be like a group of friends having coffee talking about what to do to a women and her parts).
Yes a society that is hyper-sexualised but where is the limit when we are educating Muslims. There must be shyness from Allāh.
I also think, these people who are really desperate to learn how to do all these things need to focus on other aspects of their marriage, I don’t think nowadays days it’s sex(be Gab knows this more than me) but I’m saying usually it’s financial issues such as a lazy man or one who is stingy, or an abusive one or one who doesn’t know what romance is, and mainly clash of incompatibility and goals.
I think the main points that men need to be taught is Romance.
Yes, we do want to increase in knowledge but how are we if most probably have to do gusul after watching this(and it’s not bcoz they’re immature it’s becoz it’s natural and words have a same affect(if not worse) than touch itself.
Many go to the kufar for this knowledge but we must have a limit while we want them to learn in an Islāmic perspective.
Allāhu A’lam
It's annoying how too many people are saying in the comments about having no shame. Did the prophet Muhammad pbuh not talk about this?
Eat it my son was for the person, it shows there can be passion.
I am all for modesty as general society status pre marriage, we aren't animals.
I do agree the topic is territorial but i think Gabriel was educative without being graphic, overall he did a pretty good job, Allahuma Barik!
many bida sufi bida ppl have divided the community and then the family acting like preists, this isn't good at all. they fail and leave kids to secularism and learn their natural sex feelings they should be able to talk abotu just like iman with no one but ppl of xina. plus we live in a sexualized society which affect judgement, clear education while polite like the brother was can be done.
Great podcast, but what's app with the guy with the pink top ???? Don't be talking about mufti Menk when you wearing pink bro lol
Do you have a beard in real bro?
Dont t waste yr time listening to this.
Why not?
It’s not a waste of time at all.
A relevant podcast to many Muslims living in the west leading to many divorcees..
Brother Gabrielle gives a disclaimer at the beginning.. So if you don't take his experience of dealing with Muslims who come to the end of the road due to theses issues seriously from a professional that Muslims go to for counselling..
Need all aspects covered in Islam to make everything Ibaadah and make sure its halaal
Then don't cheat on your husband with a non muslim man
Why are you here?
Go away
Vile medieval ideology😢