Best believe I’ve got to jot down my wee (not so wee) replies as i go: Defo gonna be more thoughtful about how i give advice now ahaha I’m always playing devils advocate but great point about not always wanting/needing to hear that yet/ever. Also the whole Edinburgh being connected ughh yes judging based on friends :/ so tricky that we will always be perceived wrongly out of our control and vice versa. So happy that u feel so enlightened after that experience and only you will ever know the depths of it - do whatever you want to do going forward regardless of other ppls narratives and regardless of your own attempt to rationalise or figure out which decision is ‘right’ becayse you won’t ever really know like there’s not going to be confirmation. The not knowing the full extent of the lesson yet is v relatablee lol calling me out about not posting anymore but yess it’s therefore crucial i think for it to be routed in only yourself and it’s a constant struggle to balance those outlets and be honest to yourself about motives The same goes for independent thinking in relationships it’s something I consider a lot too and never pinned it to social media which probably has heightened those problems tonnes/gets in the way and disguises things. Don’t expect that to make any sense but love hearing ur thoughts - prompts reflection of my own hence this dump of a comment pahah:)
Best believe I’ve got to jot down my wee (not so wee) replies as i go:
Defo gonna be more thoughtful about how i give advice now ahaha I’m always playing devils advocate but great point about not always wanting/needing to hear that yet/ever.
Also the whole Edinburgh being connected ughh yes judging based on friends :/ so tricky that we will always be perceived wrongly out of our control and vice versa.
So happy that u feel so enlightened after that experience and only you will ever know the depths of it - do whatever you want to do going forward regardless of other ppls narratives and regardless of your own attempt to rationalise or figure out which decision is ‘right’ becayse you won’t ever really know like there’s not going to be confirmation. The not knowing the full extent of the lesson yet is v relatablee
lol calling me out about not posting anymore but yess it’s therefore crucial i think for it to be routed in only yourself and it’s a constant struggle to balance those outlets and be honest to yourself about motives
The same goes for independent thinking in relationships it’s something I consider a lot too and never pinned it to social media which probably has heightened those problems tonnes/gets in the way and disguises things.
Don’t expect that to make any sense but love hearing ur thoughts - prompts reflection of my own hence this dump of a comment pahah:)