Exposing My Evil Gangster DAD - Liam Tuffs Tells His Story
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Exposing My Gangster DAD - Liam Tuffs Tells His Story
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Come on, James ya drunk pervert
Liam, If you ever read this comment, I want you to know that you're a proper gent.
You've done so well not to allow that guy to make you negative and hateful.
Much respect.
This is what you call a real man. A genuine male role model to look up to. Well done Liam.
totally agree
'don't trust men who hate women.' He's a simp.
I have to pause this a sec "Liam your sooo funny I'm going to put a few of your phrases in my pocket " I'm have the shadow as company 1 and the human body to explain my town blackburn as the ass 🤣🤣🤣 I say falk come here to give up x this is going to be fascinating I'm only 3min in x
The experience of a narcistic parent is really hard to deal with. I love that he says he is neither a victim or a survivor but a conqueror. That's a mindset !🦁
This interview was absolutely riveting. I could have listened to his stories all day, despite the nature and topic. What an amazing person, the love he has for his mum and grandmother is heartwarming. What an absolute legend ❤
Liam is one amazing human being, his love and respect for his mum, gran & wife is so obvious. Over coming everything his been through to turn out a humble, kind and successful member of society speaks to his strength and his mum's. He deserves all the success in the world!
nature over nurture prevailed here, well he had a great mum and grandmother, but so happy for him and how strong he has been, very difficult to expose what hell you have been through with someone who should have loved and cared for you.
The way he speaks about his mum and nan is amazing
Liam is an incredible man. Philosophical, integral, tough, warrior, truth speaker, and a loving soul. Top fella. ❤
As a retired psychiatric nurse I have met men and women like this, totally deluded to the havoc they cause. Blame shifting and glory chasing. They can and do destroy families and communities. Standing up to them takes strength, I congratulate Liam, and James such a fantastic interview you really let people tell there story.
I don't think they are deluded. They know exactly what they do. I know many of them.
Fair point@@moirahill6397
Liam deserves recognition for coming out of Hell as a lovely, caring guy. Proof that people can't blame past experiences for their evil behaviour. Amazing interview for an amazingly strong guy.
I’ve never been so moved, touched and motivated by a person as I have been watching Liam. He opened doors for me I thought I’d never be able to open. Amazing interview.
Huge thank you to James for having him on.
I’ve watched some brilliant interviews on this channel but this is by far up there with the best, to go through such a tough life and still hold such a pure spirit is the epitome of maturity. I salute you Liam.
He is a perfect example of why terrible experiences shouldn't make you a horrible person. Instead, they should serve as a catalyst for personal growth and resilience. It's inspiring to see how he has risen above the hardships and turned them into opportunities for self-improvement. Truly, a testament to the power of inner strength and determination
He's not very godly towards homosexuality?! Ironic really.
@@carlchallis Lol you ever heard of Soddom and Ghemorrah bro ? Think gods stance on homosexulaity is pretty clear ......clearly your only religious insights come from the Catholic church which is the literal equivalant of taking sex advice from Jimmy Saville
@@carlchallis I’ve read testimonies of those who were almost abused or abused by someone by the same sex, most admit that they were scared of being attracted to the same sex because of the incident. It’s unfortunate to have no one safe to speak to, or to understand you. Because someone’s who’ve experienced sexual abuse need to be reminded that they did not cause it, and that they were severely violated in every way. And this trauma in no way influences the gender you are attracted to.
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After everything he has been through and you hang on to that? Wow.
@@carlchallis some people lump rainbow with depravity it was illegal until 1970s and highly stigmatized so rainbows have come a long way
I ran a fair bit of security in Worthing and Brighton for about 20 years. Only ever heard good things about Liam. I knew a few guys who had dealings with his old man. None had a good word to say and they were sound guys. Great interview. Best of luck to you Liam, big respect for keeping your head and staying positive.
I could listen to Liam all day. What a positive, motivating guy. Even more impressive considering what he was in amongst.
Liam is definitely a guy for people to look up to. A true, genuine guy 👊🏼♥️
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Brave man .
I had my life destroyed by a narcissistic sociopath.
Gives out hope and love to others
Bang on 👊🏻
i want to add something what noone has said yet.. the way how liam articulated the story was like a guy richie story board, i could literally visulized everything. it was like scenes. absolutely epic.talented geezer. get writing bro!! 💙
If u have one parent that is loving it helps,also brain chemistry can make sum people less resilient,factor in external factors.
James this is the best interview on TH-cam hands down, such an in depth interview, I like Liam Tuffs, I've followed him for years, he's an inspiration to many.
Liam you are a credit to your Mom and Nan and you are a big hearted man who has turned out to be a great man despite everything that has happened to you❤
The mentality that Liam has is outstanding really!
He managed to keep his feelings and emotions under wraps really well.
A few times he almost boils over but the rest of the interview, he’s at a steady simmer.
What a geezer!!! Love Liam, have for years after following him!!!
I could relate completely to Liam when he said when you’ve reached the ultimate pain (in his case, the passing of his Nan), anything else can be coped with. This happened to me when I lost my darling mum. The pain was so intense, anything the future throws at me, I will cope with it, as the worse thing that could have happened did. Bless Liam and I wish him well 🦋
You can see the power , courage love and strength two beautiful ladies channeled into your soul.
Well done.
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Liam is the bloke you want to be your best friend. Seems a really nice bloke and love his content
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@@JamesEnglishA very complex upbringing&he's left with lots mental scars!...And being raised in the E.End,it was easy to meet certain types of people& they were often good talkers,charismatic etc& being young it was easy to be impressed with these flashy characters..But as u matured& became more' Streetwise' u realize they're not to be trusted& when u don't have trust,u walk away& keep ur distance!
Liam seems like a great man! Brilliant interview!
@@gemax6668 He has a sharp mind&I watched some of his vids&they were funny👍..But being exposed to such weird s##t by his crazy freak of an Dad,I'm sure has left plenty of scars..But he seems to have adopted an positive approach&is getting on with his life!
But I do notice James E seems to be quite fascinated with Criminals or should I say 'Former Criminals' and that I find a little unsettling!
@@jerryoshea3116 There's no doubt things like that leave scars!
As for James E, it means nothing! He has an interest in these things! Like i watching anything to do with crime and Murder because Im interested in the psychology aspect of how a person could do these things! Nothing more..
I had to keep pausing this interview and go back to it later just to make it seem it was longer than it really was. Absolute gem of an interview, I could listen to Liam for hours. A gentleman and a legend with the best, truest and kindest words for victims, survivors and anyone who is struggling I have ever heard. Love to all survivors ❤
It hurts my heart that Liam keeps apologising for his jumpy flow of conversation, my style of communication is chaotic so I followed this very easily. (I have ADHD)
He has a really in-depth level of self reflection and understanding. He’s really likeable x
I think when u are brought up around stress,Parents fighting,exposed to violence etc,u learn to be ultra vigilant ( which sometimes can be useful) but u talk in an hurry,rapido style,conversation somewhat disjointed, lacking order and of course extremely intense!
I agree with u both ....I u/s with ease & also u/s constantly apologising when u dont need to..
....it's the rush to get things out as often not heard as a child.
Also strong chain of thght that ADHD is a natural, survival reaction to trauma at a young age. The stress, adrenaline etc due to ongoing trauma means yr brain learns to be over vigilant, cautious...always on yr toes.....so it's often the logical response.
It obv becomes an issue though as even when not in danger/traumatized U still move in the world as if u r. Gabor Mate talks about it.
i can totally understand how the subjects liam is explaining, jump from story to story, like a grasshopper. i lived with a narcissistic girlfriend for ,on and off, for 20 yrs, and to try and explain the damage they've done to you, you don't know where to start. well done for sticking to your morals, and i hope petes enjoying his holiday.
20 years I'd have killed myself narcissists really do absolutely fry your brain
When you feel confused all the time around them,wen there berating u,picking apart every mistake,and every right thing u do!cuz they can't stand wen u have a good day,look happy, or confident,they tend to latch on to empaths.
I've followed Liam for years and watched and observed as he got his monster sent down. I applaud Liam for bravely being so honest and open ❤
I’m new to all this. Is there anywhere I can watch the lives that James and Liam was talking about. ? When Liam and his father was doing lives years ago. ?
I believe Peter Gilletts accounts have been removed so they are no longer available.
Sounds like Liam needed this. Respect to James for letting him just vent for 2 hours. At times the interview is a little bit all over, but I like the rawness of it, every time he tells a part of his story, it opens up another memory he probably tried forgetting. I've watched a lot of these videos now and this is arguably the most intriguing and powerful one to date, you can't stop watching but I think that's credit to how Liam tells his life.
Followed this amazing man for years and loved watching this.
Liam is the type of guy that you wish was your dad, your brother, or your mate.
Much love Mr T
Big fan of Liam/Liam's podcast. A powerful, inspiring voice that needs to be heard.
So much empathy for this strong man. They say the truth will set you free so there’s no freedom for the person that should have been your protector! Great interview and have shared too many times to count. Much love and thank you.
Jan
Wow, what a great episode, James!! Liam is such a great guy. What's not to love about a guy who openly says how much he loves his mum and nan, not just once, but over and over. Liam's mum must be so proud of him. Please, please, please have Liam on for Part 2. He obviously has so many more stories to tell. I was so sad when this ended because I could have listened to Liam for hours more. Congratulations, Liam, for becoming everything your dad is not. Congratulations, James, on such a riveting podcast.
This is a brilliant interview! I love how you never cut anyone off and just give a patient, safe place to let the person flow. Not only good for raising awareness on the vast issues you cover but very therapeutic for the person being interviewed.
Brave , compelling and salute you Liam for standing up to a manipulating bully and not just any bully your own father who should have protected and nurtured you ...continue your good work to build up others and wish you every success 🙌
This man, is his own psychiatrist.
Respect 🙏
Omg listening to this was like listening to my own life story! And the irony is my dad is called Peter too. I’ve experienced first hand 90% of what you’ve said Liam! Thank you for sharing and keep being the absolute gent that you are
Liam Tuffs is the most articulate speaker out there. I absolutely love listening to him. What a geezer! 👍 👏
Liam articulated himself very well
and should be proud of his strength as a person
Mate you owe you Mum Nan and step dad a massive drink for the way you have been bought up and the values they have installed in you . Massive respect for the way you have handle your life
A massive Drink ??
😂😂
Cracking interview, I worked with Liam for a few years the funniest geezer i've ever met
Liam I salute you for standing up and speaking out and bringing down a predatory sick abuser. It's hard for anyone, but especially for someone who has to stand up to one of their parents, a person who is supposed to nurture and love us and want the world for us. You are one strong , strong man! I wish you all the best! Great interview James! Love from a Glasgow girl! x
Love this bloke so much, what his dad did would have broke a lesser person but he’s brushed himself off so many times xxx
Big respect to Liam. I worked with Pete in a call centre and like Liam says he definitely makes everything about him and wants to be the centre of attention, he eventually got sacked from the job and one night he followed one of the directors home from a night out and gave him a cheap shot down a dark road.
The best interview I’ve watched so far. Amazing, kind, true gentleman ♥️
We all adore Liam 🙌🏼
He is a genuine chap with a fantastic personality
Hands down one of the best interviews on TH-cam. Big up Liam and James for this one 🙌🏼🔥
I shared a flat with a narcissist. He married a much younger girl who ended up with ptsd. He lied, turned my friends against me, made up absurd accusations and would do anything if he thought he'd get away with it. Much respect to Liam as I know exactly what he's dealt with. I'm a nice guy, but if the narcissist died I'd cheer. They are utter cancer.
So true
Well done Liam for being so open, im sure you have helped many by your story. Loving and respecting your mum and Nan the way you do shows you are an honerable man
Respect to Liam for doing what he has by standing up to his dog of a dad and getting him put where he should be .
James I subscribed to Liam's podcast the other day on your recommendation from one of your podcasts. I had known about his podcast for some time but never looked into it.
New level of respect for Liam watching this. It takes guts to stand up and speak your truth and I admire this so much as someone that is processing at 54 year's old and I'd love to share my experiences and bring some seriously horrible people to justice. Well done Liam for standing up ❤
Soooooo likeable, open, honest , kind and more men than you know would be able to relate to this…bless you , absolutely a legendary interview
What an amazing interview! Liam you are so brave, and a true inspiration to people in many ways. Your Mum and Gran (rip🙏) must be so so proud of you. Huge respect to you.
This was such an interesting interview. I had never heard of Liam or his biological father until today. I am so glad that Liam's hurt has transformed him into someone with integrity. I admire his straight from the shoulder approach to life now. The betrayal he has suffered is so immense. I think he is generous towards the monster he was subjected to. I think this apology for a human being is a pyschopath, not a sociopath. I wish him every happiness and success in life. Great interview James.
Wow 😢 this breaks my heart. How Liam came through this trauma a good soul is commendable. I'm sure his mum is so proud. I went through similar circumstances with my eldest son and his father. His father thought he was a gangster. 🫣 didn't turn out as well for me. My son has the best of me and worst of his father. 😢😢 ill never give up on him. But his father introduced him to heroine. 😢 I wish my son came through it this positive. His story is so similar to Liam. My son is still struggling with his addiction. 😢
Liam is the real Gangster here ❤ what a great man
Wonderful man.
Brave Integrity…. “The truth will set you free”… I just delivered a lengthy eulogy to my beloved Father at his funeral.
I’m in my 60’s but his greatest lesson remains… Be true to yourself and listen to your heart 💙💙
I was married to an utter narcissist for 20 years. My own truth eventually brought freedom.
Thank you so much for your kindness xx
Brilliant podcast James. Liam was quite brilliant. What a brave, level headed, funny, down to earth guy.
Considering what he's been through it's extraordinary that he can be so together.
A true example to us all.
Well done Liam, please just keep doing what you're doing.
Wow. When you talked about the experience you've ever been through, and that the hard times you're going through now aren't anything compared to that horrendous time, it was impacting and honestly blew me away. It is so true. I've been through those times but I came through them.
Be proud of this interview, one of the many things I took from it was your respect for your lady, your mom, your stepsister and your nan. Beautiful. I really wish you well. I will definitely buy your book.
James another amazing interview.
Thank you both
Liam you are amazing. I could listen to you all day. I put this on as background whilst I did housework, had to keep rewinding and gave up on the work! Please keep speaking out
I love this bloke. Even after what he's been through, his sense of humour is fckn brilliant 👏 👏👏
Absolutely brilliant podcast, one of the best ones I have watched by far, Liam certainly is a very likeable straight talking down to earth man and a brilliant guest to have, you would never believe the pain and trauma he has been through, I hope his words and actions help others to speak out ❤
James,this is one of the best interviews you've done! I went through very similar things with my own father and Liam needs to be applauded for the brutal honesty!
What a fantastic interview. I had no idea of this story. What a genuine guy. To come through all that abuse and become this stand up guy. You’ve got to admire and respect that.
The second guessing thing he mentioned a few times is a normal reaction to gaslighting. The better the gaslighting the more you second guess yourself. Good job James. 👍
I love how he spoke about women.. this is a real man, proper gentleman. Amazing human x ❣️
Big up for this podcast james. One of the best. Liam is brutally honest and genuine and some of the stuff he has done must of been hard but still battled on. Fair play to this man
thought it was Ross Kemp's son
Well you're not very bright then
Hahahaha
No when u listen u will wish it was his dad
@@soilentgreen7 or you don't have a sense of humour 🤡
Beat me to it
Really enjoyed this. Have followed Liam for about 6 or 7 years now and was proud of him when he stood up to that dog, even though i dont know him personally lol. Watched all the lives over the years. The 'clown' comment made me laugh. I remember him well haha.
Keep doing you Liam. If it helps even 1 person then all been worth it. And it's helped loads!
One of the good guys.
He’s so respect, we need more of this in society nowadays. 💕
Liam, I’ve followed you for years on social media and I cannot believe what you have been through and be the amazing person you are today! I respected you before I saw this but after this I have another level of respect for you! You are an amazing person! Big respect for coming out and did you you did to put that scum bag in prison
Liam you are so brave mate , nothing but respect for you , keep being you and don’t ever change , your mum , Nan and step dad have raised a funny intellectual loving caring gentleman, stay strong we are all behind you . ♥️
Best interview so far.
Liam is so engaging and funny and articulate.
Amazing that he’s such a great character after being brought up with a dog like his dad 👌🏼
So much respect for him
This guy illuminates greatness.
Just a stunning podcast. Liam, you are so articulate, so true and so damn powerful. A true warrior.
Bless this strong and kind man, what blessing his mother and grandmother are
Good man with a good heart. The ones who hurt the most, help the most. Keep doing what you're doing Tuffs 💙
Wow I'm blown away 😳 this dude is just one of them people that you wana meet. I've been thru crazy shite but this is overwhelming. Completely fukd up journey thru life 😢 I have nothing but respect for this guy. I've always just gotten on with it the same. Sadly unable to unsee the crap I've seen, but it is what it is. You Move on. Love this podcast 🙌 Thanx for the variety. I'm positive you're helping a lot of people ✨️
Love Tuffsy, right character, honest, brilliant way with words and funny as f**k.
Wow, what an interview. Liam seems like such a genuine positive guy considering the shit he went through growing up. I also massively respect that he chose not to tell someone else's story. What a man.
Omg the mental torment while little liam was tripping, this is awful. What a nice intelligent honest man he is, testament to his lovely mum. Maybe write a book (or 3 lol) ❤️ another fab guest
Can’t help but like Liam, nothing but respect for him and what he has been through 👍
Actually found you via your 'fathers' videos I actually enjoyed his bits about the krays etc(mad to say now) but when I saw his video defending himself from you and then I went to find yours I knew without doubt you was telling the truth, well done for exposing the monster
Brilliant to have a mum and nan that we're so powerful.. your nan is watching over you and your family
I've followed Liam on facebook for years. I think he's a top guy and he speaks ftom the heart. Really good podcast too.
I could have listened to liam talking for absolute hours... i have a feeling his stories he could tell could have a 10 part series on this channel and still have more to tell.. x
Who is his father ?
@@christineclark1286Peter Gillette
Liam has his own podcast it's a great watch
It's not just for Liam that this has been cathartic, James, we all have to experience such horror stories that the human condition goes so sour yet you give the opportunity for this to happen. Kudos to you and thanks.
MY GOD THE STOREY ABOUT THE CLOSED POST OFFICE IS SOMETHING ELSE....well done james you are brilliant and this one is banging.....sending love to scotland from england!!!!
When you Google sally Dixon, Liams old man comes up as the first suggestion. Jeeeez what a fantastic bloke Liam has turned out to be. This 1 had me hooked. Best of luck to Liam on his future. A very bright aware caring thoughtful human being. Great work James.
Followed Liam since his 1st fb account & saw the back & forth videos between him & his sperm donor hes no dad.. Liam is a proper class geezer says it how it is, no ego etc he inspires many and is a brilliant family man. Would love to read his autobiography or have a 2nd part to this podcast. Wish him and his family love strength and positivity and health & happiness for the future ♡
My heart goes out to you as I listen to this Liam , you are a son any normal dad would be super proud of.
All the best mate
Liam i think youve got to thank your dad for 1 thing and thats making you the person you are today, total opposite too him 😊
what a lovely guy liam is.. full respect for the man and what hes gone through... great podcast as always james keep them coming pal x
Absolutely loved this! Incredible podcast, well done James and Liam, onwards & upwards, you are a credit to your Nan and Mum, hold your head high & keep laughing ❤
Thanks Jo ❤️❤️
Wow! Powerful… Liam you lead the way for other men to come forward! A genuine man who wears his heart on his sleeve!!
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What a fascinating story- i hope someone makes this into a film 🎥 Courage, Strength, honesty, empathy and above all else - keeping a sense of humour- its a powerful sheild ❤
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Brilliant interview with an amazing example of how despite the worst parenting you can have, you can turn it around and be a better person.
What an incredible amazing man! I'm so sorry he went through these horrific years. His mom and grandmother must have been lovely amazing women. Well done and Liam, keep doing what you're doing; you are a great teacher by being who you've become!❤
By the way, I don't think his father is a sociopath, but rather a psychopathic narcissist (malignant narcissist). True psychopaths aren't cowards, but malignant narcissists are when it comes down to it. Malignant narcissists have both personality disorders at the same time. Psychopaths are highly narcissistic, but miss the core component that a pathological narcissist have (shame, insecurity). Like his father beating his new wife about speaking Spanish, is like it was making him feel less than her. He can't have that. Acting shameless when this core component is triggered. They can go off on anything and are sadistic. And he said other things that reminded me of a malignant narcissist, because a psychopath would act differently in that certain subject.
But I'm not a therapist, so I might be wrong.
Liam you are the man you are because of your mum and Nan
My Nan told me once and it’s always stuck with me god rest her soul is
“ behind every good straight man is a great woman”
Yours clearly are your mum and Nan and credit to them both
Big respect to you brother your a credit to them both 💙
If you haven't watched any of liam's own vids go watch them. He is a genuinely nice geezer who speaks the truth, isn't afraid to speak out but best of all is hilarious. Im lucky enough to work for his cousin who is also a top bloke, whenever we have met liam or done work for him its always been a great day. Awesome man to be around and listen to and genuinely would help anyone out. Obviously he has gone through some shit but none of it reflects with his personality. If all of us were like him the world would be a better place. All in all a Diamond geezer who deserves some recognition.
The genuine gentleman that is Liam, who I've followed for a while, a classic podcast 🤝