When Your Ex Is Obsessed With You - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 205

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  • @JordySan
    @JordySan ปีที่แล้ว +470

    can y’all get mia on the pod again PLZ ! i’ve been lovin her in the recent vlogs & would LOVE to hear an update from her on here w y’all 🤍

  • @eveviridian
    @eveviridian ปีที่แล้ว +80

    When Remi said "They don't make them as they used to" about romcoms... YESSS! I recommend getting into kdramas, they have those old, cute, a bit cringy but very lovely vibe we all miss from romcom movies these days!

  • @saraformo9770
    @saraformo9770 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    How did I not know that TK doesn’t work for alisha anymore … or was that a mishap of words ? 😂 35 mins in

  • @cozycutie
    @cozycutie ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Wait I definitely missed a chapter. When did TK stop working for Alisha??

  • @WildWorldOfBooks
    @WildWorldOfBooks ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Hey Alisha, If the apps don’t work for you, it’s FINE. If it doesn’t feel authentic and enjoyable for you, then I’d say drop it and just be intentional with what you desire and just be open to receiving it. Yeah the apps work great for lots of people but if it’s not something you enjoy, don’t force yourself.

  • @rebeccawoeller6561
    @rebeccawoeller6561 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Remi is looking so comfy cozy today! I live for it! The merch is fantastic.

  • @jamygarcia5386
    @jamygarcia5386 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Omg I didn’t realize TK didn’t work for Alisha anymore?!

  • @missmaya03
    @missmaya03 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Remi your makeup is on POINT today! You look stunning ♡

  • @frankiedrj
    @frankiedrj ปีที่แล้ว +30

    13 going on 30 is so fire 🔥 also go Alisha for putting herself out there! So excited for you!! Also, I’m a Remi in my friendships for sure❤️love everything y’all do!

  • @elenacontis7106
    @elenacontis7106 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Wait did anyone catch that when Alisha was telling TKs date story she said “she was still working with me at the time” Does TK not work for Alisha anymore?!

    • @1rebelde123
      @1rebelde123 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I’m in shock too like Did we miss something?!???

  • @kim.kimmie
    @kim.kimmie ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i feel like quality time for me is us knowing we have a busy schedule but still finding the time to spend together and enjoying each others company doing whatever it is we love doing together. love you rem and alisha ❤

  • @mia_m_butler
    @mia_m_butler ปีที่แล้ว +7

    After listening to this podcast I watched both It's Complicated and The Ugly Truth!!!! loved both of them so much

  • @dudulovesbubu6
    @dudulovesbubu6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I desperately wish I could have this DCOM movie discussion with these girls in person! 1990 baby over here and I was LIVING listening to that convo! Alisha, With Upon a Star is still one of my cult favs till this day! My older sister and I were obsessed!

  • @AH-hq7vh
    @AH-hq7vh ปีที่แล้ว +28

    But can y'all make a pretty basic cocktail mixer now?? I would buy it so fast!!

  • @Angelkitty2
    @Angelkitty2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Perfect way to start my Wednesday morning!! Thank you PB, Alisha, and Remi for all that y’all do!! ❤

  • @melissaagain
    @melissaagain ปีที่แล้ว +4

    nah Remi I'm hollering "I just thought that was so silly" 😂 I'm with Alisha that's kinda sus 😂

  • @britt8099
    @britt8099 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    DCOMS are just so nostalgic! I loved Smart House, Zenon, Stuck in the Subarus, The Thirteenth Year, Brink, Right on Track, Up Up and away, and Gotta Kick it Up!!

  • @annie-sulalonde4388
    @annie-sulalonde4388 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have a quality time bucket and quantity time bucket haha. My quality time bucket gets filled by actively doing something together whereas my quantity time bucket gets filled by the sheer amount of time we spend together (i.e. doing different things but in the same room) ☺️

  • @BebeTehler
    @BebeTehler ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This episode was sooo silly, I loved every minute of it 😂

  • @AveryJayTee
    @AveryJayTee ปีที่แล้ว +4

    me and my bf have 2 different versions of quality time as well. i’m like Remi and feel qt is interacting emotionally, physically, and verbally not just being in the same room. my bf thinks anytime we are together it’s quality time but, to me it’s not if we aren’t fully connecting without distractions. love the pod and all the work you two do, keep it up ❤

  • @taysworld7959
    @taysworld7959 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Remi the makeup is SLAYING THE HOUSE DOWN BOOTS TODAY

  • @chloe_evans
    @chloe_evans ปีที่แล้ว +27

    omg tana is coming on the pod that's going to be iconic

  • @olumideadeyekun4277
    @olumideadeyekun4277 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anybody else realize that Alisha said when TK "used" to work for me. Awwwwwwwwwwwww

  • @rebekahjoy
    @rebekahjoy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Absolutely loved the banter this podcast. Happy Wednesday everyone💕

  • @Brightly_Bailie
    @Brightly_Bailie ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been with my husband for 15 years and I think it’s good to remember what constitutes quality time will always been changing with the different seasons of life and I highly suggest doesn’t putting on the schedule an activity for just the two of you like a new restaurant or movie a few weeks out is a good idea since it gives you both something to look forward to

  • @meganjohnson9964
    @meganjohnson9964 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alisha you literally just sent me back to my entire childhood with all of the movies you mentioned!

  • @SamanthaNSimmons
    @SamanthaNSimmons ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wait, I’m living for the natural tangents though? More of this and less thought out! 🙌🏻

  • @babet2562
    @babet2562 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Remi's ring
    Oli's Lana
    Alisha's date
    ... this season of Pretty Basic is 🔥

  • @jewels2171
    @jewels2171 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love you both sooo much! Whenever I listen to this podcast I feel like I’m talking to my best friends. I will forever love my OG TH-camrs bc y’all paved the way for others. Thank you for sharing your friendship and lives with us. Ps I can’t wait to run into y’all one day! Manifesting it 🤞🏽❤

    • @rebeccamcauley4547
      @rebeccamcauley4547 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely what a beautiful message. Hope you are having a great evening 😊

  • @maliasymone
    @maliasymone ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love remi and alisha’s friendship🥺i want something like this. watching them talk about their favorite movies together made me sad and happy at the same time. Love You Guys🫶🏽💙

    • @maliasymone
      @maliasymone ปีที่แล้ว

      i love how excited remi is for alisha😂

  • @gwenkocot9425
    @gwenkocot9425 ปีที่แล้ว

    The nostalgia of the movies you just went off about! Thank you ladies for bringing me joy every time I watch your pod! content baby content!

  • @krisztinanagy8805
    @krisztinanagy8805 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Quality time=where you collect experiences together (it can be at home or out)

  • @Jesus.Velazquez417
    @Jesus.Velazquez417 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you Remi and Alisha for todays content baby content, I woke up this morning turned on my TV and seen a new episode, Today is already going Amazing. I love you guys ❤, and remember Live, Laugh, Lana watches the same vlogs 😭😂

  • @88dolphingirl88
    @88dolphingirl88 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey guys!!! I love you both and your show. I was wondering could you guys do a show where you both introduce your Teams and share with us what they all do to contribute to your success

  • @Demygod0030
    @Demygod0030 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OH PERFECT, I’m dreading to clean this kitchen and was looking for something to listen to while cleaning. My fave podcast heard my prayers❤

  • @rdsanantonio
    @rdsanantonio ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I see quality time the same way as Remi, but my husband sees it as just being in the same room. When we plays video games and I'm in a different room, he'll come out and be like "you don't want to hang out with me?" even though I would just be on my computer in the room with him.
    Alisha has the same DCOM taste as me. All the ones she was listing off I was like YESSSSSSS

  • @taylorrenteria6308
    @taylorrenteria6308 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    READ IT AND WEEP!!!!!! 👏🏽 I was there for ALLLL the drama when that movie came out! They used to have it on Netflix along with Wendy Wu Homecoming Warrior🙌🏼 those movies were everything ✨

  • @pa-trycja
    @pa-trycja ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a sidekick3 in 8th grade and I cannot even tell you how many teachers were obsessed with it 😂
    The swivel screen was iconic. The rocket game was incredible. And the nosies that damn thing made we're ahead of it's time!
    Best phone ever.

  • @rebeccamcauley4547
    @rebeccamcauley4547 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Be silly, be happy, be yourself." This is my mantra this year. Thanks, Alisha and Remi, for always brightening my day every time you release a podcast episode! 🧡💫

    • @Boi21
      @Boi21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi girl if you see this please reply back who are we listening to tonight girl please reply back asap

    • @rebeccamcauley4547
      @rebeccamcauley4547 ปีที่แล้ว

      @PINK UK GUY 🇬🇧 Unsolicited Advice the latest episode was brilliant 👏

    • @Boi21
      @Boi21 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rebeccamcauley4547 Hi girl another day closer to forking COACHELLA girl and I added our beloved OLI'S channel to our channel list on my page please reply back asap girl 🇬🇧 🩷🇬🇧

    • @Boi21
      @Boi21 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rebeccamcauley4547 Hi girl are you there I listened to the Jonas Brothers last night girl who are we listening to today girl please reply back asap 🇬🇧🩷🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @hannahtatehaidle
    @hannahtatehaidle ปีที่แล้ว

    Quality time for me with my husband is intentional time! We are home most evenings together, but if we’re busy doing more work, on our phones, etc. Then it’s not quality time for me. Anything that has us intentionally creating space for us and growing our relationship deeper is what I think of quality time for me! But I think it’s also really important to go out on dates and get out of the house for quality time!

  • @alyssaderringer
    @alyssaderringer ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Did Alisha make a video on tk not working with her anymore? I’ve noticed for awhile she hasn’t been around but didn’t hear about it😮

  • @serenaxg14
    @serenaxg14 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m suchhhhh the REMI because I’m so excited for my friends finding good love or atleast opening up their dating lives again.

  • @kellymain3904
    @kellymain3904 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Am I missing something…. Did Alisha say “when” TK worked for me??? I’m confused!!!

  • @sarahh_danielle_
    @sarahh_danielle_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG I just saw Just My Luck literally yesterday lol Can I just say that every time I listen to y'all I'm like I wish they were my friends we'd be literally the best friends. But then I think everyone else that listens thinks the same lol

  • @bethanywalmer8454
    @bethanywalmer8454 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love the pod! When did TK stop working for Alisha?

  • @mkaaaay
    @mkaaaay ปีที่แล้ว

    Music and lyrics is absolutely my favorite as well

  • @taylor_losier
    @taylor_losier ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Does TK not work for Alisha anymore?

  • @m_hig7077
    @m_hig7077 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You both always look so beautiful but Remi, you are glowing queen! ❤ I love your outfit!

  • @arielovespurple
    @arielovespurple ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The lindsay lohan movie was like a hallmark movie: so bad but you just can't stop watching

  • @isabelmannella3598
    @isabelmannella3598 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alisha saying women in stem is giving me life!!

  • @lyssaheartsgh
    @lyssaheartsgh ปีที่แล้ว

    Agree with Remi! It’s Complicated is such a good RomCom and Go Figure was such a good DCom.

  • @raulcampos9015
    @raulcampos9015 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m OBSESSED. Watching this in my new pretty basic cocktail crewneck.

  • @danilue10
    @danilue10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hugh Grant isn’t in The Holiday! It’s Jude Law! Love you guys 🧡🫶🏼

  • @gabbipolson1678
    @gabbipolson1678 ปีที่แล้ว

    rom coms: anything jlo lol wedding planner, maid in manhattan, monster in law. or old school sleepless in seattle, youve got mail, when harry met sally ugh love rom com so much!!

  • @lizhomick2121
    @lizhomick2121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She’s the Man and What a Girl Wants is and always will be my ride or die

  • @alexandramorinello5784
    @alexandramorinello5784 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Omg when did TK stop working with Alisha?

  • @olkapaolka72
    @olkapaolka72 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My favorite romcom is definately the Proposal !!!

  • @marissasabin4638
    @marissasabin4638 ปีที่แล้ว

    HOW FUNNY! that yall mention " the 13th year" I just introduced that to my 9yo son yesterday haha. 93' baby here

  • @samruetman3427
    @samruetman3427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Smart house, Seventeen again, and Zenon were my fav OG Dcom movies!

    • @samruetman3427
      @samruetman3427 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rip girls, Quints and Color of Friendship also went so crazy

  • @sarahmarquez5615
    @sarahmarquez5615 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The wedding planner was a true gem

  • @nadiadansani2139
    @nadiadansani2139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayyyyy I’m glad Tana’s coming on…still trying to figure out who the guest that never aired was

  • @aivyloriz
    @aivyloriz ปีที่แล้ว

    no alisha ur so real cheetah girls 1 was SOOO ICONIC

  • @nadiadansani2139
    @nadiadansani2139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww, hearing that Cal is Remi’s only boyfriend makes it even more sweeter that they’re engaged

  • @jazzyc1894
    @jazzyc1894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alisha looks fire in this thumbnail!!

  • @nikahatt
    @nikahatt ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I vividly remember recording the Cheetah Girls off of my TV with my flip phone so I could use it as a ringtone or re-listen to the same 15 seconds of the songs over and over 😂🙈

  • @vilmas441
    @vilmas441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you girls! I feel like your the other kind of friends I would want. I feel part of the conversation. Anddd you aren’t talking about lana too much. Keep going! It’s so cute lol

  • @kellyhowland783
    @kellyhowland783 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wait so TK isn't working for you anymore??

  • @omgitstana869
    @omgitstana869 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE THAT MOVIE NOONE EVER KNOWS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT ❤❤

  • @mossycobblestoneslab
    @mossycobblestoneslab ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i loved the thirteenth year! did you guys see the movie life size? the one where tyra banks is a barbie then comes to life

  • @IconVlog.
    @IconVlog. ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes bonus episode slapped!
    When I got the notification for it i literally RAN 😂

  • @jmcat27
    @jmcat27 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish Upon A Star was my fave movie when I was younger. Going to watch it now. Thank you for nostalgia!

  • @JasmineKing5
    @JasmineKing5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember all those great movies. TH-cam also has the movie Susie Q with the actress Amy Jo Johnson. This movie was from 1995 and they also played it on Disney back in the day.

  • @makanakaai
    @makanakaai ปีที่แล้ว +2

    YASSS I can't wait for the PB merch! I need it!!!

  • @elizabethmiller2013
    @elizabethmiller2013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Date With the Presidents Daughter is my FOREVER favorite DCOM! Lol

  • @mrsbryanpereira
    @mrsbryanpereira ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girls chats are the best ❤

  • @kevingamon9659
    @kevingamon9659 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hahahaha Alisha’s gasping at the beginning had me DEADddd lmao

  • @holligirdner9209
    @holligirdner9209 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG THANK YOU for the blast from the past!! 😂 I literally just BAWLED after watching "wish upon a star" 😢😅❤ in the middle of this ...AND NOW IM BACK 😂❤❤

  • @ashtyndain6203
    @ashtyndain6203 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally agree with definitely maybe ! And Love Rosie as well ! Also Ik this isn’t a DCON but I lovedddd 16 wishes . If I did choose a DCOM I also really loved Eddie’s million dollar cook off !

  • @ofisch03
    @ofisch03 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ticket to Paradise was actually good compared to the other two rom coms you mentioned. But I agree there aren’t any good rom cons anymore!

  • @cookingincognito
    @cookingincognito ปีที่แล้ว

    Rom Com movie I didn’t hear you say that’s iconic: My Best Friends Wedding! That’s my favorite movie of all ALL TIME! As well as THE TRUTH ABOUT CATS AND DOGS! ❤

  • @IconVlog.
    @IconVlog. ปีที่แล้ว

    I think quality is time going out together too Remi.
    When you’re home yes you’re together but even when you go to get coffee you feel the romance again.
    They open the door, you order for them, they pay, you go on a walk.
    It like reminds you why you feel in love.
    I’m also delusional so if I don’t get this enough I’m like “why do you hate me” 😂

  • @arielovespurple
    @arielovespurple ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Confessions of a Shopaholic ?!!!

  • @krissyri2474
    @krissyri2474 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to lose a guy in 10 days is my comfort movie and i was only 5 when it came out

  • @ellanna1579
    @ellanna1579 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    REMI, I only had Sprint growing up too and wanted the hot pink razor SO BAD but instead had the Katana 😂🥲

  • @SmileGorgeous13
    @SmileGorgeous13 ปีที่แล้ว

    REM!! I had the pink katana! It was so pretty!! I vividly remember taking selfies and using the filters the phone had. Which were just changing the pic to all one color lol

  • @briannamonique95
    @briannamonique95 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m the Alisha and one of my besties is Remi! Crazy funny because I am an Aries girly, and my besties is also an Aquarius 🤭 I love you both so much and can relate to everything ♥️

  • @NAlessthanthree
    @NAlessthanthree ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crazy Stupid Love is the best rom com and no one can tell me any different 😭😭😭😭

  • @PoojaPatel514
    @PoojaPatel514 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best part of my Wednesday 😍

  • @actuallyalley
    @actuallyalley ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol yes another bonus episode just on the proposal!!!

  • @donnellewolfe7431
    @donnellewolfe7431 ปีที่แล้ว

    SNAKEEE FOR LIFEEEE!!!! I literally bought it on the App Store bc I missed it so much😂

  • @brealet
    @brealet ปีที่แล้ว +1

    fav podcast

  • @jaycunningham6928
    @jaycunningham6928 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Perfect Man is my favorite romcom of all time and I’ve never heard ANYONE talk about it ever ! Hilary duff starres in it you guys HAVE to watch it. Please 😅😢❤

  • @maliasymone
    @maliasymone ปีที่แล้ว

    see you guys next wednesday🥺🫶🏽

  • @lagringacath
    @lagringacath ปีที่แล้ว

    WISH UPON A STAR OMGGGGG, throwback. thank you!!!

  • @erikazelaya1026
    @erikazelaya1026 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think quality time is about it being intentional or not!

  • @ashleyaba13
    @ashleyaba13 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wait TK doesn’t work for you no more???

  • @brittanysaesee
    @brittanysaesee ปีที่แล้ว

    PLS do an episode with Asian Girl Squad!! 🥰

  • @Themckennarose
    @Themckennarose ปีที่แล้ว

    My mom’s dog’s name is Steve lolll, but then my mom also talks to a guy name steve. We legit say human steve and puppy steve

  • @kelsielewis22
    @kelsielewis22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the Alisha in my friendships even though I’m passed the dating era😂❤️

  • @aliahmamea8632
    @aliahmamea8632 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the makeup and outfits today girls 🫶🏽🤍