FIRST TIME MUM TRICKS UK 2021 / Tips I've learned since being a Mum, Lessons for 1st time Mums UK

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  • These are my first time mum tricks uk 2021! These are all the tips that i've learned since being a Mum. Hopefully you'll find these Lessons for 1st time Mums UK helpful!
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  • @EmmaChamp
    @EmmaChamp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Could you perhaps do a video on baby clothes, please? What you used, what you should have ready for when the baby is born and how you decide what they should wear, layers etc. Thank you!

  • @abirose8539
    @abirose8539 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Loving this. I’m currently pregnant with spontaneous triplets (our first kids) and will be making sure my husband also watches this, especially the nappy change tips!

    • @veronicaojan2219
      @veronicaojan2219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      CONGRATS

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am starting back at work this week before Christmas and new years eve so much she is not sleeping well 🙃 poor baby amber 😢

  • @Sk.440
    @Sk.440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG he is soooo adorable bless you both

  • @indigooowl7225
    @indigooowl7225 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was an awesome video! No frills, just great tips and tricks. Fumbling through life as a FTM is HARD WORK!

  • @livturner7713
    @livturner7713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am so glad I found this video & your channel. I’m due in April & a young single mum so this is deffo going to be useful for me💞

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw yay I’m so glad you’re enjoying the videos 🥰🥰 good luck with everything, you’re going to smash it ♥️

  • @sarahroberts7374
    @sarahroberts7374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your channel is a lifesaver for all us lockdown mummy-to-be's 😊👌💕

  • @sophiethomas813
    @sophiethomas813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos! Will be a FTM in June with 0 baby experience & I’ve been terrified so it’s reassuring to see how fab you are with him even though you state you’ve had to learn as you go. You really wouldn’t know. ✨

  • @MsJackalMoon
    @MsJackalMoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cannot get over how cute this kid is 🥰

  • @halloweellahere7602
    @halloweellahere7602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are a fantastic new mom and you have naturally fallen into the role spectacularly. Well bloody done!!!! George is a very handsome little baby! :')

  • @Pikayleechu24
    @Pikayleechu24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much! I was absolutely terrified because I’m going to be a first time mum and I didn’t know half the things I need! Xxxx

  • @HappyGabi08
    @HappyGabi08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m due March 4th , so this is so so helpful. Thank you! 💕

  • @smileyhappyjo18
    @smileyhappyjo18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really found this video super helpful. I’m 16 weeks pregnant so still a while off, but it’s really helping me feel more prepared for being a first time mum by watching videos like yours. P.s. George is adorable! 😍

  • @PaigeWatts
    @PaigeWatts 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stumbled across your channel around a week ago now and am slowly working my way through your baby content and finding it all so helpful. I’m in my 16th week of pregnancy with my first baby, and find your videos so comforting! So nice to have a U.K. channel to watch too, have been overwhelmed with all of the American Mum content! ♥️

  • @wiktoriaoliwia8126
    @wiktoriaoliwia8126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i’m 18 and my first baby is due in september and you are making me feel so much more confident since this was so unplanned and unexpected x

  • @yelena_yelena
    @yelena_yelena ปีที่แล้ว +1

    much appreciated!!!!! thank you!

  • @melissareyes2497
    @melissareyes2497 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learnt a lot , love your videos for first time mums like me 🥰

  • @ellegodderidge1273
    @ellegodderidge1273 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video was honestly so helpful Thankyou so much for taking the time!!! And thanks George aswell 😁 xx

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw yay I’m so glad!! 🥰

  • @fififinance7469
    @fififinance7469 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great work, fifi x😍

  • @ellencrane7084
    @ellencrane7084 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just discovered your channel and I find you are much easier to watch than so many American channels. Not due till September, I'm so happy to learn from you :)

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay I’m so glad you’re enjoying the videos lovely 🥰

  • @daniwilliamson5949
    @daniwilliamson5949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video , thank you 💓💓

  • @staceyinyorkshire
    @staceyinyorkshire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video. I'm a first time m to a 7 month old boy and have never thought to do the nappy trick. Thank you x

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oooh I’m so glad you found it helpful! If you have any ropes for the year few months them let me know!! 🥰

  • @christineeggton6099
    @christineeggton6099 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks tips really helped me and the little ones. xx

  • @anniedoxtater1652
    @anniedoxtater1652 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful! Thank you

  • @Jessieellensykes
    @Jessieellensykes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so good!! 💗

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw thank you so so much!! 🥰

  • @victoriadubuis
    @victoriadubuis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally a vid that’s helpful and simple lol

  • @tiger__flow
    @tiger__flow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This was so helpful, thank you! I'm 28 weeks on Sunday, and its starting to feel real and nerve-wracking. Videos like this really help me feel more calm, its really reassuring to hear people say they learned as they went. I feel like no matter how much research I do, I'll never be fully prepared so hoping to just enjoy the learning curve

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly we’re all in this together aren’t we! Definitely learned so much as I went along!! Xxxx

  • @zahidakhan2003
    @zahidakhan2003 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really amazing video and helpful ❤️❤️👍🏻

  • @Giant_Little_World
    @Giant_Little_World 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur little boy is such a cutie 🤩🤩🤩omgggg ,tx ur mommy tips

  • @amymurkett5856
    @amymurkett5856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great tips thank you! X

  • @rainbowdolly
    @rainbowdolly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    THANK YOU SO MUCH 💗💗💗

  • @FarzanasLaw
    @FarzanasLaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    REALLY FANTASTIC VIDEO!!!

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw wow thank you so much!! 🥰🥰

  • @jadedavison4440
    @jadedavison4440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good! Really helpful ☺️xx

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aw yay I’m so glad you found it helpful xxx

  • @reviewking6372
    @reviewking6372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fantastic video! I already have a 5 year old boy but expecting another in March! So it's nice to refresh lol. You are absolutely gorgeous and down to earth. You can see the love you have for George! & he's so cute!

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awh yay I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you so so much ♥️🙈

    • @geel2927
      @geel2927 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same ^^ have a 5 year old boy and always looking for more tips ❤️

    • @janettelawrence931
      @janettelawrence931 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm exactly the same - my daughter is turning 5 tomorrow & we are expecting our 2nd daughter early May, and this video has been a great 'refresher!' I'd forgotten about putting the new nappy underneath them before changing, and how useful Wonder Weeks is (although think it was free 5 years ago, shame we have to pay now but it is a fab app so definitely worth it!) Congratulations to everyone else expecting in 2021!xx

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      My baby is having bad routine problems now 😩

  • @poppyglanfield3347
    @poppyglanfield3347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with so many of of these! Had my little boy milo 4 weeks ago today & so many of these are things I’ve used of an daily basis! Thankyou for sharing❤️

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh that’s so good to hear! Milo is such a lush name 😍

    • @poppyglanfield3347
      @poppyglanfield3347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’d heard loads of different reviews on the wonderweeks app but after watching this I’ve just taken the ‘leap’ (😂mum jokes lol) n got it! Thankyou!! I love his name too😍 (obviously😂)

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@poppyglanfield3347 I mean that’s a pretty decent Mum jokes I’m not gunna lie haha! 👏🏼 honestly I hope you find it helpful! I definitely have! I know what’s best to do with George in terms of activities and things now too! 🙈

  • @rebeccam6035
    @rebeccam6035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Loving this!! I’m due my first baby in April so this was a big help! You make it look so easy haha :)

    • @chanei6008
      @chanei6008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how did it go?

    • @rebeccam6035
      @rebeccam6035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      quinn Really well thank you!! Bloody painful haha but all went smoothly and now I have a lil boy who is almost 5 months :)

    • @chanei6008
      @chanei6008 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rebeccam6035 awww! i can’t wait till i can have kids

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2 days old amber is

  • @yasmina4099
    @yasmina4099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My son also loves hey bear sensory dancing fruit and he is nearly 2 now! :)

  • @kaaatessaann4843
    @kaaatessaann4843 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @amberkingsley9232
    @amberkingsley9232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is super helpful I’m due in June next year 😍

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aw congratulations! So exciting isn’t it!! 🥰

    • @amberkingsley9232
      @amberkingsley9232 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HomeWithShan Thank you and yes it is! Find out the gender today as well 😍

  • @mrssarahrich
    @mrssarahrich 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    first time mum here too :)

  • @gemmamansfield8865
    @gemmamansfield8865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww that’s lovely 😊 wish I had something like this over 4 years ago With my first I now have 3 girls youngest is 5 months , baby bum on Netflix is good my girls love that before bed it’s nursery rhymes , 😀 xx

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad you enjoyed it!! Honestly a few of these are so so simple and easy but I had no idea before having a baby!
      Agree about baby bum!! George loves it!xxxx

  • @rebeccashirley5157
    @rebeccashirley5157 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve just discovered your channel and I must say it’s really helped ! Expecting our first baby April 1st and feeling a bit like a rabbit in the headlights having never looked after a newborn before. I’m confident it will all come naturally once she’s here but thank you for these tips 😊 x

  • @harshalidhiwar9943
    @harshalidhiwar9943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the curtains! Where’s the curtain in George’s nursery from?

  • @gemmamansfield8865
    @gemmamansfield8865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah they are hun it does help so much for first time mums I think I’m still winging now lol but we do what you do with nappies and wipes aswell but we don’t have a changing time as had one with first and it got used for putting things on after 8 months lol , Aww bless yeah things we learned after having kids getting out on time is a big no no here lol aww good baby is good , I have a 4 year old and 20 month old and 5 month all girls so it’s fun lol xxxx

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahhh I love that! I bet your house is so much fun with the girls running the place ♥️🥰👏🏼

    • @gemmamansfield8865
      @gemmamansfield8865 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah it is hun my oldest 2 have such a lovely bond and hoping my youngest has that bond with them , aswell , if you ever need anyone too talk too happy too xx

  • @wahyuniantonio2938
    @wahyuniantonio2938 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahaha great if you bottle's fed, but different story if you are breastfed... I must say love wearing my Pjs or Pjs likes clothes everyday bcos easy access 😄😄😄, my son love sleeping when I cuddle him== in my Arms day time... (never think that I spoilt him by doing this so) better than he dont sleep at all but grumpy, its tiring but that's part of being new mummy... I have to enjoyed it as part of his growing up....

  • @2401eli
    @2401eli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the video! Can you please share where the storage boxes are from where you store his outgrown clothes in? They look like a great size to keep under the bed! Thank you :)

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi lovely they were from the range but you can get them and lots and lots of places just make sure you measure under the bed hehe! Xxx

  • @memoirsofamama2980
    @memoirsofamama2980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great video! We are expecting our first baby, a little boy in June and will definitely be using some of these hacks. Are the drawer dividers the skubb ones from ikea? How many packs of drawer dividers fit the malm drawers please? I love how you set up George’s drawers in your other video x

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ahh amazing how exciting!! And yes there are the skubb ones. I’ve linked them below (from Amazon though to save the Ikea delivery charge haha!)
      I have so many packs of them for all my drawers but one back fits in 1 drawer if that makes sense. So if you have a 4 x malm drawer then 4 packs is plenty! ☺️

  • @karenlangendriespatalay9853
    @karenlangendriespatalay9853 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vid! The muslins look really nice, could you tell us where you got them from?

  • @angelal7141
    @angelal7141 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Shan, FTM here and 39 weeks today. I was becoming saturated with information I was reading in books and it was only serving to uncover more and more that I had no idea about 😱 I am finding your videos really useful so just wanted to say thank you.

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am still leaving with my family 👪

    • @angelal7141
      @angelal7141 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nicolesurphlis1558 pardon?

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And am back work now after lockdown months few step had bring amber with me to work now on mam at work

  • @nicolesurphlis1558
    @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is me in morning now on and at night time she doesn't sleep

  • @nickya4363
    @nickya4363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Shan, thank you for sharing. The amazon link to the cheap baby carrier isn't working. Please what's the name of the brand.

  • @sammy2788
    @sammy2788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brilliant video, thank you. What tog is George’s swaddle bag? X

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay I’m so glad you liked it! He’s in 2.5 tog at the moment as our house gets pretty chilly! Xxx

    • @sammy2788
      @sammy2788 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HomeWithShan thank you!

  • @everrachael
    @everrachael 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where is the play mat from? Looks really nice!

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s totter and tumble 🥰

  • @geel2927
    @geel2927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video 🎉 where is that hoodie from that your wearing? :)

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you lovely! It’s a loungewear set from Tesco! Xxx

  • @jadebarron7657
    @jadebarron7657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm late to the party but where did you get your curtains from that he loved??

  • @maipang5414
    @maipang5414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the advices can I ask where the mat is from please. Thanks

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey! Do you mean the play mat in the living room lovely? That’s from Totter and Tumble xxxx

  • @hayleyslucinda
    @hayleyslucinda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Shan, can you tell me where you got the matt that George puked on? Seems like a must!! :)

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehe! It’s totter and tumble! 🥰

  • @jessicaheppleston4848
    @jessicaheppleston4848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not really about top tips but how do you find the nappy bin that you bought? What’s it like for holding nappies as the reviews aren’t great? X

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I really love it! But I would say it only holds about 15 nappies (George is in size 3s) xxx

  • @janey_undiscovered8241
    @janey_undiscovered8241 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's the free app that you said about? Can't find what it's called z

  • @aamerazubairful
    @aamerazubairful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved watching your video. I'm expecting in March 2021 and wanted to know what milk bottles would you recommend? I plan to breast feed for a couple of weeks or first few months and then move on to bottle feeding. Thanks xx

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey lovely! The mam bottles have worked so well for us, but of course it depends on your little one 🥰

  • @ediinaa1
    @ediinaa1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this! What was the app you mentioned?

  • @neildodd
    @neildodd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    do you allow george to sleep upstairs in the day im trying for a baby and people have told me they must sleep downstairs if your downstairs x

  • @nicolesurphlis1558
    @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amber don't fireworks on bonfire night know

  • @nalulumu6093
    @nalulumu6093 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the app called again please

  • @jenniparsons2144
    @jenniparsons2144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Shan, great video thanks so much :) just one question, you say you leave George in his cot by himself to nap during the day, I thought up until they were 6 months you shouldn’t leave them alone sleeping at any time? I’m a FTM due in 2 weeks :) xx

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey! I’ve never heard that to be honest (doesn’t mean I’m right though!🙈)
      We have the baby monitor so we can see and hear him so I’m more than comfortable with it☺️xxx

    • @staceyinyorkshire
      @staceyinyorkshire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it is because under 6 months SIDS is quite a big.risk factor. By being in the same room baby can regulate their heartbeat using yours and it is also thought that having parent in the room helps.filter the air for the baby x

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1st

  • @gemmamansfield8865
    @gemmamansfield8865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If u did want advice hun I’m
    On Facebook inbox always open x

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much!!!♥️

  • @kelly.289
    @kelly.289 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What’s the baby app called please? Xx

  • @charlottemclaughlin8857
    @charlottemclaughlin8857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I’m currently pregnant with a wee boy 💙 I know you are bottle feeding can I ask why you did that? I really don’t want to breastfeed (It’s a long story!) and would much rather just bottle feed however I’m getting a lot of pressure from family and others.

    • @victoriaramage1867
      @victoriaramage1867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m pregnant with a baby girl due in February 💖 I’m not planning to breastfeed again it’s a long story but I have faced pressure from friends who have had babies and some health professionals. I think health professionals can be really pressurising I would just stand your ground that’s what I’m doing and I’m bringing bottles to the hospital to bring home the point. It’s your body your baby you do what you think is best I have been repeating this mantra! Good luck and stick to your guns 😊😊

    • @charlottemclaughlin8857
      @charlottemclaughlin8857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@victoriaramage1867 Thanks a lot for this. My baby is due in feb too! All the best for the rest of your pregnancy xx

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@victoriaramage1867 good luck

  • @kellywatts4895
    @kellywatts4895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When using a disposable nappies pop the clean one under baby whilst the dirty one is still on then when changing then you just pull the dirty one off clean one is already under the baby’s bum

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Such a good tip 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @ronancoffey1809
      @ronancoffey1809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@HomeWithShan hi love ur videos happy new year x from Ireland have u insta can i pm u

  • @EstherAndLife
    @EstherAndLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always thought it was dangerous to prop a bottle up to feed a baby. 😬

    • @HomeWithShan
      @HomeWithShan  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, I have read mixed things but as far as I’m concerned it’s exactly the same as holding him and he’s Blum him less fussy doing it on his own. My health visitor told me that a lot of twin mums do this too. Of course, only ever do what you’re comfortable doing ☺️

    • @sammcarroll6748
      @sammcarroll6748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I personally would avoid suggesting this one as some babies have sadly choked and passed away, all it takes is for the door to go and you to forget leaving the baby 😬 it takes minutes for suffocation.

    • @nicolesurphlis1558
      @nicolesurphlis1558 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't do that

  • @whuds1159
    @whuds1159 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    gastroitiss and alot of farting