MY MARRIAGE WAS A MISTAKE || Justice Court EP 185
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What this man needed was a business partner not a wife 😂
He made a mistake getting married to a lady that is not working..
@@bettyferandoherty2068and who told you the lady wasn’t working? Or you didn’t listen to the former video? Even if you marry a woman that is working if you buisness want to crumble it will.
Another lesson for ladies, dont marry a man that abandoned his woman and kids or kid, he will do the same for you. He abandoned his ex and child and he has done the same for this lady! Open your eyes well my single ladies
So the man should have continued with a very bad marriage?
Same to single mothers
Wisdom is a virtue. Try to get one
Swears, I had a man coming for me like that, he left his wife and two kids, when I found out I ran...if he can do it to her he can do it with me
@@user-mf8zo9bd4vleave a bad marriage doesn’t mean leaving ur children, I hope understand that.
What ever you do, marry a kind person.
I can't imagine myself abandoning my kids regardless of how båd their mom is.
That man is something else
Judge funmi always giving me goosebumps whenever she judges,too smart and intelligent. God bless you
These court cases have drained Judge Funmi; emotionally, psychologically & even physically. The problems of Naija cannot be resolved by one person. The lack of accountability, toxicity, entitlement and so on is indeed disgusting. More power to Judge Funmi. Its not easy
i thougt i was the only person tht emotionally and psychologically brilliant but Judge Funmi level is a force to reckon with. she is not only judge but also a mother. the way she comport herself to proffer solution is WOW!!!
Looking at the woman is complete disaster
Kudos to this Judge Funmi
My dear, it is better to stay together o... Imagine now, he has to send feeding money, school fees and health care. If they were together the woman would manage whatever he brings and still add hers. The lesson here is don't produce kids you can't cater for
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It actually annoys me when I hear careless statements from men like "where am I expected to get such money" especially when it has to do with provision of basic needs for his children. What was he thinking when he was producing babies? Even if things are nò lọnger okay as it used to be, he should make responsible statements and in a manner that shows that he really appreciates that he has that responsibility and he is not carefree about living up to it.
He has no sense.
5k a month is like you don't exist,😂😂
😂😂 that time table got me laughing..i love this judge
I tell you 😂😂😂😂😂
I laughed wella
He was even suppose to be given a pen to write it down.....
She handled it the Solomon way😀
This marriage was not based on love,they were paired.
Wow the lady was my Course mate...what a journey in the road of marriage
2k plus watch but less than 200 likes... you guys should always try to remember to like such educative videos
When he explained on the previous episode, i nearly believed him. I know what the problem is. There is no way you can have 2 kids by a lady and claim she was toxic from the beginning.
Failed business is angering him. He feels he can make it without his family. This is the same reason why he abandoned the first child.
He is regretting coming back to Nigeria and getting married.
You are absolutely right. He is the toxic one. Because this woman looks very calm and respectful. I also understand the man’s frustration. He is frustrated because Nigeria has drained him. I’m seeing a frustrated man trying to vent his anger and blame on that innocent woman .
I love this judge, may the good God give her more wisdom
The husband is emotionally detached from his wife. Guess he is in love with another woman outside
My dear Igbo men don't play Love when there's no money. The man is very frustrated about his business. The woman get luck say the man no they drink. He for accept her back and carry beating follow her if the girl no go run leave the house for him
That's exactly how I feel.
"You don't look famished." 🤣🤣🤣😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Very true
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He is not at all. He is only been wicked.
I heard that😂
I feel this man is just angry things didn't work out as planned or probably he is angry the kids are female
And looking for sm1 to blame
Deborah you are smart. They are girls, he felt she'd keep having girls, he also could not boldly provide for his family so he came up with excuses to demonise the girl.
She's got a job now, doing some businesses.
You're a smart lady. All he's saying don't make sense at all. He's just angry she gave him females. Typical igbo man mentality
At first, I feel same too. My boss who get married to his first wife gave birth to a girl child.. He left her to another woman, the second one gave birth to a girl child lol. He got married to another lady who lied she's pregnant with a boy.. When she got out to birth, it was a girl. He left her. So, I feel one of this man problems is the female children not really the business.
❤1@@miracleijeoma9184
In this time, this man is going to feel the heat of decision.
The man is obviously running away from his responsibilities
I love how Jugde Funmi lays emphasis on healthy coparenting! Big Ups, ma’am ❤
If a man is asking to provide 5k for his children monthly, then, he has not been providing for his family.
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The man is just trying to get back at the woman because of the accusation of stealing his money. What I expect judge funmi to do is to investigate the man's financial standing presently and decides how much he can conveniently be giving for the children's upkeep. 5k for each children is as much as not giving anything.
@@tayoowolabi-rk2qdif life is good for u nor mean say e good for others ooo 5k can be big money to some people oooo bro like d man said he is passing through a lot
Honestly you need to understand what this man has been going through... he tried to build a financial freedom life for his family but this woman probably kept just eating... she should also step up and provide while he can't... honestly the law is failing men
@@panduleniamwaalwa1488 I agree but my issue with him is what he's providing for his kids. Those are his kids, will he allow them to starve because the "evil" woman embezzled his money?
For context, he's asking to pay 3$ monthly for both kids, that's pure wickedness.
When i saw it on Facebook, everybody was praising this man and shouting at the woman...It can never be me ,had to run here to watch the full video...
I didn't type, but I almost finished this woman. But this full video made me know better. However aside the money issue, the man is tired of something. But again the woman has a point
Same thing I just do
very true. hear from two sides before judgement
That’s exactly what I did cos she story wasn’t adding up.
Exactly, this man is wicked, I have three beautiful daughters I can't imagining abandoning them or they mother for anything. They're my life and happiness
That money is small for two children. Hummmm some of these fathers think it’s easy to take care of children. May God help them both
You wan may em go theft? Thats the amount he can afford. He won't kill himself
The lady no get hands to work abi....dey play
@@anukajerry8246So after the 5k is finished what are the children supposed to eat...Air?
@@ishmaelchinenye2653is that amount enough to feed an adult not to talk of a child
@@ishmaelchinenye2653 even she has a job that money is still little to take care of two children.
That man does not want to do anything he is not responsible if he loves the children he won't be doing this Barr Funmi we love you ma
But he accepted to be paying their school fees, clothing and medical expenses, and to you he didn’t want to do anything. Men’s life is hard sha
@@salamiibrahim4874😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂
Are you responsible chewwww
Lolzzzzz
I love the timetable part that judge funmi asked him to draft😂
I think its better we keep hearing the men to draft food timetable, maybe we may see how better they'll manage in this economy
Judge Funmi Asaolu is a great Judge! She sees through the litigants easily.
He believes that his ex-wife is the cause of his precarious economic situation. It's a common trend(in Naija!) for the wife to be blamed for any misfortune, by the husband and his family. And where a man sticks with his wife against the pressure from his family, they say that the wife has bewitched him, with juju inserted between her thighs!
The wife has skills acquired from tertiary education. She'll be fine once she secures a regular income-generating legitimate endeavour. And she has her supportive parents too.
The man is making a big mistake which, I believe he's going to regret in the near future. I wish them well!
You said my mind. God bless you❤
@@ayodeleafolayan9516 And you, Ayo. Thank you!
Did you guys watch the previous episode though.
@@salamiibrahim4874 yes, I did actually!
@tobi you are a prophet!
As a wife to an igbo man, I can tell you it's not easy. In fact, I regret it daily.
This section is so emotional, even judge Funmi is touched.
The fact that she renovated her father’s house without her husband been aware and also managing her husband’s business.
point of correction, she did not renovate her dad's her house n also was not the director of her husband's business.
If he can house the sister?really? That's his blood sister, I don't know why some women want to take issue with a family that birth, raise this man you married to! I mean it's very ungrateful how these women reason. After all you the mother, should also contribute to the care of the kids too! It's very sad that their differences impact the kids!
Her point is if he could house his sister then he should be able to adequately fend for his children! After all his children are supposed to be his number one priority if not that his family have poisoned his mind. Did he allow her to go and get a job???? Listen to the video again
@isiomaajufo3046 It is a wrong mindset. Every responsible woman should know that at the time we are passing through, except you marry a millionaire in dollars, you should have some level of income to supplement your household. Number 2: What makes you think that mothers should not have a contribution to the caring of their kids? A lazy woman would like to depend on the husband solely, and I reaffirm again, his sister is also like his children, except if she's his elder. Here's where her mindset has landed her, divorcee with two kids, and a husband who doesn't even want to hear about counseling. At this young age, is this good? Had she been financially stable, even when the man sent her out, she would be able to care for herself to some level while the court sorts out things. Your priority is your family, that includes your blood relatives as well. Not just a woman who was not there when the parents suffered for the guy alone. I hope that sink in your heads, self absorbed women of Africa.
Thanks Judge Funmi. You handled this matter from a depth of understanding.
No matter how powerful,strong,gigantic and huge you are one tiny woman can bring you to rubbish,men wise up,when your peace of mind is toil with you are gone.
He should be with the children and be taking care of them with that amount he's mentioning there ..... Nonsense
I am not satisfied with this ruling, it will make more men irresponsible and heartless toward their children, the man is healthy, what can 20k do in this Tinubu era? I wish he was asked to do the breakdown of how he will feed the kids with 10k each, morning, afternoon, and evening, 330 naira per day for a child, then 110 naira per meal for a child, when one pure water is 50 naira.
@@josramsblue1is the woman not healthy too after school fees and medical kuku kill am na
@@Samuel-rj7xt you are of the quality with the man, your father feeds you with 10k every month that's why your tho king faculty is so low .you are malnourished.
@@Samuel-rj7xt
D woman is caring, minding d children.
She cannot work and at d same time care 4d children.
If she manages 2 work den she's doing it out of xtra effort. Everywhere in d world, d father is d provider. Do u know wot it takes 2 mind a child, even one child?
Where is d time and chance 2 work wen children r in ur care, unless u hv help? Who will provide dat help ?
U men shud b reasonable. If they gv u children 2 live with, can u do it and still work or do ur bizness normally without hitches ?
So she should be a liability?? When she’s not pregnant?@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767
This guy is a narcissist filled with lies. He abandoned the first woman, now the second, he will do the same to the third and more. Unfortunately she walked into the marriage knowing his past or maybe not. Madam move on, he isn't a responsible man.
Oh poor children so young...the journey is still long.. for them..the woman seems to still want the marriage but the .an is over.
After 2 wo.en the man needs deliverance. Spirit wife may be inolvex. Busines and relationship endeavour are failing these are red flags..
This man is looking so mean... God help us😢
Weldon Judge Funmi, you're doing a great work. More knowledge and strength to excel. Amen
Any man that has a case to answer in Okija shrine is a threat to family especially wife and kids 😂😂😂😂, that shrine eeeeh immediately I heard that shrine I already concluded that the problem is from the man
I like when Judge fumi said he should make a list of what he want them to be eating. One thing I know you can't out smart her
That part of draw the time table of what you want her to be feeding them with 5k for 30 days 🤣🤣🤣
May we never get married to an enemy.....this man is something else
What do you mean
Is the enemy the man or the woman?????
The humility of Judge Fumi is graceful. She's handling every words that come out of her mouth with cautious for both parties to be please and not hurt. Marriage is good but divorce comes with a big unexpected package that one has to be ready for it though mental health is above everything but to provide that money for up keep isn't a joke. Another stress and mental health to be handle especially if you're not working.
You understand this thing. Is not easy to be placed on such
Is not just about accepting to provide but will you keep to it till then?
Nobody can’t feel two kids without money
His family ruined his marriage. He kept talking about his mum's opinion in his marriage. And now his sister lives with him. Most men like him regret their actions in old age. And they probably chased her out because she has no male child. There's no concrete reason i can see here for a divorce. So sad. Mummy's boy
My dear Don pray for your husband to lose his business. No marriage can be sweet without money
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring her back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for her, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing her.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get her back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
If she has moved on, move on!
These two people has a mission 😅😅
@@sethrollinswife3818I thought I was the only one understand that those comments
The thing is, this man is angry his business failed.
He’s looking for who to blame
People are advising him and those people want to ruin his life
You can’t abandon your children and expect success in life. Honestly it rarely happens.
This is a dead beat father unfortunately. They don’t usually know their duties
Whao did you watch the previous episode? Also do you even know the meaning of deadbeat?
He agreed to be paying their school fees, clothing and medical expenses with the debts he has incurred and he has not done anything.
@@salamiibrahim4874 yes I watched it and that’s how I came to this conclusion.
@@Gray_Studytubethen your conclusion is somehow biased.
Otherwise you’d give feedback for the woman also…
The woman did no wrong. That's what happens to people who get money wrongly. If he worked hard for his cash abroad then he will work diligently to grow what he earned from hard work. But expecting other people to grow it,is the act of selfishness. He is dead beat because he has no valve for his kids period
May God help u...
Okija shrine! May GOD deliver the captives.
Well job ma 😊I need ur help bcos hv bén going through a lot too taking care of the child alone and no supporters am tired ma
Old man with young woman, the pain of the children. He is in his late 40’s, she is still in her 20’s. Men marrying children that a society allows helps lead to this rubbish! Thanks Judge Funmi!
Exactly, igbo men married late and if they want to marry, they marry young girl, I even thought he is her father.
Haba! 😂 He is not old and the age gap is not the problem here.
@@AncientHebrewNeverDied a forty something year old man, CANNOT perform as a twenty something😂😂
@@yvettewilliams5967 A 'Twenty-something' is not yet a 'man'. 😁😁 Still needs to stay back home with Mum for enough breastfeeding for the wisdom and maturity needed to handle married life. 'Performance' is a small part, and one day, Mr 'twenty-something' will become too 'old' for ' performance. 😎🤣
@@AncientHebrewNeverDied A twenty something should be in college getting and education, planning a career and could be married too. Many are doing it and building their lives everyday 😃
Much respect to judge Funmi.
If this woman had a male child for this man,i don't think he will be this bitter towards her and the kids.. igbo men don't play with nwoke
I do not agree, with everything he's said, if that's true. Then she's can't be my brother's wife period!
marriage this time is not easy 😢may god help us ,amen
Amen oooo
Amen
Aaaaaaaaaa FIRST TIME WATCHING LIVE ,wow
Justice Funmi we love you 😍 ❤🎉
What my kids dad did, he sent me out so he can have fun and bring back his first baby mama he abandoned with the son , because when she left ,she travelled to Lagos and started hustling to become a big girl back then .
My kids dad was a greedy type when always go for sugar mummy and big girls for money.
Most women back Home just accept to marry someone because he's from abroad not because they love or wish to settle down most of them just want to Escape hardship now see where she fine herself now I feel sad for her
The man has access to the kids but he cannot on any ground visit unannounced as if shes still his wife... If he wants to visit the kids, it must be in an agreed location since he doesnt pay her rent...Showing up in her family house unannounced is completely out of it...he should respect her privacy. 10k per child in this economy cannot work. It looks like the man has the moneY since he is increasing it but he needs a push. She will buy foodstuff, buy gas to cook the food, These are kids tht probably take snacks to school, buy their clothes, buy their toilatories, slippers.. Haba! The money the judge agreed upon without asking the woman if its ok is unfair... 10k per child is not tenable even if its subject to review
So the economy that you are crying doesn't affect the man abi. You think if they were still together he will be bringing so much moy
You're very evil. You're traumatized by your own father so you bring your frustration to other men.
The man won't pay😂😂 he'll change location and phone number 😂
This lady looked responsible and calm
If your investment is squander and you found yourself from grace to grass you will understand this kind of pain.... In marraiges many sheet happens.. But both of them is to be blem especially the man...the children are paramont sha
Public Service Announcement: Ladies, if you see this man in the streets of Lagos, Abuja, or in the village, you should RUN. Do not walk mind you, but run as fast as your feet will carry you.
😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly
So this old man went and married this girl and only abandoned her after 2 little kids and went back to his abandoned girl friend, no responsible man will do such, soon he will go for the 3rd woman and keep having kids here and there.
Younger women are problem is u are not finecially strong
@@kennethosazeemwinde109 what has this got to do with "younger women" being the problem? You do know it takes two to conceive a child right ? Both parties are equally responsible for that child upkeep
@@kennethosazeemwinde109then go for old women now! He should have allowed her to go and get a job instead of blaming her. He's irresponsible period!
I love you judge Funmi .may God bless your wisdom
The man had a second chance to learn about marrying right but he was unfortunate again . God be with you ❤
The way he even carelessly said the ten ten thousand no problem 😢😢😢... Its well
TERRIBLE THINGS ARE HAPPENING THIS DAYS IN MARRIAGE...Average marriage is now on the verge of break up..Nigeria don hard
The lady doesn't sound like who build house anywhere, as an abroad returnee it's by grace for you to succeed in Nigeria no matter the capital you invested, I knew someone who returned with over 100 million naira but today nothing is left.
I pray God help the both of them to be able to take care of the kids
I am seriously in love with you. You are intelligent
this man has suffered greatly.
This man is a calamity and disaster. You are not informed too that is a responsibility
Nice one madam, more grace to your endeavour
Life doesn't work like magic sir u will regret this decision because you took it simply because ur broke now
Go and ask what happened in the shrine you went to. Because, you stepped in there with the money from your business.
They should forgive themselves and work out things instead of counting wrong countlessly
Why will you abandoned your children, Those children will be somebody some days
When you open a business allow the business to grow at least 6months be touching the money that comes out from it. Every day Expenses destroys business
More wisdom to the judge,we need more of fumi in Nigeria.
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man: but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.
My dear leave that verse alone. Anything can happen in marriage. Just pray to have a good one
This man is wicked.. ten thousand naira for two kids.?
Same as your dad
Must u insult his dad? For u to defend a man that wants to be feeding his two children with 5k in a month means you'll do d same. @@sex214l7
Stop irrational . Be logical in your sense of reasoning & stop sounding stupid . This program is strictly for adults pls .
@@sex214l7why must you insult his father if another person insult your dad how will you feel.
@@johnm.3415you are the irrational one ,can 10,000 feed you in a month talkless of 2kids
Judge Fummi Well done Your Honour . . . .God Bless You
From the man's response of him being in debt, it is clear the woman is not his problem. Because if this woman have left your life all these years and you are still struggling to the point of you finding it hard to feed, you need to find out what you are not doing right. May God heal you both.
thank you so much
You think that changing business is that easy if you lost ur business
Wicked father, how can you give your kids 10k a month to feed
I love this judge
Moral of the story:
Never marry a liability
How is she a liability?
What are you saying?
That is not the moral. The real moral is dont get married or father children that you cant cater for.
The man look like a liability to himself, and unserious person.
More Grace, more wisdom to you judge fumi
$20 000 naira or $12 usd feed 2 children for a month? That cannot even pay for my cat litter. My cat bag of food is $35 usd. I fewl sorry for these mothers.
This man was not ready for marriage in the first place. He was actually looking for someone to help run his business. Pinning the failure of the business, which both of you were running, on your wife is total rubbish
Until you understand how women run businesses
What do you think is the reason some men refuse their wife's from their businesses
Business is different from marriage. Marriage is above business. What happened did not warrant a divorce but it is a pity the guy priotise business over his marriage. The business didn't collapse one day. He should have changed the management of the business when he began to sense the wife was not running the business well.
This man probably had it easy with his former "girlfriend" and thought he'd do same with this woman. If your business failed, should the children bear the effect?
I no know for am o. Mtchew yeye dey smell.
You’re just looking for attention, you will marry some day
You are right.
@@kelvindavid9099may we not marry dis your mentor and you
@@kelvindavid9099so because he will marry some day then he should support evil wen he sees one, na y una nor dey fit keep marriage.
Let me watch the second part before comment.
The husband is a toad that wants to be act like a frog. Instead of blaming the wife for his failure, he should act responsibly with his finance.
When a man reaches at the level of strongly speaking to the point that he does not want the marriage again, just know he has endured a lot men don't talk too much, the way I look at that woman she is so vocal and unsub missive, That can destroy the husband's peace and eventually mental state
I am sure that lady would go through this comment section one by one
This lady looks very responsible & nice . Can she pls drop her ig handle or details ? We can help . Well I pray with time they’ll find time to FORGIVE each other . Marriage is not easy . Comes with lots & lots of challenges. Besides when a man makes up his mind over a woman that’s the END .
This man is done & dusted with this lady . Case closed💔.
Ashawo.
U never talk wetin dey hungry you.
Yeye dey smell
😂😂😂💀💀💀
Most men used their capital to celebrate marriage and things will not move well after. Some women will want expensive marriage expecting gifts.
Please marriage is not a job.or a profession.
Please house is it possible to have a program with this justice court that will not be put online?
This man is something else..
My honor , God Almighty will continue to increase your wisdom to settle issues ijmn Amen 🙏🏾
Gosh! So many marriage separations , children birthed suffering for unwarranted coupling of ADULTS!!!
As for the lady, you see a married man you go for it the you no what happen to the first wife who make it live him
Nigeria is hard.
He carefully planned his life but the business part didn't work out. He feels like a failure and can't take responsibility. I don't think the wife is bad person. Nigerian economy is destroying families.
Both the man and the woman did not plan well especially the business..how can you establish a business and then you did not plan on how to grow the business?you take expenses from the proceeds of the business to run family expenses,fuel car,etc..why won't the business collapse?the man is financially reckless and the woman too knew the weakness of the husband and helped him to spend all the money he invested in the business..
But she doesn't look flashy or expensive. He told her to be taking house keeping and feeding money from there. How is that her fault
I don't know how judge Fumi will accept 20k for two kids in this Nigeria that we live now. Judge Fumi need to upgrade that amount except she want the children to starve or for the woman to start bringing men home which will create a toxic environment
God bless our able judge for her judgements in Jesus name
My guy added 10k immediately 🤣🤣🤣