People shy away from this particularly important topic, yet it is greatly beneficial in keeping the marriage spiced up and alive!!! I am from Uganda and many tribes have the culture of educating a woman what to do in the bedroom before she gets married. This role is carried out by the woman/young lady's paternal eldest Aunt.
Mashaallah a very beautiful relevant presentation that we as Muslims really need to hear from a Muslim counsellor. Well done and may Allah reward you for your effort.
alhamdulilah...really thankful to u for sharing very valuable but very rarely taught prophetic teachings...jazakumullahu khairan... these r fundamentls for becoming a bettr ummah but unfortunately people r still reeling under misconceptions & hypocrite beliefs solely due to lack of awareness...scholars shud do their part to eradicate such things....teaching everythng of prophets life but not going to family fundamentals( bettr person comes frm betr family, bettr family contributes to bettr society...bettr world) is nothing but jst peripheral polishing
My wife was new muslim she afraid to have sex because she thinks that she would looks old faster and her body would loose the shape so she used to give me exqusess and sleep with me ones every 3 months then i sopped asking for 3 years but took her to beach parks restaurants hotels movies shopping buying flowers nobody knows that we have a problem in bed then everyone started asking why no babies and then my wife started asking we cant sleep like this apart we should have a baby then i did research how to have a baby and found out her ovelation day and did it only one time had a baby boy he is now 9 years old until now no any connections with my wife just taking care of them but i lost my career growth because my mind is not stable without love and intimacy
21:00 omg as if an actual home video of someone is not haram because it's not a directed "performance" with actors XD It's haram not because it's unrealistic but firstly - it's haram to watch people naked and doing the thing that is supposed to be intimate.
( Do Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? ) Quran 2:62 '' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques ) Quran 22:40 [They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might. Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ? ( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? ) Quran 5 48 ''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions Islam mean "submission" to God ( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God ) Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God? Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work. Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God ) The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by good deeds ) God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him. ( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa ) Quran 5:5 ''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.'' Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion. Question to Muslim and Christian: Does God / Allah only answer your pray ? And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray? Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity? Quran 5:48 '' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise ) On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils. '' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise. '' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise. The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work
Malama maryam we have so many issues to complain about but meeting becomes very difficult for us, please how can we do I follow u on email, phone number but still there is no response
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Those of us who are unmarried are also learning.
People shy away from this particularly important topic, yet it is greatly beneficial in keeping the marriage spiced up and alive!!! I am from Uganda and many tribes have the culture of educating a woman what to do in the bedroom before she gets married. This role is carried out by the woman/young lady's paternal eldest Aunt.
Very true
I would like to know what advise they are given !
Masha Allah! I'm grateful for being a part of your program today
wallahi may allah reward for your work ; this topic is so important in islam but nobody have the courage to talk about it
Allahu akbar,mashallah,may our creator increase us in knowledge,aunty maryam one love one heart
Mashaallah a very beautiful relevant presentation that we as Muslims really need to hear from a Muslim counsellor. Well done and may Allah reward you for your effort.
alhamdulilah...really thankful to u for sharing very valuable but very rarely taught prophetic teachings...jazakumullahu khairan... these r fundamentls for becoming a bettr ummah but unfortunately people r still reeling under misconceptions & hypocrite beliefs solely due to lack of awareness...scholars shud do their part to eradicate such things....teaching everythng of prophets life but not going to family fundamentals( bettr person comes frm betr family, bettr family contributes to bettr society...bettr world) is nothing but jst peripheral polishing
Jzk allah sister. It is wonderful to educate us and clarify taboos about sex in Islam and to be considerate to our spouses.
May Allah reward you abundantly
May Allah bless you too. Thank you
May Allah bless you Hajia
My wife was new muslim she afraid to have sex because she thinks that she would looks old faster and her body would loose the shape so she used to give me exqusess and sleep with me ones every 3 months then i sopped asking for 3 years but took her to beach parks restaurants hotels movies shopping buying flowers nobody knows that we have a problem in bed then everyone started asking why no babies and then my wife started asking we cant sleep like this apart we should have a baby then i did research how to have a baby and found out her ovelation day and did it only one time had a baby boy he is now 9 years old until now no any connections with my wife just taking care of them but i lost my career growth because my mind is not stable without love and intimacy
Thanks ma. Please how can I get some counsel from you?
“Sex is a physical act. Intimacy is emotional
Considerate, open in communication, oral sex is not haram. What are the safe apps.
Good job
Sorry can someone write the books names n forward mentioned by shaikh since I can't hear them clearly
Taste of Honey. Women of Desire, Kunyaza
Can those books be placed on this forum please. May Allah bless you
Sure. Kunyaza. Taste of Honey. Women of Desire. By Habeeb Akande
What if you are married to a man that cannot satisfy his will sexual desire what can we do in such case
Loved this. Thanks 🙏
Bt what if othr side is shy to talk nythng abt intimcy
21:00 omg as if an actual home video of someone is not haram because it's not a directed "performance" with actors XD It's haram not because it's unrealistic but firstly - it's haram to watch people naked and doing the thing that is supposed to be intimate.
( Do Christians And Jews and "OTHER" non-Muslims go to Heaven? )
Quran 2:62
'' Those who believe (in the Quran) and those who follow the Jewish (scriptures) and the Christians and the Sabians->ANYAllah< Is The Protector Of Monasteries, Churches, Synagogues And The Mosques )
Quran 22:40
[They are] those who have been evicted from their homes without right - only because they say, " Our Lord is God " And were it not that God checks the people, some by means of others, there would have been demolished monasteries, churches, synagogues, and mosques in which the name of God is much mentioned. And God will surely support those who support Him. Indeed, God is Powerful and Exalted in Might.
Note: Why did Allah protected Churches and Synagogues if they worship false Allah ?
( Why Are There So Many Different Religions In The World ? )
Quran 5 48
''...... If God wanted He could have made all of you a single nation.( ie single religion ) But He willed otherwise in order to test you in what He has given you (ie Scriptures) therefore try to excel one another in good deeds. Ultimately you all shall return to God then He will show you the truth of those matters in which you '' >DISPUTE verb < not noun like other religions
Islam mean "submission" to God
( The above verse saying is that God will not accept a religion from the >MUSLIM< and the Non-Muslims but total "submission" to God )
Question: How Can Muslim And the Non-Muslim "submit" to the God?
Answer: Be kind to other human beings and Do not lie, Do not steal, Do not cheat, Do not hurt others, Do not be prideful and Do the charity work.
Note: If you obeyed all the ABOVE Allah-God's moral laws "YOU" submitted to God.( ie Islam mean "submission" to God )
The only people who will enter Paradise those who '' Submitted to God '' ( ie by good deeds )
God does NOT accept your religion of birth but only ''Your Total'' Submission to Him.
( God Allows Interfaith Marriages And Eat Food From the Christian And Jew And Vice Versa )
Quran 5:5
''This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers (ie Muslim ) and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture (ie Christian and Jew) before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith - his work has become worthless and he in the Hereafter will be among the losers.''
Note: > Only < Islam allows interfaith marriages (>14 hundredsSame God< but They are >ALL Corrupt< more or less, some more than others from their original foundational teaching. The older religion are MORE corrupted than newer religion.
Question to Muslim and Christian:
Does God / Allah only answer your pray ?
And God / Allah does not answer non Muslim / non Christian pray?
Did Allah '' Canceled '' all other religions Judaism and Christianity?
Quran 5:48
'' And We have revealed to you [O Muhammad] the Book in truth, confirming that which preceded it of the Scripture ( ie New and old Testament ) and as a criterion over it. So judge between them by what Allah has revealed and do not follow their inclinations away from what has come to you of the truth. >>>TO EACH OF YOU WE PRESCRIBED A LAW AND A METHODone nation>differ qualified < for to enter Paradise )
On the day of judgement God will ''NOT'' judge humanity bases on Sunni Muslim sect VS Shia Muslim sect ''NOR'' by Muslim VS non-Muslim >but< Doer of Goods VS Doer of Evils.
'' YOUR " birth in the Muslim's family is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
'' YOUR " religion / sect / foot long beard is NOT a > qualification < for to enter the Paradise.
The > qualification < to enter Paradise is > Faith in God and Good Work
Malama maryam we have so many issues to complain about but meeting becomes very difficult for us, please how can we do I follow u on email, phone number but still there is no response