Any parent who tells someone whatever they're doing or wearing makes their child feel "uncomfortable" or "self conscious" 9 times out of 10 is speaking more for themselves.
I think you're being quite generous to the Karens by saying 9/10. very, very, very few kids care enough about what other people do to be offended by it.
So let's list some of the ways brother is abusive: Controls sister-in-law's behavior, by preventing her from going to school Financially controls her as she seems to have no money of her own. So either she had no allowances or her allowance was expected to be used on the children. Isolates sister-in-law, not only the sister-in-law seemed to have no friends but her family had to give her money through a church connection because they couldn't give it to her face to face. So either she has no way to accept money which we know she does or she isn't allowed to have contact was her family without him present.
story 2: Can we remember that op opened with I'm a widower? That kid lost his mother and now this woman who's supposed to be a positive and maybe helpful presence is treating him like he's less than a person just because they're not blood related and apparently being introverted is a crime worthy of being treated like the embarrassing toiletpaper on your shoe. The son even tried to be nice and by what op overheard, apparently the son really did want to go and be a part of the family. I'm glad op stood up for his son, but idk how that's gonna end.
I tend to believe she had said similar things to him at other times when the dad wasn't around...which contributed to the son wanting to keep to himself. Somehow, I highly doubt that was the first time she'd spoken to him like that. If I were the dad, I would have serious reservations about continuing a marriage with a woman who not only felt that way about my child, but didn't have a problem with vocalizing her feelings to him.
Makes me wonder if the son is actually shy and introverted or if his stepmother and stepsister have been chipping away at his confidence all this time.
If he was she's gonna have a real bad time soon. He can go to court and get full custody and child support without her even knowing about it. Since she doesnt know, she wont pay. At which point the state will put a warrant out for her arrest for non payment. Any interaction with thenpolice and she can be arrested, extradited, and jailed.
honestly if i was that kid and I was told "I'm not your real mom why do you care?" I'd have legit brought that up any time she asked me for or to do anything "you're not my real mom, so no" lmfao I was a spiteful child
In story 2 OP needs to start looking for a divorce lawyer because _goddamn_ if I were him any love I'd have for that woman would shrivel like raisin in the sun.
In story one while the wife is the A-hole for leaving OP's brother is a the bigger A-hole as it sounds like he was very controlling and wasn't willing to compromise. He won't hire a caretaker or learn to balance work and home life himself because to him that would be "yielding" and he refuses to do that instead trying to simply replace his wife with either his mother or his sister as a familial caretaker.
Story 1: I love how the parents are telling the original poster that family helps family but yet they themselves are family and they're not helping. Story 2: how can you hate introverts that much? Story 4: I'm willing to bet money that the woman is just projecting all of her issues and insecurities and the things that she's done onto the original poster.
For the audio battle i do recall a similar-ish situation, but on more friendly terms, when i was living in a sort of campus (not college campus but small scale for mental health aid /inbetween house for youghts who cannot get help elsewhere) my neighbour liked to play hardcore rather loudly on his speakers (an expensive set of hifi speakers) and i enjoyed my metal on my speakers (a set of 5.1 gaming speakers) and we ended up blasting music at each other through the wall, only shutting it off and coming out of our rooms laughing when we both had our mirrors and windows rattling in our rooms.
Story 1, both the brother and the sil sound like a holes to me. People need to be dead certain that they're ready for the awesome responsibility of raising children before they bring them into this world. The sil shouldn't have disappeared on her children and the brother shouldn't have treated his wife like a servant. Learn to change a diaper and hire some outside help. The sister in law needs to come back home and work out something with her ex. Those kids are the most important thing.
As a person who is very shy and prefers less social interaction, I feel so bad for that kid. As if he doesn’t struggle with insecurities already, the horrible mother had to make it worse. What an awful thing to say to a young, impressionable mind
@@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing never looked into statistics on how women increase their partners earning or how they do twice as much labour as male partners and if their labour was paid it would often put earn the other partner? Or how divorce actually works?
@@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing So then you agree she is earning an income? As she is performing labour for her husband that he would otherwise have to pay for? And when divorce happens she is getting paid for a premature end of her contract
My sister (40f) originally got married when I (31m) was eleven. Two and a half years of mid level mental abuse later she divorces from her first husband and leaves. Durring that time however my sister had gotten pregnant with my oldest nephew and needed someone to watch my nephew on weekends, and as you've probably guessed it fell on our parents. This might not have been an issue in some households, but I was dealing with middle school, full blown adolescents, and a relatively mild autism diagnosis. Three more years later everything balances out and she got back on her feet and my nephew isn't under foot every weekend. Unfortunately the damage had been done by that point and I wanted nothing to do with either of them for Years afterwards. Now fifteen or so years later I have little contact with my sister and her new husband, and have only met her youngest son (2m) once. AITA for not wanted a relationship with her after all this?
Well considering how much she would've been doing the house work and kid and the brother seems like he barely helped at all I doubt she would've been able to give the kids the life they deserve. Can't say with 100% certainty that the brother was abusive but he was severely neglecting his partner.
@GiordanDiodato when he's at work 40-60 hours a week when's he supposed to have time to do her job too? Oh, you just think the man should do 100% of the work and women should be able to do nothing because you're a feminist.
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Whatever is said and done the sister in law was the biggest asshole. And leaving HER children for yes a dream is still selfish to me regardless of how she or anyone want to put it. Those children didn't ask to be born but are so they are her responsibility as well.
Calling the sister in law the biggest ahole is very clearly total BULLSH×T. The kids are also the brothers responsibility but it sounds like he put all of it on his wife who broke down from doing everything and had to leave a severely neglectful husband that really didn't care about her at all. Until you go through a few years as a sahm but the husband does next to nothing, doesn't care about you and doesn't want to help make things better for you at all then you have no f×cking clue or right to call the brothers ex even an ahole or even selfish. Such utter bs
Bet when she's in jail for non payment of child support she'll look back at the time of being a lazy housewife with deep regret. And she'll deserve it.
OP's brother is the bigger asshole by the sounds of it though, as not only did it sound like he was controlling to the point of driving his wife away rather than learn to balance work and home life or hire a caretaker he just tries to dump them onto his mother or sister as actually being a responsible dad would be "admitting defeat". Either way the sister in law is right about one thing, staying with her I imagine soon to be ex-husband the kids aren't going to starve and even OP would step in if there was an emergency.
Oh boy I’ve got funny story. So I work at a swimming pool as a lifeguard and we have to dead with a few Karen’s every now and again. I live in Saskatchewan (Canadian prarie province and it’s prone to getting big thunderstorms.) so it’s the middle of the summer and we have swimming lessons going on. Halfway through all of the lessons a big thunderstorm comes out of nowhere I’m talking hail, wind and insane lightning. Even through it was an indoor pool we still had to get everyone out of the pool. While we are clearing the pool this women comes up to me asking why they were getting out of the water. I explained that if they stayed in the water they could get electrocuted. (It’s really unlikely but possible so we still have to clear it.) she then went on and got mad at me because they built a swimming pool on the praries. Her exact words were “why in the world would they build a swimming pool on the praries wouldent they know that we get storms” I tried not to laugh and my supervisor walked by at that moment and heard what she said and walked away laughing. I just nodded in agreement and she walked away. Wish our security cameras had adio. 😂
Story 1.the sister in law isn't that much of an asshole. She has the right to study and not having her choices to better her life because her husband says so. Nah she has a responsibility to the kids, but she isn't wrong either, she ain't right either. So yeah
People in these comments really be ignoring the severe red flags the brother is giving off. He's clearly treating the wife like sh×t as is and there's likely more going on that the op doesn't know about. The wife likely didn't have much in the way of financials given how much house work she was doing and how little the brother likely helped so she likely wouldn't have been able to give the kids a decent like especially if the brother took her to court over custody which clearly would be purely out of spite.
There are some here that reek of misoginy and (also that one user "tell meyou hate women without telling me you hate women" though it blatantly says it)1950 vibes without having stuck their head out the window to see World problems that don't affect themselves. That first post screams red flags of abuse albeit being mentally, emotional, monetary, both or even possibly more. The only thing that could be reproach to her is abandoning her kids. But that post screamed abusive marriage.
@@LionwomanYou come into a relationship saying something life changing you don’t get to just change it. Also not funding her robbing him blind in a divorce isn’t “monetary abuse” she doesn’t have a job
Yeah, I understand wanting to have a life, but she left her kids in the situation that she was so desperate to escape from. She sacrificed them for her own happiness.
I concur, she basically insinuated that her needs are more important than the children she helped bring into this world. She also basically left her children as a shield against her husband. The husband can’t abandon the kids for his dreams because the mom already did, the husband can’t fight/discuss issues with the marriage because his wife isn’t around. The husband can’t go off and try and find the wife because the kids have school, food needs. Etc. She basically tied him down even further so that she could be more free. Granted, the husband could have done a much better job of taking care of the kids, and discussing things with his wife and such. But two wrongs don’t make a right.
@@Arianainthedark well considering she was that desperate to escape from she likely wouldn't have the financial capability to provide for the kids and that's even without considering the brother possibly taking her to court for custody out of spite to ruin her financially even more than he already has.
@@fiyahquacker2835 He wouldn't need to take her to court for custody. She already abandoned them, so the judge would just give him custody. But, considering the fact that she didn't formally give up her parental rights, she could be responsible for paying child support. Tbh, IDGAF about the grown adults here, the kids are losing the most. Abandoned by a ghost of a mom, and left with a neglectful ahole of a dad, who can't even be bothered to learn how to raise his daughters.
Its entirely possible she just didnt like the responsibilities and was massively selfish and ran iff because she wanted to be free and party. In which case she's in for a nasty surprise is dad goes to court and gets custody andnchild support. Because even if she doesn't know she has to pay she's still on the hook fornit and the state will issue an arrest warrant for her for non payment. At which point any interaction with police could see her arrested, extradited and jailed.
About the Story with the Loud music at certin times It's Maybe Anoying i Also Love To hear it but Headphones are a Thing and not Everyone likes the Same Music
Story 1: You do not just get to abandon your kids. That includes women too. Sorry, but my husband pays 9k a year in child support, my dad paid my mom WHO DID NOT SEE US, MIND YOU, and many men go to jail for not paying, paying late, falling behind, etc. Equality is getting the same treatment men do even if you don't like it. So either step up and be a mom to children you made, or pay for them. As a SAHM myself, most couples can't just afford to spend money on both childcare and education for you to go back to school. That isn't to say the husband isn't an absolutely worthless father, he is. But both are crappy parents and the only ones I feel bad for are the kids. I married a single father to ensure that he 1. Knew how to parent 2. Knew how to keep a home and 3. Was responsible and hardworking. Pick who you marry carefully.
Nah something ain't right with you if you are being serious in this comment. If her ex wasn't blatantly neglectful, oppressive and/or abusive she wouldn't have had leave him like she did. She shouldn't be condemned for her actions in the slightest.
Failed mother in the firat story better hope dad isnt vindictive. He can go to court, get full custody and child support even if he doesnt know where she is. If support is granted she obviously won't be paying it because she won't even know about it. Then a warrant can be issued for her for non payment. In which case if she has an interaction with police, they can arrest her, extradite her and imprison her. Story 2. "You and your daughter should go stay at your mothers. I'll mail you the divorce papers."
Any parent who tells someone whatever they're doing or wearing makes their child feel "uncomfortable" or "self conscious" 9 times out of 10 is speaking more for themselves.
Classic transference. Her ungodly sense of entitlement didn't help either....
I think you're being quite generous to the Karens by saying 9/10. very, very, very few kids care enough about what other people do to be offended by it.
So let's list some of the ways brother is abusive:
Controls sister-in-law's behavior, by preventing her from going to school
Financially controls her as she seems to have no money of her own. So either she had no allowances or her allowance was expected to be used on the children.
Isolates sister-in-law, not only the sister-in-law seemed to have no friends but her family had to give her money through a church connection because they couldn't give it to her face to face. So either she has no way to accept money which we know she does or she isn't allowed to have contact was her family without him present.
Story 1: look him dead in the eye and say, how you run your household is none of my business.
Considering everything written in the story I doubt he ran it much different to a dictatorship.
Feh. NTA S1. Not your kids. Oh and btw, not ALL women know how to raise girls, or any kid, ask some of us about the "mom" we had
story 2: Can we remember that op opened with I'm a widower? That kid lost his mother and now this woman who's supposed to be a positive and maybe helpful presence is treating him like he's less than a person just because they're not blood related and apparently being introverted is a crime worthy of being treated like the embarrassing toiletpaper on your shoe. The son even tried to be nice and by what op overheard, apparently the son really did want to go and be a part of the family. I'm glad op stood up for his son, but idk how that's gonna end.
My reaction "You and your daughter should go stay at your mothers. I'll mail you the divorce papers and your stuff."
I tend to believe she had said similar things to him at other times when the dad wasn't around...which contributed to the son wanting to keep to himself. Somehow, I highly doubt that was the first time she'd spoken to him like that. If I were the dad, I would have serious reservations about continuing a marriage with a woman who not only felt that way about my child, but didn't have a problem with vocalizing her feelings to him.
Makes me wonder if the son is actually shy and introverted or if his stepmother and stepsister have been chipping away at his confidence all this time.
It's obvious that OP married the wrong person and needs to file a divorce. Pronto.
Story 1 - NTA
The brother sounds possibly abusive.
My thoughts exactly I mean everyone says sil is safe but they don’t know where she is. Sister in law calls and doesn’t want to be found.
If he was she's gonna have a real bad time soon. He can go to court and get full custody and child support without her even knowing about it. Since she doesnt know, she wont pay. At which point the state will put a warrant out for her arrest for non payment. Any interaction with thenpolice and she can be arrested, extradited, and jailed.
@@tarrantwolf which is bullshit
@@GiordanDiodato it's been happening to men for decades, you didn't have a problem with it then
@@tarrantwolf There is a lot of men who get away with it and even work shitty jobs to avoid CS what are you talking about?
honestly if i was that kid and I was told "I'm not your real mom why do you care?" I'd have legit brought that up any time she asked me for or to do anything "you're not my real mom, so no" lmfao I was a spiteful child
In story 2 OP needs to start looking for a divorce lawyer because _goddamn_ if I were him any love I'd have for that woman would shrivel like raisin in the sun.
In story one while the wife is the A-hole for leaving OP's brother is a the bigger A-hole as it sounds like he was very controlling and wasn't willing to compromise. He won't hire a caretaker or learn to balance work and home life himself because to him that would be "yielding" and he refuses to do that instead trying to simply replace his wife with either his mother or his sister as a familial caretaker.
Story 1: I love how the parents are telling the original poster that family helps family but yet they themselves are family and they're not helping.
Story 2: how can you hate introverts that much?
Story 4: I'm willing to bet money that the woman is just projecting all of her issues and insecurities and the things that she's done onto the original poster.
For story 2 "no I'm not but I did already make one before and that was getting into a relationship with such a sh×tty person".
story 1: it's because they're old
@@GiordanDiodato and this should know better
For the audio battle i do recall a similar-ish situation, but on more friendly terms, when i was living in a sort of campus (not college campus but small scale for mental health aid /inbetween house for youghts who cannot get help elsewhere) my neighbour liked to play hardcore rather loudly on his speakers (an expensive set of hifi speakers) and i enjoyed my metal on my speakers (a set of 5.1 gaming speakers) and we ended up blasting music at each other through the wall, only shutting it off and coming out of our rooms laughing when we both had our mirrors and windows rattling in our rooms.
Story 1, both the brother and the sil sound like a holes to me. People need to be dead certain that they're ready for the awesome responsibility of raising children before they bring them into this world. The sil shouldn't have disappeared on her children and the brother shouldn't have treated his wife like a servant. Learn to change a diaper and hire some outside help. The sister in law needs to come back home and work out something with her ex. Those kids are the most important thing.
As a person who is very shy and prefers less social interaction, I feel so bad for that kid. As if he doesn’t struggle with insecurities already, the horrible mother had to make it worse. What an awful thing to say to a young, impressionable mind
Story no.1 , the brother had that coming. He’s an idiot.
Granted his wife should do the right thing and file for divorce.
Yeah, she can't afford to.
@@WiseWordsbyWiki”she cant afford to❌”
“She can’t afford to take more than half of the money she didnt earn from him✔️”
@@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing never looked into statistics on how women increase their partners earning or how they do twice as much labour as male partners and if their labour was paid it would often put earn the other partner?
Or how divorce actually works?
@@WiseWordsbyWiki “they do twice as much labour” I woukd hope so since they’re litterally a homemaker
@@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing So then you agree she is earning an income? As she is performing labour for her husband that he would otherwise have to pay for? And when divorce happens she is getting paid for a premature end of her contract
Story 1: The brother is obviously abusive towards the SIL.
My sister (40f) originally got married when I (31m) was eleven. Two and a half years of mid level mental abuse later she divorces from her first husband and leaves. Durring that time however my sister had gotten pregnant with my oldest nephew and needed someone to watch my nephew on weekends, and as you've probably guessed it fell on our parents. This might not have been an issue in some households, but I was dealing with middle school, full blown adolescents, and a relatively mild autism diagnosis. Three more years later everything balances out and she got back on her feet and my nephew isn't under foot every weekend. Unfortunately the damage had been done by that point and I wanted nothing to do with either of them for Years afterwards. Now fifteen or so years later I have little contact with my sister and her new husband, and have only met her youngest son (2m) once. AITA for not wanted a relationship with her after all this?
INFO: do you have contact with older nephew?
@@GiordanDiodato no more than once or twice a year at family functions.
So the sister in law gets to run away and basically abandon her kids with a guy that needs to beg his family for help. I feel so bad for those kids.
Well considering how much she would've been doing the house work and kid and the brother seems like he barely helped at all I doubt she would've been able to give the kids the life they deserve. Can't say with 100% certainty that the brother was abusive but he was severely neglecting his partner.
Honestly it sounds likes she was being abused
@@fiyahquacker2835hmm, barely helped at all *by paying for everything* but that's barely helping.... smh
@@tarrantwolf like feeding the kids? spending time with the kids?
oh wait, you're just a MRA
@GiordanDiodato when he's at work 40-60 hours a week when's he supposed to have time to do her job too?
Oh, you just think the man should do 100% of the work and women should be able to do nothing because you're a feminist.
Poor girls. Abandoned by two parents
Final story: (ahem).....
:best Davey Jones impression: *_RELEASE THE KAREN!!!_*
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17:00 this is the best story ever XD
The blasting System of a Down gives me so much more respect for mr facts
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Godsmack, "Whatever"
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NWA, "Guerillas In Tha Mist"
Green Jelly, "House Me Teenage Rave"
The Monkees, "Daydream Believer"
Monty Python, "Sit On My Face"
Nazareth, "Hair of The Dog"
Oingo Boingo, "Weird Science"
Pink Floyd, "Young Lust"
Santana, "Evil Ways"
The Simpsons, "We Do"
Slade, "Run Runaway"
Mr. Garrison, "Merry Fucking Christmas"
Southern Culture on The Skids, "Camel Walk"
Steve Miller Band, "Wild Mountain Honey"
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2:31 he's selfish for wanting to send the kids away tf?
hell yeah i love system of a down
Whatever is said and done the sister in law was the biggest asshole. And leaving HER children for yes a dream is still selfish to me regardless of how she or anyone want to put it. Those children didn't ask to be born but are so they are her responsibility as well.
Calling the sister in law the biggest ahole is very clearly total BULLSH×T. The kids are also the brothers responsibility but it sounds like he put all of it on his wife who broke down from doing everything and had to leave a severely neglectful husband that really didn't care about her at all. Until you go through a few years as a sahm but the husband does next to nothing, doesn't care about you and doesn't want to help make things better for you at all then you have no f×cking clue or right to call the brothers ex even an ahole or even selfish. Such utter bs
Bet when she's in jail for non payment of child support she'll look back at the time of being a lazy housewife with deep regret. And she'll deserve it.
so being abused makes someone an ahole?
@@GiordanDiodato the story didn't mention any abuse
OP's brother is the bigger asshole by the sounds of it though, as not only did it sound like he was controlling to the point of driving his wife away rather than learn to balance work and home life or hire a caretaker he just tries to dump them onto his mother or sister as actually being a responsible dad would be "admitting defeat". Either way the sister in law is right about one thing, staying with her I imagine soon to be ex-husband the kids aren't going to starve and even OP would step in if there was an emergency.
What I wouldn't give to be a fly on the wall of the sea Karen story
It’s crazy how this narrator is standing on top of a car while talking!
Oh boy I’ve got funny story. So I work at a swimming pool as a lifeguard and we have to dead with a few Karen’s every now and again. I live in Saskatchewan (Canadian prarie province and it’s prone to getting big thunderstorms.) so it’s the middle of the summer and we have swimming lessons going on. Halfway through all of the lessons a big thunderstorm comes out of nowhere I’m talking hail, wind and insane lightning. Even through it was an indoor pool we still had to get everyone out of the pool. While we are clearing the pool this women comes up to me asking why they were getting out of the water. I explained that if they stayed in the water they could get electrocuted. (It’s really unlikely but possible so we still have to clear it.) she then went on and got mad at me because they built a swimming pool on the praries. Her exact words were “why in the world would they build a swimming pool on the praries wouldent they know that we get storms” I tried not to laugh and my supervisor walked by at that moment and heard what she said and walked away laughing. I just nodded in agreement and she walked away. Wish our security cameras had adio. 😂
Story 1.the sister in law isn't that much of an asshole. She has the right to study and not having her choices to better her life because her husband says so. Nah she has a responsibility to the kids, but she isn't wrong either, she ain't right either. So yeah
My thoughts are what isn’t sil telling op there’s missing reasons for not wanting to be found is ops brother abusive
@@babybookworm003 didn't read the story, did you
People in these comments really be ignoring the severe red flags the brother is giving off. He's clearly treating the wife like sh×t as is and there's likely more going on that the op doesn't know about. The wife likely didn't have much in the way of financials given how much house work she was doing and how little the brother likely helped so she likely wouldn't have been able to give the kids a decent like especially if the brother took her to court over custody which clearly would be purely out of spite.
There are some here that reek of misoginy and (also that one user "tell meyou hate women without telling me you hate women" though it blatantly says it)1950 vibes without having stuck their head out the window to see World problems that don't affect themselves. That first post screams red flags of abuse albeit being mentally, emotional, monetary, both or even possibly more. The only thing that could be reproach to her is abandoning her kids. But that post screamed abusive marriage.
@@LionwomanYou come into a relationship saying something life changing you don’t get to just change it. Also not funding her robbing him blind in a divorce isn’t “monetary abuse” she doesn’t have a job
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Wow. Hope the selfish wife from first post is found and charged with child abandonment. What a horrible wife and mother
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1st story:whatever anyone says,the SIL is the biggest AH of the story cause she just left the kids with him and disappeared with no trace,NTA
Yeah, I understand wanting to have a life, but she left her kids in the situation that she was so desperate to escape from. She sacrificed them for her own happiness.
I concur, she basically insinuated that her needs are more important than the children she helped bring into this world.
She also basically left her children as a shield against her husband.
The husband can’t abandon the kids for his dreams because the mom already did, the husband can’t fight/discuss issues with the marriage because his wife isn’t around. The husband can’t go off and try and find the wife because the kids have school, food needs. Etc.
She basically tied him down even further so that she could be more free.
Granted, the husband could have done a much better job of taking care of the kids, and discussing things with his wife and such. But two wrongs don’t make a right.
@@Arianainthedark well considering she was that desperate to escape from she likely wouldn't have the financial capability to provide for the kids and that's even without considering the brother possibly taking her to court for custody out of spite to ruin her financially even more than he already has.
@@fiyahquacker2835 He wouldn't need to take her to court for custody. She already abandoned them, so the judge would just give him custody. But, considering the fact that she didn't formally give up her parental rights, she could be responsible for paying child support. Tbh, IDGAF about the grown adults here, the kids are losing the most. Abandoned by a ghost of a mom, and left with a neglectful ahole of a dad, who can't even be bothered to learn how to raise his daughters.
Its entirely possible she just didnt like the responsibilities and was massively selfish and ran iff because she wanted to be free and party. In which case she's in for a nasty surprise is dad goes to court and gets custody andnchild support. Because even if she doesn't know she has to pay she's still on the hook fornit and the state will issue an arrest warrant for her for non payment. At which point any interaction with police could see her arrested, extradited and jailed.
About the Story with the Loud music at certin times It's Maybe Anoying i Also Love To hear it but Headphones are a Thing and not Everyone likes the Same Music
Story 1: You do not just get to abandon your kids. That includes women too. Sorry, but my husband pays 9k a year in child support, my dad paid my mom WHO DID NOT SEE US, MIND YOU, and many men go to jail for not paying, paying late, falling behind, etc. Equality is getting the same treatment men do even if you don't like it. So either step up and be a mom to children you made, or pay for them. As a SAHM myself, most couples can't just afford to spend money on both childcare and education for you to go back to school. That isn't to say the husband isn't an absolutely worthless father, he is. But both are crappy parents and the only ones I feel bad for are the kids. I married a single father to ensure that he 1. Knew how to parent 2. Knew how to keep a home and 3. Was responsible and hardworking.
Pick who you marry carefully.
Why doesn’t Facts condemn the mother that abandoned her kids? Dude, “I understand why you left”? Naw man. Something ain’t right with you man.
Nah something ain't right with you if you are being serious in this comment. If her ex wasn't blatantly neglectful, oppressive and/or abusive she wouldn't have had leave him like she did. She shouldn't be condemned for her actions in the slightest.
Failed mother in the firat story better hope dad isnt vindictive. He can go to court, get full custody and child support even if he doesnt know where she is. If support is granted she obviously won't be paying it because she won't even know about it. Then a warrant can be issued for her for non payment. In which case if she has an interaction with police, they can arrest her, extradite her and imprison her.
Story 2. "You and your daughter should go stay at your mothers. I'll mail you the divorce papers."
please find a bridge
@@GiordanDiodato you first