Why Indian parents hate love marriages
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Parents think their kids are childish enough to decide with whom to get married but adult enough to get married and have babies
Every parent known love relationship doesn't exist 💔
It's just the transaction - girl needs money, and boy to satisfy his desires
@@Anime_Animation_Illustration true,
Not always though it's rare@@Anime_Animation_Illustration
@@Anime_Animation_Illustrationbro thinks he is on something deep
@@AmanSingh-qv6pdnhi dost at the end wahi h sachai
Love jaisa kuch nhi h
Affection h which u can have even with me
Agr tum mere saath 5 hour spend kro i assure u you will like me and might remember me in ur free time
In the same way tum kisi aur ke saath din raat ho toh affection toh hoga na
Baki sb transaction hi h
Parents hate love marriage and childern hate marriage itself😂
😂
Becs kids know nothing
Damn
@@anshu5518well seeing the consequences of divorce and the allegations that can be filed against u if someone (girl) wanted to wreck u
U will be wise to not marry a woman
Why are you marrying children?
Love marriage is seen as bad in India because Indian men still see the women in their family as a treasure chest. They see her as property and any other man being with her is seen as intrusion into that property. Indian men don't see women as human.
@@barunjena4287 karliya generalize Indian men are like this like that like bharake ke men ine princess Ki Tara dekrahe hai
@@saibharath1236Buddy it is true, majority of men will not accept that their sister is dating a guy cuz they see it as a direct attack on their honour, that someone is looting their treasure. The majority of desi men really don't see women as humans, only objects. That's why that "no seal, no deal" memes got viral.
@@gggg00001yeah even I say this no seal no deal thing and its weird that all these people who say this are educated like it was taught in school but still they have zero knowledge I agree with it like but why always Indian men like this like that I don't know abt the first thing you mentioned because most the friends I know are cool with their sister bf hey just tease them not so serious as you said
And you see husband property as your BAAP ka property for ailmony
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Coming from a girl:
1. Parents never let you be in a relationship or even close to a man and then expect you to marry an unknown guy and make babies with him.
2. Love marriages have high divorce rates coz girls are usually independent and educated in those case. They take their stand. They aren't oppressed.
3. For many Indian parents it's a dream to do it the traditional way. You know, the groom/bride hunting, etc.
4. In many cases parents might understand their child, but wouldn't be able to openly support them coz of relatives and society pressure.
5. Mostly the uneducated/ unemployed grannnys or aunties who have never stepped onto the new / outer world think they know better for you than you yourself.
I don't get it, are we doing marriages for society or for ourselves?
Mostly 2 wala point se ladke bohot darte hai , koi na koi cahiya oppress karne ke liya 😢😢😢
@@Ashish01287Nhi didi, oppression aur education ka koi link nahi hai. Love marriages mai bhi husband wife ko oppress kar sakta hai. Maine kiya hai.
Basically what I think aaj kal ki marriage purane style se nahi chal sakti aaj kal husband wife dono ko effort daalne chiye in a marriage jo ki har koi nahi kar pata that's why aaj kal marriage successful nahi hoti be it love or arrange. That's what I think.
2nd point 😂 u're an idiot women initiate divorce for financial resources
Love marriage is good , but the reason most men also don't choose to be get married in this scenario (marry a independent woman) because they are scared of divorce, alimony, fake abuse cases and all , here many men have been victim of those
"Some" greedy and woman bit*hes who uses this law as a business and their main raw material is a men , which is why most of the men would choose to be single rather than living a brooke life and giving alimony to these ho*es , sorry if you don't like the way of my talking but here I am talking you by considering both perspectives , and as a female I really really hate such women (also a lawer) I handled multiple cases on such issues and both of the opposites need to change their structural system...
One of the reason we have less divorce in arrange marrage is- "jo log khudki marzi se shadi nahi kar paye wo divorce kya lenge."😂😂 One of my female friend is not even allowed to wear track suit for jogging/running. But bechari saalo se tolerate kar rahi hai.
@@LoloHjj how is this tolerate?
Lol isme bhi bichari 😂
@@LoloHjjbro it's obvious society pressure aur log kya lagege mindset that is why divorce is less many people live there whole life and die in a toxic marriage
Aesa ni hai..divorce rate aur blackmail love or arrange marriage bhot hori hai ajkal..fake cases ..aur uppar se ladki ke gharwalo ka involvement shadi ke bad
@@LoloHjj mere kuch friend hai jinki bilkul nhi jamti fir bhi jee rahe kya hi kar sakte hai
Majority of these Indian parents have Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I don't get it why no one talks about it, we don't have to study all these things like why they treat their adult children like kids and other things, just study about the NPD and you''ll start connecting all the dots. Our country is suffering from this epidemic and still no one talks about this. Please talk on this topic Shwetabh
True!!!!
No I don’t think so. They just want to protect their children.
@@debadattagiri9483 ghnta
Truest thing ever! My cousins and I discuss this all the time and laugh about it!
@@debadattagiri9483 you are also brainwashed into believing that, that's how they control you, they will hit you like an animal and then they tell you that they want the best for you. Wake up use your mind, it's common sense but these people have brainwashed the whole generation
I think one reason is that in our country being in love with someone has many connotations (probably sexual) attached to it as if its almost vulgar to love especially when you are a teenager. Also many parents or even some siblings (brothers mainly) have a toxic attachment with their daughters/sisters.Like in those medieval times when people use to view their family women as some ufc belt or something.
Yes
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@@unexpectedrush6447 true 💯
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I'm currently 19yrs old and my whole life I've been dealing with helicopter parenting,i wasn't able to communicate clearly and wasn't great in studies,neither had problem solving skills nor critical and rational thinking and because of that my self-esteem was completely destroyed.at 17 i started working on myself,started watching meaninful and informative content before that i used to only watch tech and game videos,during my childhood i grew up dumb due to helicopter parenting and i also have zero friends to talk to.If anyone is reading this remember it's never too late to change yourself and things around you.Please take care of yourself❤
How did you start to change urself especially in the department of that dumbness and zero friends problem... Plzz if you can elaborate😭
@@demonsamurai8707 start watching acharya Prashant too
@@mrigendrajha2690 from my experience (can be improved more),
1. start questioning everything, be with the question, finding answers will take time understand by dissecting into simple terms .
2. content is a very important part you have to be aware of what you are consuming, learn from videos like this or you can start reading books.
3. think before you react to things, its ok if you mess up but start filling your loop holes by spending time slowly you will start understanding things in a rational, skeptic way
Yea bro I can understand you 😢
Mine is similar tho 😊
Hmm, so 4 reasons:
1. They care about society more.
2. They don't trust your choices.
3. Bad publicity.
4.
4. For your secure future
@@RinTohsaka-dn3lp 4. No dahej
@@RinTohsaka-dn3lpdowry
@@RinTohsaka-dn3lpghanta, my parents think they could do better when my sister married her high-school classmate, same caste, both IIM lol
@nihamaybe great sister
After reading the comments i reallllyyy feel that this is the last generation getting seperated from the love of their lives and getting forced by their parents to marry some very random unknown guy..also, in some cases the parents do agree ( after a lot of chaos ) but they shockingly stop talking to their child and just the dialogues “apni shakl mt dikhana aaj k baad” “tumhari iss ghr m koi jgh nahi h” and etc! Likkeee howww can u punish ur child ( that too this harsh punishment ) for choosing their life partner, their happiness, a person with whom they have to spend their entire life???
Imagine howww creepy it would be for a girl to all of a sudden know an unknwon guy, get rokafied, get married, leave her parents, her family, her whole life behind, go live with another completely strange family that she has known for what?… just some months !? and expected to bring so called “good news” as soon as possible?!! Like if this isnt objectifying women than what is? What about her feelings? Her comfort? Her approval? Or her real love?
Butttt THE SOCIETAL NORMS IN INDIA are such that they are forced to do so..
THIS IS SOOOOO VERY BASIC THING THAT MOSTTTTT PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND..
What if shiv ji and parvati ji were of diff religion? Kya vo pyaar na krte? Kya shaadi na krte?
For ppl, Love marriage is very good until and unless the person is of their standard and religion…WHYYY??? PYAAR TOH DONO CASES M HEE H NA WHETHER IT IS SAME CASTE OR DIFF!
telling ur damnnnn childddd to forcely get into love with any person is the most inhumane thing u can do to them!
Some would also say ki humne toh shaadi bchho ki sehemati se hee krai h..pr tumne kbhi pyaar krne ki sehemti toh nhi di shaadi s pelhe..unke paas koi aur option toh thaa hee nahiii naa..unhe feelings ki azzadi toh kbhi mili hee nahiiii..kyaa pataa vo azaadi m vo jitna khush hote vo abhi utne nhi h!
Every thing will remian behind..everybodyyyy will die somedayy,,, lettttt ur children live a happy peaceful lifeeee without putting over them the pressure of forced or arranged marriage!!!!!
Velli
Great but hey, religion, God, and caste are made up illusions, they don't exists so take them as a fantasy but not reality.
@@adib7828 wahh bhai gazab soch hai 🤣
Truer words were never spoken. I am so with you on this. Especially the part where she is expected to bring good news after getting married into a family with a guy she has only known for months (some cases are an exception where they might be given a year worth of courtship period) when her whole life she was asked to maintain social distancing from a person of the opposite gender.
How to send this to your parents without sending this to your parents
Notice how domestic abuse by men to women was more prevalent in the past? It's still a thing but not as rampant as before, where the hype for arranged marriage has died down a little
Why do i have a feeling it has to do with the fact that this is a consequence of a marriage where either party has no feelings for each other? Probably because the guy feels pressurized to marry that chick and feels like things are forced?
I'm not advocating wife beaters because that's a genuinely horrible thing to do, but I have a feeling that this might play a role in genesis of such behaviour
Education, awareness and better quality of life results in lower in such crimes
Maybe it could be true. But I'd like to differentiate between 2 things.
Forced Arranged Marriage and Arranged Marriage.
Former one is what leads to suffering. Later one is equivalent to love marriage In my eyes.
bhai chick kya hota hai?
Arrange marriages have entire family as the stakeholders hence divorce becomes matter of the entire family not just the couple. And arrange marriage couples typically have children sooner than love marriage couples hence divorce becomes complicated. That's why divorce rate is less in AM. Parents glorify this by saying AM is more adjusting lol its more repressive and mainly on the women. Women are expected to adjust everyday every minute. It worked when women didn't have anything else in life but modern women are educated, financially independent and have a career why should they compromise their life?
I am a Hindu bengali, and grew up in Northern India. In hindu Bengali society no one gives a damn about caste even during marriage. But I was shocked while growing up how caste played a role in hindi belt. While in our society "love marriage" is very common. My sister, all of my friends choosed their own partners. Even I am getting married to my GF of 7 years this year and both of our family said nothing. This "love marriage" hatred is a major problem in hindi belt.
Ami west bengal thaki amar dada ra onekei love marriage korechhe । Barir sobai accept kore niyechhe karon ।amader cast same । But amader family te cast niye kon problem nei । Shudu kon st chhele meyer sanghe biye korle manbena । Ar inter-religion kora jabena jemon muslim -hindu marriage। But ekhon onek poribar achhe jara love marriage,ba inter caste marriage allowed kore na । Amar ekta Brahmin meye friend achhe । Or family khub conservative। Emnki o education niyeo । Oder family te meye der porai teo temon ekta chai na । Kintu oder baba ma dui jonai both are graduated। Eta dekhei abak ami । O family voyer karone any cast chhele sanghe prame korteo voy pai । Karon family accepted korbena । Ei jugeo ei rokom family dekhe ami abak ।
Amar toh maa baba i love marriage koreche@@RakeshDey-rt4yk
Damn dude!! You got some smart army their, here I'm from south and these losers marry their own relatives sister or brother and reproduce ugly disabled babies with genetics issued. I might have to move to Kolkata or pune
congratulations on the marriage brother
Hi Akash, sounds like you and were raised in similar environment, my family moved to NCR, I am a bengali hindu, grew up outside of Bengal. i think its more of progressive vs traditional mentality. There are a lot of Punjabis who do love marriage, vs in my experience the Baniya north indians are more likely to do arranged. Also went to a government college where I came across Telegu people, they can also be similarly ultra conservative. Not all, but mostly.
I also think it boils down to your family net progressive minded people vs traditional mentality people. This can sometimes also be related to education level, but its not a guarantee.
no parent is gonna watch this
@Akash.kumar.1762 We who are gonna be the future parents don’t need it as much as we present kids want our parents to know 😂
@@Heybudd91True...khud ki problem ki solution ho nhi rha hai...baccho ki problem ki solution soch rha hai 😂
India mai parents faltu mai love marriage k against hai😂
Ek baar bol do bachho ko khud kamao khud apne liye partner bhi dekhlo.
Dar jayege bachhe pair pakad lenge bolege please property do shadi karva do
Khud love marriage kar k nibha k dikhao 😂 ye challenge do bachho ko.
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i am watching this just flushed my kids 5 mins ago.
I Love how you used the word RELATIONSHIP only instead of separating love marriage and arranged marriage. I mean whether it is a love/arranged marriage one commits to stay together i.e relationship. I feel Relationships in majority have problems because of serious communication and compatability assuming both the parties are clean. And yeah, Helicopter parenting is a serious issue still in our society.
Its all about caste for Indian parents
Indian parents are often stuck on caste when it comes to marriage, insisting on same-caste matches. This outdated thinking holds back progress and keeps people divided. This needs to stop.
Well obviously they will think of caste afterall
Nowadays caste is everywhere
So why blaming parents
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@@arnav_negi2005 yes bs apke class 1 ke English teacher ki caste kya thi, ya jo apka first teacher that monther ke alwa uski caste kya thi suna hai ki agr wo kisi lower caste ka ho to apki log respect nahi karenge and aap life me kuch nahi kr payo ge 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆
@@arnav_negi2005bcuz of this thinking india is backwards
Ma'am but after graduation job lene sarkar ke pass jao to pata nahi wo kyu caste denkhe baith jaye hai @@rupamkumari4441
Is reservation not responsible for divide
Or conversions
the last part about self exploration was very enlighting and deep watched it more than once to understand what you were speaking about , for sure going to visit this after a while to see how i process it after some period of time
Thanks part of budhha's 4 noble truth
Usually parents do not trust our choice they think we are still kids we cant take our own decision so most of the time they are being protective.
But even for an "arranged marriage" partner, it cannot be guaranteed that he or she will turn out to be a good life partner.
Protection ❌
Oppression ✅
It's just backward mindset
@@harsh.d.rajputif u are not ready to make your own decisions then u are not ready for marriage either
@@harsh.d.rajputare you kid
Love you and your content Shwetabh bhai. Been a admirer since 2019, your content, specially the rudest book ever has helped me immensely (brought both the versions, will buy the Attack mode soon with my first salary).
Thank you, for adding so much value in my life and helping me work through my inner "constitution" ❤❤
Aur londe kya haal chal 😏
This channel changed my way of thinking .
Love doesn't know caste, religion, linguistic, ethnicity....
That is the reason parents hate love marriage.😂😂😂
Religion, caste, god all are made up there is no fcking proof these things exists so I'm an athiest going for an athiest girl 😅
helicopter parenting, basically my parents!!!!!!! please talk more!!!!!
Same here
@@ms-oi4gc lekin parents ko bhi kab tak blame krte rahenge
khud research kar bhai
Not blaming parents. Maine khud bhi research ki and dekha ki kaise nikle bahar iss parenting se, but last mai conclusion yahi nikla ki padhai karke parents se alag rehna start karo. I would like to hear if shwetabh has some other perspectives to give.
@@ms-oi4gc yupp...
Only solutions are -
1. Stop pleasing them
2. Make permanent distance from them
Acharya prashant ko sunta hu. Aisi ghatiya caste based vulgar shaadi karne ka toh sawal hi paida nhi hota. Karunga toh behtareen shaadi karunga apni marzi se nhi toh maa baap ne zabardasti ki toh maa baap tak ka ghar chhor dunga
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@@chahakproduction3534dimaag tumhara kharab ho chuka h jo in arrange vulgar marriages ko support kartr ho
so my mom is helicopter mom !!!!!! but i think she is beyond just "helicopter" she is "fighter aircraft" "heavy-lift helicopter" "jumbo jet"
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Your mom so fat she weighs more than an helicopter
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I spilled my coffee
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This got very deep and I'm grateful for it. Thanks for the perspective bade bhai.
Especially detachment from the expectation part was really helpful. Love and support ❤️.
That's quiet a compelling Outro Chief 😂🤣🤣😅😂
He is Awasthi and his wife’s surname is Mishra. Both are Brahmins. They did love marriage but within their caste. He never addressed it because he let the his viewers form theories.
😂 acha
Bhai toh kya love same caste mein nhi ho skta??? Love is love. Zaruri nhi h ki same ya different caste ho.
I've seen many of my brahmin friends don't eat fish or meat. But others eat pork, mutton and many things almost every week. So this is a sacrifice for meat eaters who married to them.
@@domonkor7667 I'm a brahmin. And so many people in my community each meat. So, caste doesn't make sense these days
@@medicalgirl4110 maybe. But some of my friends don't eat meat. When we go to restaurants and those places. They always order veg. If we offer them then also they refuse.
Caste is not big factor according to me there life style and other people life style are different.
shwetabh bhaiya looking fresh and clear skin!!
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Very funny sirr 😮😊😃👍@@arroxelx3980
I actually feel happy about him, when he grow it feels like someone in my family is growing, for his and for my big brother my emotions are same, I wish him best life. ❤
@@arroxelx3980 bhai mai ladki hu aur mai duniya bhar ka skincare karti hu, still skin not clear as shwetabh bhaiya.
@@ms-oi4gc...bahan skin care krne ki kya jaroorat h ,,,jaisi di h nature ne ...usme koi burayi nhi h
Arrange marriage is when boys depend on their parents to make an adult decision for a life partner. Think about it.
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Is marriage really important?
Can a marriage without s*x exist?
I want to marry but the thought of being physical with someone frightens me
So I'm aiming to remain single forever
Yes
No, marriage isn’t important
Asexual?
@@shrutirani8768
1. Depends on your personal choices and your situation but all in all, everyone needs a companion. Ek saathi sabko chahiye hota hai because we're humans, we're social animals and all of us feel lonely from time to time. Sometimes very lonely. Aisa lagta hai ki bas kisi ka saath hota toh achha rehta. How long will it be possible for you to keep feeling like this? However it's not necessary to get married abhi ke abhi hi as society says, you can get married whenever you're ready for it.
2. Not really, it can't. Physical intimacy is a crucial aspect of marriage. Because humans have desires and sometimes those desires get really really intense and out of control. Specially for the husband, for a man of a certain age physical love becomes a need and not just a leisure, because a young man with average or above average levels of testosterone has a really really high sex drive. And desire is really intense for young women too.
You're not really alone, by the way, quite a few women in India are afraid of being physical with someone, specially of being physical with someone who is a stranger, and who they don't really know or aren't in love with (ie, arranged marriage) and the same goes for some men too, actually, they feel like they won't be able to get physical with a woman they aren't in love with.
Quite a few women are also afraid to be physical with someone just in general because they're just inexperienced in the matters of physical intimacy and/or they haven't yet explored their desires. At all. A lot of women in India are in their mid-20s and they haven't even experienced a single orgasm yet. So it's natural. Again, surprisingly, the same goes for some men.
Hope all of this answers your questions and gives you a little perspective😅
@@spacemann1425 I understand
I'm 18
I've had boyfriends in the past. But now I'm aiming to be alone
Cause everyone just wants to be physical. I think at some point after marriage. I will have to engage in this physical thing. So it's better to be alone. As I will not be able to satisfy the desires of my future partner
Idk why I feel impure. I've held hands with my last boyfriend. He was the first guy I've held hands with but I feel really impure now
2:26 loved the way you left in undefined 💯
please explain... why u want it to be undefined???
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Happy birthday Shwetabh Bhai 🎂🥳 .
Wishing you a happy and healthy life . Thanks for everything 🙏.
Bro, I really really love your videos, admire your work !!
Basically parents apni dhons jamane se peeche nai hatne wale .Unko pata hai force karke woh galat kar rahe hai par jab tak unko apni galtiyo ki koi saza nai milti unko koi farak nai padta .in short its excessive privelege .
Teri toh lag gaye bey… 😂
Parents ko bhi puri tarah blame nhi kar sakte. Ek adult ko agar force kiya ja rha h, to us isnan ki bhi to resposnibility h. Kuch accoutnability h ya nhi
I agree with you, they think you are born to serve them, if you disagree with them on some points then they will start tortu*e emotionally...
I agree with you, they think you are born to serve them, if you disagree with them on some points then they will start tortu*e emotionally...
Happiest birthday bhaiyaa
Thank you for existing ❤
Happy birthday Shwetabh bhaiyaa ❤🫂, I can't explain to you how much you mean in my life...aap nahi hote to shayad mei ab tak ek jinda laash hota..take care bhai...humesha khush rehna❤
Sir Aaj kuch alag glow hai face pe bohot handsome lag rahe ho... 💯💯
Indian parents sab hate hi karte hai. ..and controlling hite hai ...life barbard kar dete hai ...mere parents ne to meri life tabah kar di
Mera bhi, I hate my parents...
And my dad is the worst human being I've seen in my life
True
My grandparents destroyed my mother's life and mine😂😂😂😂😂 arrange marriage tha 😢😢
Happy Teacher's day Shwetabh 🎉❤
Maine Bhi Love Marriage (Intercaste) Kiya hai Kuch Mahine Pehle, Bahut Muskil Tha Apne Gharwalo ko Manana Fir Inlaws ko manana...Upar Se Berojgar bhi tha, Bs Meri Partner ne Mera sath kabhi nahi chhoda...or end me Sab Maan Gye ❤
happy birthday shwetabh bhai ❤
Mere parents ka full support hai, pr girlfriend nhi hai 😂😂
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Bhai tumhara alag dukh hai 😅
I'm a live example of helicopter parenting. My life is hell but according to my father I'm living the best life 🙏
99% Indian parents lack the depth to understand the points made in this video.
Happy Birthday Shwetabh bhai❤. U changed lives of me and many others. U deserve every bit of happiness of the universe. God bless you. And yes, attack mode kharida ek week pehle, abhi faad raha hu daily.😈💯
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My parents when I talk abt love marriage :
9:57
😅😅😅Sahi kaha meri mummy to muh pe bolti mujhe....tumhe koi ladki milna to dur baat karna bhi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@SKtheFighter-xv1hp best never talk to girls
@@AdityaKawadkar-wf1se par sab log gay nhi hote na vro
@@kartikay12 mein yeh isliye keh raha hu ki society mein ek ladka ladki dost nhi ho sakte. Judgement pass hota hai.
My mother😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
To be really honest I think our parents are just backward in mindset they don't have a life besides interfering in their children's lives also the unconditional love of parents for their kids is a myth because their are definitely conditions also don't forget honour killings.Ab saare maa baap ek jaise nahi hotey lekin jo maa baap bure hotey hai unko koi kuch nahi bolta.
I really love to hear spritual perspectives,like the one you have given in this video.please continue it your upcoming videos,when you think that it can be given.
Shwetabh bro a bit off topic but achhe lag rahe hain skin glow kar rahi hai apki. 🤟
Btw apse req hai please scientific studies jahan se aap karte hain uske sources bata dijiye kai baar apki batai hui baaten mai friends ko batata hoon to wo kabhi source bhi maang sakte hain par net par 25 studies hain jisme different baate ho rahi hain to please authentic sources jahan study ke tareeke bhi mention ho'n unko bata dijiye
Psychology online website par books or research papers h waha se study kr sakte
Acharya Prashant also tried to simplify things in terms of अहम (ego) and so many things in our life that are not even real but we believe that it is real.
Bhai mujhe aaj pehli baar pata chala ki Sachin awasthi comedy reels ke alawa bhi kuch content banata h aur serious baatein bhi karta h😂
Happy Teacher's Day to one of the greatest teacher of our life "Shwetabh Ganguar"!
So i get the core thinking that's love marriage are good for mental well being than an arrange marriage. Ok well and good but what about the person who never fall in love ever once for his entire life time then what's the solution??
Stay single like me
first you should know , that arrange marriages have highest divorce rate in india and love marriage have the highest succes rate in india and even in whole world. You decide what to do
Parents, society support so much in arrange marriage
Opposite in love marriage
Forget about support they make it more tough
I am aromantic and i had told this to my parents since i was 15 and i already told my parents that i am gonna marry an asian woman but i think they are playing with me so i guess wyen the time comes they will show there true faces
They gon be so shocked lmao even though you've already told em💀💀
Shwetabh Bhai acharya Prashant pr bhi ek reaction video banao
@@ranurai6452 mtlb
kya bola tha ranu rai ne@@Satyavachan609
Bhai sachin ki comedy video shorts bhi dekho, bhut accha bnata h bhai too gud👌👌
Shwetabh bhau, PLease make some videos on Narcisstic Parents
Mere family me bhi jitne logo ne love marriage ki thi unki tut gayi
Baache lad ke nikal gaye aur phir unka divorce ho gaya aur mere ghar wale mujhe samjha rahe hai ki tu khabardaar love marriage karne ki sochi bhi toh😂😂😂
Bhai sidha bol deta tu bhi ki tension na lo.. love marriage karne ke liye phele kisi se love to ho.. idhar koi set hi nahi hori..
Love marriage kya khak karunga 😂
Ladki ko naukrani bana ke rakhoge to kon rahega sath
It's like stock market but risk are in everything
@@Chhhottaaadonn bhai uss hisab se ladki ko chuno jo maa baap aur tumhe sab ko kush rakhe
I'm going through this, we have the same religion, tho my family belongs to a certain caste but her family doesn't believe in the caste system as there should be no caste system in our religion, financially both families are stable, I'm 24 currently I'm doing business on my own from 21 age with just little financial support from my family, from past 6 months I had to do alot to convince my family
18:54 bhai yeh question dimag hila diya
Thank u shewtabh sir apke sath video dekhke bohot kuch sikne ko milta hain aur entertainment bhi hojata hain
Shwetabh Sir looking extra handsome today lol
this is a good video
Imagined Shwetabh Bhai Dancing on Thay Intro Song for No Reason 🤔🕺🕺💃
Please re-upload " young Indians are abandoning their parents" video not able to find it
Send me link when it gets upload
Edit it " parents are abondoning narcissistic parents who want Thier sons to act like slaves
Bhai wait kr hi rha tha 2 hr se
Aaj lgta hai shwetabh bhai jyada kaam kr liye
Happy Teachers day to my big bro Shwetabh🎉😊
Parents faltu mai villain ban rahe hai
Bachho ko challenge do ki ja pese kama aur apna partner bhi khud dekh le. 😝
Tab pata chalega nibhana kitna mushkil hai. Love is blessing. Jo har kisi k nasib mai nahi.
Parents ko aaram se apni life jini chahiye.
Look at this fool , jo abhi tk paise nhi kamata hai , aur baap ki roti tod rha hai . Yahan bhai sab job krte hain , ghar se dur rehte hain . Connection todna hua to easily tod skte hain , but nhi todte hain kyunki parents ki care krte hain , but parents society ki care jyada karti nazar aa rhi h
would love to see a collab between Shwetabh and Dr. K
Jab shi shikaha nhi mili ho samaj ko to bilkul doosre ke bedrooms me ghuste hai. Thqts the actual reality of Indian parents there is no other reason.
Happy birthday shwetabh bhaiya🎉🎉❤
I just realized I was raised in a somewhat helicopter environment, tf💀
😂 we all are at least 60%
I'm amazed how to video started and how it ended
Bnde n achi video bnai hai or shwetab n b acha pov dya hai
Sachin video ❤❤❤
That's absolutely true, There is no Pleasure in life Literally After 2020 Bhai iska solution kya hai?
@Priyanshu_R. I think there is, Bus Kisi cheez mein indulge ho jaao aur ghar se bahar Rooz niklo Kisi bhi Bahane se lekin fresh air zaroor lo sun mein zaroor se baitho bhale 10 minute ke liye, aur Carrier Mein aage badhte chalo jaao.
@@HimanshuinSearchOfSomethingNewYess Bhai Har Din 30 minute Important hai Bahut ghumna
Happy B'day Bhai❤️🎊🤩
Review Kangana's lallantop interview. Would love to understand her pshycology. She seems very confident and mostly unaware about her foolishness.
I hope your mother is doing good.
Thank you
kangana ki batein sunke apna IQ kyu kam kare bhai . yhi kaam reh gya kya
Happy Birthday Shwetabh bhaii❤️🫂
To the audience:
"Tu tho single hai tu kyu dheak raha hai ?" 🤡
Btw I liked my own comment
Main actually single nahi hoon bhai. Aur meri takleef bhi same hai. Me and this girl, we really love each other, but. Yahi dikkat hai.
Mai nahi dekh raha bhai. Bas funny videos pai reaction dekhta hu
मनोरंजन 😅
Oh bhai personal mat ho amma behan pe aa jaunga 😠😠
It’s all about money and status ……if you have fall in love with well stable and rich person …..they are going to say yes ……. This is applied In case of both boys and girls
Then u r wrong my cousin's bf belonged to obc was super rich they had 13 year's relationship n family was nice too but my uncle didn't marry her because we belong to Brahmin caste..they said Brahmin ho k neech jaat me shadi kregi to mar jynge aur uska rista Tod diya
@@gladiator1047😢i am also Brahmin i regret being born in this caste
@@gladiator1047 aaj k jamane m bhi jaati wad m mante ho aap log ?
@@veronicadas7134 no not me pr family k bade log to mante h strictly ni to meri cousin ka itna acha rltn ni todte ladka lakho me ek tha wo pr phir bhi ni ki
@@veronicadas7134 aur meri hi ni family abhi bhi bahut log h mante h isliye to honour killing hoti hai
Hi Shwetabh, Hope you are doing well.
I request you to make a video about concept mentioned in the book "It Didn't Start with You By Mark Wolynn".
Bhai you should read blood on the tracks
Its a great book and i think you have a psychological background would like it
Idea: react to your own old vids and see if they still stand.
give me a shoutout if you do this.
❤😂nice explain
Pehle bata dete Shwetabh bhai, parso hi dekhi thi ye video, ab commentry ke sath dobara dekhni pad rahi h 😅
nice video bro
Han bro
My mom said me that try to get love with a girl of your caste , How ?😂
Wish youuu a very happy birthday bhaiya 🥳🥳❤❤🎉🎉🥰... May you live long and may God bless you and your family ❤😊
Debate Part2
Yessssss
Bhai/bhen arrange marriage ho yah love jitna time lo utna lo but decision zindagi bhar ka pyar kamm hota jata hai or responsibility bhadhne lgti hai use time par tumara partner kitna supportive or understanding hai wo dekh lena!!, Partner worth it hoga parents khudh haan bol dengey phele apni aukaat banao or arrange marriage mein bhi 1 saal ka janne ke liye hi time lo 6 mahine mein bhi logon ke rang nhi dikhte hai agar bilkul hi against hai parents toh! , Mein aaj love marriage krke baithi hun and I'm very happy with my partner as well he also ghanta farak nhi pdhta society se inlaws or parents ne accept krliya hai that's it
Best never fall in love😅. Society judges ' ek ladka ladki dost nhi ho sakte'
@@AdityaKawadkar-wf1se No bruh I'm not saying don't fall in love, you fall but grow in love also that's what real love is aur haan sahi baat boli eke boy and girl dost nhi ho sakhte rubbish!! Aisa kuch nhi hota hai bina koi feelings ke bhi eke boy or girl dost ho sakhtey hai.
@@neelimasharma8829 par didi jab log judge karte hain ke voh baat kar rahe to insecurity hoti.
@@AdityaKawadkar-wf1se bruh kyun soch raha hai itna zindagie bahut choti hai bhai , unki bakwaas baatein unki mentality bata rhi hai toh apni dost kyun kharab kr rha hai dosti continue rakh Bhai time wapis nhi aata hai yeh 4 logon ki baatein sunna chor de khush rahega bahut.
Assam?
32:52 I like this segment
My comment is going to get gayab but still likh deta hoon!
people want caste based marriages, but even if your gotras are different there is a high risk of genetical disorders due to caste endogamy kinda thing nowadays
getting married in different caste can be healthy practice for healthy upcoming generation but that thing is not gonna get happen in India
because like in general due to social media and political parties caste thing is like "Bada Chada Ke Rakhi Jaa Rahi" on the name of Dharam
even reservations today for OBCs was due to more of economical burden than social (can check a video of " open letter" on it ) but now people think it is like varna thing (which it isn't)
India needs to generalise the VARNA on the basis of work more than 3000 years old chali aa rahi pratha which is even part of post vedic scriptures like puranas and smiritis
in vedas only rig veda mentions varna in purush sukta but there Brahman (the GOD) is formless hence the caste origination is kinda flawed from beginning. (how formless identity have foot and mouth etc, that is just a philosophy understand that brothers. )
A funny thing- there is a friend of mine who is searching for a "crush" yup you read right "crush " of the same caste. like LOL
i know a lot of khichdi is made by me
and yup a interesting point from the scriptures
you can clearly sense post composition mixing in puranas and itihas like when the couple are of different varnas all of the sudden in the stories of puranas somehow they becomes of same varna with plot twist ki kisi raja ki beti hai machli ke pett se janmi lekin pali nishads(forest-dwellers) ke bich (woh alag baat hai yeh bhi likha hai koi apne varna dharam ke illaba kaam karta hai dusre varna ka toh woh dusre varna ka ho jata hai lekin main characters par implement hi nahi hota yeh ) like LOL bruhetc like samjh ata hai baad mein addition hai.
even koi shrap wagera aa jata hai kahin se like talking of yadu ji his wife is said to be daughter of rishi brahman but was cursed not to marry in brahmans like kinda try kiya hai commonly defend karne ka addition kar karke purana stories mein to justify caste LOL
so caste on dharam is not something to be taken mostly in regard kyunki actually starting se toh hum sab mix hi hain (scientifically )
This is true, I'm from south and people are here ugly and fck, they have so many genetic problems I had friends in school who had one centimeter fingers and 2 full fingers on right hand. Their legs and height is not completely normal their iq levels are sub par, inbreeding and caste marriages are not recommended, better live alone or stay single lol because the amount of stress these parents have had only known by them, like constant visiting for hospitals and the lines and the traffic and the time and energy like fck off. Better marry slow or late and be healthy and have a healthy baby with someone who is in no connection with your any of the family members or relatives, it's much better that way
Acha likha h, BTW nhi gyb hua tumhara comment 😂👍🏻, I agree to your points,
bs ek general question hai (not essentially favouring same caste marriage)
- Inbreeding depression to tb hoga na jb bohot close relation k log babies krein' jaise ki muslims me practice itne time se chli aa rhi h, same caste me to tb bhi people are of quite distant relations, different castes ho tb to aur achi baat h, indeed