Men's Mental Health & Body Positivity In INDIA is a JOKE!
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Abhyudaya from slaypoint is good looking for me so I was shocked when I got to know people talked about his looks.
Yeaa abla nari is awesome jk he's amazing
@@gulikarathi1885 wait wasn't his name Abhishek?
*Abhyudaya
Yeah I find him good looking too
@@sohazaman14 👍👍 changed
bruh...............I'm so much insecure about my leg scars and my weight and ofcource I'm over weight and even my family made me go to depression 😮💨😖
I can understand you cause even i am going through same before pregnancy i used to look so good & healthy but after having 2 kids back to back i've put on so much weight i have acne problem after my pregnancies, i have scars on my belly🥺 still my husband says i look good i just need to work on myself but My relatives or Cousin Inlaws just keep on poking me look how much you have gained its not good for you & I am like i know i don't look good & fit now but why its bothering you now i've started giving them back their words i've stop going in family events/ family gatherings/ or any relatives house. I feel so uncomfortable so insecure within somedays i cry somedays i try to loose weight. Pray for me as well i will remember you In my prayers sister😊.
@@kulsumsayed4797 everyone is beautiful in their own way but may god give you your healthy body back just like you want it to be.
And I m look alike panda😅😅😅
@@babitatudu9234 pandas are cute
Same but its my acne scars
My boyfriend is shorter than me, but it doesn't matter because he is the best man i have ever seen, all that matters is that he is a good person and he loves me a lot, even if he wasn't handsome it won't make any difference and none of my friends ever commented on our height difference.
Omg!! Bless you guys!!
ye sb dhoka hai subah 5 baje utho sb sahi ho jayega 8)
@@mdarslan7337 dekhlo ek or life se frustrated bnda.
@@thegirl2284 drop lena chahiye toda (terrace se)
@@thegirl2284 joke mar rha hai wo:")
You're the only guy on the internet that I actually feel having the unbiased opinion.... Just loved this video ...✨
No one in this world is unbaised completely
Vedio
@@noddychak4009 what
@@anshmittal3098 yeah but still I feel among many he's
He and azooz are just the most unproblematic and enjoyable content creator in Indian TH-cam
A few weeks ago I saw this post about a man who got abused by a woman in a bar but wasn't given any proper justice. He was at a bar with his friends. A woman came up to him and tried hitting on him. He didn't reciprocate to which the woman went on to touch him inappropriately and even smacked his butt. He called the cops on her but she acted really dramatically and lied saying he was the one to touch her. He was then asked to leave the bar and never to enter the premise again. I felt really sad for him and wanted to see others' reaction and boy oh boy was i shocked! Half of the people (my guess would be they were mostly men) were making fun of him. Some called him a sissy boy for going this far with such a "light" situation. One legit commented something like "bro it was a bar..what did you expect". Some thought maybe she wasn't attractive that's why he acted like that. LIKE NO JUST NO. The situation was disgusting, the reaction was disgusting. A victim was not only unjustly removed but moreso belived that they might be the perpetrator cz of their gender. Think about it. What would've been the reaction if the victim was a woman? Men invalidates men. And it's been grinded in our psychology for so long, even us women has started taking advantage of it. It's shameful and alarming
Yes, and the sad part is that no one even bothers to talk about it..... on the contrary, some perverts mock such people saying they missed an opportunity like wtf is that supposed to mean? The society has stooped so low that people disregard feelings and emotions of others just because of their gender and don't even think back upon their actions which might have devastated that person from the inside.... as a guy I'm glad that at least some people realize this and that there is still hope. Hell, I'm commenting on this alter acc and not the main one that's the level of insecurities the social media has given me lol but i'm kinda relieved after reading this
Yaar essay na likho 😂
@@butterchicken3188 😂
@@UrityUiopGamer lmao 🤣
Ye India me hua?
Being boy is also not easy and peaceful 🙂. Mental health is so soo important.
Care for yourself ❤️
Sorry if any girl hurt you
life bruh 🙂
That's pretty normal for the man in this world
@@hirenahir76200 should not be normal
F*ck it we ball. Problems ain't gonna end anytime soon. So keep the grind on.
I was so overweight and my family started to hate me . I used to cry day and night and started avoiding everyone so, I had no other option than losing weight and reduced my food. 😖
acha hi huaa naa
But I did put on weight because of my medications, it was years later that I understood that my medicines were changing my metabolism. Dieting & exercise would just help me be fitter, but not in shedding extra fat.
I couldn’t stop the medicines & it made me feel worse about me. People would look at me & start giving tips, even suggest surgery. I was eating most healthiest food I can, I was working out more regularly, eventually it did start making difference that today I no more need medication. But I am still obese & impact of those medicines will change with time. Still I get looked over as lazy person. Only my family knows that I am most dedicated in my life in this year.
@@shinchansharma1544 jaisa naam waisi buddhi
@@Kathakathan11 stress can be a triggering factor although I'm no professional so I would suggest you to reach out a doctor and get some test done
I'm allergic to gluten and peanut(and a list of few more things) so for shedding the body I have to give up on mostly every thing it helped me in proper cycle of hormones, healthy gut and control the stress , within 2 months I started loosing and 7 months I got my goal
We can't ignore how much hormones control over female body
Take care and smile more
Same here, my fathers hatred made me lose around 30kg in a year in gym, but damn it took toll on my mental health
to all the guys out there
doesn't matter if you're short, dark, sensitive, have scars, fat, skinny etc etc just open up agar log hasenge then kuch sunenge bhi, head up kings🌷💗🕊️
edit: oki to all the people replying that the fat people should lose weight I think they are self aware and it's their choice whether they want to lose weight, and you're not in the place to tell a person how to live:)
(also for some bodies it's really hard to lose/gain weight no matter how much effort you put in so just keep in mind certain things before blindly body shaming someone)
Better solution- loose fat
Thnx for putting a smile on my face
@@daphy6686 ???
@@daphy6686 why bro, why not change ur way of thinking, why people always fit themselves to so called social norms...
badi aayi best girl kahinki
Its sad that a girl being toxic is most of the time ignored and body image issues is a big thing to men too, to the guys who feel insecure just know that you are pretty , handsome ,short king , tall king , amazing no matter how you look , love yourself k?
Keep your head up kings 💖💖
Isn't insecurity is emotional Weakness?
@@Egg-wt1pk this is why we go JIM
One thing I would like to add
You know that there may ne thousands of boys in India who may be much handsome, smart and good looking than Virat Kohli, Ranbir Kapoor, Kartik Aryan, Hardik Pandya, And other many others,
But you know why girls are mad about them because they have something special in them,
They have some skill, some talent, so it's not the looks that all matters, it's the thing that whta extra you have in your life other than just body,
I have seen girls going Mad for Zakir Khan, Kapil Sharma, why?
Because they are good looking, handsome, the answer is no, because they have some talent in them and that adds beauty to their peraonality and girls wanna date them and talk to them, take photos with them.
@CJNG boys doing women women all the time and have no other work how is it valid
Shrinkhal : i absolutely hate myself nd my body..
Meanwhile namjoon is coming to shave his eyebrows 💀
💀bruh ...i hate myself
Praying that joon will come
And there is me me who hate everything about herself please namjoon come to me 😌
Then you realize the captions were fake🙂👍🏻
@@hamburger1034 l-
@Jagdish RM, leader of BTS
I'm so glad you're talking about it Shrinkhal. People nowadays are too insecure about themselves because of social media...at this phase people should really promote body positivity. It's very easy to comment about someone's insecurities but to be that someone who makes someone's day, it takes a lot of courage.
Here's to the boys who express themselves ✨🤝🏻
You're not alone guys, express yourselves more and love yourselves. And it's alright to cry💗
Transmen have reported that they cry significantly less after transitioning, which implies that testosterone effect feeling.
Its ok to cry, even tho society don't care about us but we do, boys have brotherhood, they help each other unlike girls, they compete for nothing but validations from simps from social media
@@RANDOM-pf1ve cite your resource
shut up this is such a bad copium for boys to not improve themself
@@RANDOM-pf1ve the hell are you talking about
I'm fckin wheezing , i was watching ur vid nd my bro was near me ( he's 5 btw ) he said " ye ladka Mera dulhan banega " I cant 😭😭😭
Bruh ✨Dulhan✨ 💀
PLSSS LMFAOAOA 😭
LMAOOOOOOOOO
HELP ME
@@afratazpriyaeasha2006 bro wtf is ur user😹😹😹
Shrinkhal you are one of the most attractive men I’ve come across in the internet , the only thing that hurt me today is you saying that you are not totally happy with your physique. I do not know whether this would make any difference, but I take offence for what you said because I absolutely love and admire the way your physique is , you couldn’t be more perfect, pls love every aspect of yourself, including your body ❤❤
yes... i would absolutely eat him with chocolate sauce..yummmmm 😛👅
Simping hard
Bruh your 12
Go and study
Girl with average height ever with someone who shorter than her impossible its only possible when girl is above aveage height 5,5 and when boy is rich they are just saying height doesnt matter but they want tall guys shorts guys are just option
ABHUDAYA in the Thumbnail 😂😂🖤🖤
Abu Dhabi
@@kitty-ef4ew abla nari 💀
@@afratazpriyaeasha2006 ur username 😳
@@afratazpriyaeasha2006 nahh he's abhishek
okay can we please agree how Shrinkal makes everyone feel so comfortable! Like he is one of those guys who would listen to you, talk to you and def not judge you! I am so happy that people like him exist! I love him bro 😭😭
very off topic but okay
Help the reply to urself
@@kiosparty lmao😭
Ok nice 🗿🤡🤡
did you just reply to yourself?💀💀
True I felt it now.
Cause everytime my brother want to eat anything sour like imli or raw mango he judged by our uncle that don't eat things like girl I was like what the hell
Bruh as an insecure person this hit really hard and the society needs to change for real............wanna go back to the old days when we didn't care about all these shits
How can u not see that u contradicted yourself in that same sentence.
Bruhh abhi bol rha tha 'society needs to change '
Coping hard
This stuff is soo true, women are judged in general even more but people totally forget men in the situation....I'm a girl and I face enough from everyone...but I never thought it'd be the same for my brother...I thought it's all perfect...he does get some stuff done better (being pampered more and things like that) but has some of the worst experiences with body shaming and personality shaming from people around him...mostly from family...the same people who "support" him...listening to him talk about his insecurities made me understand him even more....support the guys in your life too...trust me, it makes a huge difference!
No, no, it's hard for FAT women to find bf! but it's very easy for SHORT man to find gf! 😊
even though i agree with this video, the sad part is that men don’t really care about women’s issues as much as women care about men….
@@gm.8805 yeah..
@@gm.8805 Yesss. This is an issue I see so much on social media. Some men expect women to speak out about them but wouldn't do the same for them. Sadly many men wouldn't even side with their people
I saw abhyudaya's face and opened this
Being a girl even I hate myself and I punish my self by working out more than my willing and just want to get that perfect idol body
are u aakansha sinha from Heritage college in kolkata?
Just stick to working out and when you will loose that fat I promise it would all be worth it
@@daphy6686 I came the far I lost round above 30kg just so I can show someone never judge someone for looks moreover that person now wants me
@@bellatrix9256 HIT kolkata?☠️my cousin is from there
@@aakankshasinha680 you are giving the reason to judge
Reason that looks matter
Men's mental health and body positivity should be talked about more. It's such an imp. issue. Thanks for bringing it up. My boyfriend had many insecurities and is a victim of mental health issues. He got way better with his confidence now. I feel even men needs to know that being themselves is the "normal"
One thing I would like to add
You know that there may ne thousands of boys in India who may be much handsome, smart and good looking than Virat Kohli, Ranbir Kapoor, Kartik Aryan, Hardik Pandya, And other many others,
But you know why girls are mad about them because they have something special in them,
They have some skill, some talent, so it's not the looks that all matters, it's the thing that whta extra you have in your life other than just body,
I have seen girls going Mad for Zakir Khan, Kapil Sharma, why?
Because they are good looking, handsome, the answer is no, because they have some talent in them and that adds beauty to their peraonality and girls wanna date them and talk to them, take photos with them.
“There's no problem in being weak,the problem is in staying weak"
I'm skinny at the age of 16 but i'm proud of myself and i just love myself and i don't give a shit to anyone who make fun of me love yourself💜💜
Same at the age of 17 🥲
lol i get insulted by my own parents because I am thin
go to the gym bro
hard time create strong men
@@sharangshukla2999 Bhai gym jaane se kya hoga jab main hoon hi skinny
@@VishnuPandey93
Upgrade yourself
Get jacked
Eat high calorie diet
Do some weightlifting
Become strong
So if anyone tries to insult u again he should think twice
Why did i find his channel so late!? His content is so fookinn good and intellectual ✨
Content or shrinkhal himself ,simp
Yeah for me too
His voice is so calm. I can listen him all day.
Nowadays, "being a boy" is also not easy socially and mentally. 🙏🏻
Neither is "being a girl". Just because girls and boys have different problems doesn't mean one has more.
"Being a born in this world "
@@abhisharikabalasubramanian1522 Who told that boys have more problem? Why write something like this just to downgrade a comment made by a man.
@@mrinmoyhalder9688 exactly
@@abhisharikabalasubramanian1522 he never mentioned 'being a girl is easy'' so shutdown
I understand its really hard for men to open up about their insecurities and emotions but it's difficult for people willing to help those men when misogynistic people are always ready to mock them for helping and getting help. But one shouldn't stop helping someone who needs help.
To all the men and guys out there no matter how you look just open up. Even if people mock you for asking help, there are people who are actually willing to listen and help you❤️
Misogynist people? There are many girls who do that. And people in general put less value to males emotions and problems in our society and this has been found in many studies. That what we call male disposability.
you mean misandric?
Boys never open up it will be used against you in the next time you get into an argument
@@rochetstrider8725 Not exactly misandrists cause I didn’t mean people who hate men but I meant the people who actually think men are superior and shouldn’t show their vulnerabilities
Who tf will not date guy like abhyuday and shrinkhal I mean go get a man like them girls/boys
Do you want to get Korean
I was overweight and literally my own family shamed me and I don't know how I losed weight and my neighbours and my own family said that I am skinny as hell and to eat more but I said no matter what I will love myself and no need to change myself for the society cuz even if I change they gonna talk about me anyway so guys learn to love yourself first then everyone not everyone but some people will love you
Change for ur better self not to satisfy others
How do you feel most comfortable with yourself? It can be skinny, fat etc. as long as you are healthy and feel comfortable in your own skin.
@@kooochie indeed bro 2022 ke starting me mai thoda insecure tha looks ko leke school me, after working out and putting on some muscles i am respected there 💯
I'm so glad that as an youtuber Srinkhal is doing such an great job with his videos it's really appreciating that he is addressing some real issues in our society which often gets ignored..
Personally as a female high school student , I've noticed that the female beauty standards are much higher than the guys , beauty is one of the main objectives to become popular in school . But as for boys no matter how they look , it is about how chill they are. I mean there might be body positivity in foreign countries but in India , it's more of a topic to gossip with . We have seen a lot of overweight female stars online ,for ex. Singer of dance monkey . Imagine a girl in India about her weight , relatives would never shut their damn mouth.
In many places i have noticed how guys could be careless about the way they look but still be a pop . In India rationally there would be more over weight men than women. Some Women like me just wanna get accepted .
The point is a very few of the Indian MalE population has beauty standards . Isn't it more of a freedom than a topic to be depressed about ? 😄
Cardi b once said " to all the (people who think are ) ugly people out there , just remember that there is someone out there who's uglier than you.
hey... whatever you said may be absolutely correct but sometimes we just need to be a good listener rather then disregarding someone's problems because everyone has some insecurities they want to work upon. 😉
Well you should stop listening to someone like Cardi B.
Cardi B 💀
Wtf you wanna be popular is school 😭
if we were told as a child that ugly people are just normal poeple and ugly word doesnt exist then society will be open
On the internet only this man is talk about such a serious issue like body positive and showing the damn reality while the other side of internet is making us more insecure every day..
Even if there are people who are willing to support men's emotional and mental struggles, there'll be incels and misogynists who will mock those who ask and give help to these individuals. Their patriarchal mindset is the sole reason that stops men from asking for the support they need.
True, people start mocking men saying that he is acting sensitive and cry baby like a girl, people don't accept the fact that boys are human beings too and they too have emotions and problems in their life.
incels and misogynist? hmm? u know u are misandrist right? u copy men and their everything still speaks wrong about them!
one more thing we are men , not women , thats our masculinity, our pride ,that we are on our own, we are strong, whatever the circumstances are! so please stop brainwashing us! okay, we don't need womansplaining, go and teach somebody about feminity, idk why u women come to lecture ur abt this while u hate mansplaining!
masculinity is our identity, we don't need to listen to u abt it ! if u hate then why u copy us? hypocrite 🤣
Incels are the most caring boys out there
Everyone should lose weight, it is healthy. Body positivity nowadays is just an excuse for not working out.
2:43 I can relate 100%, I absolutely hated my body, always wore shabby baggy clothes, so much that people started identifying me as "vo ldki jo baggy clothes pehenti hai humesha", I stopped eating properly, got multiple deficiencies, because of that and even after loosing a lot of weight I wasnt happy, I couldnt look myself in the mirror, I used to spend hours crying at night, and at this point I thought nobody would love me, how would they love me if I cant love myself! Even opening up about it was so hard for me, I would first cry and then be able to say something, I remember the first time I told my mom about it and asked that I might need therapy I first cried profusely and then finally I was able to talk.
So kudos to you for opening up about body dysmorphia on a social platform because it's really very hard to open up and takes a lot of courage! I literally wanna give you a hug rn🥺🤍
as a fellow recovering anorexic, I feel you.
sending lots of love and strength towards you💗!!
@@meishaaaaaa16 hey, hope you're doing fine now, right back at you, man💖
not only in India I think it's a global problem
My man is shorter than me he's the best person I've ever met I never feel bad for it .... he's an amazing person and he loves me and i love him i think people should understand this thing that how a person looks is not a way to judge him on how or what kind of a person he or she is ❤️✨
Exactly that's the whole bloody point, all we see is models with perfect bodies either male or female. But these models (no offense to them) doesn't fit into realistic world, because in reality people have different bodies. I think these websites should also choose people with short height, skinny, fat, etc. There's difference between being fit externally and internally.
Comments section mein ladkiyan bahut meethi methi baate kar rahi hain inke baato mein mat aana trust women action not theirs words pay attention to her action not her words
Here's come the guy who generalizes everything and says "all women are same" ☕ .
Tum toh aisa bol rahe ho ki jiesa ladhke ladhke ko majaak nahi urate hain! For God's sake !! It was the men who created all the problems in past that now almost every person thinks that it's okay for men to not show emotion when they have insecurities,pain etc.. so why the hell are you blaming only women for it and targeting over a particular gender!? What shrinkal wanted to deliver just went over your head. Atleast shrinkal is far more mature and braver than you .
By your logic mein bhi aisa bol dunga ki ," men comment section pe bahut meethi² baate ker rahe hain ,unke baato mein mat aana trust men actions not their words ,Pay attention to their actions not their words." Kyounki yeh toh fact hain ki ladhke se jyada ladhkiyo ke uper bura cheez huwa hain past se leker ,agar tumhe malum nahi hain toh history padh lena. BUT no ain't a fool like u who'll generelize everything. The one who commented genuinely felt the pain cuz they had similar experiences but here you are provoking every person to hate on a particular opposite gender .
Chiii!!! Such immaturity
@@katakurisama898Then don't generalize men
Really nice to see Shahrukh Khan spread awareness about Men's Mental Health.
I am insecure about my weight, man boobs and receding hairline...... Literally i have lived like an object...emotionless so that I don't hurt myself more ......i am still currently living like dead body
I recently heard about a 40+ year old man in India...and he was bullied his whole life because of his height and ita all after considering the fact that he have 5+ educational qualifications he have everything but still get bullied couldn't get married just because of his height and now at this he is getting surgery which is having him difficulty to walk and now it concerns me that what our society has become...i know it's not about girls but as an average girl ..i don't know where I'll stand in this society where pretty privilege is such a big thing...
You most probably will not agree but it's the truth. You don't need to worry much because you are a girl. If you want a job, you won't have much issues as long as you are reasonably skilled. Nowadays companies are hiring more women under various diversity and women's quotas. Many hiring managers and officers also prefer women many a times. Apart from jobs and professional career perspective, even in marriage and relationships, you wouldn't have to worry. It's cakewalk for women to find a decent dude, especially in a country like India, irrespective of their looks, especially in this day and age. The only requirement is that you yourself should also be open-minded and not be shallow and superficial regarding the stuff like looks, skin colour and height. In fact there are many studies that have shown that "ugly" women are more likely to be married than their better looking counterparts. Pretty privilege is a thing, but you still have a really powerful privilege on your side, which is being female
It's a short documentary on BBC news Channel
Its not the society's problem. Its your problem, just dont hear to these people and if it gets to harassment the law is always there man c'mon grow up
Tough Times Create Strong MEN
I had a friend who loved to have all those toxic masculinity ideologies, i would tell him to express his feelings more but he would go full on mard ko dard nahi hota, later i understood he was doing all these mardana things to impress me.
But honestly i like guys who are emotionally expressive , if my man feels low someday i wouldn't mind him crashing in my arms and crying his heart out, i would love him even more. This has nothing to do with his mardaangi🤦♀️
Same I too feel more attracted towards a person who shows more emotion than being like a robot who goes on saying, "mard ko dard nahi hota".
@@katakurisama898 expressive and feminist guys>>>
@@userwhatever expressive is fine but a modern feminist guy is just a useless ducking piece of scum on the planet
It's very trashy to feel the fact that we aren't valued for being imperfect 😒
What the f
So true....I can't wear shorts even I want to because of having strawberry legs nd fatty thighs...it's so irritating when every other person taunt me for either waxing or thigh fat etc etc etc😑😑😑😒
When he mentioned porsche,kinn and pete I was like "Dayumm my boii you're wild😳"
time STAMP???
KINNPORSCHE ENJOYER??😍
3:04 bestiee nd yeah kinnporsche enjoyer here😳🙌
❤kinn Porsche
I love you shrinkhal u know you're thoughts are so unbiased... I like the your povs... U know you're a perfect partner for a girl who has a high standards after watching k pop or kdramas.. Like u match that standard...
i’m so proud of you for making this video! even i have so many insecurities about myself that i’ll never want to show anyone, but atleast i want to accept them for myself. i really hope people can love themselves as they are and can be kind to others cuz it takes nothing to be kind!!
It sucks bro i have premature white hair since I was like 11 years old , i tried to fix it vitamins , hair oils , medication but no vein i got bullied by boys and girls throughout my school life " Dekho Buddha ja raha hai , uncle " it hurted my self esteem so much , that I can't even talk to people now without gathering courage.
I'm so insecure about my face and my body too coz people say I'm fat
Especially the sarkari nokri wali meme where dark skinned skinny or fat guys are mocked
It doesn't matter if you're a girl or a guy, as long as we're humans we're always gonna have our own body image issues and it sucks so bad. When it comes to men I feel like people are less hesitant to comment on their body. Women have insecurities and they do get bullied and stuff by other groups of people (in secret if not to their face). But when it comes to men I see their own fucking friends making fun of them openly, calling names based on their appearance is so normalized which is something I feel like doesn't happen with women unless it's by smn who literally hates them.
You all are expected to be so tough and not talk about your problems, I can only hope society as a whole changes. Idk how the progress can be made, maybe people should make men feel more comfortable to speak about such things and men should also start supporting each other. Idk how girls treat guys when they're open about their struggles, personally I've only see them reacting well to it but I'm sure there are women out there too who don't let men be their true selves. So I hope this all changes. And we as human beings just stand for each other and understand above all that we all have our own stories and our own struggles, be empathetic and treat each other with kindness.
Dude!! I'm proud of you seriously ❤️ please take care of yourself!!
Thankyou for being whatttt you areee🥺💗
I agree. No one regardless of being a man or a woman deserves to be body shamed. we dont claim the women who shame men for being short or "ugly"
I was insecure too about my legs because I use to have patch where my skin use to peel and had red marks but now I started loving them it was hard for me but totally worth it
I was just talking with a friend a few days ago about how everyone does crazy shit no matter the gender and here Shrinkal said the exact same thing
I must tell one thing,
I am fat, Have a receding hair line, have and many more things,
But I always carry myself with confidence,
Wear good clothes, and I have one power That I speak very good command over English, and I Flaunt it,. You know what that I was just sitting In a park, and a girl approached me and she herself started talking to me and we had a ball of a time.
And Even whenever I talk to other people they are so nice to me,.
Finally someone who knows the real meaning of insecurities. I know how does it feels to be a short height guy, i mean i question myself everytime why me? All the beings around me are tall enough attractive and healthy, meanwhile I'm the one who's short skinny and lack of confidence. Indian society knows how to make someone feel insecure af about their weaknesses:) also being a male k-pop fan is the thing people make fun of, why can't a guy stan an artist? Like the thinking and judging nature of people can lead someone to depression fr.
Hey i know it's been months but i just want to say don't listen to anyone and do you 💜
You can!!! Seriously, i don't know the kind of circle you are surrounded with but there's nothing wrong with embracing the genetics you are blessed with.
The funniest part of the video was- insecurity of men for body positivity in india, maaro goli india ko, poori duniya me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂soooooo aptttttt brooo soooooo apptttt thing to talk about and with the tinge of humour
Do you also feel insecure about your body, face , skin colour , height etc..
Rise up Chad 👑👑
You don't belong to all these bullshit..
Just Make Yourself Worthy Of Your Own Self ..
Not for this cruel world...❤
I think everything takes time body positivity is something that's its solely based on how people view something ofcourse thinking abt only women when talking abt body positivity is wrong but yk it's the fact that they hv actually started acknowledging it now. It will take time for people to realise that being insecure is something that guys go through as well... hopefully everyone understands the difference between preferring something and hating on something.
I have met a some guys who wants to open up but they can't they have been like this for yearsss being bul**ed at the name of friends never enjoyed there school life and all why we all are just focusing on females males are equally important we need to take care of them dude just the way they care for us please boys open up we'll listen to you and we'll support you however you are
Shrinkhal, love you're literally so perfect just like others, or let me put it in a way, you're not perfect just like the others, now here we don't discuss about whats perfect and whats not. We all know nothing's perfect. They're are so many mistakes we think we have which becomes our insecurities, which we sure want to hide from everyone and anyone but that doesn't make any of us less, its just the society that we're living in which makes us all un-perfect and its totally right to feel that way. Its totally fine to feel that way. But one thing we all should keep in mind that no one, not even a single soul is perfect, we have our insecurities which becomes our fear.
How'd you overcome that fear?
Courage ofcourse. Be confident, be who you are, be yourself
Just that. And its all gone, you're insecurities will dim when all your perfects shines
So, you are perfect, just the way you are
We are perfect, just the way we are
Shrinkhal really looks similar to younger Johnny depp!!(watch the clip of Johnny and Winona seeing each other for the first time after breakup in an award show) ❤️ Isn't it????❤️❤️❤️
Lots of love to you Shrinkhal!
Keep growing!!❤️❤️❤️
I love your SR Pay content the most!!!!
We need more people like shrinkhal in this world ❤️
The fact that every man is categorised in the same category....and there aren't even equal laws for men being abused or assaulted or molested makes me really sad...no one really takes them seriously which is really very very bad...not every man is the same...
He watched kinnporsche👀
Why aren't you're making a reaction video on the series or something.. it'll be fun..💅
bruh same here no body cares for our mental i health i remember when puberty hit me and small beard patches started growing he started hating myself i used to shave everyday but instead of asking me why do i do it they make fun of me saying am gayyyyy and all i still dont like beard or and hair its my choice but nobody cares
Really calling a man gay in the basis of the appearance of beard is such a bullshit...actually today's generation is totally based on unnecessary toxic beauty standard..they set an example like they judge a girl by her butt or boobs ..and a man by his beard..like what the heck is this.. everyone is beautiful in their own way..most of us give lecture on this topic but in reality there are only few people who truly care about this matter..and bodyshaming or talking bad about someone's gender is really need to be stop...we are all God's creation 🙂
Lol!! So they mean being gay is not preferring beard. Wtf!! That's the dumbest thing I've seen. No wonder there's lots of immature boys n girls stereotyping gays especially teenagers boys in social media .
Please don't listen to other's mean comments and for God's sake tell them not to be so misinformed about gays.
Honestly, weird that they think "gay" is an insult 🙄
Entertainment media started perfect body trend and bow entertainment media is addressing body Positivity
This is the first video FROM AN INDIAN in TH-cam space that is talking about men's mental health and points around it. I've been reading all sorts of stuff and my change started in 2020 when I realised that what a sh*tty world we've made for individuals with no individuality. We're being confined in a box that fit the norms and more often stereotypes. I'm trying to convey these messages from the point of view of media projects by my TH-cam channel, and hopefully, I'll be able to bring a new change, at least in India, through my ambition of writing and even this TH-cam channel. I'm kind of like you... As in, I also freely apply nail paint, give cutie remarks to boys to cheer them up, and think differently from what boys have been wired to think from a long time. Doing any of these things won't make you gay, boys. Just be free and fly while remembering to come down on the ground and connect to people and their feelings. Romantic (or even sexual) fulfillments are not the only thing that you require in your life to be happy. Choose to be happy in your own way. Introspect, educate, explore, and do whatever fills your soul. Masculism is a word not known to many, even not my MacBook as I'm typing this as it is underlining that word in red dots, so we have to bring this word into mainstream space and create an environment for men and young boys to live as positively as they can. I'm sharing your video on my WhatsApp status and will subscribe from my personal account (as this account's feed is meant to be filled with updates of movies, series and media projects). BTW, I understood why your video was recommended to me. It was because of Tanmay Bhatt. I always watch his videos, from whatever account I'm using, while I also watch videos regarding men's portrayal in media, so I think YT algorithm might just have connected both of us in that way. Keep going. Love you from the other side. And **flying kiss* (without worries that we both are boys)
I get what you're trying to deliver but I hope you edit it because some people may misinterpret your sentences.
You wrote ,"doing any of these things will make you gay boys" instead of writing ," doing any of these things won't make you gay boys."
Also there's nothing wrong with one being a gay . What's wrong with being a gay !? People of India especially boys are so misinformed about gays .
I wish they won't be so misinformed. I f*****g love gays because of bl 😭 .
@@katakurisama898 oh yeah, I just noticed. Thanks for pointing out that. I appreciate. Let me rectify it.
@@katakurisama898 apparently so many thoughts go through your head when you're writing and penning down your flowing emotions and ongoing feelings, it happens. Again, thanks for pointing out.
Glad someone talked about this.........Thanks buddie
Was going through a lot .....Feel a little better tho
ME MASCULINE BE FUCKING RESPONSIBLE THAT HOW IT WORKS
I had a stroke reading this
@@AYAM.M what?
absolutely brah
@@sh1nmay You grinding brah?
@@TITAN1749 yes brah fuark
To everyone out there being insecure , here is a tip. Change things you can like loosing fat and improving style, etc. Doesn't matter how much they say it's okay being fat but in reality you will be treated like shit.
I think these things are exist for both, being a boy or girl it doesn't matter.I agree with you that for men it is not we easy to open about it but I'd face these things and my friends are also taunt me for having acne and scares. In conclusion I want to say that it is about mentality of a person, and people change their way of thinking when they are actually go through that kind of situation otherwise they just keep slamming others
When I was in school in 9th grade..our batch had responsibility to give farewell to 10th grade...and hence we and class teachers decided to plan events...I was in decoration club and my other friends were in music and dance club....at that time kanika Kapoor's song baby doll was in trend..so girls decided to dance on it..the girls just decided to dance using simple steps as it wasn't any competition...and teachers also agreed with it...I was there in the auditorium where the teachers were selecting girls...what made me mad that they only selected fair complexion girls....I was like ssly teachers?
Umm... This particular topic is very important but I think it would be great if you could make one regarding the opposite gender as well. So once I was scrawling on insta and I saw this reel in which one person was filming a girl making reel or some dance video or something with a background song "mera desh badal raha hai, aage badh raha" but the thing was, that girl was dancing in 'her' balcony. It had likes in lakhs and I don't think I need to explain why it boiled my blood. Aaj hi, in fact, thodi hi der pehle maine ek story pr dekha ek ladke ki jismai this girl bumped her scooty into a stationary bike and was accusing the bike owner. This had this statement written on top "Papa ki pari". I get it, she might be stupid but everyone is not. Why on earth is he putting it on his story? It just spreads negativity. You know, if a woman comments on men's dick size, then it is unfair but then men must also not be commenting on boobs. Like a person shared this reel on his story "I wonder why women with flat breasts have so much attitude, like haven't you already got everything off your chest" It basically made me insecure. Things like women don't have sense of humor, they are stupid and that trend "women *coffee cup*" and stupid stuffs like "papa ki pari" is just so popular nowadays and is so disgusting. According to what I think men making fun of men is comedy and women making fun of women is comedy too... but when men make fun of women or vice versa, it is not funny.
I know this video is about body positivity but I think I emphasized on the mental health part.
women issues ke regarding already bohot saari videos mil jayengi aapko
Iske bohat saare videos ban chuke hai and ap wahan jaakar dekh sakte hai ,Arey yaar ,yeh video actually boys ke upar tha not on girls and yeh jakar girls ke videos pe likho achha hoga , thank you 🙂
@@debalinadutta3609 Bhaisahab mujhe mat bataiye mujhe kya karna chahiye. Vo mai apne liye soch lungi, thank you 🙂 and umm.. in case you don't like what I said, then it's completely up to you still I didn't mean to offend anyone.
@@abhisharikabalasubramanian1522 Agar tum itni feminist ho toh apne kyun guess Kiya Mei boy hunn 😂😂 🤣, I'm a girl and also agar tumhe nahi sunna Meri baat ,so why are you commenting?? Yeh comment feminist videos yaa girl ke upar koi video pe Kar sakte ho and yeh wahan par hi suit karta hai and also it's our duty to reply in this kind of comments 😁🤞
Don't think , I'm making fun of you, which I think you thought earlier🤦🤦
@@debalinadutta3609 Ohh I am sorry I wanted to be polite isliye bhaisahab likha... then umm behen, maine comment galat nhi kiya. Mujhe mat batao mujhe kya karna hai aur kahan karna. Ye comment kisi ek gender ki burayi pr nhi hai to tum mujhe bas itna batao "these 'kinds' of comments " se tumhara kya matlab hai. Ya mat batao, mujhe tumhari baate vaise bhi snseless lagti hai. Don't think , I have a grudge against you, which I think you thought earlier🤦🤦
Have a great personality, be educated about manners and the way you speak and be respectful regardless of gender. Society is patriarchal, we can't disagree with that, misogyny exists as well as misandry. The amount of Misogyny is more hence women empowerment things, women supporting women is also more. Whereas for men, they have been raised in a toxic surrounding from where they have a hard time getting out of that, if they want to get out of that toxicity, then before anyone, their own homies criticise them, hence most of the men stay pressed about being gender neutral, non-toxic, self loving-caring and all. Not to mention, most men even glorify the toxicity and disgusting mentalities they have, so yeah it's all messed up and in this age of internet as well as our Bollywood mess it up even more by portraying toxic alpha men concept. So,it gets harder for men or younger men to understand what to follow and what not. But let us all understand clearly that being a good human is a first thing first. Don't cover up your sexist, toxic, homophobic mentalities in the name of 'Joke' regardless of your gender.
There's a book called Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men... It's by a researcher who worked with 2000 abusive men. I read it and realised some cultures encourage abuse, and so people continue to do that. It hits very close to why men ridicule other men, and women for speaking up about things not considered manly.
Wow thnku so much for sharing ur respectful opinion it will really help us to change our mindsets towards everyone who is insecure about their looks... I've started watching u recently bcz of some random popups but m glad I tapped ur video ❤️... Thnku for existing 😊
I like the way you think .
Your thoughts are just preferably noticeable.
Why can’t I find such kinda people in my life for real…!
I ❤ you man ….!
Thank you so much for talking on this topic
Women have standards, men have discriminations, yeah let that sink in
Unrealistic standards to be more precise
Body positivity exists only on social media platforms in India, that too very few people praise. Actual reality toh alag hi hai.
Samjha nahi thora explain karo
Just like all girls are queen, all boys are kings💓
I m a attack helicopter
@@KakashiHatake-oc5vb maybe it's not bad in this context but don't say this in a context with trans in it
@@cheese_adi who cares
@@KakashiHatake-oc5vb nikesha
I partially agree and disagree with you on today's topic. I'll come back for debate when I have all my points ready.
🥶
are you Ready 😈
@@meinkampf805 ah yes it's ready but way too long. I could make like 10 minutes video of it. So I just let it be.
@@shikhapandewa5687 no problem, Express it in your words in the comment 😁🤝
I am very skinny people call me by weird names my skin don't even ask i have dark circles pimples acnemarks my nose is flat and my face is just so wierd tbh i can never understand this body positivity i mean how can we be ok with this i guess i can never love myself i just hate the way i look and i think it would be forever
you just described me , i have been skinny my whole life and have acne, dark circles ,hyper pigmentation, insomnia(last 4 years) and struggle with extreme social anxiety..
throughout the years the only way i thought i could escape other peoples commentaries was to just silent treatment. not goin out, not wanting friends, not wanting anything to do with anyone, just be with myself in my one room all these years..
Be kind and Spread love.....thanks a lot shrinkhal!!
I was overweight all of my life also had man boobs but soon after completing my high school i joined gym, and i swear it gave me so much damn confidence now it's been more than 4 months and i somewhat getting into shape. But more than that it's about confidence which i gained after a long-long time.
Bro the hate I've seen on Slaypoint's channel Makes me really sad.
Body positivity is good, but not when it's promoting that being fat has no side effects when it clearly causes serious health issues.
True chad here
AAGHH!!! FINALLY I FOUND A VIDEO WHERE WE'RE TAKLKING ABOUT BODY INSECURITY.....SO YEAH I'M ONE OF THEM......LIKE I'M SMALL AND A LITTLE SKINNY....IS IT WRONG TO BE SHORT OR SKINNY? MANY THINKS SHORT GIRLS ARE CUTE BUT WHAT ABOUT THE GIRL? WHAT ABOUT HER THINKINGS......UGHH THEY JUST COMMENT LIKE HEY SHORTY OR HEY BACCHI THEY THINK I'LL LIKE IT BUT....I FUCKIN HATE THIS.......SHRINKAL BRO YOUR VIDEOS ARE THE BEST.....I LEARN A LOT OF THINGS AND ALSO YOUR VIDEOS ARE ENTERTAINING....LOVE YOU
I really appreciate you for talking about such things because nowadays everyone is facing such problem but no one wants to talk about this
Sometimes we just forget to appreciate men and their work ,they too need to be celebrated and talked upon ,and they too need someone to share their emotions and pour out their feelings
Just so the men know ,you can always share your weak side it is actually human to HAVE a weak side but subconsciously we as a society expect men to be strong just like we expect women to be tender and light spoken ,if we can break that stigma for women we should do the same for men too
To all the men reading this ,you are absolutely perfect the way you are ,
Never let your self confidence down and most importantly don't compare yourself to anyone and keep grinding for your goal
Keep your head held up high kings 👑
Wow ur comment is one of the best in this comment section.
reject modernity Embrace MASCULINITY 👑💪
finally found a good comment in this cringe comment section
Brooo ,you said it ...
I don’t usually comment on videos but I really got say man u spoke really well am quite moved as well,keep the great work we are always here to support you;)
Tanmay Bhatt is an inspiration 😍😍❤️♥️ how he came across all these things he used to say he used comedy as an defense mechanism ❤️❤️l love that guy he changed the whole lndian game♥️♥️💞and Slay Point is just op the content they give is too good lm glad u love them too lm watching their content for years now ♥️😍😍
Hy shri ..... This vedio is such a gem idk why people be like ladke rote nhi ladko k mood swings nhi hote ladko k feeling nhi hote kyu nhi hote aren't the human they are na to kyu nhi honge bohot kn youtubers ese point's mai baat karte hai. Nd im gald ki apne is topic m baat ki and kafi ache tarike se baat kii you are such a inspiration ❤️ hope you're well 🌙 wishing you a good health and stresfull life and good sleep ❤️
I had a surgery 2 years ago and it left me with a scar which I am very unsecured of!
A big shout out to you for speaking about this 🙌