Kicked My Fiancé's Crazy Ex-Wife Out of Our Wedding After She Barged In and...
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- Kicked My Fiancé's Crazy Ex-Wife Out of Our Wedding After She Barged In and Tried to Stop It By Telling Everyone About My Past.
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Cheaters are paranoid. Didn't get into it, just suspect she got pregnant by some rando and baby trapped the guy, then turned her marriage into hell
Well, you got the “turned her marriage into hell” part right.
Honestly, this sounds more like a psychosis than a guilt... which makes me fear for Thomas.
Even if she didn't cheat, shes just evil
@@f687sNFM agree. She's a gross human
@@Maninawig Postpartum Psychosis is a real thing, so maybe. Though I'm 100% in the camp 'she cheated on him' because of her other behaviors.
They need to get Thomas away from Jesse. She’ll escalate if OP and her husband have a child of their own.
Oh yeah. Just her actions towards OP is enough proof that I’d question if she’s fit to be a parent. Someone needs to call cps anonoumisly to investigate her when she has Thomas.
Op is too weak to do so
@@f687sNFM i don´t think even after all that a court would do that
@@rhaeasoul8531If they call CPS, OP and Brad will need to be prepared for Thomas to go to foster care, when psychotic mother is committed to a mental hospital.⚠️
If Jessie escalates, she'll be in a padded cell, getting ice baths, and numerous rounds of ECTs (electroconvulsive treatments), plus, when social services gets Thomas away from her, they'll have to declare him a ward of the state.
For those shocked at the "miscarriage = m--der" argument, yes, there are crazy people out there who believe that the miscarriage is somehow the woman's fault and blame her for it, weaponizing those poor women's traumas against them. It's sickening.
Yeah, it a dumb@$$ argument with no source just from the Doctors/Scientists/ Genius from Twitter or Reddit spreading their "Knowledge" that got off a fake website.
Some people are the special kind of stupid.
And those people can be tossed into the category of easily ignored.
bro what? how does that even make sense?
We've already seen 2 women arrested after a miscarriage.
Also how can they say that misscarrying is killing a child?? Unless they intentionally did things to cause the miscarriage, which I doubt OP did as they claim they didnt even know.
Even abortion isn't killing a child. Jesse is sick tbh-
Jesse wants to pain OP in a bad light. IF this is all she could get then OP is a saint
A lot of psychos in the forced birth camp think any miscarriage is immediately suspect because they're lunatics paranoid about someone pulling a fast one by inducing a miscarriage or just calling an abortion a miscarriage.
I feel like this story was translated from a different language. My only reason for thinking that is I think they are mixing up the words 'Miscarriage' and 'Abortion'. That is literally the only way I can think to make this story make sense. Though with that theory the part of the story near the end makes no sense so I am not sure.
@@iamjustagirlintheworlddAbortion IS killing a child, douchebag! They are alive from the moment of conception, and killing an unborn baby is just as bad as killing a child of any age, especially when it's intentional.
This is a situation where the father needs to fight for full custody of the kid. That narcissist of a mother is already psychologically abusing him for putting him through this -don't doubt she would get physical too. They've got evidence to proof her mental instability and willingness to put the kid in harm's way or use him against the dad. It'll only get worse from here.
You think he’d get that? Most people don’t really care about men, and if they do women still get the default bias.
@@DancingAngelzIf they get an attorney and document her insanity. Things like throwing away gifts, demanding and sending prepackaged foods and demanding he only eat them, crazy behavior around the child and actively using the child as a weapon will be looked heavily down upon.
Obviously, location and individual judges play a role, but a lot of states have gone to more equitable standards. It's not great, but slowly getting better.
If Jessie does physically abuse Thomas, and someone gets wind of that, they'll contact social services to remove him from her, and instead of placing Thomas with Brad and OP, they'll have to place him in the foster care system, until they find another family to adopt him; a family who are good people. Plus, they'll have to strip Jessie of her parental rights, so that she'll never get him back.
Since when is a misscariage being the same as murder?
Depends on the crazy person that makes that assumption
Lot of whackjobs out there with no concept of nuance and a desire to control people, even in situations where that's just not possible. To them, a miscarriage that a mother has no real control over is exactly the same thing as her making the conscious decision to have a fetus aborted.
This is essentially just abusers trying to "justify" why their victims ""deserved to be punished"" or to be abused plainly put. The point is to shift blame onto a victim to lash out at, rather than to accept the fact that life just throws some really sucky curveballs at people and learning how to deal with them like most adults. Logic is not going stop them unfortunately.
The worst part is that you have politicians who genuinely think like this and are trying to push for laws that punish women for having miscarriages, regardless whether or not if she fully intend on becoming a mother and had zero interest in abortion.
Jesse wanted ammunition against OP and this is the best she got.
There is some actual stigma around miscarriages because they *_can_* be the result of irresponsible behaviour from the mother. Basically some people will assume you did something to lose the child, just like when you bring your wife to the hospital with a blunt force injury from some accident they will think you beat her (yes this happens).
Jesse jumped to this conclusion because she's a psycho. Actually arguing the point is useless. She'll stop trying to use the miscarriage as a shaming tool soon as she learns that nobody else actually blames OP and it's backfiring on her.
Only a physically challenged person would say that. Actually no, maybe even a crazy person would say that person is insane for thinking that🤦♀️
Brad needs to sue Jesse for full custody of Thomas, on the grounds of child ab*se and parental alienation.
Also, considering Jesse's paranoia about Brad cheating on her, he should get a paternity test for Thomas. I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest if Jesse cheated on him and had him raise another man's child.
Cheaters always accuse their partner of cheating just so they don’t feel as guilty when they do it
@@zayanmehdi1747 if I was Brad I'd do a paternity test on Thomas. as you said, cheaters always accuse their partners of something they are guilty of, and she protested a bit too loudly and too often
@@Jerseybytes2 for real
That is the really sad truth right there. I'll bet she baby trapped Brad when she found out she was pregnant. She probably figured Brad's family wouldn't let him not take responsibility and unfortunately, she was right. As soon as her toxic behavior became apparent, I'd have wanted to be sure. Granted he can still be a dad to the boy if he wanted but his (ex)wife if sus as hell
@@Jerseybytes2 No, 100% not. I think the best option is get custody, refuse to do a DNA test if you can, and use the fact that Martin's name is on the birth certificate, a legally binding document.
If they want certainty, they can later do a test with Thomas. But at this point if I was Martin, I'd worry that not being the bio dad could make custody more conplicated. Yes, he's legally the father, but just because Thomas' genes aren't rekevant to the case and it'd be cryel and inhumane to use it against him in court doesn't mean Jesse's unhinged self or her lawyers wouldn't try it or that the fucked uo family court system won't somehow get hung up on it and use it to favour the woman.
I'd want to know if Thomas is mine or not, in fact even if you don't want to know, still find out for medical reasons.
But first, get custody. His mother is abusive and needs to lose her power over him. Visitation at most, if she can calm tf down.
I think this couple need to be prepared when they add on to their family. To the point of police involvement and quite possibly full custody of the oldest child !
Same here, but they also be prepared for social services to say, "OP, WE REMOVED THOMAS FROM HIS MOTHER, BUT WE WILL NOT PLACE HIM WITH YOU; WE'RE PLACING HIM IN FOSTER CARE, UNTIL WE FIND A GOOD FAMILY TO ADOPT HIM."
The beginning told me all I needed to know about Jesse before even reaching the part about her jealousy 🤨 and what 'friend' tells others, much less a jealous ex, about private and sensitive information like that totally unrelated from the situation to even attempt to use against them??
Yea, doesn’t matter whether the friend was drunk or not. That friend should’ve learned their lesson way earlier in life.
Don’t drink. Don’t blabber. Especially don’t do both and to someone who could do harm with said information.
@TheGosgosh Exactly!! You know you have a weakness, and likely knew you have a limit, you shouldn't surpass, but do anyway, and now folks have suffered for it. Hell, I'm wondering if that 'friend' even liked OP cuz even if they blabbed, that's not something just Anyone would bring up casually when directedly asked, "So tell me about so-en-so past?" Even if drunk
An open question to people like Jessie: *_How do you live like that??_*
Seriously. Just constantly full of jealousy, spite and hate. How do you live like that!?
It sounds f-ing _exhausting._
It can be I used to be a hateful person because I had been mentally abused by my mom's ex I spent most of my days as a hateful spiteful person against him and most of my time was spent in my room because I was depressed and hated being around him. Now, I'm not as hateful, and my life has changed for the better.
Why would you invite your crazy ex wife to your wedding in the first place
It was probably more about allowing the grooms son to participate in his dad's wedding.
Pushovers Inc.
@@mish375so bring his kid and not the mother then.
@@stonalisa3729 Given how possesive the mother seems to be, I doubt she'd allow the son to go alone.
@@stonalisa3729did you not listen?? He tried!!!
Why would you not have a security detail at the wedding with this psycho running around?
I'm starting to pick up on this person's writing style. Pretty sure they write lots of stories like this for reddit. "Our days were filled with" is something that crops up in their writing a lot.
AI does this a lot I've picked up on multiple stories that have similar syntax lol
I can’t fathom how anyone can villainize/demonize a women for having a miscarriage….
What I learned is If your wife constantly accuses you of cheating, accuse them back because they definitely are cheating. Record the meltdown so people know who the insane one is
"Don't want to make his life difficult"
His mother is a complete trainwreck but that's somehow ok?
I hope this is rage bait, if not the ex wife is an actual psycho. I feel for that little kid.
I hope it is but let's face it there are some real batshit crazy bunny boiling people out there
Same. I don’t think I’ve ever wanted a story to be rage bait more than I do this one.
So, do I. If OP and Brad refuse to get full custody, when social services takes that poor kid away from his psychotic mother, and commits her to a mental hospital, they'll find a loving and kind adoptive family to place him with.
Why would Brad's Mom and Dad invite jessi to a dinner party with the new girlfriend? To watch the madness happen?
That’s actually something my own aunt would do. Some people just wanna watch the world burn. 🤷♀️
Im not gonna say op deserved this, but man being weak is not gonna help you stand up to evil, and only makes u enable it
I don't even think that kid is his, unless he looks a lot like his dad. Also, kudos to OP for keeping her head so to speak. If that were me, that ex would be nursing a broken nose and a few cracked ribs.
The ex needs intensive therapy.
Agreed. Jesse needs to be confined in a mental institution.
EX most likely cheated, and her guilt made her project it on him.
...what kind of moron thinks that kicking the groom's psychotic ex out after the wedding after she shows up in a white dress and tries to blackmail the bride is "going too far"...?
I'm glad that the in laws eventually grew a spine and stood up for Op but the fact that it went on THAT long is disgusting.
I wish her all the best
After listening so many cheating stories, i have started to notice a pattern of projection. Cheaters always accuse the other one from cheating
I think going for something as risky as surfing knowing the mother of that child is a fully entitled person is a bad idea. In case of any accident even a minor one, she can use it as a ground for child neglect case to go for full custody. So better safe then sorry
I would not have that much patience with her in the first passive-aggressive comment. i would have called her out and say something to make her mad
OP's husband should do a DNA check on Thomas.
It's typical for cheaters to be the ones acting this abusive and controlling, while accusing their partner of being the one who cheats. It wouldn't surprise me if Thomas wasn't his child, especially since it was mentioned how they'd always "been careful", which could mean they always used a condom. Maybe she slept with another guy without protection?
I think some men are afraid to know the truth. They love the child so much and grow so attached that they’re truly afraid of finding out the child isn’t their’s and what that could mean for their (the child’s and their own) lives and future going forward.
How’s McRonalds?
If I were the husband, I would be filing a restraining order and for full custody
Thomas wears protection has a child does anyone think these psych tried to baby trap him by punching holes
His parents are really friggin rude. After she acted that way at the dinner they should never invite that woman to the engagement party. It's as if they are play acting at being good caring people but they are really enjoying the drama and gossip.
His parents have created and enabled the woman's behavior but did absolutely nothing to get her out of the wedding.
These people are manipulating drama eaters.
15:18 why do you even invite your ex-wife to your wedding
Based on my opinion, either the husband was forced to invite her or she threatened not to let his son join the wedding unless she was invited
Ok…seriously? His parents REALLY thought it was a good idea to invite the ex AND op to Thanksgiving…knowing how batshit crazy the ex is?
Why didn't Brad take Jessie to court for a court ordered custody schedule so she stops using Thomas as a weapon against Brad ?
Well said. Brad and OP will end up realizing that they should've gotten full custody of Thomas, when they find out he has been taken away from Jessie by social services and adopted out to randos.
NTA. She's psychotic. Your husband needs to go for full custody.
Get a restraining order and file for emergency custody
That's not going to happen, because OP and Brad refuse to fight for that poor kid.
Brad has plenty of proof and reason to demand sole custody of his son, this woman is not only unfit but seriously mentally unstable. God only knows what she's doing to that poor boy at home!
Well said! That's more than enough to get social services involved!
Some people really can’t understand that you ruin your relationship with your insecurities. She was trying to manipulate him to keep him even though she already had him. No man wants a relationship that isn’t peaceful and there is a breaking point to constantly trying to reassure somebody.
Why would OP think they are the Ahole? How weak would you have to be to think you are in the wrong in this situation
3 Things they need to do: Sue for the child abuse Thomas is being subjected too, Sue for Parental Alienation that she's tried, and Sue for Harassment. Oh and they should publicly announce that Jesse had an affair but OP and husband didn't want to 'damage her reputation' but they aren't playing her game anymore. Because I fully believe she cheated.
I’m so mad at the friend who revealed that!! &I feel sorry for her son 😢
For everyone in the back. When you have children, clothe them, feed them, shelter them, hopefully love them. THEY. DON'T. OWE. YOU!!!
I'm going to believe that things stayed well since there isn't an update. I thrive off drama but do love a happy ending.
Ex is remedial...a miscarriage isn't a relationship breaker.... something is medically incorrect about that lady
Ngl I just had a panic attack because this all happenned with my mom and dad. Like the accusing and cheating part with Jesse and Brad was my parents. They’re still together tho… yippee…
Does the ex even know what a miscarriage is?? Like how are you mad at somebody that they lost their baby?
Having a miscarriage doesn't mean anything related to the person. There is a lot of different reasons why s person having a miscarriages.
Get CPS, Get a restricción order and get away from that crazy woman and move to honduras or something
If OP does contact CPS, she and Brad will need to be prepared for them to place Thomas in foster care.⚠️
As much as I don't want to be, I am so angry with this father. He seems like a wonderful man and a wonderful parent, but his ex is clearly absuing his child and using manipulation tactics with the child and he isn't doing anything about it. TAKE THAT WOMAN TO COURT AND PROTECT YOUR KID
why they ever thought inviting her in the first place is shocking
I'd suggest that OP start getting ready for Thomas to call her "Mom" since she sounds like, despite her intentions and his father's instructions, she's being a much better mother figure than his mother.
Brad needs to push for sole custody. There is something psychologically wrong with Jesse and I don’t think she can be trusted around Thomas.
Fake fake fake fake...and if this isnt fake, why invite your husband's crazy ex. Crazyy
I have a question why didn't op husband try to get full custody after all of this? The way the ex is it will affect him eventually.
Absolutely. Not only that, it'll also destroy his ability to love/trust others, plus cause his romantic relationships to end in breakups, and/or marriage to end in divorce ⚠️
I would call the police and save his child!
No, I think someone else will do BOTH, and instead of placing Thomas with Brad and OP, social services will find another family to adopt him; a family who are sane and good people.
Don't want to cause the kid problems like having a Mother that is going psycho like this isn't causing the kid problems
Anyone who thinks she did too much can help pay for the wedding she ruined
Where the fuck is child protective services????
No mention of actual abuse towards the child. I guess this is a form of emotional abuse and parental alienation. But cps is too busy with kids who are being physically and sexually abused
if i were the op, i wouldve just called the police. verbal abuse is enough to take her to court! 😊
It's pretty horrible this woman tried to do this to OP. That being said, saying that she had been "going through this alone" is just straight up untrue. Sounds like your fiance/husband had her back and comforted you always 100% of the time. 18:36
Needs a paternity test, she probably cheated on him and had someone else's baby
Honestly I’m a bit disappointed that they didn’t use the evidence of harassment and abuse from Jesse to take away Thomas from her. They just kept focusing on Brad and the Op, which is fine but it’s not right to take Thomas away from Jesse.
Please let this be rage bait
This woman is catching a glimpse of how insane and evil other women can be.
😢is OP this desperate. This relationship is not worth it
Why not go for full custody
Talking about a woman who is still bitter about a divorce she caused
HOW DARE YOU HAVE SOMETHING HAPPEN THAT ISNT IN YOUR CONTROL
Why would he even invite her to the wedding 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I hope Thomas is his son.
I am sorry but why would the parents allow there sons ex around him, like surely it’s not just me who finds that odd
This is the kind of erratic behavior that husbands used to institutionalize their wives for…
Story 1 is too fake / such ragebait 😭 but well-constructed / good storytelling lol!
why would you even invite your ex wife to ya wedding in the first place.... also need to paternity test that kid
its pretty stupid that op even considered herself the ahole
Too harsh towards the person who actively tried to ruin their wedding?
Why in the actual Fk is there so much communication between the ex and everyone if she's been like this, like how do the in-laws stay neutral when he specically said how bad of a person she was like why wasnt she blocked sooner
First! Have been binge watching!
The peace will last until you get pregnant. Then buckle up.
Obviously, this woman has mental health issues. The dad needs to figure out a way to bring her back to family court for her parental alienation, and she seems dangerous, too. They should use an app for child exchange, and Jesse should never come anywhere near their home.
Did this even happen 😭
Jesse is coocoo crazy 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Someone call captain falcon on Jessie please
That's right, and find a new mom and dad for Thomas.
Where are they from?? I’ve never heard anyone refer to a miscarriage as their “past”. I thought she was talking about her cheating or committing a crime.
I wouldn’t be surprised if Thomas wasn’t his biological child
Nah this story is fake asf. No real person would think that having a miscarriage would result in people judging her for it
Considering the amount of idiots on TikTok-
I’d say real people can be this stupid
Conservative politicians would tell you otherwise, unfortunately.
@@PeriwinklePigGod you guys are insufferable. You’ve seriously just got a hate boner for anyone in a higher class than you
@Thepogpoggersguyhmmmverypogger ...What?
@@PeriwinklePig
You are lying, no. Conservative is out here saying if u had a miscarriage your evil. u must be thinking about abortion
It sounds like Jesse was cheating and projecting onto Thomas.
I'm confused as to why OP married Brad. He seems like an awful partner. Yeah he may be loving, but he lets Jesse walk all over OP and himself. He also allows his parents to take care of any situation regarding Jesse. He's a pushover. OP's marriage is going to be exhausting and draining because Jesse isn't going anywhere. People need to have higher standards for themselves instead of putting up with situations like these...
Didn't read the whole thing, but 10 bucks says that Jesse is cheating with him and he needs to do a paternity test.
Why even bother to ask AITAH in situations like this? Oh, i guess you gotta maintain the illusion that some of these are real.
That woman is deranged to say the least
Sounds like Jessie was projecting
OP goes through all that explanation of Brad's relationship, but the word "abusive" only falls when Jesse sends her mean texts.
Women, man. This is sad.
? She called her abusive multiple times in context of Brad or are you intentionally ignoring that to push your own agenda?
Why does Brad's parents include that psycho everywhere??? What are they thinking!?
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Jesse is sic in the head
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I think Brad cheated on Jessie...
bet she was cheating on him
Why wasn't thomas bought to Op and Brad wedding in the first place ?