Hitch: The Performance of Masculinity

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  • @gf-official
    @gf-official 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    "while hitch has crafted intricate rituals to touch the skin of other men..." max i did a whole-ass spittake

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      barbara kruger was right!!

    • @nationalhamleague5352
      @nationalhamleague5352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Didn't think of finding this in pop culture discussion outside of fanfiction lmaoo

  • @MaurusRehmahrntahn
    @MaurusRehmahrntahn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    "He has no style and he has no grace" ... this blart has a funny face

    • @GlenLauderdale
      @GlenLauderdale 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thank you for saying exactly what I was thinking.

    • @papercutsunset
      @papercutsunset 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      blarty kong

    • @tn-t
      @tn-t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He has no style, and has no grace, thus, we can conclude that he's definitely NOT miss United States.

  • @kitchipitchi
    @kitchipitchi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I like to see the confession to Sarah as being genuine because he always used some sort of performance as the barrier between himself and the other person. No one was able to understand the real Hitch, as it was all very calculated. So the first time we see these barriers down, Hitch has to put up a physical one, seen through the door between his confession and Sarah. He isn't really face to face with her, and you still see a struggle when he does see her face and tries to explain himself. He still needs that barrier, even if he's speaking truthfully.

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      i like this theory!

  • @maxteeth
    @maxteeth  2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    this was the third video essay i ever made; it is getting some unexpected traction in the algo right now so i just wanted to make a quick amendment. i think if i wrote this video today, i would have spoken more about how all identities are continuously constructed and there is no one “true self” as Hitch seems to purport by having Hitch revert back to his goofy college self. i don’t necessarily think that Hitch was lying to manipulate Sara in the end, but i do think that the idea that someone could have a “fake” persona that’s “not the real them” is a bit deceptive, because what are we if not the shape we take through our interactions with others? i think ultimately Hitch can be both: a manipulative womanizing chad AND a goofy vulnerable simp. it is almost always a mistake to think about identity in mutually exclusive binaries. thanks for watching and reading!
    (also i had to unpin my friend’s very good prince reference in order to pin this and for this i can never apologize enough)

  • @Gweny311
    @Gweny311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I think it was genuine. His convo with Allegra gave him permission to quit trying to be what he thought women want and just be himself. Yes he is far removed from that college kid but as an awkward person myself I can identify with feeling like I have to be “on” and the relief of Turing that off when I know people can take it

    • @thenachoandthecheeze
      @thenachoandthecheeze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree! I liked the videos insights and gave it a like but at the same time I think the conclusion it came to may be “looking too hard” (which I hate when people say) Like I think it’s kinda obvious in that we never see him lying to women emotionally himself, like sure he helped some guys get dates in some crazy ass ways but we saw how guarded he was and how he didn’t want a relationship, so why would he “perform” spilling his heart out just to be in one

    • @fightingmedialounge519
      @fightingmedialounge519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Probably because his whole mindset is manipulation. Granted I don't think that's what directors and writers intended, but that is an implication that can found in the ending.

  • @itsmandamade8751
    @itsmandamade8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Between this and your legally blonde vid I’m a stan for life 👌

  • @jayladddd
    @jayladddd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    this used to be (andstillkindofis) one of my favourite saturday morning movies that they would play on the tv channels and i never really understood why. i dont generally like romcom hollywood to the extent where i would search for them on netflix and half the time, i barely even remember the names for them. but i always remembered Hitch, and i think you managed to perfectly describe the reason why i did.

  • @shoesoffinside422
    @shoesoffinside422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Oh. Guess the film was a lot darker than I remembered lol

  • @FDSignifire
    @FDSignifire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hitch is basically the best version of Kevin Samuels and now I can't unsee it. 😳

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      now i can’t decide if i would love or hate to see a modern update of hitch about a youtube relationship guru. i actually think it could be a solid send-up in the right hands, but i’m not sure who else besides will smith could pull off making that kind of character likable 🤔

    • @FDSignifire
      @FDSignifire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maxteeth If you know anything about Kevin Samuels then you know it's probably impossible to make that character work today. Probably even irresponsible considering how bad samuels is. Those types would just look at it as confirmation that what they're doing is MORE significant once they become the focus of satire smh.

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@FDSignifire yeah, maybe it would work better as a horror movie 😂 but i think that's a good point, it's probably best to not even engage with it at all.

    • @FDSignifire
      @FDSignifire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@maxteeth Now a purge like spoof where armies of men who listen to kevin samuels and Jordan peterson cometogether to wage war... but suck at it... there's something there

  • @melginjohnpaleeth3979
    @melginjohnpaleeth3979 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "How do we know if this is a genuine article,or just another performance?"....... WOW!!?
    Seriously!!The man lost his living,and dignity.All because she misjudged him for something he didn't DO! And yet even when she refused to apologize, he went to her to make her understand the situation. Even after all that he went after her (something he swore himself he'll never do EVER again) at the risk of being hurt again by her quickly moving on ,still he chases after her and almost gets run over.
    So..YESSS!!It's GENUINE.Just that the poor guy has to go the extra mile of 'performance' to convince her of his heart.
    "This!, is why falling in love is SOO hard".This line is what truly conveys the message and the scene in which it is said is probably better than the ending.

    • @nanakofi-sama1729
      @nanakofi-sama1729 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said, that's why I had a problem with the ending making him look at fault.

  • @nkozi
    @nkozi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    He's not a woman, he's not a man. He is something that we'll never understand.

    • @brewskimckilgore6796
      @brewskimckilgore6796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      heat 😤

    • @prettyawesomejm
      @prettyawesomejm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awww Prince.

    • @belizelover21
      @belizelover21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hell never beat you. He'll never lie. And if you're evil he'll forgive you by and by.
      I'm sorry I had to😂

    • @bigscott175
      @bigscott175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So he's Prince

    • @milademjayyy
      @milademjayyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Yeah he’s an actor!*

  • @JeredtheShy
    @JeredtheShy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Ah good, I could use a new movie critic YT to watch now that Jenny has gone mad with power and all her uploads are 2.5 hours long.

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      you're in luck, because i will likely never have the patience to edit a video longer than 30 minutes

    • @goldi1018
      @goldi1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May I ask, how the youtube channel is called, because I would love to watch one of the long analyses?

    • @mathilde7862
      @mathilde7862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@goldi1018 I think maybe Jenny Nicholson?

    • @Roblox-jb2vf
      @Roblox-jb2vf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mathilde7862 the mlp youtuber?

    • @t.mutabilis2497
      @t.mutabilis2497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@goldi1018 if you want to watch a long and good analysis i recommend cj the x's latest video

  • @easagepie
    @easagepie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I really liked this video. The ending of this has more in common with clockwork orange than i thought (my brain went there). This was super informative and we'll written. Thanks!

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      ooh like because they're both ambiguous as to whether or not the protagonist is truly "reformed"? i love this parallel

    • @easagepie
      @easagepie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@maxteeth thanks! I really appreciate it! Have a good one!

  • @xbjrrtc
    @xbjrrtc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can't believe this channel has under 3k subs. The analysis is so high quality! This channel is gonna blow up, I just know it.

    • @Phantomopery5
      @Phantomopery5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It really was!

    • @rhadiem
      @rhadiem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      10 months later and indeed it has! It's at 4k subs now. Insert explosion sounds here.

  • @idk-qs8ft
    @idk-qs8ft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    this was such a good video, i've never watched this movie and i was sooo invested

  • @swishyclang9175
    @swishyclang9175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I liked the look into the dichotomies of this film, very interesting

  • @everausten
    @everausten 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Applying Barbara Kruger to a pick up artist movie - brilliant! ✨💛✨

    • @SF-vh4ml
      @SF-vh4ml 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who is Barbara Kruger?

    • @everausten
      @everausten 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@SF-vh4ml "Barbara Kruger is an American conceptual artist known for her combination of type and image that conveys a direct feminist cultural critique. Her works examine stereotypes and the behaviors of consumerism with text layered over mass-media images." - artnet.com
      Max Teeth referenced a Kruger piece with "You construct intricate rituals which allow you to touch the skin of other men".

    • @SF-vh4ml
      @SF-vh4ml 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@everausten woww, sounds fascinating, thank you! 💜

    • @prettyawesomejm
      @prettyawesomejm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the explanation instead of “look it up yourself!”

    • @prettyawesomejm
      @prettyawesomejm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And providing a source.

  • @oldgenx
    @oldgenx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was so good! So thorough and deep. You saw layers that I didn’t and I really appreciate all the hard work you put into this!

  • @shinadevon4464
    @shinadevon4464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just found your channel and subscribed! Your takes are so fresh and worthwhile. Keep up the great work!

  • @Afterthoughts
    @Afterthoughts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm a sucker for essays with great last lines :P

  • @BluePhx17
    @BluePhx17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video, I remember liking this movie as a teen but I haven’t rewatched it in a while.

  • @Cloverfr
    @Cloverfr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I binging you like crazy, great content!

  • @trees70
    @trees70 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i really like your scripts?? or choice of words, it all flows so well together i think

  • @brewskimckilgore6796
    @brewskimckilgore6796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    maximum molar is what i will call you. maximum molar youre dope ily dont forget me when you make it

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i will remember you brewski

  • @babyvenus678
    @babyvenus678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this video is so goooooooooooood

  • @honestytheory7529
    @honestytheory7529 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You just made that movie so much more interesting for me🙌🏾

  • @thymeIord
    @thymeIord 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the stuff you say here speaks to some confusion I've felt about Hitch for a long time. The interesting thing about the movie to me is how some people see it as an incel's wish fulfillment fantasy, but listening to what Hitch tells his clients shows us that a lot of his advice is about how to practically respect women (listen to them, don't put yourself in the spotlight, express interest in their friends, interests, and lives) - and to do so confidently.
    but I've always felt that the movie is confused about what it wants to say. Hitch claims that he's trying to "help guys get out of their own way," so that women can get to know them. but later on, he's surprised that Allegra liked Albert for himself. It just never felt to me like the movie has a clear sense of whether Hitch is a hypocrite, or ignorant, or just flat out wrong about how he thinks about relationships work.
    anyway the movie's relationship to masculinity & femininity are likely where this disconnect is coming from - maybe it can't commit to either one because it's already committed to following more conventional narratives.

  • @Skye_Writer
    @Skye_Writer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just a note that we don't know what the interaction between Hitch and the unnamed woman at the bar was. We didn't get to see. Does he take the two of them back to the pool table and just have a good convo between them, him, and Colin? He tells Vance "hit it and quit it" is not his style, and it's very possible that he _means_ that, but like Albert points out at the end, he's afraid to really let himself fall in love again. So he makes it happen for other men, facilitating their happy endings, and he thinks that is enough for him.
    Also, I think it's overstating things to say that the whole dog-saving issue is a way for the guy to ask that girl out. It was just a way for the guy to get noticed by this woman who he obviously knows from all their time together doing Shakespeare In The Park shows, but maybe he has never had the courage to try to initiate a convo with her, and she evidently hasn't noticed he's around often. The first interaction is just so the guy gets seen, so she notices he is alive. And obviously, since this is a rom-com, the first interaction in this case is way over the top.

  • @Roblox-jb2vf
    @Roblox-jb2vf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I remember this AND the bollywood remake which was called Partner with Salman Khan as Will Smith's character and Govinda as the "pansy" character

  • @bigscott175
    @bigscott175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I actually I'm in between about his performance on Hitch, the thought that his both masculine and feminine makes him contradictory to himself much like TED MOSBY. Do you want to be a player or a good guy, pick a struggle because you're very confusing. It's actually detrimental come to think of it and at the same time it's actually cool. He's mastered both men and women and can use his skills whenever he sees fit, the problem for me is when he realizes he can actually do harm because that will lead him to being very toxic and manipulative, con-mannish and this must be a personality disorder, for sure.
    Great Analysis. I really loved your view

  • @treslechestogo
    @treslechestogo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WOW. I am so glad youtube's algorithm sent me here!

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i'm glad too! thanks for checking it out :)

  • @sufficiently_damp6227
    @sufficiently_damp6227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hitch's behaviour also kinda reminds me of the masking that undiagnosed autistics (esp women) do - there's a script to everything

  • @muditafeeler8271
    @muditafeeler8271 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please talk more about Hitch!

  • @annebloem9500
    @annebloem9500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love your videos!!!!

  • @HizzyHay
    @HizzyHay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okay but can the sequel to this video be an analysis of I Now Pronounce You Chuck and Larry

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      this feels almost inevitable

  • @Guvisha
    @Guvisha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video, interesting idea.

  • @ParosSeh
    @ParosSeh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video, very interesting analysis on the dynamics of the characters.
    My only objection would be about the part with the dog. It is certainly not endangered in any way, It could be argued that it gets into a stressful situation, but it seems to be calm and relaxed as far as we can tell.
    The morality of the actions is still questionable as they seem to be deceitful, however not going as far as to cause harm to other people or animals.

  • @maxinehardy9411
    @maxinehardy9411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    HEY GOOD STUFF FAM

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks so much!! :)

  • @basilaplant
    @basilaplant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    toxic nonbinary king hitch

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      oh my god

  • @Spoonfull
    @Spoonfull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i love this movie, epic review sis

  • @sr7701
    @sr7701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm currently talking to a guy that reminds me a lot of Hitch in this movie. Hmmm.

  • @KittySnicker
    @KittySnicker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving your videos!

  • @musicxcoffee4185
    @musicxcoffee4185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You deserve more subs i looooove your content

  • @t.mutabilis2497
    @t.mutabilis2497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    your channel is great, wow. hope it grows.

  • @mmmuuuuuuuuiiiiiiiiirrrrr
    @mmmuuuuuuuuiiiiiiiiirrrrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice.

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5:05 and thats the line that got me to suscribe

  • @lesliemoiseauthor
    @lesliemoiseauthor ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent analysis

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for watching!

  • @srijaniroychowdhury7683
    @srijaniroychowdhury7683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soooo good.

  • @RK-um9tu
    @RK-um9tu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    None of these women would EVER be interested in his clients.
    Not sure why you ignore this obvious fact.

  • @victorogbonmeh1238
    @victorogbonmeh1238 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am in Nigeria, pls how do I get d full movie?

  • @dmullen1994
    @dmullen1994 ปีที่แล้ว

    damn that was cray

  • @awesomeallyse
    @awesomeallyse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I never even considered that in the end he may still be disingenuous and putting on a performance but that does put a lot into consideration

  • @harry21peter60
    @harry21peter60 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The commentary is a piece of feministic interaction...
    My god, It's just a movie..

  • @dunyakymasly
    @dunyakymasly ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey can i use the video

    • @dunyakymasly
      @dunyakymasly ปีที่แล้ว

      I wanna do a dubbed version on it

    • @maxteeth
      @maxteeth  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey sorry this is a late reply but go for it!

  • @user-db9vy2gh3v
    @user-db9vy2gh3v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He was a simp 😭

  • @Cheskaz
    @Cheskaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Algorithm

  • @asheeshsharma9609
    @asheeshsharma9609 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Actly....I guess u missed hitch's "last first kiss"....
    Sara goes 90% and waits...hitch comes 10%...and realises "all he needs to know about the relationship"

  • @leelahasan3988
    @leelahasan3988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You sound a lot like Abigail from Dear White People

  • @-Radical.Ed-
    @-Radical.Ed- 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Bitch" (2005)

    • @tshidi129
      @tshidi129 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @tenzinrigdol8353
    @tenzinrigdol8353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everything is fair in love and war.(mic drop)

  • @daniellecardoso7981
    @daniellecardoso7981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this movie is horrendous

  • @gusandthetv
    @gusandthetv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol are you serious? The movie is clearly saying that manipulation doesn't actually work in the long run. Once his date doctor persona is dissolved, he is free to be his authentic self. That's why they're all dancing goofy at the end.

  • @pramabanerjee2767
    @pramabanerjee2767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I mean this is your interpretation... The people who conceived the movie build his character differently... I feel it in a different way than both of you... And ultimately it's a stupid movie, not that deep.. Everything doesn't have a deeper meaning.. With all due respect..

    • @fightingmedialounge519
      @fightingmedialounge519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ok, your point is? That she shouldn't look into movies because it's stupid? A lot of film analysis is predicated on looking at something flawed in seeing how interional that is.

  • @Bond_JamesBond87
    @Bond_JamesBond87 ปีที่แล้ว

    Over-analyzing a bit much? But done really well nonetheless. Great fun film imho, 🤷‍♂️

  • @neoneherefrom5836
    @neoneherefrom5836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay I tried but I can’t stomach snowflake interpretations

  • @Darkwolf0925
    @Darkwolf0925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lol, i had to laugh at this crapy video!!

  • @kunkkahuskar3979
    @kunkkahuskar3979 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOKE KAREN REACTION! IT'S A ROMCOM/SATIRE ABOUT THE TOXIC CULTURE OF DATING? yes most of hitch's actions and motives are questionable and down right borderline illegal and someone like hitch existing in rhe real world would be someone like a narcissistic sociopath to be so manipulative, but it's a movie meant to entertain not a documentary?! U probably also think that tropic thunder is the most racist movie ever made too?!

    • @DeathToMayo
      @DeathToMayo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow. Cool buzz words. Have you never seen a movie analysis before? It's not that serious. You can calm down.