MOVING VLOG #3 | Moving out + going to the Peak District! Cottage tour + the BIGGEST drama!!
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- MOVING VLOG #3 | Moving out + going to the Peak District! Cottage tour + the BIGGEST drama!!
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Bless you, having all that happen on your moving day. No wonder you feel under the weather. Anxiety can create all sorts of symptoms. Feel better soon and enjoy the rest of your time there. Very exciting times ahead. ❤🥰🥰
Thanks lovely! I know what an absolute drama!! One week to go now and it will all be over and be moved in ahh ❤️ xxx
Such a fab vlog! You are so kind treating the new owner to all of those lovely things. Congratulations on your new home - you so deserve it! ❤
Aww thank you so much lovely! ❤️ xxx
OMG Laura I’m not surprised you’re not feeling well, you’ve had stress overload. But do you know what? How strong a person are you dealing with all of that on your own! I think you are such a brave person.🥰
As someone who works for a holiday let company in the Peak District and we take many bookings via Airbnb! If there was building work happening that effected your stay, we would be giving you money back or would move you to another property! Airbnb host status is important so you’d think he’d offer you some sort of compensation! ❤
Ahhh really that's interesting!! Well strangely - the next day they came back + did a day of work but then after that they never came back for the rest of my time at the cottage! So don't know if he told his workers to call it off whilst I was staying or if they'd just ran into some trouble coincidently on the job but luckily I didn't have to complain further else I definitely would have if it had disrupted my entire stay. Still think it's so bad the owner himself never responded to my message! xx
@@LauraMeachem yeah definitely should have been mentioned to you if he did know they were planning on coming! But glad they weren’t there the whole time for your stay!! I’m guessing you’re in your new home any day now?? Bet you can’t wait!! X
Aww Lau!! What a traumatic series of events!! Your dad is spot on about stress, anxiety and how your mind affects your body. Take care my lovely❤XX
Ahh I know it really was ha! Thanks lovely xxx
Oh my goodness, moving house is stressful enough without having to deal with all that! I hope the rest of your stay there has been a lot smoother x
What a lot of stress! Well done, you have got through it inspite of everything. You are stronger than you think. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger so they say. Enjoy the Peak District and try and get a discount on the cottage, they should have warned you about the disturbance. Try and relax and dump that cold!
Unless you're getting poorly, take several deep breaths. Try to relax and watch something that makes you laugh, smile, and just try to distress have a pamper session
So excited for you both for your new dream home Laura. Glad you had assistance from 2 other women to help you. Such a shame the men couldn't have been as helpful instead of sitting and watching you struggle xx ❤
Thanks lovely! And ahh I know typical - thank god for those lovely ladies ❤️ xxx
Aw Laura, I hope everything went better for you and I'm looking forward to the next vlog! Please keep pushing the host and use Air B&B customer services, maybe you can get some money back x
That’s lovely leaving a gift I should have done that but I was bitter she got our old house b so cheap lol
My husband would’ve went mental if we paid for holiday home and that was going on next door and we didn’t get told that was going on he wouldn’t be too happy I’m more lenient one
the air bnb thing is just absolutely awful honestly i would’ve been FUMING 😂 would absolutely be expecting a percentage of my money back!
Aww poor hun your poor nervous system was dysregulated stuck in stress and you needed that support from people you trust to contain your anxiety and help calm you back down so glad you have such lovely parents who can help you ❤
Your arm pain came back it sounds like because like you say when the noise from next door started your body quickly became dysregulated again and thats why your arm pain would have come back because the noise and worry about the cats pushed you back into a dysregulated state where our minds tell our bodies we are in danger.
You look after yourself and any worries going forward speak to your doctor hun ❤
Ah bless you..he probably owns both properties...
Hi Laura, I can understand totally how your feeling there is nothing worse when moving house your things all over the place I’m a home person like you but well done for handling all that. Look after yourself & get well enjoy your mum & dad visiting treasure them your new home will be well worth it these things are sent to try us! Have a lovely weekend xx
When my anxiety at worst I don’t want to eat horrible feeling x
Congratulations and good luck, health and happiness in your lovely home ❤
Thank you lovely ❤️
Derbyshire is lovely hope you're settling in to your new home and feeling calmer again at last 🥳💖👏
Building work is ok between daily hours.you just had a new build home built.
Ahh I totally get that but I think you have to expect building work on a new build site and that was our choice! I personally think it’s a bit different when you’ve paid to rent out a holiday let & the owners aware of disruptive building work next door but hasn’t made you aware xx
I lived for two years when a new homes being built, the daily noise of the truck's going up and down.and paying a mortgage 😮
I think your missing the point, choosing to live on a new build site is what you planned, laura didn’t know there was building work going on next door and should of been told up front. Her decision might of been different had she known, I wouldn’t want the noise either.
Congratulation on your new home!!! 🙏🤗😍😍
Thanks you lovely ❤
Poor you sounds so stressful, moving is one of the top stressful life situations. Be kind to yourself and you will soon be in your new home and all of this will just be a memory. Keep focusing on the positive impact this move will have.
Take care ❤
Ahhh thank you so much! 🥰❤️ Honestly can’t believe the stress and drama it’s been but only one week to go until we move now - will all be worth it ☺️ xxx
Hang in there Laura. Few weeks you will be in your brand new lovely home. Keep strong look adter yourself.
Thanks Sharon! Counting the days down now xx
Why did you throw stir fry away you could of put it in a container in fridge Mitchell would of eaten it
Mitchell wasn’t with me x
Who needs men ? Really not anymore 😂
Poor cats please don't let them out and when you move hopefully they are indoor cats x
They have always been indoor cats 🥰 … they only go out in a cat proofed garden x
Why didnt your fella stay with you x
He’ll need to be able to go to work easily. Can’t do that with a commute of over an hour to go back and forth from the Peak District
He works in Leicester so needed to be local, so he just came up for the weekends instead! I didn’t fancy paying the extortionate Airbnb prices for 3 weeks in my local area so made it into a bit of a holiday hehe. X
I live few miles ftom peak district...Hopefully after. Stressed few weeks you can enjoy all what this beautiful district as to offer.......May see you in that Super market café.....What a horrible man ❤❤❤
Omg Laura sounds so stressful! I hope all is ok now 😢❤❤
Thank you lovely! I think the worse of the moving stress is over now 😅 - just to sort my health things out now but fingers crossed all good ❤️xxxx
Huh and they call themselves men! Lol i dont think so, i always tell my man his a man amongst men! What ever happened to men being gentlemen. Just remember these things come to test us. Well done for getting through it onwards and upwards
WOW! I'm 2nd stressed for you after all that, and 1st hand pssd off with cottage owner. The construction guy probably owns both properties...no?!
Awww sad leaving an old house,but new memories to make in new house.take care have a lovely weekend ❤❤❤❤
Laura Laura Laura come here and let me give you the biggest hug my love. My heart is hurting for you. Firstly what a kind thoughtful person you are buying those little bits for the new house owner. House moving is SO STRESSFUL let alone having to plot yourself elsewhere for a few weeks. Your dads right stress can be such an underrated issue. When your stressed your body tense’s up and that’s probably why your arms hurting plus having to push ya bloody car might have pulled it. Just shows how girl power out ways the useless men that just sat there watching you all and being lazy arseholes. Must have been awful for you. No wonder you felt rough. I then thought poor girls just moved in and your buying food and drinks for upcoming visitors, I’m like girl just take a breather and chill out. Ppl can get in cars if they want food and drink. As for the works going on next door, totally out of order, should have told you before hand, the fact he hasn’t messaged you back and I’m telling you if Mitchell was there that bloke would not speak to you the way he has. Absolute fxxckxxg piss take. I’d definitely be leaving a review once I’d left. Totally wrong. Your mum next week won’t put up with any shit. I hope the babies have settled in a bit better. Just think everyday that goes by is another step closer to you having your new home. Try and chill out a bit, do things that make you feel nice. And I certainly don’t mind you off loading and ranting to us, we are all friends here and you support friends. I’m just shocked how you’ve been treated and it’s not acceptable. Oh yeah go to a strangers office, yeah right! Fuming 😡 xx
Your dad is right, you mind is so strong and can cause all kinds of physical symptoms from stress and anxiety. I have twitches and aches and pains, jelly legs and arm from time to time, all from anxiety and ptsd. Your symptoms sounds like classic anxiety symptoms, and seems to get worsened after stress. To help yourself, never google symptoms, when intrusive thoughts push them away and do something else, even if it is in the middle of the night put in a fun vlogger until you fall asleep, having company helps, staying busy helps. Also try ashwagandha, magnesium and iron supplements, make sure you dont take too high dosage of supplements tho. Remember to relax, i bet you are tensing shoulders and back without even noticing it until you remember to relax. ❤
Yes, especially as it’s through Airbnb as you normally have more communications either the owner before they agree to allow you to book their accommodation. I’ve always had back and forth discussions before my arrival to a place I’ve booked, talking about the reason for the trip and to confirm that we can bring pets etc, and I would expect them to let me know if there’s any building work happening. I would look for an alternative Airbnb that you could move to that could cover your time up until you get the keys to your house. And then speak to Airbnb directly about getting refunded for your stay there. The owner should’ve updated you with the information about the building work before accepting your booking
OMG what a complete nightmare. I really feel for you. I sincerely hope that the next few days will be better.😮
It does make sense...because you make the house a home that takes a while too. Congratulations again to you both for your next chapter.
hope this helps with your anxiety a bit I think your Dad was right with the pain you were maybe suffering from TMS (Tension myositis syndrome) I have only recently heard of it but it is very interesting how the brain works hope things get easier going forward.
I remember first night we were in our new build pizza wine and sat on the floor and slept on the mattress on the floor 7 years in and still i want to change everything lol
Anxiety makes my asthma worse and I have health anxiety it’s horrible x
When you move again it might be worth seeing if the vet can give the cats a sedative just to stop their stress xoxo
Moving is hard work takes time to adjust etc doesn’t it x
Are you pregnant? I felt nauseous but wasn't physically sick, but had a really big appetite but couldn't eat for days so I would crave something but couldn't eat it when I was first pregnant. The smell of food made me feel sick 🤮 xx
Oh god no, definitely not pregnant 🤣❤️ xxx
Have you done a covid test
It’s not Covid. X
I’ve got that dkny in cream it’s lovely
Lovely vlog laura ❤😊
Thanks lovely ❤
Did I c a mini Christmas tree in this an old blog x
As someone who recently moved to a new build can appreciate the stress of the in between! Ended up in a caravan for 12 weeks with a long commute and a stressed out cat!!
Worth it in the end!
Ahhhh it’s awfully stressful isn’t it and animals make it even harder as you worry for them too but glad all is good now ☺️ - like you say it’s worth it in the end!
Oh Laura, sorry you were feeling like this! It does sound like you were just over stressed and anxious, you went through a whole day of one thing after another and it all caught up on you, it’s crazy what the body does to you! I used the experience being sick and nauseous when anxious.
You’ve not got long left now and you can settle into your new home 🤍
Ahhh honestly you just couldn’t have wrote it ha! But yes it definitely must have been anxiety and stress causing as it only lasted a few days then started to feel better - awful though! ❤ xxx
Chamomile great for helping anxiety
What a story! No, I don't think you could write it.. lol Poor you and your kitty cats! I hope it gets better for you. Sending good vibes and good luck! ❤
Hahah honestly only would happen to me!! Thanks lovely ❤️ xxxx
I was like that in tbe begining of my pregnancy 😂😂😂😂😂whatever it is feel better soon loving these vlogs
Hahaha! No definitely not pregnant lol … think it was the stress/anxiety, strange never had it like that before but I’m all good now xx
Hi Laura great vlog good luck to you n Mitchell in your new home. The cats are so gorgeous. Have a lovely day xxxx ❤
Ahh thank you so much lovely ❤️❤️
Oh bless you Laura! The trip down sounded awful. Anxiety definately will give you unexplained pains in your arm and chest so I hope you have managed to rest up a little. I think the air b&b owner has bought the cottage next door and is renovating it himself. He is definately out of order not telling you about the noise. I would be so angry if it was me. Hope you are feeling better xx
Thanks lovely! Feeling a little better now 🙂... YES so strange, never experienced pains like it - was so worrying!! Yes I defo agree - was super strange he got the bloke next door to come + knock on and but yet never message me himself to explain! Well after I said something they came back the next day but then didn't see them for the rest of the week so wonder if he realised it was out of order! xx
@@LauraMeachem ❤️
Aww laura! Loved this vlog, but bless your heart! Cant believe your nightmare youve had, but what a warrior you are dealing with it all, just remember you will be in your beautiful new home soon!! Also so kind off you leaving those gifts for the new home owners what a lovely thought, also you wont regreat buying mollys cream its SO good!!! ❤ take care lovely x
Ahhh thank you lovely!! Yes what a nightmare and it ended up getting even worse after that as I had a bit of a health scare 😅 honestly just couldn’t write my week! Hopefully be nothing so fingers crossed!! But roll on the house move 🏠 xxxx
Hello Laura, Hi 5
Feel so bad for you and all the anxiety & stress you’ve been through bless you! Id definitely try and get a refund back from your air b&b! Hope it all goes well when you finally move into your new home lovely! (Also thought leaving the new owners those gifts shows just how kind and thoughtful you are!) 🥹🥰 xx
Ahhh honestly you couldn’t write it 😭 … well funnily enough they never showed back up to work on the property next door so I don’t know if they got the hint or just realised it was unacceptable! But yes it ended up being lovely & peaceful 🥰 xx
1. Been there done that with the cat situation except it was urine everywhere instead of poo but omg felt that stress you’re talking about, we had to quickly evacuate for a fire here and I have 3 cats, it was a whole mess 😢
2. Please see a dr, I used to think I had health anxiety turns out I have a serious health condition that can coincidentally be triggered by stress
3. We literally just got back from vacation and had the exact same thing happen with our 1st air bnb, the town house we were connected to had work going on until 10 at night sometime and it was very frustrating so I completely relate AND I think the worker that keeps coming to speak to you IS your air bnb owner and that’s why he’s not texting you back because he gets your txt then comes to talk with you directly, I would ask him and see or either he owns the cottage next door as well and that’s his worker but in our case the owner was working on the townhouse next door because they fixed them up to rent them out.
4. BREEEATHE 🥹 I really just wanted to give you a tight hug listening to this, it will all work out in the end. Sending love from America 💛💛💛