How Aamna & Hassan Are Raising Their Children | HautePod Ep 2
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- How Aamna & Hassan Are Raising Their Children | HautePod Ep 2
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I will never be sick of you guys! You guys are like meeting old friends everyday, and giving us a respite. At the end of the day I sit with a cup of tea and unwind with u guys!!! LOVE IT!
Sameeee same same!!!! Plus my urdu gets so refined and better by hearing it. Love from Germany 🫶🏽
Same! I have to watch their video while ending my day
Same! They are part of our daily lives 😊❤
Same here
When hassan said I want my daughter to know that if somebody hit her to baap duniya hila de ge uska liye, it healed a little part of me inside. A daughter having this confidence can conquer the world.
Tuning into HautePod is like having smart friends in my ears! Educated, refreshingly unbiased, and their humor? It's like a bonus espresso shot for my funny bone. ☕😄. Thank you, Amna and Hassan. Love you guys ❤❤
Very well said 😁😎
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Can't agree more
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And have you thought of starting a book club! will be super fun! a monthly podcast on book of the month! Please Aamna Ma'am
This conversation is the shadow of my opinion. It was such a nice conversation. Go ahead #AmnaHassan..😊❤..
Salaams, wonderful conversation! I wish that all young adults listen to this important conversation and follow the advice. Being aware parents is paramount in raising human beings. Please more and more of these episodes.
What a valuable hautepod for a parent like me having toddlers… please talk more on this topic … keep rocking 👏🏼👏🏼
I wish parents should interact more often..it is the worst to have a feeling of distrust towards your parents
Hautepod ep 3. How Amna and Hassan met their spouses 🙃🙃
(Talk something about dynamics of marriage in todays time and some experiences from your own lives)
Thank you so much for sharing such beautiful thoughts. Listened to each and every word attentively. You should make it a weekly thing. I love listening to you guys. 💛💛
Being a mother of a 16-year-old boy, the conversation was truly relatable. The rapport between you two guys, it's fantabulous! #Aamna #Hassan ❤🇳🇵
So so important what you had discussed today❤ I am pregnant Alhumdulillah and I always think how I will raise my child how would I be his/her friend.. Today you podcast have helped me a lot you people gave me so many ideas and clarification❤ thank you so much for that.. I would love to hear about Amna’s husband that where he is or what is the relationship a husband and wife could have.
Your podcasts are so interesting & fun to listen I don’t want them to end ❤
I love your podcast❤
Thumbs up to Amna for raising kids single handedly. I think mothers can raise children as a single parent but fathers can't.
If father has the right mindset then yes he can
All married women operate as single parents in our sexist chauvinist world! Often the male is so incompetent that it falls on the woman to raise the kids ‘alone’ yet being married!!😳 it’s the mother who will get so much attitude to from the kids despite being the main career and also having a profession!
But i dont understand why did she
Amna I'm so happy you talked about this topic I can relate to you on so many levels being in the same age bracket as you and felt kinda relieved to know that those were the norms back then. I always felt angry towards my husband for not helping me with the kids but now I'm not exactly happy but kind of comforted in a different way.
I knew this guy who looked like the Hulk. He raised three daughters all by himself. He was so sweet and caring to them, just like the best of mothers. For the rest of the world he was just a regular tough sort of guy.
As someone who hasn't had a great relationship with her father, it's beautiful to see how invested Hassan is in his daughters' lives, as he should be, loved the way he talks about them, Masha Allah ❤ Amna's journey of raising her sons is equally inspiring and beautiful, mothers are truly special ❤️ loved this episode, seeing this side of you guys apart from all the dramas and stuff
Why do we not mention how important are the 5 daily prayers for our children's upbringing and "tarbiyah". This will give them all the qualities that you guys mention in the podcast as well
Don’t agree with Hassan about children to see you fighting. It makes them very anxious and you won’t even realize that their anxiety is because of your fights or bickering.
I agree but also its so hard to not argue in front of kids, i hate to make my kids anxious and therefore even if the argument does happen in front of kids its important to resolve it as soon as possible. I tell mine that parents can disagree and can argue but that doesn’t mean they don’t like or respect each other.
I really appreciate this new gen of young parents who r both equally involved in their children's upbringing. Its never too late to break non sense cultural norms.
Communication with kids starts with trust. It's very important for kids to know that when they confide in you, a) they won't be punished in any way or b) you won't tell anyone if they've asked you. You also need to show vulnerability
It’s such a fine balance between raising kids that are well adjusted versus those that are entitled. However old fashioned this sounds,there can never be a substitute for good manners and kindness.Everything good in life follows behind❤️
I was never excited about any podcast but you people have made me liking it .
This series is one of the best things happened to us viewers. And Hassan's Dil tounnn bachaa hai ji 👏 so classic 😂
There was nothing special about raising kids but listening to you both is always a pleasure.Amna is so lively and has a very balanced personality.Hasan is cute.Knowing little things about your personal lives brings us closer
Also, the point Aamna mentioned about the rat race, I resonate with it, you have to keep the child's personality in mind when it comes to education. If a child is innately competitive, you ought to support them through the challenges while constantly reminding them that their only competition is their own self.
Please keep feeding us with content yall are my primary and only source of comfort.
Dear Aamna pls do share your horror encounter as you once mentioned in one of the episode of SH😊🙂
The colour combinations you both have is like wao wao wao😂😂❤❤
You guys are born stars!!! Thank for yet another refreshing yet extremely insightful HautePod. It was lovely to get glimpses of you both as parents!! I have a question for you both- how important is it or how involved do you make the kids in your life? When Aamna mentions bring more or less a single parent, how has she dealt with discussing her relation with the boys’ father with them? Does Hassan discuss or are his girls aware of his interactions with celebrities? How does he keep his girls grounded on that front? This one needs a part 2… for sure!! Thank you for all that you do x
Omg how adorable are you Hassan? Such a sweet Dad!
Your girls are lucky to have you Masha Allah!
Stay blessed and enjoy your family 🙌🏻💖
Lovely to hear Amna's journey! I am more interested in her joinery actually! if you can do more podcast on her journey as a women in this is society. it would be lovely.
Already waiting for next podcast.. really really enlightening to hear the mature conversation between two smart people. Please continue doing such conversations.. love and duas ❤
Please do an episode on how to maintain healthy relationship with your spouse and in laws
I liked the podcast alot but there is one thing that I must say - I am sadened to see how little part religion plays in our parenting. It seems like religion only applies for "Alhamdulillah", "InshaAllah" and "MashaAllah".
We get to know so much about parenting through the Seerah for instance. But unfortunately, we do not want to let it inside us.
Listening to Amna telling stories of her kid's childhood in such a candid way was so intriguing and fun to listen . She was so honest throughout. We want more of such candid talks that feel like home ❤
I got divorced when my son was 6 months old, he is 5 now mashaAllah, I have been as single as a parent can be. Everything from finances to emotions, I'm the only one for him. He doesn't even know his father. It is alot of fun but sometimes it gets very lonely. I do have times which are rare where the loneliness reaches an extreme. I love being a mom but I wish every girl a lovely partner to raise their child with.
Ammin Allah apko bht sari khushia day sister..dua kijiye Allah tala mujy oulad ata kr den
Ye to meri sister ki story h same..or mere nephew ne bhi kabhi baap ka pyar nhe liya mjhe usko dekh dekh kr dil kat’ta h..mene or meri sis ne hr cheez di usay khush rakhte lekin father ka pyar zroori h..or jb 12 ya 14 years saal ka tha mera nephew to baap se mila agay se no response to mera nephew ab apne father ka zikar bhi sunna nhe chahta…
Allah ap k lye or ap k bete k lye boht asani farmaye Ameen
Proud of you!
Thank you...this was really a good one! Please don't stop talking about parenting!💙
A very mindful discussion. I could totally relate to you as a parent and as a 'family'.
I would like to request a HautePod on restarting career for women after a long break.
I've waited for this eagerly. Never fangirled over anyone except you guys. Loved the episode ❤
want to know the role of Amna's husband in her carrier. we also know she does'nt live with her husband. want to know more about it
I can watch u too talking anytime❤....such a nice session for parents ❤
I didn’t skip a sec of this video, Thank you for such a valuable podcast! May Allah bless both of you and your loved ones.
You have done podcasts about “how you met” and “ Raised children “ , now it’s time to do one podcast about your marital life, (Hasan & Iqra) Aamna & Haider) please 🙏
You guys are right that parents are not connected with their children that much..
I would like to listen more from Amina, although i loved listening from Hassan but I think Amina didn’t get enough time to speak! Amazing podcast as always.
I am not a parent even not married yet but I really enjoyed this podcast.❤
Same I am just 18 and enjoying it but still now our generation understand each deep thing we are really observant about all things 😅
samee
I have started rewatching your channel only because of HautePod episodes. Real humans talking about real stuff from their real lives with honesty ❤ Much better than watching cooked up unreal conflict-ridden stories of Dramas
U both are more than welcome in any format❤️
I discovered Something Haute because of Tere Bin reviews and then I came back for Kuch Ankahi and Ishq Murshid Reviews. I have watched both the HautePod episodes and for me, it is the most enriching kind of content. The mass communication student in me was extremely happy when both of you spoke about your journeys as well as setting up the TH-cam channel. There were so many important points about print and digital media as well as media entrepreneurship. Thoroughly enjoyed the conversation today and got to learn a lot from both of you. Both of you are the most inspiring and entertaining personalities. I pray for your health, happiness and look forward to more amazing HautePods. Sending you lots of love from India ❤
I’m from Dhaka, Bangladesh. I love watching your all kinds of content and conversations. Your new venture HautePod is very interesting.😊
We like these types of podcast but guys plz the next topic should be a light and fun discussion with you wit😂😂😂
Very nice topic , really enjoyed listening to both of you and appreciate your parenting skills.
great topic, great people, great conversation. I'll really appreciate amna who single-handedly raised their kids as a working mother. Thank you guys for this amazing HautePod.
It was a mixture of emotions watching the podcast. On one hand, it was uplifting to see the way children are raised in positive environment. On the other hand, person growing in a dysfunctional environment, this seems too utopian. Sad but it can be a foreign concept that some people grow up in supportive, loving & trusting environment
Same
"The concept of privilege" needs to be taught by action and not just words or else it remains just that: A concept.
This must be new for you but I have always listened to your videos as podcasts, it’s my favorite format🩷 but im glad it’s becoming official and that you guys are adding new topics 🫶🏼
Highly insightful session for me. Is conversation ko sun ke lag raha hai meri parenting tu hue hi nahi hai😂
Has anyone one ever noticed this that girls are not always cared for or appreciated or supported to progress professionally in life as compared to sons
. In-laws see her as an outsider aliens for all her life and never have a soft heart towards her as a human even and her own parents specially moms treat her always as a girl who will take everything to some outsider and shouldn’t be given anything but everything is for their sons . Majority of Pakistani parents are like this . Girls are raised strictly without freedom and any extra curriculum some cases even basic rights of education
Unless Allah helps them and they turn out independent and more well off than parents then the same family just emotionally black mails them all their life to get more money out of them
Really enjoyed this conversation 😊 Aamna I must say that I related so much with you hearing your experiences, being 33 years old with 3 young kids I’m doing the exact same thing that you did in terms of raising kids since handedly. Looking forward to the next episode 😊
Being a mother of a 5 and 3 years old, it is the much needed podcast for me and i can relate with a lot of things... enjoying alot
Its so nice to know you guys are such present parents. Listening to you guys reminds me of my own parents. My dad has always been a very involved father which is very unlike desi fathers. And so is my mother. I feel parents need to build a trust situation with their kids only then they will share their feelings with the parents. Now being a parent myself I try my level best to respect my 3 year old as an individual and not shove him away
You both are awesome so nice to see the second haute pod. ❤❤❤❤
I want to ask Amna that if her husband was not very present during the upbringing of their children, has she taught her children to help their partners wherever necessary if (hopefully) yes, how?
Please mind that it's not criticism just a query to learn from your experience.
Plus it's my absolute favourite topic want more episodes of it please
Just loved the podcast❤️ I think there should be a part 2 as well, where you should share some details of the parenting methods you used or use and also tell us what worked and didn’t work for you as parents. The whole podcast sounded very postive..but parenting is also not so positive at times. You have days where you feel tired and overwhelmed. I have a similar situation like Amna where I have to do most of the parenting. I would like Amna to share what kept her going without feeling burnt out? Here in the west we dont have house helpers, so its even tougher for a mother to raise kids. Did Amna have house help and other help while raising her kids? Please share some tough parts of your parenting as well and how you deal/dealt with them. Now when Amna have grown up kids, whats her challenges now? Please please make a part 2 of this podcast because we’ll love to hear your thoughts 🙏🏼❤
enjoyed this episode as well....
quite relatable to most working mothers.....
looking forward to more such episodes.....
The best thing about you guys are that your ideas are always and absolutely original . Every other drama reviewers are copycats . Like I had followed others too and noticed how they copied you or trying to compete with you . That's why something haute is so popular.
First year of my daughter going to school, one day my daughter came home crying saying someone called her something. I immediately wrote a letter to the teacher and CC the principal that I will not tolerate bullying. I sent a happy child to school and I expect the school to return a happy child at the end of the day and every day and I don’t want my child to tell me she doesn’t wanna go to school because of anxiety she in felling inside of her.
The principal talked to my daughter and she saw the school counselor and they took care of that problem. I know the girls who were “mean” to her had to take some after school behavior classes and learn to be kind with others and what not.
From my end I felt like I did the right thing and my daughter knew I was and always will be there for her , but after few years I realized that she stoped sharing her problems with me because she thought I overreact to the problem.
Now she is grown up and told me that at that time her leaving the class to talk to the counselor and principal and her teacher being careful while talking to her she felt she wasn’t a normal kid and kids avoided playing with her. That’s why she stoped telling me the details whenever I asked “ how was school “
An advice from a parent to parent would be that you never know how to raise the kids. Just go with the flow because kids will never be satisfied 😉
I was thinking the same thing. If my parent had wrote a letter to my principal whenever someone said mean thing to me, alot of people might have avoided being friends with me. Parenting is tough. I think its better to teach your kid to handle bullies. You intervening shouldn't be the first step.
Keep doing it.....
Intelligent conversation..Really enjoyed it
This was a brilliant second HautePod by you both. Thank you!
Although I don’t have children of my own yet, I definitely could relate to almost all of your concerns and conversations about learning and unlearning parenting/behaviours from one’s own parents.
Growing up we did not have enough support and ease of communication with our parents especially around sexuality and biophysical issues, but Im hopeful those who listen to you (our extended Haute family) will be learning and practising a lot better than those before us.
Also, khush houti hai k Pakistan main ajj kal k zamaane main bhi app donou jese woke and aware parents hain. Your children will be better of the lot. Alhamdulillah! Go you guys!!! ❤❤
What happened to amna’s husband?
ROOH achi dalna ohhh Amna mind blowing Dua ❤️❤️❤️
Very nice Hautepod!! The way Amna you said you raised your children single handedly same with my Mother. I think that generation was very different. Me & my brother confide everything with her. We are both 30+ but she still listens about our work & stuff & tries to understand. We were never previliged but our parents tried to provide us whatever was in their capacity. And I am so grateful for our upbringing, that we have turned out to be decent human beings, we are able to live a comfortable life & give our parents the things that they were not able to enjoy earlier. Also, I personally think good education is very very important and a parent must make the child realise that. A parent must not push the child to come top of the class but always encourage them to improve. Just pass hojao feels a very wrong thing to say to a child.
I just never get bored listening to you guys! Shukriya aap dono ka, ki aap dono ko sunte hue din ke kuch minutes sukoon se guzar te hai ❤️❤️
Omg yayyy Haute Pod no.2 is here 🤩🥳
Gosh! I have never ever listened to any podcasts but here u both are & cant stop hearing u talk 😍🫶🏼
Oh wow
I recently had annual function in school and my theme was let your child have a say ….. in that I educated parents about some wrong common behaviours they do and that’s not right for them and how they are suppose to communicate with their children and all and now listening to u both is so refreshing and I feel great
I am from India and never misses any of your show. Can you please discuss Pyar Ke Sadqay… one of the best drama ever made… loved Yumna in it
they have reviewed it when it came out you can go watch their old reviews
This was so fun you guys! Please continue with this conversations forever and ever!!!
Love love and only love to both of you❤❤❤
This HautePod’s topic was very important, interesting and informative. Enriched by your discussion and thoroughly enjoyed.❤❤
Amna & Hassan, I recently started watching/listening to y’all as my mother motivated me to do so (since she always talked about you guys). I absolutely love most of your review videos & recently your podcast videos were very innovative & informative. You guys have become my traveling companion ❤
Suggestion- I really hope one day you all do a podcast video (based on your experiences) on how to handle/make/break relationships (especially in terms of marriage- in a general /universal way)!! Thank you & much love all the way from US!! May Allah bless you both!! 😇🧿
Listening to amna checking if i am doing this, this this..i admire amna. Being Liberal yet not being madar pidar aazad..being progressive in Pakistan is hard..along with tht being mum of boys,working and single parent later in life...commendable
Your podcast have a taste of its own. It's not monotonous and typical. Please keep up the good work.
Finally..i was waiting..since i dunt find a single drama worth watching i was not able to watvj the reviews but missed u two😂...i know u ppl love dur e fishan but its a task to watch her..please do regular haute bites and haute pot..ik b acha drama nahi hai is wekt..mutlub roastable wala acha b nahi hai unfortunately..please do this regularly
Thank you so much for sharing this insight 👏🏼 People need to have more open conversations about raising children
bst topic
I listen each and every episode if your show
Keep making this type of podcast, about different topics
I loved loved loved this one podcast. Literally learnt a lot from both of you. Please do these in regular intervals. 👌👌💕💕💕
Again!! Absolutely love this haute-pod!! Such a great topic, respect and so much love for your vulnerability and sharing your experiences. It’s wonderful to be able to relate with your thoughts while simultaneously learning from both your stories!
It was such a delight hearing both of you on a personal level. I respect and admire you both so much. Being a parent myself and about to have my second baby, I could relate to this topic so much. Especially raising kids outside of Pakistan, there are so many things you have to be mindful of. Thank you for bringing up this important topic.
Really enjoyed ur conversation.. Aamna big fan of yours. Listening ur talks so impressed n proud of u. Love from India❤❤
Like Amna said I also enjoyed my pregnancy too.
I was also 24 when I had my 1 st child .
Then my girls five years apart
We girls had great time together ❤
We live here in America and yeah raising kids here is different than India
Because they like to follow their friends
But again how much time you give your kids,
It pays off ❤
Love them❤❤❤❤
The aesthetics of the podcast are on point 👌🏽
Movei k scenes ya songs child hood mai dekhana over exposure hai ….aesy mai dongs forward kerna n aesy scenes firward kerna he better hai to show ur kids this is wrong n we are akso not watching so automatically kids follow parents n know that this is something wrong n our parents are also not watching
I always love these two ..❤❤❤their bond with fine boundaries
I agree with Aamna that you should listen, show empathy but at the same time help them fight it themselves and understand that sometimes life is not fair. I have tendency to pamper and would say did you tell teacher but I got feedback from teachers that she need to learn to solve the dispute instead of telling teacher each time.
This episode was very interesting. Next one should be about your childhood and adolescence memories.
Amna and Hassan You both are raising your kids so well ... Entire podcast is so good 😊want to see your kids someday 🥹🥹
I am 36, and for the last 15 years, I haven't had anybody to share my stories and everyday things or problems with anyone. As my friends were toxic and my siblings were busy. Many people don't have anybody to share things with anyone.
Please go and watch Mannat murad's latest promo. 😂😂 Oh my god it is so so good. Now i need a 1 hour haute review only on that episode please 😂😂😊😊
What an amazing sensible conversation you guys had, bravo #Amna #Hasan Bhai. Keep growing x
Interesting Conversation guys love to hear you both always❤
Please keep the next topic as marriage
3:20 I ONLY WATCH THE INTROSSSSSS😂