I literally prayed that if this person isn’t for me for God to help me release my attachment. And then I randomly came across this video. I feel peace for the first time in a long time.
Brandy I’m so glad to hear you feel peace… I didn’t for two years and more just because of this deception…. But praise God He uses our mistakes and pain to help others :)
I prayed something similar when I was about to leave my boyfriend but i also added the opposite “and if he is the one I’ve prayed for, the one you mean to become my husband, please give me a sign so clear where I have no doubt” I ended up pregnant a week later and i gave him the opportunity to leave and he said “no I’m staying, I’m not going to let MY children grow up in a fatherless home” ,… we have been together 4 years now ❤❤❤
Thank you for your testimony. I had to breakup with my boyfriend recently because he was not a Godly man. He wouldn’t love me the way I loved him, and I knew I couldn’t continue to sin for his sake. It’s been a month now, and I’ve repented. I’ve renewed my faith and I trust God’s plan over mine. Jesus is King. ❤
Really moved by ur testimony. I once thought a pastor was my life partner. We got along so well. For a year we served God together in the youth ministry. I gave my all to show that I would b the perfect wife for him. Then a church member told me that he was going to be engaged. It devastated me so much. I even left the church (so much drama, I cringe at what I did😢). 10 years later I met him in a birthday with a lovely wife n 2 kids. Me still single. Lesson learnt... life goes on folks... sometimes some people don't get all in life, but you still got Jesus❤
This is the only "Kingdom Spouse" video that matters 💥. Those videos I keep seeing on my TH-cam homepage are so deceitful I feel. I appreciate you being brave enough to share your diary writing with us and how you went through all of that for that one guy. I believe God used that situation to help you change for the good and ultimately grow closer to him. I don't know who my spouse will be or how I'll meet them but I know it will be in God will and time. "Signs" are not of the lord.
Well said like always Georgio Arcade all this kingdom spouse talk is a bit of mystery in itself of course i quit trying to figure it all out a long time ago i just try to let it play out for what it may or may not be and go with the flow.
@@stevenclarke-q7h Amen! That's all we can do is leave this stuff in God hands. We have way more important things to focus on which is our work for his kingdom. I believe he will provide us a partner to help serve him and his kingdom in his own will and time for sure. Keep moving forward 🙏🏽
I'm really of the belief that there isn't a special 'kingdom spouse' as such, but rather, just a certain amount of people who are compatible with you. Of course, THE most important thing for us in a spouse is that they believe in the Lord in the same way that we do. Our spouse is probably the only person who has any direct influence between God and us (I don't mean mental influence like a pastor or literally anyone else who ever speaks to us, I mean actually when we pray and go before God, when we are alone with Him) so we really need to seek someone who we are willing to present before Him, figuratively speaking, we need to find someone who we are willing to take with us into the 'Most Holy'. I don't know if I explained it very well, but the upshot is that God can lead us to people who are compatible with us, but it's our decision as well, and it's not even necessarily a 'right' and 'wrong' decision, God has always protected our free will.
@@DanielSoliveres you explain it very well. I do think It's a certain amount of people who can be compatible with us but as you said; they have to be seeking the Lord and even help us stay on the walk with Jesus like they are. A kingdom spouse is supposed to help us serve the kingdom of God even better and more efficient than when we are single I believe. Thanks for sharing your perspective 😊🙏🏽✨
There are demons masquerading as people in dreams, called a familiar spirit (through the generational bloodline or a spirit spouse.) Be aware of dreaming of marrying or having sex people in dreams and always ask God for clarity and confirmation.
@@ohkay1976 I know… I believe that’s why God let me go through it because it’s legit the devil scamming so many believers and the “kingdom spouse movement” on TH-cam is literally promoting idolatry
To all those commenting she was in sin of idolatry, she Said at the very beginning she was and knew that. Why rub it in further??? We have ALL been in that sin wuth something/someone or other and to one degree or another, incl myself 🎯
Hi Jackie , my name is Evan I am on the autism spectrum and I have a best friend named Stella. They were raised as a Christian, but they have changed our identity to being non-binary and have turned away from Christianity and are uncomfortable by it. I have become a true Christian and being baptized, but I’m worried about their faith and I’m praying to God for them to change and for him to make them a reborn Christian so I just ask for prayers and love for Stella. God bless.❤
Father, we pray right now for Stella. My God, you are able to undo any lie that the enemy convinces us of. Father, you are able to change any heart and to unveil any darkness from our eyes I pray in the name of Jesus for Stella and ask you to do a mighty work in her life. encounter her from every side and show her that your love is greater than her sin. Reveal the truth to her Lord God and send your servants to speak your word into her heart and let her receive it. We pray against every scheme and plan of Satan against this family and against Stella, and we pray that every weapon that’s being formed against them will be exposed to them in the name of Jesus amen.!
There are demons masquerading as people in dreams, called a familiar spirit (through the generational bloodline or a spirit spouse.) Be aware of dreaming of marrying or having sex people in dreams and always ask God for clarity and confirmation.
I love how you say he wouldn’t have accepted you as you are. I met a guy last week, he took my number and I prayed that if he’s not from God’s heart, keep him away from me, so he hasn’t called. Lol 🙌🏾
I love this! I pray for God to be a shield about you and protect you from the wrong person until the time that your intended person comes along. You’re so precious to him and he is protective of his beloved daughters. Thank you, Jesus! 🥰
This was freaking me out by how close it was to my story! It was through the Lord (and only through the Lord) that I got out of that, but it left me so empty, with no self esteem, so broken, that I didn't think I would ever be able to heal. It hurt more then anything else has ever hurt me, but I learnt to fully trust in God, I learnt to pray, and I learnt that if my relationship with Him is healthy, everything else can be overcome. Glory be to Him! Now I want to spend my life doing something that will enable me to be closer to Him every day! When you truly taste His love and His holiness, everything else becomes secondary
@jackieVanTine_ when things get tough there's two ways you can go, either trust completely in God, or give up on your faith, you chose the same path as I did, so you know the value of trusting completely
Father, I lift up every grievance within Steven’s heart… every memory that haunts him, may it be replaced by your gentle voice reminding him that you use his mistakes and what the enemy meant for his harm at the hands of those he trusted for his good. May he walk within his house with a perfect heart and set no wicked thing before his eyes. Give him sleep for your word declares that you give sleep to your beloved. Let his thoughts be towards you in all moments and I pray that in every moment of anger he run to you because you are acquainted with his grief. You are acquainted with every regret and your heart longs for his friendship. Lord, you are beautiful in every way, you love us and lead us in the way we should go. Lead Steven on the path to you more and more each day and give him the peace that surpasses all understanding to guard his mind from the enemies intrusive thoughts and his hearts deceit. I pray you bless him and honor his seeking of you, for you said in your Word that you are a rewarder of those who diligently seek you. Bless him God for the way he has been a blessing to me and I’m sure many others. As he gives, please give to him your many blessings that derive from your Spirit and from your hand. In JESUS name I pray amen!
Psalm 101:1-8 1I will sing of mercy and justice; To You, O Lord, I will sing praises. 2I will behave wisely in a [a]perfect way. Oh, when will You come to me? I will walk within my house with a perfect heart. 3I will set nothing [b]wicked before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away; It shall not cling to me. 4A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will not know wickedness. 5Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, Him I will destroy; The one who has a haughty look and a proud heart, Him I will not endure. 6My eyes shall be on the faithful of the land, That they may dwell with me; He who walks in a [c]perfect way, He shall serve me. 7He who works deceit shall not dwell within my house; He who tells lies shall not [d]continue in my presence. 8Early I will destroy all the wicked of the land, That I may cut off all the evildoers from the city of the Lord.
Thank you for encouraging me on this Steven… I was going through A LOT after posting this… it’s seriously so hard to go back and think on all of this in detail. I am very grateful for you always!
This is a great video. It's difficult to not confuse your feelings with reality as a woman. Sadly I did the same when I was 15. Cried for joy, and became very confused. My heart still says the same thing, but for the last 12 months I've managed to forget about it.
God really used you to speak to me tonight. If it’s God’s will, there will be so much peace and no confusion and that you two will be on the same page. Thank you so much . God bless you more and your family.
Four years ago, God gave me a dream of the man he set apart for me. This dream came to me after I prayed & cried to God. God revealled his plan for my life! Every detail is pure amazing! ❤❤
This is the only video on how God leads us to a spouse that I will watch multiple times. God had to heal a few things in my heart for me to get to that point. Right now I feel peace about waiting until April, and I feel peace about a marriage with a large age gap.
Thanks for sharing your experience!! The same happened to me! I was seeing “signs” everywhere, in particular his name. I waited for seven long years (I mind you I’m a divorced woman in my 50’s), fully convinced God was preparing me/us for ministry. I also decided to talk to him about it since he had shown interest when we first met. He said I was being deceived. I realized I had been deceived by my own heart and was delusional. I became disappointed with God at this point, and decided to refocus on my life and came to terms with accepting my singleness. I cried too much for a husband who would love me, but it didn’t happen. I now want to focus on other things in life, such as my children and grandchild, living happy and healthy, and loving people.
@@enzapresti77 I’m sorry you had to go through that…. It’s agonizing to wait so long and to be rejected… as you can see I know how that goes. Praise the Lord for your grandchild and your beautiful life despite it all, there’s so much to praise God for !!!
Thank you for obeying The Lord and making this video. He used you to confirm everything I went through over the last two years. I emailed you and wanted to share my testimony of how I idolized marriage, what it did to my walk, and where I ended up. God taught me a lot through this video and my experience. I’m a better me because of it.
I’m sorry you went through this… I wouldn’t wish it upon my worst enemy !! I’m sorry if I missed your email, I get so many and during this time after the hurricane I have been focusing more on my family. Lord, I pray that you heal the wounds this situation caused this person… please Jesus remove any fear or trauma that affects their relationship with you. Let them trust in you and I pray you give them the answers and closure they need!!! In JESUS’ MIGHTY NAME
I appreciate this testimony more than words can express I feel like this is exactly where I'm at, I also know that God will help me clean up this mess in my life once I fully submit to his will and accept his grace and mercy is sufficient for me! Thank you for your obedience and praise God for you and all glory be to him I appreciate you sharing this with us all! I love your content and I know he's been calling me back to his path and that I've strayed yet again! God bless you and I wish you and your husband and your little one!
God has been waiting for you and He misses you. He loves you and despite what you may think, He has OPEN ARMS! Hes not going to talk down to you, He will heal you. He sends His Word and heals you! You are PRECIOUS in Jesus’ eyes and it’s in His presence you will feel free from fear, in His presence you will find peace and be able to let go control of what you cannot control. Lord, let this person submit to you when you give and when you take away.
Very well said Jackie! Please pray for me I'm struggling with severe social anxiety, apathy, depression, not being able to feel any emotions instead of pain inside. God Bless you Jackie for all the blessings you give to people.
Father, in the name of Jesus I bring this petition to you… I lift up my brother and I ask that you in your perfect love will expel the fear of rejection, the fear of abandonment, the fear of betrayal. May God heal the childhood wounds that keep getting opened up again and again by people he gets close to. I pray that you will bind them up. You said Jesus you came to bind up our wounds, and I AM TRUSTING YOU NOW that you WILL DO THIS for my brother. You will set him free. Rid him of any oppression in his mind… fill him with your Holy Spirit to walk by the spirit to be bold as a lion, to be fearless!!! Let him be confident in you at all moments because he trusts in you! I pray Father that he will find peace in your presence and validation in YOU that you say he is LOVED that you say he is yours, that you say he is made in your image!!! I pray in the name of Jesus you will bless everything his hands touch, that he will prosper as he does and dedicates everything for your glory in JESUS NAME I THANK YOU AMEN!!!!
Thank you for posting this. I'm sure it will help many Sisters in Christ! (I am 70 years old now and did not truly begin to learn and obey Gods way until too late in life.) It took a lot of humility for you to do this, and I'm sure Jesus is really proud of you!
Ohhhhhh girl. Thank you for sharing this. It’s going to help so many people. I’ve loved a man for many years. We dated on and off but it always ended in heartbreak. I’ve believed God told me he was supposed to be my husband but he’s never been given this confirmation from God. So I pray for him like this too and pray for God to give him confirmation that I’m his wife. What God has been telling me now is to fully put my faith in him and let go of this obsession, so I pray God can help me do this.
AMEN God help my sister put her focus back onto you, let her fall deeply in love with you and see that your presence is all she needs. The Lord is her shepherd SHE SHALL NOT WANT
Please someone keep me in your prayers; I'm in my early 40's and have had no real relationship and no one in my family is married. I have tried fasting, praying, and repenting and breaking curses; dating sites, and nothing works. I fell for one person intensely, but he was not for me, and already taken and abusive, but he was the only person I ever felt intense love for. There is no one in site and I am so tired of this. I need a mate. Please pray God remove the blockages, witchcraft, curses, demons, etc..and poverty, and / or etc...keeping me from finding a spouse.
Stop believing Demonds, witchcraft, etc is keeping you from finding a husband. Most likely you’re not in the Right places, not being yourself and coming across as desperate. When we are so focused on this when we meet people we try to figure out right away if they are our husband or not. Like live life and simply get to know people and once day you might wake up in love. Love is a blessing and a gift given to people who treat each other good and are focused on God in their lives. God can bless many different unions. God has no preference on your husband as long as you are both focused on God. God loves all the same and wants us to be happy, it’s up to us who we choose.
Make sure you don’t have a spirt spouse. Because they are notorious for stopping you from being married They’re maybe an altar running in your family fast and ask enquiring prayers from the Lord to reveal how you destroy the curse that is causing this. 🙏🏽
My advice is to visualize the wife you want to be right now so you are ready for the husband God will bless you with. If your perfect man appeared in your life tomorrow, would you be ready for him?
Stop praying to break the curse, start praying a prayer of intimacy instead, stop engaging spiritual activities, just to break the curse, instead engage spiritual activities to grow and know God more, listen to messages frequently to change your mindset, faith teaching, there is a mindset that if foundation curse does not find it can not find expression, the bible says, "as a man think in his heart so is he, so if you believe you have a spirit husband then you do have it, if you don't believe then you don't have it If you want mentorship from me on this matter reach out to me
It may be that God desires you to be about Him... When you submit and let go of things, people you put above God...its a possibility that those are delays and blockages..lift your situation to God..
Thank you so much for talking about this. In my friend group, there are males and my friend told me that she believes that one of the guys might like me. So that actually made me have interest in him because I figured that he probably liked me. I started praying to ask God please put it in my heart if this person is my husband. When we would hangout in our group, he would kinda ignore me or not want to talk to me as much as the rest of the group. So now I’m just asking God if it’s not meant to be please take these feelings I have for him away.
I understand how hard that is. I too prayed God would remove the feelings if he wasn’t the one, but that prayer was never answered. Why? Because I kept feeding my feelings… this is what I mean: watching romantic movies, listening to love songs, praying every day for him, talking to friends constantly about him. When you are idolizing a man in any way to the point he affects you to this degree you need to starve that feeling, focus on the Lord and if it is meant to be it will be! Relying solely on signs is extremely dangerous…. The devil can also give signs. Is he a man of God according to God’s standards? Do you feel peace with him? Does he continuously lead you to sin or God? Is he showing any small signs of abuse? Are you physically attracted to him? Are you both equally yoked spiritually? Does he compromise his relationship with Jesus? These are the “signs” that matter the most
@@jackieVanTine_wow this totally shifted my perspective on a guy I like. As I answered the questions I was like oh shoot. I’m idolizing and this is not the guy for me 😢
jackie, thank you for sharing your story, its not too scary to look into my heart and thoughts anymore to stop idolizing marriage and a guy, and i am going through that Praise the Lord for your video and channel
Thanks for the beautiful message. I too had a heartbreak and breakup few months back and i was soooo into him and he just went into another relationship and i thought I'm not worthy of love ,love never finds me etc . But i realised we just need Jesus ❤❤ thanks a lot again Jackie
Thank you for being my big sister in Christ with this video. God is utilizing you to reach His people in these hardships. I truly am grateful you made this video because I will rewatch and remember God is more than enough and everything will be at the altar.
Amen sis :) HE IS SO WONDERFUL - I am telling you… nothing compares to His presence when I’m DEEP in worship, when I push past the 10 minutes where it seems boring because I’m not on my phone and I go deep… when I begin to break down because He walks into the room and the praise gets more and more intimate. I pray Lord you will give my sister a profound experience of intimacy in your presence like she never has before. Reveal what needs to be revealed, fill her with your spirit of wisdom and let her fall in love with you in JESUS NAME like she never dreamed of. amen :)
@@jackieVanTine_I am not married and was not thinking spiritually and NOW I am so lost for doing bad. I need GOD I feel I blaspheme and not knowing. I am Seriously sick and ws playing.
I've never come across such a brave person as you Jackie. I genuinely admire your attitude and your authenticity. Thank you for sharing with us your experiences they're very helpful. God bless you and your family 🙏🏻 amen
Dear Jackie: I’m in awe of how God uses you to reach out to others who have suffered or are suffering the same story. Your story so closely aligns with mine. I had asked for confirmation signs and “received” all of them. Had vivid dreams that only pointed to this man. Insane coincidences that made me be more convinced than ever that my guy friend (also had known him for two years) was my future husband. He is now married to another girl. My idolization and desperation for signs led to my own demise, but in that fall and heartbreak, I came to realize that God was truly protecting me all along. I am happier than ever now and trust God now more than ever because through that heartbreaking rejection, I actually found full freedom from crippling anxiety. Your video came up on my algorithm out of nowhere, but I strongly feel it is the Lord assuring me through your words that He is in control. I feel so loved by God through your video and feel like I am closer and closer to having a fully healed heart. Thank you for obeying God and putting out your testimony for people like me to watch. :) Blessings 🤍
WOW WOW WOW sis!!! Thank you for this comment. It is comments like this that makes it WORTH IT for me to completely humiliate myself for the sake of the Lord and His people. This was soooo hard for me to post because there’s a chance that man might see this and laugh or think I’m crazy, but I KNOW the devil is doing the same thing to so many. May God heal your heart I know how earth shattering it is to see them get married and you thought you knew it would be you… God has better for you sis!!! Stay strong :)
Im literally in the same situation, except for idealizing her. I don’t idealize her because I don’t know much about her, and ,since I study dreams from a jungian perspective, I know that dreams very rarely speak about things that happens outside of us, dreams speak of things that happens inside of us. When I dream that she loves me, that we’re dating and etcetera, it’s probably a reflection of what I feel for her and not the other way around. I approach her sooner or later, but, since I don’t mind being single and since Im not in a hurry, I’ll take my time.
Thank you for being bold enough to share this with us I pray it reaches those that needs to hear this! I feel like this can apply to any area in our life not just idolizing marriage but just things and people in our lives if that makes sense❤
Thank you so much for sharing this. I have been dating a man since the end of June. And I have felt for so long (almost immediately) that he’s my person. These “God told me” videos have been coming for me lately. I already knew but started wondering if I needed a sign. A few days ago I prayed because my Man has asked me a couple times recently why I am so good to him. I asked God to help me articulate it for him. With Gods help I wrote him a letter, and in that letter I described the Love is… verse which are all characteristics he has shown me. And the biblical characteristics of a good man.. which he thoroughly embodies. He’s already asked me about what kind of jewelry metal I like and what diamond shape I like. I believe he knows as well as I do. We’ve found our person. We’re both 38 years old, he’s been married twice before, I am a widow. We met each other in the midst of our mess but God knows what we need. We’re putting God first and so blessed to have each other. Again, thank you. I don’t need signs. My heart knows.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for this. Especially since my last relationship was terrible and ended with a mess, it's only made me even more anxious and scared about relationships
I understand. I had to work through so much fear even when I met my husband… but when GOD BRINGS YOU SOMEONE, he doesn’t bring you someone who will harm you the way you have been harmed by others. You don’t need to fear when you have Jesus by your side.
Powerful message!!! I’ve been where you are, desperate and spiritually obsessing over some “Christian” player who wasn’t aligned theologically. Everything came crashing down and God filled me in a way that the idolization of marriage completely disappeared. I ended up actually being content and happy just focusing on God and His plan for my life. He filled me with so much passion for projects that I didn’t even have on my mind before. He literally revealed His purpose for my life with me and I felt fully content, even if I never got married. During this time, a couple of years in I met a man during Bible studies and connected with him spiritually. I didn’t even see him any other way, so we slowly got closer to each other until I realized that I loved him, in a spiritual type of way. It was mutual but still brought up so much anxiety because of my past.
Thank you so much Jackie for posting these videos. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve felt lost or I was dealing with something and then one of your videos will pop up on my feed and it’s exactly what I need for the time being. You are a blessing and a light and I love your REALNESS!!! Thank you for preaching the word of God and following His Holy Spirit. 💙 You are a beautiful person and speaker!!! Thank you for ministering and shining His word and light. I love the way that you teach and incorporate your real experiences, even weaknesses- which is SO HELPFUL!!!!! Love you!! ❤️ And God Bless you and your husband, your family and your ministry!!
Thank you, Jackie! I feel the pain, I remember telling God and people around me who’d ask that I’m already okay with being single, and I really thought I was. I had this peace during the pandemic, and it made me somewhat confident to say that I’m okay with growing old all by myself. I thought all was well, until God tested me real bad on it, He tested me real real bad.. In just less than a year, I’ve been strongly attracted to 3 different men who are clearly wrong for me, one right after the other, and I kept passing on the immoral feelings I have toward each of them, like I didn’t learn anything from the first ones.. Turned my back on all of them before they even began, but boy did I cry my heart out every single time, and to this day I’m still moving on from the last one..🤕 I hope you have completely moved on from it. I pray also that these videos of you talking about him doesn’t bother Lance 🙏🏼 God bless you, praying for you!
Same here! Ty for reminding me, appreciate it, the Lord gave me that Word in Genesis 22, 5 years ago❤and I am the same lately realizing idolizing marriage and today just surrender all I am -be it single or married, the Lord be glorified 😇🥰Hallelujah
Girl, yes! I am praising God over here! Clap, clap, clap hallelujah I love everything about it, and I am literally driving in my car praising God!! Facts!
DUDE! I'm at 2 minutes in and you've just been telling my exact experience in the past 2 weeks 😂. Straight up ministry..go on. I need to know where this leads for my dealio
Wow! I also agree you nailed it! Best video about kingdom spouses! Thank you for sharing and warning so many of us out here. God bless you and your husband!
I mess up and hurt for not trusting and out here sick and fooled. I need heaven and MY HOLY GHOST Why would I play. I am older and put a lot before HIM. I DID NOT HAVE TO DO THIS AND HURT ME OR CUR ME. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
Hey Jackie. Really appreciate your message. Spoke to me directly. A poignant reminder to focus on the Lord and let the idols go! Thank you. 🙏🏻 to surrender to him and his will. Grateful thank you. Seeking him first despite the storm that rages all around. Thank you 🙏🏻
This is so real!! I had friends I did ministry with and one of my friends in the group decided that my little brother was her husband, and it destroyed our relationship, but also revealed a lot of immature fruit. But all the signs that you were talking about are signs that she would see as well, especially the number 222 and a lot of 1’s. I agree with you 100% at it’s very spiritually immature for us to look for signs all the time from God. And the enemy uses that greatly against God‘s people just like he did with you and your testimony and he did with my friend and our friendship. Thank you for sharing!
@@jackieVanTine_ Yes and Amen!! I have such a sincere spirit towards her and pray for her future husband even now because she deserves an amazing man of God💕Thank you for your advice sister in Christ🥰
I'm experiencing the same thing right now...but instead of 222 I see 444,333,777,111...I also dream of this person but I saw him preaching, hugging me from behind, protecting me from rocks falling from the sky then the last dream I have of him grabbing my hand and him asking me to join him to ride a transportation...but I know he has a girlfriend so the logical me stayed and watch him go...I dont want to focus on this stuff i know my priority...so i resigned from job because he's my boss...he keep me pestering why i resigned i just said i want to focus more on myself and my family...I don't want to make a mistake, coz he could also be my future husband since I'm shock to hear that he also dream of me and he mentioned we where in a bus and there's only two of us...I'm not even sure if I'm in denial by resigning from my job just to avoid him but still kepping this mindset that.he could be my husband....it's crazy...am i becoming delusional
God used what was meant for your harm, for good…praise the Lord! Much love, gratitude and respect sent your way. You have set your own comfort aside to bless many and God see’s your sacrifice. Thank you for being bold and courageous 💜🌻🙏🏼✨
I am in love with german guy and i pray alot to him be my husband and i felt ❤depressed twice cuz of my prayers didn't answer but after watching ur video u gave my some faith to believe in god's plan for me , thank you alot , ur talk has changed something in me
I love this. Same happened to me, I had 3 strong visions while on Ayahuasca about this guy being my future husband. I became obsessed with him for a year and a half. Watching his Instagram all the time, messaging him every few months, I knew he has a girlfriend also. It was killing me, I was having hundreds of dreams about him, I felt I was going to lose my mind. One day I just completely gave it to Jesus and found peace within. I’m still single waiting for my husband ..if it’s God’s will.
@@eternity.in.a.m0m3ntyou don’t know what she is going through. I pray you find peace and stop looking at the chip in someone else’s eye and not the log in your own 🤍
This video came at the perfect time, this is something i have been thinking about lately and this is exactly what I needed to hear. I had a similar experience where i thought I had met the man i was going to marry and for 7 months I idolized the idea of us being together. I was so disappointed when I realized he was not the man God wanted for me but I am turning away from that idolization and towards the Lord. 💓
I appreciate you sharing this with us. It requires a lot of humility. Unfortunately, it does happen quite often, and it breaks my heart to see friends caught in this trap. My pastor once said that manipulation is the beginning of witchcraft, and I think that’s why these signs-like the initials and the flowers-can be so concerning. I’m grateful that your eyes were opened and that you were humble enough to be obedient to God and bless others. It must have been very difficult, but I’m so glad you did it. You’re truly a blessing. My favorite part was when you said when it’s from God both man and women will behave the way it’s told in the Bible. “Man pursues woman corresponds.” Amen!
amen !!! Yes it’s hard because your friends won’t listen to you. They won’t open their eyes… and they waste years! Just pray for them. It’s a very touchy subject….
Girl i can relate but God is forever good. No longer making having a husband an idol but when God is ready he will come through. God is too faithful and loving.
I felt some secondhand embarrassment when you read about the dreams and told me the signs you had. But that is what the devil does, the devil wants to put you to shame and ruin your life. God said idols can never save us. I really commend you for sharing this, it helps many people and become a guidance for people like me. I also had my moments, thank God He released us from idols, & tarot cards.
Thank you so much 🥹 I needed that so much! Bc I’m literally in the same situation. So many signs and dreams but in real life its nothing like that. I’m so confused and I just my peace back. But this really encouraged me to just let go! Thank you 4 sharing your story 🙏🏾❤️
Deuteronomy 13:1-3 (KJV): "If there arise among you a prophet, or a dreamer of dreams, and giveth thee a sign or a wonder, and the sign or the wonder come to pass, whereof he spake unto thee, saying, Let us go after other gods, which thou hast not known, and let us serve them; Thou shalt not hearken unto the words of that prophet, or that dreamer of dreams: for the Lord your God proveth you, to know whether ye love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul."
Thank you for sharing sister. Idolization is such a real thing. The thing is also, we as women should not be lusting or looking at attractiveness at a man. We should first ask a man if they are taken or not after they approach us, before we start thinking romantically about them. This happens all the time with young ladies who see my husband and get googly eyes, they may believe they have good intentions, however we need to as daughters of the Lord, we need to prioritize asking if someone is single or not, because the finding someone attractive part, should come after knowing they are single. That was my first question to my now husband, I asked him if he was seeing anyone or married because I would never talk to him after if he was. Before I met my husband, I was duped by a man who told me he was single, and I found out he was married. Thankfully I didn't spend much time speaking to him, but this is just a word of caution to my sister's in Christ our there. Protect your own heart and the hearts of people that are possibly taken. All the best to you guys and don't give up, I know the correct husband is out there for you, sister!
This is amazing. The Lord really spoke through you to me. Wow, I'm so amazed. Thank you, Lord. May the Lord bless you and keep you. Keep doing what you are doing.🙏🙌
I have been through very traumatic things with men, so I do need for God to show me more than one sign in order for me to commit my life to a man who I’m gonna be with for the rest of my life. Everybody has their own path.
Seek God above all things and He will bring everything to you in time! Healing from toxic physical abuse relationships myself and it wasn’t until I realized God wanted me to have a relationship with Him and stop idolizing men, that He would show me true relationship then bring the perfect relationship into my life. He is readying me for it by practicing with Him, just as a good Father does for His child! My lesson- always put God first above all things
He can show you more than one sister but not millions… that’s not how God works. Relying solely on signs is extremely dangerous…. The devil can also give signs. Is he a man of God according to God’s standards? Do you feel peace with him? Does he continuously lead you to sin or God? Is he showing any small signs of abuse? Are you physically attracted to him? Are you both equally yoked spiritually? Does he compromise his relationship with Jesus? These are the “signs” that matter the most
Thanks sis. I really needed to hear this today. Appreciate your vulnerability and transparency so much. Thanks for being obedient to God even when it’s hard. Keep shining His light, it legit doesn’t belong under a bushel ♥️
I almost didn’t click on this video because I’m still processing the month and a half trip I just came from. I had a dream for years ago about my high school best friend choosing a suitor for me, and in the dream I heard the name of a city being whispered and repeated many times. I searched up that city name and found out that it was in Spain. Recently, I had the opportunity to go on admissions trip to Egypt and that the plane was going to stop in Spain. My roommate and I decided to make it a trip. Needless to say I didn’t meet anyone in this city, and I am left wondering if this dream had any meaning to it, if it is not time yet, or if, any of the people I met outside of this city is meant to be my husband. I have struggled with idolizing marriage, and at other times, I thought I was not worrying about it at all, but now that I’m 31 I am having a hard time waiting. You said some key things that helped me regain trust in God‘s promise and zeal continue to know the Lord even deeper. Definitely convicted about searching signs lol. Thank you for being obedient!
Really thank you for sharing. I am a dreamer too, but forgot the warning when learning dream interpretation that I need to be really careful when the dream is romantic matters related to myself. I had accurate dreams before I was misled by my own romantic dreams. It also took me time to ‘forgive’ God.
I have a similar testimony that happened to me four years ago, and I’m grateful for deliverance 👏🏾 I won’t tell the whole story, but this thing got to a point where this man that I “loved” had gotten married to another woman with a name so similar to mine, her birthday also happened to be three days before mine, and we shared mutual friends. Even after that, I STILL believed that he was my husband. I don’t remember when, but I eventually stopped liking him one day, due to a lot of prayer and releasing it to the Lord. I cannot tell you what made me think that this man was my husband. Today I’m still very single, and waiting on the Lord to confirm to my actual husband about who I am. I know the Lord hasn’t forgotten me when it comes to my husband, but I also know that He will not come bringing this man with a bunch of confusion and “puzzle pieces” for me to figure out.
Woq i just turned 45yrs being idolizing marriage. Been single for 4years. I just had to put down my dog. Been in so much pain wishing i had my ex boyfriend or a husband to hold me. Now i understand. You helped me so much
Hey i know this video is probably old but my situation is different me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and the connection i have with him is like nothing ive experienced but he struggles to give up sin and its hard when i go into my journey and grow closer to god and to see him struggling then giving up then trying and its hard because it makes me question sometimes of hes for me but the way the lord kept putting him back into my life and the way he loves me makes me believe even if hes in my life for a reason and its hard because i have a hard time praying constantly for others i get swalloed up in other things and im working on putting god first fighting against falling into the trap of lukewarmness but the lord never left my side and he continues to help me grow and guide me this is my testimony
I believe you're in denial because you love the guy, there's a lot you would not realise because "love" will be veiling you, but most definitely you have to allow him to find God properly by himself whilst you do the same, if God really wants you together you will be together with him at the beginning and centre of everything, this is the " unequally yoked" and God's blessings operate inside of his parameters if you love someone who has potential to draw you away from God, it's a scary place to be in because one day they might succeed. However God loved us whilst we were yet sinners, this is to say that you'll see the hand of God in your life but it does not mean that he supports sin. I think deep down you know what to do even the Holy spirit tells you and you get conflicted then you justify, silence and continue.
Thanks and Blessings, sis! Its come to a point where deep down im not ready to have a man in my life! I remember you doing a video saying if your home isnt in order, which is the case for me, how can you be ready? Ive been declutterring and organizing my home forever, and battling many health issues since 2020, so it wouldnt be fair to bring a man into my mess! Thank you for your help!
I also just want to add that what you’re saying is so true, while at the same time you don’t have to have it all together to meet your spouse. So much growth and even healing will happen together in marriage❤
@@jennifernagle2588 I understand what you're saying , but thank you for the feedback! I was obsessing over marriage, and we are not to idolize anything,only worshipping God
Being lonely is sometimes a curse and sometimes a blessing. I never did nobody before don’t look at dating. I don’t think about dating. But I don’t think about it as lonely as in being sad. I just think about it as a way from lonely away from things that are not my truth so I can get a clear picture of what really matters to my heart that God wants me to have the world wants me to have.❤❤❤
Wow, thanks for sharing. I went thru a very similar situation. I’m so glad I’ve overcome those thoughts and have been able to fully surrender myself to him 🙏
Your experience has made me see that I need to give everything up to the Lord and serve him only. I am looking to others matter when all it should be is the lord
I married a covert narcissist. Was abused all my life. We are divorcing now. My heart is broken. I was angry at God for letting this happen. He intervened with others. I found your video. Was what I needed to hear. Thank you.
Thank you for your obedience to the Lord, you have truly helped me in a way. I had felt stuck and like I wasn’t getting anywhere and had asked the Lord for clarity if I was doing something wrong and came across this video, you have truly helped,I pray that God continues to bless you and your husband both abundantly!❤
Amen sister before I came to Christ fully I thought this guy was my husband's dreams, confirmations and such but he wasn't for me at all he was in the world and few years past and when I made the first move he left me on read. and later he found a gf and now they are getting married. I learned if its in the will of the father and we are faithful and not idolizing marriage the lord will bring a spouse. I'm still single and busy following Christ 🥰
“God knew my type better than I knew my type” ❣️
God made us He knows what we need and desire!
I love your testimony ❤ God is soo good . What the devil meant for evil , God turned it around for Good
Do you think god would match you with someone you are not attracted to?
12:55 my mouth dropped to the floor. Wow the way I could relate is unreal. Thank you for sharing ❤
1CORINTHIANS 13:13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. 💗
Lord help me to stop idolizing marriage in my heart. Thank you for this message, bless you
Absolutely! 😊
JOHN 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
“The fact that you were idolizing it, you opened your heart for sin” 🔥🔥🔥
@@willowlynn_ amen 🙏❤️
Yep!
We cant idolize things or people!
Dreamer!
@@jeffreypullis696 Jesus loves you ✝️✝️❤️❤️
I literally prayed that if this person isn’t for me for God to help me release my attachment. And then I randomly came across this video. I feel peace for the first time in a long time.
God is clear, I am glad you received the message
Brandy I’m so glad to hear you feel peace… I didn’t for two years and more just because of this deception…. But praise God He uses our mistakes and pain to help others :)
“Lord, if this person is not for me, help me to release my attachment”
I like this! Saving!
I prayed something similar when I was about to leave my boyfriend but i also added the opposite “and if he is the one I’ve prayed for, the one you mean to become my husband, please give me a sign so clear where I have no doubt”
I ended up pregnant a week later and i gave him the opportunity to leave and he said “no I’m staying, I’m not going to let MY children grow up in a fatherless home” ,… we have been together 4 years now ❤❤❤
I prayed that same prayer. This video helped me. Thank you, Jackie. God bless you, sister. ❤
I definitely agree with this video. The enemy can manifest signs that we asked for to confuse us but they can't overcome the holy Spirit
This!!!
Amen , the Holy Spirit gives peace!!!!
EPHESIANS 5:20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Girl the devil is a deceiver. But God is the truth. Amen.
Say it again for the people in the back sis!!!
@@jackieVanTine_ god not healing ezcema dark spots
PSALMS 42:1 As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God.
@@lewismanzon5074 hi can you prayer to me im not healing ezcema skin damage please
@@lewismanzon5074 my sister ezcema not healing
The transparency here on THIS video is so refreshing. You killed it! Thank you for your willingness to share Jackie.
It’s what’s needed in the church right now. Not easy but necessary thank you Josh - I appreciate it :)
LUKE 1:37 For with God nothing is impossible."
PHILIPPIANS 4:13 I can do everything through him who gives me strength.
Girl I almost shouted when you said once you can live with God and only God, he’ll resurrect the situation.
@@melodyindigo550 straight up Melody :)
JOHN 14:6 Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
"if this is my husband, God will bring him to me" AMEN!!
“GOD PUTS PURPOSES TOGETHER” all I needed to hear. Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for your testimony. I had to breakup with my boyfriend recently because he was not a Godly man. He wouldn’t love me the way I loved him, and I knew I couldn’t continue to sin for his sake. It’s been a month now, and I’ve repented. I’ve renewed my faith and I trust God’s plan over mine. Jesus is King. ❤
@@wanderingeldest5627 praise the Lord sister - now that is radical obedience and God loves it!!!
Girly I'm so happy for youuuu
Really moved by ur testimony. I once thought a pastor was my life partner. We got along so well. For a year we served God together in the youth ministry. I gave my all to show that I would b the perfect wife for him. Then a church member told me that he was going to be engaged. It devastated me so much. I even left the church (so much drama, I cringe at what I did😢). 10 years later I met him in a birthday with a lovely wife n 2 kids. Me still single. Lesson learnt... life goes on folks... sometimes some people don't get all in life, but you still got Jesus❤
This is the only "Kingdom Spouse" video that matters 💥. Those videos I keep seeing on my TH-cam homepage are so deceitful I feel. I appreciate you being brave enough to share your diary writing with us and how you went through all of that for that one guy. I believe God used that situation to help you change for the good and ultimately grow closer to him. I don't know who my spouse will be or how I'll meet them but I know it will be in God will and time. "Signs" are not of the lord.
Well said like always Georgio Arcade all this kingdom
spouse talk is a bit of mystery in itself of course i quit trying to figure it all out a long time ago i just try to let it play out for what it may or may not be and go with the flow.
@@stevenclarke-q7h Amen! That's all we can do is leave this stuff in God hands. We have way more important things to focus on which is our work for his kingdom. I believe he will provide us a partner to help serve him and his kingdom in his own will and time for sure. Keep moving forward 🙏🏽
I'm really of the belief that there isn't a special 'kingdom spouse' as such, but rather, just a certain amount of people who are compatible with you. Of course, THE most important thing for us in a spouse is that they believe in the Lord in the same way that we do. Our spouse is probably the only person who has any direct influence between God and us (I don't mean mental influence like a pastor or literally anyone else who ever speaks to us, I mean actually when we pray and go before God, when we are alone with Him) so we really need to seek someone who we are willing to present before Him, figuratively speaking, we need to find someone who we are willing to take with us into the 'Most Holy'. I don't know if I explained it very well, but the upshot is that God can lead us to people who are compatible with us, but it's our decision as well, and it's not even necessarily a 'right' and 'wrong' decision, God has always protected our free will.
@@DanielSoliveres you explain it very well. I do think It's a certain amount of people who can be compatible with us but as you said; they have to be seeking the Lord and even help us stay on the walk with Jesus like they are. A kingdom spouse is supposed to help us serve the kingdom of God even better and more efficient than when we are single I believe. Thanks for sharing your perspective 😊🙏🏽✨
There are demons masquerading as people in dreams, called a familiar spirit (through the generational bloodline or a spirit spouse.) Be aware of dreaming of marrying or having sex people in dreams and always ask God for clarity and confirmation.
Girl this was so vulnerable and I thank you for being obedient to God because a lot of us struggle with this. 😢
Literally!!! God Literally lead me to this video
@@ohkay1976 I know… I believe that’s why God let me go through it because it’s legit the devil scamming so many believers and the “kingdom spouse movement” on TH-cam is literally promoting idolatry
To all those commenting she was in sin of idolatry, she Said at the very beginning she was and knew that. Why rub it in further??? We have ALL been in that sin wuth something/someone or other and to one degree or another, incl myself 🎯
@@nettiemarie2556 amen, thank you for that Nettie! 🩷
Takes a lot or courage to be this vulnerable cudos
Oh it really did…. We need to be willing to be embarrassed if it means Jesus gets glory out of our story though 🤷♀️
Hi Jackie , my name is Evan I am on the autism spectrum and I have a best friend named Stella. They were raised as a Christian, but they have changed our identity to being non-binary and have turned away from Christianity and are uncomfortable by it. I have become a true Christian and being baptized, but I’m worried about their faith and I’m praying to God for them to change and for him to make them a reborn Christian so I just ask for prayers and love for Stella. God bless.❤
Father, we pray right now for Stella. My God, you are able to undo any lie that the enemy convinces us of. Father, you are able to change any heart and to unveil any darkness from our eyes I pray in the name of Jesus for Stella and ask you to do a mighty work in her life. encounter her from every side and show her that your love is greater than her sin. Reveal the truth to her Lord God and send your servants to speak your word into her heart and let her receive it. We pray against every scheme and plan of Satan against this family and against Stella, and we pray that every weapon that’s being formed against them will be exposed to them in the name of Jesus amen.!
@@jackieVanTine_ thank you so much, Jackie for your prayer. It means the world God bless.❤️
Absolutely Robert :)
@@jackieVanTine_ Robert is my dads name my name is Evan:)
@@robertmullin5206 ohhh I see you’re on his TH-cam? Haha sorry about that! God bless you Evan :)
❤ Your husband now is who you were dreaming of. He is a dream come true.
There are demons masquerading as people in dreams, called a familiar spirit (through the generational bloodline or a spirit spouse.) Be aware of dreaming of marrying or having sex people in dreams and always ask God for clarity and confirmation.
Oh yes…. And more!
I love how you say he wouldn’t have accepted you as you are. I met a guy last week, he took my number and I prayed that if he’s not from God’s heart, keep him away from me, so he hasn’t called. Lol 🙌🏾
@@Iamconverted there you go sis, if it’s meant to be and you’re walking in God’s will it will be!!
I love this! I pray for God to be a shield about you and protect you from the wrong person until the time that your intended person comes along. You’re so precious to him and he is protective of his beloved daughters. Thank you, Jesus! 🥰
This was freaking me out by how close it was to my story! It was through the Lord (and only through the Lord) that I got out of that, but it left me so empty, with no self esteem, so broken, that I didn't think I would ever be able to heal. It hurt more then anything else has ever hurt me, but I learnt to fully trust in God, I learnt to pray, and I learnt that if my relationship with Him is healthy, everything else can be overcome. Glory be to Him! Now I want to spend my life doing something that will enable me to be closer to Him every day! When you truly taste His love and His holiness, everything else becomes secondary
@@DanielSoliveres wow that’s beautiful Daniel. You let it all bring you closer to God not further away AMEN!
@jackieVanTine_ when things get tough there's two ways you can go, either trust completely in God, or give up on your faith, you chose the same path as I did, so you know the value of trusting completely
Thanks! Mrs Jackie I can tell this was such a intense time in your life back then and also no flattery intended here but that message was a 10+
Father, I lift up every grievance within Steven’s heart… every memory that haunts him, may it be replaced by your gentle voice reminding him that you use his mistakes and what the enemy meant for his harm at the hands of those he trusted for his good. May he walk within his house with a perfect heart and set no wicked thing before his eyes. Give him sleep for your word declares that you give sleep to your beloved. Let his thoughts be towards you in all moments and I pray that in every moment of anger he run to you because you are acquainted with his grief. You are acquainted with every regret and your heart longs for his friendship. Lord, you are beautiful in every way, you love us and lead us in the way we should go. Lead Steven on the path to you more and more each day and give him the peace that surpasses all understanding to guard his mind from the enemies intrusive thoughts and his hearts deceit. I pray you bless him and honor his seeking of you, for you said in your Word that you are a rewarder of those who diligently seek you. Bless him God for the way he has been a blessing to me and I’m sure many others. As he gives, please give to him your many blessings that derive from your Spirit and from your hand. In JESUS name I pray amen!
Psalm 101:1-8
1I will sing of mercy and justice;
To You, O Lord, I will sing praises.
2I will behave wisely in a [a]perfect way.
Oh, when will You come to me?
I will walk within my house with a perfect heart.
3I will set nothing [b]wicked before my eyes;
I hate the work of those who fall away;
It shall not cling to me.
4A perverse heart shall depart from me;
I will not know wickedness.
5Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor,
Him I will destroy;
The one who has a haughty look and a proud heart,
Him I will not endure.
6My eyes shall be on the faithful of the land,
That they may dwell with me;
He who walks in a [c]perfect way,
He shall serve me.
7He who works deceit shall not dwell within my house;
He who tells lies shall not [d]continue in my presence.
8Early I will destroy all the wicked of the land,
That I may cut off all the evildoers from the city of the Lord.
Thank you for encouraging me on this Steven… I was going through A LOT after posting this… it’s seriously so hard to go back and think on all of this in detail. I am very grateful for you always!
Jackie; did you ever have any marriages dreams ? Aside from you guys looking at each other?
That’s a great question. I’d have to look in my notes. I know I did have dreams of us being married but not the wedding itself I don’t think.
This is a great video. It's difficult to not confuse your feelings with reality as a woman. Sadly I did the same when I was 15. Cried for joy, and became very confused. My heart still says the same thing, but for the last 12 months I've managed to forget about it.
I pray for the person God has for me and I appreciate you sharing this
Blessings for you that you meet the right person for you soon.
@@EugeneMcfadden-777 AMEN :)
God really used you to speak to me tonight. If it’s God’s will, there will be so much peace and no confusion and that you two will be on the same page. Thank you so much . God bless you more and your family.
Four years ago, God gave me a dream of the man he set apart for me. This dream came to me after I prayed & cried to God. God revealled his plan for my life! Every detail is pure amazing! ❤❤
This is the only video on how God leads us to a spouse that I will watch multiple times. God had to heal a few things in my heart for me to get to that point. Right now I feel peace about waiting until April, and I feel peace about a marriage with a large age gap.
Thanks for sharing your experience!! The same happened to me! I was seeing “signs” everywhere, in particular his name. I waited for seven long years (I mind you I’m a divorced woman in my 50’s), fully convinced God was preparing me/us for ministry. I also decided to talk to him about it since he had shown interest when we first met. He said I was being deceived. I realized I had been deceived by my own heart and was delusional. I became disappointed with God at this point, and decided to refocus on my life and came to terms with accepting my singleness. I cried too much for a husband who would love me, but it didn’t happen. I now want to focus on other things in life, such as my children and grandchild, living happy and healthy, and loving people.
@@enzapresti77 I’m sorry you had to go through that…. It’s agonizing to wait so long and to be rejected… as you can see I know how that goes. Praise the Lord for your grandchild and your beautiful life despite it all, there’s so much to praise God for !!!
Always pray for someone who is perfect for you, the one who is just right. Don't choose the false lamb, choose the true lamb
Thank you for obeying The Lord and making this video. He used you to confirm everything I went through over the last two years. I emailed you and wanted to share my testimony of how I idolized marriage, what it did to my walk, and where I ended up. God taught me a lot through this video and my experience. I’m a better me because of it.
I’m sorry you went through this… I wouldn’t wish it upon my worst enemy !! I’m sorry if I missed your email, I get so many and during this time after the hurricane I have been focusing more on my family. Lord, I pray that you heal the wounds this situation caused this person… please Jesus remove any fear or trauma that affects their relationship with you. Let them trust in you and I pray you give them the answers and closure they need!!! In JESUS’ MIGHTY NAME
So the prayer to pray is for God to show me my purpose and while I’m pursuing my purpose and following God, everything will fall into place.
I appreciate this testimony more than words can express I feel like this is exactly where I'm at, I also know that God will help me clean up this mess in my life once I fully submit to his will and accept his grace and mercy is sufficient for me! Thank you for your obedience and praise God for you and all glory be to him I appreciate you sharing this with us all! I love your content and I know he's been calling me back to his path and that I've strayed yet again! God bless you and I wish you and your husband and your little one!
God has been waiting for you and He misses you. He loves you and despite what you may think, He has OPEN ARMS! Hes not going to talk down to you, He will heal you. He sends His Word and heals you! You are PRECIOUS in Jesus’ eyes and it’s in His presence you will feel free from fear, in His presence you will find peace and be able to let go control of what you cannot control. Lord, let this person submit to you when you give and when you take away.
@@jackieVanTine_ In Jesus name amen!
Very well said Jackie! Please pray for me I'm struggling with severe social anxiety, apathy, depression, not being able to feel any emotions instead of pain inside. God Bless you Jackie for all the blessings you give to people.
Father, in the name of Jesus I bring this petition to you… I lift up my brother and I ask that you in your perfect love will expel the fear of rejection, the fear of abandonment, the fear of betrayal. May God heal the childhood wounds that keep getting opened up again and again by people he gets close to. I pray that you will bind them up. You said Jesus you came to bind up our wounds, and I AM TRUSTING YOU NOW that you WILL DO THIS for my brother. You will set him free. Rid him of any oppression in his mind… fill him with your Holy Spirit to walk by the spirit to be bold as a lion, to be fearless!!! Let him be confident in you at all moments because he trusts in you! I pray Father that he will find peace in your presence and validation in YOU that you say he is LOVED that you say he is yours, that you say he is made in your image!!!
I pray in the name of Jesus you will bless everything his hands touch, that he will prosper as he does and dedicates everything for your glory in JESUS NAME I THANK YOU AMEN!!!!
Amen
Thank you for posting this. I'm sure it will help many Sisters in Christ! (I am 70 years old now and did not truly begin to learn and obey Gods way until too late in life.) It took a lot of humility for you to do this, and I'm sure Jesus is really proud of you!
@@WholeBibleBelieverWoman thank you so much sister - I appreciate your encouragement!!!
Ohhhhhh girl. Thank you for sharing this. It’s going to help so many people. I’ve loved a man for many years. We dated on and off but it always ended in heartbreak. I’ve believed God told me he was supposed to be my husband but he’s never been given this confirmation from God. So I pray for him like this too and pray for God to give him confirmation that I’m his wife. What God has been telling me now is to fully put my faith in him and let go of this obsession, so I pray God can help me do this.
AMEN God help my sister put her focus back onto you, let her fall deeply in love with you and see that your presence is all she needs. The Lord is her shepherd SHE SHALL NOT WANT
Please someone keep me in your prayers; I'm in my early 40's and have had no real relationship and no one in my family is married. I have tried fasting, praying, and repenting and breaking curses; dating sites, and nothing works. I fell for one person intensely, but he was not for me, and already taken and abusive, but he was the only person I ever felt intense love for. There is no one in site and I am so tired of this. I need a mate. Please pray God remove the blockages, witchcraft, curses, demons, etc..and poverty, and / or etc...keeping me from finding a spouse.
Stop believing Demonds, witchcraft, etc is keeping you from finding a husband. Most likely you’re not in the Right places, not being yourself and coming across as desperate. When we are so focused on this when we meet people we try to figure out right away if they are our husband or not. Like live life and simply get to know people and once day you might wake up in love. Love is a blessing and a gift given to people who treat each other good and are focused on God in their lives. God can bless many different unions. God has no preference on your husband as long as you are both focused on God. God loves all the same and wants us to be happy, it’s up to us who we choose.
Make sure you don’t have a spirt spouse. Because they are notorious for stopping you from being married They’re maybe an altar running in your family fast and ask enquiring prayers from the Lord to reveal how you destroy the curse that is causing this. 🙏🏽
My advice is to visualize the wife you want to be right now so you are ready for the husband God will bless you with. If your perfect man appeared in your life tomorrow, would you be ready for him?
Stop praying to break the curse, start praying a prayer of intimacy instead, stop engaging spiritual activities, just to break the curse, instead engage spiritual activities to grow and know God more, listen to messages frequently to change your mindset, faith teaching, there is a mindset that if foundation curse does not find it can not find expression, the bible says, "as a man think in his heart so is he, so if you believe you have a spirit husband then you do have it, if you don't believe then you don't have it If you want mentorship from me on this matter reach out to me
It may be that God desires you to be about Him... When you submit and let go of things, people you put above God...its a possibility that those are delays and blockages..lift your situation to God..
Thank you so much for talking about this. In my friend group, there are males and my friend told me that she believes that one of the guys might like me. So that actually made me have interest in him because I figured that he probably liked me. I started praying to ask God please put it in my heart if this person is my husband. When we would hangout in our group, he would kinda ignore me or not want to talk to me as much as the rest of the group. So now I’m just asking God if it’s not meant to be please take these feelings I have for him away.
I understand how hard that is. I too prayed God would remove the feelings if he wasn’t the one, but that prayer was never answered. Why? Because I kept feeding my feelings… this is what I mean: watching romantic movies, listening to love songs, praying every day for him, talking to friends constantly about him. When you are idolizing a man in any way to the point he affects you to this degree you need to starve that feeling, focus on the Lord and if it is meant to be it will be! Relying solely on signs is extremely dangerous…. The devil can also give signs. Is he a man of God according to God’s standards? Do you feel peace with him? Does he continuously lead you to sin or God? Is he showing any small signs of abuse? Are you physically attracted to him? Are you both equally yoked spiritually? Does he compromise his relationship with Jesus? These are the “signs” that matter the most
@@jackieVanTine_wow this totally shifted my perspective on a guy I like. As I answered the questions I was like oh shoot. I’m idolizing and this is not the guy for me 😢
@twinkifluffles5000
jackie, thank you for sharing your story, its not too scary to look into my heart and thoughts anymore to stop idolizing marriage and a guy, and i am going through that Praise the Lord for your video and channel
I am so glad that you are coming to the conclusion of what needs to change within you, the Lord guide you in JESUS NAME
Thanks for the beautiful message. I too had a heartbreak and breakup few months back and i was soooo into him and he just went into another relationship and i thought I'm not worthy of love ,love never finds me etc . But i realised we just need Jesus ❤❤ thanks a lot again Jackie
i love how the Lord uses your deepest wounds to lead you to your ministry🤍
For 20 years I’ve been waiting on one person that I’ve felt like is Gods will since I was a kid. I needed this tonight.
Thank you for being my big sister in Christ with this video. God is utilizing you to reach His people in these hardships. I truly am grateful you made this video because I will rewatch and remember God is more than enough and everything will be at the altar.
Amen sis :) HE IS SO WONDERFUL - I am telling you… nothing compares to His presence when I’m DEEP in worship, when I push past the 10 minutes where it seems boring because I’m not on my phone and I go deep… when I begin to break down because He walks into the room and the praise gets more and more intimate.
I pray Lord you will give my sister a profound experience of intimacy in your presence like she never has before. Reveal what needs to be revealed, fill her with your spirit of wisdom and let her fall in love with you in JESUS NAME like she never dreamed of. amen :)
@@jackieVanTine_I am not married and was not thinking spiritually and NOW I am so lost for doing bad. I need GOD I feel I blaspheme and not knowing. I am
Seriously sick and ws playing.
I've never come across such a brave person as you Jackie. I genuinely admire your attitude and your authenticity. Thank you for sharing with us your experiences they're very helpful. God bless you and your family 🙏🏻 amen
Dear Jackie:
I’m in awe of how God uses you to reach out to others who have suffered or are suffering the same story. Your story so closely aligns with mine. I had asked for confirmation signs and “received” all of them. Had vivid dreams that only pointed to this man. Insane coincidences that made me be more convinced than ever that my guy friend (also had known him for two years) was my future husband. He is now married to another girl. My idolization and desperation for signs led to my own demise, but in that fall and heartbreak, I came to realize that God was truly protecting me all along. I am happier than ever now and trust God now more than ever because through that heartbreaking rejection, I actually found full freedom from crippling anxiety. Your video came up on my algorithm out of nowhere, but I strongly feel it is the Lord assuring me through your words that He is in control. I feel so loved by God through your video and feel like I am closer and closer to having a fully healed heart. Thank you for obeying God and putting out your testimony for people like me to watch. :) Blessings 🤍
WOW WOW WOW sis!!! Thank you for this comment. It is comments like this that makes it WORTH IT for me to completely humiliate myself for the sake of the Lord and His people. This was soooo hard for me to post because there’s a chance that man might see this and laugh or think I’m crazy, but I KNOW the devil is doing the same thing to so many. May God heal your heart I know how earth shattering it is to see them get married and you thought you knew it would be you… God has better for you sis!!! Stay strong :)
Im literally in the same situation, except for idealizing her. I don’t idealize her because I don’t know much about her, and ,since I study dreams from a jungian perspective, I know that dreams very rarely speak about things that happens outside of us, dreams speak of things that happens inside of us. When I dream that she loves me, that we’re dating and etcetera, it’s probably a reflection of what I feel for her and not the other way around. I approach her sooner or later, but, since I don’t mind being single and since Im not in a hurry, I’ll take my time.
wow. God spoke to me so hard through this video. thank you so much for what you’re doing for God. ❤️🔥
Beautiful testimony! Thank you for being vulnerable… this is a much needed message ❤
Thank you for being obedient and sharing this. Thank you Lord!! Wow, this really meant a lot to me!!!
Thank you for being bold enough to share this with us I pray it reaches those that needs to hear this! I feel like this can apply to any area in our life not just idolizing marriage but just things and people in our lives if that makes sense❤
Thank you so much for sharing this. I have been dating a man since the end of June. And I have felt for so long (almost immediately) that he’s my person. These “God told me” videos have been coming for me lately. I already knew but started wondering if I needed a sign. A few days ago I prayed because my Man has asked me a couple times recently why I am so good to him. I asked God to help me articulate it for him. With Gods help I wrote him a letter, and in that letter I described the Love is… verse which are all characteristics he has shown me. And the biblical characteristics of a good man.. which he thoroughly embodies. He’s already asked me about what kind of jewelry metal I like and what diamond shape I like. I believe he knows as well as I do. We’ve found our person. We’re both 38 years old, he’s been married twice before, I am a widow. We met each other in the midst of our mess but God knows what we need. We’re putting God first and so blessed to have each other. Again, thank you. I don’t need signs. My heart knows.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for this. Especially since my last relationship was terrible and ended with a mess, it's only made me even more anxious and scared about relationships
I understand. I had to work through so much fear even when I met my husband… but when GOD BRINGS YOU SOMEONE, he doesn’t bring you someone who will harm you the way you have been harmed by others. You don’t need to fear when you have Jesus by your side.
Powerful message!!! I’ve been where you are, desperate and spiritually obsessing over some “Christian” player who wasn’t aligned theologically. Everything came crashing down and God filled me in a way that the idolization of marriage completely disappeared. I ended up actually being content and happy just focusing on God and His plan for my life. He filled me with so much passion for projects that I didn’t even have on my mind before. He literally revealed His purpose for my life with me and I felt fully content, even if I never got married. During this time, a couple of years in I met a man during Bible studies and connected with him spiritually. I didn’t even see him any other way, so we slowly got closer to each other until I realized that I loved him, in a spiritual type of way. It was mutual but still brought up so much anxiety because of my past.
Beautiful story & testimonial. Very touching. 😇🙏🙏
Thanks so much Carrie :)
Thank you so much Jackie for posting these videos. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve felt lost or I was dealing with something and then one of your videos will pop up on my feed and it’s exactly what I need for the time being. You are a blessing and a light and I love your REALNESS!!! Thank you for preaching the word of God and following His Holy Spirit. 💙 You are a beautiful person and speaker!!! Thank you for ministering and shining His word and light. I love the way that you teach and incorporate your real experiences, even weaknesses- which is SO HELPFUL!!!!! Love you!! ❤️ And God Bless you and your husband, your family and your ministry!!
Thank you for this truth Jackie. Appreciate you opening up and sharing💜 I also enjoyed the music 🎶 in the background...very calming
Absolutely sis! Thank you :)
Amazing story. God is awesome!!!
Happy for you. Thanks for sharing.Many many blessings.
Thank you, Jackie! I feel the pain, I remember telling God and people around me who’d ask that I’m already okay with being single, and I really thought I was. I had this peace during the pandemic, and it made me somewhat confident to say that I’m okay with growing old all by myself. I thought all was well, until God tested me real bad on it, He tested me real real bad.. In just less than a year, I’ve been strongly attracted to 3 different men who are clearly wrong for me, one right after the other, and I kept passing on the immoral feelings I have toward each of them, like I didn’t learn anything from the first ones.. Turned my back on all of them before they even began, but boy did I cry my heart out every single time, and to this day I’m still moving on from the last one..🤕
I hope you have completely moved on from it. I pray also that these videos of you talking about him doesn’t bother Lance 🙏🏼 God bless you, praying for you!
Same here! Ty for reminding me, appreciate it, the Lord gave me that Word in Genesis 22, 5 years ago❤and I am the same lately realizing idolizing marriage and today just surrender all I am -be it single or married, the Lord be glorified 😇🥰Hallelujah
Girl, yes! I am praising God over here! Clap, clap, clap hallelujah I love everything about it, and I am literally driving in my car praising God!! Facts!
Amen Sara 🙏😊🩷
Wow this is so precious! Thank you for opening up and being so honest! God bless you sister! 🌸
DUDE! I'm at 2 minutes in and you've just been telling my exact experience in the past 2 weeks 😂. Straight up ministry..go on. I need to know where this leads for my dealio
Wow …. The devil does the same thing with so many. Look at the comments so many say this is the EXACT same situation they are going through.
Wow! I also agree you nailed it! Best video about kingdom spouses! Thank you for sharing and warning so many of us out here. God bless you and your husband!
Amen. Put God first and all these other things will be added unto you.
I mess up and hurt for not trusting and out here sick and fooled. I need heaven and MY HOLY GHOST
Why would I play. I am older and put a lot before HIM. I DID NOT HAVE TO DO THIS AND HURT ME OR CUR ME. PLEASE PRAY FOR ME.
Hey Jackie. Really appreciate your message. Spoke to me directly. A poignant reminder to focus on the Lord and let the idols go! Thank you. 🙏🏻 to surrender to him and his will. Grateful thank you. Seeking him first despite the storm that rages all around. Thank you 🙏🏻
This is so real!! I had friends I did ministry with and one of my friends in the group decided that my little brother was her husband, and it destroyed our relationship, but also revealed a lot of immature fruit. But all the signs that you were talking about are signs that she would see as well, especially the number 222 and a lot of 1’s. I agree with you 100% at it’s very spiritually immature for us to look for signs all the time from God. And the enemy uses that greatly against God‘s people just like he did with you and your testimony and he did with my friend and our friendship. Thank you for sharing!
Wow…. Thank you for sharing! Pray for her… I’m sure it was very traumatic for her and still is. I pray if possible you can make amends!
@@jackieVanTine_ Yes and Amen!! I have such a sincere spirit towards her and pray for her future husband even now because she deserves an amazing man of God💕Thank you for your advice sister in Christ🥰
@@HisChannel-MandyJacoby amen I love that sis :) you’re a good friend!!!
@@jackieVanTine_ lol thank you, it’s all by God! He healed saved and delivered me💕
I'm experiencing the same thing right now...but instead of 222 I see 444,333,777,111...I also dream of this person but I saw him preaching, hugging me from behind, protecting me from rocks falling from the sky then the last dream I have of him grabbing my hand and him asking me to join him to ride a transportation...but I know he has a girlfriend so the logical me stayed and watch him go...I dont want to focus on this stuff i know my priority...so i resigned from job because he's my boss...he keep me pestering why i resigned i just said i want to focus more on myself and my family...I don't want to make a mistake, coz he could also be my future husband since I'm shock to hear that he also dream of me and he mentioned we where in a bus and there's only two of us...I'm not even sure if I'm in denial by resigning from my job just to avoid him but still kepping this mindset that.he could be my husband....it's crazy...am i becoming delusional
Good power message!
I hope many young and older women see this message and eyes open to godly truth.
God bless you!
God used what was meant for your harm, for good…praise the Lord! Much love, gratitude and respect sent your way. You have set your own comfort aside to bless many and God see’s your sacrifice. Thank you for being bold and courageous 💜🌻🙏🏼✨
I am in love with german guy and i pray alot to him be my husband and i felt ❤depressed twice cuz of my prayers didn't answer but after watching ur video u gave my some faith to believe in god's plan for me , thank you alot , ur talk has changed something in me
I love this. Same happened to me, I had 3 strong visions while on Ayahuasca about this guy being my future husband. I became obsessed with him for a year and a half. Watching his Instagram all the time, messaging him every few months, I knew he has a girlfriend also. It was killing me, I was having hundreds of dreams about him, I felt I was going to lose my mind. One day I just completely gave it to Jesus and found peace within. I’m still single waiting for my husband ..if it’s God’s will.
Lol simp, there are so many single guys yet you want men with gf, embarrassing.
@@eternity.in.a.m0m3ntyou don’t know what she is going through. I pray you find peace and stop looking at the chip in someone else’s eye and not the log in your own 🤍
This video came at the perfect time, this is something i have been thinking about lately and this is exactly what I needed to hear. I had a similar experience where i thought I had met the man i was going to marry and for 7 months I idolized the idea of us being together. I was so disappointed when I realized he was not the man God wanted for me but I am turning away from that idolization and towards the Lord. 💓
This is the story of my life! Thank you for finally understanding why this happened in my life.
I appreciate you sharing this with us. It requires a lot of humility. Unfortunately, it does happen quite often, and it breaks my heart to see friends caught in this trap. My pastor once said that manipulation is the beginning of witchcraft, and I think that’s why these signs-like the initials and the flowers-can be so concerning. I’m grateful that your eyes were opened and that you were humble enough to be obedient to God and bless others. It must have been very difficult, but I’m so glad you did it. You’re truly a blessing. My favorite part was when you said when it’s from God both man and women will behave the way it’s told in the Bible. “Man pursues woman corresponds.” Amen!
amen !!! Yes it’s hard because your friends won’t listen to you. They won’t open their eyes… and they waste years! Just pray for them. It’s a very touchy subject….
This was so deep but very much needed !
Glad it was helpful to you 😊
THANK YOU FOR BEING SO BRAVE AND SO HONEST.
Absolutely!!! There’s no other way to be in the Kingdom. Darkness is getting pretty bold….
Girl i can relate but God is forever good. No longer making having a husband an idol but when God is ready he will come through. God is too faithful and loving.
Yes, amen
Thiis spoke to me in many ways! I recently went through a situation with so many similarities..Thank you for sharing sister, God Bless.
I felt some secondhand embarrassment when you read about the dreams and told me the signs you had. But that is what the devil does, the devil wants to put you to shame and ruin your life. God said idols can never save us. I really commend you for sharing this, it helps many people and become a guidance for people like me.
I also had my moments, thank God He released us from idols, & tarot cards.
Thank you so much 🥹 I needed that so much! Bc I’m literally in the same situation. So many signs and dreams but in real life its nothing like that. I’m so confused and I just my peace back. But this really encouraged me to just let go! Thank you 4 sharing your story 🙏🏾❤️
Deuteronomy 13:1-3 (KJV):
"If there arise among you a prophet, or a dreamer of dreams, and giveth thee a sign or a wonder, and the sign or the wonder come to pass, whereof he spake unto thee, saying, Let us go after other gods, which thou hast not known, and let us serve them; Thou shalt not hearken unto the words of that prophet, or that dreamer of dreams: for the Lord your God proveth you, to know whether ye love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul."
Exactly!!! Truth here!
Thank you for sharing sister. Idolization is such a real thing. The thing is also, we as women should not be lusting or looking at attractiveness at a man. We should first ask a man if they are taken or not after they approach us, before we start thinking romantically about them. This happens all the time with young ladies who see my husband and get googly eyes, they may believe they have good intentions, however we need to as daughters of the Lord, we need to prioritize asking if someone is single or not, because the finding someone attractive part, should come after knowing they are single. That was my first question to my now husband, I asked him if he was seeing anyone or married because I would never talk to him after if he was. Before I met my husband, I was duped by a man who told me he was single, and I found out he was married. Thankfully I didn't spend much time speaking to him, but this is just a word of caution to my sister's in Christ our there. Protect your own heart and the hearts of people that are possibly taken. All the best to you guys and don't give up, I know the correct husband is out there for you, sister!
Thank you, Jesus for this beautiful reminder 🙏🏻🔥🔥🔥
This is amazing. The Lord really spoke through you to me. Wow, I'm so amazed. Thank you, Lord. May the Lord bless you and keep you. Keep doing what you are doing.🙏🙌
I have been through very traumatic things with men, so I do need for God to show me more than one sign in order for me to commit my life to a man who I’m gonna be with for the rest of my life. Everybody has their own path.
The same here...alots of traumatic things ...can't explain
Seek God above all things and He will bring everything to you in time! Healing from toxic physical abuse relationships myself and it wasn’t until I realized God wanted me to have a relationship with Him and stop idolizing men, that He would show me true relationship then bring the perfect relationship into my life. He is readying me for it by practicing with Him, just as a good Father does for His child! My lesson- always put God first above all things
GIRL PREACH IT!!!!! YES AMEN! 🙏
He can show you more than one sister but not millions… that’s not how God works. Relying solely on signs is extremely dangerous…. The devil can also give signs. Is he a man of God according to God’s standards? Do you feel peace with him? Does he continuously lead you to sin or God? Is he showing any small signs of abuse? Are you physically attracted to him? Are you both equally yoked spiritually? Does he compromise his relationship with Jesus? These are the “signs” that matter the most
That’s not even biblical. Wicked and perverse is a generation that seeks after signs and wonders.
Thanks sis. I really needed to hear this today. Appreciate your vulnerability and transparency so much. Thanks for being obedient to God even when it’s hard. Keep shining His light, it legit doesn’t belong under a bushel ♥️
I almost didn’t click on this video because I’m still processing the month and a half trip I just came from. I had a dream for years ago about my high school best friend choosing a suitor for me, and in the dream I heard the name of a city being whispered and repeated many times. I searched up that city name and found out that it was in Spain. Recently, I had the opportunity to go on admissions trip to Egypt and that the plane was going to stop in Spain. My roommate and I decided to make it a trip. Needless to say I didn’t meet anyone in this city, and I am left wondering if this dream had any meaning to it, if it is not time yet, or if, any of the people I met outside of this city is meant to be my husband. I have struggled with idolizing marriage, and at other times, I thought I was not worrying about it at all, but now that I’m 31 I am having a hard time waiting. You said some key things that helped me regain trust in God‘s promise and zeal continue to know the Lord even deeper. Definitely convicted about searching signs lol. Thank you for being obedient!
Not all dreams come from God btw.
This was very powerful. Thank you sister for your testimony❤ Thank you for your obedience, that answered so many questions for a lot of us.
Really thank you for sharing. I am a dreamer too, but forgot the warning when learning dream interpretation that I need to be really careful when the dream is romantic matters related to myself. I had accurate dreams before I was misled by my own romantic dreams. It also took me time to ‘forgive’ God.
I watched your video a couple months ago. Very real and raw and relatable! This encourages me to keep waiting!
I have a similar testimony that happened to me four years ago, and I’m grateful for deliverance 👏🏾
I won’t tell the whole story, but this thing got to a point where this man that I “loved” had gotten married to another woman with a name so similar to mine, her birthday also happened to be three days before mine, and we shared mutual friends. Even after that, I STILL believed that he was my husband. I don’t remember when, but I eventually stopped liking him one day, due to a lot of prayer and releasing it to the Lord. I cannot tell you what made me think that this man was my husband.
Today I’m still very single, and waiting on the Lord to confirm to my actual husband about who I am. I know the Lord hasn’t forgotten me when it comes to my husband, but I also know that He will not come bringing this man with a bunch of confusion and “puzzle pieces” for me to figure out.
CMON AMEN! WOW… yes I believed that he was still my husband even after he married too…. Crazy how deep deception can go.
Woq i just turned 45yrs being idolizing marriage. Been single for 4years. I just had to put down my dog. Been in so much pain wishing i had my ex boyfriend or a husband to hold me. Now i understand. You helped me so much
It’s not everyday I hear God told me something follow through. It normally backfires.
Hey i know this video is probably old but my situation is different me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and the connection i have with him is like nothing ive experienced but he struggles to give up sin and its hard when i go into my journey and grow closer to god and to see him struggling then giving up then trying and its hard because it makes me question sometimes of hes for me but the way the lord kept putting him back into my life and the way he loves me makes me believe even if hes in my life for a reason and its hard because i have a hard time praying constantly for others i get swalloed up in other things and im working on putting god first fighting against falling into the trap of lukewarmness but the lord never left my side and he continues to help me grow and guide me this is my testimony
Leave the guy. He's holding you back.
@BlackoutPatriot when I said that I meant he doesn't hold me back it's hard watching your loved ones suffer is what I meant
I believe you're in denial because you love the guy, there's a lot you would not realise because "love" will be veiling you, but most definitely you have to allow him to find God properly by himself whilst you do the same, if God really wants you together you will be together with him at the beginning and centre of everything, this is the " unequally yoked" and God's blessings operate inside of his parameters if you love someone who has potential to draw you away from God, it's a scary place to be in because one day they might succeed. However God loved us whilst we were yet sinners, this is to say that you'll see the hand of God in your life but it does not mean that he supports sin. I think deep down you know what to do even the Holy spirit tells you and you get conflicted then you justify, silence and continue.
I felt in my heart this video is for me. Thank you God❤
Thanks and Blessings, sis! Its come to a point where deep down im not ready to have a man in my life! I remember you doing a video saying if your home isnt in order, which is the case for me, how can you be ready? Ive been declutterring and organizing my home forever, and battling many health issues since 2020, so it wouldnt be fair to bring a man into my mess! Thank you for your help!
I also just want to add that what you’re saying is so true, while at the same time you don’t have to have it all together to meet your spouse. So much growth and even healing will happen together in marriage❤
@@jennifernagle2588 I understand what you're saying , but thank you for the feedback! I was obsessing over marriage, and we are not to idolize anything,only worshipping God
This video felt so genuine and true to God's word. Needed.
Being lonely is sometimes a curse and sometimes a blessing. I never did nobody before don’t look at dating. I don’t think about dating.
But I don’t think about it as lonely as in being sad. I just think about it as a way from lonely away from things that are not my truth so I can get a clear picture of what really matters to my heart that God wants me to have the world wants me to have.❤❤❤
Wow, thanks for sharing. I went thru a very similar situation. I’m so glad I’ve overcome those thoughts and have been able to fully surrender myself to him 🙏
Your experience has made me see that I need to give everything up to the Lord and serve him only. I am looking to others matter when all it should be is the lord
I married a covert narcissist. Was abused all my life. We are divorcing now. My heart is broken. I was angry at God for letting this happen. He intervened with others. I found your video. Was what I needed to hear. Thank you.
Thank you for your honesty Jackie 🌸
Thank you for your obedience to the Lord, you have truly helped me in a way. I had felt stuck and like I wasn’t getting anywhere and had asked the Lord for clarity if I was doing something wrong and came across this video, you have truly helped,I pray that God continues to bless you and your husband both abundantly!❤
Amen sister before I came to Christ fully I thought this guy was my husband's dreams, confirmations and such but he wasn't for me at all he was in the world and few years past and when I made the first move he left me on read. and later he found a gf and now they are getting married. I learned if its in the will of the father and we are faithful and not idolizing marriage the lord will bring a spouse. I'm still single and busy following Christ 🥰