Success reminds people of their failures. Success is the best form of revenge... u shouldn't care about criticism from others. it's just noise, ripples from the pond after adding to the collective... dont ever lower ur shine to better suit the darkness, u are not the same as the darkness, ur something diffrent and ur probably already aware of that.
@@Finding_Hannah previously people had real problems like raising family gathering food for night something immediate to work on and be contempt but now days there is nothing to solve immediately hence I feel we need meaningful goals which can solve our boredom
There's always meaning in life it's peoples individual perception which is very different. Also depends how your feeling emotionally at the time. Life changes and perceptions change throughout life . Always see the good things in life and things don't seem so negative. Moto of the day always find the positives rather then the negatives in everything 😊
I think there is possibly perhaps room for a bit more nuance from what you've described of your past experiences. I relate to some of the people you've described - I try to be enthusiastic about my partner and other people's achievements, but the truth a lot of the time is that I'm not (sometimes this is likely obvious, but not for lack of trying). It's not necessarily out of selfishness or wanting to put others (that I care about) down - but more that I suppose I don't see the things they have "achieved" as being achievements. I know that sounds a bit bad, but let me explain. It's not something that I wouldn't apply to myself. For example, whenever I get a promotion or a raise or whatever, it just doesn’t interest me and I feel like there is nothing to be proud of. A lot of things I see people "achieve" just don't align with what I see as achievements. A lot of "achievements" these days tend to be materialistic ones, and for reasons I haven't entirely figured out myself, I just don't really care about them. If a friend or family member were to come to me beaming about how they'd solo crossed the channel or ascended Everest, then I'd probably be genuinely enthusiastically complimentary. Perhaps this doesn’t apply to the people you have mentioned here, or perhaps it does and it's maybe an indicator that your values don't align with these people. I certainly don't rule out that there are people out there who want to drag others down, but just pointing out that there can be other reasons for lack of enthusiasm or interest. Depression could even be a potential factor - future prospects, particularly in the UK and particularly for the young, are extremely bleak now. I also think for reasons that are too broad to explain in a youtube comment that this is particularly acute for young men.
Thanks for your Honesty. But your friend's Success is also your Success. It's inspiring. It Can lift you UP. It helps you achieve your own success. What anyone does you Can too, if that resonates with you, if deep down you feel it's your path. And sharing somebody'sjoy is so exciting, replenishing ! You're stronger together with other successful people, in a successful environment💪🏽🤑🤸
Aww great video 🫶🏽
You are so kind x
Success reminds people of their failures. Success is the best form of revenge... u shouldn't care about criticism from others. it's just noise, ripples from the pond after adding to the collective... dont ever lower ur shine to better suit the darkness, u are not the same as the darkness, ur something diffrent and ur probably already aware of that.
there is no real meaning left in anything nowdays
I’m really interested in this comment. Would you mind going into a little more detail ? :)
@@Finding_Hannah previously people had real problems like raising family gathering food for night something immediate to work on and be contempt but now days there is nothing to solve immediately hence I feel we need meaningful goals which can solve our boredom
There's always meaning in life it's peoples individual perception which is very different. Also depends how your feeling emotionally at the time. Life changes and perceptions change throughout life . Always see the good things in life and things don't seem so negative. Moto of the day always find the positives rather then the negatives in everything 😊
@@Lucylocket1 you are so positive I really admire it
Thank you
Great message and video. Also what drives us is what makes us happy and doing what we enjoy. 👍
Well said! Good video!
Thank you :)!!
Great video. Keep it up!
Thank you!!!
I think there is possibly perhaps room for a bit more nuance from what you've described of your past experiences. I relate to some of the people you've described - I try to be enthusiastic about my partner and other people's achievements, but the truth a lot of the time is that I'm not (sometimes this is likely obvious, but not for lack of trying). It's not necessarily out of selfishness or wanting to put others (that I care about) down - but more that I suppose I don't see the things they have "achieved" as being achievements. I know that sounds a bit bad, but let me explain. It's not something that I wouldn't apply to myself. For example, whenever I get a promotion or a raise or whatever, it just doesn’t interest me and I feel like there is nothing to be proud of. A lot of things I see people "achieve" just don't align with what I see as achievements. A lot of "achievements" these days tend to be materialistic ones, and for reasons I haven't entirely figured out myself, I just don't really care about them. If a friend or family member were to come to me beaming about how they'd solo crossed the channel or ascended Everest, then I'd probably be genuinely enthusiastically complimentary.
Perhaps this doesn’t apply to the people you have mentioned here, or perhaps it does and it's maybe an indicator that your values don't align with these people. I certainly don't rule out that there are people out there who want to drag others down, but just pointing out that there can be other reasons for lack of enthusiasm or interest. Depression could even be a potential factor - future prospects, particularly in the UK and particularly for the young, are extremely bleak now. I also think for reasons that are too broad to explain in a youtube comment that this is particularly acute for young men.
We hate it when our friends become successful
Thanks for your Honesty. But your friend's Success is also your Success. It's inspiring. It Can lift you UP. It helps you achieve your own success. What anyone does you Can too, if that resonates with you, if deep down you feel it's your path. And sharing somebody'sjoy is so exciting, replenishing ! You're stronger together with other successful people, in a successful environment💪🏽🤑🤸
@@carynefuture5778I actually agree with you.
My comment was actually the title of a song on the same subject.
I guess it's different for everyone, as everyone is different 😊
A lot of people do but I think we should lift each other up when our friend has success :)