Missing 8-year-old girl from Vallejo defies all odds, now 24 | KTVU
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- A Vallejo woman is talking about surviving her kidnap and abuse by convicted child murderer Curtis Dean Anderson when she was 8 years old. Midsi Sanchez is now 24 and works with families of other missing children.
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You could clearly see the pain in her eyes when everyone was singing happy birthday to her.
me 2 😭
You really can. And after he'd made her drink alcohol, abused her, and who knows what else. Heartbreaking.
Me 2 😢😢😢😢😢😢🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭
3:45 She's feeling all the love that they are showing to her
and she's moved and touched.
Edit
Many people have told me that she's crying because she's traumatized.
I may be wrong, but this how it seemed to me.
I would have been touched by the support and love of all these people.
I really wish they would have done it more low key..i mean its clear ro see she wasnt really ready for all that. I know her parents had the very best intentions but even she said herself she was not ok at that moment. Just wrap her up safe in ur house and let her heal b4 throwing her infront of a ton of people. She just went thru hell and back and is emotionally spent. Heat breaks for that hurt little girl. Glad shes doing better now
Poor thing, she looked so traumatized when everyone was singing happy birthday after she was found
That part broke my heart. I couldn’t hold in my tears...
Tears of joy and relief. God gave her wings that day. It may have been overwhelming, on the other hand. That kid need to see the village of love. It helps with the monotony later down the road.
Arianna Rose yer, adults are SO BLIND & IGNORANT to children’s Pain, adults ONLY CARE ABOUT BEING HAPPY.
checkoutmyballz yet her terror is valid
When I saw that she looked so unhappy I wanted to yell at the grownups "Wake up!"
Did anyone else think she just escaped at 24??
Peggy Sue yes I did too.
Peggy Sue mhm
At first yeah.
it was clickbait
Sarah What to you mean?
Seeing her as a baby after she was kidnapped, crying while everyone sang to her made me cry. That poor baby was reliving what happened. I'm so glad she is safe.
@@GameRunnerd Are you okay? lol
Oh me too. So sad
@@GameRunnerd Who hurt you??
@@Mimiiix She was like 5 years old that is a baby if you ever have kids trust me that's a baby I currently have an 8-year-old a 5 year old and a 3-year-old and they are all babies
@@Mimiiix Again my baby is 8. If you ever have kids you'll understand
kids really called her “the kidnapped girl”? that’s so sick.
Kids bullied her too. You see how kids are to each other? Why is that?
@@paulden3158 human nature...it's in the dna...our savage side.
Kids are so evil these days.
Kids used to call me Elmira from this show called the tiny toon adventures because I used to run around kissing boys, thought it was funny.
Alexa Krznaric exactly. they act like its something she can control
She doesn't realize how many other little girls she saved from this monster by escaping and having him arrested. Be strong lady! you did good!
lash him until his skin peels off his back
So true. She saved lives.
BEAUTIFUL girl. You did great XX 💜🌹
Yep
@Trinexx007 Yay!!
Poor babe. She was clearly traumatized. Parading her around for her birthday celebration when she was so clearly distressed.
Heartbreaking
That was my reaction, too. While the people were well-intentioned, it was the worst thing they could have done to expose her like that. She learned immediately that she had to smile and hide her pain, which is one of the reasons she turned to drugs and alcohol to deal with her pain.
That's what i thought. Her parents were happy i get it. Also folks might have helped to look for her and parents wanted to share their happiness of finding her. But it wasn't the best for her of course. You can clearly see that on her face.
@@freespiritable yeah they're just celebrating her return.
She was so incredibly traumatized, what were they thinking?
Dear Midsi, you'll never see this but I am so proud of you! You aren't a victim! You are a survivor!
Yep!!! & She’s a winner!!! 🙌💪🤗. She’s so strong!!! I’m praying she stays strong. ✝️
She surely is!🤍🤍🤍
@@lynamor2959 winner how? By crashing her car into a drunkard haze (and risking the lives of others)? Or by impregnating herself while drunk?
She shore is so proud of her 🙏🏾
She is a strong woman, I wish all the happiness for her 🙌💖
*Adults never need a child's help!!* Normal people don't ask children for help, and I have drilled that into my kids head since she was old enough to comprehend. If an adult asks you to help find his puppy or kitten, you run. If they ask for directions, you run. If the stop next to you, you run. If they talk to you, you run. Adults have no business talking to children in the absence of other adults. Period.
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And definitely not duct tape!!!!
Yes! And with all the human trafficking going on, I want to say that real men in distress will never even approach a single lone female or even a group of women for help, esp in some dark corner of a parking lot. A man with good intentions will not ask you to help him in any way, but esp not driving him somewhere.
Nunya Bidness my dad taught me the same thing! He always told me that adults have no reason to ask children for help and to scream and run.
Wittney R I approached a man in distress in a dark parking lot this summer and he was so shocked by it he didn’t speak at first. I had been sitting on the curb in the far corner of a parking lot smoking while my husband was inside paying for gas and the man pulled in with his muffler scraping against the ground and towing a boat. I knew we had metal zip ties in my truck so I walked over and grabbed one. When I walked up to him he was under the car so I crouched down and offered it to him. He was so shocked that I was there so quickly with exactly what he needed that at first he just stared at me with his mouth open but quickly thanked me profusely. I’m sure he thought I was a guardian angel the way he looked at me. I’m sure it wasn’t the smartest thing to do but I saw a person in need and I had the perfect solution so I couldn’t resist. Him being under the car seemed like a safe enough opportunity to approach him. But I could tell he didn’t want my help at first.
He destroyed her life. I'm glad she claimed it back.
new channel f it had not happened to her she would not have found her calling in life. It can be so hard to accept hardships, but we must look for the silver lining.
@@brendareed5050 that does not justify the kidnapping and killing of 15 children nonetheless.
Daniel I agree with you, however that’s not the point I was making. Nothing can justify the intentional killing of people.
@@brendareed5050 Regardless of being kidnapped or not, she would've found some calling in life, just a different one. I agree that some good, can come out of bad things, but you don't need bad things to make good things either.
Daniel I agree with your points. I would add that she has a calling that is very personal and passionate and because of that she will most likely excel at helping others in a way that could not be obtained from on the job training or from studying for a degree. Thanks for having healthy dialog with me.
Ladies, ALWAYS trust your gut instinct. It is NEVER wrong.
Sharon Newsome very very true
I owned a a western Store and a female customer came in and I immediately knew I had to get her out of my store. I had several other customers. She shopped and spent $800.00. She had lots of ID. Turns out it was all stolen as well as her . car.About a month later I had a colt being operated on and was just killing time when I visited another Western Store. There she was pulling a scam on them. I got the owners attention and he called the law. She had a 357 magnum in her purse. Rifle in the car, drugs, money, drug scales and jewelry. $300. a day drug habit. I got some of my money back. Her brother had put his house up for bond on an armed robbery charge and was about to lose it but didn't as she was brought to justice. Never ignore your gut instinct.
TRUE! This is so important!!! If someone seems off, get out immediately!
its true ...the say the stomech is a second brain
Men aren’t included?
Blessings to her and all the victims. I can empathize because I was sexually abused from the time I was 8 until I was 11 1/2 by my mother's live in boyfriend who threatened to kill my mother, brothers and dog if I told anyone. I struggled with the aftermath until I was in my late 40's. My prayers go out to all victims and their families around the world. 🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💙🙏🏼🧡🙏🏼💛🙏🏼💚🙏🏼
Prayers im sorry u went thru that fam
I wish I could kill the creep who did that to you. It wasn't your fault. Blessing to you and all the survivors
This is also my story. I am 22 now as of last week April 9th. I was abused by my mothers boyfriend from 7-11 years old. I wish you the best in your life and hope you are doing good. Much love to you 💕
Same atory here only God could heal my life and has ! It took a long time and oh how self destructive I was. Hope all is well with you as well.
I’m so sorry that happened to you
Who bullied her?! I just wanna talk
Cj Joanna lmao
We gonna have a nice talk... No there is no reason there is a gun on the table, no need to worry...
@@caitlynn.rose825 😭😭😭
butters 1159 you’re weird
@butters 1159 I are confused
After unlocking the padlock, Midsi jumped out of the car and started running, with Anderson yelling at her to come back. She spotted a truck driver, who slowed down and according to a news story, Midsi literally launched herself into the air to get into the truck. The truck driver, Carl Tafua, called in the abductor's license plate number, and 39-year-old Curtis Dean Anderson was arrested. That tiny little girl was her own hero that day :)
Thanks for sharing the rest of the story
Rochelle when you say; “God was there to protect her.” You do mean well, you mean ( it’s amazing she made it out alive.) right? Cause honestly it was a miracle. God is amazing and he always is with us, even when we are not fortunate in these worlds eyes. Those 15 other girls that were killed God was protecting them, not just from this monster, but from the future they would have to face. So when you said “God was protecting her, the families of those that weren’t so fortunate in our world, feel crushed. Like if God wasn’t protecting them. Though I know what you meant. It’s so sad and my heart aches.
Thank you for telling the rest of the story.
Elizabeth Culver Edwards thank you, I think that is probably important for her that we know that.
Hot Chilips exactly my thought 🤦🏽♀️
Her crying while they sing happy birthday broke my heart ❤️ God bless Midsi and her children forever.
it is so sad to see her not in any way in a good place to celebrate and no one around her gets how much she's been through
So sad 💔💔💔she was broken
Me too, I did one of those immediate heave cries where you almost gasp. I'm sure you can relate. But what an inspiration she is!
@@TheTechnofu Even her dad is smiling, like it's a happy time for her. Wtf??
💔💔💔💔💔
I know everyone meant well when they sang happy birthday to her, but you could see she was so traumatized and that it wasn’t what she needed in that moment. 😞 Everyone was just happy to have her back, but she was hurting. It’s heartbreaking to know that what happened to her dictated how her life would play out. You can still see the sadness and pain unfortunately.
I saw the same thing. She was hurting, in pain. I think she needed something different then the whole gang singing happy birthday
Two girls go missing in your town around the same age as your daughter and you let her walk home alone from school? 🤔
L.R_ 3131 Rite how responsible.... me as a mother of a child that age or any age knowing that I would have pick her up from school every single day and none of that would have happened... my mom would pick my niece up of nine years from school every single day until the last day of school she walked home a few times tworsed the end school and few times but once we heard that there was a blue Ford F-150 being a creep and talking to little girls we went to pick her up every day from school some things are so easily avoided with proper responsibility and it takes so little effort she would have where endured that horrible misery if that would have been the case.....
😳😡🤬😬 I agree
Y'all forgetting this was years ago. Back when it was ok to drink from the garden hose
Tayler Baljer is it not ok to drink from a garden hose?! Lol I’m behind on information.
Tayler Baljer - are you mental lol? Drinking from a garden hose and not letting your child walk home alone because you know there’s a child killer are 2 different things and have nothing to do with what year it is. The parents were just straight up careless.
Misleading title, sounds like she was kidnapped at 8yrs old and escaped when she was 24
It had a comma saying, now 24
Toronto yea
Agreed!
It does
Ikr
i will NEVER allow my children to walk home from school. it’s not because of them, it’s because of the insane people in this world.
julia So strange... in Japan, they don’t have to worry about kids being kidnap
Q Huynh well this isn’t Japan. So.
@@Ducky_logan Not exactly true. I can think of a couple of child killers from the news a few years ago, but it is true that the incidence of crime, overall, is much lower in Japan than in the states.
Oh my I completely agree. You just cant trust anyone. Even in the small town I live in you really dont know. Not even your neighbor. Even if I had to work I'd pay someone to take the from school to home.
julia same me .
What a sweet baby. My heart broke seeing her cry when celebrating her birthday after escaping. So glad she’s still alive.
When her dad was carrying her while she was crying at her birthday party broke my heart
Sophia the parents are to blame the idiots let her walk alone few miles alone from school daily at 8y old ,this would never happen if the parents were more protective
@@The-Sigma-Principle I totally agree, unfortunately there are parents out there who are to complacent about safety and think " it will never happen to me" I don't even let my 8year old step outside for a min whilst she's waiting for me to get ready,my motto is and has always been (eyes on at all times) it only takes one second for your whole world to crumble !!
@@lucylui1682 how come you speak the foreigner language ?😱 Traitor of CCP 🤣
I cried watching it.
petros computers it is NOT their fault. It’s that man’s fault. People like him are why parents have to be so protective in the first place.
Prison isn't enough for him
Timotius _10 I know because he’ll be in segregation and won’t have to be beat by other prisoners
Did u guys even watch the video? He died 11 years ago from kidney failure
Wig Snatcher 😂 I guess not lol
@@pia_mater Thank you !!😊
He died in prison.. cancer I believe.
This just made me open my eyes that I should be grateful to a complete stranger.
In yr 8 ( england school ) I was walking to my friends house to walk to school with her. This guy asked what time it was but he whispered it so I couldn't hear. So me being the innocent 13 yr old I was kept getting closer to try and hear what he was asking me really quietly. This other man could obviously see what was going and realised something was off so he ran up and told him the time coz he could hear from were he was standing.
Looking back now if it wasnt for that other man I probably wouldnt have made it 3 more doors up to my friends house.
Thankyou to that man!
unicorns forever I am so glad that man helped you ❤️
absolutely without a doubt
Innocent at 13 ?? Damn different times now :p
@@GloopyCowScoops it was only a few years ago. I'm not old 😂. He just wanted the time and I dont have the best hearing so I didn't think much of it. I'm not innocent normally
@@user-ox6yt3wr8n Tbh I didnt think u would be that old lol I just thought it was an innocent act 🤣
I just can’t imagine being a child and experiencing something so dark, disturbing, surreal- you lose all childlike hope and sight of the good things in life. I’m so glad that she got her life back eventually ❤️
More good in this world then bad you just don’t hear about it but it’s out there,
I’ll never understand how those amazing people who see a child and bringing them home aren’t recognized on the news, it’s not fair
It’s just not fair
I'm glad she could find happiness again, if she was my daugther I wouldn't know what to do, but I would totally support her, listen to her and love her with all my heart so she could leave the bad things behind and start again.
I'm not blaming her. I am blaming him. but as a parent I never would let my children walk home alone at that age
Yes especially if girls her age are going missing
@T. D I thought the same.
Right..
If you don't ride the bus you walk home. Most of the time all the kids are walking at the same time. Except if your a little late then your alone. That's why he sat in his car watching. It happened to me. I was just a little later then i was the only one. The guy got out of his car and asked for help. I emediately turned and ran for blocks! He was obviously too lazy to run. We need to demonstrate to our kids to not help anyone and to leave that to the adults and run!
I'm n my 30s and wow have I seen things change since I was a little girl!!! Grew up n a small town we left our doors unlocked....NOT TODAY!!! Shit no matter where you live these days it's bad!!!
THE GUY GOT 300 YEARS OF PRISON!!! LMAO!
Nessa Vlogs im deadd😂😭
Jose Montserrat no he's dead lol
Nessa Vlogs
They should’ve just said life in prison XD
So he needed death!
They do that so they wont have any chance of being released. 300 years basically equals to 150 years everything is cut down in half and that could be reduced even more with good behavior or if you have dumbass professionals saying they are well enough to function in society again.
If this were my young daughter, I would do three things. 1. Therapy 2. Move. In Vallejo, the school, the buildings, the walk home, the people all remind her of what happened. On top of that, being bullied. Move. 3. Get her a big dog.
EXACTLY what I was thinking. And the big dog definitely.
Vallejo back in 99 was one last affordable town in SF Bay area. Other towns were being upgraded, and thus more expensive. Vallejo was a hispanic enclave.
my desire yeah I mean heaven forbid they have to sacrifice or be uncomfortable...their little girl was probably repeatedly raped...but WTH
@@georgiayoung9124 You're assuming they had the financial means.
The big dog is the most important component lol.
Running saved my life. I was close to being kidnapped myself. I went to the same school as her, and lived around the corner from her house. Luckily, I was walking home from school with my Grandma. She was not too far behind me, so as soon as he tried to talk to me, my whole being told me to RUN. I ran back to my Grandma as fast as I could and told her right away. My Mom and I went to report it to the school and we filed a police report. Then shortly after, she was kidnapped. I'm happy that she's doing better and that she's helping those who went through what she did. ❤
R.I.P. to the ones who didn't make it. 🙏
Omg are you serious ? Wow
@@CCC9437 Yeah, very serious. He was one sick bastard. Fortunately, he is now in hell paying for what he did.
I had a similar situation happen also. The kidnapper/rapist, got my friend and I ran, screaming for her to RUN!! You have survivors guilt in some cases.
@@missnovelera1 oh wow so glad you are ok were you friends with this girl already forgot her name
@@aprilnewton_xThank you. We just went to the same elementary school and I lived around the corner from her house... didn't really get the chance to be her friend, I moved.
Holy shit. Why have I never even heard of this girl until now. Amazing survivor
Unless you're from that city u probably never saw it on the news. Back th hen you tube didnt exist
Language
Because she’s not white duhhhhh!!!!
HideBehindMy Username She is white… she’s clearly not black or Asian lmao
I live in Vallejo now, but didn't years ago when this happened. Never heard that the town had a serial killer. Know there was a murder from the Zodiac killer (unless it was over the town boundary and in Benicia). Glad the girl, now a woman, escaped and is doing well.
Getting kidnapped your on your bday? 😩
The absolute worst.
Survival guilt is a real, and powerful emotion. I lived in California when this was all going on; and I remember seeing the newscasts regarding the missing girls. I’m thrilled to see she’s doing well now.
Me too
Poor girl
Oh my goodness , by the thumbnail I thought she was kidnapped UNTIL she was 24. Thank goodness she escaped quickly. The PTSD that kidnapping caused her, as well as the insensitivity of kids at her school, really infuriated me. I’m glad she was able to recover from these harrowing experiences, and is now living her life well for the sake of her daughter.
Yep
So did I.
I think all those people there and singing happy birthday to her right after she came home and was traumatized was too overwhelming for her. I'm sure her parents and the other people meant well and they were just happy to see her but it doesn't look like she was at all ready for that. You can see it in her eyes. She just wants to be home comforted by her parents and not seen by all those people.
JC JNT I thought exactly the same thing, she was traumatised, I guess they didn't know the poor girl had been abused at that stage but her poor little face broke my heart, she just needed her family.
At least she seems well adjusted now and has done so much with her life and with helping others.
I think she would have felt just as traumatized coming home either way and maybe sad that she missed her birthday party. That is what she was looking forward to when she was taken.
I freaking agree! They should've given her space and allowed her to be alone with her family and heal from the fear.
Nothing like a party to break up the monotony. Tears of joy and relief on that child's face. Nothing better than the love of a village.
Imagine how many lives she saved by getting away from him...I hope she knows what an amazing person she is♥️
i didn't think of that but you are right. she saved every one he would have taken after her.
I work as delivery driver for Doordash and I always keep my eyes open for any ANY! suspicious people that mean no good.
Stay safe, please! I (a female) always wanted to get a 2nd job delivering pizzas or something like that. I never had enough nerve cuz I knew I'd have to go to someone's front door. Who knows who and what and how many are inside? Once that doors opens, it's very easy to just pull you in, then you're stuck and at their mercy. Maybe you should call someone at each delivery stop, let them know you're going up to the door, let them know you got back to the car. It would probably get old after a while. The person might fall asleep and not answer, then not know til it's too late that anything happened. Nothing is foolproof. I thought about taking my dog (pit bull/rottweiler), but they could pull me in quick and leave my dog on the porch, poison/kill my dog. I wish it could be safer. I hope you are safe. I just realized you're a male after I wrote this. Now I feel stupid, but you still need to be careful. You're carrying money, and people know that. Be safe.
With her brave escape she saved so many other little girls and their families from devastation. My heart breaks for the little angels that didn’t make it home.
“Survivors guilt” will eat a person up from the inside out😔 God Bless You & your sweet daughter 🙏❤️ ALL anyone wants is for you to be happy sweetheart, please take the burden of “having to make your life 100 times better & live beyond expectations, due to the children that didn’t make it home” off your shoulders, You are wonderful as just “you” & your happiness IS ENOUGH!!!! 🙏😘❤️
Susan Hughan
Yep I have to agree with you when my mother and her friend got hit by a truck back home in Labrador her friend died Within half an hour and Mom still has trouble letting go of it very sad situation indeed
Donna Cabot God Bless your Mom🙏❤️ somethings are out of our control-
Beautifully said. I felt the same you just articulated it better ♥
Hope alot look at some drug takers n understand they have a story too.....
Susan yes ! I agree with everything you’ve just said 🙌🏻💯
He was sentenced 300 years in prison-
I never understand sentences like that like why not just life????
@@JessssssssJesssss I've seen one where it was four "life + 3 years" sentences. idk how you outlive a life sentence, let alone 4 of them.
omg-
@@JessssssssJesssss it's all the charges compiled together
@@colby__3185 Parole for good behavior.
This bothered me so, seeing the anguish on her little face, I know when a child is found ppl want to see them to be a part of the joy...she was abused, her family should have had the place cleared for her homecoming. She was not ready to be put in the spot light after all she went through..l just want to hug her..
Abused by the kidnapper, then abused by the parents.... what a day
I agree, that big crowd and people shouting and cheering/singing must have been so over whelming and scary for that little girl! 💔
@@annk5341 bruh how can u call that abuse
@ ok [WR]
Neglect IS a mild form of abuse!
Parents were neglectful by:
1.) Leaving her to walk alone at only 8 yrs old.
2.) Not properly teaching her about "stranger danger".
3.) Not considering her mental/emotional state when continuing with plans for (large) birthday party, as if nothing happened - even continued cheerfully singing while she was crying!
4.) Apparently never got her the counseling she obviously needed, as a child or teen.
@@joijuaire-darfler4614 Amen. There was NO EXCUSE for her to be walking alone in this dangerous area. The mom was at home!!! WHYYYY DIDNT THE MOM PICK UP THE CHILD? Or walk with the child home ? The parents are neglectful and abusive for sure. Something seriously wrong with them.
PTSD is sooo hard to deal with and I applaud her for being her own hero!
When I was 5 years old I was riding my bike on the street where I lived. It was a semi busy road and I was at a corner where it intersected a cul-de-sac. A man in a big brown van pulled up to the side of the road and leaned over a bit, rolling down his passenger window. "Hey little girl, do you know if this is Union Ave?" He asked, glancing from side to side. "Yes" I said "you're on Union Ave" "What?" the man replied, " I didn't hear you can you come a little closer?" I took two steps closer and he asked again. I could see him sliding across towards the door, his hand outstretched for the handle. I pointed to the street sign which was clearly just a few feet from where his truck was, it was clearly in his view . After the second time he asked me to come closer I got on my bike and peddled as fast as I could home, he sped away, tires screeching as he pulled off. That man was going to abduct me. My mother always told me no matter what someone says, even if they tell you, your mother is in the hospital and she's dying; she sent me to get you; you have to come with me right now... do not believe them! Never under any circumstances go with a stranger. If my mom hadn't taught me that, I might not be here today. Now that I have a daughter myself, I know to tell her the same thing. For years I would ride my bike past those tire marks in the street and a chill would run up my spine.
Wow i am so happy, you are here today
Thanking God that you were saved.
Wow ,something close to that happened to me also .It seems being a girl we all have to deal with sick males at least once in our lives .So unnatural 😞
Oh, thank god!
1st and foremost you should thank GOD for getting a mother who gives you a very very good advice
off topic but she’s gorgeous.
@NONYA Business um, no it doesn't but i'm allowed to notice her beauty lmao?
6:00 “Why me?”
Midsi, you lived because YOU wanted to. It wasn’t luck, it was courage and resilience. YOU not only saved yourself, but YOU avenged Xiana, Amber, and everyone else he hurt and prevented him from hurting and taking the lives of more people which he surely would had if not for YOU. Now you turned that hurt around to help, mentor, comfort, and support others going through similar traumatic experiences.You aren’t broken but stronger and more durable than most people on this planet. You are not just a survivor, but a HERO.
The world may seem hard to stay on sometimes because of all the darkness and cruelty from some people, but it’s also worth staying on because of the light from people like YOU. Thank you.
Stay alive.
daw that was beautiful
I am really glad i saw your comment ❤
Ah and the other girls wanted to be killed did they
@Mnemesister that is not what they were saying at all. that is how you took it.
@Mnemesister agreed
That is amazing. I'm so glad you survived. Your PTSD must have been through the roof. I'm so sorry you took it out on yourself. I'm so glad your life is different now. You've finally begun to heal. I'm so sorry baby because I know your pain will never go entirely away. But thank God you found a way to thrive anyway. I hope the man that did this to you receives a death sentence for destroying the person you might have been had he not stolen your Innocence. Hold your baby close. 💜
She was so cute when she was little 🥺
She was. Now she's Beautiful.
@@beckah119 and safe
@Kylie Richardson ok then ima say you were ugly when you were little😱
She still is..
She IS cute...tf?
Imagine hurting anything that’s sweet and innocent. I couldn’t live with myself.
What an amazing girl. I'm so happy she was able to get past her demons. I don't think anyone would blame her for her self destructive behavior. I'm glad she found her inner strength and used it to be a great mom and support for other girls and parents of missing kids. What an inspiration!
Yesss I agree. Shes got a beautiful soul.
"This is what I am here for, this is my purpose" after being kidnapped this woman decided to consider helping others to find missing childrens as her purpose, it's just an amazing fact to see this woman finding her purpose in life in the thing that causes her pain the most, well done nice and courageous lady well done.
always
trust
your
gut
*please guys*
you hear so many stories about “my gut told me-“
*do it* please it could save you so much pain and heartbreak and everything else.
it doesn’t matter the situation, anything and everything can happen.
*trust your gut.*
jolie quinn trust your knowledge that tells you I don’t have
To listen to this adult. Our feelings make us show compassion to that man that is looking for a puppy or needs some kind of help.
I once trusted my gut it didn’t turn out well
She was walking home alone at 8 years old. Oh my.
I did think the same
I started to walk home alone at 9 in a half, I’m 14 now. My elementary school was 2 blocks from my house and my mom would watch me through the window until she knew I was at school. Then she stopped watching because I was getting older. Then I graduated and started middle school. I remember I was a bit scared to go to school by myself the first day but eventually it was easy and I wasn’t worried thinking what if I was lost. I think parents should start to let them walk alone but also keep an eye out yk? I mean anything could have happened to me while crossing the streets going to school, luckily my mom was still able to see me but from a distance. It’s good she would let me become independent but also make sure I was safe.
I was walking home at 6 alone. My parents had to work to put food on the table.
i walked alone to school at 5
And parents still allow it 🤦🏻♀️
"The kidnapped girl" I can't believe they called her that even tho she literally just saved so many girls from getting kidnapped
All my love goes to you bbg 🥺🥺💜💜💜💜💜
Growing up in Vallejo, I walked to school and used to cut through an area where I could've been easily kidnapped. To this day, I think about how fortunate I am. Glad this girl got away and my condolences to the victim's families.
Why would her mother allow her to walk ANYWHERE by herself knowing there is a child serial killer in Vallejo? SMH
Angela Villalovos exactly!! She lived so close to school she should have walked to her school everyday and picked her up smh....
Way to victim blame. Groups of children walking home is fine. Which is what happens when children leave school at the same time and start walking.
Her mother should have walked to the school to pick midsi up. Seeing the school is walking distance. I didn't have a car, so I would pick up my 8yr old daughter from school. We then would walk home together.
Corinne Marie Apparently not because she was alone that day not with a group of kids obviously 🙄 duh...
jonah's fun world Exactly it would have been so easy and simple poor girl that could have been so easily avoided....
The actual *BRAZEN, DISGUSTING AUDACITY* of him to use _duct tape_ as the item he needed her "help" with, makes my blood boil!!!!!!!!!
Brandy Ferreira why does it matter what object he used????
@@G-DORA because tape is used in to bind a victim. . . it adds an extra dimension of evil to not bother using any other item.
@@G-DORA plus who needs help from a child to pick up duct tape?!
savannah jade well it doesn't matter what excuse he used since no other excuse would make the kidnapping any better.
That was Ted Bundy's m.o. Even older girls fell for it.
Never could I raise my daughter in the same city I was kidnapped from
For all those parents out there saying "I would NEVER let my child walk home alone" well then you better NEVER let your child use social media either. How about teach your children to pay attention to their surroundings. Never letting the child out of your sight isnt going to protect them. Teach them
She's 8
@@matthewguy1155 some people shouldn't have children.
Idontknowdontask that doesn’t mean theyre not able to comprehend. Teach them young and practice it and they’ll understand it sooner.
@@imok3487 yeah but not all the time its possible. Instilling just a simple, "dont talk to a stranger" will really go a long way. A lot of victims in general went up to a stranger rather than walk away. While yes, if they really wanna harm people, they will. They also pick victims who are less hassle than others.
and frankly it's just impossible to never let your child out of your sight, maybe easier if they're under 10 but still.
Poor baby. She felt so uncomfortable at her birthday party. Im sorry this happened to you wherever u are. U are beautiful and innocent.
She doesn’t “owe” anything to anyone except herself ❤️. I wish she wouldn’t feel that way.
If she WANTS to help others….and do it in the name of those who didn’t make it, do that….but do it for love and not a sense of obligation. Sending love.
I think she feels guilty for surviving.
I think she just means that she has a purpose now.
On her birthday? Aww :c
I know right? like how fucking traumatizing that must be every year, AFTER she gets over the trauma from every day. people are disgusting. like you cannnnnooottttt just pick out a human being (little OR big!) like youre shopping for fucking groceries in a store. like tons of people have not so great impulses and they're managing to contain themselves, these people need to just be eliminated ita ridiculous and insane, there is absolutely NO logical reason whatsoever to keep a child predator alive seriously. we are blessed for the ones we are able to catch and jail, but even then they need to just be put down because if they get out there's nothing stopping them from doing it again. and I think its idiotic to put children at unnecessary risk.
@Mnemesister but she'll be traumatized every year no matter how hard her friends and family try to give her a good birthday. A day that was all about her and then was stolen from her too. What do you mean that's irrelevant? She walked away from her house to get ice or some shit knowing that she was coming back to a party a cake presents and all her friends and family there. That's unimaginable. Everyone that would protect so close in the same place yet too far away to actually be able to help do anything. And every year now She's probably like fuck that party. -__-
@Mnemesister aww has a wide array of meanings/uses
Mnemesister I don't think that's all they got but I think that's something a lot of people can understand and no obviously her parents didn't say that but yeah other people will say aww that's such a shame. Right?
Mlstin you are being way too easily offended my dude. What happened was a horrible tragedy and op’s response hurts no one. There’s lots of things to be upset about but really? Picking “awww :c” to be upset about?
I remember my mom worked next door to where Curtis dean Anderson was keeping the girl hostage.
WOW
Luis Uribe looking back on it this was a really scary time in Vallejo. My mom made contact with him several times working nights at the gas station near VHS.
Thats chilling 😱 people out there are so damn sick. I'll never understand a grown man/woman wanting to hurt the innocent like that. Adults are supposed to be here to light the way for these kids not be the cause of their nightmares to become realities....just horrible 😔😔
Yes by all means, let's make this about YOU.
@@shuttledriver3083 It's pretty obvious that that's not what that comment was about.
The pain in her eyes when she was found
You are an amazing lady , smart and all credit goes to how you have managed to make your life shine, bless you and your little girl. Big hugs
What a beautiful girl ❤
Sir Wallace of Bauer, Esq., DDS you’re disgusting
@@WallyTony lol
Sir Wallace of Bauer, Esq., DDS stfu ya piece of shit
@@WallyTony She was fucking little what do you expect. Fuck you
Who lets an 8 year old walk home alone ?
Im sure because of the community they were in they felt safe about it. Clearly that was not the case but it just goes to show that nobody is safe anywhere.
@@eggyolks3274 There's no community safe from this type of thing happening. 8 year old should never walk home alone, period.
Ivetta M still that is the same as victim blaming or blaming anyone other than the kidnapper and quite frankly, it’s an insensitive question. Besides, in the 80s and 90s - according to everyone I know - younger kids than teens (like now) apparently walked home cuz it was “safer”
@@nicoleavalon936 No that's not victim blaming. We unfortunately don't live in the world full of rainbows and unicorns. There are psychos like this abductor, you can't get rid of all of them, hence they will always be out there, with this world becoming more and more isolated it will create more and more creeps, no child should be walking home on their own especially at that age. Have you seen an 8 year old, they are babies. These abductors were always around we just never heard of them as much, because of lack social media and technology.
Ivetta M but when she was eight, a lot of younger people were walking home alone as adults like to tell me and remind me how much safer it was, which grated on my nerves especially when it’s apparently not as true as they’d like me to believe and idk they were probably exaggerating and as someone that.... was a victim of something that I don’t like to disclose, it may not be victim blaming, but it very much certainly feels that way, or like you’re putting more blame on the parents themselves than the kidnappers themselves - I know many people that do that, actually
Why didn’t her parents warn her of a predator on the loose after all 13 little girls abducted and killed in that area. Poor girls.
You can see the trauma in her eyes and face. Poor sweetheart. God bless her. ❤️🙏🏼❤️
My brother (9) said he’s gonna start walking home from school.... HE THOUUUUGGGHHHTTTTT
I don't even let my 12 yr old son walk a block home.
well im going to be honest, if your child is small or normal sized and 10 and under than be concerned but i have some hefty bigger children and they had to walk home from school. They walked together but even then id worry. They were 9 10 and 11. Life is tough. sometimes your kids have to walk.
Ann M agreed
sunkissedlotus818 ok there you need to let him he is about to be 18 in like 6 years that’s embarrassing if his friends know that
Ann M I completely understand that sometimes as a parent you come across difficulties that bring stress to taking or bringing your kid from school. :) I just choose to drop him off myself since my jobs on the way. But I get where you’re coming from
After seeing this video I noticed a pattern of children being alone as they head home or leave home. Anyone who sees this video of "traumatic" experiences that happened to these children, would rethink that the aprox 20 min from a school bus pickup or drop off, parents or a relative should just stay with their youngsters, or teenagers. Predators come in the most unlikly and unexpected way. That's why they are called that, and it includes teens. Just take care of your precious gift...your child.
THANK YOU... I AGREE!
I refused to let my kids walk to school when they were little. When my son took the school bus, i walked him to the bus stop and picked him up from there every day. Something happening to one of my kids has always been my worst fear. I was almost killed twice by the time i was 8 (living in an abusive household) so i think because of that, i always fear the worst and try so hard to protect my kids from everything. My youngest is 15 and i barely let him start walking to school by himself this year. I still worry so much though because a friend from high school's son was hit by a car crossing the street and died last year. He was 16. I know around a school it's probably even more likely to happen because there is a higher number of inexperienced teen drivers there. Then there is always the possibility of a school shooting. I just pray that God protects my kids always.
Good LivingIntuition totally agree
I’m shocked when I see kids walking to school
I have to walk with them. I would be far too worried to let them walk alone. I ran free as a kid but I had a lot of strange encounters that could’ve been really bad had I not had really good instincts. I was too friendly though.
Wheni was 12 I babysat for a family down the street but not within sight of my house. My parents let me walk to their house, but the kids dad always insisted driving me home after babysitting even though it was literally on the same street. I remember thinking it is dumb they think I need to be driven home. But now I think if I was in their place I'd do the same thing. I wouldn't want a babysitter to like vanish after leaving my house you know. And the house was on the same street but not within sight so if anything happened on the walk home no one would have seen me
This poor women, traumatized at such a young age but is so strong for sharing her story. I hope she knows how brave she is, being able to recount her experiences.
No MAN needs little GIRLS HELP FOR ANYTHING.
Good Advice to tell kids!!
No ADULT needs little KIDS HELP FOR ANYTHING
unless they are your parents 😂
what a beautiful young lady. she didn’t deserve that.
what’s it got to do with her beauty
The issue starts with allowing an 8 year old to walk home alone
The issue starts with sick fucking people
@@sienahibbard4295 Yeah exactly 😑
Kids younger than that walk home from my son's School alone. Sometimes early in the morning and their parents aren't watching their most likely asleep inside their houses.
@@kayla3618 For real?? Sounds horrible, the kids suppose 2 be a parents most precious thing.
@@Leyla7292 People have to work. I was around 7 or 8 and walked 20-30 min across town to get to school. I was alone in the morning from when i woke up to when i left for school and alone when i came home till about 5 or 6. Parents don't always have a choice and there's nothing that can be done. Sick people are the ones who are the issue not really parents because being with your kid all the time is an impossibility for some people.
I’ll never understand how a person could harm a child.
Hi, the bottom line is sin that corrupts . There are traumatic circumstances that open the door to demonic seduction of horrendous evil. Those are the ones who won't let go the person responsible. Forgiveness is healing for the one traumatized so peace calms the storm within.
There are many ways a door is opened to the realm of the demonic. In Romans 1&2, there is explanations of the minds being without conscience.
It brings clarity to the increasing violence etc.
God bless you Midsi. 💖🙏
I wouldn’t even let my son walk home when he’s 12
@ChubbyBunny Rivera I'm a 15 year old boy and I still get nervous walking alone. I do it but I usually do not like to.
ChubbyBunny Rivera Wow that sounds scary. Stay safe 🙏🏽
Your overprotected he’s not 8 12 that’s right there an overprotected parent I do not know anyone from 5 and 6 grade that are not aloud to walk alone
Wow, he’ll grow up such a man :)))
@@justenzo6342 make sure u walk with friends when ever possible if u don't have friends u can walk with just stay close to other people who are walking ur safer in groups. I'm a mother and I hate the thought of u being scared if ur scared tell ur parents I'm sure they would help if they knew this x
3:48 she looks relieved but so disraught at the same time 😭
I will never understand the amount of evilness out in the world. I can’t understand how someone can look at a child and want to cause them detrimental harm. I pray for this girl, the PTSD that she probably still deals with to this day and then to have such a pure heart to want to help others even though she’s is still dealing with it is very admirable. I am proud of her strength man this really touch my heart. I pray that god continues to use her to help other young girls and women who have experienced something like that.
I lived in the Bay Area at the time. I remember this girl and Xiana. Her escape and safe return was such a miracle, as Xiana’s murder was heartbreaking. Why would anyone want to hurt a child?
Why would you let a 2nd grader walk home from school?
Margie Grover
Is was a little different back then
Because people didn't live in compelte fear back then. Today they live in extreme over paranoid fear.
My daughter is 17 and i wont let her
We all walked home those days if we didn't ride the bus. Was normal.
That is how it was back then we walked home and our mothers were waiting for us with snacks. It was a different time.
please if you are a parent and you read this, remind your children, not to talk to strangers, to not go near cars unless you say its ok. and to tell you their secrets.. i hope through awareness less children will experience this. watch your children, please dont let them go outside alone. you should not trust a child with their precious life
. trust no one.. child abusers can look like good nieghbours on the outside. x
You should also teach your children to not keep secrets from adults and teach a respect for their bodies, as unfortunately most predators and molestors are close to the children, often even family members.
i know it wouldnt help but i wish i could hug her...
This makes me sick, who could ever kill or even hurt a kid
I escaped from a car, I just opened the door and ran into a friend's house screaming. I don't know what would of happened but this guy pulled up near my school, said my father sent him, so I got in. I started to think after I had got in the car, that it felt wrong and when I was in eyeshot of my own home and said "this is it" he turned the indicator in the wrong direction and that's when I bailed. Maybe he was my father's friend but my father never sent him. My mother was so proud of me.
JoJoZep ofthejungle that’s amazing I’m so glad you escaped
Did U jump out when the car was moving?
@@jaseysorsher9358 no of course not, his car slowed to turn, and THATS when I jumped out. I seen the chance and took it. No child could do that
@@jojozepofthejungle2655 ohh OK
@@normandyf4234 yes I learnt this first hand. My older brother, my sisters flat mate and my best friends dad all touched me inappropriately. My mother is a diagnosed narcissist and she protected my brother from prosecution. Believe me I know. Since then I have re brought myself up, love myself and have no contact with the family.
Looking into his eyes at that picture of him in court, I got chills. His evil energy is so strong.
What a wonderful story. I'm so sorry for your trauma, the injuries to your spirit were so awful. I'm so glad that you saved yourself,
and please know that you and your story make the world a better place, every day.
I am so glad my mom never let me walk home alone from school. Thank you to my parents for being overprotective.. seriously 🙏🏼
Think of how many kids she saved by saving herself! I hope she’s doing well. As a survivor of my own childhood trauma I know how hard it is to move past. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
The poor girls who got killed.. and the rest of those 13 young girls... Rest In Peace children ur in a better place I’m so sorry you never got to live your life... ❤️🥺
She desrves peace more than anybody.
There's a reason why she survived. She has purpose in life-to be a counselor and an advocate. She's also articulate, smart and brave. She should be a therapist or a lawyer or in the law enforcement type of career.
What about those other children? They simply didnt have any purpose?
@@kaeki8175 My comment focuses solely on Midsi as this video is about her.
@@kaeki8175 agreed. I don't like comments like those as it implies the other children have less reason to be alive
@@skycloud4802Did you not watch the video, troll? The video is about Midsi NOT OTHER CHILDREN. You literally came here to make irrelevant comment? You should search "Unsolved Mysteries" videos and comment there about your "other children".
Omg, poor baby!!! I'm crying now 😢She is so brave, such an inspiration
I'm so glad she found her way back. It reminds me to be empathetic to some people, because I don't know
their histories. Past trauma can screw a person up for a lifetime. She turned out a very beautiful young woman
with valuable experiences to help others. I wish her and her family a good life.
When she cried as everyone sang Happy Birthday it deeply touched my heart....poor little girl😢
Seeing her cry at her birthday party just breaks my heart 😢💔 how could idiots be cruel enough to bully her and call her ‘the kidnapped girl’??
But why was she walking home alone when she was 7 🙄🤦🏻♀️
How? She got kidnapped on her birthday..
Alli Clarke she said WHY not HOW learn how to read before you go Correcting others correct your self first.... Genius...
@@claribelcenteno5358 i literally LOL on your comment. I wish nothing but good for these survivors and I hate that there are monsters like him. Seriously
Kids back then always walked home alone. That's why helicopter parenting became a thing.
I was walking home alone when I was 7 it’s not a big deal
Makes me so sad seeing her sufferance in her look while she was back... that SO SWEET LITTLE GIRL.
It is normal she felt bad for years. I pray she gets better and better :)
I am so proud of her for taking care of herself when she found out she was pregnant and got her life together. She’s so beautiful and strong.
What a freaking smart girl.
Oh man the first video of the little girl who passed broke me in pieces, she looks a lot like my boyfriends twin sisters who I love to death, may she and all other 14 girls Rest In Peace 😔♥️
14???
@@sunkissedlotus There was another and he also said he killed 13 more
God bless you Mitzi. No one knows what you’ve been through, but you. You are here for a reason. You’re a survivor. Stay strong.