"I couldn't be chosen because I wasn't choosing myself. " Wow! That's powerful! I try to remind myself to choose myself first, and not in a mean selfish way, and it almost always turns into a positive experience. Thanks again for sharing such wonderful insights. Best wishes to you!
@synthiat6909 I’ve never heard anyone say that? Maybe they don’t align to what I needed to do to transform my life. It’s not an easy journey but it is a very rewarding one if you remain faithful to it xx
Such an eye opening video. I feel stupid about some of my actions in the past. I was the one to initiate the contact or message. I now know how stipid i would have looked. Will never do such a thing again. The things you told in the video resonate with me and I have experienced similar things Thank you!
Don’t blame yourself or see yourself that way! Think about what I share to the world with my experiences and I am not embarrassed about me or those actions because I wasn’t doing it out of malice just to be loved. When you heal and forgive yourself and let go of negative beliefs and emotions you won’t feel like this! You’re waking up to old patterns that’s all! It’s time to focus on the version of you you know you can be now and sometimes it’s about knowing where we were that gets us to where we want to be xx
Why and where it’s coming from … fear off losing or not being important enough … it’s actually giving our power away …. Gratefull to be remembered to take my power back
I thank you immensely for all your videos. They’ve been so helpful to me. I went through that chasing phase when one of my friends was pulling away. I’ve understood I need to value myself first. It’s not worth wasting your energy on people who decide to stop sharing time with you. Hugs from Barcelona.
Well done! It’s not an easy thing to do but you valuing yourself more makes it easier! Creating space for what is right for you too! Hugs from the UK 🇬🇧 xxxx
I resonate so much with all of your stories! I’ve just started my self love self healing journey and I can feel the energy shift within me after watching every video you post! From watching no contact videos to get them back to watching YOUR videos and not giving a crap if they do or not. I’ve been a people pleaser for far too long enough is enough 😂 thank you x
Yep, I absolutely repelled her by doing just this! I have to take blame - I just didn’t know what I was doing being married for so long prior. I’ll never make that mistake again.
how can we be FREE? if we worry too much about what others may think - when we do our earnest best with whatever it is we've got to give ? so FREEK THE HECK OUT ! goddesspeed again regardless yawl . . .
this is the behavior that women have displayed for centuries, putting their needs first and when considering what they want, finding themselves selfish as our mothers and society taught us that we have to be sweet, grateful, smile nicely and yes, put someone else's needs first. Do you really want to say: put their needs before your own?? Let's stay down, as women? I in no way believe that this is what @nataliedanceasthepennisdrop wants to teach us.
@@jacquelinevanlieshout13 you took what i said way out of context. there is a reason why ur single. because u want too much control. you can put your needs first while also not being selfish.
I was really good friends with 2 people for over 15 years. We would occasionally get together. Then, it was like, let's get together again... great. The problem with that was that I was the one reaching out to them. I got tired of it and said fk that... I'm done
how can we be FREE ? if we worry too much about what others may think - when we do our earnest best with whatever it is we've got to give ? so FREEK THE HECK OUT !
i dont really get it, in many of your other videos you say if you want a sp back you have to affirm that he misses you and is in love with you etc. which is actually forcing.. and now you say you have to let him go?!
Forcing is based on your energy and desperation. Anyone can affirm from a loving non needy energy. But if you’re forcing and desperate for them then you’re in the wrong place to be manifesting. And is a sure sign you need to heal. So don’t force love yourself see your worth if you want an sp align to the way you want them to be with your thoughts and get on with your life happy
"I couldn't be chosen because I wasn't choosing myself. " Wow! That's powerful! I try to remind myself to choose myself first, and not in a mean selfish way, and it almost always turns into a positive experience.
Thanks again for sharing such wonderful insights. Best wishes to you!
You’re so welcome and thank you. Life is a mirror reflecting our beliefs and learns xxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropwhy so many coaches say that, self concept or choose your self doesn't matter?? I' m confused..(Greece here😊)
@synthiat6909 I’ve never heard anyone say that? Maybe they don’t align to what I needed to do to transform my life. It’s not an easy journey but it is a very rewarding one if you remain faithful to it xx
Such an eye opening video. I feel stupid about some of my actions in the past. I was the one to initiate the contact or message. I now know how stipid i would have looked. Will never do such a thing again. The things you told in the video resonate with me and I have experienced similar things Thank you!
Don’t blame yourself or see yourself that way! Think about what I share to the world with my experiences and I am not embarrassed about me or those actions because I wasn’t doing it out of malice just to be loved. When you heal and forgive yourself and let go of negative beliefs and emotions you won’t feel like this! You’re waking up to old patterns that’s all! It’s time to focus on the version of you you know you can be now and sometimes it’s about knowing where we were that gets us to where we want to be xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropthank you for the kind words and positive energy.
❤❤❤you are the best
I chose myself and walked away ❤
Why and where it’s coming from … fear off losing or not being important enough … it’s actually giving our power away …. Gratefull to be remembered to take my power back
Amazing awareness ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Natalie that WAS me exactly. Thank you you for making it obvious. I now know the path ahead that you have shown me! Robert
Yay! 🙌 so happy for you xxx
I thank you immensely for all your videos. They’ve been so helpful to me. I went through that chasing phase when one of my friends was pulling away. I’ve understood I need to value myself first. It’s not worth wasting your energy on people who decide to stop sharing time with you.
Hugs from Barcelona.
Well done! It’s not an easy thing to do but you valuing yourself more makes it easier! Creating space for what is right for you too! Hugs from the UK 🇬🇧 xxxx
Correct. I will continue to try to send the energy vibes to convince the universe why I will be the best fit for him, but never ever force him....
I resonate so much with all of your stories! I’ve just started my self love self healing journey and I can feel the energy shift within me after watching every video you post! From watching no contact videos to get them back to watching YOUR videos and not giving a crap if they do or not. I’ve been a people pleaser for far too long enough is enough 😂 thank you x
Wow this really makes me smile so much! Well done I’m so proud of you and thank you for sharing this wonderful message too xxx
You are becoming my favorite manifesting person!❤
Wow thank you 🙏 xxxx
Thanks Natalie and goodbye.... I will move on.... I learned a lot...... She trapped me with the love-bombing..... I let my guard down.
Yeah that’s the tough part when they love bomb you. It was always a manipulative game to them. Not your fault bro. Heal and be kind to yourself.
We are all learning and growing at the pace we need too lovely one xx
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Why you cant think that she might loves and excited you so she showed you her love a lot?
When you understand, this life is a dream... nobody has done anything to you , and the most freeing part is you've never done anything to anyone ❤
Yep, I absolutely repelled her by doing just this! I have to take blame - I just didn’t know what I was doing being married for so long prior. I’ll never make that mistake again.
Don’t blame yourself learn from this with love for yourself. it’s a pattern of belief that’s all. You can change that just like I did xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop will reach out soon.
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Love everything you do, Natalie!!!! Appreciate you!!!
Thanks Tim! You’re so welcome and thank you always for your kind words and heartfelt support on my channel too. Xxx
I never forced anyone to LOVE me
how can we be FREE? if we worry too much about what others may think - when we do our earnest best with whatever it is we've got to give ? so FREEK THE HECK OUT ! goddesspeed again regardless yawl . . .
So honestly and amazing that you share your story ❤️it helps me so much 🙏thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️
You’re very welcome lovely xxxx
THANK YOU NATALIE!!!❤❤❤❤
Always beautiful soul xxxx
Big love Nat! ❤️
Thank you xxx❤️
Thank you Natalie 🥰♥️
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remember!! they chose you when you weren’t selfish. you were thinking about their needs as well.
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this is the behavior that women have displayed for centuries, putting their needs first and when considering what they want, finding themselves selfish as our mothers and society taught us that we have to be sweet, grateful, smile nicely and yes, put someone else's needs first. Do you really want to say: put their needs before your own?? Let's stay down, as women? I in no way believe that this is what @nataliedanceasthepennisdrop wants to teach us.
@@jacquelinevanlieshout13 you took what i said way out of context. there is a reason why ur single. because u want too much control. you can put your needs first while also not being selfish.
I was really good friends with 2 people for over 15 years. We would occasionally get together. Then, it was like, let's get together again... great. The problem with that was that I was the one reaching out to them. I got tired of it and said fk that... I'm done
Thank you Natalie XOXO
You’re very welcome xxx
Good one Nat! ❤
Thank you xxx
So true … thank you to remind me ❤
You’re so welcome xxxx
❤❤❤ Thankyou x
You are so welcome xxxx
I ❤ this!!!
Thank you xxx
Esti minunata!!!frumoasa si inteligenta❤😘😘😘multumesc
I was desperately in need of love
I feel that. Sending you love without force beautiful soul xxxx
@@Anirudhsekhar I understand you. I felt this way after losing my wife in death. Remove the need and they will come to you.
@ishmaelali I’m sorry you lost your wife xxx❤️
The love has always been within you to uncover. A journey to unleash it xxxx
how can we be FREE ? if we worry too much about what others may think - when we do our earnest best with whatever it is we've got to give ? so FREEK THE HECK OUT !
I love you lol
She spoke to my soul today 🥹❤️🩹
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i dont really get it, in many of your other videos you say if you want a sp back you have to affirm that he misses you and is in love with you etc. which is actually forcing.. and now you say you have to let him go?!
Forcing is based on your energy and desperation. Anyone can affirm from a loving non needy energy. But if you’re forcing and desperate for them then you’re in the wrong place to be manifesting. And is a sure sign you need to heal. So don’t force love yourself see your worth if you want an sp align to the way you want them to be with your thoughts and get on with your life happy
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