The Wrong Way To Coach Kids?

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  • Intense coaching in youth sports... going too far?

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  • @drewford3024
    @drewford3024 7 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    "If they don't win their losers." Yeah that's usually how it works LMAO

    • @jessefehr7249
      @jessefehr7249 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They're*
      Though, I'm sure the coach and his pupils don't know the difference

  • @noneofyourbusinesd4923
    @noneofyourbusinesd4923 8 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I coached for years at this level. Three rules I set for myself.
    1). Safety of my players
    2). Make the game fun.
    3). Teach the fundementals.
    If you do those three things the wins will come. All you can ask these kids is to try their best. It's your job to get that out of them in a way where they will want to continue playing.

    • @MrDodger3222
      @MrDodger3222 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Anthony Yohman I can understand coaches being like this at the high school level but not in the pee wees.

    • @noneofyourbusinesd4923
      @noneofyourbusinesd4923 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MrDodger3222 Exactly.

    • @elijah5201
      @elijah5201 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MrDoger - you should try coaching one of these teams and win one out of 8 games, see how it depresses your kids! The key here is to have you kid play multiple sports to understand competing! But most of them are first timers! and at 8 years old they hit pretty hard and very aware of the game vs 6 and 7. So safety is a must!

    • @n1ght304
      @n1ght304 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      none of your businesd Agreed. If the game is fun, it'll feel more effortless for them.

    • @Nonplused
      @Nonplused 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      When I coached I found that some "theatrics" was necessary, but you use it to pump the kids up not to put them down. You say things like "We can beat this team if we go in 110%, all guns a blazing! Are we going in 110???" Just general trite things meant to pump them up. Negative comments or yelling at the ref are counter productive.
      PS I used to think 110% didn't make much sense, what comes after 100%? But then I remembered Scotty often got the Enterprise to 110% on the reactor core when necessary. It just means "push your limits".

  • @solsist__3291
    @solsist__3291 8 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    This is like an average high school coach.

    • @smartgorilla219
      @smartgorilla219 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Solsist Roblox Yeah but these are 8-10 years old

    • @MrDodger3222
      @MrDodger3222 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Solsist Roblox This isn't a varsity high school football team where a lot of the kids are battling to get recruited by colleges. I feel this coaching doesn't work in pee wee football.

    • @jakejohnson4018
      @jakejohnson4018 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They gotta make it about race cause they cant explain logically what the fuck they're doing or talking about.. Give him a year in prison with a big fat white guy lets see if hes still showing of that purty smile and gold teeth in court

    • @snareromie5295
      @snareromie5295 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Solsist Roblox yup

    • @dorothymcdonald3040
      @dorothymcdonald3040 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 😂 I don’t think that’s very true but ok.

  • @utahhoopsfreak8648
    @utahhoopsfreak8648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a grown adult, imagine working your job, making a mistake and being corrected like this in front of all of your colleagues.... Praise loudly, criticize quietly.

    • @jackmariner
      @jackmariner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like the way you put that, but the school of Bobby Cox the Braves manager, is some thing that does fire up your players. When your players know they’re being cheated on calls from the ref, it does feel good to see your coach out there fighting for you.

  • @timar6868
    @timar6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "we keep them disciplined" that would require you to have some first coach

  • @brazenskateboarding9163
    @brazenskateboarding9163 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I feel like some "high intensity" coaches are awesome. I had a baseball coach that would scream and yell during games, and everyone was so fired up all the time. Loved it. I remember the three rules still after like 5-6 years lol.
    1. Do your best
    2. Don't EVER put your head down when you strike out or make an error
    3. If you're going to puke during practice, puke over there
    lol he ran us into the ground.
    This guy though is just sick. He's not firing them up, he just seems like someone who never was that great at sports and learned everything he knows about football from watching NFL
    The kids say they like it but honestly he needs to tone it down a couple notches.

    • @dariob9000
      @dariob9000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      totally agree with you!

  • @codymcgonagill8072
    @codymcgonagill8072 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    my pee wee football coach was the same. we feared his Wrath or I did anyway. but his praise was equal to his criticisms. still think of that man often. I need to look them up and tell him thanks coach.

  • @ibopwebop
    @ibopwebop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Ray Charles could've caught a few of these calls..." says the angry coach. Best line ever!!!

    • @richardcarte139
      @richardcarte139 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sports is only good for the kid if sports is clicks with them personality wise. Creative kids should get int an art which teaches all the same lessons as sports just through different means. But football in particular is not good for kids. Kids don’t have the brain development to handle that type of pressure. My cousin went through this with my uncle. He was alway angry as a child and it was because his father acted like this couch or if you rather these “adults”. The way these stupid people where acting is the way a drug addict acts if you take away or say something negative about their drugs. There is plenty of psychological and medical evidence to say this behavior is damaging to our kids. But people don’t want to except this overwhelming evidence because it would mean they would have to change and people are terrified of change because if they accept the change it would mean that their idealism’s and ways would no longer be the dominant ones in society and therefore they would lose that beloved power that there ideals and ways hold over society. Grown Children.

    • @jackmariner
      @jackmariner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@richardcarte139 I will argue that art and sports do not teach you the same lessons, especially consistent physical activity, and how to give your all, lose, and walk off the field knowing you tried your best but that sometimes you aren’t the top dog, and you have to accept that. Sports are like a play, watching or playing a game you will feel every emotion in the book. There are highs there are lows, tears, laughs, triumph, and despair. If your child does not respond well to this type of intensity, they probably should not be playing football. I played football, baseball, basketball, soccer, I swam, I tried tennis, and golf. football is not for everyone. Football is the only sport that I really really cared about, and wish I could still be involved in. I would also argue that this guy is not overly mad at the kids, just intense. If he takes it home with him and it’s still like this yes that’s not good. Having a coach be fired up like this for the sport of football shows you that even though you know you’re being cheated on calls by the ref, someone is there fighting for you. I wouldn’t trade anything in the world for the days I spent playing football, and my ankle and hip would beg to differ. Still, I wouldn’t trade it for my hip or ankle.

  • @roscoedance247
    @roscoedance247 9 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "Take it from me.. We love it" haha

    • @mr.reefer8955
      @mr.reefer8955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Probably the coaches kid and has to say that or he will get an ass whoopin when he gets home

    • @richardcarte139
      @richardcarte139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sports is only good for the kid if sports is clicks with them personality wise. Creative kids should get int an art which teaches all the same lessons as sports just through different means. But football in particular is not good for kids. Kids don’t have the brain development to handle that type of pressure. My cousin went through this with my uncle. He was alway angry as a child and it was because his father acted like this couch or if you rather these “adults”. The way these stupid people where acting is the way a drug addict acts if you take away or say something negative about their drugs. There is plenty of psychological and medical evidence to say this behavior is damaging to our kids. But people don’t want to except this overwhelming evidence because it would mean they would have to change and people are terrified of change because if they accept the change it would mean that their idealism’s and ways would no longer be the dominant ones in society and therefore they would lose that beloved power that there ideals and ways hold over society. Grown Children.

  • @CleaningUpAmerica
    @CleaningUpAmerica 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have coached youth football for 8 years. We have won 6 championships in those 8 years. Our head coach has been coaching for 25 years and we coach with positivity.....I'm not going to say it was always positive....we are human, after all.....but as a coach you are not only teaching kids about a sport....you are also teaching them about life. Coaching has also taught me more than I could ever teach the children I've coached. I am a better man because of my players. There are so many coaches trying to fill a void that they forget what the game is all about......I'm guilty of losing it on the field....I've been ejected, but I've NEVER come down on my players....even in defeat it has always been about staying positive with the players. Much Love to the athletic community ❤

  • @andrew55656
    @andrew55656 9 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Coaches yelling is so funny I would be even lazier to make him yell more

  • @mattwilkie9713
    @mattwilkie9713 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was quite surprised to hear the coaches interview. He actually won me over...

  • @miracleman75
    @miracleman75 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My son just started flag football. He’s a good athlete but has not played football. He told me he wanted to be qb. I pat him on the head and told him “the coach’s son plays qb, buddy. Well, he won the starting qb job which was great because side the coach’s son is our best RB and receiver. My boy ran practice at qb every day practice. It was clear that our team is any good and not well coached. The last practice before our first game the coach told my son “We made a mistake. My son will be qb from now on”.
    It sucks. My kid was doing great. The other parents were coming up to me talking about how good he was doing for and. Ick named him “the arm”. He was so proud of himself.
    The only positive is that he just got selected to play in the best travel soccer team in the state, and it conflicts with football. I told him we couldn’t quit football because he is the qb and you can’t do that to your team. Now we can move on and not worry about it.

  • @lanceobe6801
    @lanceobe6801 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We are from Texas and my son's football coach from 2nd grade to 6th was easily this animated, one thing is for certain we dominated most teams, we were unbeaten 3 years straight. Football is not for the weak

  • @netoslifeadventures3864
    @netoslifeadventures3864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro my wrestling coach wouldn’t let us talk while we were in the practice room and no water until the end! And if he didn’t see you putting in work on the drills he would scream In your face and hit you with a towel wrapped with tape, hands down best coach I ever had.

    • @johnherring4394
      @johnherring4394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations did you learn anything about life from it

  • @Tjakelol106
    @Tjakelol106 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the definition of a coach... Life is not easy always take the hard way..

  • @dentharvey6795
    @dentharvey6795 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is not a crybaby's game. They have been pussifying the game the last few years but you still can't be a cupcake. Tougher coach=better team.

    • @llamaking888
      @llamaking888 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Until they get a few too many serious concussions and can't play football anymore.

    • @dentharvey6795
      @dentharvey6795 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Concussions have nothing to do with a tough coach.

    • @llamaking888
      @llamaking888 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pushing the kids too hard can get them hurt.

    • @dentharvey6795
      @dentharvey6795 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Without trying to seem like an asshole, I'm going to assume you've never played a sport? They're all serious.

    • @casualviewer1006
      @casualviewer1006 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know my Highschool coach is intense but never to the point where he says that I can't play. You need to listen to what he says closely...

  • @rubenpartono
    @rubenpartono 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Coach straight up admitted a mistake he made, "I was wrong". Three words that'll always earn my respect.

    • @timar6868
      @timar6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      jsut b.c he admitted to one wrong after like several doesn't mean he should get respect..even killers admit they killed someone at times..gees easy to please much.

    • @rubenpartono
      @rubenpartono 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@timar6868 Well I wish I had more teachers and coaches that could put their ego aside and admit their mistakes, because the inability to do that is kinda lame. Nothing wrong with giving a solid thumbs up to good behaviour even though killers can sometimes behave like that too. I mean, I bet you know that a bunch of actions that we should respect can also be done by very bad people. Let's do away with this out-of-place negativity.

  • @wyattwatson9848
    @wyattwatson9848 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This coach isn't bad... He is just teaching kids to be a man

    • @WeezoD10
      @WeezoD10 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Your right but kids need to be kids

    • @danofthedead1979
      @danofthedead1979 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wyrain W is this satire? cos you had me for a second

  • @dmacgaming1183
    @dmacgaming1183 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's actually not a bad way to coach kids he's pushing kids to be better we need more coaches like this in peewee

  • @Bobbybulsara179
    @Bobbybulsara179 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It would be good to catch up with this team to see whether any of them made it pro, any are still involved or otherwise. Just to see whether it worked or not.

  • @adamromero
    @adamromero 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is hilarious!

  • @mugensaverem8594
    @mugensaverem8594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That coach deserves a medal

  • @Amazin-ji8sn
    @Amazin-ji8sn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love these second string bench warmer coaches trying to live through these kids

    • @charmagneq
      @charmagneq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      EXACTLY what they are...

  • @bishopallen9446
    @bishopallen9446 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Life is intense.....way to go coach!....what are these kids gonna do when life treats em like 💩...this teaches character

  • @vitesse_arnhem
    @vitesse_arnhem ปีที่แล้ว

    He needs to be censured, not for his coaching philosophy, but for his disrespect of the officials. A three-game ban will teach him respect.

  • @daviddallaglio8386
    @daviddallaglio8386 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I head coach a soccer team also 9 & 10 yr old boys and girls and a preschool teacher. I was taught even in college you don't yell like that and the teachers that do don't look like they're in control of the class. Every coach wants to win but I preach doing your best and having fun comes first. Im not saying you don't discipline you do to be in charge .But you don't go around yelling then you get questioned if your in charge .I was taught you talk to the child at their level but still let them know who's in charge who's the boss.

  • @samuelloyo6867
    @samuelloyo6867 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Excuse me I'm a Gymnists and believe me its "rough and tough". How do you think it feels when you land on your face

    • @IamTheLilBeast
      @IamTheLilBeast 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How do you think it feels to get hit in your face?

    • @zachjames6181
      @zachjames6181 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you how do you think when a linebacker just Blindside you knocks the wind out of you

  • @nogocharlie8922
    @nogocharlie8922 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best coach I ever had rarely raised his voice but he had the respect of everyone.

  • @patrickciccantelli3989
    @patrickciccantelli3989 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is a excellent coach hes teaches you that life won't be handed to you

  • @roby4625
    @roby4625 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Reminds me of my defensive cordenator I'm so happy I played on offense lol

  • @j..6092
    @j..6092 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The game is not about the kids, it's about him trying to impress people and look great.

  • @jasonmichaels5796
    @jasonmichaels5796 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A lot of the things he does is old school and kids nowadays, especially if you're going to play football. Need that kind of coaching. He's a little bit over the edge because he's yelling more than coaching, but I agree with some of the things that he said

  • @jackmariner
    @jackmariner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I may not have enjoyed being coached like this, but gd it I enjoyed watching him coach this team

  • @timar6868
    @timar6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    kids sports is bad due to adults, they teach kids bad things by their actions and inactions from the bad parents to the bad officiating and the bad coaches who like the parents take the game seriously for some reason.adults who start issues should get perma bans, the game is for the kids to enjoy your enjoyment is not needed.

  • @anshverma1815
    @anshverma1815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gymnastics is one of the most incredible sports and makes sportspersons tough also mentally as well as physically....

    • @notoriouseagle1074
      @notoriouseagle1074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      One of my friends was into it and she told me it was pretty cut throat.

  • @falloutboy7778
    @falloutboy7778 8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This wouldn't be as bad if it were like highschool jv level and higher. That's when it's more understandable to expect better from the kids. But peewee? Come on man the kids are out there to have fun. Sure winning is awesome and it sucks to lose and you're in it to learn the game. But yelling at kids and shit please lol

  • @bocephus6012
    @bocephus6012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s alright to get on to them and give them criticism but this is crossing the line I mean it would be different if it was high school cause believe me I took plenty chewings in high school but 8-10 year olds come on they’re just learning the game at that age

  • @onehandclapping3094
    @onehandclapping3094 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How bout we just have the kids bring cupcakes and give everyone participation trophies.

  • @anonballer31
    @anonballer31 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This Guy is fucking amazing. This is football.

  • @IndependentFreeThought
    @IndependentFreeThought 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They need to be train hard so they can be sold to the highest bidder.!

  • @GregMcClellan
    @GregMcClellan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good Coach ... There should be no such thing as a participation trophies. Winners and Losers -- learn now while you are young that everybody can't win every time

  • @harrishaynes8633
    @harrishaynes8633 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The coach sounds like me on the xbox

  • @dacolts89
    @dacolts89 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    his intense stratgey is good actually, maybe not insulting the players but it does drive a fire up under their asses. There are few coaches who are able to coach well without truley screaming at all, Dungy was probably the best known for it, in the end he just pushes his guys on

  • @jayz6105
    @jayz6105 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At the 0:18 second mark, if that was my son, I would be going to JAIL. This guy is a disgrace to any coach has ever played the game. Even if that is his own child, you don't ever twist any chids neck EVER!

    • @botramel6981
      @botramel6981 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jay Z he never twisted the kids neck😂. the kid needs to learn how to look his coach in the eyes when he's talking.

  • @MrSplattermonkey
    @MrSplattermonkey 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is what makes kids eventually hate the sport they love. may not show now but it eventually does

  • @Scarecrow545
    @Scarecrow545 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This coach knows what he's doing. He obviously demands excellence. It's the only way to improve them. We have a new coach for our Water Polo team that also gets pretty irritated or ticked when we make mistakes, sometimes, but it works. It never happens again. (And he is a pretty nice guy at heard, don't get me wrong).

  • @ikecham
    @ikecham 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this guy isn't the worst he admits when he is wrong. He needs to control his emotions no matter level he is. These guys should stop putting down other sports because isn't a sport only for big macho guys. Like every other sport it takes physical fitness and mental toughness. Other sports don't have constant collisions but it's about training your body to withstand hit after hit and if you can that your mental toughness grow. People have the wrong idea of football, I here the Oh that's football you don't like go play tennis. Everyone has heard it and no matter what it's incorrect to some degree.

  • @Lehmann108
    @Lehmann108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've had so many coaches throughout my life, from elementary school through college. The worst coaches were assholes like this guy who yelled and screamed. The best coaches were quietly confident and if they yelled it was laser focused on one specific thing. And to my best coach ever, John Small, cross country coach at Taft School in Watertown CT. At the time I didn't know that he was to become a legend. We would have fucking died for that man. Truly an amazing coach.

    • @Posama35
      @Posama35 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cross country??? Lol do you even need a coach for that... Play a real sport...

    • @jackmariner
      @jackmariner 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Posama35 I was with them until I read cross country, coaching is very different in the two. If you can’t take the intensity you probably should be running cross country and not playing football. Let these kids go to war

  • @robertleach3335
    @robertleach3335 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That coach and others like him are ruining the game of football. He has no idea how to coach and likely only has the Rudy movie to go off of because he doesn't look like he played before. The reality is, football is a game of brains not just strength. Kids under 17 shouldn't be bullied by over zealous adults who think if they talk tough they will somehow be tough. Take a look at high school football player decline nationwide and it isn't hard to tell that something with the sport is going awry. Bad coaching, bad technique, rule improvements to help prevent needless injury and games not played in warmer temps maybe start the season later would be just a few of the things that could improve participation. In my lifetime, I still think football will go the way of pro wrestling and be an oddity for athletes. With insurance rates rising above what many school districts can afford, it will start with AAU style programs and available to only those families that can afford to play. Once that happens, the game of football will cease to exist as we know it and the quality of play will decline to the point of boredom. I love the sport but man has there got to be some serious changes if we are going to save it.

  • @YbgRee
    @YbgRee 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is a good coach hes pushing his team so they could play hard and win and wen they get older they wont slack they will go all out thanks to their pewee football coach that guy is a great coach

  • @JohnBelushi8
    @JohnBelushi8 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    The saying is that "Dancing is a contact sport, football is a collision sport". Not "Dancing is a contact sport, football is nuclear war"

  • @OldCrow0031
    @OldCrow0031 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would say this is a pretty small sample of what's going on when this team is interacting. Football fields are large. When one wishes to communicate with a person that is some distance away, wearing a large plastic device over their heads, one must elevate the volume of one's voice. Couple this with crowd noise, the sound of the players' breathing, etc., and it is difficult to say the least. I've yelled a hell of a lot louder than that, but not at officials- they HATE that. :-)

  • @rodneymcclain7161
    @rodneymcclain7161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good job coach. Keep it old school. Let's go

  • @jacobfield4848
    @jacobfield4848 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought this was a comedy parody of what a coach should not be. But it seems it is real.

  • @bubba.gaeddert
    @bubba.gaeddert 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love to see a “where are they now?” for the kids. I wonder how they turned out.

    • @gmansard641
      @gmansard641 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      When I was 13 (1976) I quit the junior high football team due to an abusive coach. Drills were brutal, resembling an arena fight more than a sport practice. If you lined out of position of course he'd yell and insult you, but only after running into the formation to kick you. If you were just on the team but not expected to get much game time you spent a lot of practice just standing around, but those of us on a starting team would go the entire practice with no rest. Once we were well into September and past the summer heat there was no water break either. And practices were excessively long, well over three hours. This is no exaggerration! We'd start right after school at 3:00, and I remember listening for the 6:00 bell ringing from the courthouse, as practice was supposed to end at 6:30. Usually it was closer to 7:00 by the time we left the field. Today, I suspect that the coach was unhappily married and was looking for excuses to avoid going home.
      I did it as long as I could, but a day came when I just couldn't continue, the prospect of going through another practice broke me down and I fell apart, almost in hysterics. Remember, I was a 13 year old KID, not a Marine recruit. My parents were of the older generation who had an excessive trust for authority, they tended to stand aside and let school officials do their jobs, but they realized something serious was going on.
      After skipping a few practices the coach came round our home. I don't remember much of what was said, I felt so intimidated, but my parents saw something disturbing, because at that point my father told me I could stay with the team or leave, it was my choice. I was glad to leave, but was concerned about how the other kids would react. Then my father at his absolute best: "you don't have to explain anything to anybody." From that point I acted as my own person, doing what I wanted as a unique individual. I stopped trying to "fit in" and was so much happier! For the remainder of adolescence I was completely immune to any peer pressure or the rampant drugs and alcohol prevalent in my high school.
      What next? A year later we were in a different town and school, I went for sports, first swimming, then I tried football again after getting to know the coach, a fine man. Played football three years, a starting lineman the final two seasons, and considered trying it in college but instead chose to be a student for once. Graduated with BA, then went to Navy Officer Candidate School and did over four years active duty, nearly half of it overseas. Part of it in a combat zone in the Persian Gulf. Finished at the rank of Lieutenant. So much for having the life of a "loser" as that idiot coach prophesized.
      I have since completed two graduate degrees and currently teach history at a small university in Ohio. Very proud to be a veteran, it's made me a better historian and I am grateful for the connections it gives me to other veterans, especially my father. That day in 1976 he really came through when I needed him, it remains a pivotal moment of my life.
      Brutal abusive coaches really are a problem, and kids do need protection. It wasn't me, it was him.

  • @chuckyoder5765
    @chuckyoder5765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Simple , you demand excellence and reward effort .
    Sometimes in team sports you do your damnedest to win but things just don't work out , you know , some day you get the bear , some days the bear gets you .
    First , evaluate your own performance as a coach . Did I have the team properly prepared.
    Did I study the opponent and know their tendencies and abilities .
    Then carefully breakdown the mistakes , penalties, turnovers and use of clock .
    The last thing is look at individual effort . Losing happens , if the team gave an acceptable effort but just made some mistakes , like a fumble fighting for extra yards or a blocking penalty that was a hair on the backside , then focus on fine tuning but not criticizing.
    If you do have to critique remember , with every negative find 3 positives , this tells the youth your watching all of the time and not just his mistakes .
    Mostly , I learned this from the varsity coach at UA in CBus , Ohio , Coach Cutler , love your kids up !!!!

    • @timar6868
      @timar6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      no ty its kids sports none of this really applies to this situation they are talking about

  • @matthewwilliams4164
    @matthewwilliams4164 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nothing's wrong here, just a coach that know how to prepare his kids for high school football, that's want peewee football is for. If your coach isn't hard on them then, then in high school they are going to get a rude awakening

  • @IronJoeLVMC
    @IronJoeLVMC 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is youth football, not Varsity, College or the NFL; the coaches need to teach the kids how to play the game and how to love the game. I played football for 8 years and coached for more than 10 years, from Pop Warner to High School Varsity, and if you do the things this coach does; you will ‘lose’ kids from the sport of football.

  • @handsomeblackman255
    @handsomeblackman255 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's football not kickball. If the boys aren't focused they coukd get hurt. Remember coaches yelling to "keep your head on a swivel?" That's so you won't get your head knocked off from not paying attention! Focused intensity is what it is.

  • @jellyman1735
    @jellyman1735 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had coaches and teammates like that back in the day. I only played football for one year because of that.

  • @laterriasimmons8034
    @laterriasimmons8034 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    The game is for fun not some yell yell its just a game they tried hard and fought like men Its not just about winning and losing

  • @ajax420336
    @ajax420336 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a couple of super intense coaches like this guy as a kid. I thought they were these awesome hard-asses who were going to mold me into something great when I was that age. Now I'm an adult and I realize what a couple of losers they really were, trying to live vicariously through a bunch of kids who just wanted to play sports.

  • @antondelacruz9362
    @antondelacruz9362 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Of course discipline, hard work, and winning are important. However the man is clearly emotionally immature, shouting at the ref and the kids, verbally and physically bullying kids, etc. Being a jerk shouldnt be confused with overvaluing victory.

  • @alemon2682
    @alemon2682 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you’re a coach and this is how you coach kids please sort yourself out

  • @bynumjimmy
    @bynumjimmy 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    The real life lessons for the kids: adults can be immature, adults can be idiots and adults can have their priorities wrong.

  • @thomaskruger3765
    @thomaskruger3765 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    back when i did trampoling on my 11th birthday the coach was being so hard on us and said straight to my face that i was useless and terrible at the sport and that i would never do well in competitions, i never went back after that day and i still hate the coach for what happened

  • @chelseafcfanisy
    @chelseafcfanisy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In my opinion this coach is going too far, he's insulting and berating a bunch of young kids who are trying to learn the sport. If they were adults then that would be very different.

  • @playboicarti1334
    @playboicarti1334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:38 that’s what my coach always does at a game

  • @PIlotrcm
    @PIlotrcm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Something profoundly pathetic about people getting bend out of shape with a child’s football game

  • @kgroup6372
    @kgroup6372 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I had a coach like this. We were undefeated

  • @cminksful
    @cminksful 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yea i played sports growing up through high school i mean i know there is a line when it comes to intensity and this guy was definitely intense but i didnt see anything that was way over the line ive seen worse

    • @timar6868
      @timar6868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i see plenty, kids this young do nto need to learn to act like a idiot like most coaches act.

  • @chuckbrown5484
    @chuckbrown5484 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ref is blind means the calls aren't going your way.

  • @jimson2517
    @jimson2517 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    they need to start keeping police officers at these games

  • @anthonyware4033
    @anthonyware4033 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you are not playing to win the game, why are you there. Thus everyone is a winning mentality is what's wrong with today's youth. When today's youth fails at something and are told why they can not handle it and act out in the wrong way.

  • @Mathiowetz67
    @Mathiowetz67 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    The coach is right when he says they need to have intensity but with kids that age idk probably not the best way to go about it, you would think they would be scared of him and not want to go out.

  • @andream8671
    @andream8671 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I absolutely hate my coach. -_- ✋
    He stated to our team we would be in a fucking
    booth camp, while he called us weak, short, fat, and white; shit like that.
    -_- Then he makes us carry 35 ound weights over our heads for 55 minutes straight with it water and in the Damm sun. -_-

  • @beastmode3660
    @beastmode3660 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did that because I have nothing to say I play football and my coach is nice he simply just yells but he isn't mean

  • @Thuggin2222
    @Thuggin2222 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was at a pee-wee game in Florida where everyone "got it". One kid picked up a fumble and ran the wrong way to score for the other team. We all just laughed and gave the kid an ice cream bar when he got back to the bench. No one yelled or screamed, we all just lol'd.

  • @todde9145
    @todde9145 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    At that age I had a football coach just like that. As if problems werent bad enough at home, I got it playing..PLAYING football as a kid. I quit cuz i couldnt take it.

  • @russellbrooker2122
    @russellbrooker2122 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its football, if the coach wasn't yelling us be confused.
    Football builds character, other sports reveal it.

  • @Clydieooo
    @Clydieooo 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    To be fair, this is an American news report. I'd take into account the unfair editing before making a judgement. Also, heard of the carrot and the stick method? While he may be going over the top, better results are achieved when using the "stick" with earned praise.

  • @quintinfink12
    @quintinfink12 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is how my coach was tbh

  • @johnherring4394
    @johnherring4394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any good coach worth their weight knows that you put in the work in practice and you show what you can do during the games it's a little difficult to actually be out there coaching the kids when you're too busy barking at the refs

  • @dailey143
    @dailey143 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hes a football coach thats what hes suppose to do!!! This is why the world is full of kids that are wimps these days!!!

  • @rds990
    @rds990 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Horrible coach. He needs to go. The single worst decision we make is letting PARENTS coach their kids' little league football teams. It's a bad deal. Guys with little to no knowledge of the game, or how to teach it. It's nuts. Coaches need to know....THEY ARE NOT ON THE TEAM. They are simply teachers.

    • @williamwood4091
      @williamwood4091 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      YEH let's treat them all like winners it's just pee wee football you say but this trophy generation we are breeding better there is not another violent conflict on our soil because we might as well hand them our homes bc nobody will stand and fight bc they have been groomed to believe the outcome of the events does not matter as long as you TRY your best

    • @williamwood4091
      @williamwood4091 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      2nd line 2nd word should be HOPE, you better hope our foreign policy takes a drastic turn bc if it doesn't we are gonna NEED men like this coach

    • @rds990
      @rds990 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      william wood This "coach" would run at the first sign of trouble. I have known guys like this my whole life. They overcompensate for their shortcomings. A real man does not need to play tough guy around little kids.

  • @bbutler000
    @bbutler000 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    The guy is a jerk. Mocking the kids & humiliating them is a motivator? Yeah right. Intensity has nothing to do with it. He is a bad coach. I have never seen a kid respond to humiliation in front of his peers.

  • @Muminekae
    @Muminekae 13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @FaceMaster420
    i know right when i played soccer if u mess up
    you wouldnt want to go back to the coach

  • @mikehawk8276
    @mikehawk8276 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    that coach was sweating harder than the players

  • @adamnichols2762
    @adamnichols2762 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    All of you who are demeaning this coaches efforts are failing to see the positive.. He obviously has very well-mannered kids playing for him, he also volunteers his time for his community, and he is extremely passionate about his team, his kids and winning. My PeeWee and Midget Football coach was a hard-nosed TN boy who did not allow you to cry or quit and he taught just as many life lessons on that Football Field as my father did in life. I also am an accomplished musician so I can tell both sides of the spectrum. If you are a passive person who fears confrontation and does not want your child to endure the riggers of the grid-iron, the diamond, or the court then put them into Piano, Orchestral or Guitar lessons. Music will stick with them for the entirety of their lives unlike most sports. Or have them take up Golf, I play drums, bass, guitar, golf, and softball throughout the year and I am a 27 year old male in Nashville. This whole, "Participation Trophy Ideal" has to cease or when I am a senior at 65+ years of age, all of the men and women in this country will be the softest and weakest generation our nation has ever laid eyes on. Teaching children about failure and incompetency is more important that worrying about their feelings. True Story.
    Quit being a soft ass and learn how to cope with whatever comes your way in life.

  • @ParadoxChrisCLAN
    @ParadoxChrisCLAN 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish my coach was like this.. Then again, I'm not 8-10. I'm 12 (will be Saturday). I played SS and WR. When I know I was doing a bad job of covering, I wanted someone to yell at me. But at the same time, let kids be kids.

    • @jimandrews89
      @jimandrews89 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      "I'm not 8-10, I'm 11"...

    • @ParadoxChrisCLAN
      @ParadoxChrisCLAN 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay, I'm 11? But I'm turning 12?

    • @jimandrews89
      @jimandrews89 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's just a funny statement, that's all. like "I'm not one of those little 10 year olds. I'm ELEVEN!"

    • @ParadoxChrisCLAN
      @ParadoxChrisCLAN 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      XD

    • @ParadoxChrisCLAN
      @ParadoxChrisCLAN 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      ty for the laugh, I needed it .

  • @wardragonprime
    @wardragonprime 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey guys. In case you've forgotten this is football. Winning is the only thing. Case closed.

  • @JoeZamecki
    @JoeZamecki 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, organized sports.

  • @sjc464
    @sjc464 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Because he's a soccer coach, but he shouldn't touch them like he did

  • @cupspoon3182
    @cupspoon3182 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Not even a game. It’s just a convenient way for malignant narcissists to abuse kids and have control. And they’re enabled by everyone. Like ‘that’s how it’s supposed to be’. Step back and look at it with some observation and critical thinking.

  • @harrymayors3609
    @harrymayors3609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's football, coach loves the kids.

  • @thegreenbastard42011
    @thegreenbastard42011 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    what would you rather him or sandusky.

  • @georgecox9144
    @georgecox9144 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    My little league fb coach was like that with all the yelling and contact and he cursed but he was smart and helped us learn and when you play hs football this happens all the time so it's just preparation.

  • @stevemineer2857
    @stevemineer2857 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    My pee wee coach treated us like a drill sergeant in practice. I never saw him scream and yell at us or refs during a game.

  • @mikek7095
    @mikek7095 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ric Flair and Burt Reynolds talking sports.