Healing from a breakup, things you need to remember

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @Kay-815
    @Kay-815 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    you’re so strong! it’s just been two days for me but I know if you’ve been through it before you can get through it again!

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oww you are stronger than you think, believe me! And it's not easy every day, some days can be really hard but I remind myself what I want, what I deserve and that person did love me but wasn't ready to fight for us. Trust me at first I started questioning my worth, wondering why wasn't I enough for him to fight for but then I realized that I don't deserve less than what I want, no one does...I want more and I was fooling myself that I was ok and content with what I was being given. The only way to move on is to actually see your worth, that way you will never sell yourself for less. And that starts with practicing self love and understanding your love language and what YOU want🤎

  • @nazirwani1039
    @nazirwani1039 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your voice is sweet. Be blessed

  • @fruitsarelife7073
    @fruitsarelife7073 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you ❤❤❤I am going through the same thing.😢
    So we are going through this together sis.🙏🏾❤️
    Beautiful message.

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oww I am so sorry to hear that😟
      Be gentle with yourself and take care of yourself, it will get better, trust me🤎
      Sending you my love🤎

  • @Stylebyria
    @Stylebyria 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for your channel I found it when I needed it. Your channel is going to grow. Everything you said is 100% me and what I went through.

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being here🤎🥰 I am glad I was able to make you feel a little bit better 🤎

  • @Channelname-i5j
    @Channelname-i5j 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVE your haircut. Im going through a breakup right now and Im really glad i found your channel. I need to hear it will be ok. Thanks for posting.

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much 🥰
      I know it doesn't feel like it right now but it will get better and you are going to be ok🤎 Just give yourself some time and be kind and patient with yourself while going through this difficult moment

  • @shakhzosh
    @shakhzosh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It has been 8 months for me and I don't understand why I still feel sad from time to time. Like right now, I feel like crying, thinking about the past good times. And I started comparing myself, thinking "did he not love me coz I'm not an extrovert like his ex." Sometimes I feel so disappointed that even after 8 months, I'm not completely over it

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I understand how you are feeling and during my first break up, it took me soooo long to heal but blaming yourself for someone's lack of effort is not fair to you. It takes two to make something work, even if it gets hard, both need to want it equally to make it work. If someone is not willing to put their 100% on you then at the end, they are doing you a favor and opening the space for someone who will!
      We all deserve the love we believe in and nothing less🤎

    • @shakhzosh
      @shakhzosh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@victoriaros.e thank you for your words! At least despite the time it takes to heal, it is good to know there's light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes I hear situations of people being like "I'm with this new person, but I still miss my ex" or "I'm married with 2 children and I still love my ex" and it just terrifies me. But from your words of how u could move on and get over that person in the end, it is reassuring that I can do the same💛

    • @victoriaros.e
      @victoriaros.e  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shakhzosh ow you definitely can🤎
      And it's very important before moving to a next relationship to take the time to heal, to practise self love, understand what you want in a relationship and how you wish to be loved, that way you will never sell yourself for less neither settle for anything less than you want and deserve 🤎

  • @shakhzosh
    @shakhzosh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Haha yeah, girl, your hair looks really good! I also chopped off a lot of my long hair recently and it felt so relieving