15 Ways To Make Better Friends

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  • @alux
    @alux  ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hello Aluxers! Have you downloaded the ALUX App yet?
    alux.com/app
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    • @EvaC_24
      @EvaC_24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Can you do a video on how the rich stay healthy (and less sickened) VS. the poor? For example, multivitamins supplements vs. over clinical injections or eating habits, etc. thanks 🙏 😢

  • @fareedamaming9505
    @fareedamaming9505 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    15 Ways
    1. Become a hight value person
    2. Join a club or Organization (share same value)
    3. Leave your home town
    4. Rent a Room in a hostel when traveling
    5. Go to college
    ..

  • @watsonkashala99
    @watsonkashala99 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    00:52 - Become A High-Value Person
    01:32 - Join A Club Or Organization
    02:07 - Leave Your Hometown
    02:48 - Rent A Room In A Hostel When Travelling
    03:53 - Go To College
    04:42 - Join A DAO
    05:44 - Expand Your Field Of Expertise
    06:34 - Figure Out Your Personality Type
    07:49 - Be Proactive
    08:25 - Go to Places That Connect With Your Interests
    08:55 - Attend Networking Events
    09:38 - Volunteer
    10:09 - Join A Gym Or Practice A Sport
    10:50 - Try a new hobby or activity
    11:36 - Go To A Chill Cofee Shop Or Bar
    12:30 - Question

  • @maryl2298
    @maryl2298 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I miss the other lady’s voice. She made me laugh😂

    • @BlakeMadsen
      @BlakeMadsen ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, she actually sounded wealthy. Oh well

  • @jamilshekinski
    @jamilshekinski ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You make truly genuine friends at times of ordeal, when you, and them are going through it at the same time. You get a special bond, and connection that no one else understands. You understand each other simply by reading each others eyes. The level of understanding not even most parents have with their children. Its just magical, and let me tell you, that bond never breaks, even when you fight, or don't speak to each other anymore. Speaking from the harsh experience.

  • @nomanchezsanchez2971
    @nomanchezsanchez2971 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you for making this video ..i took the test and this was my result: Protagonist (ENFJ-A).. I got my work cut out for me though...

  • @matthewkies3794
    @matthewkies3794 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Long time Aluxer, first time poster. As I’ve increased my range of interests and depth of knowledge, the quality of my friends has improved. Additionally, a willingness mindset that’s open to new experiences and people. I met my best friends through work, volunteering, school, and civic service; they were in close proximity to things dear to me.

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation ปีที่แล้ว +13

    *_If You Know This, You Will Succeed Whatsoever_*
    “Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.” - Og Mandino

    • @speedybrute9999
      @speedybrute9999 ปีที่แล้ว

      👆Feedback appreciated
      Get in touch with John for a profitable investment that will change your financial life?✍️

  • @suleman6432
    @suleman6432 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I personally think that helping out people with there problems can open a door for friendship

  • @InvestToon
    @InvestToon ปีที่แล้ว +20

    By being friend with us. Come on people! Please be nice 🙏🏽😆 thanks Alux for this!

  • @robertmaxa6631
    @robertmaxa6631 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Going to college, is a mighty expensive way to "meet people".

  • @philry.4319
    @philry.4319 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    08. MY RESULT SHOWS IM A CAMPAIGNER. "People I may know that are Campaigner" shows RObert downey Jr. and Quentin Tarantino. No wonder why I relate to those guys.

    • @johnoffier4397
      @johnoffier4397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @phil did you take the Personality test how was it?

  • @auro1986
    @auro1986 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    narrator says if you watch 15 videos in alux channel daily then she will be your friend hypothetically

  • @audrealambert9583
    @audrealambert9583 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have found that if you have a sence of humour dressing like you care and being a good listener is the easiest equasion to finding new friends

  • @ercoder
    @ercoder ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fascinating... So DAO would not exist without my influence. 🤔 My MBTI is INTJ.

  • @missh4818
    @missh4818 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m INTJ 😅 Goodluck in making friends :)

  • @infinitumneo840
    @infinitumneo840 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've done MBPT and I learned a lot about myself and other people. It's worth the time to investigate yourself. Other personality test are the DISC test and the Enneagram test. They each show different aspects of how we approach life. Knowing how people think is invaluable in business.

    • @johnoffier4397
      @johnoffier4397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @infintum what is MBPt and how much is it?

  • @inmyownlane
    @inmyownlane ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a new voice-voice, prefer the other ladies voice-over much better. Its more livelier.

    • @vevekpandian6448
      @vevekpandian6448 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so TRUE, I loved the other ladies voice over with full of energy

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for mentioning this!!
      I’m sure there is a place for this new particular person -
      But I don’t think this is it.
      The old voice was luxurious and elevated the brand.
      This girl sounds like somebody’s relative who they got to work for a discount.

  • @ssemombweandrew
    @ssemombweandrew ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Like the intro here! Although on some videos you have been keeping Silent 😶

  • @Eleazar888
    @Eleazar888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Test the shit out of them. To the core. Some people waste your time. And once is gone. There's no getting it back.

  • @ahmadbhai1163
    @ahmadbhai1163 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why are you mixing the last part of the original alux lady?
    We know your plans alux you just want to replace the alux lady?
    But it continues, we will surely going to leave the channel. It takes on average 15 minutes to listen and watch the full video🎥🎥.
    And we don't want to just listen comparingly the average version of alux
    Please consider this before the time only be left to regret.

  • @ContextReallyMatters
    @ContextReallyMatters ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I met my best friend when he moved in the house next door. We were around 10 or 11 at the time. We've had three fist fights and millions of episodes and adventures. I remember us being young, horny kids peaking in one of our neighbors window because she used to sleep in a see through gown. I remember he moved out of state and I went to visit and ended up staying for like three months. I Remember the first day of the visit we snuck into the movie theater to see American Pie. We were 18 at this time. I remember going to some crazy parties on the college campus in town where we were the only black people in the party. I remember this club we used to go to that used to be rocking. He still reminds me of the night I was doing the humpty hump dance with this big native American chick. I remember we would ride to the next town over where he knew some people and hooking up with this Spanish chick and the next time we went I hooked up with the Spanish chick's friend in a park on the side of a bush. I remember some things that I can't even mention in these comments. I'm in my 40s now and that's still my best friend.

  • @HunterKnightCustoms
    @HunterKnightCustoms ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wait, where is Aluxa?

  • @airdrie_wolf
    @airdrie_wolf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alux
    Personality -
    Advocate
    So accurate its freaky!

  • @WayneBerryJr
    @WayneBerryJr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I met my best friend while being out at a bookstore and we were both interested in the teachings of Robert Kiyosaki

  • @thecollectiblecollectabill2298
    @thecollectiblecollectabill2298 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:38 thats one way to get me to take that test. ill go take it and bring back my results after i finish this video!

    • @thecollectiblecollectabill2298
      @thecollectiblecollectabill2298 ปีที่แล้ว

      im a logistician. 76% introverted, 62% observant, 54% thinking to feeling, and 51% judging. thats a pretty insightful test for about 10 minutes of my time!

  • @Charlie_Edwards_Official
    @Charlie_Edwards_Official ปีที่แล้ว +6

    where the alux lady

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      MANY people clearly want the original narrator & format back -
      NOT some cheap replacement.

  • @narmailsingh1452
    @narmailsingh1452 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Alux!
    Do one in Philosophical Books every teen must read.
    And btw
    I just finished The 7 habits of Highly effective people by Stephen R covey which was recommended by you and it's literally the best book I've read so far.Thanks a lot! ❤️

    • @johnoffier4397
      @johnoffier4397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Narmail was the book recommended by Alux and what stood out to you in the book?

    • @narmailsingh1452
      @narmailsingh1452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@johnoffier4397 Hey there!
      Yeah,it was recommended in a video titled '15 best books on productivity '
      And
      Well ,Here are some things I personally love about this book
      1)It promotes interdependency
      2) it's based on ever lasting principles
      3)it promotes long term thinking
      4)it makes you more aware of yourself and how we tend to just live by other people's expectations and never take time to form a perception about ourselves,to find our true values and priorities.
      5)it promotes proactivity and focusing on what's within your circle of influence and teaches us to be more responsible.
      6)it teaches us to always be authentic and not get caught up in the false promises of the personality ethic
      7)it promotes win-win third alternatives that allow you to achieve more than you would have individually
      8) It focuses on renewal and taking some time to rest . It's important that you equally care about the tools that allow you to produce something valuable as well as the production (also known as p/pc balance)
      I suggest you read it too ! You would love it!
      I Hope that I answered your questions!

    • @johnoffier4397
      @johnoffier4397 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@narmailsingh1452 yes it did thanks for the advice!

    • @johnoffier4397
      @johnoffier4397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Narmail if you mind me asking what do you for a living?

  • @iled5514
    @iled5514 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Architect personality (from Rio, Brazil).

  • @alexsimmons4693
    @alexsimmons4693 ปีที่แล้ว

    Places to meet people: Bookstores, pickleball, volunteer, church, meetup, hiking groups, dating sites, bars, mall, festivals & fairs, single groups, painting class, senior center, parks, take a class, volunteer at animal shelter, cruise, travel, get involved in political organization.

  • @krushnak9
    @krushnak9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where is alux lady?

  • @charlesdu84
    @charlesdu84 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow!!… I see ALUX self-destructing, TH-cam channels that switch their narrator always fall rapidly…

    • @matthewkies3794
      @matthewkies3794 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Also not a fan of this video. It felt generic and elementary. The normal Alux quality that we’ve grown accustomed to over the years was not there.

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      👏

  • @earthsteward9
    @earthsteward9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not sure about being in a hostel environment...

  • @watergateHQ
    @watergateHQ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    INTJ. I love MBTI

  • @vevekpandian6448
    @vevekpandian6448 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here are the 15 Ways to Make Better Friends
    - Become a high-value person
    - Join a club or organisation
    - Leave your hometown
    - Rent a room in a hostel when travelling
    - Go to college
    - Join a DAO
    - Expand your field of expertise
    - Figure out your personality type
    - Be proactive
    - Go to places that connect with your interests
    - Attend networking events
    - Volunteer
    - Join a gym or practice a sport
    - Try a new hobby or activity
    - Go to a chill coffee shop or bar
    BONUS - Listen more than you talk

  • @taxtechnicians8939
    @taxtechnicians8939 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Alux!

  • @renemontenegro6143
    @renemontenegro6143 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    WHERE IS MY ALUX WOMAN ?

    • @matthewkies3794
      @matthewkies3794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Where did the script team and researchers on this video? I feel like this entire video was outsourced to a content creator with a much younger demographic.

    • @vevekpandian6448
      @vevekpandian6448 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May be on leave! I loved the other Alux woman voice :)

    • @renemontenegro6143
      @renemontenegro6143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vevekpandian6448 I AGREE

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      PLEASE come back -
      You original ALUX woman who ELEVATED the brand!

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      I miss her, too.
      It makes me want to 😢

  • @Jamalova15
    @Jamalova15 ปีที่แล้ว

    My MBTI personality is ENFP The Campaigner

  • @raghureddy2935
    @raghureddy2935 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reality every one make friendship by expecting something.

  • @chrismixxproductions
    @chrismixxproductions ปีที่แล้ว +3

    New voice is no bueno

  • @rogersnick17
    @rogersnick17 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is godly.

  • @johnkh2576
    @johnkh2576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the enthusiasm in her voice(new voice lady) getting higher:)Keep inspiring us...

  • @sinenhlanhlandlebe5719
    @sinenhlanhlandlebe5719 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey again
    I'm an INTJ personality type

  • @forfun686
    @forfun686 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This lady voice is much calmer, please keep her 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @goldenpharaoh
    @goldenpharaoh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Logician

  • @emeraldrhyme5634
    @emeraldrhyme5634 ปีที่แล้ว

    second movie from alux i have muted and added subtitles

  • @russlea6383
    @russlea6383 ปีที่แล้ว

    Take up group golf lessons at a public course. ⛳

  • @paulhans8049
    @paulhans8049 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met my best friends in the unique private global club called the global information network

  • @santhoshthadishetty
    @santhoshthadishetty ปีที่แล้ว

    But that old voice is my best friend 😍

  • @sinenhlanhlandlebe5719
    @sinenhlanhlandlebe5719 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi alux
    Can you please help me
    How do I install the alux app on my Huawei phone?

  • @michieshell8
    @michieshell8 ปีที่แล้ว

    INFP Mediator

  • @Tetei_mizo
    @Tetei_mizo ปีที่แล้ว

    ISTJ-A

  • @apolitik
    @apolitik ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't start the video with clichés please 🙂

  • @Moneyking-s9r
    @Moneyking-s9r 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice

  • @Player-ij2es
    @Player-ij2es ปีที่แล้ว

    7:15

  • @mdsrpyt
    @mdsrpyt ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🤨🤨🥺🥺☹️☹️😵😵😵‍💫😵‍💫I don’t really want to hear this without the other lady!!! It’s just not the same, I feel like this is an imposter, off brand or generic and the content will be as such!

    • @ContextReallyMatters
      @ContextReallyMatters ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was thinking the same thing. I have come to associate all things alux with a specific voice. Nothing against the new lady but I wasn't ready for the change.

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏

  • @KentPetersonmoney
    @KentPetersonmoney ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was hoping to meet a girlfriend in college but no luck.

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Kent,
      I went to college & 2 of my kids are now there & we talk about this topic.
      II notice the guys who isolate in their rooms playing video games usually don’t meet many chicks.
      Have you put yourself in a ‘target rich environment’ where you can interact with the same girls on a regular basis -
      Like a club that seems likely to have a high ratio of girls?
      You don’t necessarily have to have a high interest in the subject matter -
      But if you have regular exposure to these people in a shared environment, you will have more ability to open the door to start a conversation.
      Don’t give up on yourself -
      This will likely be the time in your life when you have access to meet the most people (girls & guys) EVER.
      Go get ‘em Kent!!!

  • @AviralTanmay
    @AviralTanmay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am logician

  • @keishoncampbell8295
    @keishoncampbell8295 ปีที่แล้ว

    True Wealth❤🤘❤🇹🇹

  • @churchill19708
    @churchill19708 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love it!

  • @johnshafer7214
    @johnshafer7214 ปีที่แล้ว

    College was a waste of time for me. Although I studied hard and got good grades I never made any friends and I couldn't find any kind of work. Employers don't care if you have a college degree or not.

  • @syreetakadijharichardsgeor2323
    @syreetakadijharichardsgeor2323 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good afternoon, hello. How are you?. The truth is that the only word that does not exist in my dictionary is "friends". It is not my goal to have friends; they betray you and use you when they need something. They only want you to be comfortable, they only want you to satisfy their own needs. Thank you, but your advice attracts more interested people.

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hear you, Syreeta.
      Once I had so-called ‘friends’ like that who basically turned out to be users - one even STOLE from me!
      I dropped her ASAP after that.
      I would rather be ALONE than with people I can’t trust!!
      Now I am extremely careful who I let into my small circle.
      After many years and mistakes of picking the wrong people and getting burned -
      I have 3 true blue friends who I would trust with EVERYTHING -
      My car keys, house keys, debit card, passwords, and even my children.
      EVERYTHING.
      100%.
      They would pick up the phone at 2:00 A.M. and LITERALLY come over if I needed them.
      One friend showed up IMMEDIATELY when my husband had a health scare & watched my kids while we went to the hospital. Her husband also dropped everything and came over, too.
      And they acted supportive like your best family members do.
      We can close ourselves off to protect ourselves which is TOTALLY understandable after getting burned by people we mistakenly THOUGHT were our so-called ‘friends.’
      But there are STILL truly good, honorable people out there in the world.
      It took me DECADES to find them.
      After getting burned & dropping those mental cases like a ton of bricks, I always keep my eyes open for people that seem genuinely good & share my values -
      They are RARE - but they DO exist.
      Not everyone is dishonest, self serving a-hole.
      There are TRULY kind, nurturing, caring, giving people in the world.
      I know because I am one of them.
      When I meet a new potential friend, I told my husband they are on ‘probation’ in my mind LITERALLY for a year or two.
      I don’t become vulnerable and give people access to what is near and dear to me carelessly.
      It’s not their fault I have been burned - but to protect myself as much as possible, they have to earn my trust over time by behaving in a trustworthy manner.
      They can’t use me to serve their purposes, steal from me, lie to serve their own interests, (but lying to protect my feelings by telling me I don’t look fat in my pants is OK. 😆)
      The few friends I have now are GOLD.
      They have given me keys to their home & also trust me with their children.
      One good friend let me borrow her car when I needed an SUV (but refused the cash I tried to give her for gas) and I let my other friend take my van when she needs it.
      Good people are out there.
      Hopefully, you keep your heart open to love in many different ways because true loving and kind people ARE out there.
      You just must be careful -
      but I pray you don’t give up.💕

  • @OggyRok
    @OggyRok ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to go Gym and have new acquaintance and friends

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm in college and still ain't got a real friend 🤦🏾‍♂

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aaron,
      You have to BE a friend to get a friend.
      One thing I know for sure:
      They won’t come knocking on your door.
      You’ve got to be proactive and go out and find them.
      Joining a club is a good idea.
      You should have lots of clubs at your school!
      💕

    • @johnoffier4397
      @johnoffier4397 ปีที่แล้ว

      @stacy how can I meet people with the same Interest as me?

  • @theericfong
    @theericfong ปีที่แล้ว

    ISFJ: The Defender

  • @grigoriidifero
    @grigoriidifero ปีที่แล้ว +1

    INTJ

  • @elchemyst
    @elchemyst ปีที่แล้ว

    Bonus: go to a Pub

  • @Anonymous-gq2jd
    @Anonymous-gq2jd ปีที่แล้ว

    INTJ here

  • @wednesdaysworld1471
    @wednesdaysworld1471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Infj

  • @thameemsthoughts4504
    @thameemsthoughts4504 ปีที่แล้ว

    Step 1 : Be Rich

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an introvert

    • @vevekpandian6448
      @vevekpandian6448 ปีที่แล้ว

      Introvert or Extrovert doesn't matter much as long as you are able to live a happy live and a good relationship with others

  • @belladonnaromanov879
    @belladonnaromanov879 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eh I’m not satisfied with this lady’s voice. She’s missing the pizzazz. I like how sassy the other one is.

  • @kimt4565
    @kimt4565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who is this narrator???? I like the old voice much better. What happened? Was this you tube channel sold to someone else?

    • @stacysnider4899
      @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      ALUX is about to crash & burn if they don’t return to the original plan.

  • @JSFGuy
    @JSFGuy ปีที่แล้ว

    Check it out.

  • @ssemombweandrew
    @ssemombweandrew ปีที่แล้ว

    Present!

  • @sonkebungane114
    @sonkebungane114 ปีที่แล้ว

    INFP

  • @neilbaboolal3312
    @neilbaboolal3312 ปีที่แล้ว

    😃

  • @stacysnider4899
    @stacysnider4899 ปีที่แล้ว

    OK ALUX.
    Christmas is coming -
    But ALUX must think it is April Fools.
    Because instead of giving their loyal viewers a gift, (or simply leaving their incredible formula alone) -
    they pull an April Fools joke on us.
    WTF happened?
    Is it just me - or did you expect a Nordstrom’s type of experience and you suddenly landed in the bargain basement at K Mart?
    😵

  • @RoopHayer1407
    @RoopHayer1407 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st

    • @JSFGuy
      @JSFGuy ปีที่แล้ว

      Denied

    • @RoopHayer1407
      @RoopHayer1407 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JSFGuy no one asked you to assess me ..

  • @Cryogenictrucker
    @Cryogenictrucker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Alux

  • @almouneer
    @almouneer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Didn't you depict volunteering a bit too ideally? Actually it was naive.

  • @chestervillaruel4537
    @chestervillaruel4537 ปีที่แล้ว

    First

    • @JSFGuy
      @JSFGuy ปีที่แล้ว

      Doubt

  • @vevekpandian6448
    @vevekpandian6448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Make Genuine FRIENDS

  • @hitaishi45
    @hitaishi45 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Use my comment as DISLIKE button, if u don't like the voice over

  • @krystalkrystal9873
    @krystalkrystal9873 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been following for so long, I already love this narrator