LISTENING THROUGH GRIEF AND TRAUMA a guided sleep meditation for healing sleep and peace sleep

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  • Welcome to the official TH-cam channel and podcast of Lauren Ostrowski Fenton, where we provide valuable content focused on helping you achieve better sleep and overall well-being. Lauren specializes in assisting individuals experiencing anxiety and loneliness, guiding them on a transformative journey towards restful nights and rejuvenating mornings.
    Through the power of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and sleep meditation techniques, Lauren shares insights on mindfulness and its ability to enhance sleep quality. Explore various sleep improvement strategies designed to address common sleep troubles and find effective solutions. Discover how CBT can be a powerful tool in managing and overcoming sleep disorders.
    Join Lauren in her guided sleep meditations, where she combines relaxation techniques with her soothing voice to create a tranquil atmosphere conducive to deep rest. Unlock the secrets of managing anxiety for better sleep and harness the power of positive thinking to promote peaceful nights. Self-care is also emphasised as an essential aspect of restful nights.
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    Please note that the information provided by Lauren Ostrowski Fenton is intended to provide support, information, and comfort. It does not replace professional guidance on medical or mental health issues. Before making any decisions about your health, please consult with your doctor. Do not listen to meditation while driving. Meditation and mindful movement are powerful tools to support you, but they are not substitutes for medical care.
    Thank you for joining us on this journey towards a more peaceful and rejuvenating sleep. We hope our content helps you relax, find calm, and improve your overall well-being.
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    Original vocals, script by Lauren Ostrowski Fenton. All rights reserved © 2024
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  • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
    @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Hi everyone sending you much love I'm still walking the journey of my own experience of adversity yet there is joy in every day thinking of you I'm now posting short meditations to Instagram live daily that you can also access much love to all of you Lauren

    • @Vntoronto
      @Vntoronto ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much Lauren! You are a lifesaver 🧡🧡🧡🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @kristyn4360
      @kristyn4360 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This really helped me as my mom passed away 5 months ago 🥹

    • @jacqueline-jackietorres3455
      @jacqueline-jackietorres3455 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Blessings Lauren, it will be ok. Thank you for all you do and help me.

    • @ElocinAlways
      @ElocinAlways ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ethereal in E. Check his page on TH-cam. Found him on tiktok a while ago. He added a nice one 4 hours ago. It's so nice, I hope you will look, and listen. Pan drums and lake wake and a beautific smile. A small gift to you Lauren. ❤️

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว

      @John Forde so sorry John thanks for the heads up I’ve changed it

  • @bookie4565
    @bookie4565 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This really helped me last night. I lost my partner of nine years in March unexpectedly and last night because of this mediation, I was finally able to sleep. I woke up this morning in good spirits for the first time I am feeling like I can live with my pain. R I P to my love Victoria Ann Nelson 💖 2-13-1980/3-6-2023

    • @FJBravo381
      @FJBravo381 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😔 I’m sorry for your pain, prayers for healing 🙏🏼

  • @jjj1981jj
    @jjj1981jj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Lauren, I just lost my mom unexpectedly. She was only in her mid 60’s. I know you’ve been there. Thank you for all you do. Truly, you are a blessing.

  • @cakecake99
    @cakecake99 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    You've saved my life more times than you'll ever know. Thank you.

  • @Chlo175
    @Chlo175 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I miss my dog so much ❤thank you for this lauren.

  • @birnaagnars
    @birnaagnars 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    First time a metitation works for the pain in my body

  • @jaredanderson7203
    @jaredanderson7203 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    After two years of listening to these all day, maybe it’s starting to work for longer than the track lasts. I’m saving this one

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so very very glad that supports you in someway thank you so much for reaching out and letting me know wishing you well and again thank you for reaching out

  • @FromIronToIce
    @FromIronToIce 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lauren.
    I lost my baby girl at 5 months pregnant in September 2023 and in February 2024 I had a missed miscarriage. It’s been a very traumatic series of events for me. I have been experiencing night terrors & lucid nightmares, so much so I’d wake up and have to shower due to the sweat!!
    This has calmed me. When I wake up through the night and I hear this still playing I can easily fall back asleep.
    I will find peace again ❤
    I wish you the best health & thank you 🙏🏻 x

  • @heartofearthcrystals
    @heartofearthcrystals ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was incredible! I haven’t been able to remember any of my dreams since my mom died five years ago. I feel asleep and dreamed such an emotionally healing dream and woke up feeling refreshed. Still grieving today but I don’t feel as blocked. Gonna do this again tonight. ❤

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is fantastic news thank you so much for taking the time to share

  • @meganturner8438
    @meganturner8438 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I can’t sleep. He died in my arms on October 25th after being my best friend and soulmate the last six years. I don’t know how to do this. I feel like I’m dying. I’m afraid to sleep and see him. I’m afraid to be awake because he isn’t here. Wtf am I going to do :(

    • @jabon112
      @jabon112 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Get help- it’s too hard to do by yourself❤️

    • @_unfiltered
      @_unfiltered หลายเดือนก่อน

      I second that​@@jabon112

    • @finjalange9199
      @finjalange9199 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There’s nothing I could possibly say to make this hurt any less, I couldn’t possibly know what you’re going through, but I‘m so sorry you have to go through that, I see you hurting and I hope it turns out fine for you♥️

    • @sunshineshelley9133
      @sunshineshelley9133 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ♥️♥️♥️ you need a support system, sending healing, prayers and comfort

    • @Am.eth.yst_
      @Am.eth.yst_ หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you’re in a better place now, please reach out for support if you don’t have the strength to go on on your own! You’re not alone ❤.

  • @RainbowWarrior999
    @RainbowWarrior999 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow Lauren, this made me sleep so good and cry I lost my two dogs and a cat and a baby ever topically so I’ve needed this so bad, emotionally mentally and physically

  • @Allieverwantedwastofitin10
    @Allieverwantedwastofitin10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Lauren, your an Angel on earth… hugs. ❤

  • @missy5861
    @missy5861 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You're definitely right Lauren, I've finally broken down and gone to counseling . Thank you for all you do

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please take care of yourself thinking of you at this time

    • @missy5861
      @missy5861 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LaurenOstrowskiFenton And you as well! I'm finally realizing that more and more. Trying to release from a toxic marriage

  • @MaidenDianessa
    @MaidenDianessa ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Lauren, you truly are an angel. Your light is very necessary in this universe, I wish you much LOVE, HEALTH, and SUCCESS on your way. Namaste 🌸💝

  • @rsnsol2490
    @rsnsol2490 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    this was amazing as I listened to it during the october 14 solar eclipse. very healing and nurturing for me. thankyou so very much. I look forward to exploring your channnel further as I just found it this week. this has been a week of intense emotions surfacing for me . THankyou

  • @lightworkerhealer
    @lightworkerhealer ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing your gift with us. It's been helpful for me on numerous occasions recently. God bless us all

  • @anthonyd7425
    @anthonyd7425 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This was very helpful today, had a trigger this morning and was able to pass through it. Thank you and peace to your heart and soul.

  • @kristinalevang9530
    @kristinalevang9530 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is just what I need thru this time. Thank you, beautiful soul. 💕😇

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so welcome thank you so much for taking the time to write to me

  • @melodydiffractionem6123
    @melodydiffractionem6123 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this incredible gift you have shared. First time I’ve heard this, and I am unable to comprehend let a lot word how incredibly impactful this has been already. I feel like I will need to listen to and utilise this a lot, maybe every night. I am so thankful I found this and the gift/s (I’m planning to see what else you may have) you’ve shared.
    Thankyou from all of my heart, and my future feels brighter and more manageable knowing this one recording exits, and is available to me so readily and at no cost. Thank you 🙏

  • @nl7951
    @nl7951 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Once again, this is an AMAZING guided sleep meditation for healing and relaxing and peace! Thank you so much, and I wish more people could find this and listen to it. The message and your voice - it can't be any better!🌼🌸❀✿🌷

  • @julioherrera8391
    @julioherrera8391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless you for who you are and what you give.

  • @AnaVargas-dt1bt
    @AnaVargas-dt1bt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Lauren. Really, truly. I'm so thankful for you and for this upload. 🫂 thank you.

  • @qre2449
    @qre2449 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ive listened to many of your sleep meditations and visualisations, I think they are great and they always send me into a beautiful sleep. Many thanks from 🇦🇺

  • @Jackmack365
    @Jackmack365 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you beautiful lady for thinking of us all whilst your own story unfolds. You have the most soothing voice. 🙏🏼🇬🇧

    • @Lucas259
      @Lucas259 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello mate

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just love the way you say that “while shown story unfolds” what a lovely way to put it thank you so much thank you for being part of this community and adding to my healing and happiness much love to you

  • @melissaoconnell5648
    @melissaoconnell5648 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Taking time to try and explore. This soothed the heart. Thank you so much and wishing you peace on your journey. 🙏🏼

  • @madi_E
    @madi_E 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much, this is very helpful ❤

  • @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805
    @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I look forward to your voice every night... It's getting to the point where it takes very little time to go to sleep now... thanks to you... I still have those bad nights... And when I don't go to sleep... At least I'm relaxed...🎉❤😊

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Robin I'm so very glad to think that I can support you in someway with my content the funny thing is when I listen to my own content it also puts me to sleep. I'm so glad it relaxes you and thank you for taking the time to write to me warm regards Lauren

  • @nl7951
    @nl7951 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is ONE of the most relaxing meditations! I am shocked it does not have more views or likes. I just tried another one via another channel just to compare, and the other is 3 years old and has over 3.5 million views, BUT it does NOT compare to this one!! It's just like anything else (music and trends and fads) the views and likes do NOT define what is actually GOOD! Thank you for creating this!

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much for saying that I do hope I can improve with time and yes I find it interesting as well thank you so much for commenting much love Lauren

  • @janicenakamura1317
    @janicenakamura1317 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for creating this. I lost my mom a year and a half ago and am still processing her loss. She was the only family I had AND I lost our beloved cat of 14 years 4 months earlier. This video is one of the few that really helps me work through the pain. Again, thank you for creating this video and thank you SO much for existing. You ARE worth every minute of your life.

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so sorry to hear that Janice that must be incredibly hard to process thinking of you

  • @user-iq1mo6pc8c
    @user-iq1mo6pc8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm so sorry loseing your friend and or your mom Be careful out there.

  • @Raphael_333
    @Raphael_333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks!

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A very very generous of you thank you so very much Lauren

  • @karencoburn9221
    @karencoburn9221 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best 2hrs of sleep ever!! ❤️

  • @pamchesler242
    @pamchesler242 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I do not know if you will see this message Lauren, but I looked up grief under your playlist, a Videos, and first of all wondering how you are and I looked up this particular subject because of what is happening in Israel.
    I am Jewish and I also lived in Israel as a child for four years, so it was once my home .
    Fortunately, I belong to a community a synagogue and through them we’re processing the grief of what is happening. I believe it’s affecting everyone.
    I no longer look for explanations because I don’t find anything comprehensible about the situation. What I’m looking for now, is some relief from the shock and the grief that I feel.
    I believe the only way to get around it is to go through the pain of it so I’ve been thinking about you because you have not put out a video in a while and just was wondering if you’re OK and how are you are ….
    Much love to you ❤❤
    This particular meditation was extremely helpful , Ty

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi Pam yes thanks so much I’m so very very very sorry about what’s happening with Israel there are no words….. yes I’m a little sad but I’m ok I’ll upload soon and praying for you and all Jewish people thank you so much for reaching out

    • @pamchesler242
      @pamchesler242 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@LaurenOstrowskiFenton ty Lauren ❤️
      This affects everyone…. I feel for every citizen who lives and is experiencing these horrors and to all those around the world who are watching this suffering unfold.
      Anyway, what a beautiful meditation this was as I was searching through TH-cam and ended up finding yours….it helped tremendously.
      I’m passing it on to others who are experiencing the same.
      Ty ❤️

  • @_kt100_
    @_kt100_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need this.. thank you Lauren💖💖💖🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @stephenduncan8292
    @stephenduncan8292 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A new meditative experience that has a gentle, beautifully expressed opening narrative message (or philosophy). Newly-informative, enlightening and positive. But with an undertone, or 'back story' that is realistic and cautious about 'speed of adjustment' of personal experience to grief and it's 'twin' - traumatic impact

  • @vamama100
    @vamama100 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lauren you are a wizard. ❤Thank you immensely. Blessings always ❤

  • @johnnywalker7961
    @johnnywalker7961 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That is so beautiful outstanding Lauren ostrowski fenton 💋 💖 💕 💓 💞 ❤️ i love the water & sea 🌊 so much.

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it thank you so very much Johnny really awesome to hear from you

  • @Coco-mw8tz
    @Coco-mw8tz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is golden! Thanks for helping me drift off ⛵️ ✨🙏🏼

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are so welcome

    • @Coco-mw8tz
      @Coco-mw8tz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LaurenOstrowskiFenton love to you Lauren - hope you are having a blessed Saturday 💕💕💕

  • @TheJoedecarlo
    @TheJoedecarlo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🙏

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dear @TheJoedecarlo Much love to you always my friend stay safe, be well sleep soundly x

  • @Drilly_frmdao
    @Drilly_frmdao ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I REALLY needed this.. my kids father passed away oct 22, we found him dead when we woke up and the trauma of trying to revive him makes me not sleep or eat for days

    • @peggyschine3302
      @peggyschine3302 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blessings for you and your children.
      🙏 I'm very sorry for your loss,

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dearest Gemma I’m so deeply sorry that must be incredibly challenging and traumatic thinking of you at this time praying for all of you

    • @kevin4truth328
      @kevin4truth328 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel your pain. My mom died last night suddenly out of the blue

    • @queeniez1970
      @queeniez1970 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@kevin4truth328 I hope you have been healing well after the loss of your mom, I'm so sorry, sending you a hug.

    • @sinmore2865
      @sinmore2865 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry you had to experience that with the children. They lost our 30-year-old son to murder last year. A big truck took the plates off and waited for my side to walk home at 1:15 in the morning and ran over him. He was in sober living, but laughed and wanted to come home, but we couldn’t let himbecause he had gotten so violent. I wish I had been able to help him more because it’s really hard to process this without blaming myself. Laying on God to give us strength. Amen and amen.

  • @spreadpeacegrattuidhealing
    @spreadpeacegrattuidhealing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me and my 6 year old son need help to heal thank you my 6 year old is such a super hero Like is daddy 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 so hard been homeless for over a year I seen and heard partner get crushed buy a truck only wades head was in one piece. Me and my son will be strong together

  • @jaredanderson7203
    @jaredanderson7203 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hate I have to listen to these twice a day just to calm down. How can nobody just see I’m freaking insane when they look at me? I need help!

    • @noraoconnor1895
      @noraoconnor1895 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Look what u are doing to help urself, u will get better and better, do'nt be too hard on urself,- it takes time, seek help from a therapist or ur doctor if ur not coping.!! Blessings to u.

  • @SheenaMelanson
    @SheenaMelanson ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hope everyone has a Merry Christmas, Happy Holiday, Happy Hannukah, Happy Kwanzaa, Happy New Year, and Happy Chinese New Year and anything I may have missed! I'm going to bed early this Christmas. It has been the most challenging four years I have ever had, with this year being the worst somehow. So whatever you're going through, I hope you know you're not alone even when you feel it. Christmas this year, doesn't feel like Christmas at all. But hope everyone stays warm, and safe.

    • @LAKGE7
      @LAKGE7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Merry Christmas, you're not alone either. Sending you a warm hug 🤗. Take good care of yourself 🌟x

  • @marielleladt3830
    @marielleladt3830 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i listen to your video even though I dont have grief. and trauma. I found the lying and the washing very soothing.
    thank you.

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so welcome Marielle thank you so much for taking time to listen to my content

  • @djmaloney9627
    @djmaloney9627 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's been 3 years since my husband a 45 years died unexpectedly at home in my arms. This was through the pandemic. Then due to a knee replacement. I lost my ability to be mobile and have not gained back my ability to walk. Everything in my life is upside down. I'm trying to find a new path but it's so difficult I feel like there's something wrong with me because I'm not getting it even though I'm trying all different options and techniques and working with a therapist. It's just not helping.
    At this point I just really don't know where to go from here. I'm in my sixties not spring chicken anymore I am. I don't really have a lot of support because most of my family in friends are either not around or they've passed on. I understand my situation. I get it, it's not gonna change. At least with my husband coming back. And who knows about my knee? Thank you for your TH-cam videos. They do help but the bottom line is I have a heart that has a big hole in it, My grief feels like it's never going to end.

  • @Cookielover497
    @Cookielover497 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much🩵🩶🪻🦋🦆

  • @allpointstoone4346
    @allpointstoone4346 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good

  • @beatleme2
    @beatleme2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mine is from a loss - beautiful wife April passed to cervix cancer tumor on 8 1 23 of 13 yrs marriage :(... took back my 1st wife n she left after 2 weeks reopening the wound of my wife passing :(..

  • @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805
    @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805 ปีที่แล้ว

    Much ❤❤❤

  • @KatiesCreativeMemories
    @KatiesCreativeMemories ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Lauren for this. I’m wondering if I can ask you to create a meditation for falling asleep after nightmares? I have them nightly and often need to find a way to calm down and get rid of the anxiety they create upon waking. Thank you❤

  • @davedogge2280
    @davedogge2280 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks again. need to sleep

  • @momigreene8433
    @momigreene8433 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lauren
    Prayers for Your, Mine & Everyone Else’s Adversities are Releasing Now ……
    Thank You For Your Diligence in This LIFE❤

  • @Susie_Q77
    @Susie_Q77 ปีที่แล้ว

    💜💜💜

  • @christinabugatti2152
    @christinabugatti2152 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you..🪶

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว

      And thank you also Christina thank you for listening to my content

  • @melt1611
    @melt1611 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How do I stop the loud annoying add at the end of your meditation?

    • @sdawg58
      @sdawg58 ปีที่แล้ว

      Use "Newpipe" or "TH-cam Vanced"

  • @dustybones1448
    @dustybones1448 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Healing the bones

  • @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb
    @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This time was harder.

  • @missk9292
    @missk9292 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My darling dog died on sunday me and my other dog are besides ourself the pain is making me cry non stop and my little dog is looking for her big brother. Mr sparkles was 16 and died in his sleep while we were all in bed in the night .im inconsolable i dont want to see people or talk on the phone ,please pray for us both im trying to make things upbeat for monster who is 6 so she calms down as ahe wont leve my side

  • @RealTalk-mq2ug
    @RealTalk-mq2ug ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My best friend, whom I loved so deeply,
    with all my heart and with all my soul...
    He betrayed and abandoned me...
    Completely left me.
    Just like that.
    In an instant: gone! Poof!
    Replaced me with another.
    56 days: not a word from him.
    Exactly 8 weeks; two whole months.
    I am astonished.
    I am alone.
    I am lonely.
    I am traumatized.
    I am bewildered and befuddled.
    I am bereaved and grief-stricken.
    I am breathless.
    I paralyzed.
    I am debilitated.
    I am hurt. Beyond belief.
    I have been discarded,
    violently, viciously, brutally:
    like last week's trash!
    The breathlessness and the grief
    are horrifyingly horrific.
    Like being buried alive in darkness.
    Walls closing in on me.
    Claustrophobia.
    I die inside.
    I absolutely die.
    Choking, suffocating:
    on stagnant stale air.
    How the fuck could this be?
    How the fuck could he actually do this to me?
    How do we go from being so fucking close,
    to becoming absolute strangers?
    I panic. Breathlessly, panic.
    Air sucked out of the room,
    sucked out of my lungs.
    I'm truly in hell.
    However,
    I have learned this:
    1. The woman who has the power to walk away, gives her soul, the space to heal!
    2. She (also) allows the man to have clarity regarding her value!
    3. She is able to ponder the error/s of her ways (and to go on to correct them...).
    4. She learns her own strength and power and femininity and divinity and magic!
    5. She re-calibrates her soul, and moves back to the Creator's default...
    6. She gives God the necessary space to bless her...

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว

      Be proud of this incredible comment this comment is not only profound and well written but inspires others thank you

    • @RealTalk-mq2ug
      @RealTalk-mq2ug ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LaurenOstrowskiFenton awww thanks so much

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RealTalk-mq2ug you are so very welcome

  • @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb
    @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I when back to made And If this was tast

  • @stephenduncan8292
    @stephenduncan8292 ปีที่แล้ว

    Words of 'self worth and value' really DO have to be DEEPLY 'internalised'. Meaning: made an unquestionable core of the self. It's easy to 'hear' these words - 'in one ear; out the other' - think they are 'nice abstract concepts'. They are not. They are for REAL.
    Lauren: our guide, emphasizes over and again, with good reason, with love for us all: self worth, value and esteem of the Self are the essential minima. 'Argued' here only because I have struggled; still struggle to 'ram them down' and 'ram them home' - make them integral to my higher self.
    Why ? The world of work and of 'performance' co-opts human attributes (qualities) into $ value commodities, when they ARE INTRINSIC TO ('part and parcel of') The Higher Human Self.
    Esteem [Love] Your Self. You are not a human machine that produces $ output, then breaks-down, is 'redundant; replaced; scrapped' and no person remains.
    You are not your occupation is an old wisdom statement. Avoid the social ice-breaker: 'And WHAT do you DO ?'
    YOU: THE PERSON have/are many human roles: friend, associate, FB/YT/Twitter Handle/Instagram A/c User, parent, single person, committed partner, young, middle years, aged, hobbyist, lobbyist, activist, creative arts worker, helper, volunteer, student, amateur philosopher of life, social media influencer, faith believer, 'whatever'. Yes: you HAVE a remunerated occupation too !
    Reading a bit of Alain de Botton's RELIGION FOR ATHEISTS (2012). Not an anti-religion tract. More a sociological critique; plea for restoration of a pre-urban face-to-face society, where spacial freedom once meant people trusted and 'communed'. Had not retreated into closed 'urban boxes', fearful of unknown people. Screening social connection with social-media 'security blankets' ?
    Richard Sennett, a social writer of the 1970s wrote THE FALL OF PUBLIC MAN [sic] in 1977, in which his thesis was from the early 18th century the 'early evening custom' in big cities such as London of the 'public promenade' when crowds gathered in the streets faded rapidly. The nuclear-family bound to the workplace, or the home, arose...

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว

      Dear Stephen thank you for taking so much time and effort in your comment . Very interesting . These two books look like a really decent read . Thank you Stephen

  • @mare2723
    @mare2723 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I only live minutes from it but I don’t like the sound of the ocean it doesn’t soothe me I wish this had rain or thunderstorm behind it that would help me understand that other people love the sound of the ocean

  • @Victoria-hz3gx
    @Victoria-hz3gx 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Too fast

  • @suem5099
    @suem5099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks!

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dear Sue thank you so very much so deeply grateful and thank you also for watching my content I hope you're well Lauren

  • @pamchesler242
    @pamchesler242 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks!

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Pam, I just saw this I’m so sorry I’m three weeks late. Thank you so much for your generosity it really really means a lot to me and he’s a big help. Love Lauren

    • @pamchesler242
      @pamchesler242 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LaurenOstrowskiFenton How is everything down under?
      It’s freezing here and I love it!
      Just hanging in there and listening to your beautiful meditations….
      Hope you are well 🙏🙏🙏
      Btw…my sensitivity to disappearing comments or when you get back to me are now over…
      I think I am developing new ones…😉😉
      Funny, how we have to keep up with our thoughts and mindset all the time…
      But as you have mentioned, never give up…
      Btw the way, happy 11:11 portal today..
      May you be blessed and have many more blessings to come your way….
      Hope you are well 💖💖☮️☮️🕊️🕊️

  • @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb
    @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much Virginia I'm deeply deeply grateful

  • @user-iq1mo6pc8c
    @user-iq1mo6pc8c 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks!

    • @LaurenOstrowskiFenton
      @LaurenOstrowskiFenton  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much with all my heart for your generosity it makes my content creation possible thank you Lauren

  • @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb
    @VirginiaHarris-ti7lb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!