I failed once so badly,I cried out so loud and there were just my parents and brother who stood up by my side just making me realize that study isn't life.Life is much more bigger than this and you gotta see much greater challenges in life and you need to face it.So just accept the past and give the 100%for your future.Never let self doubt destroy your confidence.Keep trying,you will fail once , twice,thrice and you will have the courage to move on with the results you got.❤️ Life is acceptance and moving ahead! Much more greater things are waiting for you,just sitting depressed in one corner and crying won't work. I am gonna prove myself and Yes The one who is reading this we the failures will once prove everyone our success!❤️
Aishah is the perfect example of nazuk pari. Are agar tune sirf 1din ke liye agar apne baap ka stress liya toh phir suicidee toh chod tu direct apne aap ka exorcismm kar degi 😒😒
I got 2 backlogs in my first year of Engineering and 3 backlogs in my final year of Engineering and passed with 49% in 2003. Now I own a company and am planning to open a second branch because of good profits. And in my company, we do not ask for marks, we ask for hobbies and projects for hiring. Guys remember, it’s NOT marks, it’s your love, interest and curiosity in a field that makes you good. I did NOT take Engineering for placements, I took it because I loved repairing electronics and computers. And now people with 98% from my class say they have lesser job satisfaction than me.
My dad gave everything i want .....best tution,all books i needed and i got less marks than excepted .... I am sorry dad ....i have no courrage to tell him my marks🥺
its ok u discovered that your not meant for mugging up things, find the passion which you want to pursue rather than regretting it. its just a part of your life and dont regret the same.
I can understand you and my family situation is also not good I really really tried my best in 12th board still I got 65% because of Corona my life is ruined
@@bangtan4316 not only yours corona also ruined my life I got 83 in 10th and hardly managed to get 58 in 12th my dad was very disappointed with my marks I was depressed
Yahan 12th ke bache iit me na jaa paane ki vajeh se depressed hote hain ..and iit me admission le lene wale bache vahan jaa ke depressed hain ....wtf man😔
@@ritikakainth4500 im a medical student at Nagpur national college nd here most of the students are either depressed or dead inside due to the competition
@@Victor-lt9cg i am in 12th ...perparing for jee ....ye iit bombay wala comment dekh ke bura laga mujhe ......mere saare friends itni mehnat kar rahe hain iit ke liye ....and some of my seniors are depressed because vo iit me nahi jaa paaye ....but yahan bache iit me jaane ke baad depressed hain .....
It's the parents, not the children. The parents compete with other parents like Parent 1: my kid got 98% Parent 2: my kid got 99% Parent 1: (goes home) Parent 1: (scolds child for getting less than Parent 2's kid)
Armyyyyyyy ..... actually these days I was really into bts and kpop etc. so I was not paying attention to my studies now I am really stressed about my future
@@dilawarkhan6323 same here ....but army remember once Namjoon said if you want to meet us , then study hard now! Watch bts as a reward for what work you have done at the last hours of day ! I am also going to do same ...from today onwards let's learn how to work hard from our idols💜✌🏻saranghae army's and keep fighting !!!!!!!!!
I am in 7th class I studied very hard- day and night (at night I've to hide from my parents while studying because they asked me to sleep but I didn't), then when the exam time came my mom didn't lemme appear for it because of Covid-19 (we had offline exams) then however in the mid of exams I started giving them and then gave re test for the left over exams and when the results came I got 88% I expected more around 90. In maths (lemme tell you I am really good at math) I got 54 out of 80 I couldn't believe it. From next month (10 dec) I have another exams but I can't just study, my mom is constantly taunting me and saying I never study I am a backbencher and stuff (I always get above 95%), wherever I sit to study I get a flashback of all my hardwork I did for half yearly exams and the result I got, I couldn't study anymore. If I ask my mom she starts to scream at me and says my strategy is wrong and blah blah blah and says I'll never help you in your studies from now on (she never does, I'm studying since 5 grades on my own and scoring great marks.) I just can't understand what to do? How to study after all the things I have went through? Wheov is reading this I hope they get whatever they want in their lives and thanks a lot for my long long story
It's okay dear, she is your mom after all. I don't know u in person but may be she have seen something different in your behavior or anything else. But it's okay. Don't feel negative bcox of this all. Try to tell your mom what she thinks is wrong with your strategy. Then on proceed further. Belive in yourself. You can take a help of your teachers too. They may help u much more and show u thr right path. And yeah don't burden yourself much. Try to make much work out of less time. It will help u in future too. Stay blessed and safe❣️
No - 1 point ur already inprblm don't let others discourage and break u anymore bcuz that will only worsen ur mental condition ,so try to avoid those places whenever she is screaming u.She might have lost her temper and hope over u .Don't lose it,uk urself and u Will prove her ur worth .Don't be angry at her love and respect her but don't give her the chance to make u feel bad Be resilient its the rule of world to live u alone when u fail and join when u succeed
Parents and society pressurise more than a student thinks of marks . That's kids/students take seriously as the surroundings matters so much where they live daily when they pressurise and keep asking kitne marks aaye and comparing goods scorers 😒
yeah exactly..why our parents compare us with other kids..everyone has there own thinking and.. study skills we should not judge any kid by his or her %
I do agree with this my parents are satisfied with my marks but when one of my relatives called my dad telling his daughter scored much better than me they started scolding me they started comparing they started insulting me they started pressuring me which makes me feel depressed
For listening it's too good, but in practical, only possible solution is to enjoy your life to the core every moment, don't think about any problems,just leave them, because they are temporary,mark my words, it's true success, being happy all the time,life is too short to be unhappy
it's ridiculous , opportunity missed never come back it just a ball for someone who has got everything like him but for someone it mean a lot it broke emotional confidence and financial loss too .
I can proudly say that my parents never force me to score high Mark's they support me a lot 🤧 And one day for sure I'm gonna make them proud n for that moment I'll work hard
Everyone is listening and I am crying loudly Today was a result of my exam,I had never failed, never missed A+ in any subject but today I have failed,I am shattered but I am trying to be fine. Only working hard to see smile on my mothers face,she has struggled a lot in her life Everybody please pray for me ❤️
@@agniladeb4678 life is full with ups and downs. No one's life is perfect. If you're very very hurt then cry how much you want, how long you want. But when you're done, just forget and let it go. Move on :) Take care of yourself ❤ visit a doctor if you want, remember, depression ain't a light thing, it's a real disease. Get proper sleep, eat properly and be happy. It's absolutely fine to fail....
I was watching this video after my 10 th result icse I got 65% I was expecting more I was really depressed and my self confidence was gone........ I watched this video and start working in my weakness I worked hard dat and night I was shattered I was failed countless time but I don't gave up I studied for hours and at last in ISC 12 I scored 77% way better than whom who got more than me in icse class 10th
Me same i also got 65% in my fsc part 1 and i am here after 2 Days of my result and now i am feeling better that not only me there are many other students like me
@@Cutegirldaires don't worry I laugh today when I think of 4yrs ago from today, as I scored 85.56% in my bachelor's now I am pursuing Master in top college in my state with 8.0 CGPA and the students who got more marks than me in IcSe or ISC are still struggling as they built ego when they got 90+, I realized no matter how much you earn or get marks just remember two things 1. Always be humbel never forget about this phase 2. Always Remember those and give them special space in your life who is supporting in you in this phase.
I'm Muslims and from Pakistan. this is amazing video and great lesson for everyone. you are a good person Sandeep sir. and thank you for this information and motivation.
Ok so what is your problem You are muslim or you are from Pakistan ?. If both not then u could avoid mentioning all ths. This video is about a student's ambition. Not religion related.
This year was so bad for me just everything went wrong and I got less marks in some subjects but I know I'm gonna work harder next time but my parents demotivate me all the time
सवाल- डिप्रेशन, चिंता, पैनिक अटैक क्या है? उत्तर- जब हम लगातार 1 विषय के बारे में बहुत सोच रहे हैं और विशेष रूप से 1 विषय के बारे में इतनी नकारात्मकता हमारे मस्तिष्क में चिंता करने लगती है और हमारे सेरटा (यह एक ग्रंथि की तरह है जो हमें डर से लड़ने में मदद करता है) कम होने लगती है और इसकी वजह से हम नहीं कर सकते हमारे दिमाग के अंदर नेगेटिव को रोकें क्योंकि इससे हमारा दिमाग ऑक्सीजन के बजाय कार्बन डाइऑक्साइड लेना शुरू कर देता है, इसीलिए अवसाद, सांस लेने में तकलीफ होना बहुत आम बात है क्योंकि हमारा शरीर भ्रमित होने लगाता है और हृदय को कार्बन डाइऑक्साइड भेजना और यह हमारे मस्तिष्क को झूठी आज्ञा देता है कि हमारा हाथ दर्द कर रहा है, पैर में दर्द हो रहा है या कई अलग-अलग दर्द हो रहे हैं। कुछ लोगों में सेरटा का उत्पादन बंद हो जाता है, इसीलिए हम अपने आत्मविश्वास को कम होने कि वजसे कुछ भी करने से डरते हैं। और हम घर से बाहर जाने से डरते हैं। कुछ लोग चिंतित थे कि अगर वे अकेले कार चला रहे हैं और अचानक उन्हें आतंक का दौरा पड़ा तो क्या हुआ अगर किसी ने उनकी मदद नहीं की या दम घुटने के कारण कार में उनकी मृत्यु हो गई और कुछ लोग हाईट, पानी, आग आदि से डरते हैं। कोई चिंता नहीं है अगर आप इस समस्या का सामना कर रहे हैं तो मुझसे बिना किसी शुल्क के मुझसे बात करें आप मुझे व्हाट्सएप कर सकते हैं: + 91-8279201101 या मेरे समूह में शामिल हों सकते हैं:- chat.whatsapp.com/JNwFi70BMz70pCcmd8N192 ik कुछ लोगों ने सोचा कि मैं ऐसा क्यों कर रहा हूं, यह अच्छी तरह से है क्योंकि यह बहुत ही कीमती है। हम इसे पैसे के जरिए नहीं खरीद सकते।
tanq so much sandeep ji and i completed my 12th standard and i am in da same position lyk as u explained in dis video and am very deppressed thinking about my future but after listening ur words i got some momentum and i wish i would carry it through out my lyf and will be succesfull##my hope and strength @@ $andeep maheshwari
i am now on such point in my depression life, that even *Success* doesn't matter to me.. i just want to die.. but i am stucked becoz of my parrents..😓 i dont have anyone to talk and i am dying of thinking about my dark future
Ifailed in JEE. I couldn t compete with others in coching centre. I was depressed. I cried every evening. I didn t have any friend. I tried to commit suicide. I just can t bear the pain. I stopped going coching and studying. locked myself in a room for 24hrs. After seeing me like that my dad took me to psychiatry department of a famous hospital (I m not exposing the name). There I meet two doctor. One of them give me a tablet and told me to take twice after mill. and another doctor talk with me and give me advice. I m going there for like last 1 year. I m very happy now. I read regularly and go to college and I have many friends. I took admission in a local college in physics. Sure it s not as good as iits but Im happy and optimistic about my future. thanks for this video. I hope other learns a lesson from this. My request to every student is don t fall in rat race.
@@rashmiroopam7867 i am doing great mam. Happy, having peace in my life and surrounded by peoples who love me unconditionally. And one more thing i would like to add I didn't had year back that day.
This ws d first i saw video of sandeep sir at 2016....and now I'm a big fan of urs sir... I didn't know that time..but now u inspired me a lot... Love u sir..... Great personality....... Most of d people r enjoying their work and far from depression bcoz of u....... U r d best person in my life after my parents...
I got bad marks in boards term 1 exam but i was studying continues for 1 month 6-8 hours a day more than 25 sample papers I have implemented but then also I got failed but doesn't matter because I am strong now for two days I was in a great depression and crying all day but right now I am satisfied with my self because I have given my 100% truly, now I have gained confidence that I can do very big in my life because I have learnt to give 100% 🙂
i wish the society would look at the things frm this perspective rather than making a person seem like a failure. u never know much they hve worked to achieve it so never degrade them for missing 1 chance. opportunities will keep coming. thank u for this motivational speech i feel a little less burdened now. For someone who's good at studies, this time my results werent so good. i had not been able to get the scores out of my mind but this vid made me feel like more chances will come my way to prove myself
I was one of those very depressed students, i considered taking my life several times after my girlfriend broke up with me and i got a year back in my 2nd year Mechanical Engineering results. I didn't know where i was.. i started abusing sleeping pills and anti anxiety pills day in and out.. My nightstand was literally a pharmacy, started having panic attacks and public breakdowns, i can talk from experience being through this shithole! it's the worst feeling ever and i would never wish it upon my biggest enemy!
Great sir always an inspiration 😃I always watch you when I. M very upset Bcoz of life negative people family studies u give me motivation that I can do it and do it much better 😃💖
Tomorrow my maths result is gonna come. I am really stressed out since I have been extremely poor in maths. I know that I will get marks in 20s Or 30s out of 80 but what is haunting me more is that how I am gonna face my parents. They have trusted me always and have never judged me and have always embraced my flaws in studies. When I told my parents that I am getting marks tomorrow, they reacted as if they don't care how much I score since they know that in what subjects I am bad but despite all this, they support me and never pressurize me to pursue any thing specifically. But inspite of all their support, I feel ashamed to be so incapable of not being able to do so good in that specific subject and giving my parents a little happiness with my result. Often I have felt suiciding from my balcony whenever I didn't score well in any of the subject but then soon I realise that how would my parents feel by watching me dead. This would make me feel guilty by not living my life and giving up so soon. So now I am not scared. No matter how much I score, all I want to be is happy always and not break my parents faith by harming myself for some marks. Although anxiety lasts till the time I don't recieve my result but now I am that much strong to face my mistakes and hone myself in that area.
Please practice Gayatri mantra writing technique for at least 15 min daily (more like 30-60 min in multiple 15 min or longer sessions) and just before sleep while lying on bed awaiting the sleep. Then your IQ, memory, focus and creativity will become magical with time as they have become for me. Gayatri mantra writing technique is the most powerful technique of chanting Gayatri mantra giving results at least 10 times more as well as faster than other methods of chanting Gayatri mantra like chanting it and focusing the mind on hearing its sound alone using a bead/mala. In this technique: One has to (i) write 14 words of Gayatri mantra - om bhur bhuvah swah tat savitur varenyam bhargo devasya dhimahi dhiyo yo nah prachodayat - one by one on the dark space before the close eyes in the same manner as one would write it on paper with a pen while (ii) simultaneously doing the upanshu chanting of each of 14 words (meaning chanting it from mouth but without producing any sound from mouth as producing sound from mouth will be just wasting one’s priceless energy and is of no use in this technique) and (iii) simultaneously internally listening to the mental sound of the upanshu chanting of each of 14 words - these 3 processes together. Upanshu chanting is required in this technique because the vibrations produced by each of 24 sounds in 14 words activate one of 24 glands in the body. When these 3 processes are done together, the best possible focus/concentration is attained and due to that, the results of this technique is at least 10 times more as well as faster than other methods of chanting Gayatri mantra like chanting it and focusing the mind on hearing its sound alone using a bead/mala. Q. When and how much should one do Gayatri mantra writing? Ans. One should definitely do it while lying on bed for falling asleep. In that situation, when sleepiness starts coming, one will start forgetting where one is in the process of writing 14 words of Gayatri mantra in which case one should re-start from the first word “Om” again and keep on doing so till one falls asleep.
What if your teacher keeps on depressing you. I used to be very enthutiastic but this teacher of mine has drained all my interest in subject..! But still i wouldn`t break my patience on her :) Thanks for the video
I suggest Ke Dont Get Upset Or Feel bad If Your Teacher scolds you.. Mai bi padraha hu Maine Bhi apne teachers ki daant sunni padti hai But Mai unke baato ko dil pe nhi leta Q ke Wo Jo Kehte Hai Hamare Ache ke liye hota hai.
Sir thank you very much for your inspiring words. But the question is that student life is not only about studies. Some students are also there, like me, who come from broken families. We have suffer this emotional breakdown as we don't have the emotional support of our family. In fact all the student suffer from some kind of emotional breakdown for some personal issues, like a fight with friends, breakups etc. This affects our focus on studies most. Most of the middle class parents, like mine, don't promote the idea of going to a psychiatrist. Sir if you please kindly share a vedio about how we students can get over these emotional breakdowns over personal problems, then a lot of students, like me, will be benefited. Thank you.
It's me too...but also the cause of Corona nd parents push their child ....there is no way to tell ur parent...bzc they can't understand ever ....l tried but nothing happn for a student 🙂😔
Hmm Mera bhi Science Me test tha Pura ek hafta pagal Ki tarah Padha tha Lekin No• nhi Aaye ache Freinds Bhi Nhi,bhot depressed hu💔 Pehle jab pehli baar coaching Gaya Classs ke Har test me top Kara fhur distracted Ho gya or Haar gya Jindgi se🥺 Which class do you read?
It hurts so bad when even ur mom says u r useless I shouldn't have given birth to u, u can do nothing in life. Just bcoz I secured less marks in class 10th she always makes me feel bad about myself, she didn't saw how hard I studied for my boards all she can see that i have got less marks. Now am in 12th she always says that u r studying so hard yet I saw ur class 10th marks I'll see what u get in 12th bcoz u can never be successful
sir now I am feeling better after seeing your videoes i am the student of class 10 i depreased after my ninth result thankyou sir hats of you sir awesome
Parents not understand the situation of every students .they only see the number and decide the future of the student .but life is very big.just play .and you will definetly pass in the exam of life
I wanna heart from Sandeep maheshwari. I have seen your all videos for students. Love you sir. I want to be successful like you. You are my idol. After seeing your vedios my life totally changed. Now I think I am the best. Thank you sir. God bless you.
mujhe confidence h khud pr ki me kuchh krne ke liye capable hu lekin family background se sport nhi mil rha , I'm student 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm crying guys
Are bhai thanks yar mai yahi soch raha tha ki 1st attempt itne kareeb hai kaise hoga lekin yad aya 2nd ball to uske bad rakhi hi hai kyuki 2nd attempt bhi hai thanks bhai
On 11 March at 11:37pm I felt I have lost a lot but your words gave me a postulate to think with a new thought . I am going to start a new phase ..........!
Jo log failures k baad kaamyab ho jate hai vo motivational speaker bn jate aur jin logo ko kaamyabi nhi milti vo bechare poori life motivate hi hote rehta hai
The person who is capable of to live in alone is the most happiest and powerful person in this world because we born alone and die alone it's better for us to be alone till the last breath
Thanks sir,beacuse i also woried about my 10th result and also bad thinking come in my mind but after see your video sudently I get strength.so you are my idol thanks sir thanks💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
1 Msd 10th fail in his school days now world's best Finisher, wicketkeeper and captain 2 Cristiano Ronaldo was pushed out from hi school in class 7 th but now that school runs on his expenses Grades are just a number they don't define our ability
I'm very depressed 😔😐😔😐 I don't know how to overcome this I'm literally died inside . lake of self confidence taking all my energy away 😢😭 I was good till my matric after that worse things started happening led me to the present situations and I'm still in 😭😭😢😢
@@samramehboobgill7804 don't worry it's fine.. Let me share one my incident with u.. My final exams were in a week.. And I didn't study a little... Al my friends we're very confident.. They all have studied well.. And being a topper everytime this situation was hurting me.. Than on the same day I talked to myself.. I calmed myself down.. And I studied really hard.. As much as I can and uk I was topper in the whole 3 classrooms So, don't be depressed feel u can do this and no one can stop u then ❤❤
I think the biggest problem of our society is COMPARISON we all r alwys comparing ourselves with others n getting depressed. stop comparing and start building urself
I love my mom because she said to me that marks is not everything in your life.. life is all about to move on..☺☺
Bro parents exchange karoge
Please bro kr lo bss 1 saal ke liye
@@Carteakeyyeahh kya hua bro
Aise parents kaha pr milte gai bhai 😭
@@mrunaljadav3283 bhai bhale hi aapke parents ne direcly na bola ho par sb ye hi chahe hai
I failed once so badly,I cried out so loud and there were just my parents and brother who stood up by my side just making me realize that study isn't life.Life is much more bigger than this and you gotta see much greater challenges in life and you need to face it.So just accept the past and give the 100%for your future.Never let self doubt destroy your confidence.Keep trying,you will fail once , twice,thrice and you will have the courage to move on with the results you got.❤️
Life is acceptance and moving ahead! Much more greater things are waiting for you,just sitting depressed in one corner and crying won't work.
I am gonna prove myself and Yes The one who is reading this we the failures will once prove everyone our success!❤️
May God be with you dear 🙏🥺
Thanks and same to you
Khana bhut Assan h mam study is not life ... reality study is life ..
Tq
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the worst feeling is when you and your friends studied together they managed to get good marks and you fail
Yes this happened with me but I did not fail though but all of them got more marks 😭🙃
😭😭😭
Damn true man !
Exactly and the reason I understood behind that was they lied to me
@@sathvikabakam7413 apa0//-/a***
Parents never think how much stress we have related to study
Sis hum to Sirf study ka stress Lete h. Real stress to parents ko hota h wo struggle kr rhe hn humare liye.
Not only related study but there is other problems too
IED 🙂
Wo log struggle karte hain phir apne struggle ka gussa hamare upar utar te hain
Aishah is the perfect example of nazuk pari. Are agar tune sirf 1din ke liye agar apne baap ka stress liya toh phir suicidee toh chod tu direct apne aap ka exorcismm kar degi 😒😒
I got 2 backlogs in my first year of Engineering and 3 backlogs in my final year of Engineering and passed with 49% in 2003. Now I own a company and am planning to open a second branch because of good profits. And in my company, we do not ask for marks, we ask for hobbies and projects for hiring.
Guys remember, it’s NOT marks, it’s your love, interest and curiosity in a field that makes you good. I did NOT take Engineering for placements, I took it because I loved repairing electronics and computers. And now people with 98% from my class say they have lesser job satisfaction than me.
Exactly!!!!
wow..
Which company?
Nice joke
@@karthikkamale6795 I think you are one of the people with 98% and still doesn't have a job and life satisfaction
the only person who saved my life.. thank you sandeep maheswari!!!
kiu kya hua tumhara sath
Why what happened bro
H got diverted from thoughts of suicide 😔
Mar raho to salo
My dad gave everything i want .....best tution,all books i needed and i got less marks than excepted .... I am sorry dad ....i have no courrage to tell him my marks🥺
I can feel u
its ok u discovered that your not meant for mugging up things, find the passion which you want to pursue rather than regretting it. its just a part of your life and dont regret the same.
I can feel your exam
I can understand you and my family situation is also not good I really really tried my best in 12th board still I got 65% because of Corona my life is ruined
@@bangtan4316 not only yours corona also ruined my life I got 83 in 10th and hardly managed to get 58 in 12th my dad was very disappointed with my marks I was depressed
We need him to speak at IIT Bombay , far too many students here are depressed due to high competition
Yahan 12th ke bache iit me na jaa paane ki vajeh se depressed hote hain ..and iit me admission le lene wale bache vahan jaa ke depressed hain ....wtf man😔
@@ritikakainth4500 im a medical student at Nagpur national college nd here most of the students are either depressed or dead inside due to the competition
@@Victor-lt9cg i am in 12th ...perparing for jee ....ye iit bombay wala comment dekh ke bura laga mujhe ......mere saare friends itni mehnat kar rahe hain iit ke liye ....and some of my seniors are depressed because vo iit me nahi jaa paaye ....but yahan bache iit me jaane ke baad depressed hain .....
@@ritikakainth4500 it's true 😔
@@ritikakainth4500 fr
Going through one of very tough and Hard time of my life.
May god give me.strength 😭😭😭
Same here 😭
Same
Same🙃🌻😟
It's the parents, not the children. The parents compete with other parents like
Parent 1: my kid got 98%
Parent 2: my kid got 99%
Parent 1: (goes home)
Parent 1: (scolds child for getting less than Parent 2's kid)
Thank you so muchhh 😭😭 only you can understand us! No one even parents!
Yeah me too
Don't get sad bcoz of your parents...show them you're their best child...love yourself speak yourself...ARMY forever💜💜💜
Armyyyyyyy ..... actually these days I was really into bts and kpop etc. so I was not paying attention to my studies now I am really stressed about my future
@@dilawarkhan6323 same here ....but army remember once Namjoon said if you want to meet us , then study hard now!
Watch bts as a reward for what work you have done at the last hours of day ! I am also going to do same ...from today onwards let's learn how to work hard from our idols💜✌🏻saranghae army's and keep fighting !!!!!!!!!
Realistic positive thinking - by sandeep maheshwari....go and see the real one
I am in 7th class I studied very hard- day and night (at night I've to hide from my parents while studying because they asked me to sleep but I didn't), then when the exam time came my mom didn't lemme appear for it because of Covid-19 (we had offline exams) then however in the mid of exams I started giving them and then gave re test for the left over exams and when the results came I got 88% I expected more around 90. In maths (lemme tell you I am really good at math) I got 54 out of 80 I couldn't believe it. From next month (10 dec) I have another exams but I can't just study, my mom is constantly taunting me and saying I never study I am a backbencher and stuff (I always get above 95%), wherever I sit to study I get a flashback of all my hardwork I did for half yearly exams and the result I got, I couldn't study anymore.
If I ask my mom she starts to scream at me and says my strategy is wrong and blah blah blah and says I'll never help you in your studies from now on (she never does, I'm studying since 5 grades on my own and scoring great marks.)
I just can't understand what to do? How to study after all the things I have went through?
Wheov is reading this I hope they get whatever they want in their lives and thanks a lot for my long long story
It's okay dear, she is your mom after all. I don't know u in person but may be she have seen something different in your behavior or anything else. But it's okay. Don't feel negative bcox of this all. Try to tell your mom what she thinks is wrong with your strategy. Then on proceed further. Belive in yourself. You can take a help of your teachers too. They may help u much more and show u thr right path. And yeah don't burden yourself much. Try to make much work out of less time. It will help u in future too. Stay blessed and safe❣️
No - 1 point ur already inprblm don't let others discourage and break u anymore bcuz that will only worsen ur mental condition ,so try to avoid those places whenever she is screaming u.She might have lost her temper and hope over u .Don't lose it,uk urself and u Will prove her ur worth .Don't be angry at her love and respect her but don't give her the chance to make u feel bad Be resilient its the rule of world to live u alone when u fail and join when u succeed
You are in damn 7th class...why are you even stressing at such age...stressing in 8th 9th and 10th is justified but in 7th
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Just enjoy and move on
@@akash-io7qw because dear I'm a book worm
@@Buttercupmellow ohh...
Parents and society pressurise more than a student thinks of marks . That's kids/students take seriously as the surroundings matters so much where they live daily when they pressurise and keep asking kitne marks aaye and comparing goods scorers 😒
you are absolutely right.......our society is very cruel
Shalini S completely agree.our parents alws blame us nikkama h bekar h eska kuchh nai ho sakta ye sab baaten bohat hurt karta h.
yeah exactly..why our parents compare us with other kids..everyone has there own thinking and.. study skills we should not judge any kid by his or her %
+Mehshabin Rahaman ok
I do agree with this my parents are satisfied with my marks but when one of my relatives called my dad telling his daughter scored much better than me they started scolding me they started comparing they started insulting me they started pressuring me which makes me feel depressed
In real life marks do not matter.Even a school failure can do great jobs.
@Amab Chowdhury bhai kuch example dena jobs ke? jamadaar?
But unfortunately... Parents won't accept with these
@Failure TH-camr Marks doesn't matter bt knowledge matter
@Failure TH-camr I doesn't tell it to my mom
@Failure TH-camr But my parents don't compare me
Students life would be best jab taunt marna wala rishtedar na raha.
For listening it's too good, but in practical, only possible solution is to enjoy your life to the core every moment, don't think about any problems,just leave them, because they are temporary,mark my words, it's true success, being happy all the time,life is too short to be unhappy
God bless you always brother...
nice words sir
Shi kh rhe ho bro 🤜🤜🤜
it's ridiculous , opportunity missed never come back it just a ball for someone who has got everything like him but for someone it mean a lot it broke emotional confidence and financial loss too .
Yes you are right,but we have to keep fighting.i know it sounds cliche bt fighting is better than quieting
I think you are in school and have dreams like getting into this this college. Then you got to uplift yourself from this herd mentality.
this video made me clear 5 subjects after I had failed in a couple . very inspiring
I can proudly say that my parents never force me to score high Mark's they support me a lot 🤧
And one day for sure I'm gonna make them proud n for that moment I'll work hard
I can grudgingly say the opposite is tru for my parents
Everyone is listening and I am crying loudly
Today was a result of my exam,I had never failed, never missed A+ in any subject but today I have failed,I am shattered but I am trying to be fine.
Only working hard to see smile on my mothers face,she has struggled a lot in her life
Everybody please pray for me ❤️
Please don't give up 🙏
Pray for me ❤️
@@agniladeb4678 Good wishes to you ❤️
@@agniladeb4678 life is full with ups and downs. No one's life is perfect. If you're very very hurt then cry how much you want, how long you want. But when you're done, just forget and let it go. Move on :) Take care of yourself ❤ visit a doctor if you want, remember, depression ain't a light thing, it's a real disease. Get proper sleep, eat properly and be happy. It's absolutely fine to fail....
@@stopcheckingmyusernamesimp4434 you won't believe how much depressed I am still today 🙂
I was watching this video after my 10 th result icse I got 65% I was expecting more I was really depressed and my self confidence was gone........ I watched this video and start working in my weakness I worked hard dat and night I was shattered I was failed countless time but I don't gave up I studied for hours and at last in ISC 12 I scored 77% way better than whom who got more than me in icse class 10th
Woww 🔥
Stay blessed
Me same i also got 65% in my fsc part 1 and i am here after 2 Days of my result and now i am feeling better that not only me there are many other students like me
@@Cutegirldaires don't worry I laugh today when I think of 4yrs ago from today, as I scored 85.56% in my bachelor's now I am pursuing Master in top college in my state with 8.0 CGPA and the students who got more marks than me in IcSe or ISC are still struggling as they built ego when they got 90+, I realized no matter how much you earn or get marks just remember two things 1. Always be humbel never forget about this phase
2. Always Remember those and give them special space in your life who is supporting in you in this phase.
@@agnibeshkayal your awesome brother ❤️
I'm Muslims and from Pakistan. this is amazing video and great lesson for everyone. you are a good person Sandeep sir. and thank you for this information and motivation.
Absolutely sir.. Lots of love from kashmir
Ok so what is your problem You are muslim or you are from Pakistan ?. If both not then u could avoid mentioning all ths. This video is about a student's ambition. Not religion related.
@@DebajyotiDev exactly
@@DebajyotiDev it's weird for us indians but Ok with respect to Pakistanis
No one is asking about your country or religion
I in my whole life have never seen a better video than this...salute to you
This year was so bad for me just everything went wrong and I got less marks in some subjects but I know I'm gonna work harder next time but my parents demotivate me all the time
सवाल- डिप्रेशन, चिंता, पैनिक अटैक क्या है?
उत्तर- जब हम लगातार 1 विषय के बारे में बहुत सोच रहे हैं और विशेष रूप से 1 विषय के बारे में इतनी नकारात्मकता हमारे मस्तिष्क में चिंता करने लगती है और हमारे सेरटा (यह एक ग्रंथि की तरह है जो हमें डर से लड़ने में मदद करता है) कम होने लगती है और इसकी वजह से हम नहीं कर सकते हमारे दिमाग के अंदर नेगेटिव को रोकें क्योंकि इससे हमारा दिमाग ऑक्सीजन के बजाय कार्बन डाइऑक्साइड लेना शुरू कर देता है, इसीलिए अवसाद, सांस लेने में तकलीफ होना बहुत आम बात है क्योंकि हमारा शरीर भ्रमित होने लगाता है और हृदय को कार्बन डाइऑक्साइड भेजना और यह हमारे मस्तिष्क को झूठी आज्ञा देता है कि हमारा हाथ दर्द कर रहा है, पैर में दर्द हो रहा है या कई अलग-अलग दर्द हो रहे हैं। कुछ लोगों में सेरटा का उत्पादन बंद हो जाता है, इसीलिए हम अपने आत्मविश्वास को कम होने कि वजसे कुछ भी करने से डरते हैं। और हम घर से बाहर जाने से डरते हैं। कुछ लोग चिंतित थे कि अगर वे अकेले कार चला रहे हैं और अचानक उन्हें आतंक का दौरा पड़ा तो क्या हुआ अगर किसी ने उनकी मदद नहीं की या दम घुटने के कारण कार में उनकी मृत्यु हो गई और कुछ लोग हाईट, पानी, आग आदि से डरते हैं। कोई चिंता नहीं है अगर आप इस समस्या का सामना कर रहे हैं तो मुझसे बिना किसी शुल्क के मुझसे बात करें आप मुझे व्हाट्सएप कर सकते हैं: + 91-8279201101
या मेरे समूह में शामिल हों सकते हैं:- chat.whatsapp.com/JNwFi70BMz70pCcmd8N192
ik कुछ लोगों ने सोचा कि मैं ऐसा क्यों कर रहा हूं, यह अच्छी तरह से है क्योंकि यह बहुत ही कीमती है। हम इसे पैसे के जरिए नहीं खरीद सकते।
Same here
tanq so much sandeep ji and i completed my 12th standard and i am in da same position lyk as u explained in dis video and am very deppressed thinking about my future but after listening ur words i got some momentum and i wish i would carry it through out my lyf and will be succesfull##my hope and strength @@ $andeep maheshwari
And today I am in tha position
Sir, your words really touched heart of mine. You have put our life in front of us.A big salute to you. Keep us motivating and LOVE YOU. 💖💖💖
i am now on such point in my depression life, that even *Success* doesn't matter to me..
i just want to die..
but i am stucked becoz of my parrents..😓
i dont have anyone to talk and i am dying of thinking about my dark future
Bro aesa ulta kaam plz mat krna
It's one year back, hope you are alright now☺
Ifailed in JEE. I couldn t compete with others in coching centre. I was depressed. I cried every evening. I didn t have any friend. I tried to commit suicide. I just can t bear the pain. I stopped going coching and studying. locked myself in a room for 24hrs. After seeing me like that my dad took me to psychiatry department of a famous hospital (I m not exposing the name). There I meet two doctor. One of them give me a tablet and told me to take twice after mill. and another doctor talk with me and give me advice. I m going there for like last 1 year. I m very happy now. I read regularly and go to college and I have many friends. I took admission in a local college in physics. Sure it s not as good as iits but Im happy and optimistic about my future. thanks for this video. I hope other learns a lesson from this. My request to every student is don t fall in rat race.
Thank you so much for motivating me as I was feeling depressed for so long.
❤️🙏🏻
failed in 4 subject out of 5
year back lagne wala h
things are not going well but only thing I know will not run away..
lyf hit me more harder
Hows your life now?
@Aryan Mishra how are u now
@@rashmiroopam7867 i am doing great mam. Happy, having peace in my life and surrounded by peoples who love me unconditionally.
And one more thing i would like to add
I didn't had year back that day.
@@aeybee7305 happy and peaceful
Sir your speech is not just a speech, it's an inspiration, a motivation. But the fact is that neither our parents, nor the society accepts failure.
This ws d first i saw video of sandeep sir at 2016....and now I'm a big fan of urs sir... I didn't know that time..but now u inspired me a lot... Love u sir..... Great personality.......
Most of d people r enjoying their work and far from depression bcoz of u.......
U r d best person in my life after my parents...
Watching this video made me cry and feel motivated, too
Hi
hii kavlen
@@shaikabubakar9008 lift nahi karae bhai tum logon ko
@@krishanasenchuri191 tujha bhi nhi kerwae bhai
I got bad marks in boards term 1 exam but i was studying continues for 1 month 6-8 hours a day more than 25 sample papers I have implemented but then also I got failed but doesn't matter because I am strong now for two days I was in a great depression and crying all day but right now I am satisfied with my self because I have given my 100% truly, now I have gained confidence that I can do very big in my life because I have learnt to give 100% 🙂
Don't worry
We will get bonus marks
Kitta ayaa
Iam taking you as my elder brother. You are my motivational ideal. Ur word really do some magic in our minds to take correct path. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
i wish the society would look at the things frm this perspective rather than making a person seem like a failure. u never know much they hve worked to achieve it so never degrade them for missing 1 chance. opportunities will keep coming.
thank u for this motivational speech i feel a little less burdened now. For someone who's good at studies, this time my results werent so good. i had not been able to get the scores out of my mind but this vid made me feel like more chances will come my way to prove myself
I was one of those very depressed students, i considered taking my life several times after my girlfriend broke up with me and i got a year back in my 2nd year Mechanical Engineering results. I didn't know where i was.. i started abusing sleeping pills and anti anxiety pills day in and out.. My nightstand was literally a pharmacy, started having panic attacks and public breakdowns, i can talk from experience being through this shithole! it's the worst feeling ever and i would never wish it upon my biggest enemy!
True sign of education is not knowledge but imagination.✍✍✍✍🎼🎼🙏🙏🙏
knowledge Kai liye hi toh padhte ha bhai aur imagination alag chizz ha
Thank u sir
Iam a 8 th std student and i was depressed as i got 56 out of 80 in science but last year i got 70 out of 80 in science
Madhavi Chandrapalka bro abhi toh tumne life dekhi hi kahan hai
Isko main mazak samjhu?
Beta, udaasi aur depression me zameen aasmaan ka fark hai
@@gamingthe81 yes
2:20 my parents will say the same thing because my term 1 exams are so worst😭😭..
Now what can I do😭
Same here🙁
😞
this video is so inspiring....sandeep sir thank you
Great sir always an inspiration 😃I always watch you when I. M very upset Bcoz of life negative people family studies u give me motivation that I can do it and do it much better 😃💖
Confidence and hard work is the best medicine to kill the causes called failure
Tomorrow my maths result is gonna come. I am really stressed out since I have been extremely poor in maths. I know that I will get marks in 20s Or 30s out of 80 but what is haunting me more is that how I am gonna face my parents. They have trusted me always and have never judged me and have always embraced my flaws in studies. When I told my parents that I am getting marks tomorrow, they reacted as if they don't care how much I score since they know that in what subjects I am bad but despite all this, they support me and never pressurize me to pursue any thing specifically. But inspite of all their support, I feel ashamed to be so incapable of not being able to do so good in that specific subject and giving my parents a little happiness with my result. Often I have felt suiciding from my balcony whenever I didn't score well in any of the subject but then soon I realise that how would my parents feel by watching me dead. This would make me feel guilty by not living my life and giving up so soon. So now I am not scared. No matter how much I score, all I want to be is happy always and not break my parents faith by harming myself for some marks.
Although anxiety lasts till the time I don't recieve my result but now I am that much strong to face my mistakes and hone myself in that area.
Please practice Gayatri mantra writing technique for at least 15 min daily (more like 30-60 min in multiple 15 min or longer sessions) and just before sleep while lying on bed awaiting the sleep. Then your IQ, memory, focus and creativity will become magical with time as they have become for me.
Gayatri mantra writing technique is the most powerful technique of chanting Gayatri mantra giving results at least 10 times more as well as faster than other methods of chanting Gayatri mantra like chanting it and focusing the mind on hearing its sound alone using a bead/mala.
In this technique:
One has to (i) write 14 words of Gayatri mantra - om bhur bhuvah swah tat savitur varenyam bhargo devasya dhimahi dhiyo yo nah prachodayat - one by one on the dark space before the close eyes in the same manner as one would write it on paper with a pen while (ii) simultaneously doing the upanshu chanting of each of 14 words (meaning chanting it from mouth but without producing any sound from mouth as producing sound from mouth will be just wasting one’s priceless energy and is of no use in this technique) and (iii) simultaneously internally listening to the mental sound of the upanshu chanting of each of 14 words - these 3 processes together.
Upanshu chanting is required in this technique because the vibrations produced by each of 24 sounds in 14 words activate one of 24 glands in the body.
When these 3 processes are done together, the best possible focus/concentration is attained and due to that, the results of this technique is at least 10 times more as well as faster than other methods of chanting Gayatri mantra like chanting it and focusing the mind on hearing its sound alone using a bead/mala.
Q. When and how much should one do Gayatri mantra writing?
Ans. One should definitely do it while lying on bed for falling asleep. In that situation, when sleepiness starts coming, one will start forgetting where one is in the process of writing 14 words of Gayatri mantra in which case one should re-start from the first word “Om” again and keep on doing so till one falls asleep.
It's ok try again practice more may Allah help u 😊❤️❤️❤️🤗
What if your teacher keeps on depressing you. I used to be very enthutiastic but this teacher of mine has drained all my interest in subject..! But still i wouldn`t break my patience on her :) Thanks for the video
I suggest Ke Dont Get Upset Or Feel bad If Your Teacher scolds you.. Mai bi padraha hu Maine Bhi apne teachers ki daant sunni padti hai But Mai unke baato ko dil pe nhi leta Q ke Wo Jo Kehte Hai Hamare Ache ke liye hota hai.
Teacher is nothing. Fuck the teacher. Make ur own way.
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Brock Lesnar p
see video on to be mentally strong on my channel.
sir ,
from when i started ,watching your videos ,i became fan of u.
thank u sooo much ,sir.
I am the one ....
But u r the needed motivating person for me..
Did not qualified neet but I will not lose my home because of ur inspirations .....
लक्ष्य ना ओजल होने पाये।
कदम मिला के चल।
सफलता तेरे कदम छुएगी।
आज नही तो कल।।
Thanks
Sir thank you very much for your inspiring words. But the question is that student life is not only about studies. Some students are also there, like me, who come from broken families. We have suffer this emotional breakdown as we don't have the emotional support of our family. In fact all the student suffer from some kind of emotional breakdown for some personal issues, like a fight with friends, breakups etc. This affects our focus on studies most. Most of the middle class parents, like mine, don't promote the idea of going to a psychiatrist. Sir if you please kindly share a vedio about how we students can get over these emotional breakdowns over personal problems, then a lot of students, like me, will be benefited. Thank you.
yes
DEVI NANDAA BISWAS I am in exactly same situation.. my parents never cares about me.. they always abuse me ..
yes i also have same kind of problem
A
DEVI NANDAA BISWAS kya madam
I should be studying right now
Mee too😭😭😔😔
bohot rona aaraha hai yaar, aankho se aasuu nahi ruk rahe
I was fully disappointed... But really sir u set my mood .... Thank you soo much sir
Have lots of backlogs don't know what to do, I'm really depressed and pressured.
How are you doing now ?
It's me too...but also the cause of Corona nd parents push their child ....there is no way to tell ur parent...bzc they can't understand ever ....l tried but nothing happn for a student 🙂😔
Sir thank you so much ... You created my lyf...
According to me
Ur d best motivational I have seen ever
When I watch ur video 1st time I hv become big fan of you
My best motivation speech for my life All an avar
Such a relief. ....thank you sir🙇🙏
Such me sir apki yah baat sunkar dimaag se sara tension hi dur ho gya thank you sir you motivated 😌
hard work doesn't always pay off
Hmm
Mera bhi Science Me test tha Pura ek hafta pagal Ki tarah Padha tha Lekin No• nhi Aaye ache Freinds Bhi Nhi,bhot depressed hu💔
Pehle jab pehli baar coaching Gaya Classs ke Har test me top Kara fhur distracted Ho gya or Haar gya Jindgi se🥺
Which class do you read?
It hurts so bad when even ur mom says u r useless I shouldn't have given birth to u, u can do nothing in life. Just bcoz I secured less marks in class 10th she always makes me feel bad about myself, she didn't saw how hard I studied for my boards all she can see that i have got less marks. Now am in 12th she always says that u r studying so hard yet I saw ur class 10th marks I'll see what u get in 12th bcoz u can never be successful
sir now I am feeling better after seeing your videoes i am the student of class 10 i depreased after my ninth result thankyou sir hats of you sir awesome
Parents not understand the situation of every students .they only see the number and decide the future of the student .but life is very big.just play .and you will definetly pass in the exam of life
I wanna heart from Sandeep maheshwari.
I have seen your all videos for students.
Love you sir.
I want to be successful like you.
You are my idol.
After seeing your vedios my life totally changed.
Now I think I am the best.
Thank you sir.
God bless you.
Whose ever life changed after seeing sandeep maheshwari sir vedios hit a like and comment how your life changed.
sir,,,I salute you,,,it is totally useful for any person.I loved this speech very much and I also love you a lot,,tnax for your the best
Hardwok is the must thing
Nothing is impossible 💓💓
mujhe confidence h khud pr ki me kuchh krne ke liye capable hu lekin family background se sport nhi mil rha , I'm student 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm crying guys
I'm very dipressed 😭😭😭😭
Thank you so much sir..You saved one life..
thankyou sir.. that was really inspiring..
Needed this today. Thank you Sir!
My parents also think that I only use phone.and I don't study but they don't whats inside me😔
Are bhai thanks yar mai yahi soch raha tha ki 1st attempt itne kareeb hai kaise hoga lekin yad aya 2nd ball to uske bad rakhi hi hai kyuki 2nd attempt bhi hai thanks bhai
i am big fan sir......
On 11 March at 11:37pm I felt I have lost a lot but your words gave me a postulate to think with a new thought . I am going to start a new phase ..........!
Jo log failures k baad kaamyab ho jate hai vo motivational speaker bn jate aur jin logo ko kaamyabi nhi milti vo bechare poori life motivate hi hote rehta hai
The person who is capable of to live in alone is the most happiest and powerful person in this world because we born alone and die alone it's better for us to be alone till the last breath
We cant imagime how stressful our parent's are because they never cry in front of us and they cant even tell anyone about their pain😥
sir m Pakistani but i like u so much. u r going best job
Respect from India :)
pakistani? life sabki same hai bhaijaan.stress,opportunity,success religion ya country dkhke ni ati :D
do not need to mention that u r from Pakistan... we all are humans just divided by states or country
Yo bro
Don't be focus on yr country just think we r human❤🤙💯
THE LEGENDRY.......SIR I SALUTE YOU SIR.......YOU ARE GREAT.........
Thanks sir,beacuse i also woried about my 10th result and also bad thinking come in my mind but after see your video sudently I get strength.so you are my idol thanks sir thanks💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
Luv the way sir described things 😊
1 Msd 10th fail in his school days now world's best Finisher, wicketkeeper and
captain
2 Cristiano Ronaldo was pushed out from hi school in class 7 th but now that school runs on his expenses
Grades are just a number they don't define our ability
Msd have 56 in 10th
This is a very motivating video for the students. It means there will always be difficulties in life but u will always find a way in the end.
If my friend is watching this , then!
U r the best! And im proud of u
So learning sir ... thanks..be continue always... regarding Arun Pariya Meerut.
this is good video for motivation
Best example of student's life.
Wow sir...apke words bohot inspiring hote hai...Great job sir...👌🏻👌🏻😘
very inspiring ....Got the Logic of life!!!
My condition is same as that of a depressed student...🙍.pray for me 🙇
Mine too 😔.... BTW how are u now?
I'm very depressed 😔😐😔😐 I don't know how to overcome this I'm literally died inside . lake of self confidence taking all my energy away 😢😭 I was good till my matric after that worse things started happening led me to the present situations and I'm still in 😭😭😢😢
@@samramehboobgill7804 don't worry it's fine.. Let me share one my incident with u.. My final exams were in a week.. And I didn't study a little... Al my friends we're very confident.. They all have studied well.. And being a topper everytime this situation was hurting me.. Than on the same day I talked to myself.. I calmed myself down.. And I studied really hard.. As much as I can and uk I was topper in the whole 3 classrooms
So, don't be depressed feel u can do this and no one can stop u then ❤❤
@@sanya8525 Thanks 🙏🥺 😊😊my all best wishes for you stay happy 😊
@@samramehboobgill7804 hehe 😁ur welcome ❤I hope the same for u 🙏😌
But I am lucky that my parents do understand this.....And today I am not able to score good in my math examination.......!
Depression isn't always about marks or scoring sometimes it stems die to family problems and you just can't focus
Yess going through same
Same situation I'm going through this situations I don't know how to overcome it.
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Ham nursing student ki halt ishe lag rha hai 😭😭😭
Why bro ..plz say the reality
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I needed this the most in this part of my life. Thanks for uploading it.
awesome
Sir u r really a God for me... Only by ur motivational video I am live today..... 💖💖💖💖💖💖 tq tq soooo much sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This same vdo i saw few years ago but then i feel nothing ,now i have passed 12,and the words struck me from inside,wow!
Sir u doing a great job 👍👍
How luckey his children be
Hope our parents also understand this...😢
I think the biggest problem of our society is COMPARISON
we all r alwys comparing ourselves with others n getting depressed.
stop comparing and start building urself