I love the last part. that is very important. the advice you give. it's biblical. btw, 1 Peter 3:7 - the prayers of men are hindered if they dont treat their wives with respect!
Pole sana. Though women should also learn that its not wise to keep on getting pregnant in unstable marriages. You cannot rewind life so be very careful.
this is what our mother's went through and men nowadays are mad because we cannot be like our mothers... Reasons kuna single mothers wengi because no one can vumilia such in this century
Women should practice family planning especially if you are married to a useless man. This kind of suffering can be minimised if the lady had fewer children.
Oh God this is really sad😨I know this woman she used to be our neighbor back in Naivasha mirera.woi mwathani Wa Mary you were my mum's friend may God give you peace aki.
Ndio maana wanaume siku hizi wanakuwa frustrated because hatuwezi vumilia haya mateso😢 wakituuliza why we can't be like our mothers... This is what walivumulia living miserable lives
I'm sorry but I really don't understand why this lady kept having babies with this man. She was capable of sustaining herself, why didn't she leave? In my case, as soon as me and my ex started having issues, I moved to another room and never had intercourse with him ever again. I wasn't going to take any chances
Am tired of listening to such stories While I see mature adult women with brains but never attempt to leave or protect their girls! For gods sake why wait until things are so unrepairable! Your on Dota will never heal neither fully forgive! Ridiculous!!!
@@rozziemmary4531 I'm also fed up! Yaani she didn't go to the police, neither did she take the girl to hospital. Some people need to whipped in public.
@Rozziem Mary I’m also tired!!! I feel for the daughter, how can you still stay with a man who did that to your own child 😢😢😢. She kept on giving him a pass to do whatever he wanted and then say ndiatindaniriire, I’m just annoyed and at the same time heartbroken
A man that cheats is also likely to commit incest. He needs to go to jail for defiling his daughter. I like the child that changed the family name, I would do the same and would never treat him as a parent. Jane, he will never change, it's you to CHANGE PERMANENTLY!!
Ngai muhunjia, what makes me angry is that we enable men to use us like trash. Let's say enough is enough 😢😢. To an extent of defiling his own child 😭😭
I'm Not judgmental, But if only Jane would have refused to marry this man would have been the best decision. Red flag number one he was kicked out of Bible school due to sleeping with women.she should have said No .But anyway she has gone through all that pain. Woii pole sana mom.You are a prayful women. May Almighty God remembers you with your children 🙏 ❤️.
This is really sad, but for the unmarried girls learn to read the red flags, always ask yourself why a person divorced, and always be sure that you are not better than the former
Wambui this is just a tip of the ice. What pastors wives go through...is a story for another day. Most pastors are just like that one. 😥😥😥😥😥 Pastors God is watching!!!! 😥😥😥😥😥
Hold on ,he defiled your daughter and you continue treating him like business as usual ???????is this woman okay Am sorry ,that should have been a police case pap!!!!that is not a father figure but a monster, Wambui why didn't you ask more about the defiled daughter. ?what happened to her ,
The reason why women should get financially empowered!! Poverty makes people to stick together even when such things are happening.. i wonder how old the daughter was and how long he did it?
Wambui wa mwangi he maundu utukenagia naguo ta Maya 1,Murimu wathirikari 2,Nyimbo Ici na ici 3,ukuga guciara kana ni ukagarurira 4 na,mangi maingi ni tukwendete.
Ukai ino ary kanitha ya muthemba uriku Jehovah ucio ary na meciria ma kwagana ndiraigua ndi murakaru niuria athuri matuaga atumia ngombo nao atumia meikarithitie hau aty nigwaka mucie at the expense of whose emotional health nijikute..reke wuikare.
This story teaches me alot that, the moment you see any red signs from your partner b4 marriage, my friend run away as fast as possible. This man had impregnated a lady before marriage and she (this lady) went ahead to go and marry to this crook. This man (pastor) has the spirit of immorality. He DOESN'T deserves to be associated with anyone. He is a really devil(THENGEE) 👿👿.
Insanity is doing the same thing again and again while expecting different results. This marriage was a failure from the word go. You can't change a social path. This guy impregnated a girl, was married and divorced before this lady chose to get married to him. Sometimes, I pity women. Like a moth, they fly into 🔥 hoping it won't burn them.
Either mugwetagage andu acio mekaga maundu macio na maritwa mao kana muikare na ngano cianyu tondu kuhithiririra ngoma ndurateithia mundu ona kanitha icio cigwetagei
Aki hii statement ya "naditidanere"huwa na ichukia, why do ladies ignore red flags eti juu ya Church, huyu mwanaume alimuonyesha true colours even b4 wedding
Hatiri na Thina, Ndiatindaniriire, Ngigia Nda Ingi Etc.... Women, what is happening to you????. Uyu ndari Muhunjia Ari Muhuri wa Mbeu 🤔🤔. He was a Community Husband, Njangiri ya Mundurume. And you as a Mother , what Step did you take??? You Failed to see the Red Flags. Your husband Impregnate your own daughter n still go back to him,???? Vitu zingine nikama Kurogwa 😔😔😔. The church is the Bride of Christ. How can you Still Sleep with him knowing you are sharing with your Biological daughter. Must you stay Married??? Thank God hajaleta Ugonjwa.
@veronicah. THis woman is desperate.she is really in need of a man.Yani your husband sleeps with your own daughter .and you allow him to sleep with you.was your daughter your co-wife?ignorance of high calibre.kama ni mimi your daughter singewahi kukutrust again.niwandakaria nawathiaga ona mbere na guciara.Aiiiiiiii!!!!!!!
LORD have mercy on the church and those assign to shepherd the people and they are eating the sheep and impregnating the faithful. No boundaries of his sexual desires to an extent of abusing his own daughter sexually. Welldone my sister for staying strong during the trying times. 📖🛐✝️🙌🏽🙏🏽
Why did the church tolerate all this for so long? Well, Kaba ungiamunyitithirie tondu ciana ingiri na family home? The children come first and you are their only hope. Yes gukiriria Hanini yes, but when he sleeps with his daughter, not reporting it is abusive to the kid from both parents.
I just love the way this woman is speaking.she reminds me of those tough women in our community
Wambui I have been following everything n mimi place nimefika naogopa wanaume wameokoka 😢
I love the last part. that is very important. the advice you give. it's biblical.
btw, 1 Peter 3:7 - the prayers of men are hindered if they dont treat their wives with respect!
I always look to Wambui's final remarks and advice.
Rugano rwarituhia ngoro yakwa yainama biu 😢😢
Ucio ti muhunjia....Pole mama, jipende kiasi aki
Pole sana. Though women should also learn that its not wise to keep on getting pregnant in unstable marriages. You cannot rewind life so be very careful.
Guku gwitatagwo guthinjira Ngoma.ukijifanya fara,ati no kuumiria nake mundu ucio agagukuwa Wana muno.
this is what our mother's went through and men nowadays are mad because we cannot be like our mothers... Reasons kuna single mothers wengi because no one can vumilia such in this century
😊 Mwathani wa muoyo kai kigongona giki gitari na Roho wa Ngai wakuona maundu maya namarutururuo kigongona githere
I love the way is talking some English
So far i hv just started following i will comment
Justice prevail this is so painful may the Lord intervene
This woman never enjoyed marriage....pole sana mum
God works principles...ukiamua kumbembeleza nyang'au utateseka sana na mungu abaki akiwa mungu.
Wooiy maa Ngai arokuririkana hamwe na ciana ciaku
Nii maa ahunjia aya 😢nii reke ndithomere bible
Mwathani! Wambui keep advising, reke wakuigwa aigwe.
Waah uciu muhunjia akiri na utungata munene wakuhura mbeu nginya mwari hata wewe ulikosea haukuchukua hatua mapema wira wothe niuri mucara kwa Ngai,
Ngai witu niaritha ma Ngai maundu maingi ni maritu ma
Ngai arotuiguira tha atumia kwahiuha ruga ndungata nironia andu uhoro na nio mwihoko witu turathoma pole mama
U ok good Wambu
Tutapata kamgeni lini
My sister wambui you always stunning looking beautiful
😭😭😭😭😭daga uria nguga...
Women should practice family planning especially if you are married to a useless man. This kind of suffering can be minimised if the lady had fewer children.
Hawa ni wamama wa kitambo hawakua wanajua hizi mambo
Ngai ma tuigwire thaa,zile mambo ziko kwa hii dunia,,ni God tu atatusandia
Jane mwas great job
Oh God this is really sad😨I know this woman she used to be our neighbor back in Naivasha mirera.woi mwathani Wa Mary you were my mum's friend may God give you peace aki.
No hau ha kunyita mwana ni ungioire ikinya
Mungu siku moja atakulipanishia
Wamenire Ngai kana muthurigwo
Wambui wi muthaka muno!!
Congratulations wamboo I can see your blessed soon chaii
The case of that young man (The son to Jane Njeri) who was in the university, can someone link me up with him. I would appreciate to talk to him.
You can call the mum through her number, you'll get him. May God bless you as you help.
May God bless you as you help
Got the mum's number. Will reach out to him for a man-to-man talk and see what assistance he needs.
God bless you as you help that young man to finish his university education 📖🛐✝️🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
God bless you gentleman
Woi, ati ona niarathioma akirathaga ena ihu riu, akiri ria muhunjia🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️. Reke ngire ciira wa Ngai niuroka.
Icio ti thiomi Ni uguruki
Hiyo dini in ya uongo,unaweza kuacha mke wakati anakuhitaji zaidi.
Congats Wambū
Women are passing through hell in the name of love wacha nikae bila stress za marriage.
namesy my views though love love imekuwa vampire ama alien wacha nikae single
@@Lucystevealice a
Na vile wakiletwa kwa show they talk very gud hadi siku hizi ninashidwo ku comment
Trust me.i went through hell
Ndio maana wanaume siku hizi wanakuwa frustrated because hatuwezi vumilia haya mateso😢 wakituuliza why we can't be like our mothers... This is what walivumulia living miserable lives
I'm sorry but I really don't understand why this lady kept having babies with this man. She was capable of sustaining herself, why didn't she leave? In my case, as soon as me and my ex started having issues, I moved to another room and never had intercourse with him ever again. I wasn't going to take any chances
Am tired of listening to such stories
While I see mature adult women with brains but never attempt to leave or protect their girls!
For gods sake why wait until things are so unrepairable! Your on Dota will never heal neither fully forgive! Ridiculous!!!
Iv been trying to understand this but I cnt seem to grasp what makes them that way..
@@kidsentertainmenthub4126 ni kama uchawi haki
@@rozziemmary4531 I'm also fed up! Yaani she didn't go to the police, neither did she take the girl to hospital. Some people need to whipped in public.
@Rozziem Mary I’m also tired!!! I feel for the daughter, how can you still stay with a man who did that to your own child 😢😢😢. She kept on giving him a pass to do whatever he wanted and then say ndiatindaniriire, I’m just annoyed and at the same time heartbroken
Aaai, ni kanitha uriku ucio ugaga muhunjia ndagaikare na mutumia wake kanitha? Na kanitha igutuma mundu ta ucio kanitha ungi nikii?
Kaba utangiecokirie maa 🤔...... it really hurts .....
Pst muru muno Pole sana mum
Wambui i really love ur show, you are very composed,may the lord see our geust thru'
Wolf taking care of sheep's. Mungu atusaidie.
hii ni Kali jameni that type of a man mtoi wa kwanza vi2ko na unaendelea kuzaa,
A man that cheats is also likely to commit incest. He needs to go to jail for defiling his daughter.
I like the child that changed the family name, I would do the same and would never treat him as a parent.
Jane, he will never change, it's you to CHANGE PERMANENTLY!!
It was a police case to the daughter
She is very beautiful 🤗
yes... and her laughter is soo hidden she should start laughing again
Ngai muhunjia, what makes me angry is that we enable men to use us like trash. Let's say enough is enough 😢😢. To an extent of defiling his own child 😭😭
wow 😍 jane njeri that my mum 🥰
I'm Not judgmental, But if only Jane would have refused to marry this man would have been the best decision. Red flag number one he was kicked out of Bible school due to sleeping with women.she should have said No .But anyway she has gone through all that pain. Woii pole sana mom.You are a prayful women. May Almighty God remembers you with your children 🙏 ❤️.
Pole mum may you receive God's Mercy coz people can put a lot of pain in others
This is really sad, but for the unmarried girls learn to read the red flags, always ask yourself why a person divorced, and always be sure that you are not better than the former
Anga atumia nitwakigire nikaba kwieda nakuruta wira ndungigio ni mundu...hau muno
Nkt nie anga ngutura uguo,aya athuri magatuonia uhoro
Pole sana may you find peace in Jesus name
Wambui so pretty
Glory to God homa iliisha
Wambui this is just a tip of the ice. What pastors wives go through...is a story for another day.
Most pastors are just like that one.
😥😥😥😥😥 Pastors God is watching!!!!
😥😥😥😥😥
Ini
Hold on ,he defiled your daughter and you continue treating him like business as usual ???????is this woman okay
Am sorry ,that should have been a police case pap!!!!that is not a father figure but a monster,
Wambui why didn't you ask more about the defiled daughter. ?what happened to her ,
Am also wondering why she didn't ask more of the defiled daughter.
Again she continue staying with this man after all these mistreations? Aaaaaai
I was eagerly waiting for that question.
Never ever how didn't you take him to court for that case I will die with it without saying if I can't report him to authority
I blame her. She chose the idiot over her children
Some women wako na shida🙉
Wooi maa ati kamuthakoo😆😆😆
🤔Gutiari p2 those days? Nokuria tu ndiri na uru..
Free family planning has been since we were unborn.
ulijaribu sana after kujua tabia zake unakaa na unaendelea kuzaa
Niwega kuona thina......
Uyu mutumia ndonaga thina onawiho
Ombere ndamwedaga mimisiwezi jiforce mwanaume
Atumia makoraguo niurimu
The reason why women should get financially empowered!! Poverty makes people to stick together even when such things are happening.. i wonder how old the daughter was and how long he did it?
She said she's the one who used to be the breadwinner, he didn't want to work, just preaching. Which is why I don't understand why she stayed with him
Am asking myself the same question
Ino kanitha onayo ina gathina....aaai
Iyo ni ghadhia ya muthuri .... Mateso hii ingine ni sawa BUT.....sleeping with your own daughter that's cramp!!!😢😢😢😢
I know this lady,but didn't know she went through this.mama mose keep strong
May God give you peace and total restoration mom
Strong woman Ngai akuririkane na ciana ciaku
Defiling the daughter is unforgivable 😨😨😨😨this is heartbreaking, Women need to be empowered to stop this abusive cycles 💔
Wambui wa mwangi he maundu utukenagia naguo ta Maya
1,Murimu wathirikari
2,Nyimbo Ici na ici
3,ukuga guciara kana ni ukagarurira
4 na,mangi maingi ni tukwendete.
🤣🤣handu ha kurekania ciugo mani...
Ukai ino ary kanitha ya muthemba uriku Jehovah ucio ary na meciria ma kwagana ndiraigua ndi murakaru niuria athuri matuaga atumia ngombo nao atumia meikarithitie hau aty nigwaka mucie at the expense of whose emotional health nijikute..reke wuikare.
Justice to this woman
This story teaches me alot that, the moment you see any red signs from your partner b4 marriage, my friend run away as fast as possible. This man had impregnated a lady before marriage and she (this lady) went ahead to go and marry to this crook. This man (pastor) has the spirit of immorality. He DOESN'T deserves to be associated with anyone. He is a really devil(THENGEE) 👿👿.
Nlikua na mmoja abaye nlimgoja 4yrs akiwa bible college,,,Mungu n mwema ju ata hatukuoana ju alikua Malaya kupidukia,,,,weeeh,,,,wanamme🏃🏃🏃
Insanity is doing the same thing again and again while expecting different results. This marriage was a failure from the word go. You can't change a social path. This guy impregnated a girl, was married and divorced before this lady chose to get married to him. Sometimes, I pity women. Like a moth, they fly into 🔥 hoping it won't burn them.
True.amefikisha hadi 8 kids na aliona hivyo na first born
Ngai mutumia uyu timwega mwana mwana kenemwa
Kari muhujia wa kwa ngoma
Wee mwathani ndeithia gukira kii
🤣🤣🤣😀😀
Onanie
Which type of church is this 🤔 I'd like to know huko kwenye pastor haendagi na bibi😳 Wana mutheri
Wambu umenitoanisha kwa kusema watoto wake "mekìrìte wana"no cia kuria ombanìte cìikìrìte wega😂😂😂😂
What happened to the girl who was pregnant with their dad?
Ignoring the red frags
Ïïï nake . Athomire ha küihuria thī
Nikwaga guthoma kamuhari kau kangu (nomihote👈
Kiugo ndititîrîre nîgîcokaga gūkorwo gî thîna thutha-inî
Kwani NI church gani iyo
Pastors riganirwo ni ngui cia nyakeru. Ciagute ruriri. Mundu akwira ni Pastor sahau
No words.. The woman has endured grave animosity.. May God grant her peace
Either mugwetagage andu acio mekaga maundu macio na maritwa mao kana muikare na ngano cianyu tondu kuhithiririra ngoma ndurateithia mundu ona kanitha icio cigwetagei
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i second you
Ati kuzalisha mtoi wake🙉🙉 na bado mum anamtaja ati bwanangu 😏
Pastor athiku ici mekweda deliverance..believers shud start praying for their intercessors
One thing red flag were many noningi mariguitika matiri muoi
Kari gathenge
Pepo la ngono nila ngono huyo hawezi change
Wambui ndiraikarire miaka itandatu itari ndarugama kanitha wega ni kumena kanitha tondu wa muthuri
“Wamucúka niyo uriága mudu”
Aki hii statement ya "naditidanere"huwa na ichukia, why do ladies ignore red flags eti juu ya Church, huyu mwanaume alimuonyesha true colours even b4 wedding
Hatiri na Thina, Ndiatindaniriire, Ngigia Nda Ingi Etc.... Women, what is happening to you????. Uyu ndari Muhunjia Ari Muhuri wa Mbeu 🤔🤔. He was a Community Husband, Njangiri ya Mundurume. And you as a Mother , what Step did you take??? You Failed to see the Red Flags. Your husband Impregnate your own daughter n still go back to him,???? Vitu zingine nikama Kurogwa 😔😔😔. The church is the Bride of Christ. How can you Still Sleep with him knowing you are sharing with your Biological daughter. Must you stay Married??? Thank God hajaleta Ugonjwa.
@veronicah. THis woman is desperate.she is really in need of a man.Yani your husband sleeps with your own daughter .and you allow him to sleep with you.was your daughter your co-wife?ignorance of high calibre.kama ni mimi your daughter singewahi kukutrust again.niwandakaria nawathiaga ona mbere na guciara.Aiiiiiiii!!!!!!!
Please ask again!
I had to watch this again to confirm what I heard the first time
Ûyû eena kanyama
Maundu ni maingi no mathaa gutiri andu angi makoragwo Mari aroge nikio nyendete my mum ndahakagwo macuru
Sad pst wengine ni shetani tu
LORD have mercy on the church and those assign to shepherd the people and they are eating the sheep and impregnating the faithful. No boundaries of his sexual desires to an extent of abusing his own daughter sexually. Welldone my sister for staying strong during the trying times. 📖🛐✝️🙌🏽🙏🏽
ucio abatii umuciarire igiri tu ta cia dutura noti biribiri wa gukuoherera hau
Why did the church tolerate all this for so long?
Well, Kaba ungiamunyitithirie tondu ciana ingiri na family home? The children come first and you are their only hope. Yes gukiriria Hanini yes, but when he sleeps with his daughter, not reporting it is abusive to the kid from both parents.
May God c you thru mama. Not all pastors r this way,am married to a pastor ad my strory is different.