Well, make it the most beautiful day possible ☺️ first and foremost enjoy it, be present in the present moment and don’t overthink it. Be glad that you have the courage and the opportunity to tell someone how you feel and if it hits home then great 🎉❤ if not, well you had a beautiful day full of great memories. 😊
I (a guy) will try to be helpful, will be quiet(er than my usual quietness) so as not to annoy /offend, and will never, ever admit my feelings so as to not be weird /a creep
Fr. I'm feeling delulu as well now. But my situation is tricky because I finally accepted the fact that I find a guy (that rubs me the wrong way; I hate him and I don't know why 😭) attractive. Like he and I don't interact much but when we do, he always does these things that make me simultaneously hate him AND like him more 😅 Edit: some people bring out my competitive streak (like that guy I mentioned earlier), other people bring out the other traits in me (like my ex mellowed me out type stuff)
The thing is with me, I know so much of the psychological ways to tell if someone likes you or not. The problem is, whenever I am around my crush I forget to pay attention to their body language and have no idea if they feel the same 💀
i kinda forget my friend's body language too, but one thing I'm sure is that SHE DOES ALL OF THE SIGNS... well except for the last one if its big news its through text lmao
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
@icysnow57cold64 dude I totally know how you're feeling and I used to feel that way strongly, specifically in the summer of 2021. Tell me if this is correct but I think you're feeling like women can have deeper closer friendships than men and you want that too. I was so jealous of women for the way they have close friendships and emotional connection and I still am a little but not as much. I think it's because I have a close friend that I'm able to open up to, if it were not for him maybe I would still feel the same, lacking deep friendships. For example women talk through their emotions more and they experience emotions in a deeper way than we guys do, like for example being sad or crying for someone they don't know, something I used to also be jealous about. But I feel like I am empathetic but I can detatch myself from people I'm feeling sorry for, which is actually helpful in terms of not becoming stuck in that emotion. Female friendships are different from male friendship. But people just need one close, friend they can open up to and have intimate conversations with. To answer your question specifically, I think the answer is we have to realize that men and women are much more similar than we are different. Men come in all kinds and so do women. There are men who are very close and intimate with their friends, and women who are not. Relationships, platonic or romantic, between men and women don't follow a particular generalized set of rules of how to bond with each other but each one is different and they just bond as people, with their shared interests or values, opening up with each other or just quality time together, getting to know particular things about each other and their histories. The other thing is we and men, obviously this is easier said than done, but we can collectively change in our friend circles to become more open with each other and have deeper emotional connections. Those of us guys who appreciate the closeness of female friendships can be close friends with each other or find female friends to be close to in that same way. So male/female friends and romantic partners can have relationships in ways that are more stereotypically feminine or masculine. We do have the agency to change to be more open, to the extent there's any reason to change. I used to hate the way people dis in toxic masculinity because it's a total generalization of men and there's not similar things we as a society shame women collectively for- we as a group are singled out. Especially because the way toxic masculinity is portrayed is not how men in my life have been (I live in a pretty liberal area tho in the US). Part of it is just shaming men for "male culture" which isn't as emotional and more focused on just doing your work, whatever that is. It's also a little more competitive in some ways. But actually we guys love each other, we do have close friend groups. In some ways we don't need to change, we're just different. although again not that different, men and women are actually very similar. And we also can be proud of the way we are more competitive We also have less drama, and I personally think since we don't lean on our friends as much for emotional support, we are more able to process emotions on our own, emotional independence which is good thing. We're more able to bond with each other by making fun of each other, something I think women don't do as much. We do it in a way where you know something about the other person that you can both laugh about, and it's one of the good parts of that dichotomy. Laughing at each other, especially multiple people in a friend group laughing at something one person said, while knowing that we all like and love each other, really can bring everyone closer together, so long as it's done in a way that is appropriate and that friend also understands. So essentially one, we can have any type of relationship we want in terms of closeness, assuming we can find people with whom we become close with, men or women. Two, men and women are very similar, and we really don't have to put women and "female culture" on a pedestal because they have the same types of problems. Three, we can be proud of "male culture" and the ways we are different, such as being able to make fun of each other more, being potentially more emotionally independent and more friendly-competitive with each other. We guys do love each other. And four, we can change, to be more open about our feelings
That sounds rough. Multiple rejections are known to be hard on our self-esteem and they do tend to make us grow aversvie toward love. Do you think you'll ever open up to asking out your crush?
my brother i feel you so badly. I have been rejected so many times aswell and I also get attached only for them to reject me. Worst part os that they act so nice to you and you genuinely feel like you could have something with them, then reality strikes
Timestamps 1). They use protective gestures when they're around you 0:47 2). They become a little bit of a copycat 1:35 3). They gaze into your eyes 2:11 4). They laugh with you 2:47 5). They don't use anything to block you from them 3:23 6). They call you with big news 4:01 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
SHE LAIGHS WITH ME🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂 I THINK MY CRUSH DOES LIKE THIS DJ...BACK.. I'M NOT SURPRISED... I'M HAPPY TO SEE A VIDEO THAT VALIDATES MY FEELINGS...❤❤❤❤ HAPPY THURSDAY APRIL 27,2023
I’ve been watching you since 2020, you’ve helped me made me feel okay. From watching videos called “signs you have depression” to “does he like you?” to NOW “Why you have no motivation” I’m pretty sure this channel is going to stick with me for awhile💗
I think that the best solution is ask them directly whether he likes you or not, instead of confessing your feeling to him. If he likes you, you gotta hang out with him. But if he doesn't , at least your relationship is not ruined and u know, that's the right time for you to move on. I've been crushing for a long time, but that only hurts me.
i can see how this is on the whole, better by far than - yeah, confessing how we feel, but - at the same time (unless you're so lucky) wouldn't it be weird to just ask if they like you... i mean idk, just feeling sm that that could come as of pretty weird and also rather - "gee dont i think so highly of myself"
This is only based off personal experience and not true for everyone, people can handle feelings and attraction differently. Ofc I don’t have any context but unless you really know that they have no interest I really hope you don’t use this video to base everything off of.
This seems pretty accurate, though I struggle with body language and eye contact to the point that it almost lies. I often cross my arms around my crush, because I'm pretty nervous around him and I just struggle with eye contact in general.
I’ve been watching your videos for about a month or more, when my best friend/crush stopped talking to me when I confessed, just to get a glimpse of hope
I wish I had this before. All of my crushes ended the same way. With me meeting their girlfriends and realizing they aren’t straight. And every time it stung. To the point where now that I have a new crush. I’m scared of being rejected silently again.
I don’t have personal experience but my friend had a crush and she rejected him brutally. He’s over her now but he told me he’s scared it will happen again
Rejection can be painful 😭 Gotta keep trying though, the upside to being accepted WAY outweighs the downside of getting rejected 👌Failures and losses are inevitable, best to minimize their importance and see that they can merely be learning experiences for the future 🧐🤩
And to be honest. I don’t think I will have anyone for a while. I’m semi clingy because I’m touch-starved, I’m gay and a trans female, and I have both ADHD and autism.
Thankfully I go to the not gay school so I don’t have to worry about it until my heart gets crushed by these gals like this is the 1960s and your a teen that finished drinking a energy drink
Yeah I can relate, I'm worried they noticed I like them and keep a distance away from me. Till now I think they didn't notice bec they didn't change ever since I met them.
Today i finally asked my crush for her snap!! And I got it!! We’ve been writing the whole day!! I don’t know how it took me one year to ask for her snap…though my friend caught her looking at me and smiling, and she seems to always want to keep the conversation going and asks questions and stuff! :D
@@Psych2go i still treated him the same as before, but i really wanted to make clear of what i viewed our relationship to be so i don’t string him along unintentionally. so, one day, i told him in a conversation that i teased him so much because i saw him as a brother and i saw him visually deflate 😭
@@TugiDeg no it’s ok, i don’t mind you asking!! i saw him as a brother and knew he had a crush on me. i didn’t really want to be his girlfriend because of that and because i just couldn’t see him as my boyfriend
my relationship with my friend is pretty sarcastic since we always joke around and laugh together, so it's really hard to tell each others feelings weather they're just joking around or actually serious... i don't think my friend has still suspected a thing. but i'm gonna have to keep it that way for now so i don't make her suddenly uncomfortable.
Uhm, I do all of these things with one of my really good male friends. Although he is physically quite a bit larger than me, I tend to be protective of him. And during class, if I can I try to sit near him and I feel also feel safest when I'm close to him. I'm not sure if my feelings are platonic or romantic though. I confessed to him earlier this year but he wasn't really interested but we agreed to remain good friends
you've just described all the behaviours of really good friends when they are around each other, but i guess if you don't know the person very well and they also do all that, then yeah, those are pretty good road signs pointing you towards safely, but not necessarily successfully, making your first move...
I adore these videos so much! 🥰 They are so informative and very easy to understand and listen to, I love them! 💖 Not to mention how calming and nice your voice is to listen to... 👉👈🥺 It seriously makes these videos all the better! 😌
i found out after graduating from HS that i actually got a crush on a classmate but we never got into contact with each other since then. while watching the video, i thought to myself "yeah, they did that a lot during HS. omg why was i so dumb? 😂" it's been 7-8 years now. hopefully they're doing all right :))
You should try to find them again. That’s what happened to me and my husband. I had a crush on him, he was really shy. We didn’t talk or see each other for about 6-7 years when I wrote him a letter and sent it to his parents house because I figured they’d know where he was and give it to him. Long story short, we’ve been married for 24 years and have four children. 😊
Whenever i look at my crush and she stares me back, i get really flustered even though i act like i dont care and i just turn away cause she is so damn cute
To the first: my crush got me a chair while I was standing and playing a game with a group of friends To number 2: I know I do this to him Number 3: I have a little trouble giving eye contact, I am a little awkward Number 4: we laugh together a lot 😊 To the 5th: I haven't noticed him distance himself To the last one: we haven't really called yet
So ummm... it was going pretty great for a while. Then I asked him if he liked me back (we had started talking because I told him I liked him, and asked him on a date we never went on) and he said he wasn't sure if he liked me back. We kept talking for a few more months and he started becoming more dry when texting, not asking back how my day was and never texted first or asked if I wanted to call. There were a few times he never even responded, but I kept texting for the next couple days, and then he would start talking again. He could never give me a strait answer and as of Sunday he ghosted me again for the 3rd time and I decided it's not worth my time anymore for the 3rd time. Hopefully I last this time and don't text him. If he really does like me, he is going to have to put in the work now because I think I'm done. I know there is someone out there that will put in the effort and really want to talk and be around me. He isn't a bad guy, he is actually a really good person. I just think maybe he is ready or doesn't want a relationship right now, or maybe he just isn't quite mature enough yet.
@@calicoraven7332 I'm a guy (15) and this is the exact thing I'm afraid of, because if she doesn't like me back I still want to be friends with her, but I almost feel like if I tell her she won't be comfortable around me
@grizz865 yeah, I get that. I am a girl and it was really awkward to be the one to ask him on a date and tell him I liked him, because usually it's "supposed" to be the other way around. I am kind of shy and quiet unless I'm around my friends so it can be hard to talk to people.
Remember guys these signs dont always work all the time for everyone as this can apply to friends as well doesnt mean they have to have a crush on u if they do all these things lol
@@Pxeaer_ Sooo true. Whenever my crush looks at me, I blush, so I look anywhere but at him, heh But he is quite nice to me, especially after I taught him how to play a piece on the piano (the best part was I could touch his hand to guide them, shh...) Me editing:I don't know why I wrote the thing in the brackets, soo cringe...
@@Pxeaer_same bro, but sometimes we even have staring contests, we (mostly i) death stare right into each other’s souls😭 is thhis enemies to lovers or what
there's a thing that ladies sometimes do where they stare at someone that they're interested in but the moment that their crush looks over their way, they quickly divert their eyes elsewhere. this pisses me off greatly because like what? is there something on my face that you don't want to tell me?
This might sounds dumb, but ever since i realised that ive been mirroring my crush all the time, ive always been focused on not tryna copy him first...
I make protective gestures out of courtesy, the copycat to not stand out in a group, not making eye contact during a conversation is impolite and I call friends with news and we talk about anecdotes we've had lately and laught or cry about them. All of this is normal in my everyday life and I actually take it for granted.(Both sides, I and my fellow human beings.) How am I supposed to find out if someone has a crush on me?
When I accidentally stare at someone and they stare back, what I like to do is look at them, smile, and look away, Or stare at them menacingly and widen my eyes and give them a “WHAT U LOOKING AT DUDE“ glare
Hello, your relationship videos have helped me a lot to have better clarity. 😊 Men can be quite complex as they don’t vocalise their thoughts as much as women.
For a while I am having a crush on this guy and at first I'm in denial because I thought I felt this way because of people constantly shipping us and I keep telling them no, he is just a good friend but then time passed by started to notice some things that convinced that I liked him because I am smiling simply by just thinking of him, I get so excited when he messages me and I am always in a good mood when I'm with him and I'm wishing that it will not end. He often picks on me like friends do and copying my gestures it gets annoying sometimes, and I noticed that he's only talkative with me I think that's is because I have been told that I'm a good listener. So here's the thing I often caught him glancing at me, and he never breaks eye contact with me, I told you I don't want to assume things but it's not only one time so yeah, anyway whatever the reason is I don't want know because I don't want to ruin what we have now and no I'm not gonna confess because I've through enough heart breaks. Besides we are not hanging with each for now and we are not chatting anymore as we used to and besides he lives far away from my place, so my feelings for him might fade within time of not seeing him I guess?
So heres the steps you said and ill explain what my crush does thats kinda like what you said. If you can can you give advice. 1. She doesn't really do it that much, she has opened the door for me sometimes and when I have aguement, she helps to calm and tell me to not do it 2. I have autism so i am bit hypo act bit different to a avaege person. She hasnt really copied me but she is sometimes hypo when i bit hypo. 3. When we speak we always have eye contact and we both noticed if we both make eye contact for like 10seconds we tend to have a conversation. 4. This mostly happens but always happens when we facetime. Usally she or me stares at one and another and we tend to laugh, i always laugh when laughs and she mostly does the same. 5. We have rarely sat next to eachother but when ever we have a conversation or see eachother after school, we tend to go near eachother. She usually has a bag around her but when im near she puts her bag behind her 6. She always tells me stuff before anyone else even if she was suppose to tell someone else before me. Honerable mentions: -We usally call everyday and it lasts over 1 hour and a half an hour the most we called was 13th April 2023 which was 7 times, all lasting 2hrs. -Im a football person and when i call her then say ima get changed and play football she says yay and when i put my phone near the goal she acts like a cheerleader. When she's at home and i call her, she tends to do activities like makeup, dancing and naps, we done a nap thing and it lasted over 10mins, whenever she needs to go somewhere she mostly says you are coming with me and takes her phone. - She asked me what Jacket she should wear and i suggested one that kinda looks like mine and she actually wore it for A whole week and someother times. -Im a pianoist and she loves golden hour, ive been learning it and are planning to play it to her and if i havw the guts and its a talent show, ill say this song is for my special person and some people already know im looking at one now. -When i had double isolation, i was in the courtyard and she took her break to come see me in a classroom near the courtyard. - One of her friends wrote my initial+ her initials on the board with a love heart so i ran then came 10secs after because i already missed her
3:23 WITH 5 I DUNNO. i mean i literally like someone but my anxiety gets the best of me and i subconsiously end up being avoidant to not mess up or do something wrong 😭
The thing is, my crush (I think) likes a girl from his old school, but I think that he might like me. He literally copies my every move, always makes eye contact with me with a few glances to the lips (that felt weird to say lol), and anytime I laugh my crush laughs, which is the most adorable one in the world. I'm still not sure if he likes me back or not, but I'm hopeful, but not trying to get hope too high. UPDATE: it turns out he likes me back and he gives the best hugs
My crush also mimics my actions. She moves when I moves, sits down when I sits down (etc.) Also she waits for me to do something first and then she follows. She also used the same words as me for one of her responses through text. I one time just said "Ah, I see." And 2 mins later she said "I see" when replying to something else I said. I really want to tell her that I like her, but it feels too soon as we've only been friends for at least 3 weeks.
@@airtiger4577 well how u describe it, she might like you, but she might just think that ur cool and wanna copy you. I do that to my friend, but I don't see them as anything more than a cool friend.
@@Pxeaer_ that sounds more like my best friend. She never saw me more than just a friend. I used to have feelings for her, until I found out that she slightly liked girls a bit more than guys. (She's bisexual with a female preference) She hugs me on a regular basis and we held hands one time.
I said hi to my crush while he was about to walk past me while I was sitting down on the bus, and when I said hi he gazed into my eyes and walked a little bit more slow. That’s the first time he has done so. And sometimes when I look at the back of the bus, we make eye contact and sometimes he breaks first. I don’t think he likes me tho. 🙃
Yikes, looking back, a lot of people have held eye contact with me when talking. I had no idea they all wanted me like that. I need to report my boss to HR...
Me are my crush are both good friends...we laugh together, we play together, we care each other, we chat a lot, we are little naughty towards each other...and I think this is the best relationship 😀❤
@@ShriRadheShyam84kos and did he/she accepted? because I can't ask my crush and you know she is so beatiful(and normally I promised my self to don't love any girl till you go to collage but you know feelings)and i looked other photo and my eyes literally looking to her not the camera and she has same photo :( or :)
@@akbulutarda472 see...when I proposed my crush...he didn't said any thing...this made me little depressed and then suddenly after few months I could sence the changes in his behaviour towards myself and from then we are good friend and I didn't tried to propose him cause I was afraid of losing him...anyways I accepted the bond of friendship and thanked the God for our great bonding...and I think we couldn't be so happy and comfortable in love relationship rather then being in friendship relationship...we both are happy in friendship relationship
@@ShriRadheShyam84kos so you are not dating and about me my crush could have figured out because in 2 photos(our only photos) i was looking to her and she has same photographe
someone might have a crush on you, but just hasn't shown many signs. This guy had a crush on me, i first met him like 5 years before he confessed. He confessed at the end of the school year, I had not noticed any signs from him at all, but i didnt rlly pay much attention to many ppl. Just remember, if you reject someoen, try to be as nice as possible.
@@Pxeaer_ Naw that’s cute. I highly doubt that someone is in love with me, but I am not in love currently so I would not have feelings for them though But thank you for your advice! :)
1. Protective Gesture - Got my snowboard for me ( I usually get it myself), went and got me a whole new helmet from the back (actually 2) because mine was choking me. Slyly moved me away from the group of bros. Far away lmfao. 2. Copycat - Not sure? Haven't noticed. 3. Gaze into your eyes - He's the only one I can't stare at directly into his eyes because I get nervous and worry I'm going to be found out lmfao. But I think he stares into my eyes? Idk. Stares at me? 4. They laugh with you - Haven't been able to tell a funny story yet. I'll try next time. 5. Keep Close - Watches my stories, even when he wasn't following me yet. Likes any and all messages I send him. When he led me away from the dude group he stood very close to me. I noticed how close he was. It was very close. I didn't mind it. I felt like I could melt into his arms. When his coworker came out, she just gave us this look. 6. Calling with big news - not there yet. I feel like we're still figuring what this even is. Gives me very Bridgerton Season 2 vibes with do they have feelings for each other or what? They're sharing moments. How can the other not know? But they don't know. So what gives? LMFAO But when he does write me, responds back as quickly as he can, and in paragraphs. Which I love and appreciate. And also not mentioned on the list, mentioned a small detail that I told him back in January that I totally forgot about. It took me a second to realize what he was talking about. And to note, I have dude friends and NONE OF THEM would remotely do ANY OF THESE THINGS FOR ME TO ME ETC. So I know the difference between treating me like a bro and treating me like something else. I'm just not sure completely. I was the first to JUST drop that I'm HEAVILY single. lmfao
My daughter's father and I recently started talking again after a nearly ten year hiatus. He has been showing me ALL of these signs.... but things are MEGA complicated.... I am two months into widow-hood and while he is living with one woman he claims to be into another while at the same time spending LOTS of time either with me, by phone call or text. We have gotten very close again, but he insists we are not a thing and can't be a thing, at least not when I should be healing. But.... he is the one that helps me heal.... why does everything always have to be so complicated.... 😢
@@RobloxianDoni No, actually that means we would like to become worthy and not the spoiler to the person who's having crush on us. . . . So that we may not break his/her heart, even by mistake 🙃
i have done this in the past ppl might say that I have no shame but I usually get close to them and start a little flirting and stuff. I've had 2 crushes (not at the same time )and i became friends with em , one is my best friend till this day other one is my new crush we are kind a sorta seeing each other . so my little advice is to get close to em if u can and give them the signs that u like em, so u can confess based on their reaction. its get 2 know em better anyway right ? hope i helped in anyway , i usually confess to my crush and i don't think rejection effect me very much , hope ur things will go right , good luck
@@pabixiao That was really nice advice, I want to tell him, but am scared to get rejected or made fun of, not just by him, but by his friends and my friends, since they don't know who my crush is... How do you tell someone you like them without telling someone you like them? How do you make them tell you that they like you or ask you if you like them without- Does anybody understand me or am I just rambling on like a headless chicken?
@@pikachu4eva the answer is you can't. In order to tell someone you like them, you have to tell them. There is no other way. I mean, what if someone likes you? How would you know they like you, if they won't tell you? There will be signs but it will still be uncertain unless they tell you.
im kinda clingy....to everyone... hehe so um... yeah how clingy? i hug all my friends every time i got a chance! i really like physical touch to my love ones💖✨
Honestly, it can be more complicated than that. I’ve seen I guess studies that show if your crush is boy they are also likely to make fun of you more than others around you. In some cases that could mean they like you.
Everytime when I get a crush…it never works out bc it might be me or they have a gf….or they think I’m annoying. I’m in high school and I had a crush and I thought he was the one but turns out he wasn’t. So…while I was crushing on him, his bsf was crushing on me plus I got played by both of them and turned out that they didn’t really like me…but now I’ve moved on from them and got a new crush and he is just so amazing and handsome plus he has a gf but Ik I have to move on again and I can’t help it cause it feels like he’s flirting with me. He would make me laugh, show him what he’s laughing at even though I don’t ask or say anything, he would raise the paper up so I wouldn’t get it, and when I was depressed the other day he tired to make me laugh. I’m so lucky to have him but I saw his poem while he was in a different class and his poem said that he hopes to stay with his girlfriend. I kinda broke my heart but I hope one day I’ll find someone who will like me. 🥺❤️
Just because people laugh and make you laugh doesn't mean they like you. I'm demi and pan and I've never even been into dating. I've never cared. But thanks to autism and something like objectum s*xuality, I've had a relationship with a character for 3 years.
Oh my god his eyes when he stares in to my soul through my eyes. I see whole andromeda galaxy through his eyes. I can literally write poems about his eyes...
Okay so, I am full on in love with my best friend and we both do everything listed in the video? She’s always opening doors for me or steering me out of the way of people when I zone out while I’m walking. Her eyes are gorgeous and she likes making direct eye contact which usually leaves me really flustered. Last week she even brought me the first cup she made in her new pottery class because she knows how much I love coffee. (It was really nice so I cried and then she teased me about it.) The only problem is, I don’t think she’s gay? She’s always saying that she doesn’t want a relationship, but she does rant about guys she’s met sometimes. If all the signs are there, should I go for it? Or should I just keep cherishing our friendship?
The signs that related to my crush the most were 3,4 and 5. When we talk he makes sure to maintain eye contact and makes sure to show that he’s listening. My crush also comes up with a lot of funny jokes and conversations. Whenever I bring up a funny conversation I never fail to make him laugh with me! And lastly when we sit next to each other he makes sure he doesn’t create a giant barrier between us, like if his backpack is on the bench, he puts it on the floor.
Number 7) She ignores You and act like she doesn't like You, but then she hooks You with silly things just for your attention. She doesn't realize You see her smile when "You don't look". Man: "I'm... confused"
At my school, me and my crush think me like each other, but neither of us are 100% sure. So, we are mostly awkward and quiet around each other and we stare at one another. Its cute❤
mine tried to talk to me quite a few times. and I often found myself trying to talk to them as well. After a while, i found out that it was highly likely that they did have a crush on me too :D. My only mistake... I didn't notice this until 2 years later, we were no longer in a class together, and had not spoken to them for 1 WHOLE YEAR. 😭 Yet I feel as though my feelings have grown stronger... ❤
@@aztriid No you misunderstood... I only started to find out that they have a chance of liking me back a full year AFTER we were in the same class together. After that first year, we never spoke again.
How do you tell your crush you like them?
That's the neat part, you don't and it ends... At least in my experience anyway- 😅
Would you want it to end or find out if they like you back?
Well, make it the most beautiful day possible ☺️ first and foremost enjoy it, be present in the present moment and don’t overthink it. Be glad that you have the courage and the opportunity to tell someone how you feel and if it hits home then great 🎉❤ if not, well you had a beautiful day full of great memories. 😊
I (a guy) will try to be helpful, will be quiet(er than my usual quietness) so as not to annoy /offend, and will never, ever admit my feelings so as to not be weird /a creep
@@devenmellor what happened next????
If someone is staring at me , it's a staring contest now
👁️👄👁️ Ready when you are
@@Psych2go Never thought Psych2Go would use those set of emojis..The Comments Section keeps on surprising.
FR 😂
Yup prob
Lmao okay
i love these videos they either shut me down or fuel my delusions
Jesus, this made me laugh really fucking loud
ME RIGHT NOW LMAOOO
Sameee
These videos make me a bit too delulu😅
Fr. I'm feeling delulu as well now. But my situation is tricky because I finally accepted the fact that I find a guy (that rubs me the wrong way; I hate him and I don't know why 😭) attractive.
Like he and I don't interact much but when we do, he always does these things that make me simultaneously hate him AND like him more 😅
Edit: some people bring out my competitive streak (like that guy I mentioned earlier), other people bring out the other traits in me (like my ex mellowed me out type stuff)
Just focus on your goals and be normal with your loved ones, don't use tricks or shortcuts. That's my experience
Great advice! Has this advice worked in your favor?
@@Psych2go your delusional
@@rexruby1868 no one asked for ur hate
@@Paradox3427 RIGHT :D
@@rexruby1868imagine hating on someone that has helped so many people
The thing is with me, I know so much of the psychological ways to tell if someone likes you or not. The problem is, whenever I am around my crush I forget to pay attention to their body language and have no idea if they feel the same 💀
Same and now because I have moved somewhere else I can’t see them anymore
i kinda forget my friend's body language too, but one thing I'm sure is that SHE DOES ALL OF THE SIGNS... well except for the last one if its big news its through text lmao
SAME i watch this video and in my head OK REMEMBER TO LOOK FOR THIS then when i see him forgets about the video
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
@icysnow57cold64 dude I totally know how you're feeling and I used to feel that way strongly, specifically in the summer of 2021. Tell me if this is correct but I think you're feeling like women can have deeper closer friendships than men and you want that too. I was so jealous of women for the way they have close friendships and emotional connection and I still am a little but not as much. I think it's because I have a close friend that I'm able to open up to, if it were not for him maybe I would still feel the same, lacking deep friendships. For example women talk through their emotions more and they experience emotions in a deeper way than we guys do, like for example being sad or crying for someone they don't know, something I used to also be jealous about. But I feel like I am empathetic but I can detatch myself from people I'm feeling sorry for, which is actually helpful in terms of not becoming stuck in that emotion. Female friendships are different from male friendship. But people just need one close, friend they can open up to and have intimate conversations with.
To answer your question specifically, I think the answer is we have to realize that men and women are much more similar than we are different. Men come in all kinds and so do women. There are men who are very close and intimate with their friends, and women who are not. Relationships, platonic or romantic, between men and women don't follow a particular generalized set of rules of how to bond with each other but each one is different and they just bond as people, with their shared interests or values, opening up with each other or just quality time together, getting to know particular things about each other and their histories. The other thing is we and men, obviously this is easier said than done, but we can collectively change in our friend circles to become more open with each other and have deeper emotional connections. Those of us guys who appreciate the closeness of female friendships can be close friends with each other or find female friends to be close to in that same way. So male/female friends and romantic partners can have relationships in ways that are more stereotypically feminine or masculine.
We do have the agency to change to be more open, to the extent there's any reason to change. I used to hate the way people dis in toxic masculinity because it's a total generalization of men and there's not similar things we as a society shame women collectively for- we as a group are singled out. Especially because the way toxic masculinity is portrayed is not how men in my life have been (I live in a pretty liberal area tho in the US). Part of it is just shaming men for "male culture" which isn't as emotional and more focused on just doing your work, whatever that is. It's also a little more competitive in some ways. But actually we guys love each other, we do have close friend groups. In some ways we don't need to change, we're just different. although again not that different, men and women are actually very similar.
And we also can be proud of the way we are more competitive We also have less drama, and I personally think since we don't lean on our friends as much for emotional support, we are more able to process emotions on our own, emotional independence which is good thing. We're more able to bond with each other by making fun of each other, something I think women don't do as much. We do it in a way where you know something about the other person that you can both laugh about, and it's one of the good parts of that dichotomy. Laughing at each other, especially multiple people in a friend group laughing at something one person said, while knowing that we all like and love each other, really can bring everyone closer together, so long as it's done in a way that is appropriate and that friend also understands.
So essentially one, we can have any type of relationship we want in terms of closeness, assuming we can find people with whom we become close with, men or women. Two, men and women are very similar, and we really don't have to put women and "female culture" on a pedestal because they have the same types of problems. Three, we can be proud of "male culture" and the ways we are different, such as being able to make fun of each other more, being potentially more emotionally independent and more friendly-competitive with each other. We guys do love each other. And four, we can change, to be more open about our feelings
When u realize it’s you showing all this-
So lucky it would be 😢
Unrealistic 😭😭😭
After getting rejected a lot of times I decided to never ask my crush out anymore. I get attached too fast and it takes a lot to heal
That sounds rough. Multiple rejections are known to be hard on our self-esteem and they do tend to make us grow aversvie toward love. Do you think you'll ever open up to asking out your crush?
I FEEL YOU MAN 😭😭😭
I think you should continue (Just do what i said not what i do because i can't tell her)
my brother i feel you so badly. I have been rejected so many times aswell and I also get attached only for them to reject me. Worst part os that they act so nice to you and you genuinely feel like you could have something with them, then reality strikes
Poor guy. I would just let him confess first
Timestamps
1). They use protective gestures when they're around you 0:47
2). They become a little bit of a copycat 1:35
3). They gaze into your eyes 2:11
4). They laugh with you 2:47
5). They don't use anything to block you from them 3:23
6). They call you with big news 4:01
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you for the timestamps!
@@Psych2go not a problem happy to help
SHE LAIGHS WITH ME🎉😂🎉😂🎉😂 I THINK MY CRUSH DOES LIKE THIS DJ...BACK..
I'M NOT SURPRISED...
I'M HAPPY TO SEE A VIDEO THAT VALIDATES MY FEELINGS...❤❤❤❤ HAPPY THURSDAY APRIL 27,2023
@@djbond6241 good luck
@@Psych2go btw why did the big news voice line was in 2022??
i got confused for a second with the amount of comments and likes but then i realized that the video is unlisted
why is this unlisted?
@@うきあ39 idk, i guess they just wanted to keep this video a little more private or it was an accident
I’ve been seeing this quite often.
I just realised what you meant now too... 😅 I'm like how on Earth is there comments from 5 months ago, is this an OLD video?! 😂
Didn’t realize that, but makes sense why I just heard 2022 😂
pov: your crush doesn’t do any of these and your just delulu
may all your delulu come trululu
I didnt jump to the video, I FLEW WITH THE SPEED OF LIGHT
Every time I pass by, she'd look at me in the eyes for longer than most. To be looked at that way is a truly special feeling.
👁️👄👁️
@@Psych2go i dont think anyone looks at people like that
@@sansidk7128staring contest.
Do you like her? I so, I think you have a bright future ahead of you, with her in the picture :)
@@Psych2go this is hilarious
I’ve been watching you since 2020, you’ve helped me made me feel okay. From watching videos called “signs you have depression” to “does he like you?” to NOW “Why you have no motivation” I’m pretty sure this channel is going to stick with me for awhile💗
get helpbozo
@@rexruby1868 lol I’m trying-😀
DITTO 😎😍😘🤗😍🤗😍🐕🐕🐾🐕🐾🐕🐾🐕🐾🤗😘
@@rexruby1868 🤡
@@rexruby1868no 😗🤳
I think that the best solution is ask them directly whether he likes you or not, instead of confessing your feeling to him. If he likes you, you gotta hang out with him. But if he doesn't , at least your relationship is not ruined and u know, that's the right time for you to move on. I've been crushing for a long time, but that only hurts me.
i can see how this is on the whole, better by far than - yeah, confessing how we feel, but - at the same time (unless you're so lucky) wouldn't it be weird to just ask if they like you... i mean idk, just feeling sm that that could come as of pretty weird and also rather - "gee dont i think so highly of myself"
Actually, asking your crush if they like you, they can know you like them already by asking that question. There’s 98.7% chance.
What if they don't answer the question but rather say something else?
I don't have a crush, I've never had one, I just watch these videos to help my friends with theirs.
And I gotta say; they work well 👍
That makes sense
you are a great friend!
You're a hell rad friend!!
I'm motivated to help my friends after reading this comment 😊
I help my friends, but I have major trust issues so when I have a crush on someone I don’t tell them, because I feel they’ll somehow make it worse
And now I know I didn't mean anything to my crush all those times when I thought I did.
anjali kumari with the bts profile picture is really struggling here guys :(
I’m really sorry, maybe u mean more to them than u think)
Btw I don’t think mine likes me either, though I’m not sure
This is only based off personal experience and not true for everyone, people can handle feelings and attraction differently. Ofc I don’t have any context but unless you really know that they have no interest I really hope you don’t use this video to base everything off of.
My crush already rejected me but I still watch these videos XD
You're preparing yourself for when you have another crush!
This was me last year and yes same…
@@bigmommie120 i still didn't say it but she can figure out
last year i got friendzoned lol but that's ok with me at least i am something to him
Same my crush rejected me too 2 year ago but i still love him idk why😅
This seems pretty accurate, though I struggle with body language and eye contact to the point that it almost lies. I often cross my arms around my crush, because I'm pretty nervous around him and I just struggle with eye contact in general.
I’ve been watching your videos for about a month or more, when my best friend/crush stopped talking to me when I confessed, just to get a glimpse of hope
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID WHITH THAT THUMBNAIL 😭😭😭 I LOVE YOU PSYCH2GO TEAM
What anime was IT a reference of?
@@Sofflies horimiya
@@adita886 i knew IT! I just eanted to Make sure i got IT right. It was a great anime.
I wish I had this before. All of my crushes ended the same way. With me meeting their girlfriends and realizing they aren’t straight. And every time it stung. To the point where now that I have a new crush. I’m scared of being rejected silently again.
srry abt that
I don’t have personal experience but my friend had a crush and she rejected him brutally. He’s over her now but he told me he’s scared it will happen again
Rejection can be painful 😭 Gotta keep trying though, the upside to being accepted WAY outweighs the downside of getting rejected 👌Failures and losses are inevitable, best to minimize their importance and see that they can merely be learning experiences for the future 🧐🤩
And to be honest. I don’t think I will have anyone for a while. I’m semi clingy because I’m touch-starved, I’m gay and a trans female, and I have both ADHD and autism.
Thankfully I go to the not gay school so I don’t have to worry about it until my heart gets crushed by these gals like this is the 1960s and your a teen that finished drinking a energy drink
this just made me realize how obvious i am with him :sob:
Yeah I can relate, I'm worried they noticed I like them and keep a distance away from me. Till now I think they didn't notice bec they didn't change ever since I met them.
And how has that worked for you so far? Any luck?
Yes, I clicked the second I saw the notification. No, I'm not ashamed.
Thank you for tuning in so quickly!
PART 2:hi we stoped talking but when said i didnt have a crush anymore which is absolutely real we became closer btw i love ur vids so much
Today i finally asked my crush for her snap!! And I got it!! We’ve been writing the whole day!! I don’t know how it took me one year to ask for her snap…though my friend caught her looking at me and smiling, and she seems to always want to keep the conversation going and asks questions and stuff! :D
That's cute! How's it going 10mo later?
Hard to believe this only has 39 views
For real
@@PinkKeeby now it is lol
I just stumbled on long here and it’s unlisted? How?
i’m so oblivious to love and romance in general, i didn’t realize a guy i was friends with had a crush on me last year
I didnt reaslise the possibility of my crush liking me back until 2 years later : (
What did you end up doing when you found out that he had a crush on you? Did you act on it? Or did you choose to just let it be?
@@Psych2go i still treated him the same as before, but i really wanted to make clear of what i viewed our relationship to be so i don’t string him along unintentionally. so, one day, i told him in a conversation that i teased him so much because i saw him as a brother and i saw him visually deflate 😭
@@nelloed Did you want to be his gf/bf and just told the ""wrong"" thing? Or did you view him as a friend, if you don't mind me asking?
@@TugiDeg no it’s ok, i don’t mind you asking!! i saw him as a brother and knew he had a crush on me. i didn’t really want to be his girlfriend because of that and because i just couldn’t see him as my boyfriend
« They don’t use anything to block you » with my crush I always keep a big social distance because I’m shy 💀
my relationship with my friend is pretty sarcastic since we always joke around and laugh together, so it's really hard to tell each others feelings weather they're just joking around or actually serious... i don't think my friend has still suspected a thing. but i'm gonna have to keep it that way for now so i don't make her suddenly uncomfortable.
Uhm, I do all of these things with one of my really good male friends. Although he is physically quite a bit larger than me, I tend to be protective of him. And during class, if I can I try to sit near him and I feel also feel safest when I'm close to him. I'm not sure if my feelings are platonic or romantic though. I confessed to him earlier this year but he wasn't really interested but we agreed to remain good friends
Same
I love watching these even though I don't have a crush
Looks like I don't stand a chance. Thank you.
Why do you believe that you don't stand a chance?
How the hell was this uploaded 3 months ago
you've just described all the behaviours of really good friends when they are around each other, but i guess if you don't know the person very well and they also do all that, then yeah, those are pretty good road signs pointing you towards safely, but not necessarily successfully, making your first move...
I am a guy so I usually wouldn't say stuff like this, but holy hell this artstyle is cute af
I love your relationship advice and all but I have to tell you the truth, I'm here for your voice
I adore these videos so much! 🥰 They are so informative and very easy to understand and listen to, I love them! 💖 Not to mention how calming and nice your voice is to listen to... 👉👈🥺 It seriously makes these videos all the better! 😌
Thank you so much for your kind words! Did you learn anything new from this video?
It is very nice, I just recently disovered this channel (when I say recently I mean last week) and I don't think I'll be letting go of it soon :)))
@@Psych2goYes, my crush doesn't like me, heh
watching this without having any crush on someone helps me rethink these signs with a rational mind lol
i found out after graduating from HS that i actually got a crush on a classmate but we never got into contact with each other since then. while watching the video, i thought to myself "yeah, they did that a lot during HS. omg why was i so dumb? 😂"
it's been 7-8 years now. hopefully they're doing all right :))
You should try to find them again. That’s what happened to me and my husband. I had a crush on him, he was really shy. We didn’t talk or see each other for about 6-7 years when I wrote him a letter and sent it to his parents house because I figured they’d know where he was and give it to him. Long story short, we’ve been married for 24 years and have four children. 😊
That’s pretty genius.
okay, on a totally unrelated note - your voice is very pretty and soothing :)
Whenever i look at my crush and she stares me back, i get really flustered even though i act like i dont care and i just turn away cause she is so damn cute
To the first: my crush got me a chair while I was standing and playing a game with a group of friends
To number 2: I know I do this to him
Number 3: I have a little trouble giving eye contact, I am a little awkward
Number 4: we laugh together a lot 😊
To the 5th: I haven't noticed him distance himself
To the last one: we haven't really called yet
3 months have gone by, has anything come of it? 😃
So ummm... it was going pretty great for a while. Then I asked him if he liked me back (we had started talking because I told him I liked him, and asked him on a date we never went on) and he said he wasn't sure if he liked me back. We kept talking for a few more months and he started becoming more dry when texting, not asking back how my day was and never texted first or asked if I wanted to call. There were a few times he never even responded, but I kept texting for the next couple days, and then he would start talking again. He could never give me a strait answer and as of Sunday he ghosted me again for the 3rd time and I decided it's not worth my time anymore for the 3rd time. Hopefully I last this time and don't text him. If he really does like me, he is going to have to put in the work now because I think I'm done. I know there is someone out there that will put in the effort and really want to talk and be around me. He isn't a bad guy, he is actually a really good person. I just think maybe he is ready or doesn't want a relationship right now, or maybe he just isn't quite mature enough yet.
@@calicoraven7332 I'm a guy (15) and this is the exact thing I'm afraid of, because if she doesn't like me back I still want to be friends with her, but I almost feel like if I tell her she won't be comfortable around me
@grizz865 yeah, I get that. I am a girl and it was really awkward to be the one to ask him on a date and tell him I liked him, because usually it's "supposed" to be the other way around. I am kind of shy and quiet unless I'm around my friends so it can be hard to talk to people.
@introverted extrovert yeah, I feel like he just didn't want to hurt my feelings.
Remember guys these signs dont always work all the time for everyone as this can apply to friends as well doesnt mean they have to have a crush on u if they do all these things lol
indeed, i only look at my crush when they are not paying any attention to me, when they are, I look away, I look EVERYWHERE ELSE but them
@@Pxeaer_ Ikr 😂
@@Pxeaer_ Sooo true. Whenever my crush looks at me, I blush, so I look anywhere but at him, heh
But he is quite nice to me, especially after I taught him how to play a piece on the piano (the best part was I could touch his hand to guide them, shh...)
Me editing:I don't know why I wrote the thing in the brackets, soo cringe...
@@Pxeaer_same bro, but sometimes we even have staring contests, we (mostly i) death stare right into each other’s souls😭
is thhis enemies to lovers or what
@@Un4casted Eh well thats just me, I dont like talking to people and maintaining eye contact in general, makes me uncomfortable
Me who can only do non verbal communication with my crush : 👁️👄👁️
there's a thing that ladies sometimes do where they stare at someone that they're interested in but the moment that their crush looks over their way, they quickly divert their eyes elsewhere. this pisses me off greatly because like what? is there something on my face that you don't want to tell me?
This might sounds dumb, but ever since i realised that ive been mirroring my crush all the time, ive always been focused on not tryna copy him first...
Being led on for 10+ years just to have it thrown back in my face 🙃
Or you were literally just misinterpreting them for 10+ years
@@morganc.m1830 no.. she cried to me on her wedding day saying she wanted it to be me not him. Trust me, i was led on for over 10 years
I make protective gestures out of courtesy, the copycat to not stand out in a group, not making eye contact during a conversation is impolite and I call friends with news and we talk about anecdotes we've had lately and laught or cry about them.
All of this is normal in my everyday life and I actually take it for granted.(Both sides, I and my fellow human beings.) How am I supposed to find out if someone has a crush on me?
pov: you barely talk to your crush and they barely know you exist.
me.😭
Yeah, I understand how you feel...
If we don't talk but they gave me sweet smile when we walked past at each
When I accidentally stare at someone and they stare back, what I like to do is look at them, smile, and look away,
Or stare at them menacingly and widen my eyes and give them a “WHAT U LOOKING AT DUDE“ glare
I am so clueless that when my crush litterally told me she doesn’t like me I still can’t tell if she likes me or not
Hello, your relationship videos have helped me a lot to have better clarity. 😊 Men can be quite complex as they don’t vocalise their thoughts as much as women.
Mainly because of modern society, we are afraid to be shunned and accused of sexual harassment or just plain harassment, or rejected.
@@hungryfellow24 I am always drawn to a guy who can express his sexual needs with me. 😊
They are quite complex...
For a while I am having a crush on this guy and at first I'm in denial because I thought I felt this way because of people constantly shipping us and I keep telling them no, he is just a good friend but then time passed by started to notice some things that convinced that I liked him because I am smiling simply by just thinking of him, I get so excited when he messages me and I am always in a good mood when I'm with him and I'm wishing that it will not end. He often picks on me like friends do and copying my gestures it gets annoying sometimes, and I noticed that he's only talkative with me I think that's is because I have been told that I'm a good listener. So here's the thing I often caught him glancing at me, and he never breaks eye contact with me, I told you I don't want to assume things but it's not only one time so yeah, anyway whatever the reason is I don't want know because I don't want to ruin what we have now and no I'm not gonna confess because I've through enough heart breaks. Besides we are not hanging with each for now and we are not chatting anymore as we used to and besides he lives far away from my place, so my feelings for him might fade within time of not seeing him I guess?
your voice is so much beautiful keep going, girl !
So heres the steps you said and ill explain what my crush does thats kinda like what you said. If you can can you give advice.
1. She doesn't really do it that much, she has opened the door for me sometimes and when I have aguement, she helps to calm and tell me to not do it
2. I have autism so i am bit hypo act bit different to a avaege person. She hasnt really copied me but she is sometimes hypo when i bit hypo.
3. When we speak we always have eye contact and we both noticed if we both make eye contact for like 10seconds we tend to have a conversation.
4. This mostly happens but always happens when we facetime. Usally she or me stares at one and another and we tend to laugh, i always laugh when laughs and she mostly does the same.
5. We have rarely sat next to eachother but when ever we have a conversation or see eachother after school, we tend to go near eachother. She usually has a bag around her but when im near she puts her bag behind her
6. She always tells me stuff before anyone else even if she was suppose to tell someone else before me.
Honerable mentions:
-We usally call everyday and it lasts over 1 hour and a half an hour the most we called was 13th April 2023 which was 7 times, all lasting 2hrs.
-Im a football person and when i call her then say ima get changed and play football she says yay and when i put my phone near the goal she acts like a cheerleader. When she's at home and i call her, she tends to do activities like makeup, dancing and naps, we done a nap thing and it lasted over 10mins, whenever she needs to go somewhere she mostly says you are coming with me and takes her phone.
- She asked me what Jacket she should wear and i suggested one that kinda looks like mine and she actually wore it for A whole week and someother times.
-Im a pianoist and she loves golden hour, ive been learning it and are planning to play it to her and if i havw the guts and its a talent show, ill say this song is for my special person and some people already know im looking at one now.
-When i had double isolation, i was in the courtyard and she took her break to come see me in a classroom near the courtyard.
- One of her friends wrote my initial+ her initials on the board with a love heart so i ran then came 10secs after because i already missed her
He does all of this and I smiled like an idiot the whole video but I still overthink and make myself think he hates me 🧍♀️
Are you gay brother?
3:23 WITH 5 I DUNNO. i mean i literally like someone but my anxiety gets the best of me and i subconsiously end up being avoidant to not mess up or do something wrong 😭
My crush we don't talk I can't even look at him in the eye, when he look at me i just feel my heart beating 💓💓 fast
I was just told as a kid to keep eye contact when somebody is talking...
I love to see these vids not because of their meaning, but the scenarios of different situations❤
Life is truly different with everyone ^_^
The thing is, my crush (I think) likes a girl from his old school, but I think that he might like me. He literally copies my every move, always makes eye contact with me with a few glances to the lips (that felt weird to say lol), and anytime I laugh my crush laughs, which is the most adorable one in the world. I'm still not sure if he likes me back or not, but I'm hopeful, but not trying to get hope too high. UPDATE: it turns out he likes me back and he gives the best hugs
mirroring is a good sign, observe more, but i suggest not too long, bc if you wait too long, it might become too late :(
My crush also mimics my actions. She moves when I moves, sits down when I sits down (etc.) Also she waits for me to do something first and then she follows. She also used the same words as me for one of her responses through text. I one time just said "Ah, I see." And 2 mins later she said "I see" when replying to something else I said. I really want to tell her that I like her, but it feels too soon as we've only been friends for at least 3 weeks.
@@airtiger4577 well how u describe it, she might like you, but she might just think that ur cool and wanna copy you. I do that to my friend, but I don't see them as anything more than a cool friend.
@@airtiger4577 and yes it might be too early, but also remember, if you take too long, you might miss your oppertunity.
@@Pxeaer_ that sounds more like my best friend. She never saw me more than just a friend. I used to have feelings for her, until I found out that she slightly liked girls a bit more than guys. (She's bisexual with a female preference) She hugs me on a regular basis and we held hands one time.
I said hi to my crush while he was about to walk past me while I was sitting down on the bus, and when I said hi he gazed into my eyes and walked a little bit more slow. That’s the first time he has done so. And sometimes when I look at the back of the bus, we make eye contact and sometimes he breaks first. I don’t think he likes me tho. 🙃
Yikes, looking back, a lot of people have held eye contact with me when talking. I had no idea they all wanted me like that. I need to report my boss to HR...
Happiness leads to heartbreak and trust leads to rejection and pain.
"have you ever been driving with ur crush at the passengers seat"
I WISH * SCREAMS INTO THE PILLOW *
Me are my crush are both good friends...we laugh together, we play together, we care each other, we chat a lot, we are little naughty towards each other...and I think this is the best relationship 😀❤
did you asked him/her
@@akbulutarda472 yes I did
@@ShriRadheShyam84kos and did he/she accepted? because I can't ask my crush and you know she is so beatiful(and normally I promised my self to don't love any girl till you go to collage but you know feelings)and i looked other photo and my eyes literally looking to her not the camera and she has same photo :( or :)
@@akbulutarda472 see...when I proposed my crush...he didn't said any thing...this made me little depressed and then suddenly after few months I could sence the changes in his behaviour towards myself and from then we are good friend and I didn't tried to propose him cause I was afraid of losing him...anyways I accepted the bond of friendship and thanked the God for our great bonding...and I think we couldn't be so happy and comfortable in love relationship rather then being in friendship relationship...we both are happy in friendship relationship
@@ShriRadheShyam84kos so you are not dating and about me my crush could have figured out because in 2 photos(our only photos) i was looking to her and she has same photographe
Me clicking on the video, exactly knowing that no one has a crush on me, sad times
someone might have a crush on you, but just hasn't shown many signs. This guy had a crush on me, i first met him like 5 years before he confessed. He confessed at the end of the school year, I had not noticed any signs from him at all, but i didnt rlly pay much attention to many ppl. Just remember, if you reject someoen, try to be as nice as possible.
@@Pxeaer_ Naw that’s cute. I highly doubt that someone is in love with me, but I am not in love currently so I would not have feelings for them though
But thank you for your advice! :)
1. Protective Gesture - Got my snowboard for me ( I usually get it myself), went and got me a whole new helmet from the back (actually 2) because mine was choking me. Slyly moved me away from the group of bros. Far away lmfao.
2. Copycat - Not sure? Haven't noticed.
3. Gaze into your eyes - He's the only one I can't stare at directly into his eyes because I get nervous and worry I'm going to be found out lmfao. But I think he stares into my eyes? Idk. Stares at me?
4. They laugh with you - Haven't been able to tell a funny story yet. I'll try next time.
5. Keep Close - Watches my stories, even when he wasn't following me yet. Likes any and all messages I send him. When he led me away from the dude group he stood very close to me. I noticed how close he was. It was very close. I didn't mind it. I felt like I could melt into his arms. When his coworker came out, she just gave us this look.
6. Calling with big news - not there yet. I feel like we're still figuring what this even is. Gives me very Bridgerton Season 2 vibes with do they have feelings for each other or what? They're sharing moments. How can the other not know? But they don't know. So what gives? LMFAO But when he does write me, responds back as quickly as he can, and in paragraphs. Which I love and appreciate.
And also not mentioned on the list, mentioned a small detail that I told him back in January that I totally forgot about. It took me a second to realize what he was talking about.
And to note, I have dude friends and NONE OF THEM would remotely do ANY OF THESE THINGS FOR ME TO ME ETC. So I know the difference between treating me like a bro and treating me like something else. I'm just not sure completely. I was the first to JUST drop that I'm HEAVILY single. lmfao
honestly this video just showed me how obvious i am about my feelings (which is not something bad!)
thanks for the video and your voice just makes me feel safe
Thank you for your feedback!
@@Psych2go ❤️
My daughter's father and I recently started talking again after a nearly ten year hiatus. He has been showing me ALL of these signs.... but things are MEGA complicated.... I am two months into widow-hood and while he is living with one woman he claims to be into another while at the same time spending LOTS of time either with me, by phone call or text. We have gotten very close again, but he insists we are not a thing and can't be a thing, at least not when I should be healing. But.... he is the one that helps me heal.... why does everything always have to be so complicated.... 😢
Everyone talking about their crush
Me: The thumbnail looks like a scene from Horimiya...🤔
It sure is!
After watching this, I now know that my crush for sure does not like me.
my crush did this, i found his small gestures sweet, but he actually didnt like me and abandoned all my hopes, it went from sweet to bitter real fast.
Thinking about it, I’d like a video on how to become worth being somebody’s crush 😅
Exactlyyy duhh 😂😅
Why you think that you are unworthy of your crush ?
@@RobloxianDoni No, actually that means we would like to become worthy and not the spoiler to the person who's having crush on us.
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So that we may not break his/her heart, even by mistake 🙃
The feeling of saying your feelings for them but they reject you.
Emotional pain is always worse than physical pain.
What is the best/least embarrassing way to confess to someone or at least find out if they like you back? (Without getting embarrassed)
i have done this in the past ppl might say that I have no shame but I usually get close to them and start a little flirting and stuff. I've had 2 crushes (not at the same time )and i became friends with em , one is my best friend till this day other one is my new crush we are kind a sorta seeing each other . so my little advice is to get close to em if u can and give them the signs that u like em, so u can confess based on their reaction. its get 2 know em better anyway right ?
hope i helped in anyway , i usually confess to my crush and i don't think rejection effect me very much , hope ur things will go right , good luck
@@pabixiao That was really nice advice, I want to tell him, but am scared to get rejected or made fun of, not just by him, but by his friends and my friends, since they don't know who my crush is...
How do you tell someone you like them without telling someone you like them? How do you make them tell you that they like you or ask you if you like them without-
Does anybody understand me or am I just rambling on like a headless chicken?
@@pikachu4eva the answer is you can't. In order to tell someone you like them, you have to tell them. There is no other way. I mean, what if someone likes you? How would you know they like you, if they won't tell you? There will be signs but it will still be uncertain unless they tell you.
@@sawakokuronuma9474but is there any way to tell them slowly, so that- idk
i rlly am ramblimg on like a headlewss chicked
im kinda clingy....to everyone... hehe so um... yeah how clingy? i hug all my friends every time i got a chance! i really like physical touch to my love ones💖✨
Honestly, it can be more complicated than that. I’ve seen I guess studies that show if your crush is boy they are also likely to make fun of you more than others around you. In some cases that could mean they like you.
Eye contact is also culturally related, don't get spooked if an Italian man is staring at you, his hitting on you 😅
Everytime when I get a crush…it never works out bc it might be me or they have a gf….or they think I’m annoying. I’m in high school and I had a crush and I thought he was the one but turns out he wasn’t. So…while I was crushing on him, his bsf was crushing on me plus I got played by both of them and turned out that they didn’t really like me…but now I’ve moved on from them and got a new crush and he is just so amazing and handsome plus he has a gf but Ik I have to move on again and I can’t help it cause it feels like he’s flirting with me. He would make me laugh, show him what he’s laughing at even though I don’t ask or say anything, he would raise the paper up so I wouldn’t get it, and when I was depressed the other day he tired to make me laugh. I’m so lucky to have him but I saw his poem while he was in a different class and his poem said that he hopes to stay with his girlfriend. I kinda broke my heart but I hope one day I’ll find someone who will like me. 🥺❤️
Just because people laugh and make you laugh doesn't mean they like you. I'm demi and pan and I've never even been into dating. I've never cared. But thanks to autism and something like objectum s*xuality, I've had a relationship with a character for 3 years.
“The man who asks a question is a fool for a minute, the man who does not ask is a fool for life.” -Confucius
Don’t be a fool for life.
I clicked on this video for fun when I was on a call with my best friend and realized how many prompts he matches up with
I just clicked on this video just to hear your mesmerizing voice TBH it's so sweet😅❤
Oh shi I just realised I've been giving like half of my friends these signals 💀😭
I have a crush on a boy, in my class and he always gazes into my eyes! 😊
Tell him you like him
Oh my god his eyes when he stares in to my soul through my eyes. I see whole andromeda galaxy through his eyes. I can literally write poems about his eyes...
Watching this even tho he tells me he loves me everyday
You are very lucky to have someone to tell you that they love you everyday! :)
hehe
Okay so, I am full on in love with my best friend and we both do everything listed in the video?
She’s always opening doors for me or steering me out of the way of people when I zone out while I’m walking. Her eyes are gorgeous and she likes making direct eye contact which usually leaves me really flustered.
Last week she even brought me the first cup she made in her new pottery class because she knows how much I love coffee. (It was really nice so I cried and then she teased me about it.)
The only problem is, I don’t think she’s gay? She’s always saying that she doesn’t want a relationship, but she does rant about guys she’s met sometimes.
If all the signs are there, should I go for it? Or should I just keep cherishing our friendship?
As her if she's gay
That's what I want
See my crush is the type to be really jokingly mean. Sometimes I can't even tell if he considers me a friend or not. Welp
My crush always seems to stay beside me and follows me everywhere ❤️❤️ I just can’t pick up the courage to tell him I like him.
The signs that related to my crush the most were 3,4 and 5. When we talk he makes sure to maintain eye contact and makes sure to show that he’s listening.
My crush also comes up with a lot of funny jokes and conversations. Whenever I bring up a funny conversation I never fail to make him laugh with me!
And lastly when we sit next to each other he makes sure he doesn’t create a giant barrier between us, like if his backpack is on the bench, he puts it on the floor.
Number 7)
She ignores You and act like she doesn't like You, but then she hooks You with silly things just for your attention. She doesn't realize You see her smile when "You don't look".
Man: "I'm... confused"
i feel called out bc this is how i treat my crush😭
At my school, me and my crush think me like each other, but neither of us are 100% sure. So, we are mostly awkward and quiet around each other and we stare at one another. Its cute❤
I'll only watch Psych2Go videos till the end for these unlisted videos.
When i saw this i was so happy, my crush almost doing this all the time. And now my crush is my bf
I bet some of you watch this even though you have no crush but I like these vids
Do you think you could do one for people who are still younger, like school kids?
They never said this was for adults just people young or old doesnt matter
@@chloecrowe6088 it's because im still in middle school so a lot of these don't really apply to me
How do these not apply to you? It's literally just interactions with another person. This does apply to middle schoolers.
@@morganc.m1830 some of these are like hanging out with each other or things that people who are middle schoolers can't do
My crush fr glances at me during class from time to time 😳
i did that to my crush too.
mine tried to talk to me quite a few times. and I often found myself trying to talk to them as well. After a while, i found out that it was highly likely that they did have a crush on me too :D.
My only mistake...
I didn't notice this until 2 years later, we were no longer in a class together, and had not spoken to them for 1 WHOLE YEAR. 😭
Yet I feel as though my feelings have grown stronger... ❤
@@Pxeaer_ NOOOO and YESSSS I'M HAPPY THAT THEY LIKED U BACK >:D but sadly my crush is just my classmate 🥲💔 but I hope all this progresses over time
@@aztriid No you misunderstood...
I only started to find out that they have a chance of liking me back a full year AFTER we were in the same class together. After that first year, we never spoke again.
@@aztriid keep trying and gl
I do a lot of these when I'm with others😅 Not always because I like them though