In real life my wife of 20 years left because she wasn't having fun and wanted her freedom to go out and live her life. At least that's what she told me. She told every one else I was a terrible husband and abusive and any other lies she could think of. Of course she had no issues with leaving our kids with me. After a few months the divorce was final and she called me wanting to come home. At least I had the pleasure of telling her no. Isn't it amazing how fast some women find that the grass wasn't greener on the other side after they destroy everything.
Claire is horrible. Cheater. However this guy is working 80 hours a week when he didn't have to ? Bad priorities dude. Some OT is good but priorities man. Not your fault but you contributed
I never wanted to hurt you. It’s not what it seems. We need to talk. It just happened. For 50% these things write themselves just by stringing a bunch of clichés together.
When Doug came at Frank with the punches, I honestly couldn’t help but laugh. Like, bro, you did this to yourself! Frank handled that way better than I would have.
28:30 when she said, "In case you forgot, you neglected me first." Response: And instead of communicating with me about the matter first, you chose to cheat on me with my best friend instead.😮
Don’t care how many hours he worked a week. Faithfulness is in a marriage period. Let her have to work like that and he cheat with Her Best Friend. People would want to hurt him for that. She was slack period.
He did work too much, even he recognized that and reduced his work hours lest he miss out on his daughters lives. That doesn't justify her cheating of course.
So true. No matter what you do, a cheater will still make it find an excuse to cheat. You could be the best spouse in the world, but a person without morals will still do what they want to do without caring about the consequences
@@miked1686 She should have. However, what we learnt was that he had no control over her. He had control over himself and it took the end of their marriage for him to amend his own behaviour. How much higher is the bar to get someone else to do something?
@@theuglykwan But if he didn't work that much to make whatever he made, that worthless 304 would've cheated on him "because he couldn't provide for her"...
Reality slapped Claire hard and she realized that she didn't try to protect her family only tried to gratification and realize what it caused. Then being timid when telling the kids was worse, at least Frank realized it should have been done sooner
Oh cool. They stole a design from an intern. And the poor betrayed spouse thinks that was “a mistake”. But cheating is “betrayal” and the poor guy is so wronged. He and his friend are both dirty thieves that wanted to screw over an intern. Both should be behind bars.
these stories always have similar points, every characters, even de betrayed spouse has no moral values. The betray husband left his cheating wife for a stripper, come on!
Holy moly. I have never seen a good story tank so fast as 24:16. Makes the whole confrontation with Doug a little earlier seem like wasted writing. In the end, the man is always wrong and must take responsibility for the woman's infidelity, according to the rules of the feminist writing agenda. Garbage 😅
If a man cheats, he's a selfish pig. If a woman cheats, it is only because her selfish pig of a husband wasn't meeting her needs. (Needs, which she only told him weren't being met after he caught her cheating. )
Did you even listen to the whole exchange? Yes, to the surprise of absolutely nobody ever the cheater TRIED to make it his fault. That he worked too much was a FACT, he took responsibility for that. However it was made very clear in the exchange her cheating was 100% on her but, like every cheating woman ever, she was unwilling to accept accountability. If the writer was trying make it his fault they failed miserably.
You can put guy friends into three categories... Guys you can trust with your girl, your money, and your stuff; bros. Guys you can trust with your girl and one other: friend Guys you can trust with at least your girl: descent acquaintance All others are to be avoided
It didn't say that! He was just satisfied with her being a friend. He also saw her pain and just wanted to give her an outlet. Sandra is totally up front with him, unlike his cheating wife that kept her affair a secret for over a year even though the sexual part didn't happen until six months before she told him. Actually, I have more respect for Sandra as she has been 100% honest with Frank.
She blames him for the breakup after telling him that she is unhappy, cheated with his friend, was in love with his friend, and basically saying she didn’t want to be with him any more. Blames him after the fact because he didn’t fight for the marriage. Claims she would have tried for the sake of the kids if he had fought for the marriage after so many layers if betrayal and harm that she did to him. The cheating relationship was doomed. Doug had a savior complex that wouldn’t have survived the grind of daily life. He too would have retreated into work, or cheated. She would likely have cheated again if the opportunity arose after Doug distanced himself. At least Doug didn’t come around after the affair started, whether from guilt, fear or a remaining shred of decency.
Yeah, but when you just work, not caring about your spouse and the kids, even hiding behind the work - the relationship is doomed, too. Especially if you have enough money for a comfortable living but still thrive for more and more. It is like cheating - with your work instead of with another person. Only advantage: you can quit this cheating without hurting your spouse longterm. Pictures of infidelity are nearly impossible to get rid of. The picture of a partner you hardly see because he/she is at work for 14 hours a day - you can overcome.
@@KingDracothehatedhybrid Yes and no. If he is indeed in deep love with his work and doesn't want to care for her, he should have left. He cheated first - because he loved his work more than his wife. He didn't get physical with his work but had an emotional relationship. She just did a revenge-cheating. ;-) Don't take your spouse or partner for granted.
Frank made a HUGE mistake trying to pull an Eliza Doolittle' with Sandra, a stripper and working girl. Sandra is damaged goods. If he needed 'companionship', Frank should just use Claire as an FWB (using protection, of course) until he finds someone to date. Claire is a lying cheater, so at least Frank wouldn't try to wife her again. With Sandra, he's building castles in the sky.
Sandra is a woman doing a job to make a living. She's straight forward, no lies, no deceit. She's not damaged. Nor does she deserve to be insulted or degraded. Unlike OP's ex-wife and ex BF.
As I've stated elsewhere, He was just satisfied with her being a friend. He also saw her pain and just wanted to give her an outlet. Sandra is totally up front with him, unlike his cheating wife that kept her affair a secret for over a year even though the sexual part didn't happen until six months before she told him. Actually, I have more respect for Sandra as she has been 100% honest with Frank.
Normally I am disgusted with the wives who cheat, In this particular story, Mr. Underwood is an a-hole and a weasel. He refused to accept that he is also responsible for the breakdown of his marriage. The worst part is refusing to accept that he is at fault too for stealing the schematic. Instead he puts all the blame on his friend, Doug. He acts as if he is better off than Doug when he is worse off in terms of character. Doug may have stolen his wife but he doesn't go around with a vindictive agenda. I dislike Frank Underwood.
A man can be equally responsible for marriage problems, but the cheater is 100% responsible for the cheating. The wife could have ended her marriage honorably before spreading her legs.
We men need to understand that many women need more than just money and stuff. They also need attention and affection. That doesn't mean it excuses them for cheating and a perfect women wouldn't cheat. Unfortunately the world is as short of perfect women as it is of perfect men.
If Frank don't earn money, then claira would had an affair with some rich guy stating his mediocre earning. Enlighten me Clara slept with many before and Frank with many before marriage, but they expect loyalty in there marriage???
That is just a convenient excuse cheaters use to blameshift. If they take a lower paying job, and turn down promotions, then the wife will cheat because he isn't a good provider. Women don't respect a man that doesn't out earn her by a significant margin. And if they don't respect, they will cheat.
@ResidentEvil937 That's true, but the problem is women are emotional and villain build. Long hours is an auto-excuse to use loneliness as the motive to cheat, so avoid marriage. Never trust people ruled by emotions, not logic, and always expect them to act accordingly.
He was just satisfied with her being a friend. He also saw her pain and just wanted to give her an outlet. Sandra is totally up front with him, unlike his cheating wife that kept her affair a secret for over a year even though the sexual part didn't happen until six months before she told him. Actually, I have more respect for Sandra as she has been 100% honest with Frank.
What is it with all the repetition in these stories? I don't need to hear about the girl's singing performance twice. And where did Op ever pull out his Glock?
I hate parents like the mother I don't care that my kids will be living in a broken home I want the feels my desire out ranks a good life for my kids. You better make all this money if you make less I leave why are you never home yay there's my reason for leaving
He is vindictive too. He should have admitted that he is at fault too for the breakdown of his marriage. Instead he puts all the blame on his wife and his best friend. No doubt they did him wrong but he is no angel either.
55:40, really ? Forgive the ex and destoy the ex best friend. 😅 stupid i say i wouodnt forgive her i be cold. Shouldn't forgive one and still hate other.
Ah, the damned if you do… damned if you don’t. Home and not miss a thing but moneys an issue and you’re a lazy loser/work and provide every want and need and you an absentee a-hole. I would never have a wife or children in this era. Better to remain single and watch the drama with popcorn after a cross country motorcycle trip
In this story it definitely is this guy fault that the marriage broke and she found someone else because he was never there for her, and he blames her for straying. He basically abandoned the family to work. What do guys expect if you don't take care of your woman and your kids and make them a priority and give them the love and comfort they need you are to blame of she walks away. And really first thing he does is go to a hooker after his divorce says a lot about the kind of guy he is.
I mean, OK she cheated, but dude totally sent her there. If I'm assigning blame for the breakdown of that marriage, he's getting more blame than she is, though she's the one that made the breakup irreversible. Yeah, she should have spoken up sooner, but 80 hours a week with two small kids? Get your head out of your ass man. And he's so pissed off at her?
He was wrong for doing that, so what she should have done as a faithful wife is work on that, suggest counselling, shower him with photos of moments with the girls his workaholism made him miss out on, something. But no, she selfishly got her needs met and damn the consequences, to the girls, to everybody. Make herself feel loved, at all costs. Yeah, he worked too hard, got something out of that emotionally for himself. He was wrong in that, like eating unhealthily is wrong for your waistline. Her wrong was a nuclear bomb on the marriage and the family. No way his was the worse.
@@JusBidnissso he neglects both her and the family for years, almost literally abandons them for his work to the point where it's a complete shock by everyone that he OMG!! takes his kids out for pizza and it's HER duty to put in the work to save the marriage before she checked out? Sorry man, this guy checked out a LOOONG time before she did. The only thing she did was put the nails in the coffin, but he made the coffin, dug the hole, put the coffin in the ground and delivered the dead body to the gravesite.
Second, she is a bigger ass by not talking about this with him and, instead, going and having sex with his best friend! People are going to make mistakes, but you have to use your grown up words and let that person know! You don't solve your marriage issues by spreading your legs for a third person! Cheating NEVER solves the problem!
In real life my wife of 20 years left because she wasn't having fun and wanted her freedom to go out and live her life. At least that's what she told me. She told every one else I was a terrible husband and abusive and any other lies she could think of. Of course she had no issues with leaving our kids with me. After a few months the divorce was final and she called me wanting to come home. At least I had the pleasure of telling her no. Isn't it amazing how fast some women find that the grass wasn't greener on the other side after they destroy everything.
Hero Status. A job well done good gentleman
Nobody on their death bed has ever said "I wish I had spent more time at work."
My husband would! He worked every hour he possibly could. They forced his retirement when he was 75.
Normal women and law tactics. Use the kids against the husband.
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Claire is horrible. Cheater. However this guy is working 80 hours a week when he didn't have to ? Bad priorities dude. Some OT is good but priorities man. Not your fault but you contributed
I never wanted to hurt you.
It’s not what it seems.
We need to talk.
It just happened.
For 50% these things write themselves just by stringing a bunch of clichés together.
Why do the husbands act like this is gonna go away and the wife is going to come to their senses.?
A neglectful mother who cheated on her children.
When Doug came at Frank with the punches, I honestly couldn’t help but laugh. Like, bro, you did this to yourself! Frank handled that way better than I would have.
28:30 when she said, "In case you forgot, you neglected me first."
Response: And instead of communicating with me about the matter first, you chose to cheat on me with my best friend instead.😮
Gotta say,
Typical Blame Shifting Tactics, used by Feminist 304s...
Don’t care how many hours he worked a week. Faithfulness is in a marriage period. Let her have to work like that and he cheat with Her Best Friend. People would want to hurt him for that. She was slack period.
He did work too much, even he recognized that and reduced his work hours lest he miss out on his daughters lives. That doesn't justify her cheating of course.
So true. No matter what you do, a cheater will still make it find an excuse to cheat. You could be the best spouse in the world, but a person without morals will still do what they want to do without caring about the consequences
@@theuglykwanthen she should have gotten a job ...
@@miked1686 She should have. However, what we learnt was that he had no control over her. He had control over himself and it took the end of their marriage for him to amend his own behaviour. How much higher is the bar to get someone else to do something?
@@theuglykwan
But if he didn't work that much to make whatever he made, that worthless 304 would've cheated on him "because he couldn't provide for her"...
From frying pan into the fire.. obviously he's a pain shopper. Lol
He has a vindictive character.
She got what she wanted - crying afterwards is just desserts.
Reality slapped Claire hard and she realized that she didn't try to protect her family only tried to gratification and realize what it caused. Then being timid when telling the kids was worse, at least Frank realized it should have been done sooner
It's really similar to me and I chose to end it with those two people and have no more contact
Oh cool. They stole a design from an intern. And the poor betrayed spouse thinks that was “a mistake”. But cheating is “betrayal” and the poor guy is so wronged. He and his friend are both dirty thieves that wanted to screw over an intern. Both should be behind bars.
😊😊😊
That had a very stupid end.
these stories always have similar points, every characters, even de betrayed spouse has no moral values. The betray husband left his cheating wife for a stripper, come on!
No, a schmexy night worker. That ends badly, I could never let my kids be with a woman like that
The only likable people in this story are the daughters
Holy moly. I have never seen a good story tank so fast as 24:16. Makes the whole confrontation with Doug a little earlier seem like wasted writing. In the end, the man is always wrong and must take responsibility for the woman's infidelity, according to the rules of the feminist writing agenda. Garbage 😅
I agree.
Wut?
If a man cheats, he's a selfish pig.
If a woman cheats, it is only because her selfish pig of a husband wasn't meeting her needs.
(Needs, which she only told him weren't being met after he caught her cheating. )
Did you even listen to the whole exchange? Yes, to the surprise of absolutely nobody ever the cheater TRIED to make it his fault. That he worked too much was a FACT, he took responsibility for that. However it was made very clear in the exchange her cheating was 100% on her but, like every cheating woman ever, she was unwilling to accept accountability. If the writer was trying make it his fault they failed miserably.
@jakeand9020 The writer failed and ruined the storyand that's the truth.
You can put guy friends into three categories...
Guys you can trust with your girl, your money, and your stuff; bros.
Guys you can trust with your girl and one other: friend
Guys you can trust with at least your girl: descent acquaintance
All others are to be avoided
Cheaters always make the most ridiculous reasons to cheat as a excuse for there actions
Couldn't accept the fact that his wife was a 304 but willing to accept the possibility of a professional 304 being his future wife 😂
It didn't say that! He was just satisfied with her being a friend. He also saw her pain and just wanted to give her an outlet. Sandra is totally up front with him, unlike his cheating wife that kept her affair a secret for over a year even though the sexual part didn't happen until six months before she told him. Actually, I have more respect for Sandra as she has been 100% honest with Frank.
She blames him for the breakup after telling him that she is unhappy, cheated with his friend, was in love with his friend, and basically saying she didn’t want to be with him any more. Blames him after the fact because he didn’t fight for the marriage. Claims she would have tried for the sake of the kids if he had fought for the marriage after so many layers if betrayal and harm that she did to him.
The cheating relationship was doomed. Doug had a savior complex that wouldn’t have survived the grind of daily life. He too would have retreated into work, or cheated. She would likely have cheated again if the opportunity arose after Doug distanced himself.
At least Doug didn’t come around after the affair started, whether from guilt, fear or a remaining shred of decency.
Yeah, but when you just work, not caring about your spouse and the kids, even hiding behind the work - the relationship is doomed, too. Especially if you have enough money for a comfortable living but still thrive for more and more. It is like cheating - with your work instead of with another person. Only advantage: you can quit this cheating without hurting your spouse longterm. Pictures of infidelity are nearly impossible to get rid of. The picture of a partner you hardly see because he/she is at work for 14 hours a day - you can overcome.
@@pelle7771 sill not an excuse to cheat she could have just left
@@KingDracothehatedhybrid Yes and no. If he is indeed in deep love with his work and doesn't want to care for her, he should have left. He cheated first - because he loved his work more than his wife. He didn't get physical with his work but had an emotional relationship. She just did a revenge-cheating. ;-)
Don't take your spouse or partner for granted.
@@pelle7771 revenge cheating is just as bad if not worse she still should have left instead of cheating so no it's still not an excuse to cheat
Frank made a HUGE mistake trying to pull an Eliza Doolittle' with Sandra, a stripper and working girl. Sandra is damaged goods.
If he needed 'companionship', Frank should just use Claire as an FWB (using protection, of course) until he finds someone to date.
Claire is a lying cheater, so at least Frank wouldn't try to wife her again. With Sandra, he's building castles in the sky.
Sandra is a woman doing a job to make a living. She's straight forward, no lies, no deceit. She's not damaged. Nor does she deserve to be insulted or degraded. Unlike OP's ex-wife and ex BF.
As I've stated elsewhere, He was just satisfied with her being a friend. He also saw her pain and just wanted to give her an outlet. Sandra is totally up front with him, unlike his cheating wife that kept her affair a secret for over a year even though the sexual part didn't happen until six months before she told him. Actually, I have more respect for Sandra as she has been 100% honest with Frank.
@@lindah3803 I 100% agree with you. I have far more respect for Sandra than I do for Frank's ex-wife.
Normally I am disgusted with the wives who cheat, In this particular story, Mr. Underwood is an a-hole and a weasel. He refused to accept that he is also responsible for the breakdown of his marriage. The worst part is refusing to accept that he is at fault too for stealing the schematic. Instead he puts all the blame on his friend, Doug. He acts as if he is better off than Doug when he is worse off in terms of character. Doug may have stolen his wife but he doesn't go around with a vindictive agenda. I dislike Frank Underwood.
A man can be equally responsible for marriage problems, but the cheater is 100% responsible for the cheating. The wife could have ended her marriage honorably before spreading her legs.
We men need to understand that many women need more than just money and stuff. They also need attention and affection. That doesn't mean it excuses them for cheating and a perfect women wouldn't cheat. Unfortunately the world is as short of perfect women as it is of perfect men.
Since when has telling the truth become childish?
Any men with long work hours should not get married as a rule.
If Frank don't earn money, then claira would had an affair with some rich guy stating his mediocre earning. Enlighten me Clara slept with many before and Frank with many before marriage, but they expect loyalty in there marriage???
That is just a convenient excuse cheaters use to blameshift. If they take a lower paying job, and turn down promotions, then the wife will cheat because he isn't a good provider. Women don't respect a man that doesn't out earn her by a significant margin. And if they don't respect, they will cheat.
@ResidentEvil937 That's true, but the problem is women are emotional and villain build. Long hours is an auto-excuse to use loneliness as the motive to cheat, so avoid marriage. Never trust people ruled by emotions, not logic, and always expect them to act accordingly.
Caught My Wife in Bed with My Best Friend - What Happened Next Shocked Everyone!
Divorces 1 304 just to chase a professional 304 😅.
He's doomed.
Hey, at least the next one is smart enough to get paid for it, the ex gave it away for free.
@@jakeand9020 You're 💯 right lol
He was just satisfied with her being a friend. He also saw her pain and just wanted to give her an outlet. Sandra is totally up front with him, unlike his cheating wife that kept her affair a secret for over a year even though the sexual part didn't happen until six months before she told him. Actually, I have more respect for Sandra as she has been 100% honest with Frank.
Ever wonder about the gynecologist, that opened Pandora's Box?
What is it with all the repetition in these stories? I don't need to hear about the girl's singing performance twice. And where did Op ever pull out his Glock?
😂luxury car.. I love the cyber truck. Designed by a 5 year old
I hate parents like the mother I don't care that my kids will be living in a broken home I want the feels my desire out ranks a good life for my kids. You better make all this money if you make less I leave why are you never home yay there's my reason for leaving
DON’T LISTEN
Some of the story was so sad but the ending qas cute.
I like the House of Cards names.
Was told not to wait then he’s waiting 🤨
Cars don't reflect anything about the man driving it.
At least he admitted he was a coward
He is vindictive too. He should have admitted that he is at fault too for the breakdown of his marriage. Instead he puts all the blame on his wife and his best friend. No doubt they did him wrong but he is no angel either.
Dude get a set
55:40, really ? Forgive the ex and destoy the ex best friend. 😅 stupid i say i wouodnt forgive her i be cold. Shouldn't forgive one and still hate other.
Mustangs and Challengers are not Muscle Cars! Never have been,
Why do cheaters always say .."I didn't mean to hurt you."?
Ah, the damned if you do… damned if you don’t. Home and not miss a thing but moneys an issue and you’re a lazy loser/work and provide every want and need and you an absentee a-hole. I would never have a wife or children in this era. Better to remain single and watch the drama with popcorn after a cross country motorcycle trip
FTS.
In this story it definitely is this guy fault that the marriage broke and she found someone else because he was never there for her, and he blames her for straying. He basically abandoned the family to work. What do guys expect if you don't take care of your woman and your kids and make them a priority and give them the love and comfort they need you are to blame of she walks away. And really first thing he does is go to a hooker after his divorce says a lot about the kind of guy he is.
42.20....Boss! 😊
SLVT
I mean, OK she cheated, but dude totally sent her there. If I'm assigning blame for the breakdown of that marriage, he's getting more blame than she is, though she's the one that made the breakup irreversible. Yeah, she should have spoken up sooner, but 80 hours a week with two small kids? Get your head out of your ass man. And he's so pissed off at her?
He was wrong for doing that, so what she should have done as a faithful wife is work on that, suggest counselling, shower him with photos of moments with the girls his workaholism made him miss out on, something. But no, she selfishly got her needs met and damn the consequences, to the girls, to everybody. Make herself feel loved, at all costs. Yeah, he worked too hard, got something out of that emotionally for himself. He was wrong in that, like eating unhealthily is wrong for your waistline. Her wrong was a nuclear bomb on the marriage and the family. No way his was the worse.
@@JusBidnissso he neglects both her and the family for years, almost literally abandons them for his work to the point where it's a complete shock by everyone that he OMG!! takes his kids out for pizza and it's HER duty to put in the work to save the marriage before she checked out? Sorry man, this guy checked out a LOOONG time before she did. The only thing she did was put the nails in the coffin, but he made the coffin, dug the hole, put the coffin in the ground and delivered the dead body to the gravesite.
Shit story.
First he's an ass for not being their for his wife.
So does that give her the right to trip and Fall on his ex best friend weenie multiple times for a year.
Second, she is a bigger ass by not talking about this with him and, instead, going and having sex with his best friend! People are going to make mistakes, but you have to use your grown up words and let that person know! You don't solve your marriage issues by spreading your legs for a third person! Cheating NEVER solves the problem!
Well she never would have the life she got without his hours. Now he is a saver of broke women.
Oh you mean golddigger wife? So it's funny when people try to justify adulterers and cheaters.