I knew the friendship was over when💔…| Part 2 - Ep 97

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  • @judymusewe5316
    @judymusewe5316 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Suggestion....we would also like to see a segment on the topic "I knew we were going to be besties long term when...."

  • @kellymwaniki1489
    @kellymwaniki1489 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's difficult to be in a friendship with people who aren't vulnerable with their lives. Vulnerability brings deeper connection in friendship.

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! We need to learn to be vulnerable.

  • @gracejohnson3048
    @gracejohnson3048 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Can’t believe the episode was an hour long yet it still felt short 😮that’s how engaging our girlies are 👏👏👏 . Loved every minute ❤

  • @abigaelrotich9688
    @abigaelrotich9688 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I just heard that we are going to have an eposode on how i knew we were going to be friends for a long time. Lemme tell yall about my bestie. When i learnt that i was pregnant, it wasnt planned and i was so scared. My man really wanted the baby, he was excited and ready. So when i told him that i was not sure if i wanted to keep the pregnancy, he was hurt but told me that he would support me in whatever decision i made but he kept on telling me that he really wanted the baby. When i told my bestie that i did not know what i wanted to do with the pregnancy, she was neutral,non judgemental, objective and really supportive until i made my decision 2 months later. I kept the pregnancy. She validated me, kept me sane, spoilt me, visited me and celebrated me through motherhood. She is a gift from God.

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      This is such a good friends. She understood that you needed to come to this conclusion on your own❤️

  • @charitymwenda5387
    @charitymwenda5387 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I knew the friendship was over when I postponed my visiting her baby to the day after, called her so many times the day I was to visit and even texted. I ended up assuming that she is so busy or tired and that I should just head over to her place since we were so close that and I mean it. So when I am almost at her place she calls back and she tells me that her husband (whom I know) will be angry at her the whole week for not informing him of my visit upfront. Well to make them happy I asked her to send her house manager to pick the things I had brought and I ended up not seeing her or the baby.

    • @crystalatis2683
      @crystalatis2683 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heh! Yani you assumed she was either busy or tired and still saw the need to show up at a nursing mother's home without them confirming with you. Maybe she wasn't in a place to see anyone that day and maybe it's true that the husband gets angry when people visit out of the blues. You don't go to people's home without them confirming with you no matter who they are and who you are. If someone's not picking up your calls and returning texts when you're supposed to meet, Kaa nyumbani.

    • @charitymwenda5387
      @charitymwenda5387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​​​​@@crystalatis2683I am a mother as well and I got visits too but I don't have the guts to send anyone away when they have gotten to my place. If you were keen to read you would have noticed that she called me back 30 minutes before I got there, and she said that I should come. She even kept asking me to come see her in the hospital and when she went home she told me to come home. The husband thing was just an excuse, we all know each other (the husbands inclusive). Let's just say you will not get it.

    • @hellenanyango1241
      @hellenanyango1241 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @crystalatis2683 I think what this lady means is that they had made plans about the visit with the baby's mother prior to the visit but the mother changed plans without letting her know. I would also feel bad

  • @hellenndungu9945
    @hellenndungu9945 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Being friends with emotionally unavailable persons will result in a one sided friendship ....doing all the heavy lifting while they make you feel you are clingy.....create healthy boundaries be secure in yourself before inflicting your trauma and insecurities on your friends .Most people are in trauma bonds not friendships.

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! You start second guessing your actions and you end up not being yourself…

  • @dianahspencer161
    @dianahspencer161 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love this!!! Confession...I've been listening in Google Podcasts and had just not subscribed on YT. We're headed to 100k! You ladies are awesome!! Murugi at 51:00 described exactly what led to the end of my friendship and 16 year marriage.

  • @wacekewanjoroge6679
    @wacekewanjoroge6679 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    First of all kudos on the consistency ladies👏🏾👏🏾we are here for it🥹🥹
    Heavy on the introspection 💯 Before cutting off friends please ask yourself “am i showing up as a good friend?? “ “am i being intentional with the friendship??” Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.
    Also Lydia says Friendships should seem seemless,less hectic,non complicated if it gets to a point where it’s draining..let it go hunnie.

  • @tfa4782
    @tfa4782 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As a person who wasnt posted on their bday and later broke up a friendship with someone who called me best friend, let me tell you. These are small building blocks to the demise of the rshp. She wd post other people, she would upload at least 2 posts foe other friends with beautiful words describing how great of a person they are. My bday comes and its crickets. NOOOOOOOO sweety !!!! I ddnt ened the frendship then though, like i said the these were just building blocks. It crashed and burned a yr later

  • @RuthNaya-qh2dv
    @RuthNaya-qh2dv ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Murugi looks great in red😊

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I get it Murugi. If you are cutting someone off just do it properly. There is no need to keep going back and forth......but the behavioural pattern is also very important to look at before you shut that door.

  • @dianasasi6055
    @dianasasi6055 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Lydia KM it was lovely meeting you during the Kilifi trip. You are pure vibes! You and Murugi are magic.... always looking forward to TMI episodes.

  • @clarissecladia6234
    @clarissecladia6234 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:52 into the episode and I can't stop crushing on Lyd. Her skin is glowing. 😍

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's definitely TMIIII🎶😍💃🏿. Karibu nyumbani warembo❤️❤️. Murugi ati summer fling na hii baridi😅. This topic bana😢. Yess 100k twende!

  • @ayikiriizemartha4640
    @ayikiriizemartha4640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Did i just hear Lydia say they'll do one more episode and THEN CLOSE the friendship series? Huh??? We need MOOOOOOORRRRRREEEEEEEE, I need more!!!!!!!

  • @Chelsealuuvv
    @Chelsealuuvv ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is my first time commenting but Lydia skin is glowing 😍

  • @ruthdede2555
    @ruthdede2555 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And you ladies just got prettier...today's makeup and lighting imewezaa!!

  • @kirigomercy9255
    @kirigomercy9255 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I personally categorize my friends......i have my closest, i have friendly people and acquaintances....and that has saved mee soo much on frienship heartbreaks

  • @RuthNaya-qh2dv
    @RuthNaya-qh2dv ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Consistency is definitely your brand. And we love it!

  • @peacefulliving2906
    @peacefulliving2906 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much for doing a part 2 of this. Not many people discuss friendship these days.

  • @TheNaisenya
    @TheNaisenya ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I used to have a girl crush on Riri because she looked like you would always have a great time, ALL round 😜. Now, it's Lydia 😊

  • @estherlilyw.k7381
    @estherlilyw.k7381 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was so inspirational....people should really know whom they call besties talking out of experience 😮

  • @nzisaa
    @nzisaa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Off the record,Joan is so so beautiful and amazing..and relatable too.I legit have a girl crush on her😊

  • @aphrodite1699
    @aphrodite1699 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please extended such topics with atleast 10 minutes. Ahsanteni

  • @solitaire6162
    @solitaire6162 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lydia's skin is glowing😊

  • @sylvialangat7385
    @sylvialangat7385 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lydia you are glowing😍😍Kilifi did you good girl!

  • @ken4722
    @ken4722 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And thanks for encouraging self awareness cause I feel we can demand a lot from out friends without giving a thought to the things we do. Be the friend you want

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly. Look inward before dissecting others

  • @Nyanjathi
    @Nyanjathi ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You ladies put so much love and beautiful effort in the TMI Podcast and it shows 💞
    I love it for you, and for us as well.

  • @shammahnzaana214
    @shammahnzaana214 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    35:01 Sometimes people need education more than they need to be cut off❤️

    • @ken4722
      @ken4722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel based on the point they were referencing, the person knows this individual never listens to them. So if they say this and that hurts my feelings they will be called petty and not be listened to. By the time someone says that, they have probably tried education

    • @shammahnzaana214
      @shammahnzaana214 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ken4722I get that

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True. But why are you the one to educate them?

    • @shammahnzaana214
      @shammahnzaana214 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tmipodcastke thank youuuuu 😂😂

  • @salomegachogu9638
    @salomegachogu9638 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Leo nmefika mapema 😊😊 I love the part they say their names and we are back with another episode of the messy in between let's gooooooo

  • @thisisakinyichannel2758
    @thisisakinyichannel2758 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Joan saying she was in the UK not worrying about what needs to be done😂😂😂 while the nanny was sending list of groceries needed from smarthub groceries😂😂❤❤❤❤

  • @Cikanyoro
    @Cikanyoro ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Lydia if you get to see this thank you for introducing me to Cart Burns❤. Didn't know such amazing artist existed until you mentioned. We want more of this topic of friendship.

  • @MrBaggy76
    @MrBaggy76 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    32:00 😊

  • @beatricesloan7063
    @beatricesloan7063 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am learning alot from this conversation,my excitement for Wednesday is TMI Episode ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mulamakhatali8219
    @mulamakhatali8219 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only reason why Wednesdays are worth waiting for.....TMI episodes 🥂🥂🥂

  • @sunshineheaven1802
    @sunshineheaven1802 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought part 1 was incredible but part is wow! I see myself in all circumstances and lessons I have learnt along the way. I have grown into a more empathetic person and I speak with more grace and compassion. Introspection is paramount. As friends, we need to be respectful and we can not struggle to like each other if we are friends.

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @GraceMumo-xq9sd
    @GraceMumo-xq9sd ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ooooopppssss....How dare me forget abt this at 12😩😩😩....my sister "relaaaaaxxxx , ni 7 mins later so you good?lol"😂😂😂😂....

  • @t_erry
    @t_erry ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey TMI.Just to emphasize on your tips on navigating adult friendships.
    1. Reciprocate the energy. Don't expect 80% while you give 10%.
    2. Give grace. Friends aren't perfect just like you ain't, forgive and also apologize. If the friendship means a lot, you're not just willing to throw it away for petty reasons.
    3.Commit your friendships to God as they're starting and along the way. Oh, expect revelations.
    4.Communicate, people can read the room not minds😅.
    5. Love them deeply, let them know, oftenly, make it weird 😅, don't wait to lose someone to write paragraphs on how you love them. Tell them now. Affirm them now!celebrate them now!death is random🙂

    • @annkioko5916
      @annkioko5916 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very insightful.Thankyou

    • @SM7SM7SM7
      @SM7SM7SM7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Insightful list!! I haven’t thought to submit my friendships in prayer specifically. I’ve prayed about situations but not the entire friendship.

  • @judymainalifestyle3005
    @judymainalifestyle3005 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂😂so many things are relatable
    Lets talkout the uncomfortable it will save us so much more.
    I always love it here❤❤❤

  • @veronyqanduku4786
    @veronyqanduku4786 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have enjoyed this episode alot.... congratulations ladies I love listening to you........

  • @faith.adeyaa
    @faith.adeyaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    TRUTH!!! Can't wait for the next episode 🤭

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope you caught up with it❤️

  • @GracyWambui
    @GracyWambui ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welcome back Murugi ❤️, welcome back too Lydia ❤

  • @thisisakinyichannel2758
    @thisisakinyichannel2758 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am always longing for Wenesday ❤❤❤❤ now let me screenshot your thumbnail and post it on my WhatsApp to remind my friends an episode is up... oooh Joan is back to school drop offs and pickups saaad saad Lyd I loved your Instagram's recap with family and mum❤❤❤...

  • @J.G7088
    @J.G7088 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I rarely open up and am not about to change, I also don't expect my friends to share and I would be beyond ok with them cutting me off if it makes them uncomfortable. Truth be told am always told am a good listener but sometimes I feel like friends over share. The lady who was body shamed. I feel for her because even after telling the friend how her comments made her feel she invalidated by laughing it off. On the waving friend maybe she's shortsighted😂.

  • @lynetanyango8331
    @lynetanyango8331 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The problem is they are okay with buying the same thing from a different person comfortably but not from you.

  • @justneemo_
    @justneemo_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It all depends with level of friendship when it comes to lending Money i think you should discuss this topic about Money in general its really a vital topic

  • @Ishagishanug
    @Ishagishanug ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant help but notice how you guys’ makeup is P..For Pengggg❤
    Love it

  • @mahorotatianah8186
    @mahorotatianah8186 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Came in at the right time. Am here for this now!!!👌 Let me tighten my seat belt and listen real good as always. Am sure this is going to speak to my soul real deep!!!👌

  • @Jos-T
    @Jos-T ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful, intelligent, boss ladies ❤❤❤

  • @wangarinyambura9797
    @wangarinyambura9797 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Murugi looks sooo good in red

  • @TheNaisenya
    @TheNaisenya ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This episode had hilarious moments - i was crying 😂😂, all power to your crew for not bursting into laughter

  • @sausanya4569
    @sausanya4569 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Murugi's make up😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @agneswairimu7770
    @agneswairimu7770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lydias skin.....wooow 😍....

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today ปีที่แล้ว

    When it comes to friends. My friend invited ONLY her married friends to her wedding. She said this is how she wanted it to be and made it clear to the singles that they were not invited. I am married so not sure how the singles felt but that is what she wanted for her wedding.

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is low-key problematic…

  • @esyesther6282
    @esyesther6282 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lydia's skin is just beautifull😭😭😍

  • @shammahnzaana214
    @shammahnzaana214 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Inbetweeners 😍

  • @ianodongoh4646
    @ianodongoh4646 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me galloping to play the episode coz I suspect a friendship might have just ended

  • @chrissiekalendo
    @chrissiekalendo ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What do you do when you realise you actually have no friend😢
    My life right now💔

    • @rachealmburu11
      @rachealmburu11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go out there....make some ..trust me you need friends. God forbid something happens to your man, then what ?

    • @esthermurugi9570
      @esthermurugi9570 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rachealmburu11 its more of my friends have dissapointed me too much so at the moment nalenga tu

    • @rao023
      @rao023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@esthermurugi9570 you have placed a lot of power and responsibility on those friends cause friends disappoint, you also might have disappointed them in one way or the other, its human nature. Look for more friends so that you can have more options. Good luck☺️

    • @Lavvvvvyyyyy
      @Lavvvvvyyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't stress over it...friendships are not mandatory and you'll have the right friend(s) at the right timr

    • @rao023
      @rao023 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lavvvvvyyyyy no man is an island. Just depends with how intentional you are. Some things just don't find you, like friendships, they need to be nurtured, effort is required.

  • @charmainetarrie
    @charmainetarrie ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love the podcast ladies🖤

  • @nancywanyeki
    @nancywanyeki ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a cat mom, I would be offended by that comment. Like how dare you call my cat rabid! But then again, I would want to know why someone made that observation. It could be a genuine concern. Again, compassion goes a long way.

  • @thebasementchild_
    @thebasementchild_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The sneeze moment😂😂😂😭

  • @lyndawanza4011
    @lyndawanza4011 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂😂not the cat,i couldn't hold my laughter

  • @magdaleneafari9077
    @magdaleneafari9077 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i knew de frienship wud end wn after delivery i visited her to free my mind from depression but after conversing with her for some few mins,she told me she had exams so she needs to study so i decided to leave,as i stepped out one of her friends pop out wyt coke & pizza in her hands then i said in my mind “really now dat pizza & coke is here wud u go & study?”

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      That was definitely a good sign to end things

  • @marymakandi3676
    @marymakandi3676 ปีที่แล้ว

    Leo Niko ndani pia love you girls ❤❤

  • @keylakorir6043
    @keylakorir6043 ปีที่แล้ว

    We've really waited for part 2

  • @terryngatia
    @terryngatia ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew it was over the min she never grieved or called to check how I was doing after a loss of my niece .,mind you I called and let her know what had happened

  • @Nzuki_faith19
    @Nzuki_faith19 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do I knew the relationship was over when....

  • @jeanetteuwizeye4687
    @jeanetteuwizeye4687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish one could subscribe ten more times just for TMI channel😊

  • @Amiecate
    @Amiecate ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooo educative Babes😊❤

  • @Kara_46
    @Kara_46 ปีที่แล้ว

    Money is not just money, 100%

  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    50:25 When they pretend not to know you in public.🚩🚩🚩 That gives me the instant ick!

  • @wendywangarew6379
    @wendywangarew6379 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this channel

  • @georginamagoma
    @georginamagoma ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knew the friendship was over when my friend mugged me at gunpoint and took my car
    Murugi: well, what was the context?
    😂😂

  • @mwendemutuku6630
    @mwendemutuku6630 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I knew the friendship was over when my friend started copying EVERYTHING that I did and wanted to have a similar life like mine including taking kids for swimming, the kind of house that I live in. It was just too much!

    • @teteyian3258
      @teteyian3258 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sometimes people copy you from admiration of how you do things, not from a malicious point .

    • @mwendemutuku6630
      @mwendemutuku6630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ Teteyian, that is true but you cannot admire every possible thing about someones life. It can be draining to the other person.

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did you communicate though,??did it look like envy??? I feel like I admire my bestfriend stuff and somehow end up buying same stuff like her,I even ask her for the plugs😅😅

    • @mwendemutuku6630
      @mwendemutuku6630 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @edinah, getting a few plugs is okay. But when its almost everything it gets boring.
      i have communicated before and she just doesnt seem to get it. Ive taken a frienship break from her and after the break she chills for sometime and goes back to default setting… i really feel this is a deal breaker for me to be honest

    • @rachealmburu11
      @rachealmburu11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @mwende mutuku ....ask her to get a therapist. She might be suffering from lack of independence

  • @tessnjokie4847
    @tessnjokie4847 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This series has been my favorite so far❤

  • @ivywhitney6620
    @ivywhitney6620 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First one here. It's giving number one fan😅

  • @wanjiraschannel6931
    @wanjiraschannel6931 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    LOVE IT!

  • @Sheisme120
    @Sheisme120 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    23:45 If a friend was hitting on your man, maybe it was because he was entertaining her.🤔🚩 Always investigate!🧐

  • @clorieskendy
    @clorieskendy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listeeeeennnnn y'all!!! Rabbids?? 😂😂😂

  • @martha4135
    @martha4135 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😹😹 the cat what !!!!!

  • @wangarimacharia6587
    @wangarimacharia6587 ปีที่แล้ว

    Should I confront a person I consider a friend who is giving me an energy that they don't feel the same for me

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely have that conversation.

  • @gift_ouma
    @gift_ouma ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love it here❤

  • @namatovuanithier9433
    @namatovuanithier9433 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We miss the uniform dress code

  • @Thejournalingjune
    @Thejournalingjune ปีที่แล้ว

    A highschool class mate of mine that we never talk but just view each other posts on FACEBOOK!!, just messaged me literally yesterday that I shoukd send her some money to help her facilitate staff for a job outside country... I wondered why she'd come to me with this yet we never talk at all.....nway I told her I'm not able to help financially but the reason that it bothered me not coming through for her I don't understand but I'd want to get over it whatever it is

    • @didiash
      @didiash ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It bothers you because you feel like you know this person and are capable to help them. However, you respect yourself enough not to be used and you put that boundary up knowing what it was. Samething happened to me and I think she really needed the help but I refused to be used or seen as a bank.

    • @scrumptious97
      @scrumptious97 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe her account was hacked, I have seen such cases, ask her a question that only her would know from highschool to verify it's truly her

    • @Thejournalingjune
      @Thejournalingjune ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@scrumptious97 could be.... I'll find this out thanks

  • @mitchellmaina83
    @mitchellmaina83 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heaven sent video

  • @milkan.8552
    @milkan.8552 ปีที่แล้ว

    100,000 subscribers? Let’s go queens and kings between us! We can do this!

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      From your lips to God’s ears❤️

  • @winniewixakiror
    @winniewixakiror ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soo much growth from watching these friendship episode

  • @mwendenyaga91
    @mwendenyaga91 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'll not post you on your birthday, sorry 😐. Personally, that's not a measure of friendship

    • @rao023
      @rao023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too sis, I don't even post myself so I don't understand why that would be a big deal, even if you posted me aki I wouldn't reciprocate.

    • @mwendenyaga91
      @mwendenyaga91 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rao023 same here 😊.

    • @immaculatemoraa9539
      @immaculatemoraa9539 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same😩I don't post nothing!! I'll just say Happy birthday

  • @nzisaa
    @nzisaa ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I sometimes feel like Lydia is invalidating,especially when it comes to other people's experiences which don't align with hers.. Sina ubaya but Lydia, people are different, and we can't all fit into the text book definition of how life is supposed to be as opposed to how life actually is hapa kwa ground. She's smart yes, and i love her insights sometimes but kila siku she sounds more like a book than a real person.On the other hand, Murugi is so relatable.

    • @itsjanelle.3533
      @itsjanelle.3533 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And it's okay..you don't have to relate with Lyd. Pick what resonates with you without negating her point of view on some experiences

    • @nzisaa
      @nzisaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@itsjanelle.3533 yes, i don't have to, and that's what i just said. And i didn't negate, i just said she sometimes invalidates other people's experiences. I really don't have to agree with her just because.Thanks for your insight though.I respect it.

  • @rachealmburu11
    @rachealmburu11 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Does the friend who was waved at wear spects?
    To be honest sometimes someones head might me sooo far to see a wave. Let us be human guys. Have a conversation before just ending friendships

  • @aphrodite1699
    @aphrodite1699 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😂😂😂😂kwani the pussycat was looking how?

    • @marthahans4161
      @marthahans4161 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 child abuse 😢🤣🤣

  • @letstalkkenya2
    @letstalkkenya2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need a friend honestly 😢

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      Get out there❤️ You will find your people

  • @ken4722
    @ken4722 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do y'all think about cutting off a good friend cause they have terrible friends? I have this great buddy of mine who always seems to be surrounded by weird vibes and based on where I hang out, I have to bump to him with these shady characters that mistreat waiters, talk down on women, hold extremely "unwoke" takes, pick unnecessary fights when drunk, and are genuinely annoying asf. I hate that energy around me but I have no reason to cut off my pal cause he is a decent guy

    • @lynnieeve
      @lynnieeve ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Show me your friends and i'll tell who you are...birds of a feather... just saying

    • @mitchellmaina83
      @mitchellmaina83 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's reason enough to cut off someone. Just make sure you tell them why you're cutting them off

    • @ken4722
      @ken4722 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lynnieeve lol I will try to decode that

    • @ken4722
      @ken4722 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mitchellmaina83 thanks Mitchell. I needed a bit of that affirmation cause I didn't wanna feel like I am being petty or something

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But remember, actions by associations are also as bad. If he’s not talking up and confronting his friends, then…

  • @rastagirl758
    @rastagirl758 ปีที่แล้ว

    I knew the friendship was over when she did not invite me on her birthday,is it because i a mum and she thought i wont turn up at night

    • @tmipodcastke
      @tmipodcastke  ปีที่แล้ว

      This is probs miscommunication❤️

  • @daisynkk
    @daisynkk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Geeez, some inbetweeners need to get over themselves.

  • @Gacheriii
    @Gacheriii ปีที่แล้ว

    How do you subscribe twice😂😂

  • @annmwaniki9471
    @annmwaniki9471 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally 😩,....also will there be a live experience this year??🥺

  • @MahajabinTabasum
    @MahajabinTabasum 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Clark Deborah Lewis Ruth Anderson Dorothy

  • @Lavvvvvyyyyy
    @Lavvvvvyyyyy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Personally,, I'm not posting you on your birthday sorry

  • @dorrisnkirote5614
    @dorrisnkirote5614 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤❤