I sat here trying to find the right words to say to Kelly, and this comment nails it on the head perfectly, so thank you for that. Yes, we do love you, Kelly!!
Thank you for sharing how you feel! I struggle with anxiety and depression a lot of the time too. I was in a fatal car accident a couple months ago. I've been bed ridden & just recently discovered your videos. I was in an abusive relationship for a couple of years. I was driving my new car & my boyfriend (who was under the influence) jerked the wheel, and said "Die, Bitch" I tried to turn the wheel back, but we hit a huge tree head on. He lost his life & I nearly lost mine too. I broke both my legs & ton of other injuries, to many to list. That was at the end of July. I'm learning how walk properly & I'm working on a bunch of other things in physical therapy. Fortunately I didn't get brain damage. I'm so lucky to be alive!!! I'm so happy I found your videos! Your personality & your generosity are SO inspiring to me!!!! You seem like real, genuine, down to earth person & people like that are few & far between. Thank you for help bringing me out my shell a bit. You help me, make me feel like maybe I could talk to others about domestic violence, both physical & mental, someday. Thank you and God bless you!
Please never apologize for speaking openly and truthfully to your followers, especially about your mental health! It shows how genuine of a person you are, and we as fans appreciate seeing that so much! Great video!
Dang girl how courageous of you for sharing. Honestly I love this saying "secrets keep you sick" when we shed light on somthing hurting us it lessens the load.
Kelly, I'm adding a thumbs up to your subs who respond to your words about anxiety. I'm 59, and have struggled with this since my teens. We are all in this together, but we can often feel so isolated. Sharing and airing is healing for all of us.
I like ur personality alwys smiling & maybe u dont get angry ur so cool, thats why i subscribe ur vlog....ur smile caught me & if only im there im also dive dumpster with u😊
All those little kids clothes you found were all so cute. I'm glad that you talked about your depression. It's great to get it out & not keep it all bottled up inside.
Caders 08 depression is a thing that needs to be brought to the forefront. Not many people know how to explain it and it is missed in many cases! Keep going girl!
You are keeping things out of the landfill. I take linens to animal shelters, clothes to Goodwill. Make art out of papers, cardboard, ribbon and old books. Also I take plants people throw out. Keep up the good work. Tina
I didn’t expect this video to be so relatable. I usually just enjoy watching you discover dumpster gems, but I really related to your anxiety/depression. Thanks for talking about it, it makes me feel less alone 💕
You're not alone, Kristin Thomas. Just like any other illness, lotsa peeps have this disease n need to support each other just like breast cancer victims.
I Love how you expressed yourself to us and showed your vulnerable side. Then was blessed with such an amazing find. God Bless you. Keep your head up. By the way your hair is beautiful!
Also, thank you for being so open and honest about you're struggle with anxiety and depression! It's so important to talk about, because it helps others realize that they are not alone.
Agreed, I suffer from PTSD myself n anixety plus depression. Most just are embarrassed to talk about it. But she talks about it which is huge for so many people
I study abroad for 3 months and had TERRIBLE emotional issues with my long distance relationship and I fell into a lonely depressed state and watched your videos to keep my mind from wandering when I was alone. Always keep smiling , we love you and pilgrim :) thanks for sharing, we’re all in this together
My 4 year old and I watch your videos together. She's started asking why certain things are thrown away and, while watching you dive, she says, "I can't believe people threw that away!" I relate so much to the depressed/anxious headspace. It's like a mental fog that makes it difficult to even think at all, much less think on your feet. Thank you for persevering.
I love that you save items from the landfill! I create art out of 100% recycled items, things I have found. It makes me feel better knowing I am helping our earth.
Talking about the darkness of depression and anxiety brings it to the light. Sharing your experience brings more light.. things tend to look better in the light. Thanks for sharing; you're speaking for a lot of us - 😊🌞☀️
This video really made me feel something. I’ve been feeling similar but when going to work, I work in customer service and have constant anxiety about dealing with any confrontations. I do my best to push through and nobody at work knows that I struggle and would say I’m super bubbly too but in all honesty I struggle
thank you so much for sharing how you are feeling with us . i know i do the same as you and walk around with my happy mask on so that nobody actually knows how im really feeling.....im so happy that you consider us all family and feel safe enough with us to share this side of you. we love you and we love the relationship with your other half your such a sweet funny couple so suited for each other.....we love what you do saving so so much stuff from landfill and im not sure about anyone else but im from the UK and we dont see much dumpster diving happening so its so facinating to see what your going to find next. I know its hard some days but keep smiling and remember we love you xx
Your hair really does look fantastic! I also suffer from depression and major anxiety so I know exactly how you feel and what you're saying. It is absolutely draining.....The worst thing you can do though is to stay at home locked inside. I spent years not getting out of bed, for the most part. That just made it 1,000 times worse! So I'm glad you are still getting out and doing what you love. It's important! Hang in there. 👍
Thanks for sharing Gigi, I understand more about my depression and anxiety because people like you share your own experiences. Real depression, not just having a bad day. The way Kelly described her issues made me cry, but I was glad she was able to share those feelings and recognized it for what it is.
Wow I feel like that could have been me talking. Thanks for sharing. In fact it's the middle of the day and I'm in bed now. I've been on a crazy amount of various medications for years . Pretty much tolerant to them all. May I ask please if any particular med helped for you? Or was it forcing yourself out? Please let me know, thanks regards Alex
Thanks for opening up about your depression. I have anxiety myself. I love how you keep us involved and your videos always make me feel like I'm hanging out with a friend.
I'm impressed with your kindness. You are often donating to the food pantry and now to help the firefighters and animal rescue in Australia. That is awesome.
Hi Kelly, I heard you say you have depression: I have had depression on and off since 1991 thanks to my first husband blaming me for everything and emotionally abusing me. I know exactly what you're talking about, and don't worry, you are not alone. There are lots of us around and there are support groups all over the internet if you choose to join one. I love your videos and I always look forward to the new ones. they help me to feel more positive about my day!
I have recently become more open about my depression and anxiety, so I’m glad you shared your story as well. Other people that have this in common with us need to know they are never alone with the struggles and feelings they are having.
@@dawnlovejoy8917 I was told I can't have PTSD because "I've never been to war." By a psychiatrist. Yeah. I don't think they know much more than we do about mental health.
@@lainey7985 Yeah there's some biased psychologists and psychiatrists out there. I've got PTSD from childhood trauma. Anyone can develop it you don't have to be a veteran.
Thanks for sharing with us something so personal , But keep the faith. I’m from Malta 🇲🇹 Europe and here we have a saying which goes like this ( don’t know if you have the same in the USA) God never closes a door without opening another one ! Keep strong 😊
Oh you are beautiful. I suffer from severe depression and anxiety. I had a suicide attempt almost a year ago now and I understand this conversation you had with us. I don't know what to say bc I'm going through the same thing. But remember it's just a feeling...I'll go away. I love you and I don't even know you. Feel sad! You're human. You have emotions!!
I love watching your channel. We are like family...so many people live with depression and anxiety. I hope you can continue to speak freely and lean on us when needed. Love the hair too! 💕
Unjust things have always affected me and there is so much of it, most people ignore acts of cruelty and wrong doings. I have put myself in trouble at times because I have tried to change bad to good. The saying ““The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing.”- Edmund Burke. So you keep going and be the change, God bless you.
I am more depressed now than I've ever been in my life. I've gained 50lbs in about a year. I appreciate you speaking about your depression because you aren't the only one struggling. Love you tons and your videos ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I'm the same right now. I've gained weight, I'm struggling with changes at work. Some of my younger coworkers have turned into a clique of 16 year old mean girls. I'm over 55 and don't have time for all that. It just adds up and makes every day hard to take.
You're not alone. Everyone please remember that. Also the holidays are a time when people tend to get a little more depressed. It will get better. God won't give you more than you can handle.
You are so inspiring to me Kelly. You have the sweetest heart and spirit! I now want to go out and make a difference in my own community. My husband and I just went behind Aldi’s tonight and I spotted their dumpster was just heaped to the top! I spotted bags of oranges in their clear plastic bags and wanted to stop and check it out. My hubby refused and made me feel really bad about wanting to rescue food out of the dumpster. I might go in and talk to the manager and see if I can schedule a pickup day for things they are about to throw out, I’d like to bring it to a food bank. Anyway, I too struggle with depression. All the best to you sweet young lady!
You are so adorable and thank you for sharing your depression and anxiety with us. You are really helping our landfill and you recycle the clothing you are the greatest
No need to apologize-you needed to talk and that is why we are here. I struggle with depression and anxiety, and when you’re having a low day-don’t be hard on yourself. It happens and you just need to be kind to yourself and remember that it will pass. OMG!! You found all those clothes!! You are smiling!! You are explaining why you dive and I am loving everything you are saying!! I feel the same way!! One person can make a difference, but if we could get others it could really make an impact! I want you to know that I think you are such a special person. Thinking the way you do, caring about the earth and about how people will be helped with the food you find and the clothes. I am old enough that I could be your mom, and going out to dumpsters to retrieve things like you are doing is a very selfless act. You are giving of your time driving, digging and what you need to do at home with some of the items. You are amazing and I am so happy you found all those clothes right after you were talking to us and it made you feel better. I am so sorry that I have forgotten your name, but I am here if you need to talk.
Love your go to attitude. Even though you go though a depressive period, you continue to go on. That is a good way to deal with the depression you are experiencing. God bless.
One more thing I want to say…THANK YOU KELLY FOR CARING AND FOR NOT GIVING UP ON ALL OF THE LAZY PEOPLE WHO JUST PLAIN DON’T GIVE A TOADS TUSH ABOUT OTHER LESS FORTUNATE PEOPLE THAT YOUR MISSION HELPS OR CARE ABOUT THE LANDFILL. You’re a great person Kelly. In fact most people can’t come up to your shoe tops as far as being a woman of quality, integrity, honesty, generosity and an all around genuine person deserving the respect of all. So hold your head up high sweet girl. You’re the best. God bless you and yours.✝️🦮♥️
I hear you on the depression and I am right there with you. Good days are really good, but the bad can really be a struggle. Hang in there. Find a way to laugh, and feel better. Its always easier said than done, but you got this!
Just Between Friends is a mommy swap meet they have events locally that they organize online and they sell Consignment clothing and toys and baby gear. Looks like maybe one of the event centers just had leftover stuff and tossed it instead of donating it which is what they should have done or maybe it was one of the organizers
Though depression and the anxiety that comes with may ne tough, you my friend, are very much a forward thinker. Do not hide you feelings because people, like me, get you and need another to connect to on a personal level. Dumpsters Diving is so much more than "reusing" products.. it gives you hope
Most people that are depressed seem to be very happy on the outside and strive to make others happy! Never feel alone!!!!! We all love you and are here for you even if all you want to do is talk to us we will still watch!😀
It's okay to let things out. Times like this has helped others. Trust me I know the feeling. I love how you are always helping others. Please keep your head up and that very warm smile.
I am flabbergasted every time you find an amount of clothes like that. Why would folks not donate that stuff?! Blows my mind. I also really appreciated you opening up about your depression and anxiety. I was diagnosed with both of those 7 years ago. It’s really tough to live with those things constantly but I’m so glad you recognize your uncomfortable moments and bad days. That is all part of the process of managing your intense feelings. I’m so glad your day got better and I loved that you shared that with all of us. 💕 XOXO
I too have issues with depression. I have therapy and meds that help me a lot. One thing I sometimes do is to isolate myself. That's where you come in, I watch you and your adventures but mostly love it when you have a big smile. Your whole face lights up and it makes me smile. We are here for you, we do develop a friendship and care about your well-being. Hang in there 😃
Thank you for being brave enough to share about depression and anxiety and how it effects you. I also suffer from depression and anxiety there are days I can't make myself get out of bed. So incredibly proud of you and your mission in life. You are an amazing woman and I love the new hair. Keep doing you!
It makes me sad to just how many people are stating they have depression and anxiety but it just goes to show that none of us are suffering alone yet people still are afraid to share that with people face to face. Thank you Kelly for opening up this conversation. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. We are all cheering for you. Thank you for saving all the useful items and for saving them from going to the landfill.
💓 your hair. I’m proud of you for being able to go outside .when you feel depressed it’s hard to feel positive so you carry on sweetie. You’re awsome♥️
Kelly, I’m not even a fan of dumpster diving and I don’t care to watch any other dumpster diving channels besides yours. The reason I watch every single video you upload is YOU. I enjoy “being around” you, so to speak. You brighten up my day! You’re perfectly entitled to have your down days. That just makes you more genuine. You don’t try to put up some sort of facade - you are who you are and you’re not afraid to show us who you are! If that made any sense lol. So many of us can identify with what you were saying here. You feel like a friend.
i'm so glad that you feel like you can open you and tell us about how you are feeling! I also struggle with depression so i understand how you feel. i wish i lived close to you so i could go with you on these days and try to help you fell more comfortable diving. i love your videos! also what you are doing is such and amazing! You not only save so much stuff from the landfills, you are helping so many people! and i love seeing the joy you get when you find things!
I love going “diving” with you. You’re fun and l enjoy your attitude. I’m old now and can’t get out but watching you makes me happy and it’s sure easier on my joints 🥰
you are such a sweet lady and I know how you feel...I am a quiet person and I know I wouldn't be able to do what you do. I don't talk to a lot of people cause I am always afraid of saying the wrong thing. you bring sunshine to my day every time I watch your videos. watching you makes me smile and when you smile it makes they day a lot brighter.
You was not rambling, you was just being yourself. We all need some 1 to talk to at times, your a lovely young lady who is doibg her bit for the world we all live in. Glad you found all those clothes, there is always a silver lining around the corner. Keep up the good work & keep digging to make a difference. We love you loads xx.
You never have to apologize for sharing to ppl how you are feeling inside. You have many active subscribers for a reason, and being true to who you are is the reason why we watch and lend support. I too suffer greatly from depression and anxiety, and know EXACTLY where you are coming from. It can extremely hard to move forward and keep going when the tug inside you is at its highest. But never feel bad to reach out, for you have plenty of new subscribers that will keep you going, smiling, and wishing you well in spirit :)
Totally get what you are saying, happens to me too, the ironic part is you did great at explaining even though inside you might have felt otherwise. Great part is tomorrow is a new day!💝
I completely understand your struggle with depression and and anxiety. I also have a bubbly personality and people find it hard to believe how real the struggle can be. As you age it gets easier for sure! So happy you had a great find but it's also frustrating what people will throw away.
Omg i love your hair!!!!!! Sorry your feeling depressed, take time for yourself and always always talk to someone holding it in is never a good thing. Love your videos and stay strong chica 💪💙
I suffer from anxiety and depression too. But I watch videos like this, seeing you “rescue” all this stuff that people just throw away, and it just makes me feel better!
Hey!! Love your channel **might have been binge watching these last few days** The kid clothes are clothes that did not sell at a Just Between Friends Sale. It is basically a weekend sale where tons of people bring their kid/baby clothes and related items. The people who bring the items and set their own prices; and have to take back what does not sell. Keep on creating content!!
I love your hair!!! I’m so glad you found all those clothes!! They cheered you up! I struggle with seasonal depression so I totally understand what you’re going through. Fall and winter tend to be a struggle for me.
As someone who suffers from severe mental illness, I completely understand what you mean. Most of the time I hide in my house where it's "safe". I don't want to interact with others. I have no friends other than my husband and kids. I love to thrift and DD, but often I can't even bring myself to do those things that I love. I try to take things one day at a time, and that does seem to help. I wish you only the best.
Sending you hugs! You are such a caring, thoughtful young woman. Every time someone talks about their anxiety or depression it helps to remove the stigma attached to it. Thank you for trusting us!
I enjoy your videos so much. I also have depression. I just lost my job a few weeks ago and have been doing some dumpster diving while searching for a new one. Some days are better than others but I love the hunt! The universe always seems to provide, doesn't it?
I didn’t know you have depression. It really puts into perspective for me that what I see on the surface isn’t everything. Thanks for putting a smile on all our faces. I hope you start to feel better 💕
I know this video is old but I'm just listening/watching during work. I just started watching your videos about a month ago. I love your personality...whether you're having an 'off-day' or a 'good-day'. You are sharing the important parts of you...the caring and sharing side! I know how frustrating it is to know people are just throwing out items others can use...but the silver lining is YOU are finding it and doing something important with it!! When one door closes another opens...you are fortunate to find the waste and do good for your community and others. Keep passing on the positive message and vibes!! You are an inspiration to so many and you make a lot of peoples day with your attitude and sharing your baby Pilgrim with us!!
I’m glad you can still find the motivation to leave the house even when you’re depressed. But then again, diving is your job as well, so it’s like missing work. But good for you! Your hair is so cute!
I suffer from anxiety and bipolar depression, so I totally get what you’re saying. Good for you getting out there and trying to push through! I’m disabled, so I live vicariously through you and a couple other dumpster divers on TH-cam. You are the only one I watch who goes through non-commercial dumpsters, which is really cool. Keep up the good work! 👍😁
I suffer from depression and mental illness and I know how you feel I also love to dumpster dive but I think it's illegal in my city so I don't do it as often as I want..keep up the good work and you can always vent to your youtube family we are always here for you
I hope you can still see this on this old video. I have dealt with and suffered from anxiety and depression most of my 67 years. I'm grateful that there is so much more openness today where honesty is much easier, but what you said still took a lot of courage. From the comments, I hope you know how safe you are with the people that follow you. Keep your chin up sweetie!! Sounds like you deal with this exactly as you need to. God bless you and keep on diving!!
I hope not. Maybe they were expecting a girl but got a boy instead? Or they were too small? Or just were put way and forgotten till they didn't fit? We wlil never know.
The clothes might have been tossed by a snotty mother who got the consignment store clothes as a gift from someone (like her mother-in-law) and didn't want used clothes. I know people like that.
You are beyond brave to share your struggles with depression and anxiety! I'm 64 and have had severe depression and ocd since puberty, SO, I can REALLY relate to how sadness consumes you....Thank you for your FUN videos and know that I understand every description you had for your sadness
Im sorry that you are going through depression and anxiety but im really thankful that you opened up to us. For many years i would deny it and i finally came to conclusion that yes I do have it and its okay i just have to work a little harder with myself! Honestly you’re videos make me feel amazing and so at ease. I loved that you went on vacation and im so happy to have you back to diving! If you EVER need a friend to talk to, im here! 🙋🏻♀️
I also suffer from depression and anxiety and i know exactly how you’re feeling ! I hope you can feel better soon xxx shopping at second hand shops cheers me up xxx
So glad you are brave to talk about depression. Many people out here feel just like you. It can be weird to have these feelings that don't feel like yourself and it really feels like your a different person. We love your videos, we love your rambling, keep it up and I hope you get to feeling better!
It was so wonderful to see your outlook turned around. I was watching and wanting to give you a hug. Depression is such an awful thing it can so quickly become all encompassing, I am just so happy you were able to make a quick turnaround. What a jackpot you made today on clothing. I a so happy you were able to save it from the landfill. Someone will certainly be able to use it. I finally want to say I am glad you like your hair. You are such a beautiful girl, I liked your natural look but, I am very happy you have something you are happier with. (I am a 60+ woman so the natural look is more in my wheel house) I will be looking forward to your next video until then please take care and God bless!
its good to talk about your depression, i have PTSD and have a hard to wanting to go places, allot of times i have to Force myself, i mean Force, getting out helps get your mind off the thing that are bothering you, so your not alone
Your hair looks great. I can relate to the depression/anxiety thing, good for you for getting out there and staying busy. I'm putting positive energy out there for you.
Its fun to dye your hair . I got use to the other color .🤓😍 your a sweet person ,so your still the same person ,light or dark hair . Take care , folks watch your videos because of your lovely attitude .♥️
Thank you for sharing another part of yourself with all of us. It’s so common for so many of us to suffer with depression in silence. When we witness amazing people, like you, being so open, it can make things a little less scary in the world. Your videos help me with my depression. I love your kind heart and your beautiful smile. Sending you hugs and love! ♥️
Thank you for speaking candidly about your struggle with depression and anxiety. I too struggle, and it’s often hard to talk about, but it helps to de-stigmatize things when we talk about it openly (when we feel safe and able to do so, of course). You are very self-aware about your thoughts and feelings so that’s a huge positive for you. Sending you massive hugs and so much loving support my friend! Keep up the wonderful work, I love your passion for what you do and why you do it 🤗🤗🤗
Oh my never thought you would have depression you are such a lovely person .I love watching all the good things you do .Some people are so stupid throwing good clothes away they must have no sense at all.
I know how you feel i am struggling with anxiety and depression as well it can be very hard at times but just be strong and if you are not feeling yourself just lay down for a bit it's works for me or I go for long walks 🤗🤗💚💛
Kelly, I have depression and anxiety and many people I see regularly never understand that I could as I have a bubbly personality too. But when I cannot cope I just hide away until the bad days go away. Thank you for telling us about it because so much I feel like someone understands me. Keep going we have to stick together. Your doing an awesome job.
What you said about depression and anxiety could have been me saying it. It doesn't change the way you feel, but knowing you aren't alone, somehow helps a little. Thanks for being brave enough to share. You made a difference with someone today :)
Love love your hair!! 💕 I totally understand what you were saying about feeling down. We all go through that and if you never have then it’s harder to understand. Especially if the person is normally in a happy mood most of the time. We are all human and have tender feelings sometimes. You rock girl. Keep it up 😊
Kelly, your hair is beautiful.I really like it. I understand the depression, anxiety you were talking about. I have it myself. It's always nice to talk about it because it helps those who don't understand what we go through day after day. You are a beautiful person inside and out Kelly that's why your loved so much. Take care and God bless.
Kelly I am 67 years old and I have been watching u since Christmas 1999. I became so excited about what u do sell some and you mission saving stuff from the landfills that can be donated. I get so happy I want to do it to but I am not able to go by myself. One day maybe! Keep your chin up kid keep talking thru when u feel bad it is always better out then staying in so remember when you feel that way let it out!
I love your new hair color it makes your eyes stand out.the kid outfits is so cute and so useful.me and girls don’t have a lot outfits at all to we’re .today I took old sweater and cut up into two 🧣 scarfs and made snow flowers on for girls Christmas.sorry your felling down but I care for you.🎅🏼🎄🤗🤗🤗😘
Love your new hair color. your so sweet and genuine, I always look forward In watching your videos 🤗 I also understand about depression your not Alone thank you for sharing sometimes talking to strangers help ❤️
When people share their struggles with anxiety it helps makes the world feel smaller and everyone less alone. We love you, Kelly!!
you are so right!!!
I sat here trying to find the right words to say to Kelly, and this comment nails it on the head perfectly, so thank you for that. Yes, we do love you, Kelly!!
@@jesusdisciple4216 :: Hugs to you, Victoria!
@@Kittiesrkool :: So nice to meet new friends! Hope you're having a wonderful holiday season! Thanks for the nice words!
Thank you for sharing how you feel! I struggle with anxiety and depression a lot of the time too. I was in a fatal car accident a couple months ago. I've been bed ridden & just recently discovered your videos. I was in an abusive relationship for a couple of years. I was driving my new car & my boyfriend (who was under the influence) jerked the wheel, and said "Die, Bitch" I tried to turn the wheel back, but we hit a huge tree head on. He lost his life & I nearly lost mine too. I broke both my legs & ton of other injuries, to many to list. That was at the end of July. I'm learning how walk properly & I'm working on a bunch of other things in physical therapy. Fortunately I didn't get brain damage. I'm so lucky to be alive!!! I'm so happy I found your videos! Your personality & your generosity are SO inspiring to me!!!! You seem like real, genuine, down to earth person & people like that are few & far between. Thank you for help bringing me out my shell a bit. You help me, make me feel like maybe I could talk to others about domestic violence, both physical & mental, someday. Thank you and God bless you!
Please never apologize for speaking openly and truthfully to your followers, especially about your mental health! It shows how genuine of a person you are, and we as fans appreciate seeing that so much! Great video!
Dang girl how courageous of you for sharing. Honestly I love this saying "secrets keep you sick" when we shed light on somthing hurting us it lessens the load.
Love that! Yes they do!
Kelly, I'm adding a thumbs up to your subs who respond to your words about anxiety. I'm 59, and have struggled with this since my teens. We are all in this together, but we can often feel so isolated. Sharing and airing is healing for all of us.
It’s crazy that you talked about depression and anxiety. I love watching you because your smile makes me feel happier and you have positive vibes
"If there's anything that cheers me up, it's finding clothes in the dumpster *smiley face*." 🤣🥰 you're so cute. Great finds!👌🏽
We all have down days! You are doing an amazing job! Oxox❤😘
I like ur personality alwys smiling & maybe u dont get angry ur so cool, thats why i subscribe ur vlog....ur smile caught me & if only im there im also dive dumpster with u😊
All those little kids clothes you found were all so cute. I'm glad that you talked about your depression. It's great to get it out & not keep it all bottled up inside.
Caders 08 so true.
Amen.
Caders 08 depression is a thing that needs to be brought to the forefront. Not many people know how to explain it and it is missed in many cases! Keep going girl!
You are keeping things out of the landfill. I take linens to animal shelters, clothes to Goodwill. Make art out of papers, cardboard, ribbon and old books. Also I take plants people throw out. Keep up the good work.
Tina
I didn’t expect this video to be so relatable. I usually just enjoy watching you discover dumpster gems, but I really related to your anxiety/depression. Thanks for talking about it, it makes me feel less alone 💕
You're not alone, Kristin Thomas. Just like any other illness, lotsa peeps have this disease n need to support each other just like breast cancer victims.
You’re doing something that others would like to do and don’t have the b....s to do!
Be proud of yourself. X
Depression and anxiety sucks big time. Thank you for talking about it.
I suffer also. Sucks so bad.
Good on ya. I totally get you.
Love your hair BTW
I Love how you expressed yourself to us and showed your vulnerable side. Then was blessed with such an amazing find. God Bless you. Keep your head up. By the way your hair is beautiful!
Also, thank you for being so open and honest about you're struggle with anxiety and depression! It's so important to talk about, because it helps others realize that they are not alone.
Agreed, I suffer from PTSD myself n anixety plus depression. Most just are embarrassed to talk about it. But she talks about it which is huge for so many people
Dumpster Diving is my therapy.
@@addicted367 I've only dumpster dove in my apartment complex but it's kind of relaxing I have to get past worrying what others are thinking about me.
@@addicted367 Thats awesome. It's important to find the things that help you out.
Me too. I started watching diving videos because they made me happy seeing the divers happy. At this point, I'll take anything.
I study abroad for 3 months and had TERRIBLE emotional issues with my long distance relationship and I fell into a lonely depressed state and watched your videos to keep my mind from wandering when I was alone. Always keep smiling , we love you and pilgrim :) thanks for sharing, we’re all in this together
My 4 year old and I watch your videos together. She's started asking why certain things are thrown away and, while watching you dive, she says, "I can't believe people threw that away!"
I relate so much to the depressed/anxious headspace. It's like a mental fog that makes it difficult to even think at all, much less think on your feet. Thank you for persevering.
I love that you save items from the landfill! I create art out of 100% recycled items, things I have found. It makes me feel better knowing I am helping our earth.
Talking about the darkness of depression and anxiety brings it to the light. Sharing your experience brings more light.. things tend to look better in the light. Thanks for sharing; you're speaking for a lot of us - 😊🌞☀️
brenda gans amen
I love your hair❤There are so many of us that do suffer from depression and anxiety...just know you are not alone...love you girl❤❤❤❤
This video really made me feel something. I’ve been feeling similar but when going to work, I work in customer service and have constant anxiety about dealing with any confrontations. I do my best to push through and nobody at work knows that I struggle and would say I’m super bubbly too but in all honesty I struggle
Briony Kate I am in the same situation hon!
You're a survivor, Briony Kate - remember that. You're SO strong. Be patient with yourself n give yourself lotsa hugs
thank you so much for sharing how you are feeling with us . i know i do the same as you and walk around with my happy mask on so that nobody actually knows how im really feeling.....im so happy that you consider us all family and feel safe enough with us to share this side of you. we love you and we love the relationship with your other half your such a sweet funny couple so suited for each other.....we love what you do saving so so much stuff from landfill and im not sure about anyone else but im from the UK and we dont see much dumpster diving happening so its so facinating to see what your going to find next. I know its hard some days but keep smiling and remember we love you xx
Your hair really does look fantastic!
I also suffer from depression and major anxiety so I know exactly how you feel and what you're saying. It is absolutely draining.....The worst thing you can do though is to stay at home locked inside. I spent years not getting out of bed, for the most part. That just made it 1,000 times worse! So I'm glad you are still getting out and doing what you love. It's important!
Hang in there. 👍
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Thanks for sharing Gigi, I understand more about my depression and anxiety because people like you share your own experiences. Real depression, not just having a bad day. The way Kelly described her issues made me cry, but I was glad she was able to share those feelings and recognized it for what it is.
Gigi that's great advice so true thanks for sharing ♥️🥰
Wow I feel like that could have been me talking. Thanks for sharing. In fact it's the middle of the day and I'm in bed now. I've been on a crazy amount of various medications for years . Pretty much tolerant to them all. May I ask please if any particular med helped for you? Or was it forcing yourself out? Please let me know, thanks regards Alex
my daughter hasn't left the house in 2 years and she is only 22
Watching from Denton !! Depression is a tough one bc it wears many faces but not many voices ! So thanks for sharing.
Hi Neighbor I am in Colleyville, Texas.
Britta Cuthbertson sooo true
Thanks for opening up about your depression. I have anxiety myself. I love how you keep us involved and your videos always make me feel like I'm hanging out with a friend.
I'm impressed with your kindness. You are often donating to the food pantry and now to help the firefighters and animal rescue in Australia. That is awesome.
Hi Kelly, I heard you say you have depression: I have had depression on and off since 1991 thanks to my first husband blaming me for everything and emotionally abusing me. I know exactly what you're talking about, and don't worry, you are not alone. There are lots of us around and there are support groups all over the internet if you choose to join one. I love your videos and I always look forward to the new ones. they help me to feel more positive about my day!
I have recently become more open about my depression and anxiety, so I’m glad you shared your story as well. Other people that have this in common with us need to know they are never alone with the struggles and feelings they are having.
Thank you, Hollyd551, for sharing. We need to "fight the stigma". Hoping you feel well and strong now... :-)
@@lilyd1010 That's why I'm open about it. Tryin' to do my part to fight the stigma.
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Yes, thank you. I tell people too that I have depression, anxiety and PTSD after years of shame and embarrassment.
@@dawnlovejoy8917 I was told I can't have PTSD because "I've never been to war."
By a psychiatrist.
Yeah.
I don't think they know much more than we do about mental health.
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Yeah there's some biased psychologists and psychiatrists out there. I've got PTSD from childhood trauma. Anyone can develop it you don't have to be a veteran.
Thanks for sharing with us something so personal ,
But keep the faith.
I’m from Malta 🇲🇹 Europe and here we have a saying which goes like this ( don’t know if you have the same in the USA)
God never closes a door without opening another one ! Keep strong 😊
Oh you are beautiful. I suffer from severe depression and anxiety. I had a suicide attempt almost a year ago now and I understand this conversation you had with us. I don't know what to say bc I'm going through the same thing. But remember it's just a feeling...I'll go away. I love you and I don't even know you. Feel sad! You're human. You have emotions!!
Glad you are still with us.
Keep fighting. God is love and the light. Blessings.
Sending love Casey ♡ I'm glad you are still here .
Suzanne Bryson omgosh, THANK YOU!!!!!!
MegaDirtyberty thank yoooou!!
I love watching your channel. We are like family...so many people live with depression and anxiety. I hope you can continue to speak freely and lean on us when needed. Love the hair too! 💕
Unjust things have always affected me and there is so much of it, most people ignore acts of cruelty and wrong doings. I have put myself in trouble at times because I have tried to change bad to good.
The saying ““The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing.”- Edmund Burke.
So you keep going and be the change, God bless you.
I am more depressed now than I've ever been in my life. I've gained 50lbs in about a year. I appreciate you speaking about your depression because you aren't the only one struggling. Love you tons and your videos ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I'm the same right now. I've gained weight, I'm struggling with changes at work. Some of my younger coworkers have turned into a clique of 16 year old mean girls. I'm over 55 and don't have time for all that. It just adds up and makes every day hard to take.
I tried alcohol to feel better and it took a devastating toll. Now I have been sober for a long time. I'm grateful for that.
I am the same right now! I don't know how to make it better. Stay strong and know you are not alone!!
You're not alone. Everyone please remember that. Also the holidays are a time when people tend to get a little more depressed. It will get better. God won't give you more than you can handle.
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You are so inspiring to me Kelly. You have the sweetest heart and spirit! I now want to go out and make a difference in my own community. My husband and I just went behind Aldi’s tonight and I spotted their dumpster was just heaped to the top! I spotted bags of oranges in their clear plastic bags and wanted to stop and check it out. My hubby refused and made me feel really bad about wanting to rescue food out of the dumpster. I might go in and talk to the manager and see if I can schedule a pickup day for things they are about to throw out, I’d like to bring it to a food bank. Anyway, I too struggle with depression. All the best to you sweet young lady!
You are so adorable and thank you for sharing your depression and anxiety with us. You are really helping our landfill and you recycle the clothing you are the greatest
No need to apologize-you needed to talk and that is why we are here. I struggle with depression and anxiety, and when you’re having a low day-don’t be hard on yourself. It happens and you just need to be kind to yourself and remember that it will pass. OMG!! You found all those clothes!! You are smiling!! You are explaining why you dive and I am loving everything you are saying!! I feel the same way!! One person can make a difference, but if we could get others it could really make an impact! I want you to know that I think you are such a special person. Thinking the way you do, caring about the earth and about how people will be helped with the food you find and the clothes. I am old enough that I could be your mom, and going out to dumpsters to retrieve things like you are doing is a very selfless act. You are giving of your time driving, digging and what you need to do at home with some of the items.
You are amazing and I am so happy you found all those clothes right after you were talking to us and it made you feel better. I am so sorry that I have forgotten your name, but I am here if you need to talk.
Love your go to attitude. Even though you go though a depressive period, you continue to go on. That is a good way to deal with the depression you are experiencing. God bless.
One more thing I want to say…THANK YOU KELLY FOR CARING AND FOR NOT GIVING UP ON ALL OF THE LAZY PEOPLE WHO JUST PLAIN DON’T GIVE A TOADS TUSH ABOUT OTHER LESS FORTUNATE PEOPLE THAT YOUR MISSION HELPS OR CARE ABOUT THE LANDFILL. You’re a great person Kelly. In fact most people can’t come up to your shoe tops as far as being a woman of quality, integrity, honesty, generosity and an all around genuine person deserving the respect of all. So hold your head up high sweet girl. You’re the best. God bless you and yours.✝️🦮♥️
I hear you on the depression and I am right there with you. Good days are really good, but the bad can really be a struggle. Hang in there. Find a way to laugh, and feel better. Its always easier said than done, but you got this!
Just Between Friends is a mommy swap meet they have events locally that they organize online and they sell Consignment clothing and toys and baby gear. Looks like maybe one of the event centers just had leftover stuff and tossed it instead of donating it which is what they should have done or maybe it was one of the organizers
Though depression and the anxiety that comes with may ne tough, you my friend, are very much a forward thinker. Do not hide you feelings because people, like me, get you and need another to connect to on a personal level. Dumpsters Diving is so much more than "reusing" products.. it gives you hope
Most people that are depressed seem to be very happy on the outside and strive to make others happy! Never feel alone!!!!! We all love you and are here for you even if all you want to do is talk to us we will still watch!😀
Been dealing with depression most of my life too. Getting out in sun shine helps. Keep up what you are doing. Those clothes are very cute!
As a fellow sufferer I hear you loud and clear! I just LOVE your hair! You are so beautiful! Good score! TFS Big Hugs!
It's okay to let things out. Times like this has helped others. Trust me I know the feeling. I love how you are always helping others. Please keep your head up and that very warm smile.
I am flabbergasted every time you find an amount of clothes like that. Why would folks not donate that stuff?! Blows my mind.
I also really appreciated you opening up about your depression and anxiety. I was diagnosed with both of those 7 years ago. It’s really tough to live with those things constantly but I’m so glad you recognize your uncomfortable moments and bad days. That is all part of the process of managing your intense feelings. I’m so glad your day got better and I loved that you shared that with all of us. 💕
XOXO
I too have issues with depression. I have therapy and meds that help me a lot. One thing I sometimes do is to isolate myself. That's where you come in, I watch you and your adventures but mostly love it when you have a big smile. Your whole face lights up and it makes me smile. We are here for you, we do develop a friendship and care about your well-being. Hang in there 😃
Thank you for being brave enough to share about depression and anxiety and how it effects you. I also suffer from depression and anxiety there are days I can't make myself get out of bed. So incredibly proud of you and your mission in life. You are an amazing woman and I love the new hair. Keep doing you!
i isolate myself as well
@@jesusdisciple4216 its good to talk.
It makes me sad to just how many people are stating they have depression and anxiety but it just goes to show that none of us are suffering alone yet people still are afraid to share that with people face to face. Thank you Kelly for opening up this conversation. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. We are all cheering for you. Thank you for saving all the useful items and for saving them from going to the landfill.
💓 your hair. I’m proud of you for being able to go outside .when you feel depressed it’s hard to feel positive so you carry on sweetie. You’re awsome♥️
Kelly, I’m not even a fan of dumpster diving and I don’t care to watch any other dumpster diving channels besides yours. The reason I watch every single video you upload is YOU. I enjoy “being around” you, so to speak. You brighten up my day! You’re perfectly entitled to have your down days. That just makes you more genuine. You don’t try to put up some sort of facade - you are who you are and you’re not afraid to show us who you are! If that made any sense lol. So many of us can identify with what you were saying here. You feel like a friend.
Thank you for being open about your anxiety and depression. It feels amazing to know that I'm not alone!
i'm so glad that you feel like you can open you and tell us about how you are feeling! I also struggle with depression so i understand how you feel. i wish i lived close to you so i could go with you on these days and try to help you fell more comfortable diving. i love your videos! also what you are doing is such and amazing! You not only save so much stuff from the landfills, you are helping so many people! and i love seeing the joy you get when you find things!
Jennifer 😃👍
I understand perfectly about depression...I deal with it too..you have to do exactly what your doing..get outside and DUMPSTER DIVE!! You go girl!!
I love going “diving” with you. You’re fun and l enjoy your attitude. I’m old now and can’t get out but watching you makes me happy and it’s sure easier on my joints 🥰
you are such a sweet lady and I know how you feel...I am a quiet person and I know I wouldn't be able to do what you do. I don't talk to a lot of people cause I am always afraid of saying the wrong thing. you bring sunshine to my day every time I watch your videos. watching you makes me smile and when you smile it makes they day a lot brighter.
Lisa Stanley Kelly is a ray of sunshine.
You was not rambling, you was just being yourself. We all need some 1 to talk to at times, your a lovely young lady who is doibg her bit for the world we all live in. Glad you found all those clothes, there is always a silver lining around the corner. Keep up the good work & keep digging to make a difference. We love you loads xx.
I'm listening to you talk and then I'm like hold up somethings different lol. Looking great girl. ☺
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You never have to apologize for sharing to ppl how you are feeling inside. You have many active subscribers for a reason, and being true to who you are is the reason why we watch and lend support. I too suffer greatly from depression and anxiety, and know EXACTLY where you are coming from. It can extremely hard to move forward and keep going when the tug inside you is at its highest. But never feel bad to reach out, for you have plenty of new subscribers that will keep you going, smiling, and wishing you well in spirit :)
Totally get what you are saying, happens to me too, the ironic part is you did great at explaining even though inside you might have felt otherwise. Great part is tomorrow is a new day!💝
I completely understand your struggle with depression and and anxiety. I also have a bubbly personality and people find it hard to believe how real the struggle can be. As you age it gets easier for sure! So happy you had a great find but it's also frustrating what people will throw away.
Omg i love your hair!!!!!! Sorry your feeling depressed, take time for yourself and always always talk to someone holding it in is never a good thing. Love your videos and stay strong chica 💪💙
I suffer from anxiety and depression too. But I watch videos like this, seeing you “rescue” all this stuff that people just throw away, and it just makes me feel better!
Hey!! Love your channel **might have been binge watching these last few days** The kid clothes are clothes that did not sell at a Just Between Friends Sale. It is basically a weekend sale where tons of people bring their kid/baby clothes and related items. The people who bring the items and set their own prices; and have to take back what does not sell. Keep on creating content!!
I love your hair!!! I’m so glad you found all those clothes!! They cheered you up! I struggle with seasonal depression so I totally understand what you’re going through. Fall and winter tend to be a struggle for me.
As someone who suffers from severe mental illness, I completely understand what you mean. Most of the time I hide in my house where it's "safe". I don't want to interact with others. I have no friends other than my husband and kids. I love to thrift and DD, but often I can't even bring myself to do those things that I love. I try to take things one day at a time, and that does seem to help. I wish you only the best.
Sending you hugs! You are such a caring, thoughtful young woman. Every time someone talks about their anxiety or depression it helps to remove the stigma attached to it. Thank you for trusting us!
I enjoy your videos so much. I also have depression. I just lost my job a few weeks ago and have been doing some dumpster diving while searching for a new one. Some days are better than others but I love the hunt! The universe always seems to provide, doesn't it?
I didn’t know you have depression. It really puts into perspective for me that what I see on the surface isn’t everything. Thanks for putting a smile on all our faces. I hope you start to feel better 💕
I know this video is old but I'm just listening/watching during work. I just started watching your videos about a month ago. I love your personality...whether you're having an 'off-day' or a 'good-day'. You are sharing the important parts of you...the caring and sharing side! I know how frustrating it is to know people are just throwing out items others can use...but the silver lining is YOU are finding it and doing something important with it!! When one door closes another opens...you are fortunate to find the waste and do good for your community and others. Keep passing on the positive message and vibes!! You are an inspiration to so many and you make a lot of peoples day with your attitude and sharing your baby Pilgrim with us!!
I’m glad you can still find the motivation to leave the house even when you’re depressed. But then again, diving is your job as well, so it’s like missing work. But good for you! Your hair is so cute!
I suffer from anxiety and bipolar depression, so I totally get what you’re saying. Good for you getting out there and trying to push through! I’m disabled, so I live vicariously through you and a couple other dumpster divers on TH-cam. You are the only one I watch who goes through non-commercial dumpsters, which is really cool. Keep up the good work! 👍😁
I suffer from depression and mental illness and I know how you feel I also love to dumpster dive but I think it's illegal in my city so I don't do it as often as I want..keep up the good work and you can always vent to your youtube family we are always here for you
I hope you can still see this on this old video. I have dealt with and suffered from anxiety and depression most of my 67 years. I'm grateful that there is so much more openness today where honesty is much easier, but what you said still took a lot of courage. From the comments, I hope you know how safe you are with the people that follow you. Keep your chin up sweetie!! Sounds like you deal with this exactly as you need to. God bless you and keep on diving!!
The baby clothes with tags, I'm wondering if the parson lost the baby and throw them away as it was to painful? Or is this an shops bin?
I hope not. Maybe they were expecting a girl but got a boy instead? Or they were too small? Or just were put way and forgotten till they didn't fit? We wlil never know.
Looks like a consignment shop?
The clothes might have been tossed by a snotty mother who got the consignment store clothes as a gift from someone (like her mother-in-law) and didn't want used clothes. I know people like that.
Actually I was thinking maybe it was stuff that didnt sell that the store gave back and instead of bothering to donate they just tossed them
@@barb-jm7990 i wouldn't mix with shallow people like that.
You are beyond brave to share your struggles with depression and anxiety! I'm 64 and have had severe depression and ocd since puberty, SO, I can REALLY relate to how sadness consumes you....Thank you for your FUN videos and know that I understand every description you had for your sadness
I understand about depression I have had it for years meds helped me a lot so just hang in there you are loved!
Im sorry that you are going through depression and anxiety but im really thankful that you opened up to us. For many years i would deny it and i finally came to conclusion that yes I do have it and its okay i just have to work a little harder with myself! Honestly you’re videos make me feel amazing and so at ease. I loved that you went on vacation and im so happy to have you back to diving! If you EVER need a friend to talk to, im here! 🙋🏻♀️
I also suffer from depression and anxiety and i know exactly how you’re feeling ! I hope you can feel better soon xxx shopping at second hand shops cheers me up xxx
So glad you are brave to talk about depression. Many people out here feel just like you. It can be weird to have these feelings that don't feel like yourself and it really feels like your a different person. We love your videos, we love your rambling, keep it up and I hope you get to feeling better!
It was so wonderful to see your outlook turned around. I was watching and wanting to give you a hug. Depression is such an awful thing it can so quickly become all encompassing, I am just so happy you were able to make a quick turnaround. What a jackpot you made today on clothing. I a so happy you were able to save it from the landfill. Someone will certainly be able to use it. I finally want to say I am glad you like your hair. You are such a beautiful girl, I liked your natural look but, I am very happy you have something you are happier with. (I am a 60+ woman so the natural look is more in my wheel house) I will be looking forward to your next video until then please take care and God bless!
its good to talk about your depression, i have PTSD and have a hard to wanting to go places, allot of times i have to Force myself, i mean Force, getting out helps get your mind off the thing that are bothering you, so your not alone
Your hair looks great. I can relate to the depression/anxiety thing, good for you for getting out there and staying busy. I'm putting positive energy out there for you.
Its fun to dye your hair . I got use to the other color .🤓😍 your a sweet person ,so your still the same person ,light or dark hair . Take care , folks watch your videos because of your lovely attitude .♥️
No shame in your game. I love the fact that you give back to the needed. That’s why you stay bless 🌞 the hair color matches you😎
I am so glad that you show everyone that you are making a living from our trash! I would do it if I lived in the city, you go girl!!
Thank you for sharing another part of yourself with all of us. It’s so common for so many of us to suffer with depression in silence. When we witness amazing people, like you, being so open, it can make things a little less scary in the world.
Your videos help me with my depression. I love your kind heart and your beautiful smile.
Sending you hugs and love! ♥️
The more I learn about you, the more I love! You have an old soul, and a kind heart.
We take all our shoes and clothes to a homeless shelter. And they are so appreciative ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for speaking candidly about your struggle with depression and anxiety. I too struggle, and it’s often hard to talk about, but it helps to de-stigmatize things when we talk about it openly (when we feel safe and able to do so, of course). You are very self-aware about your thoughts and feelings so that’s a huge positive for you. Sending you massive hugs and so much loving support my friend! Keep up the wonderful work, I love your passion for what you do and why you do it
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You explained that feeling so well. I've had a hard time expressing that feeling. Thank you.💛
Oh my never thought you would have depression you are such a lovely person .I love watching all the good things you do .Some people are so stupid throwing good clothes away they must have no sense at all.
I know how you feel i am struggling with anxiety and depression as well it can be very hard at times but just be strong and if you are not feeling yourself just lay down for a bit it's works for me or I go for long walks 🤗🤗💚💛
Kelly, I have depression and anxiety and many people I see regularly never understand that I could as I have a bubbly personality too. But when I cannot cope I just hide away until the bad days go away. Thank you for telling us about it because so much I feel like someone understands me. Keep going we have to stick together. Your doing an awesome job.
PS - you were discouraged and that never feels good. Then you had a win, and your endorphins started flowing! You’re awesome.
What you said about depression and anxiety could have been me saying it. It doesn't change the way you feel, but knowing you aren't alone, somehow helps a little. Thanks for being brave enough to share. You made a difference with someone today :)
Love love your hair!! 💕 I totally understand what you were saying about feeling down. We all go through that and if you never have then it’s harder to understand. Especially if the person is normally in a happy mood most of the time. We are all human and have tender feelings sometimes. You rock girl. Keep it up 😊
Kelly, your hair is beautiful.I really like it. I understand the depression, anxiety you were talking about. I have it myself. It's always nice to talk about it because it helps those who don't understand what we go through day after day. You are a beautiful person inside and out Kelly that's why your loved so much. Take care and God bless.
The universe is kind to people like you. Sending positive vibes to you. U rock!
Know exactly how you feel I suffer from depression, it’s hard to act “normal” when you feel horrible. Hang in there!!
Kelly I am 67 years old and I have been watching u since Christmas 1999. I became so excited about what u do sell some and you mission saving stuff from the landfills that can be donated. I get so happy I want to do it to but I am not able to go by myself. One day maybe! Keep your chin up kid keep talking thru when u feel bad it is always better out then staying in so remember when you feel that way let it out!
I love your new hair color it makes your eyes stand out.the kid outfits is so cute and so useful.me and girls don’t have a lot outfits at all to we’re .today I took old sweater and cut up into two 🧣 scarfs and made snow flowers on for girls Christmas.sorry your felling down but I care for you.🎅🏼🎄🤗🤗🤗😘
Love your new hair color. your so sweet and genuine, I always look forward In watching your videos 🤗 I also understand about depression your not Alone thank you for sharing sometimes talking to strangers help ❤️
Been there. Felt like that. Get some sunshine, laugh, and get some healthy food.