Educating Yorkshire - Episode 3 (Documentary) | Our Stories
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- Tom is approaching his final year at Thornhill while Robbie-Joe is starting out. Both are bursting with energy and charm, but neither of them is particularly interested in learning. Subscribe to Our Stories: bit.ly/3lzSXhv
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never seen a teacher overreact so badly to someone being 5 minutes late
guess you've never seen my language teacher
Same my teacher just goes sit down
What time stamps that
My history teacher says “StAy In FoR 10 MiNuets
yea like fr he was even crying
"4/5 days a week" ... "that's 80% of the time" QUICK MAFS
Lol
no
Max Claydon i was shook that he did this tho
Lol
Never knew he went to school 7 times a week
I love how after tom’s loss he still asked people if they want a crisp
I think it showed how much of a good kid he was. I felt bad for him if I’m honest.
good lad tbh 🥺💫
Hes a rare don
I feel sorry for him 😭
Ya por tom
Sorry but I think Robbie Jo helping his mate around when he currently has a disability is something wort being 5 minutes late over. If I was his teach he would get praise for helping someone in need even if it did cause him to be 5 minutes late.
I totally respect that and the teaching is horrendous in that situation
That’s what I said
well said bro
i would tell them that they shouldn't be making themselves late but I wouldn't yell
He was also late for form which is not really a lesson.
Robbie-Joe: Helps a kid who needs it most.
Teacher: WHY ARE YOU 5 MINUTES LATE!!!??
He probably does it only to miss lessons
Coolie Iqbal 786 mate he wis helpin his pal who’s on cruches
gigidy gigidy goo
I hate teachers whan they scream like that whyyyyyy were you ten minutes lete
he was 5 mins late and she screamed at him like that, weird tbh @@qawwalifan786
If your teachers name is miss urine she's bacicslly asking for trouble
Uren. Stress the second syllable.
Miss Pissssssssssssss
Paul Jordan we all know it’s uren it just sounds like urine
@@gbx9997 sssssssssssssssssssssss
😂😂😂😂
Teacher: *shouts at kid*
*kid starts crying*
*Teacher immediately becomes soft on him*
True mate
Elernation Do you have the time stamp of when that happened?
Arjan Singh it begins at 12:20 when the teacher is shouting and goes onto 13:00 (ish). Sorry it took almost a week I don’t have notifications on to tell me if someone commented something
Elernation Thank you!
true
Don’t get how Thomas went to school the day after his brother died
Greta Dodd ye I wouldn’t be in school for time
I think he might of wanted to take his mind off of it
It’s cause ma boy was listening to Skrillex
time stamp?
I wouldn’t wanna stay at home
Tom is such a lad. Even when dealing with the loss of a close family member he still offers his mates a crisp
He's very generous
After the Queen’s death, I actually ran away with Woody.EXE and I never opposed him once because I knew he would get very angry at me. I didn’t care if everyone was worried sick or not because I wanted to get away from the arguments! Woody.EXE returned me home 2 days later and my mother agreed to Woody.EXE living at my house permanently.
It just seems like Thomas has ADHD and has nothing to help calm him down
Yh 100% I do too I can tell
listen u don’t know what ur saying I have ADHD and it’s no excuse to be naughty but it makes you hyper and impulsive more when u don’t take Ritalin or adderall. Btw u don’t get “tested”
Symbol X1 no but it can be an explanation why your acting bad,,,,,, I have adhd and whenever I act bad I instantly regret it
@@symbolx1407 I mean don't take my word for it but
observational tests
Yeah exactly
"she's not on her lunch, she just eats all the time"
😂😂😂
so relatable
The story of my life.
🤣🤣🤣😂
watching tom after he heard his step brother died was so difficult :(
his voice 🥺
I know
timestamp
7 Carter I started to cry after seeing Tom solemn
@@Fledgelita watch it and find out
That Robbie jo is so soft that he starts crying when he gets told off but then he acts all hard in front of his friends saying that he got told off
That’s so true a lot of them act harder then they really are
He Has Got problems That's why is he not allowed to have problems? He cant help it.
Billy Mc1122 He is that’s what I am saying work with him not send him away or he will develop a complex that he is not worth it
That so true
What school is this?
I can’t believe she kicked off so much over him helping his friend around who’s on crutches, made him cry when he was just trying to be a genuinely nice person? What’s a better life lesson? Helping someone in need and being late 5 minutes or being on time and leaving your friend to struggle? Jesus Christ.
You'd still get fired in a work scenario
@@chillx656 but this isn’t work is it? he was like 13 or smth
@@anziepanzie school is trying to train you FOR work lol
School students always have expectations to meet. If you're meant to be in form or lesson at a particular time, then you need to be there at that time. Plus the teacher didn't even know he was helping his mate out, she asked him twice why he was late, the first time he didn't answer, the second time he muttered that he didn't know.
You know, it genuinely wouldn't surprise me if the kid on crutches was late for form and his teacher completely ignores his crutches and yells WHY ARE YOU 1 MINUTE LATE FOR FORM YOU ARE A COMPLETE DISAPPOINTMENT TO THE SCHOOL!!!!
She wants the kid to behave but keeps showering him with attention every time he misbehaves. Literally the opposite of what she should do.
CumberCube I know that’s what schools don’t understand when they misbehave throwing them in detention , isolation and excluding them isn’t gonna help them
@@whynofox1622 they need discipline
That’s what my welsh teacher did with me whenever I messed around he would laugh and make a joke of but on parents evening he would talk about how bad I was
Agree
Nope. There is no point shouting at the kid. He knew she was disappointed in him, and that was enough of a punishment for him
Please don’t tell me im the only one that cried in toms English lesson.
Amy Hughes no I did too
@@kristhesunshine5350 why
@@user-hc3ms4in9h his step brother died
yeah i did too
I cried to
Why is no one talking about the lunchtime assistant helping him out like she isn’t even a teacher and just serves lunch but cares for him and talks with them likes she’s on his level. Much respect 👌
time stamp?
didn’t like the idea of that woman questioning tom about how he died, wasn’t needed in my opinion
I sort of disagree. I think see meant to try and comfort him she could have done it in a different way
@@sapphia7115 and no one asked for yours so shut up
Sapphia Stewart it’s keep your opinions to yourself but it’s okay you tried
@@mollyergen3132 😂
@@sapphia7115 stfu
That beatbox at 4:10 actually sounded good
ikr why isn’t anyone talking about itttt
i was just about to comment that so I just checked to see if anyone had already commented.
I know 😂😂😂
Imagine your step brother dying the day before then having to go to school🥺
He wanted to go
@@shroomy8918 he didn’t I’m pretty sure his mum sent him because she needed time to grief alone as well
@@rodgerwisdom nope he decided to go wasnt forced the work probably helped him not think about it
I was sent the day after my grandmother died. I suppose it was better than staying home where everyone was crying.
@@annaoddi2257 important to have structure and routine i guess. I started a new school year like everyone else a week after my mum died. Had her funeral only a few days before.
I think they were being unfair on Tom. He should have either stayed home and grieved or they at least shouldn’t have made him go to lessons.
I couldn’t agree more
Nah
He shouldn’t
plus they shouldn't have given him a bunch of work to do. Like there's not enough on his mind already
you do realise tom decided to come to school he can't be treated differently just cos his brother has died like i get it my grandma died and i went to school the next day the teachers gave me more work to take my mind off of it if you get me like so i wouldn't be as upset and to put my mind on something else 🤷🏼♀️
The English teacher saying it’s better for him to be in the classroom than in the corridor shows she’s a good teacher, we need more like her, my teachers would never say that
Imagine telling w kid he couldn’t be late five minutes for helping his friend on cruches. She should of Atleast told him in a soft voice. Okay try walking 5 minutes earlier with him
That English teacher is an amazing teacher🙌🏼 she could tell how broken he was and it was hurting her 🥺 everyone needs a teacher like her unfortunately we don’t have enough like her
She needs to learn to talk and pronounce
No she's not she's a turkey
Robey shouldn't have been told off for helping someone instead he should be praised and encouraged.
Yes I totally understand that Robby Joe was trying to help a friend out, but if it’s making him late and getting him into hot water as it were, then is it really worth it?
Sometimes, you have to be a little bit ruthless in order to get ahead and if that means leaving someone else behind then so be it. Even if it’s someone who’s struggling.
This may sound incredibly harsh but it’s a sad reality that we all have to deal with I’m afraid.
Why’s the headteacher Thanos 😭
looks like agent 47 if he was a nonce
@@Silver_Specter hahhahaahahhahahahahahhhahhahahaha your really not fucking funny
SPX uzi hahahahahahahahahahaha *no one fucking asked*
Omg I knew he looked familiar😂😂
@@zhubin3441 was not trying to be funny i was stating a fact
12:18 it’s not rubbish woman, he’s helping the poor boy
I thought that! He's showing a kind gesture and gets punished for being late to his form, instead of letting someone else be late.
I hear what you're saying but she's right, it's not his responsibility and he was probably going to use that as an excuse for being late, I knew I would have back then lmao, I'm pretty sure the other kid wouldn't have gotten in trouble for being late and could have easily found somebody else to help him
Luca Gazi yeah, i guess that the teachers would give him someone to help him leave 5 minutes early and that like at my school if he really needed help
I disagree. He shouldn’t be late, his friend didn’t need help, he was just using it as an excuse.
Marcus V yeah that is true tbh, the school would know if he needed help and would probably get someone who is doing better in lessons to help him
Tom is sad because of losing his brother meanwhile... GiGiDy GIgiDy GoO
How can you say " obviously you still have to do your work" that is so ridiculous, man has just lost his brother, the nouns can wait
Let me think because he's in school
He literally decided to go in he didn’t have too
@@N3K0M4ID then you probably shouldn’t have come to school bud...🙄
Literally had the same thing as Robbie. I got a detention for helping my friend in crutches as the lift was broken. Like, I wasn’t just gonna walk past her and ignore her.
Gabby Oswald lolllll
@@sadie2287 why'd you not just say your sister did in the first place? It's a comment just go back and delete it lol
1:04 this guy really said: U gOt AnY gRaPeS😂😂
It is the duck song
Edith Berryman I was just waiting for this comment
I mean this was 2012 I think
Tom is such a lad, after losing someone he still troops on and shows care for others, props to him
Welp,I mean yea we all process grief in different ways so yea
ah the teachers are just as bad, they cant control the class, no discipline.
shaolinskunks88 they got a bit of dicipline and the teachers job is to teach the kids maths etc. Not any therapists in the classroom as i see
@@bageda3109 kids do need discipline by parents or teachers
@@marclabrie6027 * and
I cried when Tom put rip on his hand bless him
"what happend last night"
Step brother died"
Junna crisp?
Minute ?
Honestly I'm from the US, I'm 37 and have a 17 and 7 year old, and I'll tell you now these teachers seem to care SO MUCH, our teachers here can't seem to be bothered to actually care about the kids, the ones that do are FEW AND FAR BETWEEN. I think they were extremely supportive of Tom, here they would have just sent him home from the get-go like he is not our problem. Good on these educators!
Schools are way too scared of being sued in the U.S. The U.K teachers can be real, you even hear some mild cursing and tough love. In the U.S. everything's down to protocol and people will definitely twist that. "You were approximately 1 foot away from the child and said XYZ, now you're facing disciplinary action because it's hindered their ability to progress" or such and such a thing. Even if you meant well, if you didn't follow that protocol, you're doomed. Unfortunately, teachers are too scared to get too close to kids.
You should watch the last episode
I really relate to Tom.
I lost my dad last March. I was in school the next day, where my Head of House at the time had a meeting with me, where he promised to tell my teachers for me so they were aware.
He never did. I had to tell them myself. Six times that day.
Apart from hearing about his death, I haven’t cried about it once. I’ve been close to but somehow I’ve kept it all in. It’s making everyone worried, including me. I loved my dad; out of everyone he was the person I’d go to, have a laugh to, be myself to...
We’d go out to the city and try out restaurants (our favourite closed four months after he passed) and just generally have a great time together. I really miss him.
Sometimes though I’m just walking home from college or work and my mind just wanders back to when I found out, including when I went onto the phone a few minutes later, because I really needed my best friend. I tear up, but I don’t outright cry. I don’t think this is normal at all.
I can also cry on command now. As a student studying drama and performing arts, this is helpful.
This isn’t normal either I’m sure.
I have no idea who to talk about to this because I just feel too awkward to.
And yet I’m saying this on a TH-cam comment section. Wow.
Hahahaha unlucky
I usually don’t open up about personal things but I do when it’s the right time. The grief over Prince Philip has been very difficult for me thinking on how the Queen is coping but I’m not
@@nicolelawless3199 that old goat Road more women than Johnny sins I'm sure she'll be grand
I'd suggest talking to a grief counselor. I went to one after my mum passed when I was 15. They're really good at talking to people who are dealing with a loss. They know about all the weird ways people can react, and it just helps to talk to someone who actually knows what they're on about.
Sorry for your loss.
I'm honestly on the kids side at this point
"Don't help your crippled mate, it's more important to be on time" seems a bit brutal to the crippled kid
yep i left school becuse my teacher pushed me downn stairs and tried liying when there was a camrea next to us stupid bich got sacked
CumberCube and the point where the teacher said "you’ve still got to do the work"
CumberCube I know right
@@skefsongames btw that sounds really bad crippled is a lot worse in the uk lmao
Oh my gosh...... when I saw Tom.
My mum died when I was 16y and my dad died when I was 17y . My tears just ran...
I don't know how I passed.
Form time in this school is so strict, mine was the funniest time of the day
What is form time
Form time was the reason I went to school tbh.
Mine means play and have fun then read a book
Ikr
Mine is dead as hell
This kids need kahoot
The question is... is did Robbie get his chocolate
Coming Home the world will never know
bless tom 🥺 he still went to school which is shocking. and when he wrote rip *the name* on his hand it just broke my heart 🥺💗
The fact that those kids haven’t been usted of some kind of autism or ADHD and are punished like that is so unjust
I thought that 5 mins into the episode!
"No, sometimes, quite a bit actually" awhhhh
Read it as it came on
I am blown away by the patience, compassion, talent and dedication of the educators.... they are not perfect... but many of them seem like wonderful people...
Miss Urine what an unfortunate name
@@cam4561
My sentiments entirely. LOL!!!!!
Both of the students in my opinion, have really good hearts
I’m literally crying more than Tom
Didn’t ask. Toms step brother died the night before and Tom was really sad that’s why she said that I was crying more than Tom
@@coreywilson7361 bro why you so rude “didnt ask” stfu
I feel like form tutors are the most calm and nicest ppl compared to the other teachers
# Clickbait u would NOT say that if you saw my form teacher
Not always
Tbf form tutors are real teachers aswell
Generally because they act pally with the kids and get a good relationship with them, so don't actually have to deal with them being disruptive or cunt-ish that often. The kids like them so do as they're supposed to. But if the form teacher had to get them to do work and be a disciplinarian among another 15-20 kids, i'm sure they'd be pulling their hair out as well lol.
# Clickbait our form tutor forced us to be silent through the whole of form, and wanted us to read, now it seems alright bit annoying, but the thing is, if you brought your own book to read, you couldn’t read that, and her only books she would give we’re fucking nursery rhyme like books, you know the cute doodles with the scratch and sniff shit, it was annoying, the only fun we every had was when she had a baby, that was half a year ago and our new tutor is way better
I love how the school ignores someone having adhd and saying its bad behaviour, and that exclusions etc are gonna help , just like before when a guy was bullied so much he lashed out multiple times and was isolated and excluded without them trying to help stop the bullying
Is his ADHD diagnosed, though? Having no diagnosis and no meds does not help. No diagnosis, no understanding and accommodations.
My stepbrother died last night...
Wanna clrisp?
CHEERleaders YT that aint funny he’s my big couisin and it is very sad what happened
Izzi Walkz sureee
LewisMorrey I’m not lyin we were all so devastated RIP RYAN
@izzi walks lol
Simon Van der linde dont be Dk insensitive
I’ve never seen a teacher get so mad over someone forgetting a French book in year 7
✨grammar schools ✨
They really need to chill lol
@@june550 oh 🤣 I went to a private school so I wouldn’t know lol
Student: sorry I’m late
Narrator: he’s only 5 mins late.
Teacher: *goes mad at student for being 5 mins late*
I will never understand why teachers get so bloody raging if a kid is like 5 minutes late, they are KIDS
Notverycool its about mentality. If they do it once and do not get any problems doing it, they will keep doing it. I work in a school and i was a big problem kid myself so i know how it goes.
@@bageda3109 totally agree 👍
Notverycool How are they supposed to learn basic social manners and rules if they don’t enforce it, the parents sometimes don’t give a damn or are too busy.
@@fionnmaccumhaillsmammy296 kids need discipline some way
@@fionnmaccumhaillsmammy296 But he was helping a student who was on crutches, isn't that a worthy thing to praise him for?
“THAT WAS ALMOST PERFECT ...LIKE MEE”
Why are you a teacher if your name is mrs urine 😂😂
HeadHunter 😂😂
I have a Miss Seaman, pronounced semen.
And people fir a laugh put her name as Miss Semen on jotters 😂😂
Just did copy me lmao
got a teacher out my school named Mr Condon lmao like condom
I had a teacher called Mr. Hiscock.
This should be called educating kids with adhd
Ikr
and exclude them for basically just being misunderstood and totally wrongly handled..
So true
Agrreeeeeed
Amelia Huh hi Next time before commenting, try and get your facts right, and not judge people, u ignorant human
Robbie Joe is adorable, I could never be mad at him 😂
he's so fucking annoying
Poogurt 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
@@bonsor78 I know like that they do it to try and be funny or hard like an absolute melon, he would probery get drunk and do something so bad now.
he seems like the kid who acts hard but when you stand up to him he runs like a black guy with a kkk member behind him
Hes not
"she's not on her lunch she just eats all the time"
Ok but same
I honestly wanted to cry for him man. I couldnt imagine being in that situation
nobody:
that one kid in the middle of the doco: *if you scratch yourself 99 times your skin comes off :D*
Good old jack
That worried me actually, it sounded like pre-self harm
I know I‘m a bit late to the comment section, but I‘d just like to say how great Tom‘s english teacher seems. She seems to get him best out of all the teachers
having a step-brother myself, i couldn't even imagine what tom was feeling at the time. he said it himself even though aren't completely the same blood we treat each other as if we did. such a shame, sorry for your loss if you ever read this.
Seeing Tom going from high energy to sad and quiet really quite hurt to watch.
Look for the light
Lol I love all the comments from all these psychologists who are trained and qualified to diagnose ADHD and autism spectrum disorder.
Ikr
Hugh Conboy it is quite clear when watching these
It's almost like they are saying he needs to get checked, because it's quite clear that's somethings wrong
Wow only just realised, 63 likes, that's my personal best for any Facebook or TH-cam comment or post. #mindblown
@@hughconboy7330 I'm the 70th like on my main acc
Miss urine lol
144hz kris I was think that to😂
144hz kris this is why I came to the comments😂
It’s Miss Uren... not great but yeah
@@ItzChuppa its miss urine now lol
@L D mate if you're going to correct people for no point at least do it right
"I was thinking that too."
I lost my step dad when I was in year 10 and it hurt, but going to school was the best coping mechanism for me. Sometimes you need that normality to keep you going.
Going to college the day after the Queens funeral, my friends found it very heartbreaking. I’ll never forget how heartbreaking my Woodys grief actually is and now he has to deal with the passing of a S club 7 member as I grieve
Can relate to Tom loads as I was in Secondary School when my dad died, is a painful process to go through especially at that age.
Sorry man
robie seems like the kid to act hard but if someone stands up to him he runs crying to the closest teacher
He was only a Year 7 boy cut him some slack.
@@jdbruiser i was a year 7 at one point and I didn't act like that
@@Silver_Specter Yeah but every student is different. I think many kids are better giving than taking. They put on a face where they're tough because they're in control, but when someone bites back it threatens them and they don't know how to handle it.
This principal is one of the best I’ve seen . If more principals were like him school would be amazing.
La-Chantae Russell headteacher not principal
Princess of Wales Idek anymore but yeah he’s very patient.
yeah... no.
don't even get me started on him.
If Tom were to shave his head, he'd be Al Murray, Pub Landlord.
Educating Yorkshire, more like inside set 8.
lmao funniest cmment ever lol
Gammon 😂
Take away 5
Gammon
Absolutely hilarious.
Mate its not set 8 tats set 9 stuff right there XD
Those teachers are awesome. Why wasn't Robbie Joe diagnosed, what's wrong with the mother, it's not the schools job to straighten the kid out. Lucky he's so charming, knows it and the teachers actually like him apart from the fact he's disruptive and swears 😅
I love how all “trouble” kids Have a teacher that they Respect and The teacher Cares over the child
she was so mean to that boy who was helping his mate :(
I’m not going to lie, I would die for tom🥺
Ria Back he was being a twat after a bit tho
Rafael his step brother passed away one evening and he still went into school the next day
No you’d not
He is my step uncle and his step brother is my uncle
@@yourmum7096 SCREW THAT
We all have to agree that Robbie was being a helpful lad. He was helping his mate on crutches get to class. Aren’t we encouraged to help people!
See I was helping my mate in a wheelchair and I got told off for helping her during a fire drill. I helped her come downstairs 😂 and the substitute sent me to detention and told me to not come back to school for 2 days. And I was like I'm sorry but do you want to see her fly downstairs and break her bones even more🤦🏻♀️ and SHE SAID WELL SHE SHOULD USE THE ELEVATOR! And then I just walked home and my mum phoned the school and the substitute has never been seen again😂
But what was funny is when I was highschool this girl had to have a chair that she sat in and they basically just flung her down the stairs (basically) she got fed up of being flung so she flings her self down the stairs instead😂 it's well funny
Abigail Ferris i love how you came back weeks later to add to your story
@@scarlett2629 I forgot about it sorry 🥺
41:27 Robbie talking about his teacher is the cutest thing !!
I agree
Never did I think one of these episode would ever make me cry
Toms step brother: **dies**
Tom: wanna crisp
I hate that teacher in so many ways. 1. She repeatedly asked Robby (or whatever his name is) to tell her why he was late but when he tried to, she butted in and kept shouting at him 2. She was full on shouting at him but when another teacher started walking up the hall she got all nice and started talking really calm?!
“ I’ve naughty in science” I love how he says that with pride
Robby is a troublesome student but come on. A teacher is making him cry over doing a good deed helping a kid with crutches
Never seen a teacher so pissed about a student being 5 minutes late 💀.
"my stepbrother died last night- but i treated him like my real brother."
"do you want a crisp?"
“Depends”
Who else was bored during quarantine so they watch these types of videos😎😎
I feel soo sorry for Tom when his step-brother died, his step-brother will always be in a better place 😭😭❤️❤️
Rip Ryan ❤️
It's tough that tom went to school next day after his brother died, but I wasn't too different after my mum passed. Week later I started year 10 because I honestly just wanted to hang out with my friends and have something in my life that was normal.
Why do all those year 7s look like year 2s
That’s year 7s for you
It's almost like after the funeral, they just automatically think he'll be ok after that. It'll always be hard for him now. Poor fricking lad, I feel so sorry for him.
"WANKER"
teacher turns around
"That wasn't me who said that"
Fucking amazing i love this country
time?
@@sr_fites3274 4:18
Its so nice to see that teachers can actually care.
robbie jos tutor shouting at him for helping his friend in crutches is ridiculous, he shouldve been praised!! i think he can afford to miss out on 5 mins of his year seven tutor class for that lol
That teacher saying hes using the fact his step bros died is just mean and horrible
“You on ya lunch?”
“No she just eats all the time.”
Imagine being called miss urine 😂 😭 😂 😂
I don’t see why that teacher was so harsh with him for being 5 minutes late, he walked in and said sorry miss. He was trying to help his friend.
i used to always be on time but i could never be arsed with the last lesson so i would leave 1 hour early that's until the school police officer put a stop to it
I wondered if she apologised off screen. I thought it was very unreasonable when I saw it first time.
2:46 aw bless that face sums up what I felt about school!😂😂😂😂
whys miss piss had a go at Robby Jo for helping his mate then