I look a little crazy in the thumbnail, right? That's what it can feel like to be a 3/5!🤣I wouldn't change it for anything though as I am learning to love my design and actively decondition the not-self along the way. Wanna connect so that you can learn to love your design and actively decondition too? Reach out! drkateflynn@gmail.com
At your stage do you still bump around through trial and error, or has that calmed down? Will we be this way the rest of our lives? I’ve just turned 40 as a 3/5 generator, and have had a pretty unusual life “bumping into everything” as you’ve said. It feels like I’ve reached a place of mastery in a way, but I’m a little afraid rn to take another step forward (that last “bump” was a pretty big one)..
@@evolvefly2981 Yes, Yes, and Yes! I'm no longer wrecking cars or other people's relationships🙌🏻 Any drama that does ensue is much less dramatic. The fascinating thing to me is that strategy and authority are always correct, but that 3 line will still come out and say, "Yeah, but we should at least try and see." Reclaim the power that's wrapped up in that last bump and see what happens. Lemme know if you'd like a little guidance?
Thanks for sharing! I can definitely relate to all you said 💯 I was in hibernation and re-entered the community in a new town (I'm in Johnson City, TN- not far from you 😁). I found a healing center near me and joined a Women's coaching group that meant once a week. I lasted three sessions before I took off on a 45-day solo road trip out west 🚘 I gave it a shot- I guess I'm not fully ready to people yet 😅
So much love to you, I know exactly what you mean. For me, learning to and actively choosing to radically accept all of it is what really opened the door to love my design and move forward authentically. If you want some guidance, please reach out. 💞
Hey Kristina, I am a 3/5 Emotional Projector also. I have found this to be a difficult placement. It hasn’t been easy for me either, especially given the themes within my chart. Keep going. I’ve realised given time that I have gifts that are needed in this world. I tend to create tension and transformation within others. This is not always received well. Something that helped me tremendously is learning the self-love thing. If you can find peace within who you are as a person, and learn what it is to follow your own flow ~ then you’ll shift through things with more grace. Also for me there was a need to see rejection as being for my protection. If somebody rejects me, then I know for a fact they don’t see me ~ and that is okay. I’ve had to learn that I cannot and will not be everybody’s cup of tea. One more thing. Seek to learn when to gift your energy to people. Not everybody has earned it. You will feel seen by those who are for you, and they will be willing to grow with you. Look for those people. Those are the people you can build a solid foundation with. Hope this has helped. You may have learned all these things already. Either way I want you to know I understand the struggle. I truly do. 💖🌼
I’m a 3/5 emotional generator, and I love strangers and find I have a very easy way with those that connect with me. I love social occasions which does make me more gregarious than most but then I do retreat for days after I’ve been out for a bit. 🤣
Im a 3/5 ego projector and its impossible to find information on that profile but putting these small pieces together helps. We have moved 15 times in the last 10 yrs lol
Yeah, super rare! My husband is a 3/5 splenic projector. I did an interview with him for the channel several months ago in case you wanna check that out. Thank you for your comment!
Omg, as a fellow 3/5 (EmotionalProjector), I want you to know your explanation of our type, what we need, how we reacr/respond, is the best one I've ever heard. 💜🙏💜🦋💜
@@drkateflynn people projecting onto me what they are. Blaming me when they call me vile names, when I bring up an action that was done by them. I won't give details because it wrong to discuss their problems without their permission. What else could I mean; besides someone blaming me for their actions? Maybe like a person I'm dealing with who listens to childhood-adult memories, dreams and aspirations and proceeds a week later to repeat them as her own and tries to convince me that my perception is wrong. Luckily I Hav witnesses to her antics. Gaslighting is also projection-
@@transcendence8888I look at projections as invitations that are either correct or incorrect for me to accept. I've definitely done some deconditioning from my acceptance of those that were not correct. 🥴
@@drkateflynn wow 4 months later I came back to this video and totally forgot about this comment, so sorry! I'm trying to enjoy it, it's getting better now that I'm aware of the people pleasing tendencies and accepting projections that are not what I truly want for myself. I'm 25 now and as a RAX of vessel of love 1 i'm learning to love myself more and to not expect validation from others. Hopefully I'll thrive ❤ thank you.
It’s so funny that I was introduced to human design in 2016 at a retreat, but it absolutely had no traction at the time. Now though, I’m totally captivated! I’m also a 3/5 manifesting generator and am at beginning stages of learning what that means…everything I’ve read so far explains SO much and gives me a feeling of being understood. Thank you for your own perspective-it’s so cool to hear a personal account-have only watched this video so far but I’m going to check out additional ones.
Timing changes everything! Cool that it came back around and resonated with you. 😊 I recently started The School for Active Deconditioning here on TH-cam, it's free, and open to all. Here's think to the Preparation play list, in case it resonates with you: th-cam.com/play/PLrCE9Shtr96rfa4ygfk98Z21ZTCcl8ju5.html&si=5eDq_B-EHZ1c3qHV
Human design was so helpful to me! It's probably more helpful for 3s than any other line. I understand myself so much better and even enjoy being a 3, it's a fun ride 🙂
In my journey learning that I’m a 3/5 splenic projector, I’ve learned that nothing in my life is working and feeding me, but the need to pay bills activates the survival need of my design but feeling drained and bitter. I’m curious to hear about how your husband has successfully navigated his human design.
Matt came home from work one day and said, "If I keep doing this, I'm going to have a heart attack and die." That's when we started seriously exploring the idea of selling everything and moving to Ecuador. We've had an opportunity to really go all in on the experiment and deconditioning process here that he doesn't think would have been possible in the states. It's a slower pace of life and it is a much more affordable place to live. His words: "Unless you are independently wealthy or have a partner that can financially support you, it's a conundrum for projectors. It's a generator world."
@@drkateflynn -thank you for sharing his experience that led to the discovery. I have had to work an 8-5 job my whole life. Only since covid lockdowns on the west coast, I cannot keep up anymore. Before being forced to move back to the midwest, I worked from home, so that I could make that work. The current job will not let me work from home. My partner is a 1/5 emotional projector, and I have to do the heavy lifting in this relationship because he has zero ability to handle stress. He found a behind the scenes kind of job, but neither of us can afford part time at the moment. I had to dial back caring for my aging parents on the weekend because my body actually shut down. Where I live at, it seems to be a manifesting generator world with zero tolerance for projectors. I am definitely where I need some coaching to get me to learn what I need to do. I know what energizes me, but none of that is present in the current environment.
I got my first BF, in basic training. He saw me while I was on crutches, because I got ran over by a taxi. It has taken me decades (50 next month) to completely own and accept my awkwardness is endearing to others, while embarrassing to me. hahahah. 3/5 Pure MG
Thank you for sharing! Ran over by a taxi, ouch.😳 We were returning to the ship after an afternoon date. He was so cute. I was being pretty flirtatious as we were parting ways. I backed away, turned around and walked right in to announcement easel! I wanted to crawl into a hole...he laughed🤣 If we all (3/5's) came together to share our most embarrassing stories, we'd have a best seller on our hands!
I'm a 3-5 projector and it says I will have a fast track lifetime is that maturity of mastery or die young? I'm 23 and I'm becoming my full self embracing it but always wondered what that meant.
What feels true for you? For me, and my 3/5 projector husband, it's looked like a lot of opportunities to learn and grow from a very young age. We collect experiences and extrapolate data.
I understand. I was resentful until I decided to fall in love with it. I used to look back and all I saw were mistakes. Now I look back and see that I was collecting data. If there's anything I could do to add a little more ease and grace to your experience, please inform me. 💞
Yes I had a gut wrenching reaction initially to my hd chart, but then went back to it intrigued. I looked into it a bit more and I realised what it actually did was free me completely from the expectations of society and others. But now I see how much ease it brings to your life if you just let go. Really great hearing your experience Kate. Thank you.❤
Now i understand why my body got so till and damage by me trying to fit in a normal 9-5 job witch didnt alow me to make misstakes. (because it was bookkeesping) but i am having suck a Hard time to let myself try (and maybe fail) because my conditionings as a Child so i just cant move forward 🤷 having a Hard time feeling my respons or believing i can heal and support us financially in my own way.
That's my husband's design. He's shared his experience in a couple videos if you'd like to check them out: th-cam.com/video/8e3UJi0L0VI/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/uUMz2cg3jpo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=EmhfrYuBXzqwxw0C.
I did not love my design when I first found about it. 😕 When I started to lean in and get curious about how I could use it to my advantage, things started to change. Are you a pure generator or do you have emotional authority?
@Insertquartertocontinue that is tragic indeed. I used to jump into rash decisions and then realized why that never worked well for me once I learned about my emotional authority. I went to one of Mary Ann's immersion experiences a couple of years ago and was amazed by the amount of overthinking going on in those with sacral authority. You literally have an immediate answer, but how quickly the mind sneaks in and hijacks it. The kryptonite to your superpower. Lean in and neutralize it. You're here to change the game.
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I look a little crazy in the thumbnail, right? That's what it can feel like to be a 3/5!🤣I wouldn't change it for anything though as I am learning to love my design and actively decondition the not-self along the way. Wanna connect so that you can learn to love your design and actively decondition too? Reach out! drkateflynn@gmail.com
At your stage do you still bump around through trial and error, or has that calmed down? Will we be this way the rest of our lives?
I’ve just turned 40 as a 3/5 generator, and have had a pretty unusual life “bumping into everything” as you’ve said. It feels like I’ve reached a place of mastery in a way, but I’m a little afraid rn to take another step forward (that last “bump” was a pretty big one)..
@@evolvefly2981 Yes, Yes, and Yes! I'm no longer wrecking cars or other people's relationships🙌🏻 Any drama that does ensue is much less dramatic. The fascinating thing to me is that strategy and authority are always correct, but that 3 line will still come out and say, "Yeah, but we should at least try and see." Reclaim the power that's wrapped up in that last bump and see what happens. Lemme know if you'd like a little guidance?
Thanks for sharing! I can definitely relate to all you said 💯
I was in hibernation and re-entered the community in a new town (I'm in Johnson City, TN- not far from you 😁).
I found a healing center near me and joined a Women's coaching group that meant once a week.
I lasted three sessions before I took off on a 45-day solo road trip out west 🚘
I gave it a shot- I guess I'm not fully ready to people yet 😅
A solo 45 day road trip sounds pretty amazeballs, good for you💫 Glad you found it relatable!
I' m 3/5, emotional projector. Just started with the deconditioning and is freaking hard.somtimes I just want to jump out from my skin and leave😞
So much love to you, I know exactly what you mean. For me, learning to and actively choosing to radically accept all of it is what really opened the door to love my design and move forward authentically. If you want some guidance, please reach out. 💞
Hey Kristina, I am a 3/5 Emotional Projector also. I have found this to be a difficult placement. It hasn’t been easy for me either, especially given the themes within my chart.
Keep going. I’ve realised given time that I have gifts that are needed in this world. I tend to create tension and transformation within others. This is not always received well.
Something that helped me tremendously is learning the self-love thing. If you can find peace within who you are as a person, and learn what it is to follow your own flow ~ then you’ll shift through things with more grace.
Also for me there was a need to see rejection as being for my protection. If somebody rejects me, then I know for a fact they don’t see me ~ and that is okay. I’ve had to learn that I cannot and will not be everybody’s cup of tea.
One more thing. Seek to learn when to gift your energy to people. Not everybody has earned it. You will feel seen by those who are for you, and they will be willing to grow with you. Look for those people. Those are the people you can build a solid foundation with.
Hope this has helped. You may have learned all these things already. Either way I want you to know I understand the struggle. I truly do. 💖🌼
I’m a 3/5 emotional generator, and I love strangers and find I have a very easy way with those that connect with me. I love social occasions which does make me more gregarious than most but then I do retreat for days after I’ve been out for a bit. 🤣
Yes yes yes!!! I’m a mani/geni 3/5 and I just discovered HD at 68 and I love it!!!
That's wonderful, glad you're enjoying your experiment 🥳
Im a 3/5 ego projector and its impossible to find information on that profile but putting these small pieces together helps.
We have moved 15 times in the last 10 yrs lol
Yeah, super rare! My husband is a 3/5 splenic projector. I did an interview with him for the channel several months ago in case you wanna check that out. Thank you for your comment!
Omg, as a fellow 3/5 (EmotionalProjector), I want you to know your explanation of our type, what we need, how we reacr/respond, is the best one I've ever heard. 💜🙏💜🦋💜
Thank you so much! 💞
Thank you so much! 💞
And I'm a 3/5 mental projector and I agree 😅
I'm a 3/5 manifesting generator. Decomditioning from all the false projections.
Curious to know what you mean by false projections?
@@drkateflynn people projecting onto me what they are. Blaming me when they call me vile names, when I bring up an action that was done by them. I won't give details because it wrong to discuss their problems without their permission. What else could I mean; besides someone blaming me for their actions? Maybe like a person I'm dealing with who listens to childhood-adult memories, dreams and aspirations and proceeds a week later to repeat them as her own and tries to convince me that my perception is wrong. Luckily I Hav witnesses to her antics. Gaslighting is also projection-
@@transcendence8888I look at projections as invitations that are either correct or incorrect for me to accept. I've definitely done some deconditioning from my acceptance of those that were not correct. 🥴
as a 3/5 generator, it's been quite a ride
Yep! Are you enjoying it?
@@drkateflynn wow 4 months later I came back to this video and totally forgot about this comment, so sorry! I'm trying to enjoy it, it's getting better now that I'm aware of the people pleasing tendencies and accepting projections that are not what I truly want for myself. I'm 25 now and as a RAX of vessel of love 1 i'm learning to love myself more and to not expect validation from others. Hopefully I'll thrive ❤ thank you.
It’s so funny that I was introduced to human design in 2016 at a retreat, but it absolutely had no traction at the time. Now though, I’m totally captivated! I’m also a 3/5 manifesting generator and am at beginning stages of learning what that means…everything I’ve read so far explains SO much and gives me a feeling of being understood. Thank you for your own perspective-it’s so cool to hear a personal account-have only watched this video so far but I’m going to check out additional ones.
Timing changes everything! Cool that it came back around and resonated with you. 😊 I recently started The School for Active Deconditioning here on TH-cam, it's free, and open to all. Here's think to the Preparation play list, in case it resonates with you: th-cam.com/play/PLrCE9Shtr96rfa4ygfk98Z21ZTCcl8ju5.html&si=5eDq_B-EHZ1c3qHV
This is so very much relatable. Thank you for sharing !
Fee in 💚with You Soul 😇
Absolutely Helpful ⛲️🙏
Great video this resonates
So glad to hear, thank you for sharing!
Human design was so helpful to me! It's probably more helpful for 3s than any other line. I understand myself so much better and even enjoy being a 3, it's a fun ride 🙂
Understanding how it works helped me enjoy the ride a lot more, that's for sure! I'm glad HD has helped you too😊
In my journey learning that I’m a 3/5 splenic projector, I’ve learned that nothing in my life is working and feeding me, but the need to pay bills activates the survival need of my design but feeling drained and bitter. I’m curious to hear about how your husband has successfully navigated his human design.
Matt came home from work one day and said, "If I keep doing this, I'm going to have a heart attack and die." That's when we started seriously exploring the idea of selling everything and moving to Ecuador. We've had an opportunity to really go all in on the experiment and deconditioning process here that he doesn't think would have been possible in the states. It's a slower pace of life and it is a much more affordable place to live. His words: "Unless you are independently wealthy or have a partner that can financially support you, it's a conundrum for projectors. It's a generator world."
@@drkateflynn -thank you for sharing his experience that led to the discovery. I have had to work an 8-5 job my whole life. Only since covid lockdowns on the west coast, I cannot keep up anymore. Before being forced to move back to the midwest, I worked from home, so that I could make that work. The current job will not let me work from home. My partner is a 1/5 emotional projector, and I have to do the heavy lifting in this relationship because he has zero ability to handle stress. He found a behind the scenes kind of job, but neither of us can afford part time at the moment. I had to dial back caring for my aging parents on the weekend because my body actually shut down. Where I live at, it seems to be a manifesting generator world with zero tolerance for projectors.
I am definitely where I need some coaching to get me to learn what I need to do. I know what energizes me, but none of that is present in the current environment.
@@drkateflynntotally agree as a 3/5 mental projector 😅
I got my first BF, in basic training. He saw me while I was on crutches, because I got ran over by a taxi. It has taken me decades (50 next month) to completely own and accept my awkwardness is endearing to others, while embarrassing to me. hahahah. 3/5 Pure MG
Thank you for sharing! Ran over by a taxi, ouch.😳 We were returning to the ship after an afternoon date. He was so cute. I was being pretty flirtatious as we were parting ways. I backed away, turned around and walked right in to announcement easel! I wanted to crawl into a hole...he laughed🤣 If we all (3/5's) came together to share our most embarrassing stories, we'd have a best seller on our hands!
I'm a 3-5 projector and it says I will have a fast track lifetime is that maturity of mastery or die young? I'm 23 and I'm becoming my full self embracing it but always wondered what that meant.
What feels true for you? For me, and my 3/5 projector husband, it's looked like a lot of opportunities to learn and grow from a very young age. We collect experiences and extrapolate data.
@@drkateflynn Thats very true thank you ❤️
Someone did already overhaul HD into a more positive approach. She calls it Quantum Healing Design.
Her name is Karen Curry Parker
Thanks!
I love your hair
Thanks!
3/5 manifestor, I really resent my human design it’s very isolating but what can you do 😊
I understand. I was resentful until I decided to fall in love with it. I used to look back and all I saw were mistakes. Now I look back and see that I was collecting data. If there's anything I could do to add a little more ease and grace to your experience, please inform me. 💞
Yes I had a gut wrenching reaction initially to my hd chart, but then went back to it intrigued. I looked into it a bit more and I realised what it actually did was free me completely from the expectations of society and others. But now I see how much ease it brings to your life if you just let go. Really great hearing your experience Kate. Thank you.❤
Now i understand why my body got so till and damage by me trying to fit in a normal 9-5 job witch didnt alow me to make misstakes. (because it was bookkeesping) but i am having suck a Hard time to let myself try (and maybe fail) because my conditionings as a Child so i just cant move forward 🤷 having a Hard time feeling my respons or believing i can heal and support us financially in my own way.
I am on the point when I hate the profile because it is soo true and annoying for me
The quicker you learn to love it, the easier life will be. 🥳 Want some help? If so, I'd love to work with you.
There is nothing bad about the language of human design, and nothing about it needs to be changed.
Thank you for letting me know it is true for you 😊
What about a 3/5 martyr/heretic as a projector?!
That's my husband's design. He's shared his experience in a couple videos if you'd like to check them out: th-cam.com/video/8e3UJi0L0VI/w-d-xo.html and th-cam.com/video/uUMz2cg3jpo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=EmhfrYuBXzqwxw0C.
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Hate being 3/5 manifesting generator
I did not love my design when I first found about it. 😕 When I started to lean in and get curious about how I could use it to my advantage, things started to change. Are you a pure generator or do you have emotional authority?
@@drkateflynn sacral
@@Insertquartertocontinue overthinker?
@@drkateflynn tragic overthinker
@Insertquartertocontinue that is tragic indeed. I used to jump into rash decisions and then realized why that never worked well for me once I learned about my emotional authority. I went to one of Mary Ann's immersion experiences a couple of years ago and was amazed by the amount of overthinking going on in those with sacral authority. You literally have an immediate answer, but how quickly the mind sneaks in and hijacks it. The kryptonite to your superpower. Lean in and neutralize it. You're here to change the game.