It's rare but it's true that Islam is being criticised unfounded to confound and confuse the bewildered audience ' drop by drop' as we cry out in protest, this is your hate planted in the minds to manifest and grow to an unjustified horror inflicted on the innocent
My ex-husband made me feel so worthless, I, a female servant of Allah, considered suicide! But Allah put into my head that He chose me to know Him and worship Him, I'm a revert of 30 years alhamdu Lillah. If Allah values me that's all that matters.
May Allah swt make it easy for you, the very fact that you're here with us today shows that Allah protected you and we make dua that Allah swt keeps protecting you. I can imagine your pain, but turn that pain into power and positivity. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Its remarkable what humans can go through and if only we saw the rewards we reaped in akhirah. In our eternal abode! Jannah, that place is my ultimate motivation in times of difficulties and ease. Goodness ALWAYS comes after trials. Protect yourself from shaitans whispers
@@sarahkhawaja9617 jazak Allah khairun for your kind words. Alhamdu Lillah all good. Everything we experience is good for us, if we look for it, even if it's learning about ourselves. I have learnt that Allah will never let me down.
Being married to someone who doesn't love you back is one of the most painful things one can go through and does make you feel worthless. I was married for 5years to a man who didn't feel the same way about me this made me feel completely worthless and rejected on a daily basis. He divorced me and asked me to leave with our 3 kids. 6years later and I can still remember the feeling of him flirting with other women all the time and the pain of him never looking at me that way. I took care of myself and always tried to look good for him. It consoles me to know that our worth only comes from Allah. It doesn't matter who treats us badly because of our physical flaws or doesn't love us back. In Jannah we will look and be perfect . May we all reach there. Love yourself even if you not perfect...
There is a way Nouman Ali Khan explains things that always leaves me in awe. It's like he is able to pick lessons and teach them in such a beautiful way. May Allah reward you and your team
I am one of those... Still working on it... May Allah help and guide all those who have insecurities, questionable self-worth and needs validation time to time...
Dear sister, this was indeed a beautiful reminder. Struggling with self worth sometimes comes from deep inside - the wounded child. Going back to our early years when we needed most valuation, acceptance, emotional attuned caregivers and so on. The healing journey can be long and prbly will be a life long. If anyone interested dr Kim sage has got some good videos on that subject. May Allah swt help us to really live up to our worth and therefore become better and stronger and may He help us esp with our children.
I really needed to hear this. I feel worthless most of the time because many people wronged me. But I try to remind myself that Allah loves me thats why he has made me a Muslim.
I love you for the sake of Allah 🤍. you're not alone, Allah is always with us, He's the almighty and you are Allah's creation.. may Allah enable you and all of us to see know we're absolutely worthy❤
When ever peoples put me down .I remembered the hadith our beloved prophet Muhammad saw the woman through rubbish on him and how he delt with it subhanaallah that give me strength to get on alhamdulillah. May Allah keep us on straight path aameen. It's seems difficult but it's very easy if we understand life purpose. Just to worship Allah swt.
Love this video Selfrespect is also a protection against abuse. If people see that you have boundaries and loving yourself they cannot abuse you. Very important to love yourself.
One of the greatest VideO came acrOss on TH-cam ❤ May Allah make us tO respect ourselves and believe on ourselves and do not let Satan tO convince us that we are LOSERS! Ameen!💕🤲
Its very important to value yourself To know your worth.. Others will never respect you if you dont first respect yourself Every woman is a queen. Every person has worth
Ustad Ji. I feel the same way when I look my past and haven't anything good in the way of All SWT. But to overcome on this I started Tahjjud and a kind of calmness and Help came from Allah SWT. Now I became a person who hopeful for a good End. JazakAllah Wassalam
O Allah, make my religion easy for me by virtue of which my affairs are protected, set right for me my world where my life exists, make good for me my Hereafter which is my resort to which I have to return, and make my life prone to perform all types of good, and make death a comfort for me from every evil.”
This is such a needed video for this time. We are yet to establish why exactly we are in a global crisis of not valuing ourselves, it doesn’t quite compute what the source of this is. Nevertheless we need to find a way out of this demeaning belief system and get to a point where we truly respect ourselves.
I deeply respect you from the day I ever saw your first clip cuz idk your words are sooooooo powerful everytime I see/hear I get the exect point what you try to tell
Whenever I feel worthless or down,I found such kind of words by you Respected brother. I really like the way you clarify the meaning of to be worthy. Thanks for sharing, be blessed 🙏😭
I don’t think it’s as black and white, for long time I tried convincing myself that I don’t need validation when I have Allah, however it’s still a struggle - there’s childhood wounds and to add to that we are living in society where it’s all about external validation- it’s a real struggle. Growing up if you were harshly criticised and received no praise from parents you can see how own can seek it elsewhere- May Allah increase us all in healthy confidence and be satisfied with knowing he values us
I'm drowning In the same pit. Growing up loveless and seeking external validation elsewhere when small things put me down so fast and I feel I have no purpose anymore. Feeling lonely all the time.
Thank you so much .. i have been struggling lately with my self-esteem.. and how much unworthy i felt .. your words went right through me .. i appreciate every single word you said .. thank you shaikh may allah bless you 🕊️
At 1.50 I just called my mom , after bouts of depression through the years, tonight was ft like eternity of suffering. I felt I was done. I despite moving places couldn't respect myself because no one else ever did. But I was about to find a video to go sleep in peace. Allah showed this to me. Allah exists. Allah sees. I saw this.
I remember a narration regarding a youth that spoke such negative self talk to rasuul as, the nabi turned to him and told him no to the negative names of him self and reminded him he was aebdullah, and that is a grand thing
Alhamdulillâhi Rabbil âlamiin. Allâhumma Salli alâ Seyyidinâ Mawlâna Muhammadin Wa Sallim. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. May ALLÂH SWT Rewards.
MashaAllah! I needed to hear that today. Even though I am someone who tries to stay as positive as possible.. I was just struggling from past few days but after this video I'm back.. Loving myself for the sake of Allah SWT because he created me and he is the best ❤
we were "alive without breathing" in our mothers womb and this real gave us some clue about "alive without breathing realm" hereafter.. assalamualaiqum
i struggle so much with low self-esteem and especially with my appearance, i am aware that Allah has created me in a beautiful way but i just can't help but feel sad everytime i look at myself whether it be the mirror or a picture, i live with the thought that my appearance is invalidating every good quality i have in me and this is eating me up alive, and everytime i try to be more positive like telling myself that im pretty in the mirror i feel sadder bc i feel like im just lying to myself through my teeth, im so good at encouraging others to love themselves and i can list them a thousand reasons in one sitting on why they should love and appriciate themselves but i can never do that to myself, i criticize myself more than anyone and i cant even take genuine compliments bc they feel like lies bc i cant accept that im pretty or good, im rlly struggling a lot i dont know how to help myself at all
ustadh my name is Sarah. i am a revert muslim. i am going thru a painful journey. in search of someone from madarsa to discuss but the moment i listen you. i cry why i am not able to meet u n get all the answers which is bothering my marriage life. please make dua for me. Sarah
MashaAllah brother, that was beautiful! Allah bless you abundantly always that you may continue to help us along our journey to becoming better muslims! Ameen!
May Allah strengthen our hearts and iman to go through hardships that make us feel worthless or vulnerable. -Reminder: Allah created us, he makes no mistakes!
Jazak allahu khair ustad Nouman and team for all the efforts you people are making for us and generations to come....I am waiting for the day when I can buy the subscription....and one day to become the ustaad like you and join your team insha allah...
Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐 sometimes it's about learning and understanding the efforts of someone else by putting your feet in their shoes. Sometimes it's about moulding yourself enough times again and again to become better and sometimes it's about testing yourself . Just to see the miracle with your own eyes and experience the miracle from within. Sometimes it's about finding the answer that is it really true about a human being? About Adam A. S.? Is he really better than the other creation of Allah subhannahu wa taala? How is he better than other creation? In which Way is a human being better than the other creations? 💐💐💐💐💐
When you value yourself, then being criticized is not humiliation. You see it as an opportunity to grow. ✔
It is true. Alhamdulillah
I don’t know anyone who handles criticism well. Easier said than done
It's rare but it's true that Islam is being criticised unfounded to confound and confuse the bewildered audience ' drop by drop' as we cry out in protest, this is your hate planted in the minds to manifest and grow to an unjustified horror inflicted on the innocent
Wise words you have there, brother.
Exactly! That's me. I always hold my head up and never belittle myself.
My ex-husband made me feel so worthless, I, a female servant of Allah, considered suicide! But Allah put into my head that He chose me to know Him and worship Him, I'm a revert of 30 years alhamdu Lillah. If Allah values me that's all that matters.
May Allah swt make it easy for you, the very fact that you're here with us today shows that Allah protected you and we make dua that Allah swt keeps protecting you. I can imagine your pain, but turn that pain into power and positivity. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. Its remarkable what humans can go through and if only we saw the rewards we reaped in akhirah. In our eternal abode! Jannah, that place is my ultimate motivation in times of difficulties and ease. Goodness ALWAYS comes after trials. Protect yourself from shaitans whispers
@@sarahkhawaja9617 jazak Allah khairun for your kind words. Alhamdu Lillah all good. Everything we experience is good for us, if we look for it, even if it's learning about ourselves. I have learnt that Allah will never let me down.
Sister may allah reward u for ur patience
May allah make it easy for you my sister💯🙏🏾
May Allah bless you 😇❤️
Being married to someone who doesn't love you back is one of the most painful things one can go through and does make you feel worthless. I was married for 5years to a man who didn't feel the same way about me this made me feel completely worthless and rejected on a daily basis. He divorced me and asked me to leave with our 3 kids. 6years later and I can still remember the feeling of him flirting with other women all the time and the pain of him never looking at me that way. I took care of myself and always tried to look good for him. It consoles me to know that our worth only comes from Allah. It doesn't matter who treats us badly because of our physical flaws or doesn't love us back. In Jannah we will look and be perfect . May we all reach there. Love yourself even if you not perfect...
Alxamdulilah you get out off that situation
@@anisoabdi6262 Alhamdulilah, brighter days ahead ia !
This has touched me deeply ❤❤ you definitely deserve better than that
Allah created us perfectly sister, it's your ex-husband's eyes that didn't see the beauty, it's his heart that is blind. May Allah give you peace ❤
Alhamdulillah that you got off the situation sister. May Allah (swt) reward you and your kids with the best in both the worlds.
There is a way Nouman Ali Khan explains things that always leaves me in awe. It's like he is able to pick lessons and teach them in such a beautiful way. May Allah reward you and your team
I am one of those... Still working on it... May Allah help and guide all those who have insecurities, questionable self-worth and needs validation time to time...
Dear sister, this was indeed a beautiful reminder. Struggling with self worth sometimes comes from deep inside - the wounded child.
Going back to our early years when we needed most valuation, acceptance, emotional attuned caregivers and so on. The healing journey can be long and prbly will be a life long. If anyone interested dr Kim sage has got some good videos on that subject.
May Allah swt help us to really live up to our worth and therefore become better and stronger and may He help us esp with our children.
Allah has programmed ladies that way sister. Know u r not alone and Rembr that this is a constant struggle .. may Allah guide us all.
I really needed to hear this. I feel worthless most of the time because many people wronged me. But I try to remind myself that Allah loves me thats why he has made me a Muslim.
You are right
There will be people who will love you one day insha Allah ❤
@@narjisel8430 thank you. And Alhamdulillah my family is very loving and supportive.
Yes
I love you for the sake of Allah 🤍. you're not alone, Allah is always with us, He's the almighty and you are Allah's creation.. may Allah enable you and all of us to see know we're absolutely worthy❤
When ever peoples put me down .I remembered the hadith our beloved prophet Muhammad saw the woman through rubbish on him and how he delt with it subhanaallah that give me strength to get on alhamdulillah. May Allah keep us on straight path aameen. It's seems difficult but it's very easy if we understand life purpose. Just to worship Allah swt.
Indeed, Allah Has honored me and you.
Love yourself no matter what by treating yourself kindly.
I so needed this reminder! Shaytan preys on our own self-doubts. May Allah protect us from shaytan and his companions. Aameen.
You're a rare 'gem' Ustadh
May Allah bless your knowledge
Ameen.
NAK is the best, I wish him the best.
ٱللَّٰهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَىٰ مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا صَلَّيْتَ عَلَىٰ إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ.
ٱللَّٰهُمَّ بَارِكْ عَلَىٰ مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا بَارَكْتَ عَلَىٰ إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَىٰ آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ.
Love this video
Selfrespect is also a protection against abuse.
If people see that you have boundaries and loving yourself they cannot abuse you.
Very important to love yourself.
One of the greatest VideO came acrOss on TH-cam ❤
May Allah make us tO respect ourselves and believe on ourselves and do not let Satan tO convince us that we are LOSERS!
Ameen!💕🤲
Amazed by how ustad explains this things....truly mesmerized
The way he lifts up others by his speech>>>>>>>>
I've always suffered from low self esteem and these words make so much sense. May Allah protect us from shaytan
جزاكم الله خيرا كثيرا for you and team who has taught me this worth lesson. May Allah gives jannah to you, team and for us.
SubhanAllah what a great way of looking at it! Love how nouman Ali khan is always optimist like a good Muslim
Its very important to value yourself
To know your worth..
Others will never respect you if you dont first respect yourself
Every woman is a queen.
Every person has worth
Great reminders. JazakAllah Khair.
“One of the crises today”……so true.
So so so important. Allah has named Himself our Cherisher, each and every one of us is important to Him.
Ustad Ji.
I feel the same way when I look my past and haven't anything good in the way of All SWT. But to overcome on this I started Tahjjud and a kind of calmness and Help came from Allah SWT. Now I became a person who hopeful for a good End. JazakAllah Wassalam
Alhamdullilah I am so proud of you and being a student of Bayyinah institution ❤
O Allah, make my religion easy for me by virtue of which my affairs are protected, set right for me my world where my life exists, make good for me my Hereafter which is my resort to which I have to return, and make my life prone to perform all types of good, and make death a comfort for me from every evil.”
you're a blessing from allah to us, ustad nouman💗💗
This is such a needed video for this time. We are yet to establish why exactly we are in a global crisis of not valuing ourselves, it doesn’t quite compute what the source of this is. Nevertheless we need to find a way out of this demeaning belief system and get to a point where we truly respect ourselves.
Thank you so much for this beautiful message. May it reach those who really need it inshallah. Barakallahu fikum
Self love deficit disorder is a generational curse. It was how we were brought up as kids that made us believe we are not worthy
I deeply respect you from the day I ever saw your first clip cuz idk your words are sooooooo powerful everytime I see/hear I get the exect point what you try to tell
Thank you. I have fwded this to my children. It was very very eye opening. You have taught us a lot.
Whenever I feel worthless or down,I found such kind of words by you Respected brother. I really like the way you clarify the meaning of to be worthy. Thanks for sharing, be blessed 🙏😭
Jazak Allah khair
I don’t think it’s as black and white, for long time I tried convincing myself that I don’t need validation when I have Allah, however it’s still a struggle - there’s childhood wounds and to add to that we are living in society where it’s all about external validation- it’s a real struggle. Growing up if you were harshly criticised and received no praise from parents you can see how own can seek it elsewhere- May Allah increase us all in healthy confidence and be satisfied with knowing he values us
I'm drowning In the same pit. Growing up loveless and seeking external validation elsewhere when small things put me down so fast and I feel I have no purpose anymore. Feeling lonely all the time.
My fav scholar ❤
Thank you so much .. i have been struggling lately with my self-esteem.. and how much unworthy i felt .. your words went right through me .. i appreciate every single word you said .. thank you shaikh may allah bless you 🕊️
I needed to hear this now.. Alhamdulillah!
I was having low self esteem after getting criticised by my fiancé. Alhamdulillah this video appeared on my feed at the right time.
At 1.50 I just called my mom , after bouts of depression through the years, tonight was ft like eternity of suffering. I felt I was done. I despite moving places couldn't respect myself because no one else ever did. But I was about to find a video to go sleep in peace. Allah showed this to me. Allah exists. Allah sees. I saw this.
I am so thankful I listen to this today
Best lecture at the right time
جزاكم الله خيراً
I admire this man, I love all what he says
May Allah grant you Jannah!!
I like the way you explain its so simple and easy to grasp the concept. May Allah reward you. Jazakallahu khayran.
I remember a narration regarding a youth that spoke such negative self talk to rasuul as, the nabi turned to him and told him no to the negative names of him self and reminded him he was aebdullah, and that is a grand thing
ALHAMDULILLAH.... SUBHAN'ALLAH,..... ALLAHU AKBAR......LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULALLAH ( S.A.W.).....
Barakallahu Fik and your whole team 🙏🏼🖤
Alhamdulillâhi Rabbil âlamiin.
Allâhumma Salli alâ Seyyidinâ Mawlâna Muhammadin Wa Sallim.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. May ALLÂH SWT Rewards.
Good reminder!!!
MashaAllah! I needed to hear that today. Even though I am someone who tries to stay as positive as possible.. I was just struggling from past few days but after this video I'm back.. Loving myself for the sake of Allah SWT because he created me and he is the best ❤
JazakAllahu Khairan
❤ jazakallahu khair va alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatullah 🌹
we were "alive without breathing" in our mothers womb and this real gave us some clue about "alive without breathing realm" hereafter..
assalamualaiqum
was at a point in my lif ethat needed to hear this. Indeed Allah knows what we want 🥰
Thank you brother Nouman, May Allah Bless you ❤️
there is a boundry between being humble and valueing urself and every one needs to understand the limits.....
im in shock right now, thanks
May allah reward the people putting the effort for these videos reaching me
Jazakallah khair....i got this lecture at the perfect time#present need
IQ + EQ + GUIDANCE = TRUTH
Assalamualaiqum wmt
May Allah reward you with good and enlighten you with his noble light
Tafseer is free of fabricated history and hadees...
Great 👍
JazakAllah Khair
Happy Ramadan Mubarak ✨ may Allah bless you and team
Subhana Allah
Only do everything for the word of Allah
Ya Allah !!! This is sooo important!!! I understand now the trap !!!
Thanks for the reminder and for the way you explain things brother Nouman.
Thank you Ustadh. Really needed to hear this message right now.
MashAllah beautiful video
Mashaallah. Excellent. I really appreciate and enjoy your lectures. Shukran
Good point I think he should focus on the benefits of self respect more then the negatives.
i struggle so much with low self-esteem and especially with my appearance, i am aware that Allah has created me in a beautiful way but i just can't help but feel sad everytime i look at myself whether it be the mirror or a picture, i live with the thought that my appearance is invalidating every good quality i have in me and this is eating me up alive, and everytime i try to be more positive like telling myself that im pretty in the mirror i feel sadder bc i feel like im just lying to myself through my teeth, im so good at encouraging others to love themselves and i can list them a thousand reasons in one sitting on why they should love and appriciate themselves but i can never do that to myself, i criticize myself more than anyone and i cant even take genuine compliments bc they feel like lies bc i cant accept that im pretty or good, im rlly struggling a lot i dont know how to help myself at all
ustadh my name is Sarah. i am a revert muslim. i am going thru a painful journey. in search of someone from madarsa to discuss but the moment i listen you. i cry why i am not able to meet u n get all the answers which is bothering my marriage life. please make dua for me. Sarah
We all are making dua for you inshallah .. May allah makes your life easier
@@Fiya851 thank you sister. it means a lot to me jzk
Amazing 😍 lecture
May Allah bless you ✨🤲
Salaams..always looking forward to your khutbah. Jazakallah
Thank you. This has hit a chord in me today.
MashaAllah brother, that was beautiful! Allah bless you abundantly always that you may continue to help us along our journey to becoming better muslims! Ameen!
Amazing this is something everyone should listen to this. May allah bless you. Best bayan every.Thank you ❤
Thank you for this topic brother May Allah bless you
This is really for us ❤ ustadh a big blessing ❤
SubhanAllah! Allahu Akbar!Alhamdulillah!
Jazakallah Khair..
فتح الله عليك وجزاك الله كل خير يارب العالمين 🤲
This clip was treat to ears ❤️ JazakAllah-o-khair
SubhanAllah wabiham dehee SubhanAllah hilazeem
MashaAllah. Really relevant !
this got me shook wallah
Beautiful lecture. 💚
May Allah strengthen our hearts and iman to go through hardships that make us feel worthless or vulnerable. -Reminder: Allah created us, he makes no mistakes!
Best lecture ❤❤❤
I love listening this kind of vid, alhumdulliah for everything
Jazak allahu khair ustad Nouman and team for all the efforts you people are making for us and generations to come....I am waiting for the day when I can buy the subscription....and one day to become the ustaad like you and join your team insha allah...
So true bro Allah bless you
You saved my life, thank you 😊
Jazaq Allahukum khairan Shaikh💐💐💐💐💐 sometimes it's about learning and understanding the efforts of someone else by putting your feet in their shoes. Sometimes it's about moulding yourself enough times again and again to become better and sometimes it's about testing yourself . Just to see the miracle with your own eyes and experience the miracle from within. Sometimes it's about finding the answer that is it really true about a human being? About Adam A. S.? Is he really better than the other creation of Allah subhannahu wa taala? How is he better than other creation? In which Way is a human being better than the other creations? 💐💐💐💐💐
Love this dude MashaAllah
Jzk
Your much is much appreciated
May Allah reward you and guide us
This is the real motivation ✔️💯
I don't have any place in this world but here I am.... just trying to do some dhikr to fulfill the purpose.