Hey so this video was literally sent by God to me. A couple days ago I was laying in my bed wondering what I was doing wrong with my life (my life is actually fine I’m just struggling with some procrastination) and I begged him to tell me how to fix my problems. He told me “write down your fears” and I had NO IDEA how to do that, and I was a little scared and lazy tbh. So after hearing that I was wondering how to do it or what even to and so I prayed that God would help me. Well I found this video and it explained EXACTLY what God was telling me. Thank you for making this, God used you to help my life and so many others. Keep trusting in him and he will continue to change lives through you
saving the video in watch later is not procrastinating if your doing something productive or self-improvement, if youre just rotting your brain in tiktok or corn instead of watching this, then its procrastination
Wasting your time "looking" for motivation is also procrastination. Nothing will do you good if you're not willing to put that motivated mind to work. -my mom
Sometimes a motivation could really be needed. I see this video as a clip not just for student but for many other people doing many other things. You could need more than Just a working mind in your down time when you don't know what to do or so. WHat you need might be a motivation from your loved ones or your friends or a video like this. Everyone has a different perspective of how things work for them. I'm not saying you are wrong, that working mind might just be what you need when you need to get your feet up and get what you have to get done quick and not to use procrastination to find a motivation. We all learn from one another. Try to understand his pinpoint and you'll know that what we apply in math is not what we apply in chemistry. What it takes to get the work done now might not be what it takes to get the work done tomorrow. Try learning to reason from other people's perspective and you'll see world in another direction or view.
dude i have my board exams in 2 months and i had terrible results in my half yearly but still my parents are trying to help me so much and have faith but i keep procrastinating so thank you man this video genuinely helps me like i literally made a promise to myself to stop procrastinating and focus on what im supposed to do so thanks man
my half yearly were canceled and yk i was at 74% but i remember coming in 10th standard with motivation i never had and i studied so hard even though i couldn't become a topper but my % increased iit became 89.11% in PT1 I Still studied but then summer holidays came which made me a little lazy and now only 2 months are left and i feel like shit! i just gave my pre boards 1 and its really hard!! I really hope we all see the result of our hard work and i really hope we all work hard to achieve our "why"
im sure all of us have this immense knowledge, clicking on these videos really is a sign you care and still got it the motivation somewhere in there, we guys are just one step away that is to take action, take motivation from anything and everything think about yourself here. let's get out of the prisons we build for our own selves, I really hope god shows you the way and this finds you well!
The part about fear really hit me When I was in high school, my math teacher called me out in front of the class. The reason was I didn't do my homework correctly. Unlike my other classmates, I tried my best on my own and didn’t copy answers from others. The worst thing that teacher said to me was "don't you have any friend?" in descending manner and the whole class were laughing. I spent whole night doing homework only to be laughed at. My body was so tired when that happened, which is probably why my feelings were so sensitive. That single event completely changed my way of thinking. I was no longer the confident and hardworking kid I used to be. The result was the only thing I cared about. Who cares about the process? Only motivators care about that. I used to always manage to get in the top 1-5 in elementary and junior high, but in high school my grades were average. It was really hard to get my motivation back. After graduating high school, I didn’t know what to do and took a gap year. I managed to get into the best university in my country, majoring in petroleum engineering. It's all thanks to my family, I was able to regain my motivation
This literally happened to me this Monday! My math professor called me out for getting a few answers wrong in an Assignment and she asked me if I didn't have any friends... I'm feeling disappointed and it feels fucking unfair that the people who copy answers, get full grades and I don't, all cause I tried to solve the problems on my own
i came back from school crying messily because i got 8/20 and that count for my big exam ( im in france so it's hard to explain ) i was crying so much just 10 minutes ago , i don't know how to be good , i used to be a top student and look at what i have become ... I don't want to see the disapointment on the face of my parents , i don't , i hate that and actually im scared of learning maths again , like what's the point? "Im a failure " but Al hamdoulilah your video gave me back my motivation and hope
honestly same, i failed my maths exam which was actually VERY important. I still do have one more chance but now im just scared. Im scared of maths because of my teacher being very strict and not teaching good enough, im scared of maths because i dont understand it, Im just scared of maths yk. I used to be a topper before but since 2 years, my grades have been plummeting.. I need to do better for this upcoming test but im procrastinating because of fear and with everything going on.
I feel the same way, I used to be a top student but now everyone beats me and I work crazy hard so idk why I feel like my grades keep getting worse Idk what I’m doing wrong lol
hey i am tanya and currently i am in the last year of high school and in not even two months my finals are there . i will be honest here I LITERALLY CRIED WATCHING YOUR VIDEO i felt ashamed on myself to the extent that i have never felt i broke my parents trust by procastinating and these days was hard for as i am going a through a hard time but all these days instead of getting shit together i was watching useless content on yt and today ur video was on my yt page and it was the first video and I ACCIDENTLY CLICKED IT but this accident was the best.one.ever i really dont know how to thankyou but i will say that i will wish good things for u everytime i will to my temple thankyou so much
Hi Tanya! I'm Muneeba a sophmore in HS. I am in a same situation as you. I was wondering if u would be down to being accountability partner so that we can improve and keep each other accountable.
My gosh, i just literally got my short assessment results and i broke down.. i was trying to calm myself down when i found this video... God has helped find the right person at the right time... I sincerely thank you a lot for this video. May your channel blow up soon
God bless you brother. I'm a Christian as well and want to be a hyper polyglot knowing 10+ languages in my life, and also having a successful online business, but have been slacking off due to procrastination. These tips will really help me. Prayin that God gives you more blessings and helps you improve with whatever you're goin through man, even if you're not goin through anything at all lol. Most importantly thank God for everything that led up to this moment, but thank you for putting in the time to make this for us all.
3:20 you got me I have no confidence in me even If I'll study everything I'll think my topper classmates are studying way harder than me . I'll just think that many students studied that in lower grades for the preparation of competitive exams . I just need CONFIDENCE. 😭
You need more than confidence my friend, you also need to stop comparing yourself with others, everyone has different methods to solve different things, every process is different, if you do your best, thats the best you can do FOR YOU, not for others, not to get congratulations or pleasing words, is to feel good with yourself, to feel proud of your hard work, you work hard and thats great! Thats what matters, and remember "Comparison is the thief of joy" stay safe brother, peace 🩷
i am glad you posted this video. I just got deferred from my dream college and scholarship because I wasn't willing to work hard to reach it, I admit it was no one else's fault but mine and my fear of failing. Thank you and God bless you
Thank you so much, I was literally procastinating studying for the last 2 hours and scrolled TH-cam and then this video was recommended. I have a very big exam which will decide my whole future coming up next month, I am demotivated and feeling shit for the last whole month, feeling like I am not putting much efforts and I need to do alot more but still I didn't felt like studying because I thought even if I will put efforts I will still fail. Thanks for making me realise that the fear of failure is what that should make me keep moving.
after jotting down all my fears in my journal , I immediately felt like a weight was off my chest. I FELT REALLY GOOD JUST LIKE YOU EXPLAINED. THANKS A LOT FOR THIS VIDEO AND THANKS FOR HELPING EVERYONE OUT THERE. ♥ Don't lose faith in yourself, always realise your mistakes and learn from it . THERE ISN'T A WORST ENEMY OTHER THAN YOURSELF!
This really got to me especially the part where you feel disappointed because of an 80% and even though my parents usually don't really care I feel a faint disappointment in their eyes. I always bawl my eyes out and I'm just starting high school so I'm scared that if I keep getting 80%'s with all my efforts I would just fail not completely but fail myself and expectations. Thank you for making this video.
I was literally on my procrastination era and then this video pop up....I will try my best to listen to your advice and work on myself.... thanks a lot ❤
Thank you so much bro, I'm now in winter break and still have a lot to do, the last days, in my free time I just procrastinated and got nothing done. Now I just realized this, you made me remember what my goals are and I'm trying to get started with my tasks as soon and fast as I can. Thank you, really.
im in 10th grade rn and i needed to watch something like this so bad cause I feel so down at this moment of my life and I don't feel motivated at all I literally have my final exams in a few months and I really need to stop procastinating and start studying and now after watching this video I'm gonna go down and write everything that I feel rn and start studying thank you so much matthew
Enjoy 10th grade it's the best class to have fun for the last time. Everyone has to get serious in the final years having the stress of career and shit. From my side I'd tell you to enjoy and cherish this moment as it'll not come back, the friends, the laughs, everything enjoy it to the Fullest so to not regret anything. And yea boards are easy, like really easy just relax and prepare your ncert well, that's more than enough. I hope you do well :)
I see the passion in your voice and tone. I can feel the passion and it’s infective. I want to get up right now and start working. Honestly the stuff you said in this video hit me so hard since I related to all of the same feelings you felt of fear, guilt, shame, and failure. Thanks for the incredible video. God bless you.
Bro u js helped me loads as a year 7 turning 8 u taught me something I should be ready for, I struggled with lust for when I was 8 years old which is now crazy to me but now as a 13 yr old I am now with the lord who helped me overcome that and this pooping on my fy page ain’t no coincidence, keep up this work man ur pushing me through my school years😅 thanks man.
I am a form 4 student from Hong Kong. Exam is coming in 3 days but I was procrastinating for more than 10 hours. Thanks for making me finally start studying. I hope I will pass my exams. Thank you so much for making this video.
Bro you sound so genuine, idk, most other inspirational yters all sound like they are just reading from a script and you probably are aswell but you sound like you really mean what you say.
Bro, no joke. I am feeling so much connected with your story I can't tell. I am 14, watch po**, when I should study. Fear of getting failure and scrolling on yt.😢 Thnx very much. ❤ To help me to take the right path. And I just watched 3 or 4 of your videos but I m connected to u. And now I m trying to improve thnx ❤ Edit 1: like if u are the same 😢
I think i am just like you bro..... I got some bad friends in school about 5 years past who told me stuff like googling the meaning of middle finger, naked people and other things like what does a couple do in a bedroom etc(i know its wild💀 cause i was in 5th grade).... But now after watching this video i feel the confidence that i m not alone in the race... I am too addicted to p*rn, its been five years but i couldn't get rid of it but now i m starting to be the best version of myself and try to make myself as much busy as possible.. Maybe i will be able to beat this addiction after 5 years... Thanks mathew for supporting your videos are truly inspiring!!!!
Man! I really sincerely appreciate for the video, i felt great after warching it, i felt like i finally figured out how to beat procrastination even after watching hundreds of other videos, but ngl ultimately urs helped!
first of all u being honest with ur audience and giving unfiltered shit to make them understand is really good and second of all this video is actually good and the swearing makes me more connected to the video..............good job and u earned a loyal subscriber☺❤
This was one hell of a video I got very less marks in my test today which scared me and got me studying harder This is exactly the video i needed and im going to save it because i might need it more than i think
i love my mom even when i got 68% with my uni test she was so calm and trying to make me feel good and try again ahhh i feel bad i really need to get the grade for her shout out to my dad too
It takes courage to say you're a beliver- nothing 'controversial' with that. Psychology student here, still fighting from time to time with procrastination. You are making good job, keep it up!
Wtf !! I've had this "maybe i'm not lazy but just scared of failing even if i try" like 2 month ago and now i see this video. Btw i stoped watching these type of video a long time ago even if i had them in my youtube feed, but your title and thumbnail got me, gg for that it wasn't an easy task
honestly this vid has helped me so much..like sometimes i procrastinate so much that i forget to pray..this vid helped me to realize that what the hell iam i doing..do i want to go to hell that badly? i need to focus i need to do stuff i need to get that grade so my mom gets me what she promised to get when i get a 97 so ty matthew hands up to you
This is actually an insane video fair play bro!! I’m so scared about university and shit it’s actually crazy and I’m constantly procrastinating revising for my AS levels and this will acc help me thank you so much!
Dear Matthew, I can say that I relate to everything, even bits of your past and I believe that God really has planned these things for us. Thank you for this advice and may you keep flourishing and helping others❤
Thanks to you, Matthew, I was motivated a lot. If I could remember, I was planning on creating a channel as well, and... the swearing doesn't matter much. In fact, your past stories(about the porn), was exactly the same as me, with the only difference that I started watching those sus videos beginning from 3rd grade, :v. Oh yeah, personally wanna tell you as well, I believe to God too, and we have the same name. The difference is that you have graduated from college, while Im still 13. Well, that's it. Thanks! (Pls read this, bro)
I am currently in class 10 icsce and I pledge to give it my all and achieve my dreams and goals Starting with my board exams starting in February and March and achieving 98 percent.I will give update after boards exam results
Thank you so much brother I hope u will know how much this video has helped right when I was starting to scroll through TH-cam. My boards are near but I’m still not prepared or focussed but you have motivated me. thanks again😄
Anything ingenious is simple. The procrastination is not a laziness or something like that. It just a weird appearance of fear of the task (sorry for my English, btw). And this understanding allows tons of ways to beat it When you think that you procrastinate because you lazy or you don't want to do this, you just have no clue how to fix it. But when you look at procrastination as the outcome of your fear, you have much more specific target. You know what's stopping you and you know how to deal with that fear. And that's the point when you start to understand all the methods like breaking task to smaller pieces, treat yourself to do it for exactly 5 minutes etc. Usually the most part of solving any problem is just figuring out what you're dealing with and what you need to do. This video is a perfect example of it (especially the first point "name the fear") Thank you so much for that video!
Hey mat i have finals of my 1st semester of 7the grade on janury 15th i watched ur how to make studying easier(and more fun) i really liked it i subscribed with notifs i really am terribke at studying but i lose motivation when i still dont be the subject i hate that feeling but after watching your videos and other videos i realized what have i been doing all this time and i suddenly got the ultimate motivation to study and force to understand as much as possible thank you man
This really helped me a lot, thanks man .My inner dark motivation is to pursue perfume and fragrance engineering and this was the THE video that i needed.
I'm currently a 12th Grade Student in STEM. We were literally given a week to study 8 subjects for the exam. Finals is in 2 days, and I still have 6 to study. 2 of which are General Bio and Physics (a lot of things to memorize). Why am I seeing this video just now? Lol, great video, couldn't relate more.
It really takes guts to admit your past like that on social media. Hats off to you for that! 👏 Believe me, the video was truly motivational for my upcoming exams. 📚✨
I am crying brother while watching this video i am from india and i am 16 I am topper till class 8 ( for 10 years ) with a proper score of 98-99% every year For class 9th i want to change my school because it was very bad but i felt insecure because of new competition i was scared that was the first moment of me becoming a loser i didnt understand what i was becoming that time however i still gave entrance to a middle level school and surprisingly a 10year continuous topper cant even pass a entrance that was the first time i felt my self a loser but its not that big deal i keep that aside and forget that studying in the same bad school. and then suddenly i got 83% with 2nd rank in class 9 i wanna die that moment i felt my self as a loser for sure as its the second time. I started study hard crazy hard for class 10th its a scary class because in indian education system you have to pass a single government designed exam which is called boards and i have determination to score 99% here just like old time which is quite difficult but then my half yearly came ( its just for practice by school not affect boards ) i score 86% again and now i understand i am loser i cant do anything i am just an average Its November 29 when i am writing this comment and i still feel the same . many of you guys would be thinking when i wrote that crazy studying thing part that i would be successful but its not that always happen From 15 feb my boards are going to start i am not good at my preparation i haven't completed my syllabus till now nor practiced sample paper , question bank etc i will never be able to archive my dream i wanna cry soo hard by hugging someone I can't just disclose my anxity depression that holding me from inside even when i am writting this comment But to be true that crazy studying part was not all studying it was filled with many many distractions i can't lie which were somethings i can't escape even now i cannot escape to that Edit - i failed in my strongest subject maths in my school preboards at this point i am quitting
aree bhai tu cbse board se lg rha h . don't worry yr tu apna best lga de aur bhagwan pr bharosa rakh result kuchh bhi aaye km se km es bat ki satisfaction to rhegi ki tumne apna best diya . believe me abhi time h tere pass bhai 2 month h abhi bhi m to up board se hun phir bhi meri bhi nhi thi shi taiyari maine to shi se padhna dec last se suru kiya aur jitna ho sakta tha utna mehnat kiya exam to feb 22 ,2024 se tha phir bhi 90.81% aaye jo mehnat ke hisab se thik hi tha, aur sallybus to mera aadha bhi nhi pura tha dec last tk but kr liya pura exam tk han m last 2 month me school nhi gya totally isolated waise m ne to offline tution bhi nhi liya tha aur uper se attendance to hardly 2 month ki hogi 10 me jis wjh se mujhe aur jyada padhna pda.aur half yearly me to mera 75% tk aaya tha jb m etna pr kr skta hu. to tum to bhai phod sakte ho kahe ka tension bs apna best do baki dekha jayega. to no worry. kabhi kabhi hme lgta h ki ab time nhi bacha h ab kuchh nhi ho sakta lekin asaliyat me aisa nhi h time hota h.. to bs apna 100% lga do jo result aayega dekha jayega be strong 💪 sirf yhi life nhi h bhai bs apna best dedo taki regret na rhe . one more tips ki question likh ke practice krna aur questions bank ke sare mcq kr lena ...okk. best of luck God will help u to achieve your dream 💪💪.
I used to procasinate a lot and even ignore my assignments, causing my grades to go down. But then one day as I looked at my mom, I realized. She was getting older. My heart felt...an undxplainable sadness. I said "Fuck the procasination, the voice in my head that says "just 5 more minutes", the hand that hits the snooze button" and started to do my assignments, started to study for my tests, started to get my shit together because I realized that she would one day die and I might not even become someone worthy of being her daughter or someone she can brag to her friends about. So before the day that she may die, I want to be the best, on top of things, so she can brag about me to others, so I can be the trophy in her life. Once you get that realization, a cog is turned.
This video made me freaking cry dude....hopefully I will do well in my exams which are gonna be there in 2 months or smth. I did not score well in my half yearly like it was the lowest score I've ever achieved
I think this is a bible verse actually in Quran (which the book of muslims) it has a verse with the same meaning but to me it feels deeper which is إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّى يُغَيِّرُوا مَا بِأَنْفُسِهِمْ Which means: Allah does not change what is in a nation unless they change what is in themselves. It has the same meaning god will help you if u at least tried to help urself
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I can't wait for this vid to be recommended to me 2 years later.
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Hey so this video was literally sent by God to me. A couple days ago I was laying in my bed wondering what I was doing wrong with my life (my life is actually fine I’m just struggling with some procrastination) and I begged him to tell me how to fix my problems. He told me “write down your fears” and I had NO IDEA how to do that, and I was a little scared and lazy tbh. So after hearing that I was wondering how to do it or what even to and so I prayed that God would help me. Well I found this video and it explained EXACTLY what God was telling me.
Thank you for making this, God used you to help my life and so many others. Keep trusting in him and he will continue to change lives through you
Him: "Give me 10 minutes and I will destroy your procrastination forever "
Me: *saves this video to watch later*
saving the video in watch later is not procrastinating if your doing something productive or self-improvement, if youre just rotting your brain in tiktok or corn instead of watching this, then its procrastination
done the same
Same 😂
Same
Same Bro 🤣🤣
i love the fact that he told us this embarassing story just to help us
Seeing this 15 hours before exam after procrastinating for 48 hours. Thank you so much🙏
how did it go?
@@mirayyXD it went well. Though it all depends upon the mood of examiner
Me 😢
😂😂😂@@sen_n6c9
How was it?
Sorry for the swearing, I got a bit passionate and carried away. I'll try not to swear as much in future videos
Swear more in videos my slime
Cuss more bro
No just be yourself buddy it brings more personality on your videos
Nah its alright nobody really cares about it, why would anybody?
Nobody minds about people swearing nowadays. 🤷♂️
Wasting your time "looking" for motivation is also procrastination. Nothing will do you good if you're not willing to put that motivated mind to work.
-my mom
Wow. Now that's going to get me working
Hey That's what my Mom says too
@Purplebunny03 ikrr
W MOM❤
Sometimes a motivation could really be needed.
I see this video as a clip not just for student but for many other people doing many other things.
You could need more than Just a working mind in your down time when you don't know what to do or so. WHat you need might be a motivation from your loved ones or your friends or a video like this.
Everyone has a different perspective of how things work for them.
I'm not saying you are wrong, that working mind might just be what you need when you need to get your feet up and get what you have to get done quick and not to use procrastination to find a motivation.
We all learn from one another.
Try to understand his pinpoint and you'll know that what we apply in math is not what we apply in chemistry.
What it takes to get the work done now might not be what it takes to get the work done tomorrow.
Try learning to reason from other people's perspective and you'll see world in another direction or view.
dude i have my board exams in 2 months and i had terrible results in my half yearly but still my parents are trying to help me so much and have faith but i keep procrastinating so thank you man this video genuinely helps me like i literally made a promise to myself to stop procrastinating and focus on what im supposed to do so thanks man
12th?
Hi!! I relate so much, I did horrible in my mid terms just because of procrastinating.
10th??
my half yearly were canceled and yk i was at 74% but i remember coming in 10th standard with motivation i never had and i studied so hard even though i couldn't become a topper but my % increased iit became 89.11% in PT1 I Still studied but then summer holidays came which made me a little lazy and now only 2 months are left and i feel like shit! i just gave my pre boards 1 and its really hard!! I really hope we all see the result of our hard work and i really hope we all work hard to achieve our "why"
Same here bro 👍
Dude it takes a lot of courage to admit to watching something like that. you are a brave man for saying that and showing us your mistake.
im sure all of us have this immense knowledge, clicking on these videos really is a sign you care and still got it the motivation somewhere in there, we guys are just one step away that is to take action, take motivation from anything and everything think about yourself here. let's get out of the prisons we build for our own selves, I really hope god shows you the way and this finds you well!
This comment helps. Thank you for your words and take care!
You know he’s legit when he admits his wrongs to a large audience
edit: let’s not forget that he’s Asian
I try :)
@@MatthewSmiths420real
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it could be a fake story who knows
I hope you know that you are now helping me a 16 years old boy doing the exact same thing that you are doing when you are at my age
I made this video for my younger self, glad you feel that way :)
Me also 16 years old
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@essanaveed-tn2vk i mean... i guess they are happy?
The part about fear really hit me
When I was in high school, my math teacher called me out in front of the class. The reason was I didn't do my homework correctly. Unlike my other classmates, I tried my best on my own and didn’t copy answers from others.
The worst thing that teacher said to me was "don't you have any friend?" in descending manner and the whole class were laughing. I spent whole night doing homework only to be laughed at. My body was so tired when that happened, which is probably why my feelings were so sensitive.
That single event completely changed my way of thinking. I was no longer the confident and hardworking kid I used to be. The result was the only thing I cared about. Who cares about the process? Only motivators care about that.
I used to always manage to get in the top 1-5 in elementary and junior high, but in high school my grades were average.
It was really hard to get my motivation back. After graduating high school, I didn’t know what to do and took a gap year. I managed to get into the best university in my country, majoring in petroleum engineering. It's all thanks to my family, I was able to regain my motivation
This literally happened to me this Monday! My math professor called me out for getting a few answers wrong in an Assignment and she asked me if I didn't have any friends... I'm feeling disappointed and it feels fucking unfair that the people who copy answers, get full grades and I don't, all cause I tried to solve the problems on my own
Similar thing happened to me in middle school
It's crazy to see how a single teacher can ruin so much of a child, and they won't even realise that! A teacher can really make or break a person
my son genuinely loves this man, hes helping him conquer all of his struggles, please keep posting motivational videos like this!
i’m procrastinating watching this, i’ll start tomorrow
TH-cam: Recommends me this video to watch.
Me: *I'll watch it later*
i came back from school crying messily because i got 8/20 and that count for my big exam ( im in france so it's hard to explain ) i was crying so much just 10 minutes ago , i don't know how to be good , i used to be a top student and look at what i have become ... I don't want to see the disapointment on the face of my parents , i don't , i hate that and actually im scared of learning maths again , like what's the point? "Im a failure " but Al hamdoulilah your video gave me back my motivation and hope
honestly same, i failed my maths exam which was actually VERY important. I still do have one more chance but now im just scared. Im scared of maths because of my teacher being very strict and not teaching good enough, im scared of maths because i dont understand it, Im just scared of maths yk. I used to be a topper before but since 2 years, my grades have been plummeting.. I need to do better for this upcoming test but im procrastinating because of fear and with everything going on.
Girl im in the same position as you , the same grade , the same school subject … the same feelings
@@sosi--quenne6199 its so hard , my teacher told me to ask questions every time i dont understand even if he is tired it's his work .
I feel the same way, I used to be a top student but now everyone beats me and I work crazy hard so idk why I feel like my grades keep getting worse
Idk what I’m doing wrong lol
@Idekwhattoputhere-fn1to i don't know to , yesterday my dad saw my report card and he was shocked i litt criyed the whole night
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i am tanya and currently i am in the last year of high school
and in not even two months my finals are there . i will be honest here I LITERALLY CRIED WATCHING YOUR VIDEO i felt ashamed on myself to the extent that i have never felt i broke my parents trust by procastinating and these days was hard for as i am going a through a hard time but all these days instead of getting shit together i was watching useless content on yt and today ur video was on my yt page and it was the first video and I ACCIDENTLY CLICKED IT but this accident was the best.one.ever
i really dont know how to thankyou but i will say that i will wish good things for u everytime i will to my temple
thankyou so much
Hi Tanya! I'm Muneeba a sophmore in HS. I am in a same situation as you. I was wondering if u would be down to being accountability partner so that we can improve and keep each other accountable.
@Muneeba-rm9gn yaaa sure i would really like too
@@tanyajain3801 oh great, is there anywhere I can contact you? I don;t feel comfortable sharing my email here
Same 😭😭💔
@manasjaithliya commercee
the syllabus is vast dude i have completed bits of every subject but i dont feel confident
real ones put this is *watch later*
SAMEE
Same
ME TOO
I did but i watched it tho
That’s what I did 😂
My gosh, i just literally got my short assessment results and i broke down.. i was trying to calm myself down when i found this video... God has helped find the right person at the right time... I sincerely thank you a lot for this video. May your channel blow up soon
I’m literally avoiding cleaning my room the rest of the way rn. Thank you man.
I did not believe you when I clicked on this video. Thanks bro, no more procastination for me
God bless you brother. I'm a Christian as well and want to be a hyper polyglot knowing 10+ languages in my life, and also having a successful online business, but have been slacking off due to procrastination. These tips will really help me. Prayin that God gives you more blessings and helps you improve with whatever you're goin through man, even if you're not goin through anything at all lol. Most importantly thank God for everything that led up to this moment, but thank you for putting in the time to make this for us all.
3:20 you got me I have no confidence in me even If I'll study everything I'll think my topper classmates are studying way harder than me . I'll just think that many students studied that in lower grades for the preparation of competitive exams . I just need CONFIDENCE. 😭
You need more than confidence my friend, you also need to stop comparing yourself with others, everyone has different methods to solve different things, every process is different, if you do your best, thats the best you can do FOR YOU, not for others, not to get congratulations or pleasing words, is to feel good with yourself, to feel proud of your hard work, you work hard and thats great! Thats what matters, and remember "Comparison is the thief of joy" stay safe brother, peace 🩷
Respect to you for having the guts to share something so personal about your life at the start. Well done for acknowledging it and moving on!
i am glad you posted this video. I just got deferred from my dream college and scholarship because I wasn't willing to work hard to reach it, I admit it was no one else's fault but mine and my fear of failing. Thank you and God bless you
Thank you so much, I was literally procastinating studying for the last 2 hours and scrolled TH-cam and then this video was recommended.
I have a very big exam which will decide my whole future coming up next month, I am demotivated and feeling shit for the last whole month, feeling like I am not putting much efforts and I need to do alot more but still I didn't felt like studying because I thought even if I will put efforts I will still fail. Thanks for making me realise that the fear of failure is what that should make me keep moving.
Hey is this jee?
@@arjunguptabadami7461 jee students don't have time to breathe one month before exam, forget procrastinating so certainly not jee
@@PunchBrother wdym bhai , i grinded whole year , and i am wasting my time , aur me jee de rha hu lol
@@shrutimanrai4132 tu dene ke kaabil nahi he bhai. mera bhai har din 6 test deta he jee krra he wo fir bhi he is not able to cope up.
Right jee.... And I feel I've studied nothing when I have studied so much without a days break. Still I get shitty marks.
after jotting down all my fears in my journal , I immediately felt like a weight was off my chest. I FELT REALLY GOOD JUST LIKE YOU EXPLAINED. THANKS A LOT FOR THIS VIDEO AND THANKS FOR HELPING EVERYONE OUT THERE. ♥ Don't lose faith in yourself, always realise your mistakes and learn from it . THERE ISN'T A WORST ENEMY OTHER THAN YOURSELF!
This really got to me especially the part where you feel disappointed because of an 80% and even though my parents usually don't really care I feel a faint disappointment in their eyes. I always bawl my eyes out and I'm just starting high school so I'm scared that if I keep getting 80%'s with all my efforts I would just fail not completely but fail myself and expectations. Thank you for making this video.
"You need to fear the whip more then you fear the work." Is one of the most beautiful lines I've ever heard.
Brother, God is NEVER controversial. You don't need to apologize to anyone for believing in God. And thank you for this video. I hope it helps me.
Ap or telangana bro?
Not surprised, his name is Mathew. His mom named him that for a reason
god demands you to kill me, i think that's pretty controversial
@@Enlightener-h6z ofc you can create the circumstance, but that doesn’t make it possible
He doesn't exist
I was literally on my procrastination era and then this video pop up....I will try my best to listen to your advice and work on myself.... thanks a lot ❤
Great vid... I was procrastinating sleeping but fell right asleep in 2 mins of this
😂😂😂😂😅😅
Since I watched this video, my average has went up from an 87 to a 96. Thank you for this video and motivation it gave me.
Thank you so much bro, I'm now in winter break and still have a lot to do, the last days, in my free time I just procrastinated and got nothing done. Now I just realized this, you made me remember what my goals are and I'm trying to get started with my tasks as soon and fast as I can. Thank you, really.
im in 10th grade rn and i needed to watch something like this so bad cause I feel so down at this moment of my life and I don't feel motivated at all I literally have my final exams in a few months and I really need to stop procastinating and start studying and now after watching this video I'm gonna go down and write everything that I feel rn and start studying
thank you so much matthew
Enjoy 10th grade it's the best class to have fun for the last time. Everyone has to get serious in the final years having the stress of career and shit. From my side I'd tell you to enjoy and cherish this moment as it'll not come back, the friends, the laughs, everything enjoy it to the Fullest so to not regret anything. And yea boards are easy, like really easy just relax and prepare your ncert well, that's more than enough. I hope you do well :)
Did it help?
The timing is insane 🔥🔥, praise the Lord
I see the passion in your voice and tone. I can feel the passion and it’s infective. I want to get up right now and start working. Honestly the stuff you said in this video hit me so hard since I related to all of the same feelings you felt of fear, guilt, shame, and failure. Thanks for the incredible video. God bless you.
Bro u js helped me loads as a year 7 turning 8 u taught me something I should be ready for, I struggled with lust for when I was 8 years old which is now crazy to me but now as a 13 yr old I am now with the lord who helped me overcome that and this pooping on my fy page ain’t no coincidence, keep up this work man ur pushing me through my school years😅 thanks man.
this video completely changed how i look at procrastination. thank you man, i seriously appreciate this
The amount of these types of videos I’ve been seeing on TH-cam is crazy.
I am a form 4 student from Hong Kong.
Exam is coming in 3 days but I was procrastinating for more than 10 hours.
Thanks for making me finally start studying. I hope I will pass my exams.
Thank you so much for making this video.
dude i have absolutely nothing to say except tysm im so glad i found your channel I've been procrastinating this whole year and this helped a lot
An asian helping another asian >>
Bro you sound so genuine, idk, most other inspirational yters all sound like they are just reading from a script and you probably are aswell but you sound like you really mean what you say.
Bro, no joke. I am feeling so much connected with your story I can't tell. I am 14, watch po**, when I should study. Fear of getting failure and scrolling on yt.😢
Thnx very much. ❤ To help me to take the right path. And I just watched 3 or 4 of your videos but I m connected to u. And now I m trying to improve thnx ❤
Edit 1: like if u are the same 😢
Sorry for bad eng! 😕😔
I think i am just like you bro..... I got some bad friends in school about 5 years past who told me stuff like googling the meaning of middle finger, naked people and other things like what does a couple do in a bedroom etc(i know its wild💀 cause i was in 5th grade).... But now after watching this video i feel the confidence that i m not alone in the race... I am too addicted to p*rn, its been five years but i couldn't get rid of it but now i m starting to be the best version of myself and try to make myself as much busy as possible.. Maybe i will be able to beat this addiction after 5 years... Thanks mathew for supporting your videos are truly inspiring!!!!
You got this!!
Good luck man
bro is LEGIT! hes so good he even say his cons in the video ...
hello! I have huge issues with procrastination and this video really helped me! thanks matthew! God bless you!
Man! I really sincerely appreciate for the video, i felt great after warching it, i felt like i finally figured out how to beat procrastination even after watching hundreds of other videos, but ngl ultimately urs helped!
loved your swearing honestly. shows the real you, you're being you. makes it lighter and relatable to watch. i connect more.
first of all u being honest with ur audience and giving unfiltered shit to make them understand is really good and second of all this video is actually good and the swearing makes me more connected to the video..............good job and u earned a loyal subscriber☺❤
DO NOT JUDGE ME BY MY USERNAME
This was one hell of a video
I got very less marks in my test today which scared me and got me studying harder
This is exactly the video i needed and im going to save it because i might need it more than i think
im really procrastinating to watch this video but imma push myself too 💔
i love my mom even when i got 68% with my uni test she was so calm and trying to make me feel good and try again ahhh i feel bad i really need to get the grade for her
shout out to my dad too
For our parents 🤝
This is a game changer 4:12
Very genuine to say it will help you a lot
It takes courage to say you're a beliver- nothing 'controversial' with that. Psychology student here, still fighting from time to time with procrastination. You are making good job, keep it up!
I discovered these methods myself and trust me these methods works really well!
Wtf !! I've had this "maybe i'm not lazy but just scared of failing even if i try" like 2 month ago and now i see this video.
Btw i stoped watching these type of video a long time ago even if i had them in my youtube feed, but your title and thumbnail got me, gg for that it wasn't an easy task
0:25 WHAT of 2024???
Class
Lol
We all know you know it says class and was just cut off 💀
This video was saved a month ago, I kept saying I would watch, finally getting around to it
I lowkey love this guy like bro is spitting facts and helping us break out matrix
😂😂😂😂
stop this "matrix" bs kid
@@SaveFACTS 😂
honestly this vid has helped me so much..like sometimes i procrastinate so much that i forget to pray..this vid helped me to realize that what the hell iam i doing..do i want to go to hell that badly? i need to focus i need to do stuff i need to get that grade so my mom gets me what she promised to get when i get a 97 so ty matthew hands up to you
Thank you. I'll revisit this video after an year. I wish and believe that my motivation and faith would have grown by then.
This is actually an insane video fair play bro!! I’m so scared about university and shit it’s actually crazy and I’m constantly procrastinating revising for my AS levels and this will acc help me thank you so much!
I don't usually procrastinate. But this video will definitely help me in the future. Thanks!
you're so fucking right about the fear and being scared thus the procrastination part🥹
9:47 glory to god
Dear Matthew, I can say that I relate to everything, even bits of your past and I believe that God really has planned these things for us. Thank you for this advice and may you keep flourishing and helping others❤
Thanks to you, Matthew, I was motivated a lot. If I could remember, I was planning on creating a channel as well, and... the swearing doesn't matter much. In fact, your past stories(about the porn), was exactly the same as me, with the only difference that I started watching those sus videos beginning from 3rd grade, :v. Oh yeah, personally wanna tell you as well, I believe to God too, and we have the same name. The difference is that you have graduated from college, while Im still 13. Well, that's it. Thanks! (Pls read this, bro)
God would be proud of you for lifting others up. Hes proud brother
I am currently in class 10 icsce and I pledge to give it my all and achieve my dreams and goals Starting with my board exams starting in February and March and achieving 98 percent.I will give update after boards exam results
dude….thank you. best damn motivation/procrastination vid iv ever seen. (and ive watched a ton)
i will be sharing w my friends
POV: You are here because of procrastination
Thank you so much brother
I hope u will know how much this video has helped right when I was starting to scroll through TH-cam.
My boards are near but I’m still not prepared or focussed but you have motivated me. thanks again😄
Ty Matt, I saw this video and remembered there's exam tomorrow, tysm
Done studying
Anything ingenious is simple. The procrastination is not a laziness or something like that. It just a weird appearance of fear of the task (sorry for my English, btw). And this understanding allows tons of ways to beat it
When you think that you procrastinate because you lazy or you don't want to do this, you just have no clue how to fix it. But when you look at procrastination as the outcome of your fear, you have much more specific target. You know what's stopping you and you know how to deal with that fear. And that's the point when you start to understand all the methods like breaking task to smaller pieces, treat yourself to do it for exactly 5 minutes etc.
Usually the most part of solving any problem is just figuring out what you're dealing with and what you need to do. This video is a perfect example of it (especially the first point "name the fear")
Thank you so much for that video!
TYSM bro i needed this
God is with us🙏🏻
Hey mat i have finals of my 1st semester of 7the grade on janury 15th i watched ur how to make studying easier(and more fun) i really liked it i subscribed with notifs i really am terribke at studying but i lose motivation when i still dont be the subject i hate that feeling but after watching your videos and other videos i realized what have i been doing all this time and i suddenly got the ultimate motivation to study and force to understand as much as possible thank you man
I'll be returning to this video every single week to update my progress with each edits.
Day: 17 dec, wed
update
This really helped me a lot, thanks man .My inner dark motivation is to pursue perfume and fragrance engineering and this was the THE video that i needed.
I'm currently a 12th Grade Student in STEM. We were literally given a week to study 8 subjects for the exam. Finals is in 2 days, and I still have 6 to study. 2 of which are General Bio and Physics (a lot of things to memorize). Why am I seeing this video just now? Lol, great video, couldn't relate more.
It really takes guts to admit your past like that on social media. Hats off to you for that! 👏 Believe me, the video was truly motivational for my upcoming exams. 📚✨
I am crying brother while watching this video i am from india and i am 16
I am topper till class 8 ( for 10 years ) with a proper score of 98-99% every year
For class 9th i want to change my school because it was very bad but i felt insecure because of new competition i was scared that was the first moment of me becoming a loser i didnt understand what i was becoming that time however i still gave entrance to a middle level school and surprisingly a 10year continuous topper cant even pass a entrance that was the first time i felt my self a loser but its not that big deal i keep that aside and forget that studying in the same bad school.
and then suddenly i got 83% with 2nd rank in class 9 i wanna die that moment i felt my self as a loser for sure as its the second time.
I started study hard crazy hard for class 10th its a scary class because in indian education system you have to pass a single government designed exam which is called boards and i have determination to score 99% here just like old time which is quite difficult but then my half yearly came ( its just for practice by school not affect boards ) i score 86% again and now i understand i am loser i cant do anything i am just an average
Its November 29 when i am writing this comment and i still feel the same . many of you guys would be thinking when i wrote that crazy studying thing part that i would be successful but its not that always happen
From 15 feb my boards are going to start i am not good at my preparation i haven't completed my syllabus till now nor practiced sample paper , question bank etc i will never be able to archive my dream i wanna cry soo hard by hugging someone I can't just disclose my anxity depression that holding me from inside even when i am writting this comment
But to be true that crazy studying part was not all studying it was filled with many many distractions i can't lie which were somethings i can't escape even now i cannot escape to that
Edit - i failed in my strongest subject maths in my school preboards at this point i am quitting
aree bhai tu cbse board se lg rha h . don't worry yr tu apna best lga de aur bhagwan pr bharosa rakh result kuchh bhi aaye km se km es bat ki satisfaction to rhegi ki tumne apna best diya . believe me abhi time h tere pass bhai 2 month h abhi bhi m to up board se hun phir bhi meri bhi nhi thi shi taiyari maine to shi se padhna dec last se suru kiya aur jitna ho sakta tha utna mehnat kiya exam to feb 22 ,2024 se tha phir bhi 90.81% aaye jo mehnat ke hisab se thik hi tha, aur sallybus to mera aadha bhi nhi pura tha dec last tk but kr liya pura exam tk han m last 2 month me school nhi gya totally isolated waise m ne to offline tution bhi nhi liya tha aur uper se attendance to hardly 2 month ki hogi 10 me jis wjh se mujhe aur jyada padhna pda.aur half yearly me to mera 75% tk aaya tha jb m etna pr kr skta hu. to tum to bhai phod sakte ho kahe ka tension bs apna best do baki dekha jayega.
to no worry. kabhi kabhi hme lgta h ki ab time nhi bacha h ab kuchh nhi ho sakta lekin asaliyat me aisa nhi h time hota h.. to bs apna 100% lga do jo result aayega dekha jayega be strong 💪
sirf yhi life nhi h bhai bs apna best dedo taki regret na rhe .
one more tips ki question likh ke practice krna aur questions bank ke sare mcq kr lena ...okk. best of luck God will help u to achieve your dream 💪💪.
Just don't give up
@@unknown-q8w8e thanks bro
I was procrastinating to watch you video at first then gradually this clip helped me
8:34 just wow.
Man this legit motivated me, i'mma start right away. Thanks❤
Me who added this to my watch later 💀💀
very helpful. Mine it's not even that I hate to do things, it's pure fear of not being enough. But I will never know if I never try
Ah yes, right when I’m PROCRASTINATING… nice one YT!
I used to procasinate a lot and even ignore my assignments, causing my grades to go down. But then one day as I looked at my mom, I realized. She was getting older. My heart felt...an undxplainable sadness. I said "Fuck the procasination, the voice in my head that says "just 5 more minutes", the hand that hits the snooze button" and started to do my assignments, started to study for my tests, started to get my shit together because I realized that she would one day die and I might not even become someone worthy of being her daughter or someone she can brag to her friends about. So before the day that she may die, I want to be the best, on top of things, so she can brag about me to others, so I can be the trophy in her life.
Once you get that realization, a cog is turned.
This video made me freaking cry dude....hopefully I will do well in my exams which are gonna be there in 2 months or smth. I did not score well in my half yearly like it was the lowest score I've ever achieved
Thank for the vid i was repeating for my entrace exam and couldn't focus due to distraction s . This vid opened my eyes and i will try hard
I NEEDED THIS VIDEO. I HAVE EXAMS FROM 6TH DEC. I WILL EDIT.
HOW ARE YOUR EXAMS GOING
@Nightclouds24bros fallen
well, how was it?
ya failed better luck next time
@@Kequing64 noooo😭
Thanks for showing the right path bro ❤
only if I get a dollar everytime bro says "fucking", I would get so rich lmao
Bro, you're under rated . You're a star
9:41 god only help those who help themselves ✨️
I think this is a bible verse actually in Quran (which the book of muslims) it has a verse with the same meaning but to me it feels deeper which is
إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُغَيِّرُ مَا بِقَوْمٍ حَتَّى يُغَيِّرُوا مَا
بِأَنْفُسِهِمْ
Which means: Allah does not change what is in a nation unless they change what is in themselves. It has the same meaning god will help you if u at least tried to help urself
@@light5589 it's also the core principle of Bhagwatgeeta
Fr✨️♾️
love u man... like just this one video changed my life
Bruh! I really loved this video.