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  • @js8303
    @js8303 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    People who can’t admit their wrong/make up excuses for themselves is definitely a huge turn off!

  • @lindajennens9033
    @lindajennens9033 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    some people can't read for various reasons, dyslexia being the one I know well. A relative can't read and struggles alot with numbers BUT is a very nice and hard working person that has their own home and has done well for themselves. I feel the person who was upset the guy did not know the alphabet had no respect. As much as I like you Kyutie your reaction was mean. please don't be like this.

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Maybe Kyutie doesn't realize how some reading disabilities are manifested. I was going out with a guy for ages; we saw a movie that had subtitles. Found out he was completely at sea the entire movie because he had dyslexia. First time he'd ever mentioned it, and his father had been a school principal, so it was a very touchy subject, as it turns out. Met his dad once, he'd retired from being a school principal but not from being an obnoxiously judgemental person at home.

    • @CookiesAndCreamMC
      @CookiesAndCreamMC 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Maybe it’s just me, but it’s a staple even as a dyslexic person to at least know the alphabet
      Like I won’t blame you for spelling something wrong, but you can’t just tell me you don’t at least know the alphabet…

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@CookiesAndCreamMC Some people may not. Learning disabilities can be strange. Or "Mr Gorgeous" may simply have been super lazy.

    • @FoolMisinfo
      @FoolMisinfo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@Kayenne54 I mean....it is a pretty weird thing to be turned off by imo. Perhaps I'm biased because where I live education is not accessible for everyone economically so it's not surprising to see people who don't even know the alphabet,vowels or vocabulary and more but are definitely if not infinitely smarter and more knowledgeable on certain topics or subjects regarding their occupation that you usually wouldn't be knowledgeable about. So I have expectations that they could've possibly have struggled with education or not. But I understand the turn off at times, there are educated people here who can't even write word correctly.

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@FoolMisinfo I met another mature age man who was almost completely illiterate. He'd been working on the parents' farm from age 4. But he had a photographic memory. One smart cookie, just had a lot of trouble reading. Found out about his photographic memory when I asked how did he find street names, companies to go to, etc.? He'd just drive around and find them (or say something to someone like "Oh is that such and such on street A?" and they'd say "No he's on B street in other suburb" and off he'd go). Learnt to play the accordian by ear, and was quietly brilliant at it.

  • @ManiiDee
    @ManiiDee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    On my first date with my bf he was driving. It was storming on and off. We were on a windy road. He was hitting some of the turns a little fast for my liking, especially with the rain and all. I asked him to slow down and told him I felt uncomfortable. He apologized and slowed down. He’s a keeper.

  • @crystaldumpling
    @crystaldumpling 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    when they don't push back the chair in a restaurant, it's always the little things for me

    • @k0rnluvr
      @k0rnluvr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yhh this is fair and also great dazai pfp

  • @Nicholaspimpinsohard
    @Nicholaspimpinsohard 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I heard about this disgusting case on the news of this 18 year old girl who literally drove 100 mph into a brick building unaliving both her boyfriend and his friend who was sitting in the back. She however lived and she is now serving 15 years to life in prison.

    • @karissa-tkacz
      @karissa-tkacz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      unfortunately, this is real.

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This happened fairly close to where I live. I also heard that she posted a TikTok or Instagram or something afterwards saying how people on dr*gs survive serious car accidents. Disgusting.

    • @carisasantiago6256
      @carisasantiago6256 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I heard about this too, all because she didn't want her bf to break up with her. I saw pictures of the crash and thought "there's no way someone could survive that"

  • @lindapark2169
    @lindapark2169 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    As a k-pop and K-drama fan I always get that one . And yes it's a huge turn off . Even as a friend . A guy used to talk to me , when I said I like k-pop he literally threw a fit .

  • @hannahforeman
    @hannahforeman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    6:28, that story reminds me of whenever my period comes so late than usual. I keep thinking that I'm pregnant, then to i don't have a boyfriend at all, to when is my period going to come. All in one day.

  • @badateverything5392
    @badateverything5392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The only time the K-drama thing ever turned me off someone was when it was combined with "I only like dramas." It basically came out on the first date that we had nothing in common, and where I could probably watch a romance/drama without much issue, she would NEVER be able to do the same for my interests. She hated action, history (non-drama) and horror movies. She didn't like any music that could be considered aggressive (found it frightening) and only liked cute things. It was just a whole lot of "I would need to shelve everything I enjoy if I pursue this" going through my head. It was such a shame because she was intelligent, polite, kind and beautiful, I just couldn't see it working when I wouldn't be able to have any of my interests within arm's reach.

    • @soshimizu
      @soshimizu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Um look at your username

    • @badateverything5392
      @badateverything5392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@soshimizu Looking... ☺️

    • @soshimizu
      @soshimizu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@badateverything5392 all right, as long as you have a sense of humor \ can laugh at yourself

    • @badateverything5392
      @badateverything5392 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@soshimizu Lol, if I didn't laugh I'd cry 😂😭😂

    • @T_Cup
      @T_Cup 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Having different types interests is okay as long you each respect the others' interests. I also think the exposure to things she didn't like but you did might have changed her mind. A lot of people don't realize something they like is categorised under the label of something they think they dislike - for example, The Mummy (1999) is considered a horror, and as a non-horror fan it's a favourite of mine

  • @annawinther9450
    @annawinther9450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I like a person with a good heart, manners and who treats others with respect, oh and great sence if humor is a must!❤

  • @thediscodevil0949
    @thediscodevil0949 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    For the one in the thumbnail, I’m mentally disabled, but I still know the alphabet. I feel bad for the guy, though. Like, I’m imagining if someone ever got turned off by me because I can’t read an analogue clock, or tie my own shoelaces, or leave the house on my own, etc. I’d never be able to find anyone because of my disability, but that’s just a hypothetical situation. I’m 19, but I wouldn’t be surprised if I had a mental age younger than 10.

  • @blacksheep9144
    @blacksheep9144 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hey kyutie I just wanted to say youre videos raised me as a kid and its nice to see youre still making content!

    • @Thatgirly777
      @Thatgirly777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mikasa's so bad

  • @Nicholaspimpinsohard
    @Nicholaspimpinsohard 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am a Canadian American and I love watching all types of shows and movies. Russian, German, British, Korean, Norwegian, and I especially love Japanese shows and movies too!! Plus by watching all of them I have learned so many other languages!!

  • @jelestra
    @jelestra 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I found a song I really liked and had my SO (at the time) listen to it. He shook his head and told me that wasn't my kind of music. Pretty sure he thought a friend he didn't care for suggested it, which is why he attempted to convince me it wasn't something I liked. I told him I really liked it, and he continued to argue with me that I didn't. (it was Dragonfly by Shaman's Harvest. if anyone's curious)

    • @QuokkaWaka
      @QuokkaWaka 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lmao "hey I think this song's pretty good what do-" "Nuh uh!"

  • @veenieeenie
    @veenieeenie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think mine with my ex was the reason of our break up. She loved me a lot, but not enough to wait for my consent/being ready to... you know. And after she still wanted us to be best friends

  • @sznwoo
    @sznwoo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    AHHH NOSTALGIA I HAVENT WATCHED U IN SO LONG IM SO GLAD UR STILL MAKING VIDEOS I LOVE YEWW

  • @sweetiepielarae
    @sweetiepielarae 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Many people have learning disabilities, and some people also didn't get the education they should have growing up, sometimes not even the most basic education.

    • @thediscodevil0949
      @thediscodevil0949 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah. I feel bad for the guy that didn’t know the alphabet because I’m mentally disabled. I know the alphabet, but I can’t read an analogue clock, tie my own shoelaces, leave the house on my own because I’ll just cluelessly wander into the road or get lost, etc. I’m never gonna be in a relationship because of my disability, but I’d be pretty hurt if someone got turned off by me because of it. I was born with it.

  • @cheyblake2475
    @cheyblake2475 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    For the alphabet story, can the guy still spell without knowing the alphabet?
    (I Googled this and no results came up)

  • @Violetstrike
    @Violetstrike 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My dad did something similar with the car, my mom didn’t like how fast he was going on the highway so he slammed the pedal and started driving as fast as he could legally and started weaving. I started having a panic attack and crying and all he said was it was just a joke. I never wanted to have him be the driver again.

  • @leo_jrgn
    @leo_jrgn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow I have never been that early haha. Love your videos! Thanks for the short intros they make your videos more enjoyable than all the other videos with long ass intros

  • @Kayenne54
    @Kayenne54 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    1:46 wonder if that hot guy had a reading disability?

    • @nancyomalley6286
      @nancyomalley6286 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Or was poorly homeschooled!

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nancyomalley6286 At least from limited research I've done, and heard about (here in Australia), young folk home-schooled here are usually one or more years AHEAD scholastically than their peers who came up through the usual system. It's always up to the parents though, isn't it? the breadth and depth of how their kids are educated. Usually home schooled here is "distance education", = remote learning . Which has been in place here for those who live far away from formal schools, since 1914, and has equipped young people to excel in any career or job. Australia already had a working model for home education of kids before pandemics. Many of them go to boarding schools in bigger regional cities (or major cities) once they reach high school age, but I've seen stories on many of them who pretty much skipped most of high school to go straight to University from primary school age. From a remote cattle station in far west Queensland, and far better educated than their city-schooled peers. Also they had far more real life experience.

    • @nancyomalley6286
      @nancyomalley6286 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Kayenne54 True. I'm just concerned that this particular young man's parents weren't prepared or had the skills to teach him, or worse, they only taught him what THEY wanted him to learn (they could have been total wingnuts with conspiracy theories)

    • @Kayenne54
      @Kayenne54 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nancyomalley6286 Lol. That's true too! Like I said, the breadth and depth of "home education" or indeed, any education, is still the responsibility of the parents. Their attitude to learning influences kids. What they say is "important" is where kids will focus, at least while younger.

  • @elaexplorer
    @elaexplorer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kdramas are fun. People who hate on them are missing out.

  • @19GAS
    @19GAS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If he/she is a nice person in general, thats always a Turn On. In my opinion a turn off is when a person refuses to talk to me (doesnt talk much) You know if youre trying so hard to be nice, and the other Person just pushes you aside. ,Nobody wants to feel ignored i guess.👍 Its sometimes like a Invisible Wall between me and People. 😅

  • @airyn7892
    @airyn7892 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    LOVE your vids, Kyutie ! 😁

  • @JUMALATION1
    @JUMALATION1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only pet peeve I have with my husband is that he tends to reveal my "bad habits" (me staying up late mostly) when a family member or in-law talks about bedtime routines or something similar. It's a minor thing, but I have asked him to not mention it too much, because my mom tends to latch onto that and berate me even though I am an adult (30 years old). I don't bad-mouth my husband to his parents either. The exception is of course if it's a long-ongoing family joke that everyone is okay with being told all over again, and everyone laughs at it without feeling bothered, which is crucial.

  • @christianwiberg447
    @christianwiberg447 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My favorite k drama or c drama is battle through the heavens.

  • @almi8151
    @almi8151 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People turned off by illiteracy are such an ick

  • @alishbajowdat3240
    @alishbajowdat3240 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I WAS WAITING

  • @sadecoker286
    @sadecoker286 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your videos they always make my day.

  • @rebeccagilchrist4777
    @rebeccagilchrist4777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Kyutie, I am genuinely disappointed and horrified with the attitude you took over the whole not knowing the alphabet. As someone with very controlled dyslexia I didn't know the alphabet until I had nearly turned 18, even now in my 20s I can only recite/remember the alphabet as a song. It took a lot of work to get to where I am and your reaction was like a slap calling me dumb when in reality, through no fault of my own, it just simply takes me a bit longer.
    In future please remember some things are out of people's control.

    • @kadeemhoyte1117
      @kadeemhoyte1117 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ok but she didn't know geez

    • @rebeccagilchrist4777
      @rebeccagilchrist4777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@kadeemhoyte1117 Which is why I commented, so she could know for future and not make the same mistake. If no one ever tells her then how would she ever know

    • @Thatgirly777
      @Thatgirly777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "horrified" 😭 but I still agree with u

  • @crystaldumpling
    @crystaldumpling 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    u look amazing as always!!!

  • @gazoontight
    @gazoontight 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He didn't know the alphabet? Isn't that first grade stuff, or even kindergarten level?

    • @QuokkaWaka
      @QuokkaWaka 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not everyone gets to go to first grade, or even kindergarten. And even the ones that do can still have a reading disability.

    • @gazoontight
      @gazoontight 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@QuokkaWaka It depends on where you live. Every country I've lived in has had compulsory education.

  • @narwalmations
    @narwalmations 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    NOTIFICATION SQUAD WHERE YOU AT?!

  • @dove698
    @dove698 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know alphabet. But I don't know "alphabet"s of mine language( not remembering the order), most people who didn't have to teach kid's alphabet recently, or aren't preparing for government job don't remember it.
    Most of us just know em in sprinkling around order.

  • @kurisuchiinu1206
    @kurisuchiinu1206 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh yeah, I can remember my ex making fun of my band choice and told me the group were just using Auto-tunes... I was annoyed at the time and didn't know if it was true. I didn't bother looking at it but I do remember his friends smirking when he boasts that I believe in every word he says. I know, what a jerk. I thought it was just a cute teasing but now I realized that it's an insult to what I like so he can make himself look good/cool.

  • @heikedixon4968
    @heikedixon4968 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The alphabet guy might be dyslexic, nothing he can do about it.

  • @WittyRoseKoi
    @WittyRoseKoi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love your videos kyutie

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      First!
      Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

    • @WittyRoseKoi
      @WittyRoseKoi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yayyyyyyyy

    • @WittyRoseKoi
      @WittyRoseKoi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yesssssss

  • @WittyRoseKoi
    @WittyRoseKoi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Shadow boxer I’m I second

  • @blue_xmen
    @blue_xmen 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First to comment on this KYUTIE right here! ❤

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nope. fifth.

  • @thaizastatia3241
    @thaizastatia3241 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First❤

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually third commenter.
      But here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

  • @Nicholaspimpinsohard
    @Nicholaspimpinsohard 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How are you doing? How are you feeling? In the very first story, this is a major turn off for me because it's like when she starts an argument with someone else and then she just randomly expects you to jump right in the argument too and automatically be on her side. In the second story, going through a truly stressful situation like that only to find that your "so called partner" is completely against you, makes you realize real quick that they were never the right one for you to begin with. In the third story, those people are very condescending, mean, rude, and just so uncaring of other people's feelings. In the fourth story, if he didn't know the alphabet then how exactly did he get access to the bar, or any other place in his areas? In the sixth story, this man right here is completely toxic. In the seventh story, I absolutely can't stand people like this because I'm struggling you see me struggling, but instead of offering to help me you just would prefer to film me struggling. I can't stand Tiktok. In the eighth story, I know all about this to well because I have been in some long distance relationships before, and I would literally be texting her so much that it literally felt like I was in a relationship with myself. Sadly all of the women whom I was in a long distance relationship with, they barely ever texted me back. I love you my dear sweet friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!

  • @Fl0wers_crudd
    @Fl0wers_crudd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First❤

    • @shadowboxer1
      @shadowboxer1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Actually second commenter.
      But here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈