She’s literally just throwing herself at him and it’s sooooo cringey. I have secondhand embarrassment for her. The whole conversation she’s like begging him to say he misses her or something and he clearly doesn’t.
He literally told her not to focus on missing him!!🙄🙄😒😒. He made a very conscious effort to NOT say that he missed her despite her telling him what to say! I would've just hung up. He's not interested in her in any romantic type of way.
Just a friendly reminder that body positivity is not fat positivity. Body positivity is accepting ppl with kindness and respect who have conditions they can not change - disabled (like myself), little ppl, burn survivors, etc. What this gal, Tess Holiday and the others like them do is promote morbid obesity for their own needs. Her product is being obese and ‘trying’ to find love, while blaming every failed relationship on ppl being fat phobic. So no fat, no career. Couldn’t possibly be that she’s a selfish partner with unrealistic demands of ppl too quickly after meeting them.
This is so embarrassing! This man isn’t into her at all. She needs to let this man go. I was so embarrassed at his lack of enthusiasm. She sounds so desperate.
I Was Getting The Same Vibe...Like It's Whatever For Him He Doesn't Care One Way Or Another ..And Trust He Sure As Hell Won't Be Looking Into Anything🤦🙄
I think hes into her. Shes just too intense for that early in the relationship Edit- nevermind lmao i didnt have the context, i assumed they met on a dating app... hes her french teacher?
@@Afmedic85 I think it just doesn't work if you have feelings for your teacher and it's just you two talking. She needs to stop talking to him and trying to learn from him and he needs to tell her he's not interested and have boundaries.
That conversation went NOTHING like she portrayed it did to her friend! 😂🤣😂. She has her friend believing that they have to ask permission to do things when he specifically said the exact opposite.
Exactly. "I'm going to get wild." "I don't own you." "Do you want to?" Nothing. "OK I'll wait to get wild." Lol it's like she was listening to a completely different conversation. As if he was jealous because she was going to "get wild" without him. He doesn't care about her that way .... at all.
@@freewithnature I agree. He doesnt want his face shown so hes not really clout chasing so why does he keep communicating and not telling her to pump the breaks...
@@LaPlaztique I wonder that too. I’m new to this show, just started watching the last few days, but you make a good point. He doesn’t sound interested at all in a romance type relationship with her, but he is still calling.
Emotionally Whitney is still in her adolescence and she needs to take time to mature. When you have to ask someone to tell you that they miss you it's a sign that they do not.
Yes! That's what I get from her in just a few clips. Everything about how she talks about it with her friends, to the way she talk with him it's like a girl with a crush and the guy is being just nice enough to not hurt her feelings. As a teenager sure that's understandable , but as a grown woman not picking up the signs 🤦🤦🤦🤷. I don't know if she is in therapy , but she needs some work in this area for sure.
100%. If he wanted to, at the time of this video, he had had plenty of time to come to the states to meet her. The whole “how wild can I get?” convo made me so uncomfortable. He doesn’t even sound French….
@@astherielleloella-ximena402 I’m overweight, strong, confident and independent woman are great taglines to draw in viewers. Sadly, that’s clearly NOT the case.
The whole relationship she’s having in her head is not the relationship he’s having. He seems mildly annoyed and she’s actually excited to talk to him and possibly see him. This doesn’t end well, does it. :-(
God she reminds me of me when I was new to dating, young, naive, and insecure. Latching onto someone who clearly isn't into me, being in a relationship that is painfully one-sided, begging for someone to return energy and getting wrapped up in a victim complex instead of just cutting things off. Learn to return energy, know your worth, learn some red flags, and love yourself. You won't even feel very interested in people who aren't interested in you back. Now when a guy isn't returning energy I don't even feel hurt, just less interested, and don't even want to pursue anything with him. My time is valuable I gotta keep it rolling, no hate to him but why waste both our times?
Right there with you. And when a guy I kind of liked was into me, I would latch on and hard. I was such an embarrassment. Funny enough, now one if those guys is into me and I just couldn't be into him. Wasn't even into him back then. Just forced myself to be
Exactly? She probably would reject any guy that was sincerely interested in her.. she probably would question his motives and wonder what was wrong with him😩
He's making it clear he isn't interested and she won't let it go....she's embarrassing. If he was doing this to her we'd all scram, "leave her alone!!"
I thought the same thing! I'm no expert, but I couldn't tell he was French either. He actually sounded like he was from the southern U.S. at certain points in the conversation.
@Khizott_MaeMae I live in France right now and I met French people who didn't have an accent at all. You would meet people like that in any European country. Although I am not saying there are not people who does have an accent and there is nothing wrong with that.
I hope he tells her he’s not interested in anything past a French lesson via Skype or whatever they do.. she just said I miss you and he’s like “uh try not to focus on that”. What else, how else does he need to say? He’s not interested in her AT ALL . I don’t think shed be able to handle the rejection “in the flesh” like she says. Our intuition is key 🔑 what the fu*k is going on with hers- geez &. Her friends shouldn’t egg her on either
Perhaps she's created an entire narrative of a romantic French guy who rings her and can't wait to visit her when the Pandemic restrictions allow. This is the first episode I've watched so I don't know, but she strikes me as being somewhat delusional with the aid of the producers (as usual).
I feel like the conversation that she had with the guy on the phone compared to the conversation that she told her friend about was totally different. She sugar coated a lot of it lol
I’m autistic so not sure how great my advice is on relationships but…I always felt if you have to hold on tight to someone for fear of losing them, they were never yours to begin with.
She's in a "serious relationship" with someone, and she doesn't even know if he "likes nature"? That whole conversation was very bizarre. It sounded like she was talking to someone for the first time.
They gotta stop with these fake relationships 👀 it’s giving sad and desperate. Also, is it me or does his voice sound dubbed over? 🧐And if he is French, wtf is his accent? 🤔
Im swedish, my english is fluent and People till me I dont have any swedish accent coming through when I talk.... IF u've been watching american tv shows sense u were a kid and been listening to american music, and u had english in school most likely u Will have no accent👍
@@lottaa618 Thanks for that information, I never took that into consideration. I think what’s more concerning is that he had no emotion in his speech, said no loving words, and sounded like a pre-recorded message or like his voice was dubbed over in post production. Which is just weird to me in general.
@@lottaa618 Not if you're French. There are just some words French people naturally struggle no matter how well they speak English. You can tell by the rs and tonality. Ask a French person to pronounce "squirrel" and watch them fail.
She's charismatic and pretty and has a lot to offer someone, so she shouldn't try to be with anyone who clearly isn't in to her on the level that she is. I thought that the experiences she's had would have taught her better than this. I hope she wises up so she doesn't get hurt again.
Afraid I agree with second comment. I've always found her so annoying and dependent upon those around her. When there's chemistry happening, one of the greatest parts of "romance" is realising that both of you are on the same timeline with the same enthusiasm towards each other, not wondering how you're going to get out of the next date, or alternatively hearing that deep reluctance in your date's voice. Being sure about it without the painful adolescent insecurity.
Naw. Getting hurt isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes it’s nice to explore relationships. But yes, I agree, you should choose people who choose you. And who are treating you well. But, she is not delusional. She had to ask him and she did. And she’s aware of his tone.
I honestly feel really bad for whitney. It’s very clear that he has little to no interest in her and he honestly sounded annoyed for a majority of that conversation, but sometimes you like someone so much that you ignore the hints and just pretend they seem interested in you. There’s also an added layer of embarrassment because she’s told her friends about him and she doesn’t want to humiliate herself by saying he doesn’t like her. But the longer she waits the worse it will get
So basically she’s desperate so she’s degraded herself into being creepy and pathetic lol despite calling herself a strong,independent woman eww cringe 😬
She’s making a conscious choice not to listen to her gut…always a huge mistake. Oh, the angst, the heartbreak, the drama, the hysterical tears that are coming. Soap opera 101. If a man wants you, Whitney, he will pursue you, always. He will find a way.
She is one siding this relationship, he obviously isnt that into her... I mean its kinda scary how she acts towards him, She will scare him away in no time with that personality :/
This guy never said he was romantically interested in her....he also told her in front if her mother who he did not even know he was meeting that they were only friends....
Yes, Whitney, there’s something bad that you “don’t know”: HE’S NOT INTERESTED! Even my dog knows that French dude is most definitely not interested in Whitney.
At least she put herself out there and is optimistic about it. Fear of rejection shouldn’t hold someone back from respectfully flirting or trying to woo someone. Experience tells me that most men who are interested don’t talk like he did 😐
She thinks "You seem like a good friend but I'm also obligated to be nice to you because you pay me to be your teacher and we are in a world-wide pandemic so I can't lose a student" means "Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?"
The guy is most likely broke and feels intimidated. It's expensive to travel and it's not accessible as it is for her. She can book a ticket whenever she wants but he's an online french teacher, I can't imagine him making much money.
Confident men or friends will never pursue relationships with Whitney until she truly learns to Iove herself and quit fantasizing about being in love! The on-air humiliation she's putting herself through is not worth the network ratings 😢
She needs to read a book from the late 90s called "He's not that into you." I hate seeing a woman making a relationship in her mind with a man who you can hear doesn't have the same feelings.
I wish Whitney was more honest with her friends. Letting them know how things are genuinely going when they ask. They give advice and enable her to continue talking to this guy but only because they don’t get an opportunity to see the full picture. She hides a lot of details and doesn’t give the a fair chance to give her honest advice
Honestly, I cannot believe how she is pushing something that does not exist. She should be ashamed of herself, this guy is completely transparent in his communication. He has zero interest in her.
When she asked “how loose can i get before you get upset” it seems like she misread his response. While he was talking, she was grinning ear to ear. 🤦🏼♀️Maybe thought his awkwardness/irritation was about her “getting loose” when in reality he’s not interested in even entertaining the idea of a relationship.
I will say Whitney's friend is solid 😂 She just let's her live in la-la land and doesn't call her out for the make believe relationships she puts herself in 😂 She just plays along and then picks up the pieces when it's all over lol
@@SarahKDBWhitney only hears what she wants. Do u really think that would make a difference? They have tried that many times and she still doesn't listen lol 😅
This guy is realistic and middle-beat, taking things slow. Whitney is damn clingy, and French guys aren't realizing relationship before You both had have intimacy, romantic stuff with each other. That's the culture. Then they are more down to earth and respecting bodies as an art creature.
I love how the conversation she had with him and then the way she painted it to Ashley is a total 160° difference lol I just hope she stays safe and focused.
I think he mostly doesn’t know what to say to the things she blurts out so fast. Guys take a while to compute. I mean he called her, so he’s into her but I’m pretty sure he’s lying about being French. Maybe he’s an American living in France but who knows where he’s living. He has a nice voice though.
Why does she think every man she comes across has to be attracted to her? Smh. Girl just because someone isn't attracted to you doesn't make them a bad person. Why not keep things strictly business instead of making things weird? This girl is something else. I swear. 🥴
Sad, so sad someone is so 'needing' another person that when the guy, in this instance, says everything to her that he's not interested in meeting her she still holds out hope. When will she wake up??
Learn to give people the same energy that they give you.
Okay!! 💯
I needed to read this tysm lmao
Exactly. Read the room girl!
So painful to see a big girl not read the situation ... every season she gets more desperate !!!
Well said. 💛
Omg She picks up on zero cues.
I was embarrassed for her.
She did pick up on it, but she's pretending she didn't
@@MM-fg4tw yeah 😬
She’s literally just throwing herself at him and it’s sooooo cringey. I have secondhand embarrassment for her. The whole conversation she’s like begging him to say he misses her or something and he clearly doesn’t.
He literally told her not to focus on missing him!!🙄🙄😒😒. He made a very conscious effort to NOT say that he missed her despite her telling him what to say! I would've just hung up. He's not interested in her in any romantic type of way.
Exactly she's so desperate telling him what she wants him to feel.
"OK I won't get wild." He completely indicated he didn't care. Lol. She hears what she wants to hear. Strange.
True af. That's exactly what he said, with his words, with his tone, all of it.
She is paying him for content!!
Just a friendly reminder that body positivity is not fat positivity. Body positivity is accepting ppl with kindness and respect who have conditions they can not change - disabled (like myself), little ppl, burn survivors, etc. What this gal, Tess Holiday and the others like them do is promote morbid obesity for their own needs. Her product is being obese and ‘trying’ to find love, while blaming every failed relationship on ppl being fat phobic. So no fat, no career. Couldn’t possibly be that she’s a selfish partner with unrealistic demands of ppl too quickly after meeting them.
@@mrs.h2725 Astute!
Shes in denial, you can clearly hear hes not interested.
This is so embarrassing! This man isn’t into her at all. She needs to let this man go. I was so embarrassed at his lack of enthusiasm. She sounds so desperate.
I Was Getting The Same Vibe...Like It's Whatever For Him He Doesn't Care One Way Or Another ..And Trust He Sure As Hell Won't Be Looking Into Anything🤦🙄
I don’t see what made her think he was into her anyway…
I think hes into her. Shes just too intense for that early in the relationship
Edit- nevermind lmao i didnt have the context, i assumed they met on a dating app... hes her french teacher?
He is just her teacher who has been misunderstood . Probably he has many students who think like this
Why did he call her? They aren't speaking french. Whitney is eager but hes not consistent with showing disinterest.
It is extremely sad how one sided this is
I just feel bad for her. She should just stop talking to him
@@Evealaquisina my thoughts exactly. Shes giving him the best parts of herself and hes giving... nothing.
All the guy was doing was teaching her French and Whitney decided she wanted to be with him. The guy's feelings aren't the same
@@Afmedic85 you got a point BUT he should make it clear and say it out loud rather than calling her outside of lessons and keeping her there.
@@Afmedic85 I think it just doesn't work if you have feelings for your teacher and it's just you two talking. She needs to stop talking to him and trying to learn from him and he needs to tell her he's not interested and have boundaries.
That conversation went NOTHING like she portrayed it did to her friend! 😂🤣😂. She has her friend believing that they have to ask permission to do things when he specifically said the exact opposite.
Exactly. "I'm going to get wild." "I don't own you." "Do you want to?" Nothing. "OK I'll wait to get wild." Lol it's like she was listening to a completely different conversation. As if he was jealous because she was going to "get wild" without him. He doesn't care about her that way .... at all.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is honestly very educational for girls on what it looks like when a guy is being nice but is not interested.
Hell yeah it’s kinda sad honestly
In her defense he is giving her sorta mixed signals by not telling her he’s not into her. When he replies to things he seems to keep it open.
@@freewithnature th-cam.com/video/3fHl9bxVT58/w-d-xo.html
This is the right soundtrack
@@freewithnature I agree. He doesnt want his face shown so hes not really clout chasing so why does he keep communicating and not telling her to pump the breaks...
He's not into her at all, he doesn't want to do this
I wonder why he’s calling her then?
@@LaPlaztique I wonder that too. I’m new to this show, just started watching the last few days, but you make a good point. He doesn’t sound interested at all in a romance type relationship with her, but he is still calling.
@@Autumn_Sunrise he was teaching her french for a few months before this happened. So they do have some sort of "relationship"
@@ooxds1416 that is not a relationship,they have a mutual friend. Nothing else
Wow he sounds completely distraught about the prospect of meeting Whitney.
Emotionally Whitney is still in her adolescence and she needs to take time to mature. When you have to ask someone to tell you that they miss you it's a sign that they do not.
She’s in her 30’s and running out of time to grow up!
She needs to stop being so needy and creepy cuz it's pathetic ESPECIALLY since she claims to be strong and independent it's cringe.
Yes! That's what I get from her in just a few clips. Everything about how she talks about it with her friends, to the way she talk with him it's like a girl with a crush and the guy is being just nice enough to not hurt her feelings. As a teenager sure that's understandable , but as a grown woman not picking up the signs 🤦🤦🤦🤷. I don't know if she is in therapy , but she needs some work in this area for sure.
100%. If he wanted to, at the time of this video, he had had plenty of time to come to the states to meet her. The whole “how wild can I get?” convo made me so uncomfortable. He doesn’t even sound French….
@@astherielleloella-ximena402 I’m overweight, strong, confident and independent woman are great taglines to draw in viewers.
Sadly, that’s clearly NOT the case.
The whole relationship she’s having in her head is not the relationship he’s having. He seems mildly annoyed and she’s actually excited to talk to him and possibly see him. This doesn’t end well, does it. :-(
Whitney: “Can you please tell me you miss me too?”
French tutor: *crickets* 🦗
Not even a paycheck from TLC can force a guy to pretend he's that interested in her. Who would be?
Embarresing
How awkward! “I don’t own you” “ but do you want to?” 😂😂🤮
I'd fucking haul ass out of there 🏃
That is NOT a French accent sweetheart!!!
Thank YOU!
Nope 😂
Could be a 🐈 🐠
He is not French! No way!!
I agree. He may be of a different nation though
Talk about second hand embarrassment lol. She has zero clue that he just isn't into her 🙄
God she reminds me of me when I was new to dating, young, naive, and insecure. Latching onto someone who clearly isn't into me, being in a relationship that is painfully one-sided, begging for someone to return energy and getting wrapped up in a victim complex instead of just cutting things off. Learn to return energy, know your worth, learn some red flags, and love yourself. You won't even feel very interested in people who aren't interested in you back. Now when a guy isn't returning energy I don't even feel hurt, just less interested, and don't even want to pursue anything with him. My time is valuable I gotta keep it rolling, no hate to him but why waste both our times?
Me as well, I’m reading the comments like 👀, dang I was cringe
@@nunitneferu96 riiiight, i'm like "why did i care so much, when they very clearly didn't?" 🤔
this is such good advice
That was so well written
Right there with you. And when a guy I kind of liked was into me, I would latch on and hard. I was such an embarrassment. Funny enough, now one if those guys is into me and I just couldn't be into him. Wasn't even into him back then. Just forced myself to be
Girl, he's just not that into you..
Right?! They made a movie on it
@@arabelvozza5773 they did?
I hate that stupid phrase! It should be “Bitch! He ain’t into you!” That’s much more straight to the point!
@@allaboutbeebo4092 Yes based off the book
@@MamiTT237 yeah. They need to make a new movie with this title
He ain’t into you. Move on and don’t waste your time. He doesn’t sound French.
Lol how does French sound 🤣😂
@@JourneytofindBeauty I think she means the accent maybe
Yeah, where is his Parisienne accent?
@@JourneytofindBeauty His accent is not quite French.
He does not sound like a French national but rather a native English speaker.
She is one of those individuals who put MORE effort into a “Fantasy” of a Man than actually putting that effort and energy into meeting someone close.
Exactly? She probably would reject any guy that was sincerely interested in her.. she probably would question his motives and wonder what was wrong with him😩
Same as her fantasy of being a personal trainer
@@monicaalexandra2057 Her whole life is a fantasy. That whole fat dance competition thing she was into? I used to laugh my head off!
I feel kinda bad for her, since she’s seems to be excited about him and his reciprocation is lacking
He's making it clear he isn't interested and she won't let it go....she's embarrassing. If he was doing this to her we'd all scram, "leave her alone!!"
He doesn't sound French. He doesn't sound as if he's even a tiny bit into her. Geez .. cmon. This is painful to watch.
Okay I was thinking the same thing lol no accent nothing lol
@@Mcm87473 not everybody has an accent tho. But he doesn't choose words like an European would.
I thought the same thing! I'm no expert, but I couldn't tell he was French either. He actually sounded like he was from the southern U.S. at certain points in the conversation.
@Khizott_MaeMae I live in France right now and I met French people who didn't have an accent at all. You would meet people like that in any European country. Although I am not saying there are not people who does have an accent and there is nothing wrong with that.
He is about as French as French fries
That man said you are grown ass woman and still she doesn't get a clue
"A trip like that needs ...."
"..planning"
He's thinking..."money."
Good God... he's not even French. He's not in France. He's somewhere in Minnesota.
Lmao
😂😂😂😂
I was thinking is he American and live in France
😭😭
I'm french and thought his accent was too casually good wich is very rare for us so him being from minesotta makes sense
He doesn't seem like he cares about you like you care for him and he doesn't wanna come here...
It felt like watching a high school girl with her first crush, except he doesn’t like her back. Awkward AF
Your first high school crush never usually likes you back. What planet are you from?
I hope he tells her he’s not interested in anything past a French lesson via Skype or whatever they do.. she just said I miss you and he’s like “uh try not to focus on that”. What else, how else does he need to say? He’s not interested in her AT ALL . I don’t think shed be able to handle the rejection “in the flesh” like she says. Our intuition is key 🔑 what the fu*k is going on with hers- geez
&. Her friends shouldn’t egg her on either
Her friends honestly add to her delusion! It’s kinda like fake.
Perhaps she's created an entire narrative of a romantic French guy who rings her and can't wait to visit her when the Pandemic restrictions allow. This is the first episode I've watched so I don't know, but she strikes me as being somewhat delusional with the aid of the producers (as usual).
She's assuming A LOT!! Where is his FRENCH accent!!
Okayyy
I was looking for this comment!!! This guy does not sound french AT ALL LOL! He even says "like" like a california born and raised man
He’s totally American
right LOL this man is not french
I feel like the conversation that she had with the guy on the phone compared to the conversation that she told her friend about was totally different. She sugar coated a lot of it lol
This man is absolutely not french!
That’s what I thought too 😆 I’m glad I’m not the only one
I think he does live in France but I don’t think he’s French
You can hear my accent better than his !!!! Lol.
He said “is this like a confidence build up thing?” Hahahahaha 😂
I thought I was the only one who caught that LMAO
Me too. Jeez I felt weird hearing that. Or omg 😳 did he just say that 🤣
I’m autistic so not sure how great my advice is on relationships but…I always felt if you have to hold on tight to someone for fear of losing them, they were never yours to begin with.
She's in a "serious relationship" with someone, and she doesn't even know if he "likes nature"? That whole conversation was very bizarre. It sounded like she was talking to someone for the first time.
How has she not grown as a person throughout all of this??
Like not even a little bit....
Meanwhile it’s funny to see how her ex fiancé has flourished in life
People who constantly whine and don’t take accountability never grow as people
She sounds like she's leaving a voicemail, instead of having a conversation.
They gotta stop with these fake relationships 👀 it’s giving sad and desperate. Also, is it me or does his voice sound dubbed over? 🧐And if he is French, wtf is his accent? 🤔
Im swedish, my english is fluent and People till me I dont have any swedish accent coming through when I talk.... IF u've been watching american tv shows sense u were a kid and been listening to american music, and u had english in school most likely u Will have no accent👍
@@lottaa618 Thanks for that information, I never took that into consideration. I think what’s more concerning is that he had no emotion in his speech, said no loving words, and sounded like a pre-recorded message or like his voice was dubbed over in post production. Which is just weird to me in general.
@@lottaa618 Not if you're French. There are just some words French people naturally struggle no matter how well they speak English. You can tell by the rs and tonality. Ask a French person to pronounce "squirrel" and watch them fail.
@@mannequinn_made420 i do agree with that👍
She's charismatic and pretty and has a lot to offer someone, so she shouldn't try to be with anyone who clearly isn't in to her on the level that she is. I thought that the experiences she's had would have taught her better than this. I hope she wises up so she doesn't get hurt again.
She's not charismatic lol. She's over bearing and annoying and makes excuses for her weight
@@Afmedic85 you summed it up best.
Afraid I agree with second comment. I've always found her so annoying and dependent upon those around her. When there's chemistry happening, one of the greatest parts of "romance" is realising that both of you are on the same timeline with the same enthusiasm towards each other, not wondering how you're going to get out of the next date, or alternatively hearing that deep reluctance in your date's voice. Being sure about it without the painful adolescent insecurity.
Naw. Getting hurt isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes it’s nice to explore relationships. But yes, I agree, you should choose people who choose you. And who are treating you well. But, she is not delusional. She had to ask him and she did. And she’s aware of his tone.
I agree..but at least she gets trips to France..lol
I honestly feel really bad for whitney. It’s very clear that he has little to no interest in her and he honestly sounded annoyed for a majority of that conversation, but sometimes you like someone so much that you ignore the hints and just pretend they seem interested in you. There’s also an added layer of embarrassment because she’s told her friends about him and she doesn’t want to humiliate herself by saying he doesn’t like her. But the longer she waits the worse it will get
So basically she’s desperate so she’s degraded herself into being creepy and pathetic lol despite calling herself a strong,independent woman eww cringe 😬
She’s making a conscious choice not to listen to her gut…always a huge mistake. Oh, the angst, the heartbreak, the drama, the hysterical tears that are coming. Soap opera 101. If a man wants you, Whitney, he will pursue you, always. He will find a way.
AGREE!!! The gut never lies
She fully expected him to immediately book a flight 😂😆
She's really pretty. But, he doesn't seem interested. Just turned into a really awkward conversation. Maybe just calm down the excitement a lil bit.
She is one siding this relationship, he obviously isnt that into her... I mean its kinda scary how she acts towards him, She will scare him away in no time with that personality :/
Facts,she's being too clingy
This is why you can't be overly nice to people. They start thinking you are flirting and start acting like her
This guy never said he was romantically interested in her....he also told her in front if her mother who he did not even know he was meeting that they were only friends....
Does she honestly think he's going to fly to America? "Thank you for finishing my sentences for me." 🥵😳😖😫
Yes, Whitney, there’s something bad that you “don’t know”: HE’S NOT INTERESTED! Even my dog knows that French dude is most definitely not interested in Whitney.
that dude isn't french, he doesn't even have an accent!!!
Whitney’s parents seem very normal and wonderful so I’m wondering what in the world happened with Whitney. The brother also seems normal.
Some people are just born delusional, also reality tv and social media corrupts everyone
Calling him HER 'French man' is just creepily delusional given the lack of interest he shows in her...
He just doesn’t want his name out there so he prefers to be called that.
At least she put herself out there and is optimistic about it. Fear of rejection shouldn’t hold someone back from respectfully flirting or trying to woo someone. Experience tells me that most men who are interested don’t talk like he did 😐
Exactly! I agree with you
That’s true!
There’s cautious optimism, and there’s living in a parallel universe! 🤣🤣🤣
Nah she she doing too much, on top of him not being interested 🤧
This was HARD to watch🥴
Aww I feel so bad for her...I wish she'd find someone that really wanted to be with her. 🥺💜
I got second hand embarrassed for her. Omg. He is not into her at all! And sounds so boring!!
STOP CALLING HIM THE FRENCH MAN 😵💫😂
she is talking so fast i cant even compute it. she is melting over this man and he is just not into it.
Oh I don't know maybe it's because her relationship is a sham?
She thinks "You seem like a good friend but I'm also obligated to be nice to you because you pay me to be your teacher and we are in a world-wide pandemic so I can't lose a student" means "Voulez-vous couchez avec moi ce soir?"
He’s her teacher? Ewww she’s a creep
Is it me, or does she act ten years younger than she is? Like Amy Schumer vibez...wth?🤷♀️
More like 20 yrs younger. Teenage angst.
I had second hand embarrassment from that whole entire phone call… He was not impressed or excited with anything she said.
The guy is most likely broke and feels intimidated. It's expensive to travel and it's not accessible as it is for her. She can book a ticket whenever she wants but he's an online french teacher, I can't imagine him making much money.
my mouth literallh dropped when she asked him to rephrase and say he missed her too 😬😩
The “French” man sounds like Howard stern. There’s nothing French about him.
Why did he even ring?? He clearly doesn't want to speak her!!
"You have beaches, hills and me...."
"Errrrrrrrrr, I'm having a hard computing that"
*insert dial-up tone here* 😂
Confident men or friends will never pursue relationships with Whitney until she truly learns to Iove herself and quit fantasizing about being in love! The on-air humiliation she's putting herself through is not worth the network ratings 😢
4:30 He's definitely trying to avoid answering the question. He probably wanted to say that he's not her boyfriend and doesn't care what she does.
What makes her think he likes her? He clearly doesn’t
She needs to read a book from the late 90s called "He's not that into you." I hate seeing a woman making a relationship in her mind with a man who you can hear doesn't have the same feelings.
OK Whitney is 37 years old which is shocking to me and that she imagines this relationship is something it's not! Wow. Is this narcissistic?
I wish Whitney was more honest with her friends. Letting them know how things are genuinely going when they ask. They give advice and enable her to continue talking to this guy but only because they don’t get an opportunity to see the full picture. She hides a lot of details and doesn’t give the a fair chance to give her honest advice
Honestly, I cannot believe how she is pushing something that does not exist. She should be ashamed of herself, this guy is completely transparent in his communication. He has zero interest in her.
Every man that she talks to she sees marriage and kids. Very thirsty!
And howwww
When she asked “how loose can i get before you get upset” it seems like she misread his response. While he was talking, she was grinning ear to ear. 🤦🏼♀️Maybe thought his awkwardness/irritation was about her “getting loose” when in reality he’s not interested in even entertaining the idea of a relationship.
OMG 🙈 Definitely not on the same page. He sounds so bored! She deserves someone who matches her energy!
Her being certified as a personal trainer makes as much sense as me being certified as a brain surgeon...whoever we work with is gonna wind up dead.
I will say Whitney's friend is solid 😂 She just let's her live in la-la land and doesn't call her out for the make believe relationships she puts herself in 😂 She just plays along and then picks up the pieces when it's all over lol
That's not a friend. A friend would tell her the truth.
@@SarahKDBWhitney only hears what she wants. Do u really think that would make a difference? They have tried that many times and she still doesn't listen lol 😅
Wow telling someone you miss them and trying to force them to say they miss you too is crazy 🤣
This guy is realistic and middle-beat, taking things slow. Whitney is damn clingy, and French guys aren't realizing relationship before You both had have intimacy, romantic stuff with each other. That's the culture. Then they are more down to earth and respecting bodies as an art creature.
But ... he's not French.
@@susansmith493 good actor anyway
@@tfpauliina not a good actor... not a French accent to be heard
Lol no, he shows no enthusiasm or attraction. You can still have both of those things and be slow moving
Darcey Silva: Finally, a worthy opponent.
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That conversation had the energy of a wet towel hanging on a doorknob.
Can we all just agree that Whitney cannot read the room? 🤦
She's so desperate, I feel so embarrassed for her! 💀
I love how the conversation she had with him and then the way she painted it to Ashley is a total 160° difference lol I just hope she stays safe and focused.
She is the only one talking
All the time she has a t.v..showww lollll
I think he mostly doesn’t know what to say to the things she blurts out so fast. Guys take a while to compute. I mean he called her, so he’s into her but I’m pretty sure he’s lying about being French. Maybe he’s an American living in France but who knows where he’s living. He has a nice voice though.
U think??? He sounds like u and me....
The second hand embarrassment I’m experiencing is so bad.
Imagine, someone forcing you to miss them!😂🤣😂
That was so cringe...I have secondhand embarrassment for her...
I can bet money on it that The French Man is living in USA! I hope she does not give him money!
He sounded like he hated her when he said thank you for finishing my sentences etc. Like Whitney, that was painful...
Whenever I watch this show, I notice that Whitney always talks about herself. She isn’t interested in her friends’ lives. It’s always about her.
Her: "I miss you"
"Yeeeeeah"
Her: "Say it back"
Like bruh he is dropping so many clues.
Why does she think every man she comes across has to be attracted to her? Smh. Girl just because someone isn't attracted to you doesn't make them a bad person. Why not keep things strictly business instead of making things weird? This girl is something else. I swear. 🥴
He wasn't going to say planning, he was going to say money. Honey, move on. He's not good for you or anyone.
slightly embarrassing i feel bad for her
Is she sure he’s a Frenchman? I don’t hear a French accent AT ALL!!! I hope he’s not catfishing her.
i feel bad she seems so happy but like he doesn’t seem all that excited 😅
Uh ... He's just not that into you gurl!? Sad tired tale...really?
Miss " No self awareness " Whitney at it again. #cringe
How can you call a man who is your tutor, that has never showed any interest in you, other than professional, a suitor?
Bless her heart. Gave me war flashbacks to college when I had a debilitating crush on a guy who I’d never even spoken to lol
“Ya sure.” That’s a real commitment. You’re worth so much more than this man.
Sad, so sad someone is so 'needing' another person that when the guy, in this instance, says everything to her that he's not interested in meeting her she still holds out hope. When will she wake up??