I always found, from the niceguy / nicegirl posts, that nicegirls are crazier and delisional, but niceguys are more dangerous. This guy is the whole package.
@@SergioBicerraboth are crazy and dangerous, but in slightly different ways. "Nice guys" tend to act entitled like incels while "nice girls" are ready to flip any bad situation so they sound in control. No matter what they are both seriously unhinged.
Story 1: If there was ever a person who needed to be doxxed so his employer could see how unhinged he was it's this guy. He works in a non-profit helping people? Jeezus.
A lot of peple with a hero complex, like OP, work in non-profits. I met a lot, A LOT, of delusional folks who feel the need to save others, to the point they make the situations of people needing saving in their heads, just like op, when I worked in a community kitchen.
@@asdfdsf-s4uhe could be a red piller, since a lot of them have been ‘converting’ to Islam because Tate did. Or maybe he just likes that specific Halal food truck.
@@AmEv7fam Yup, op was like her boyfriend is insecure, her boyfriend is a red flag, but his whole post was a display of insecurities and red flags. Jez op is nuts.
Story 1: Wow OP phrased the story like she ISN'T allowed to have a boyfriend. Like bro, you guys aren't ENGAGED, just colleagues. Who are you to tell her that she is in an abusive/controlling relationship? If anyone is controlling here, it's YOU, OP.
I mean, yes. That is his logic. He wants something so no one else can have it. The woman is an object he covets. That's literally how this asshole's brain works.
I hope they'll send all those links to HR because this guy is... a predator. >looks for novice employees >mentors them >overly 'affectionated' in a short span of time >demands to know everything about them even outside of work This guy is a danger.
Buddy in story one gives “BREAK UP WITH HIM NOW AND BE WITH ME” energy and acts like he’s already in a relationship with her and that her boyfriend is some kind of abusive affair partner.
Story 1: gotta love this guy’s entire existence on Reddit is declaring he is no longer going to reach out to OP or be her friend, for almost a year. And what’s funny is BF didn’t even need to say anything, OP did a good job coming off as a creep on his own. But still nice to know this guy can’t even lie to make himself look good just made them look more psychotic.
Yes. He is literally _so_ delusional that 1) he considers himself to even _be_ her date in the first place, 2) somehow, through that disturbing lens, has managed to-- despite all odds, and evidence pointing in literally the _opposite_ direction-- through untold amounts of mental gymnastics, _somehow_ has convinced himself that it's actually her _boyfriend_ that is insecure, when she is taking someone else as a "date" to the Grand Galloping Gala. This level of delusion is normally only seen in Flat Earthers and. . . . . . . . well, no... that's about it. I've never seen a non-Flat Earther who was this delusional. Though, _technically,_ I guess I have no proof that he is _not_ a Flat Earther.
Yep, because they can overhear conversations or see confidential information laying around the office. I've seen government janitorial staff that need actual security clearance and background checks. An nda at a famous corporation seems like the minimum expectation.
@@Vincent_Beers Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised if they needed security clearance too at those big corporations. When I worked at government job, the cleaning staff came into the file room where I worked, and nobody outside of them and us was allowed to do that. Cleaning staff go into all kinds of places so an NDA and security clearance would probably be par for the course at most places. If not a security clearance, then at least a background check so they know who they're hiring. Janitors have way more access than most people realize, I think.
One thing I gotta say about OP: he is right about the Black tie event. You cannot appear at such events wearing a T-shirt and shorts. On the other hand, OP is a total creep and the poor girl called her BF, because she wanted to get away from him ASAP. Also, what the workers to on their free time, should not concern the supervisors. The company does not own the workers. It's time for some people to understand that.
People like OP from the first story i believe that they REALLY BELIEVE in what they're saying and have some logical reasons for their thought process that only seems logical to them.
It's a combination of that and self-delusion, probably as a result of being raised as a "golden child." It's not the child's fault that they grow up believing the world revolves around them, because according to their direct personal experience, it does. But as they start to get older and begin to experience progressively more mature relationships, they begin to recognize that certain actions get negative reactions from others. Which leads to probing and prodding behavior to gauge reactions or soften the delivery of something. Like how he started off by acknowledging that she's pretty, but then immediately diminishing it like "oh but that's not the important part, I'm just pointing that out to get that out of the way." It's trying to normalize that line of thinking. He's not sitting down under a bare light bulb with a notepad and a pen plotting out his day or anything, it's just how he's learned to communicate. And so that's how he communicates.
Niceguys Posts: So all this happened because the co-worker's BF drives her to a fundraising, and he needed to drive her home early? Ya serious? And he dragged his mom into this. Talk about 4 year-old in a man's body
Ooh, it's been a long time since we've seen this, can't wait to watch! Edit: the fact that the niceguy half was entirely one story is wild. That man was so unhinged that he thought his coworker's boyfriend, who was being a Normal Boyfriend, was abusive? The fact that he called the boyfriend "insecure" and the woman his "date" in the same breath is just... sometimes I wonder what mental gymnastics niceguys use to justify their thinking.
These cursed subs again! Time to strap in *First Nice Guy Post:* "To clarify, I do _not_ have any romantic interests and do _not_ care that she has a boyfriend." Yeah, sure, buddy. His MOM?! WTF?! "But me, and a few other people ..." By other people, did he mean his mom and dad?
First story: It's interesting how "Mr. Nice Guy" makes all these claims about the girl's BF being abusive, but never... not even once outlines any actual "abuse".
Sooo according to this guy's logic, if you work with nonprofits you can't have relationships with lawyers and lobbyists? I mean, it's not like law firms EVER represent nonprofit organizations or anything like that!
Story 1: dude wrote an entire fanfic in his head about being the hero saving this girl, but she is actually fine dating a chill guy that is the exactly opposite of an insecure person.
It's always so funny seeing people try SOOOOO hard to look like the good guy in the situation but still can't help but slip up. Like the first guy, he has multiple slip ups but the one that really cements things for me was when he said "another couple". Not "a couple", not "another pair", not "other people, nope.... He indirectly referred to him and her as a couple.
My favorite part of the story was the alleged meeting at the black tie gala. The red flags OP describes, Jennifer leaving early, The boyfriend driving her to the event. Couldnt those also be behavior of a couple who have been together fro 5 years but are currently living a distance apart and wanting to actually spend time together?
Story 1: It's fascinating how the boyfriend's version of events matched pretty much EXACTLY what I expected actually happened. The second I heard that she walked away to call her boyfriend and that he was picking her up early, I immediately assumed that OP had done something to creep her out and she wanted to get the fuck out of there. Even in OP's version the boyfriend didn't seem abusive or controlling. He just seemed relaxed and like he just refused to engage in OP's obvious pissing contest.
"I found out she had a boyfriend! .... I felt manipulated that she never mentioned him before." My husband is military and has always been very private, when we were dating i went to one of his graduation ceremonies. After the ceremony i go up to him and his class mates to give him a hug/congrats, he introduces me very proudly. Nearly in unison the 3 guys say "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?!" Because never remotely mentioned me. Now, these guys were all cool, but just surprised that after the 3 month class, he never mentioned me (which im fine with, not insecure). My point is, a lot of people are just very private about their relationships and lives when at work and thats fine. You are never required to disclose tjat to colleagues or supervisors, nor should it ever be expected.
Nothing more convincing than declaring, unprompted, that you absolutely aren't interested in someone romantically. It tells the reader/listener that even you know you're lying to yourself.
So who else figures the woman in question probably called her BF to pick her up from that gala because OP was being a creep? After BF update: Called it.
This first story (well stories with all the updates) is sooooooo delulu unhinged! Is this man for real?! He saw a pretty girl and THOUGHT he had a chance with her and deluded himself into thinking she was falling for him through his “kindness” till she said she had a boyfriend. Then the real crazy came out. He deluded himself (and some others) into believing she was in an “abusive relationship” he could “save her from” that he missed ALL her discomfort signs! Then got mad she “rejected him” when she is actually in a loving steady relationship and tried letting him down gently till she couldn’t take it anymore! I really wanna hear her side of things because the vitriolic delulu of this man makes me fear for all women anywhere near him. Hope she takes out a restraining order of this psycho. Comment Update: so happy we got the boyfriend’s perspective cuz it proves this man is hella delulu!!!
Nice girls: super catty, always saying "im better than you" and emotionally bipolar Nice guys: stalks his intern for a year and tries to make her a ward of the state??? With his mom?? 💀 Wildly unbalanced stories, hopfully we can get an equally as crazy nice girl story next time
Story 1 "I'm not sure I can remain friends with her if she continues to date him" she just toldddd you she doesn't want to be friends! She said she's uncomfortable and doesn't wanna talk.
Story 1: Isn't it hilarious (and quite telling) how in one rant the OP said she sucked at her job, and then in another rant he says, "With my help you picked things up so quickly, faster than anyone I saw in a decade of this business. You had a future in this, you were promising." I don't know if his brain activity is so diminished because all the blood seems to be flowing to his second head, or if this is just straight-up mental illness.
You know that old saying, “The best revenge is a life well-lived”? Story 1 is a perfect illustration of that. This woman has already moved on in her career and relationship, and a year later, OP is still losing his mind over her.
"People in small offices will understand." My work has 30 employees, my department has 7, and im STILL learning stuff about them even though ive worked there for 2 years now. Its not hiding stuff. Its it never came up. Dude is delusional.
Story one.... OP thinks she has "insecurity issues"!? He is the posterchild for insecurity issues! He's transferring his faults onto the girl's BF. 😮 This waste of oxygen is so full of himself. Sheesh. One day he's going to prison, the way he is devolving. 🤨
Story 1. OP is the red flags. He said he has no romantic interest in his coworker, but that's obviously not true. This guy is projecting his issues onto his coworker's boyfriend.
That boss showed extremely early on that he was the delusional one. That poor woman tried to be nice but he’s crazy af. It was when he said he was angry that she hadn’t told him that she had a boyfriend - that’s bizarre because he’s a colleague. If I was that woman I would absolutely be taking out a restraining order but it would be against him.
You know how you can just tell when someone is making up stuff in their own head as an excuse to act a certain way? When someone doesn't behave reasonable or logical in any way but somehow they've convinced themselves that they are still "normal"? That's op from story 1.
Story 1: This guy is seriously one that flew over the cuckoo’s nest. Do you guys think he’s the same or worst then the guy who kept diaries about OP and then sent them to her?
First post from the creep. He slipped up and said "how can someone be do insecure their girlfriend coming to a Gala with their date" at that point i could tell he's delusional
Bf (of one week): I can't come over, I'm sick. I miss you but I don't want to infect you. Me: Your health is much more important than seeing me. Let me know how you are, miss you too xx Nicegirl: I KNOW YOU'RE LYING ARE YOU TRYING TO BREAK UP WITH ME YOU LOSER?
It's kinda funny. As long as he thought she was single there was nothing. But as soon as he finds out she's in a relationship (and a long one at that) shes acting different, despite her being in that relatiin since before she worked under him. He's also just a victim blamer, the woman is in a long term abusive relstionship? "I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU BROKE AND BROKEN IN A FEW YEARS."
Clearly I commented too early, dude is unhinged JFC. Also anyone else think it's interesting that these "abuse" allegations suddenly came up the moment the girl mentioned she had a serious boyfriend?
Story 1. People, just because you find someone who is nice to you and has the same interests as you doesn't means they like you romantically or that you two are fated to be together. Don't be creepy, don't harass, don't attach to illusions of people, don't be desperate, don't push people to love you.
Love how that guy said he had no romantic feelings towards the new coworker, then just goes on & on about his romantic feelings towards the new coworker....🤔
First story: Reminds me of my fiance’s ex best friend that I was not jealous of her at all. I did not even see her on my radar and even my boyfriend told me I should have no worries about her, but she kept getting closer and if anything she was upset as hell that he wouldn’t respond immediately when he was home with me . He used to work very hard and a very demanding job and when he would get home, he would be so tired that all he wanted to do was eat watch some TV and go to bed and she would get so angry because sometimes she would ask him to go out together by themselves after work, and he would always use me as an excuse instead of telling her straight up he’s tired , because he didn’t want to hurt her feelings. That caused a whole Lotta problems, With her bad mouthing my name. Calling me controlling. And she how just “wishes it could go back to how it used to be” 😂 Well, she lost her right to him once I caught her over and over again doing shit like a overly attached girl again and again even begging him to say things like ” just say that you love me and that you care “ Delulu lil stink🤮 I think she’s just mad that we managed to stay together for like five years and she never was able to stay with a man more than one and what’s worse as she’s older than both me and my man 🤢 she a whole wreck. She did all of this while having a boyfriend, and trying to cheat on him with his own best friends.. She got so ashamed that she had to leave and go Hella upstate. Good riddance everybody has grown and done so much better without her . She still too ashamed to show her face. everybody is going through milestones in the group chat and she’s the only one that can’t show up to the baby showers🫣 Did I mention how there were other couples in the group and she was also trying to get with their men? She knew the boys in the group 1st since middle school, so she really was one of those girls sitting at the wing, waiting for those boys to look at her and they never did 😅
"She's letting this guy control her every move." ...like you're trying to do, you mean? It's wild how little self-awareness some people have...the way he talks it sounds like he's right on the cusp of realizing where he's going wrong but he can't quite get there. And it just keeps going!
11:48 "I had an effect on you". For sure. 😂 14:34 Projection is wild. Talk about compassion for a supposed victim of abuse. What a mean, egocentric guy.
Story 1 first off I’d love to know what “the incident” was. Sounds like it was more than just the party… unless it was his attempt to convince her to leave her boyfriend. Also the bf’s comment that the boss only started acting strange around summer… I’m betting that’s when the boss found out that the boyfriend existed.
Rslash, PLEASE KEEP DOING THESE AGAIN. These videos were comedy gold. Even after watching every video of Niceguys vs Nicegirls, I still rewatch the whole playlist because of how entertaining they are. So please keep doing them
OP in the first story: "I CAN'T BELIEVE MY CO-WORKER'S BOYFRIEND IS SO ABUSIVE AND MANIPULATIVE, AND SHE ISN'T SEEING REALITY" meanwhile Jennifer and her boyfriend's relationship is the most normal and healthy relation ever, meanwhile he's acting all creepy and possessive of her. Yeah she is on a abusive relationship, but the abusive person isn't her boyfriend, it's OP
I love this dude is so misogynistic that he can’t even conceive of the fact that this woman doesn’t want to be around him, and blames it all on the boyfriend. No dude, she just saw you for who you are and was appalled
1:Kinda sounds like OP have romantic interest in her if OP felt like she was hiding something. If you’re just friends it shouldn’t matter if she has a bf. Yeah her bf sounds controlling if OP is telling the truth…kinda feels like it’s going into stalker territory. No TH-cam yet again nothing hateful was said
Omg it’s like listening to a descent into madness. I heard a similar story from the woman’s point of view where the boss proposed to her and she was like “I’m happily married! wtf?”
This is what happens when people get to into their own heads and let it spiral. It can result in some really irrational ideas that result in really strange, dangerous, and uncharacteristic behaviors. Normal people can get there when they isolate their thoughts too much. Therapy if even just for a person to talk to when you have nobody else.
1st story 1) She doesn't owe you in discussing her private life and who she dates. 2) You sound like you do have a thing for her, but you are you supervisor. Doesn't that mean that a relationship would be wrong between the two? That does count with supervisors, right? 3) That guy is so unhinged, if they were together or even friends still, it sounds like he'd be the abusive one.
Story 1: Normally, I'd make a joke or say something sarcastic here. That's just me *honks clown nose*. Not this time. The OP in this needs someone in their life to get them some help. They sound like they could wind up doing something very dangerous, and I'm genuinely worried for anyone around them.
I don't think I've ever been more frightened hearing/seeing another man descend into complete madness. At this point, he needs a team of professionals to help untangle the web of insanity that was spun in his head.
"Jennifer and I were talking to 'another couple'" You're not a couple!! She has a boyfriend!
I picked up on that too!
also when he said "boyfriend so insecure he cant let her 'date' pick her up"
Yeah, he's like "why can't I get some too!?!?" Wahhh.. 😢 lol
Nice catch, I missed it
@@echo_the_developerhe did say "date" didn't he... mental
Man.
For a guy without a romantic attachment, OP sure does care who her boyfriend is.
I always found, from the niceguy / nicegirl posts, that nicegirls are crazier and delisional, but niceguys are more dangerous. This guy is the whole package.
@@SergioBicerraboth are crazy and dangerous, but in slightly different ways. "Nice guys" tend to act entitled like incels while "nice girls" are ready to flip any bad situation so they sound in control. No matter what they are both seriously unhinged.
A simpy creep or a creepy simp, I can't decide which one he is.
He's definitely butthurt over her BF. 😮
@@annika5893I would not consider this a simp 🤔
Story 1: If there was ever a person who needed to be doxxed so his employer could see how unhinged he was it's this guy. He works in a non-profit helping people? Jeezus.
Not all heroes wear capes, some use a VPN while doing the lords work. May he be exposed 🙏
I don't think it was Jezus, he was talking something about halal food so I think it was Muhammad
A lot of peple with a hero complex, like OP, work in non-profits. I met a lot, A LOT, of delusional folks who feel the need to save others, to the point they make the situations of people needing saving in their heads, just like op, when I worked in a community kitchen.
In a cold war setting, thought of him as 1 minute before midnight, story devolved to 1 second before.ñ
@@asdfdsf-s4uhe could be a red piller, since a lot of them have been ‘converting’ to Islam because Tate did. Or maybe he just likes that specific Halal food truck.
"How do you make someone who refuses to see reality actually see what's happening?"
The irony here is palpable, my man.
Right
"ugh this girls long distance boyfriend is super insecure" or maybe they want to spend more time together..?
It's always projection, isn't it?
@@AmEv7fam Yup, op was like her boyfriend is insecure, her boyfriend is a red flag, but his whole post was a display of insecurities and red flags. Jez op is nuts.
Then he creeps her out at the gala, she gets her boyfriend to come pick her up and tries to keep it professional and he pitches a fit
I thought that at first, then it sounded more like he creeped her out and as it goes further it becomes obvious he creeped her out.
Story 1: Wow OP phrased the story like she ISN'T allowed to have a boyfriend. Like bro, you guys aren't ENGAGED, just colleagues. Who are you to tell her that she is in an abusive/controlling relationship? If anyone is controlling here, it's YOU, OP.
I mean, yes. That is his logic. He wants something so no one else can have it. The woman is an object he covets.
That's literally how this asshole's brain works.
Bro called the gala a date bro is lost
Now now, OP clearly stated that he has no romantic relationship intentions with OP, so we should obviously take his word as truth./s
Bruh is living in delulu land.. He's batshit crazy!! He's the one who is controlling and ridiculous.. Nothing sounds abusive or anything.
Dude's whole evidence for "Abuse" was "Trust me bro"
homie is giving " ill tie you up to the radiator in my basement and feed you nothing but grapes and water, as i brush your hair softly humming" vibes.
Yeah the girl is in a abusive relationship just not with her bf but with op seriously he should come with a "contains nuts" warning
This is the best roast I've ever heard 🤣🤣
YAY! YOU BROUGHT NICE GUYS AND NICE GIRLS BACK!
pop the champagne!
ik im so happy it's back
I hope they'll send all those links to HR because this guy is... a predator.
>looks for novice employees
>mentors them
>overly 'affectionated' in a short span of time
>demands to know everything about them even outside of work
This guy is a danger.
The posts are seven years old now so hopefully that guy got punished.
Falls in the realm of sexual harassment.
Story 1: Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you the Chairman and CEO of Casa de cuckoo. 😳
This is pure gold!
He flew over the nest
I heard they shut down and rebranded as Loco Doodle Doo
The president of Delululand
The king of cuckoladoodoo
Buddy in story one gives “BREAK UP WITH HIM NOW AND BE WITH ME” energy and acts like he’s already in a relationship with her and that her boyfriend is some kind of abusive affair partner.
Story 1: gotta love this guy’s entire existence on Reddit is declaring he is no longer going to reach out to OP or be her friend, for almost a year. And what’s funny is BF didn’t even need to say anything, OP did a good job coming off as a creep on his own. But still nice to know this guy can’t even lie to make himself look good just made them look more psychotic.
2:53 I had to play this again. Did he really say that her boyfriend is insecure about her “date” taking her to the gala?
Yes. He is literally _so_ delusional that 1) he considers himself to even _be_ her date in the first place, 2) somehow, through that disturbing lens, has managed to-- despite all odds, and evidence pointing in literally the _opposite_ direction-- through untold amounts of mental gymnastics, _somehow_ has convinced himself that it's actually her _boyfriend_ that is insecure, when she is taking someone else as a "date" to the Grand Galloping Gala. This level of delusion is normally only seen in Flat Earthers and. . . . . . . . well, no... that's about it. I've never seen a non-Flat Earther who was this delusional.
Though, _technically,_ I guess I have no proof that he is _not_ a Flat Earther.
He also said they were talking to "another couple" while at the gala. As if they were a couple.
"I'm so over you I'm going to write twelve paragraphs about how over you I am!"
It’s back now time for tech support, stories about Kevin, ahole tax, tree law, choosing beggars and feel good stories
i was listening to some old videos and I miss the way he used to do them.
Tree law , tree law , tree law
absolutely. I keep having to dig through older videos to find those.
Tree law tree law tree law
Agreed, I miss the old subs
S1: An easy way to spot a true friend is seeing how much harm and failure they wish upon you as punishment for not doing what they want.
R/LetsNotMeet for the weather PLEASE 😭😭😭
Dude that first story is the aggressors side of "letsnotmeet" 😭😭 that guy is bonkers
My uncle DID work at Nintendo of America, but as a janitor. He is retired now but still.
Apparently even the Janitors have to sign an NDA.
Yep, because they can overhear conversations or see confidential information laying around the office. I've seen government janitorial staff that need actual security clearance and background checks. An nda at a famous corporation seems like the minimum expectation.
@@Vincent_Beers Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised if they needed security clearance too at those big corporations. When I worked at government job, the cleaning staff came into the file room where I worked, and nobody outside of them and us was allowed to do that. Cleaning staff go into all kinds of places so an NDA and security clearance would probably be par for the course at most places. If not a security clearance, then at least a background check so they know who they're hiring.
Janitors have way more access than most people realize, I think.
One thing I gotta say about OP: he is right about the Black tie event. You cannot appear at such events wearing a T-shirt and shorts.
On the other hand, OP is a total creep and the poor girl called her BF, because she wanted to get away from him ASAP.
Also, what the workers to on their free time, should not concern the supervisors. The company does not own the workers. It's time for some people to understand that.
Update: bruh, hope the poor girl gets a restraining order against him.
you can wear whatever you want when you're the guy that donated
Oh no no, you see, he was not just her supervisor, he was her ✨friend✨
@anagonzalez8972 At the end I wanted to vomit. Disgusting.
What's better is that according to the real boyfriend, it wasn't even a gala like op was suggesting. He fantasized it.
People like OP from the first story i believe that they REALLY BELIEVE in what they're saying and have some logical reasons for their thought process that only seems logical to them.
It's a combination of that and self-delusion, probably as a result of being raised as a "golden child." It's not the child's fault that they grow up believing the world revolves around them, because according to their direct personal experience, it does. But as they start to get older and begin to experience progressively more mature relationships, they begin to recognize that certain actions get negative reactions from others. Which leads to probing and prodding behavior to gauge reactions or soften the delivery of something. Like how he started off by acknowledging that she's pretty, but then immediately diminishing it like "oh but that's not the important part, I'm just pointing that out to get that out of the way." It's trying to normalize that line of thinking. He's not sitting down under a bare light bulb with a notepad and a pen plotting out his day or anything, it's just how he's learned to communicate. And so that's how he communicates.
Niceguys Posts: So all this happened because the co-worker's BF drives her to a fundraising, and he needed to drive her home early? Ya serious?
And he dragged his mom into this. Talk about 4 year-old in a man's body
Mommy, she doesn’t like me😢
I'm 100% certain OP started being really creepy, particularly at the gala, because the employee definitely asked her BF to bail her out.
Oh I guarantee you that she wanted her boyfriend to take her there and pick her up because she was already getting creep vibes from him at that point
Ooh, it's been a long time since we've seen this, can't wait to watch!
Edit: the fact that the niceguy half was entirely one story is wild. That man was so unhinged that he thought his coworker's boyfriend, who was being a Normal Boyfriend, was abusive? The fact that he called the boyfriend "insecure" and the woman his "date" in the same breath is just... sometimes I wonder what mental gymnastics niceguys use to justify their thinking.
These cursed subs again! Time to strap in
*First Nice Guy Post:* "To clarify, I do _not_ have any romantic interests and do _not_ care that she has a boyfriend." Yeah, sure, buddy.
His MOM?! WTF?!
"But me, and a few other people ..." By other people, did he mean his mom and dad?
That's what I though too. Dear old mommy had his back the whole time lmao
First story: It's interesting how "Mr. Nice Guy" makes all these claims about the girl's BF being abusive, but never... not even once outlines any actual "abuse".
Sooo according to this guy's logic, if you work with nonprofits you can't have relationships with lawyers and lobbyists?
I mean, it's not like law firms EVER represent nonprofit organizations or anything like that!
Story 1: dude wrote an entire fanfic in his head about being the hero saving this girl, but she is actually fine dating a chill guy that is the exactly opposite of an insecure person.
It's always so funny seeing people try SOOOOO hard to look like the good guy in the situation but still can't help but slip up. Like the first guy, he has multiple slip ups but the one that really cements things for me was when he said "another couple". Not "a couple", not "another pair", not "other people, nope.... He indirectly referred to him and her as a couple.
Not to mention how he called himself her date in reference to them going to the gala together 🤢
Story 2: "i can get any guy I want."
Except for the dude you were messaging apparently
That dude screams Nick Fuentes energy. "Your body, my choice" bullshit? Wow is all I got to say to that.
1st story - what a sad never-has-been with the delusions of grandeur.
Yeah, the Niceguys win this one. That guy was literally insane. I feel so bad for that woman. I'm also really glad to see this series come back!
My favorite part of the story was the alleged meeting at the black tie gala. The red flags OP describes, Jennifer leaving early, The boyfriend driving her to the event. Couldnt those also be behavior of a couple who have been together fro 5 years but are currently living a distance apart and wanting to actually spend time together?
Hey creepy, leave her alone. Nothing is your course of action.
Therapy maybe
first story legit made me feel ill with how delusional that guy was and probably still i
Story 1: It's fascinating how the boyfriend's version of events matched pretty much EXACTLY what I expected actually happened. The second I heard that she walked away to call her boyfriend and that he was picking her up early, I immediately assumed that OP had done something to creep her out and she wanted to get the fuck out of there.
Even in OP's version the boyfriend didn't seem abusive or controlling. He just seemed relaxed and like he just refused to engage in OP's obvious pissing contest.
"I found out she had a boyfriend! .... I felt manipulated that she never mentioned him before."
My husband is military and has always been very private, when we were dating i went to one of his graduation ceremonies. After the ceremony i go up to him and his class mates to give him a hug/congrats, he introduces me very proudly. Nearly in unison the 3 guys say "YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?!" Because never remotely mentioned me. Now, these guys were all cool, but just surprised that after the 3 month class, he never mentioned me (which im fine with, not insecure).
My point is, a lot of people are just very private about their relationships and lives when at work and thats fine. You are never required to disclose tjat to colleagues or supervisors, nor should it ever be expected.
Nothing more convincing than declaring, unprompted, that you absolutely aren't interested in someone romantically.
It tells the reader/listener that even you know you're lying to yourself.
Twice. In a row!
So who else figures the woman in question probably called her BF to pick her up from that gala because OP was being a creep?
After BF update: Called it.
That awkward moment when the crazy and controlling one is YOU and not your colleague's significant other.... YIKES!
“Her date” “another couple”
All I’m gonna say…
And THAT guy is why women prefer the bear!
I want to smell you
I love you
This first story (well stories with all the updates) is sooooooo delulu unhinged! Is this man for real?! He saw a pretty girl and THOUGHT he had a chance with her and deluded himself into thinking she was falling for him through his “kindness” till she said she had a boyfriend. Then the real crazy came out. He deluded himself (and some others) into believing she was in an “abusive relationship” he could “save her from” that he missed ALL her discomfort signs! Then got mad she “rejected him” when she is actually in a loving steady relationship and tried letting him down gently till she couldn’t take it anymore! I really wanna hear her side of things because the vitriolic delulu of this man makes me fear for all women anywhere near him. Hope she takes out a restraining order of this psycho.
Comment Update: so happy we got the boyfriend’s perspective cuz it proves this man is hella delulu!!!
The first one started more or less fine - weird, but fine - but very quickly devolved.
It was like a slow burning fire. Every drop of gasoline just made it burn hotter and hotter until it became an inferno.
"Im losing respect for her" you never respected her
Nice girls: super catty, always saying "im better than you" and emotionally bipolar
Nice guys: stalks his intern for a year and tries to make her a ward of the state??? With his mom?? 💀
Wildly unbalanced stories, hopfully we can get an equally as crazy nice girl story next time
You can stalk me
Story 1 "I'm not sure I can remain friends with her if she continues to date him" she just toldddd you she doesn't want to be friends! She said she's uncomfortable and doesn't wanna talk.
Story 1: Isn't it hilarious (and quite telling) how in one rant the OP said she sucked at her job, and then in another rant he says, "With my help you picked things up so quickly, faster than anyone I saw in a decade of this business. You had a future in this, you were promising."
I don't know if his brain activity is so diminished because all the blood seems to be flowing to his second head, or if this is just straight-up mental illness.
You know that old saying, “The best revenge is a life well-lived”? Story 1 is a perfect illustration of that. This woman has already moved on in her career and relationship, and a year later, OP is still losing his mind over her.
"People in small offices will understand."
My work has 30 employees, my department has 7, and im STILL learning stuff about them even though ive worked there for 2 years now. Its not hiding stuff. Its it never came up. Dude is delusional.
Story 1: This isn't a "nice guy." He's a psycho.
No, Nice Guys *are* psychos.
Exactly what this subreddit means
Yeeeesss!!!!! Thank you Rslash!! I love nice guys vs nice girls!
Holy fuck that first story just gets creepier with every new entry.
Creepy more like unhinged , after awhile he's just ranting out of his butt
if only this was posted on thursday.. but we got a THROWBACK FRIDAY
Thriday
TBF
Whats that yellow 2 thing at 2:43??
I thought the same thing. I don't know.
Edit: Apparently there's a three as well. Idk what's up with that
Edit#2: Apparently it's counting them.
OP, you think SHE refuses to see reality?! Do you not hear yourself?!
If I found out my boss posted all of this, I'd quit on the spot.
Story one.... OP thinks she has "insecurity issues"!? He is the posterchild for insecurity issues! He's transferring his faults onto the girl's BF. 😮
This waste of oxygen is so full of himself. Sheesh. One day he's going to prison, the way he is devolving. 🤨
Story 1. OP is the red flags. He said he has no romantic interest in his coworker, but that's obviously not true. This guy is projecting his issues onto his coworker's boyfriend.
That boss showed extremely early on that he was the delusional one. That poor woman tried to be nice but he’s crazy af. It was when he said he was angry that she hadn’t told him that she had a boyfriend - that’s bizarre because he’s a colleague. If I was that woman I would absolutely be taking out a restraining order but it would be against him.
Any body who sides with and relates with OP1, is a dangerous person.
Story 1: OH MY LANTA!!!!!!! OP is a narcissist and has lost his mind over a crush that set up boundaries after he started becoming possessive
You know how you can just tell when someone is making up stuff in their own head as an excuse to act a certain way? When someone doesn't behave reasonable or logical in any way but somehow they've convinced themselves that they are still "normal"? That's op from story 1.
1st story reminds me of that office stalker. The one with the red journal.
In my Spanish speaking country, we call this being “enculado” it means to be in love or obsessed with something or someone in a very narcissistic way
Story 1: This guy is seriously one that flew over the cuckoo’s nest. Do you guys think he’s the same or worst then the guy who kept diaries about OP and then sent them to her?
@@MusicGirl881 the guy was definitely a creep but I’ve heard worse about obsessed guys who literally ruined their ex’s life
First post from the creep. He slipped up and said "how can someone be do insecure their girlfriend coming to a Gala with their date" at that point i could tell he's delusional
Bf (of one week): I can't come over, I'm sick. I miss you but I don't want to infect you.
Me: Your health is much more important than seeing me. Let me know how you are, miss you too xx
Nicegirl: I KNOW YOU'RE LYING ARE YOU TRYING TO BREAK UP WITH ME YOU LOSER?
It's kinda funny. As long as he thought she was single there was nothing. But as soon as he finds out she's in a relationship (and a long one at that) shes acting different, despite her being in that relatiin since before she worked under him.
He's also just a victim blamer, the woman is in a long term abusive relstionship? "I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU BROKE AND BROKEN IN A FEW YEARS."
1st story: "I have no romantic interest in her." As my father and I would say "Bullshit!"
Clearly I commented too early, dude is unhinged JFC.
Also anyone else think it's interesting that these "abuse" allegations suddenly came up the moment the girl mentioned she had a serious boyfriend?
Story 1.
People, just because you find someone who is nice to you and has the same interests as you doesn't means they like you romantically or that you two are fated to be together. Don't be creepy, don't harass, don't attach to illusions of people, don't be desperate, don't push people to love you.
Love how that guy said he had no romantic feelings towards the new coworker, then just goes on & on about his romantic feelings towards the new coworker....🤔
First story:
Reminds me of my fiance’s ex best friend that I was not jealous of her at all. I did not even see her on my radar and even my boyfriend told me I should have no worries about her, but she kept getting closer and if anything she was upset as hell that he wouldn’t respond immediately when he was home with me . He used to work very hard and a very demanding job and when he would get home, he would be so tired that all he wanted to do was eat watch some TV and go to bed and she would get so angry because sometimes she would ask him to go out together by themselves after work, and he would always use me as an excuse instead of telling her straight up he’s tired , because he didn’t want to hurt her feelings.
That caused a whole Lotta problems, With her bad mouthing my name. Calling me controlling. And she how just “wishes it could go back to how it used to be” 😂
Well, she lost her right to him once I caught her over and over again doing shit like a overly attached girl again and again even begging him to say things like ” just say that you love me and that you care “
Delulu lil stink🤮
I think she’s just mad that we managed to stay together for like five years and she never was able to stay with a man more than one and what’s worse as she’s older than both me and my man 🤢 she a whole wreck. She did all of this while having a boyfriend, and trying to cheat on him with his own best friends.. She got so ashamed that she had to leave and go Hella upstate.
Good riddance everybody has grown and done so much better without her . She still too ashamed to show her face. everybody is going through milestones in the group chat and she’s the only one that can’t show up to the baby showers🫣
Did I mention how there were other couples in the group and she was also trying to get with their men?
She knew the boys in the group 1st since middle school, so she really was one of those girls sitting at the wing, waiting for those boys to look at her and they never did 😅
That first guy OMG.... funny how he accuses her of being in an abusive relationship but HE seems abusive himself...
"She's letting this guy control her every move."
...like you're trying to do, you mean? It's wild how little self-awareness some people have...the way he talks it sounds like he's right on the cusp of realizing where he's going wrong but he can't quite get there. And it just keeps going!
Story 2: well my dad is Batman, he has more power and can kick her uncle’s ass.
11:48 "I had an effect on you". For sure. 😂
14:34 Projection is wild.
Talk about compassion for a supposed victim of abuse. What a mean, egocentric guy.
19:08 Some people are so hollow. "Wow! He's hot! So am I! We're perfect for each other!"
Morning, afternoon, and evening rSlash gang!
Jooooordyn 🤜🤛
Story 1 first off I’d love to know what “the incident” was. Sounds like it was more than just the party… unless it was his attempt to convince her to leave her boyfriend.
Also the bf’s comment that the boss only started acting strange around summer… I’m betting that’s when the boss found out that the boyfriend existed.
Rslash, PLEASE KEEP DOING THESE AGAIN. These videos were comedy gold. Even after watching every video of Niceguys vs Nicegirls, I still rewatch the whole playlist because of how entertaining they are. So please keep doing them
OP in the first story: "I CAN'T BELIEVE MY CO-WORKER'S BOYFRIEND IS SO ABUSIVE AND MANIPULATIVE, AND SHE ISN'T SEEING REALITY" meanwhile Jennifer and her boyfriend's relationship is the most normal and healthy relation ever, meanwhile he's acting all creepy and possessive of her. Yeah she is on a abusive relationship, but the abusive person isn't her boyfriend, it's OP
The first guy sounds familiar. Except this girl's not mad at her boyfriend for coming in casual attire at least not that we know of.
I love this dude is so misogynistic that he can’t even conceive of the fact that this woman doesn’t want to be around him, and blames it all on the boyfriend. No dude, she just saw you for who you are and was appalled
1:Kinda sounds like OP have romantic interest in her if OP felt like she was hiding something. If you’re just friends it shouldn’t matter if she has a bf. Yeah her bf sounds controlling if OP is telling the truth…kinda feels like it’s going into stalker territory. No TH-cam yet again nothing hateful was said
Omg it’s like listening to a descent into madness. I heard a similar story from the woman’s point of view where the boss proposed to her and she was like “I’m happily married! wtf?”
This is what happens when people get to into their own heads and let it spiral. It can result in some really irrational ideas that result in really strange, dangerous, and uncharacteristic behaviors. Normal people can get there when they isolate their thoughts too much. Therapy if even just for a person to talk to when you have nobody else.
1st story
1) She doesn't owe you in discussing her private life and who she dates.
2) You sound like you do have a thing for her, but you are you supervisor. Doesn't that mean that a relationship would be wrong between the two? That does count with supervisors, right?
3) That guy is so unhinged, if they were together or even friends still, it sounds like he'd be the abusive one.
Aaaand, time to start working. Perfect timing
Christ on a stick. I’m reminded of that line from Zombieland.
“Look, have you ever read that book *_She’s Just Not That Into You?”_*
Story 1 - Wow, what a psycho! I hope that girl gets far far away from that guy - sheesh !
I missed these subreddits
Story 1: Normally, I'd make a joke or say something sarcastic here. That's just me *honks clown nose*.
Not this time.
The OP in this needs someone in their life to get them some help. They sound like they could wind up doing something very dangerous, and I'm genuinely worried for anyone around them.
You know…….. the 1st story makes me understand why there is laws to “help victims”.
This is a throwback
I don't think I've ever been more frightened hearing/seeing another man descend into complete madness. At this point, he needs a team of professionals to help untangle the web of insanity that was spun in his head.
wow that first guy is one-hour-photo level of delusional / obsessive. i think he actually might be dangerous.
First Story: The Michael Scott experience.
Story 1: Good lord this was painful to listen to.
"I haven't even had the strength to go on Reddit for a while now" Coming from the 7th post, this made me chuckle
The "unsent letter" really sounds like a love letter talking about a child that can't function on their own