How ARTISTS deal with FAILURE - “the hanged one” lesson - how to change perspective

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  • @veromolpa
    @veromolpa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Playing dark souls and bloodborne really taught me how to deal with failure and develop the will of pushing forward despite my mistakes. It helped me in life and helps me in my art studies too. By the way, I think Vespertiliu would like Bloodborne.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I watched my bf playing it! she would definitely love it

    • @thefairyafrodite617
      @thefairyafrodite617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      playing Hades did that for me! even when you win, you lose everything and have to start over again

  • @BarakaIII
    @BarakaIII 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video really helps, because it teaches you how to deal with faliure and that with 1 success comes 5, 10 , 100 faliures, but also appreciate progress and overcoming your negative mindset. Amazing video as always❤❤

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much! I'm so glad you all are liking the video

  • @isacgoncalves1355
    @isacgoncalves1355 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Hello, my name is Isac, I'm from Brazil, I love your videos, for me it's like a therapeutic relief every time I watch them, I feel connected with my "artistic self", I lost so much of that after a long depression that I went through years ago , but I'm coming back and how it vivifies me, your videos inspire me.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hello Isac! So nice to meet you! Thank you so much for this heartwarming comment. Wish you the best ♥️

  • @mar8171
    @mar8171 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "the reason why we struggle to focus on being alone and being free is because we feel watched."
    Quanta verità. . . e quanto amo i tuoi video!

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ♥️ grazie

  • @liamsaucedo44
    @liamsaucedo44 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Vesper thanks for giving us all this great advice fr, sometimes I think it’s better than actual art tutorials because this’ll let ppl learn their own ways and be completely okay with that

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yay! Glad it was helpful :)

  • @thefairyafrodite617
    @thefairyafrodite617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this video! The timing couldn't be more perfect. It feels I'm a "Hanged One" period in my life, where I am forced to stop after a failure. This video alleviated so much of the heaviness I felt❤

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm glad this was helpful🦇♥️ thank you so much for your comment

  • @Crynni
    @Crynni 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your video was really touching to watch. We all have our own type of failures and pressure to endure - and for some reason, I began to think of myself, my mind as an enemy that I need to defeat. Like a weakness to overcome.
    Thank you for changing my perspective here :D
    For some silly reason, I totally forgot that one can also think of oneself as a friend to support one’s undertakings. Dealing with pressure and rejection is always kind of hard and I think it’s important to make room for oneself - even though it can be very difficult sometimes. It really was a calm and heartwarming video, thanks a lot! :D
    Still, having to submit something else - or alter your submission until it’s uncanny - is never fun >.>
    I really like this “meta-perspective” that you are taking on art and creative processes, would be wonderful if you could add videos like this constantly to the mix.
    All the best!

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so glad this was helpful! Also thank you so much for appreciating the ✨cinematography✨I tried to go with ahahahha ♥️

  • @cup-of-char
    @cup-of-char 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can't put into words what I want to say. It's been a short amount of time, but your videos here have filled me with so much inspiration and that inspiration has become action. Reading through the comments on your videos, I see a lot of people have similar experiences engaging with your videos, and it further validates me. Please keep doing what you are doing as long as you are enjoying it and it gives you a place to express yourself.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This comment means so much. You have no idea. This is the kind of support you all are giving me, and that is encouraging me to keep going. Thank you so much 🦇♥️

  • @_roaru
    @_roaru 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you so much for this video, I was feeling very frustrated and depression has been hard to deal with recently, but remembering that I should always be kind to myself made me feel a lot more relaxed, the tension I was feeling isn't making me freeze when I think about drawing anymore. Keep up the good work, you're amazing :DD

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It took me many years to realize, today, that my kindness towards me was what saved me. I'm really happy this video was helpful 🦇♥️

  • @Lucas-tg6jz
    @Lucas-tg6jz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well, this is a wonderful video, it touched my soul at a particular moment in my life. You're doing a lot of good in the youtube Art landscape, and I thank you for that.
    On a lighter note, love the cinematography and cozy feeling you've put there :)

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so, so much 🦇♥️

  • @r.l.howard8459
    @r.l.howard8459 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    thank you vespertiliu

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this comment sweetie 🥺🫶🏻🦇

  • @blooome
    @blooome 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    stay creative. stay beautiful. i love how you share all of your knowledge and wisdom

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm still learning myself, but hopefully, the more I learn the more I can share :)

  • @sigisig3941
    @sigisig3941 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    for real I got so much more happy to just share my art with friends. No follower or anything.
    Still hard to start a comic.
    Love to listen to you, it is really motivating.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ♥️♥️♥️🦇

  • @Vineethajojo
    @Vineethajojo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had a history teacher that made history class entertaining.
    Best teacher I've ever had

  • @gethelp6271
    @gethelp6271 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    unintended(?) asmr masterpiece

  • @anthonyw2931
    @anthonyw2931 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow. This was poetic...visually and otherwise. I loved it!!! For some reason, this felt very raw at the same time. It couldn't have been easy (it never is), and on top of that in english?!? Bravo, belladonna.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh Gosh! thank you so much! I worked really hard on this (had much fun doing it, have to admit it). I tried being as honest as possible 🦇♥

  • @lunaknoth
    @lunaknoth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm so grateful for your beautiful videos, they are really helping me through a tough time. I have been struggling with a project for my graphics school, but this made me change my perspective, which is much needed. Thank you so much. I hope you have a great weekend 🤍

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for this comment. It really wormed my heart

    • @lunaknoth
      @lunaknoth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You deserve to know how much you're helping others. I'll always be supporting you :) 🤍

  • @biquoi
    @biquoi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    non so come ringraziarti per questo video -- stupendo, davvero!

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      grazie di cuore

  • @ilprincipedelpazienza
    @ilprincipedelpazienza 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Cavolo che bel video, il montaggio sta diventando sempre più fluido! Shoutout alle unghie che sono bellissime 🔝

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Grazie mille! Per tutto ahahah

    • @ilprincipedelpazienza
      @ilprincipedelpazienza 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@vespertiliu i complimenti sinceri sono sempre gratis

  • @JCarrera_ll
    @JCarrera_ll 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Mesmerizing 🖤👏

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🥺♥️🦇

  • @2dberto
    @2dberto 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ma io quel tronco lo conoscoh :°)
    Comunque top editing, ti stai skillando tantissimo anche su questo aspetto! 💪

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ci ho messo veramente troppo a capire a quale tronco ti riferivi. Annamo bene.

    • @2dberto
      @2dberto 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vespertiliu andiamo benisssssssimo

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@2dberto ⚰

  • @aliceangel6538
    @aliceangel6538 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Its so great to listen to your art talk!!Thank you for this wonderful video!!💛✨

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are very welcome ♥️🦇🫶🏻

  • @federicomaestri6026
    @federicomaestri6026 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bravissima Veronica ✨✨✨ molto confortante e rilassante, devo dire!

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Grazie mille 🦇♥️

  • @PthumerianDusk
    @PthumerianDusk 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Vorrei scordarmi questo video per rivederlo di nuovo! Grazie

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      troppo buona

  • @Nonamedonchaknow
    @Nonamedonchaknow 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A fellow writer!
    I wish you the world on your self publishing adventure and was so relieved to hear you didnt scrap your first story.
    Also congrats on the second as well :)
    Im a novelist looking to publish for the first time this year... who is returning to art (want to illistrate my novel myself...and miss my drawing hobby from childhood).
    Your videos are inspiring and this one was motivational and comforting. The genuine presentation is appreciated for sure.
    Wishing you well in all your ventures and thanks for your content - it's appreciated.
    🖋

  • @JS392
    @JS392 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This matter is so important, I confess that I am not good at dealing with failure.
    I hope I can learn how to deal with failure and not suffering too much like I use it.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      best of luck 🦇♥️

  • @banana4scale
    @banana4scale 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you for your kind words (I didn't realize I needed them) and I have to say, I love your vibe! 🖤

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much :) I'm delighted this was helpful 🦇♥

  • @liz6245
    @liz6245 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amazing video, much needed these days 🖤

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry to hear that but glad the video was helpful 🦇♥️

  • @johnniewelbornjr.8940
    @johnniewelbornjr.8940 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your art is excellent but you content goes far beyond. I was pleasantly surprised to discover your channel by accident, for I'm usually deluged by the algorithm suggesting photography content. Your presentation is superb, as is your editing. As for the content, it is wonderful, be it focused on your art or on the mental aspects for artists. It's also not easy to discuss but... Thank you. You are wise beyond your years.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for this comment! This means a lot! I hope I’ll be able to help as many fellow artist I can by sharing what I wish was shared with me when I first started my art journey. Thank you so much. I appreciate you 🦇♥️

  • @SideBurns
    @SideBurns 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is Cinema

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      THANK YOU I really worked hard on the ✨cinematography✨ with this one AHAHHAHA really happy you’re liking it ♥️✨

  • @softhobbies
    @softhobbies 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much for this ❤️

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥺🦇♥

  • @agathalynx
    @agathalynx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This artwork is outstanding, and video is so soothing and inspiring! Greetings from Ukraine!❤

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much darling ❤

  • @Rosettaaaaaaaa
    @Rosettaaaaaaaa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How do you not get distracted by doom scrolling? That's my biggest problem and it's a cycle I'm stuck in. I want to draw everyday, but I get stuck scrolling on tiktok and then it's time for bed.

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I do that too T_T that's why I started leaving my phone in other rooms or even putting it into drawers. I put music on my laptop and I draw. Another thing I do is set timers on my apps! I have 15 minutes tops before it gets blocked, then I can unblock it of course, but I use it as a reminder of "that's enough" whenever I catch my phone without even noticing (yep, I have this kind of problem). It's going to be tough at the start since you are literally detoxing from scrolling addiction, but it gets easier with practice. First days you are going to fail so hard, but you'll be able to really witness the problem you are facing, and start to not see it "normal" anymore. Hope this helps! Good luck sis

  • @martinarusso4720
    @martinarusso4720 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Brava bellissima interpretazione d altronde, tutti noi mica siamo nati imparati❤

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      PERIOD

  • @jorgemargenat3674
    @jorgemargenat3674 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gracias😺😺😺

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      De nada ♥️🦇

  • @zubairdrawinganimation3360
    @zubairdrawinganimation3360 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you

    • @zubairdrawinganimation3360
      @zubairdrawinganimation3360 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vespertiliuIf you want, you can also do it with a pencil

  • @ganziobello8774
    @ganziobello8774 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cazzo che bello sto video

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      grazie bro

    • @ganziobello8774
      @ganziobello8774 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@vespertiliu scusa la caduta di stile ma erano le uniche parole che erano rimaste

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ha raccolto subito la corona maestro nessun problema @@ganziobello8774

  • @shh7600
    @shh7600 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Let’s make art😊

    • @vespertiliu
      @vespertiliu  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ♥️♥️♥️