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- Have you ever experienced bullying?
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The saddest thing is when teachers are bullies.
Oh yeah I’ve been bullied by both students & Teachers
facts.
I was bullied once by a teacher. Right the next day my mom came to school and had a serious "talk" with this teacher. Ever since then she was my bitch :D I just wished everyone had such wonderful parent(s) who fight for their children.
Oh yeah I was bullied by teachers and they did nothing when I was being bullied by other kids
Yes OMG, then you can’t even go to the principal because the principal sides with them.
Me trying to rationalise things
“Not really that bad, just traumatising”
to be fair there are times where people can get traumatized by small or insignificant things
sad but true
@@yeet1208 if something traumatizes a person it's not small or insignificant, it becomes significant. The original comment is calling attention to the way we may try to deny the significance of a traumatic event or try to say it "wasn't that bad" as a coping mechanism.
@@artemuycaro ah i phrased it wrong. what i meant to say is that some people can get traumatized by things that might not scar another person that deeply. that’s how i interpreted what the quote meant, not in a “it doesn’t matter that much” way but in a “it could have been much worse but it traumatized ME” way. maybe thats just my autism interpreting words too literally 😅
I really felt for her bc Asians are kinda conditioned to normalize how bad the pain is
Lol the lady who saved her allowance to get revenge is the kind of petty I admire.
Aww
That was a good one
Wait when was that?
@@hanjihannaya7419 4:03
Edit out the misused word lady -- big term misuse is beyond criminaI and soon to be banned. All impostors are to be banned soon -- all womyn are just an avrg citizen and the opposite of big terms such as lady / princess / queen etc which only reflect me... I am the true and only Lady / Princess / Queen / Mrs / Miss / Leader etc and any other big term (and the opposite of womyn) as well as the most protected being on Earth by the official security organizations!
Much respect for that japanese guy
Ong that was heartwarming and kinda funny
It's something strange to see Japanese with the long hair.
Seriously he take right choice
@@justaconcrete4789 main character
Miyamura? 🏃♀️
You know its extremely traumatizing when you can still remember your bullies names after so many years.
Sameeeeee
Yea it is. Sometime the memories creep up you out of the blue
Yessss
I forget their names and everything about them. Not worth remembering.
@@dateengineerazurecloud2904 you are truly lucky then!
"I'm young, hot, and successful and that is like, the perfect revenge"
YESSSSSSSS
Hell nah
So sorry but I started laughing 😂 🤭
@@FrozenMermaid666 wtf
@@haydn18456
Hell yes.
@@FrozenMermaid666
Aren't all people selfish?
So why calling someone who has their own life a narcissist?
You really need to check out those similar terms instead of throwing them around like they are nothing
The people who said no don’t realise how lucky they are.
Ikr bro those people are cool
Or they don’t know they were bullied
Those who said no probably didnt realize they got bullied at some point. I feel like when you typically think of bullying you think of the movies and people getting shoved in lockers and cliche stuff like that, but someone making fun of you or teasing you is bullying and kids just inherently do that. Maybe it happened once and it was insignificant and small and didnt impact them, but it still happened and its still considered bullying.
Well, I’ve had ppl be absolutely awful to me growing up but I still wouldn’t say I was bullied because it wasn’t constant.
@@ivieaiwuyo784 yep I’m pretty sure almost everyone has been bullied in their life unless they grew up really really sheltered or rich.
It is disturbing that so many people experienced bullying, but at the same time it is a sign that it can truly happen to anyone and nobody should blame themselves for being a victim to it.
Ofc you shouldnt blame yourself, but most of these people were never truly bullied
@@rensbrand5176 there are far more severe cases of bullying you are right!
@@rensbrand5176 you only saw like a snippet of each persons experience, don't be so quick to invalidate
I mean, the bar for what's considered "bullying" in this video is pretty low.
@@nubbiewubbie7285 yes, but still it is bullying
Teenage years are supposed to be the years when you build up your identity and confidence, being bullied can crash everything and give you issues that follow you until you're an adult, and even later, it's really sad
So true, literally almost all of my issues to this day as an adult stem from that bullying
@Mr Guy not necisarilly true bro, ik alot of pepe who didn't get bullied, plus certain personalities and people in certain situations can find it harder to not care. Also depends if its consistsnt, cause its hard for most people I guess to just "not give one" if you've been bullied for anywhere near 10 years +
@Mr Guy The stuff some people are bullied about is so hurtful, that those images/words/HATE are next to impossible to get out of your head! It scars them for their life!
I was bullied in elementary school for my name and my butt. I was also the kid that would get asked out as a joke. Then in middle school that happened again except its when the sexual harassment started and I was unlucky enough for that kid to go to the same high school as me and he kept doing it even though I told him to stop multiple times. We have a lot of mutual friends and I was scared to come forward. When I was in high school I joined njrotc since all my brothers did it I wanted to keep it going. One of my upperclassmen would tell the kids in my year to look at my butt while I would stretch for PT and would mock things I said. My brother was a senior the time I was a freshmen and I waited until I dropped out to tell him what was happening and he wished I went to our master sergeant because he wouldn't have let it side even the kid that wasn't in njrotc. Since he was there for my 2 older brothers and me he kind of had a special spot for all of us and looking back I REALLY wished I went to him. To me I think it could've saved me from dropping out.
Your wrong bullying makes you stronger smarter wiser more mature and if you overcome it learn from it learn one day to stand up it builds confidence more and more then there comes a point you never let anyone else say anything cause your confidence is stronger life lessons relationships getting the girls you thought couldn’t builds confidence you realize your the shit your that person and maybe they bullied because you were handsome attractive gorgeous beautiful you know but at the time you didn’t realize it.
i knew bullying was a big issue but the fact that EVERY single person had an experience being bullied is so disturbing...we have to do better. growing up is such a crucial part of life, kids are the future... imagine how different the world would be if kids lifted each other up instead of tearing each other down. i know its unrealistic but it would make such a difference in generations to come.
As bad as it sounds it's unfortunately just a part of life. It does help you build thick skin though.
Yes, but the video is literally titled 100 people who have been bullied
what are y'all talking about there are people in the video that say they have no experience with bullying
@@SilberBrisingr they're lying. Being on video could bring unwanted shame.
I mean, i would have said that I wasn’t bullied, but most of the stuff mentioned in the video happened to me too. I think it becomes ‘bullying’ once you let it have an impact on you
Shout out to the Japanese guy with long hair, you're a real one
he's the side character in every slice of life anime that everyone likes
Hai wakarimashita
All the people in this vid are beautiful. Bullying sucks.
there are bullies in the video
@@windmacher didn’t watch it all. Bullies are unfulfilled and try to make themselves feel better by attacking others.
Are there people who are not beautiful?
APART FROM THE FUCKING BULLIES AND I NO A LOT OF THOSE WHO SAID NO DEFS WERE BULLIES
@@yomer355 yep, me
It's surprising that some of the bullies here didn't feel like it was that of a big deal to bully someone 😃
As someone who is Definitely a verbal bully I don’t thinks it’s a big deal and when people make fun of me I laugh or just don’t give a shit
Yea sometimes it's not bad but some people take it to the next level
yeah you are right ! they should be prouder !
There’s a huge difference between a friendly tease here and there and actual bullying
They peaked in high school, let's be real.
"I allowed myself to be treated poorly." - don't think like that, it's not your fault
hmm at least for me I disagree never go back for more
@@Fatelvis2 it's not your fault either ;) people are dicks...
@@diegofortes5 and for me once they show themselves to be that way its up to me to decide if I want to give them access to my life
@@diegofortes5 if nothing is your fault then you can't do anything to change it. That's bad attitude, makes you feel insignificant, powerless.
@@yomer355 wow, I really didn't expect this to be polemic... I just meant that sometimes we're vulnerable, unprepared, with our guard low and we can't blame ourselves for the behavior of others. But you're right, we have the power to change to what needs to be changed. But, often, it takes time.
"I didn't see it as bullying at the time..." I wish more people talked about that because it was so much more heartbreaking for me to realize how hateful people were after being blind to it for so long.
When I was a kid, I felt so alone due to bullying. It feels good to know that I'm not the only one, but at the same time it's depressing how common this problem is.
Yeah bro bullying is not cool or poggers
haha get bullied
It hurts me so much to see people say "not really that bad" and "those little things hurt". It's almost like they're not allowed to feel hurt for being bullied. I wish to tell you all that it's okay to feel the way you feel.
I think it's the fear of being called an "attention seeker" or "that was so long ago why do you still feel sad" which I can honestly relate to.
Why are the bullies so proud 🤦🏻♂️
right? they don’t look sorry
@@ares7177 bullies are rarely sorry
@@Hi-uv7nn you’re so right! i have no empathy for them
Most likely because they are still those people to this day, complete assholes to people who don't think/act/talk like them!
Frrs
I was severely bullied for not having friends (physically and emotionally) and it really affected my mental health so much that I dropped out of middle school. I've gotten better but still struggle with social anxiety and depression. Please, remember that even by just saying a mean comment, you could be seriously hurting someone because you don't know what's going in their entire life or what their mental state is.
Exactly I agree with everything u just said. Fr thank u for sharing ur story with me and other people. Ik how hard it is to be bullied and how it scars so plz take time with urslef you too are human and your goign to need a lot of time to fully heal. Be patient and try to not let those and days turn into months or years
The only thing that used to help me with bullying was getting revenge. Don't worry, you don't have to beat them up if you can't. Just make their life a living hell.
fr tho, they always make fun of you and dont want to give you a chance just cuz you dont have friends, and then continue to call you weird when they talk bad abt you and nobody else wants to be youre friend.
I really love this one those "jokes" hurt real bad like really bad
Bullying can ruin someone's self-esteem and confidence. And it can haunt and affect someone for years even until adulthood. Unfortunately, the school just can't help oftentimes :/
Some of these people confused someone saying something mean once with “bullying” which is persistent physical, online or verbal harassment, isolation and abuse. It’s not the same as someone saying something stupid once.
That's why I don't really use the word bullying for my past experience. They don't hate me, we even talked like a normal person. but sometimes their jokes, comment etc was hurting me more than they knew.
Exactly. This vid just made me question what counts as bullying... is it being made fun of in class? Because i feel like we’ve all been there. But i never took it personally cuz i knew my friends where joking at the end and the whole class was laughing even me and the teacher 😅 but as far as day to day routinely physical and mental and emotional violations in school... no i never experienced that.
fr shit's annoying
🙄
or were you just a bully?
When you’re bullied it feels like a piece of you gets taken away. And even if we miraculously got it back we still remain changed. Speaking from experience as a survivor we have to build a new piece to replace what’s lost.
At 40 it's still very difficult to let people into my life, because of what was taken away from me like you said! I was on meds for a long time, seeing therapist, doing this and that nothing has truly worked to fix those emotional scars caused to me by people who I looked to as friends, who just kept shitting down my throat. I recently stopped smoking 20+ yrs, 3wks today first time I am truly seeing myself and stop hiding behind cigarettes.
@@joshuao322 Wow what a story. Stay strong
I was bullied all throughout elementary for being too feminine, before i even knew what it meant to be gay. I came out in 7th grade and was continually harassed by boys throughout middle school.
Ur brave!
@@TheSavannahhhhhh He's brave and gay!
He's a queen, he's brave, he's gay, and he rules
why- WHY IS THIS MY EXACT STORY TOO
I'm from india and up until 8th grade i was made fun of for my dark colour even though we are all literally the same race. Colorism is an issue but no one really speaks up about it because most of them don't realise that they are treated differently because of their colour because we are all the same race you know. But i realised how even my teachers acted different to me. My classmates stopped teasing me after 8th grade but the teachers was still going on up until i graduated. Even though i told my gf(she has a very white skin) about it, she didn't really believe me and i told her to think about a dark kid in her class and that was when she realised what i was saying is true.
Yeah, it's sad. It happens in a lot of Asian cultures, but even I as a Puerto Rican see that a lot in Hispanics. Hell, even black people. Dark people and light people even of the same race/ethnicity/nationality often fight and have disputes, and if you're in the minority (pale with all dark or dark with all pale) you're gonna get treated differently. Sometimes it's actually good - my dad's side is basically white Puerto Ricans and they like my tanner skin because they're so pale - however sometimes I'm made fun of by, for example, my mom's fiancé for being light and told I have slave owner ancestry, despite all Puerto Ricans being a mix of native Taino, African slaves and Spanish slave holders. It really just depends but we definitely focus too much on color.
@@lexvt3551 yeah some people don't care about my colour but i think they will treat me differently because so I'm used to getting treated differently for my colour that i cannot take my mind of it.
I feel you bro.
@@yesno4065 😢
Oh my gawd
Racism and colorism is so horrible
As a former person who was bullied, I can tell yall why bullies are so proud about it. Because it was a time when they had power over someone else or self esteem. A lot of them describes this as a surge or even a drug. Also since I was bullied wherever I went, I can also tell you that sometimes, you cause the bullying by being weak. What I mean by that is that if you did your thing, told people to shut up if they upset or just slapped someone who come to your face, it all would have been fine.
The bullying stopped altogether in my life when I reach 15 years, when I had enough and made my bully bleed and knocked him on the ground infront of all my highschool. Nobody ever touched me again after that.
I can’t believe that some of these people either said no or could identify one specific bullying incident. I was CONSTANTLY bullied from preschool to when I dropped out of high school at 16. I’m 25 now and I’m so much happier than I was as a child.
relateable
I experienced bullying for being Hispanic, Gay and poor as a kid…. I got made fun of because my mother worked at Burger King which was the way she literally provided food for us. I’ve always been a muscular kid and could’ve fight back but I believe I’m the literal definition of a lover not a fighter.
I got bullied a lot in elementary school because I was the “weird” kid. In high school this girl that was on color guard with me, said that my mom died because she hated me. My mom got hit by a car when I was 7….. so yeah. I told my principal and my teacher and they literally just told me to block her and not talk to her.
Im so sorry that happened to you did anybody defend you?
Dang bullying is so bogus because it not only affects you personally, emotionally, and mentally but can also influence you to bully others which sucks because you end up being hurt and making someone else feel just as bad so bullying is like a double edged sword in that way.
The guy that shouted "you dont fucking do that". 1:57
*That guy is amazing and a hero*
I literally get anxiety when someone says my full name bc my HS bullies used to make fun of me for it and say it in full. Imagine being such a vile person that you make someone ashamed of herself by using her own name.
Eczema. My first boyfriend told me I looked like the exorcist bc the eczema on my legs was so bad while I was swimming. That stuck with me.
@@themustar601 I don't think he misses an exorcist.
Damn bro my eczema is my palm striping and also my feet and kids used to bully me for it all the time some of them loved it lol and loved my hands while others were just bitches but I'm Caribbean so non of those bitches could say anything to my face but I feel your pain girl
Or boy or they sorry about that
"I used to get called Goat"
Nothing wrong with being the greatest of all time
.... How are there people who can say no??? Kids are freaking ruthless man. No one is spared.
popular kids don't get bullied
A teacher bullied me for over a year, resulting in me having huge insecurities and anger issues which led to so much more bullying from my peers for years afterwards. That sucked, and she's still a teacher there
I'm sorry that happened to you! same, relentlessly, and yeah I feel like she encouraged the students to as well.
Being bullied was one big sh*t I usually experienced in my childhood. No one stood on my side to back me up or encouraged me.
All throughout middle school i was bullied by a boy named Rex Reinheart. You can look him up actually. He was recently murdered by his dad which was really eye opening. Every asshole has their reasons, and I’m so blessed to have a good family life.
I was close friends with a girl in 8th grade. Her name was Nancy Mederos (You can search up her name too). She openly admitted that she disliked black ppl and Asian ppl. Despite being Latina, she loved white ppl. We split apart when we went to high school and she became bitter towards me. Well fast forward in 2017 she was beaten to death by her boyfriend in a motel. I was shocked. Indeed, everyone has something going on with them behind doors.
@kanker Well we aren’t considered white
@kanker Please enlighten me.
@@ladystardust2424 Latino isn’t a race, it’s an ethnicity is what they mean. Latinos can be any race (most are white or mestizo). What a story though!
@@carol8434 Thanks for the explanation. Idk why the comment above made it a big deal, but that’s the internet for ya 🙄 lol
Back when I was a child, I had a noticeable feminine threat playing with girls and all, and highschool kids used to bully me, calling me names and constantly picking up on me, guess I was the easy target. Most of my classmates made my high-school life a living hell and I don't even wanna remember my highschool life now. However, I grew out of it now focusing on my career, being successful but still having a long way to go. Am sure I'll say this one day in a suitable platform and teach people.
I was bullied in middle school being called names by this one other student, until he one day he got physical with me and I stood up for myself and was ready to fight back. After that he went back to calling me names until 10th grade. Never saw him again until about 9 years later (3 years ago) at my job and he actually apologized to me. Never thought he would actually do that but I accepted his apology.
wtf i had no idea bullies actually took kids' lunch money and shoved them into lockers
In the west side [richer areas], it's more common.
@@Suziee_Suee bigger lockers probably haha
Ikr I thought that was a movie thing 💀
Nope it's real, and it sucks! All people deal with pain differently some people have a difficult time getting over stuff like that, it last with them throughout there entire life!
Courage is looking fear right in the eye and saying, Get the hell out of my way, I've got things to do.
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Cringe is this comment.
its interesting to see how everyone processes harm and trauma differently yet how so many of them still remember these things after so long :/ we should seriously be more mindful about how we treat others
Yeah bro that's a cool message
It has been 5 years and i still get emotional when i think about it.
Notice how almost all of these things are things you cannot control. Kids are cruel. Mocking someone for who they are is incredibly vile
Bullying is the worst thing, that happened in my life. And I am still dealing with the fallout to this day.
I was bullied for all 3 yrs of middle school.... Let me just say bullying is sooo traumatic, I struggle really bad with anxiety now like I pass out from it. Just don't bully anyone!!! Please!
this week a 14 y.o girl died in my country after a surgery she chose to have in order to lose weight so she would stop being bullied... I mean, I already knew that this world isn't a happy place, but this has to stop....
I remember being bullied all 3 years of middle school, only some of elementary school and bullied my 11th and 12th grade year of high-school. The people who said they never experienced it don't realize how bless they really are. I never got revenge because i found peace within myself and decided to let go of that pain and move forward, it took years and now i can say i'm truly in a better place mentally.
Ur an inspiration … God bless u ❤️
I've not been in a more terrible social environment than middle school. I think only jail could top it.
As a kid I was bullied for red hair, being short, liking school and all my quirks. At 24 I’m still bullied for all these things but now by family and coworkers
interesting I am the only one in my family without red hair might I suggest Jujitsu
I am sorry to hear that, I hope You'll have enough inner power to stay Yourself regardless.
you can't be bullied as an adult tho??
@@elodik6922 care to explain ?
@@elodik6922 What?
It's never your fault. You're fine just the way you are.
I like ur pfp!
I got bullied by a girl that was my friend…it was pretty awful from my point of view. After many years she sent me a message on fb to apologize and she wanted us to be friends again. I told her that I forgave her but I couldn’t forget what she did and asked her to not message me again.
"I was the bully of the bullies"
RESPECT
I was a punk/atheist in South Georgia. If the eyeliner and black nail polish wasn't getting me beat up and picked on it was the clothes. I had a group of dudes who would bully me, and I got death threats. At one point I attempted suicide and by the skin of my teeth made it out alive. That prompted me to change directions. I moved back to my home state, and made some new friends and continued to be me.
if you continued to be you that means you weren't bullied enough :)
I feel sorry for laughing at "I was being bullied for being Asian - Although I'm not"
that had me dead
I was bullied a lot in middle school and high school. Luckily never anything physical but then again it’s the emotional things that stick with you more. Over the years I have gotten over it but it still upsets me from time to time
It's so true that emotional abuse hurts more, I was also bullied physically but it's the words that always stung the most
Bullied for things out of my control related to family issues, adhd and mdd. Still get bullied sometimes as an adult, but most of the peolle who did or have done that are stuck living lives they hate, in jail, or saddled with kids ( I know a couple of those kids have adhd too so their parents get a front row seat).
I bet (almost) everyone has been bullied at least once :/
Not the first time I've seen this type of comment and it's probably true to some extent but I was never bullied. Weird. And no I wasn't out there bullying anyone else. I've always believed in treating people the way I would like to be treated and that's with kindness.
That's cool bro
@@KnockknockNox it is definitely true that not everyone gets bullied and not everyone is a bully, some of my close friends are one of those people. I changed my comment to almost everyone.
Two moments of bullying
1. I crapped myself in high school and two people tried to film me in the bathroom
2. One guy who was a shrimp in size but he could say some of nastiest things and I was his favorite target and I had a friend who back me off
Let's not be bullies. Stop bullying . It's a rude,ugly and bad thing. #stopbullying #antibullying
for two fucking years, i was bullied to the point i began feeling casually suicidal.
I’m sorry that happened to you
Sorry to hear that love
I’m so sorry that happened to you, are you doing okay?
Same
In college days I had zero friends
Bullied so much for being autistic and fat shamed alot
I was bullied on 10th grade because of my body odor, I still remember the scenario when I got home that day, I was doing my homework in Math when suddenly my tears fell down, I can't seem to forget what my bully told me, I used to like that person on 9th grade. I knew I smell bad, the thing here is, I always take a shower but I still smell awful. I found out the problem is my uniform but I don't know how to fix it, and even if I wash my clothes for so many times it's still the same.
I was once again bullied on 12th grade because of the same reason, right now I am almost 21 years old and I still have the same problem, I am scared to interact with people because I sweat a lot, that's why I always make sure I use clothes that doesn't make me smell bad, but sometimes the problem persist, I don't have much clothes, about 20 only (I think) because I still have no job to buy new ones.
Every time I sweat, it gives me anxiety- it scares me that what happened on 10th and 12th grade might happen again.
What I wish in the future is for people to be open when it is about something like this, probably it wouldn't scar if only they nicely said that I have a body odor but instead what they did was they walked towards me, whisper, letting me and their friends hear it and laugh out loud.
Bullying is something that happens more the once, I feel like some people don’t understand what bullying is. Also standing up for yourself or others isn’t bullying either.
I don't think a person exists who hasn't been bullied
The question should be "what is your worst memory of being bullied?"
4:58 this lady is a savage in every one of these, she’s def the best person on here
I didn't really realize how much I was bullied until I found myself identifying with a lot of these stories...
1:50 mad respect for the japanese guy
1:19 I just want to give her a hug- it IS bad, bullying is never ok
I am bullied,laughed at,called crazy,called mad,stalked ,all because i am full of love and want and need a girl and yes some xxx that most people do. Many.many girls really hurt my feelings by calling me ugly in the past and playing with me as well. I am not perfect,but i am honest,good and fair, i want fair-play and justice for me and others who are bullied and stalked etc. My looks is not my fault! Ok????
I've been bullied in school since grade one to now. It sucks really bad, I changed schools because my homeroom teacher treated me very unfairly, changed classrooms because I was bullied by an entire class, and now in my new classroom, it's still happening. I developed complex PTSD from all those years. Bullying is absolutely a horrible thing to experience at any age
It's crazy to say no, I was being bullied my whole life and became one and I regretted my whole middle school year. I wish to redo everything but people are so mean.
1:56 at least we have people like this that step in for others!! I was bullied from elementary through HS and I didn’t even put it all together to get help sooner
I was bullied throughout college by my closest friends. Such a toxic relationship and it completely destroyed me. I am a reserved and overall “sweet” person and I never had the courage to stop them because I was too afraid to find myself without any friends. They would pick on anything (weight, grades etc), but mostly on my Italian accent (I’m from Italy). I spoke to another friend about it and she absolutely downplayed it and made me feel like I was too sensitive. I still haven’t recovered and I am super aware of how I sound when I speak English. My overall self-esteem is below zero. I try to avoid speaking to native english people as much as I can because I find it very embarrassing (even though my grammar is perfect). I still don’t understand why they chose to pick on me and it really bothers me, because it makes me feel weak.
Please be nice to those around you!
I didn’t really get bullied in school. I might’ve been looked down on by my friends sometimes, but not necessarily bullied. However, I got bullied at my work place as an adult. That sucked because, you know, you have to be respectful still since it’s your work place. But I got back at them by being the better person.
I've always believed that bullies are bullying because they themselves are being bullied at home or by someone close. So they want others to feel what they feel when bullied
I believe they are just based
"she did not come back to school after that" I’m sorry that made me scream 💀
I was bullied all throughout high school. Had my pictures taken during classes, was called ugly and they even came to my house to chat with my parents as if they were close to me. Fast forward I’m now 22 living with anxiety and depression I rarely step foot out of the house and called lazy everyday by my parents. Tbh life sucks. I try to set a goal for myself every year I try to do something that’s out of my comfort zone I figured that’s the best that I could really do for myself. If I had to ask for anything I wish they would feel guilty at least once for treating us the way they did.
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i always acted like the girls who HATED my guts in middle school and half of high school didn't bother me but now i get super anxious ( and even get panic attacks ) whenever i am in public and i feel like someone's talking about me ( they used to do a thing where they never did shit to me directly but talked so much crap m hurtful things while they made sure i was listening ) so yeah 😊👍🏻
I got bullied by my "best friend" in standard 6th and 7th because my family was very poor as compared to their's and that shit stuck with me for a long ass time and made me really insecure about my father's profession. It also really damaged the image i had of my father, they made me feel like my father was a weak man, they made me regret being born in my family. I moved to another city and eventually realized that it doesn't really matter because my parents managed to give me the best facilities regardless.
"Those little things hurt" I feel you.
Bullying gave me social anxiety, im 27 and I still have it 😔😔
Her : Not really that bad, just traumatizing
Me : Girl, if it is traumatizing, it's bad and should not be ok...
I did both: bully kids and get bullied.
But sadly, i didnt consider any of it bullying. Whether i got bullied, or bullied people, i thought of it as teasing, joking, being playful, etc.
I think at some point EVERYONE has been bullied.
Not me....
@@KnockknockNoxwith a name like that we all know you're lying lol
right. insecure nd bitter ppl rn are everywhere, i feel like ppl who disagree w/ this are probably in denial of a moment or interaction in their past where they were actually getting bullied lmfaoo.
@@Elaronna well said 👍
@@brandonevans4142 you basically just bullied them
I'm really sorry for the people who said yes, I'm sure they were, are and will be incredible, special, beautiful and valuable people, I hope they have been able to overcome it and moved on, they all seem very strong and brave people who were able to overcome that moment, they really are amazing people ❤
"Being happy was my revenge"
Love that 💯
Ive been bullied three times my entire life....and all of my bullies either left crying or bleeding. My dad had me fight my first bully In preschool, it was a boy and he wouldn’t stop touching me . My mom kept telling me to tell on him, which I did and the teachers did nothing. So my dad told me to beat him up. I hit him in the mouth when he came over to harass me and his tooth came out. Ever since that incident any bully who has ever tried to bully me has cried because I hurt their feelings or bled because I punched them in the mouth☺️
Hi, it’s me, I’m the hairy child.
I was bullied for YEARS, for being overweight, having lots of body hair, having last seasons “trendy” clothes - we would buy the brands at goodwill because that shit is expensive, I was spit on - kids can be NASTY. I can’t imagine going back to elementary/middle school now, especially since today all the things I was bullied for are celebrated. Of course bullying still happens, but I wonder how different it was even 10 years ago. Here I am happy as a clam growing from the years of trauma and trying to be my best self. Celebrate you no matter WHAT anyone else says.
I literally want to fight everyone when people are being bullied about their ethnicity.
Got made fun of throughout school than became 6'3" and started making fun of myself then no one wanted to talk bad
Very cool bro
I was never bullied, I was huge as a kid 😂 I got suspended from middle school once when a new kid thought he was gonna bully my friend 😂
The worst feeling is when u look back and think why did I bully those kids
Bro don't bully that's not very cool
@Catfish um no… that’s messed up
yes i bullied this one girl when i was in kindergarten because of her looks at and weight. we eventually became friends! but i still want to go back and apologize and tell her how pretty she is.. i feel horrible she doesn’t have to accept my apology but i still want to tell her she’s beautiful no matter what
@Catfish what could they have done to deserve it? If they’ve done something wrong or are a bad person than you can explain to them how they can change their ways. Bullying will definitely not solve anything.
@@Cup1dsLover that’s amazing that you’ve changed. So proud of you :)
bro who would make fun of red hair? its gorgeous.
Jealous much?
@Rusto jealous much?
100% relate to the eczema one, I had eczema on my lips which was so hard to cover and people would just call me “crusty lips”.
Pretty traumatizing . But I’m not friends with those people anymore, thankfully. Since people have masks cuz of COVID I’m somewhat relieved that I can cover it up now.
people don't even know what bullying is.
getting insulted by strangers and getting bullied are 2 different things, jesus
Feelbad thinking about how different I'd be if the bully weren't a bully
Okay some advice. You want revenge? There’s only one that’ll solve the issue. Ignore them. I know it’s hard but listen. People ONLY do stuff for a reaction. They want to you react. If you ignore them, walk as if you own the place, and put a smile on your face. That’ll be the best revenge possible. They’ll get mad when they realize that it didn’t affect you. So yeah it’s hard to ignore them. But try. See I used to not be able to ignore anyone because idk why but I started wearing a hair tie on my wrist and anytime people did something I’d look at that and it reminded me to ignore them. You are the main factor in bullying. If you stop reacting, they’ll stop bullying.
Yeah I tried that at first... But then the bullying just became physical to get a reaction out of me (pushing, hair pulling, throwing stuff, grabbing my stuff and throwing it down the stairs, destroying my bike etc). So maybe it works for some, but it sure didn't work for me.
Teachers are btw damn useless, before anyone starts saying WHY DIDNT YOU. If all the kids deny it or make another story up, they give the bullies the benefit of the doubt time and time again.
What helped ME was having to redo a year, so I got into a new class.
@@GreenIeaf I agree. I had a friend who started getting shoved in stairwells because she tried to ignore them. For this situation, try this. So ask them why they do it. And most of them will simply say “cause I hate you” or “cause I want to” but you’ll have two options. 1. Make it fun and start teasing them but in a funny way to where you are both having “fun”. Or 2. Say this: why would you do this if you hate me? Think of bananas. Some people love them. Others hate them. The people who love them will eat them. And the people who hate them will stay away from them. Now think of me as a banana. The people who love me, should give me attention and affection. The people who hate me, SHOULD go along with their day but instead here you are going OUT of YOU OWN way to do this. It’s not nice affection, but it’s still affection. It makes me think.. you have to love me a little bit.” The banana one works best for me and my friends. It makes them look like an idiot. But you never were mean back. If you are rude back, it’ll never stop. And maybe it will but if it does, people will most likely be scared of you and hate you. Just use kindness. But the good kind. Hope this helps! Let me know
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I have been bullied my entire life! From my weight, skin color, being bipolar, being bisexual, my middle name (BlueEarth)....the worst was my stepmother she was so harsh on me and it was constant! My dad did nothing to stop it....it was rough...I feel bad for anyone that has been bullied! Right now my boyfriend's brother is constantly calling me a "n****r" and it doesn't stop...bullying did a lot to my fragile mind...I started self harming and abusing alcohol and drugs...
If your boyfriend doesn't protect you he is not the one
Interesting that some became bullies due to being bullied. I used to get bullied, then bullied one kid once and felt horrible. Never did it again, eventually became a neutral kid. Didn’t bully anyone and wouldn’t get bullied, got along with everyone.
Do an episode about bully's their stories and them being confronted by their victims