Oh man. And I thought I was bad. It was the same for me 20 days straight no sleep, had to get on medication and go to a crisis center. I had a mental breakdown. I was a zombie' depressed, eventually had to take off work. God brought me out of that. I'm still trying to recover mentally because I still deal with occasional anxiety attacks. Nothing as bad as before
I used to cry every time I took a shower because all the painful memories would replay when everything external, was silent. Quiet moment in the car, Memories. Quiet moments in the shower, memories. Quiet moments while im waiting in line, memories. I couldn’t escape what my brain was trying to process
The Fther will expose people's hearts towards you, so you know who or who not to bring with you to the next level. If you can't properly discern separation is needed, the Father will intervene and assist! 🙌🏾 Growth hurts 😖
The Father will sever relationships that hinder you and keep you from your destiny. If it or they were needed, the Father would permit the connection. 🙏🏾
That was me July 2023 to around February 2024. I experienced an unexpected ending of a relationship and then found out about the lies, deceit, and betrayal that I found out about after I was out of the situation. I knew early on that closure would come from God & I couldn't look to the person who hurt & betrayed me for it. As much as it hurt, it had to happen. It birthed a new person in me with a newfound love, adoration & relationship with God. The one who hurt me said they never would do what they did but ended up doing it worse. Nonetheless, I'm grateful to God that it happened & the woman I've become. God knew he wasn't for me & got me out of the situation. I'm thankful, healing, happy & blessed. God's way is always perfect!
Same sis, I knew the man I was with wasn’t for me so God removed him in February. It brought me closer to God and I’ll forever be grateful for those lessons He allowed from my worldly ex. Bless you in the name of Jesus Christ my sister
This word rocked MY WHOLE EXISTENCE. I am convinced that TODAY, I am one of the ones who especially needed to hear, remember, and heed all of this information. I turned 40 in November and what a JOURNEY it’s been!😭God bless all of you!
IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER. Experiences equates to Wisdom if we let go and cast all our cares onto our Father, Abba. I don't regret nothing of what I endured even through my new test. Not going back the vomit as a dog. God's timing and vengeance are healthier. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤
God, thank You for ordering my steps and my severing, even in my grief. Even when I committed relational homicide, thank You for purifying me. What a word.
I’ve been so anxious all day and really down I went through a super hurtful breakup that emotionally hurt me so bad. I prayed for god to take this feeling away from me today .. I felt the holly spirit tell me to listen to you and I stumbled on this teaching an it has truly touched me and that anxiety I’ve had all day is gone and feeling down is gone .. this message truly was for me today .. thank you 🙏🏽
Sis, most of us have been there. I’m so very sorry for your pain. My prayer is that God heals you in every area you hurt. May he heal all of your broken places. Remember sis this is just a season and this too shall pass! God never waste our pain, you will be able to bless someone else in the future when they too go through a trying season. Also remember if you keep God first, you will never be last! Blessings 🙏🏽
I thought I’d met the one I’d prayed for. I was committed to keeping the vows I made to God no matter what. There was a whole lotta what that did matter. God knew this and came for me. I’m forever grateful. Determined to live Gods plan A for me no matter what.
Whew! I'm mentally begging for closure each day. Drawing closer to God is giving me the strength to not break each day. This lesson was perfect timing for what I'm going through. I took many notes and will work on myself daily and apply this. Thank you!
God bless you for everything you’re doing for His people. I’ve had baggage for years that I didn’t realize could be set free. I didn’t realize the true power of Jesus cleansing your heart and soul. I figured I had to power through and ignore it. Thank you. These things hurt and I may not be strong enough to get through, but you’ve been used by God so much!! So much, I was shown how evil the things I was holding on to actually were. Thank you. I’m still allowing God to fix my wounds but for now, thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you God. I’ve realized I was truly never completely set free.
Answered prayers. I needed this today even though I didn’t realize that I did. I’ve experienced the wave after wave of betrayal and departure from those I cared about. This morning I prayed for God to order my steps for the day and He lead me to this sermon. Amazingly, I listened thinking the message was about something else and instead, it was the exact thing God needed me to hear. Hit me straight to the core of my heart where I still need to heal. Thank you Pastor Flowers for such a timely message.
To this day, I still pray asking the Lord to order my steps and my stops ever since this life-changing message. So humbling and freeing all at the same time.
I didn't get closure. But thanks be to God. I am asking Him to otder my steps. He knows and cates about everthong that concer s me and He wio perfect it all. Praises forever more. ❤🙏 🙏❤🙏🙏
Lord Jesus I seek you everyday please find me. Both of my sons have special needs and I struggle desperately trying my best to support them as a single mom. I put my children first, no matter how tired I am. Jesus continues to give me strength to keep going. Lord as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries please save me from this vicious cycle.❤️
I’ve seen this sermon the other day and thought, “ I’ll wait another day and watch it.” Not really knowing what the sermon was about, I clicked on it after a loooong morning. And when he got into betrayal, and forgiveness, I knew this was for me. My coworker did some shady stuff after me helping them and tried to make me look bad. Thank God, my director is a man of faith and he knows who I am and knew that it wasn’t true but, he still has to go over the situation with me. But this sermon was on point! I needed this today Mr. Flowers! I’m glad I waited to watch this sermon till the right time.
Self betrayal is the worst. When what you did caused your own situation and damage to yourself and the only person to blame is yourself. I'm struggling because my present and future seems so bleak but at the same time I'm blessed beyond measure.
Wow this speaks so clearly. My ex husband who is a minister abandoned our marriage and never gave me answers. My best friend of 16 years left me to go through this alone. So many other friends turned away from me in this time. So confusing and painful.
#IT'S BETTER GLORY TO GOD,THANK YOU JESUS 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 YOU TALKING TO ME BRO/PASTOR. GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY AND PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE KEEP ON KEEPING ON DOING THE BLESSED THANG 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜!!!!!!!
Wisdom is worth more than money & rubies 🥲 Man I have some unhealed trauma with my father figures & I don’t want to be so closed to marriage or men in general because of it. As soon as they disappoint on little things I’m too hard on them (internally). How am I going to get married like that? 💯 Jesus help me please!
“The wrong people have a way of teaching us the right lessons” A word!!!
"Waiting for an apology that is never going to arrive is going to keep you in a place where you never depart." That just freed me!🙌🏽
riii at the end of the day let them have it
You can't expect Healing in the same place you were broken. 🙌🏾
Preach 🙏🙌
I heard someone say”if God removes someone from your life he heard their conversations”
I didn't sleep for 6 months, replaying the situations over and over. This journey is not for the weak
Please let it go for your health and sanity. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you release it ❤
😢
Oh man. And I thought I was bad. It was the same for me 20 days straight no sleep, had to get on medication and go to a crisis center. I had a mental breakdown. I was a zombie' depressed, eventually had to take off work. God brought me out of that. I'm still trying to recover mentally because I still deal with occasional anxiety attacks. Nothing as bad as before
I used to cry every time I took a shower because all the painful memories would replay when everything external, was silent. Quiet moment in the car, Memories. Quiet moments in the shower, memories. Quiet moments while im waiting in line, memories. I couldn’t escape what my brain was trying to process
The Fther will expose people's hearts towards you, so you know who or who not to bring with you to the next level. If you can't properly discern separation is needed, the Father will intervene and assist! 🙌🏾 Growth hurts 😖
This!
Word
Amen!! I didn’t get closure but I’m ready for what God has for me!
The Father will sever relationships that hinder you and keep you from your destiny. If it or they were needed, the Father would permit the connection. 🙏🏾
This is stated perfectly!!
Listennnnnnnnnnnnnn hereeeeee! Your destiny is never tied to what left 🔥🔥🔥🔥
That was me July 2023 to around February 2024. I experienced an unexpected ending of a relationship and then found out about the lies, deceit, and betrayal that I found out about after I was out of the situation. I knew early on that closure would come from God & I couldn't look to the person who hurt & betrayed me for it. As much as it hurt, it had to happen. It birthed a new person in me with a newfound love, adoration & relationship with God. The one who hurt me said they never would do what they did but ended up doing it worse. Nonetheless, I'm grateful to God that it happened & the woman I've become. God knew he wasn't for me & got me out of the situation. I'm thankful, healing, happy & blessed. God's way is always perfect!
Same sis, I knew the man I was with wasn’t for me so God removed him in February. It brought me closer to God and I’ll forever be grateful for those lessons He allowed from my worldly ex. Bless you in the name of Jesus Christ my sister
“The person who left me is not going to come back and heal me.” Sooo good!
Destiny is not attached to what left 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The WHY belongs to
God. When God uses the wrong people, to teach you the right lessons. That's a received word.🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️
It's soooooooo much better. Stronger, Wiser, Better....Developmental Season, in EVERY PERSPECTIVE OF MY LIFE.
#GRATEFUL
God bless everyone reading this ❤
This word rocked MY WHOLE EXISTENCE. I am convinced that TODAY, I am one of the ones who especially needed to hear, remember, and heed all of this information. I turned 40 in November and what a JOURNEY it’s been!😭God bless all of you!
“Grieving is stages and not a state”!
IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER. Experiences equates to Wisdom if we let go and cast all our cares onto our Father, Abba.
I don't regret nothing of what I endured even through my new test. Not going back the vomit as a dog. God's timing and vengeance are healthier. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤
❤❤❤
Caring is the bi product of investing
God, thank You for ordering my steps and my severing, even in my grief. Even when I committed relational homicide, thank You for purifying me. What a word.
What? Homocide?
@@sixteen.candles.4644 Don't think they meant literally
I’ve been so anxious all day and really down I went through a super hurtful breakup that emotionally hurt me so bad. I prayed for god to take this feeling away from me today .. I felt the holly spirit tell me to listen to you and I stumbled on this teaching an it has truly touched me and that anxiety I’ve had all day is gone and feeling down is gone .. this message truly was for me today .. thank you 🙏🏽
Jesus will heal your heart just keep filling yourself with the Word. Going myself through a divorce after 30 years. Big hug for you ❤
Sis, most of us have been there. I’m so very sorry for your pain. My prayer is that God heals you in every area you hurt. May he heal all of your broken places. Remember sis this is just a season and this too shall pass! God never waste our pain, you will be able to bless someone else in the future when they too go through a trying season. Also remember if you keep God first, you will never be last! Blessings 🙏🏽
Wrong people can teach rightful lessons!!! ❤🎉❤😮😊
It's better! My contentment. My satisfaction. My peace. It's better! Because it's in Him and not conjured up by me.
All of the wisdom now is better than what I left🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I thought I’d met the one I’d prayed for. I was committed to keeping the vows I made to God no matter what. There was a whole lotta what that did matter. God knew this and came for me. I’m forever grateful. Determined to live Gods plan A for me no matter what.
The why belongs to God!
God, I thank you for your protection. I apologize for being quick to lose my temper when things do not go my way. Removing them was needed.
It is indeed better! All the glory to God and all he has taught me.
Burnt 🔥 bridges are light 🚨🕯️ to right path
Whew! I'm mentally begging for closure each day. Drawing closer to God is giving me the strength to not break each day. This lesson was perfect timing for what I'm going through. I took many notes and will work on myself daily and apply this. Thank you!
God bless you for everything you’re doing for His people. I’ve had baggage for years that I didn’t realize could be set free. I didn’t realize the true power of Jesus cleansing your heart and soul. I figured I had to power through and ignore it. Thank you. These things hurt and I may not be strong enough to get through, but you’ve been used by God so much!! So much, I was shown how evil the things I was holding on to actually were. Thank you. I’m still allowing God to fix my wounds but for now, thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you God. I’ve realized I was truly never completely set free.
ITS BETTER 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I didn’t get closer, but I was able to seek God to help me process it and move on!
Answered prayers. I needed this today even though I didn’t realize that I did. I’ve experienced the wave after wave of betrayal and departure from those I cared about. This morning I prayed for God to order my steps for the day and He lead me to this sermon. Amazingly, I listened thinking the message was about something else and instead, it was the exact thing God needed me to hear. Hit me straight to the core of my heart where I still need to heal. Thank you Pastor Flowers for such a timely message.
To this day, I still pray asking the Lord to order my steps and my stops ever since this life-changing message. So humbling and freeing all at the same time.
Thank you
Lord I need this to release. I understand quit looking for closer people hurts me.
❤🙏
I cannot wait for that day... ❤
IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER!!!
I didn't get closure. But thanks be to God. I am asking Him to otder my steps. He knows and cates about everthong that concer s me and He wio perfect it all. Praises forever more. ❤🙏 🙏❤🙏🙏
Ordered steps & stops...thank you Father for every lesson - no other help I know 🙏🏽
When you said, "somebody's eyes are filled with tears"...mine were at that exact moment!!
Lord Jesus I seek you everyday please find me. Both of my sons have special needs and I struggle desperately trying my best to support them as a single mom. I put my children first, no matter how tired I am. Jesus continues to give me strength to keep going. Lord as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries please save me from this vicious cycle.❤️
Thank you, Pastor Flowers 🫢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 So true and AMEN!!!
Yesssss! It's BETTER!!!
So many gems in this lesson!🙏🏼
It's better!🙌🏾🙏🏾
It’s getting better ! Yessss
Oh I hear u loud Mr Flowers 🔥🔥🔥😭
I’ve seen this sermon the other day and thought, “ I’ll wait another day and watch it.” Not really knowing what the sermon was about, I clicked on it after a loooong morning. And when he got into betrayal, and forgiveness, I knew this was for me. My coworker did some shady stuff after me helping them and tried to make me look bad. Thank God, my director is a man of faith and he knows who I am and knew that it wasn’t true but, he still has to go over the situation with me. But this sermon was on point! I needed this today Mr. Flowers! I’m glad I waited to watch this sermon till the right time.
Its Better! 🙌🏼
Thank you for this. I am going to listen to this again 🎉❤
Oh how I needed to hear this message. Thank you 🙏🏽
It’s BETTER 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾ALL THE WISDOM I HAVE NOW IS DUE TO MY EXPERIENCE. Betrayal don’t shock me NO MORE
IT'S BETTER👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Wow powerful I needed to hear this 🙏🏾💜💪🏾Amen Hallelujah Thank you 🙏🏾
2018 was my year as well 😢. Lost my husband of 19 months. God molded, shape and turned me into a wonderful WOG ( woman of God). I love the new me❤❤
I didn’t get closer!
I need to get to a place... relationships never die due to natural causes!!! Wow..God needed that to be purified 🙏🌹
I did'nt get closure. ❤🙏
Amen brother 🙏🏾💯
Come on I'm Listening... Pain is really numb to me these days...Speak to me holy spirit.
My God! 😭🙏🏻
Good message, thank you holy spirit
Glory be to God
Amen 🙌🙏 🔥
It’s Better than before🙏🏼🙌🏼
It’s better! Amen
#PraiseJesus Amen
Whewwwwww, Thank you❤️
I didn't get closer,on alot of things. 🥺🙏
Thank You Jesus. I hear you speaking to me
It's better Amen❤
Oh my word this is good, this is exactly what I needed 🙌
Hallelujah he gone & my everything I have experienced is so much Better!!
My goodness this bless me so much!,,,,,,❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's better!!!!
Self betrayal is the worst. When what you did caused your own situation and damage to yourself and the only person to blame is yourself. I'm struggling because my present and future seems so bleak but at the same time I'm blessed beyond measure.
Hallelujah
IT'S BETTER!
SEVERING
I really needed this message today. Thank you
I didn’t get closure ‼️
Treat my wound Lord
Thank God for the things that He stop from happen and the things and people He cut off… His plans are better than mine🙌🏾
This has me crying.
I didn't get closure. "Desired closure prolongs grief. Grieving is a stage(s), not meant to be a state!"
Thank you ❤
Wow this speaks so clearly. My ex husband who is a minister abandoned our marriage and never gave me answers. My best friend of 16 years left me to go through this alone. So many other friends turned away from me in this time. So confusing and painful.
#IT'S BETTER GLORY TO GOD,THANK YOU JESUS 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 YOU TALKING TO ME BRO/PASTOR. GOD BLESS YOU AND THE FAMILY AND PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE KEEP ON KEEPING ON DOING THE BLESSED THANG 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜!!!!!!!
Wow!!! You are talking to me!!!!!
A much needed message.
It’s better!
It's better...😊
Say that 🎉🎉
Yes! You are talking to me.
Wisdom is worth more than money & rubies 🥲 Man I have some unhealed trauma with my father figures & I don’t want to be so closed to marriage or men in general because of it. As soon as they disappoint on little things I’m too hard on them (internally). How am I going to get married like that? 💯 Jesus help me please!
It's Better
AMENNN I needed this ❤️🙏🏾
ITS BETTER !!!!!
Listennnnnnnnnnnn!