You can't marry a girl in her 20's when you're in your 50's and expect smooth sailing. She still wants to have fun and new experiences so there's a great chance she'll stray towards people her our own age where she can find what she's looking for.
@@reigninblood123 For sure! But why not at least TRY to increase your chances for success via something crazy like....gosh, I don't know...maybe having a little something in common? Even having the same aching back might be a start!!
These stories are never ending. There’s a lot of guys out there that can’t handle being alone. These women provide a service for lonely old men with money. It’s a never ending tale.
Joe didn’t waste 3 years of his life, he gained valuable experience about Thailand and its inhabitants. Joe can now move forward living the life he always wanted, with the experience of what to be aware of going forward.
You get dizzy by even walking those streets as a tourist. Now some one after a 'peaceful retirement ' decides to make Pattaya home and visit those bars...with an engagement ring in pocket😂😂😂
The golden rule : Don’t get married and have kids in Thailand. Stay single in Thailand and enjoy the country and what it has to offer. Don”t cohabit either. Just keep a bunch a women in your phone and rotate them depending on who’s available.
And for your noble deed of handing over your life savings, you get placed at the bottom of the totem pole and then eventually discarded when the well has run dry.
I have the habit of not trusting anyone but my dog, since she passed, now I don't trust anyone. I always assume there is an angle that I can't see yet. Life is like having fun in a casino, only bet what you can lose. I follow this policy and escaped two divorces, which is also a lesson. I might have a partner again, but I will never marry again. This was the only good thing he did.
This guy literally did everything wrong in the book, and then took it to another level of stupidity. 3 years of your life? Should never have gone past 3 days.
Recently on the Thairish Times channel he interviewed a guy who took his wife to court during divorce over the house and got back 60% of the value for it. You need to be legally married to do this of course. If you're legally married though I think it's possible if the women was savvy enough to take you to court in your home country and could do crazy things like get a part a pension or who knows what else. I don't see the average Thai women having the means to travel overseas and hire lawyers, spend days in court etc.... but that is in theory possible depending on your countries laws.
I saw that episode. Good to know there is law in Thailand. On the other hand, most of these idiots give away their money by choice, so technically there is never any crime in these situations.
@@TheJay37 it was a multi million baht house if I recall so worth it. Many guys just want things done and dusted so they abandon everything for the quick out.
This is a typical sad SE Asian story, at least for the man involved. There is nothing wrong with these sorts of relationships if both members of the couple have their eyes wide open. It is a transaction where youth and beauty are traded for money and passport. As Tina once said: "What's love got to do with it?".
You don’t need a three day rule just common sense don’t go if you can’t afford it and don’t think a prostitute is your ideal woman. It’s painful to listen to this guy go from bad decision to bad decision. Never gets a clue. Blames it on the pound value and the girl. Who invited her to live with him. How is this different than other relationships that fall apart and break up. All the comments yes no one cheats on their partners in England? There are not demanding girlfriends outside of Thailand. She could say the same wasted 3 years of her life with a stupid old man.
Very sad story, unless woman! always look for red flag and put your feet down say No! No matter how beautiful or caring she is! Don't trust them! Glad you are doing Ok 👌👍
Another typically sad story for the guy joe .my take is when she was wanting more money demands it probably was for her thai boyfriend. As joe said he found out shed been seeing a thai boy ..40 k to loose on a house he built is really sad but if hed stayed how much more would she have bled his private pension for ..i think hes okay on his private pension now single guy in pattaya. 1700 a month ..when u think a retired uk pension is only 840 a month from 65 ..
If you are looking for a relaxing change from Pattaya, there is one nearby changwat I can think of just the other side of Rayong, by the name of Chanthaburi. After a decade in Thailand, from Rayong to Nong Khai to Hat Yai to Loei to Nonthaburi to Suphanburi to Mukdahan to Phuket and quite a few places in between, I'd rather be in Chanthaburi for the long term 'normal' life all things considered. Just don't tell anyone or all the tourists will turn up and wreck the place.
Thai catalogue brides. She had aids and my cousin's father was an MP in Bern. She spent only Sunday with my cousin. My parents, Sri Lankan and Zwiss, met at zpeaker's Corner London during the festival of Britain. We moved to DC, and mummy returned to Marble arch area when she was diagnosed terminally ill with cancer. My husband had an affair when I had my 2nd bout of 3. Cuts two ways. So sorry.
Wow. Wouldn't put his foot down because he agreed to put all his savings into someone else's house then became afraid of offending them. Just wow. Into self-loathing much? You must be to place yourself in that powerless and subservient position.
I have some relatives from Buriram who married farang and they built these mansions for them. Guess what? The guys ended up broke, lost their jobs, and got cheated on. It's quite sad but it's not entirely the woman's fault. The old fart had it coming. 😂
I am hooking up with issan lady I think but she is famous you tubers her site is called Queen of Pattaya Thai girl been watching her 7yrss now and find out she has same likes as me for most part and she was not bar girl but working girl. I am also us navy 7th fleet man going back to Thailand on vacation first time since my navy days in 80s. Looking forward to hooking up with my future Thai lady if we hit it off
This is the best, also with some european women, you give and give and if onetime you do not want to give, you are selfish! The other person was only takeing…. Some people cannot look at their own self- image!
What a weak spineless person, never passed his adolescence, even after this experience I'm not sure he is mentally a grown up person. Very difficult to listen to this kind of stories. Makes me sick.
These are stories of man that dont act like men. This is simp behavior.. she took u away from Pattaya so u wont have other options.. and u are a yes man... this story is good to show other simps that when they ask u for everything and everyone.. buying a house in her town wss a way thst if u break up ur not gonna want to live there and move. Sorry to hear all this it saddens me that men arent raised to know all these things in advanced..its other simps raising their son as a simp.. now u learned and living like a man
Lols marry most east Asian girls, no you don't even have to marry, but just date her and you are also dating her and her extended family and their extended families 😂
Why do people put their home in their wifes name. You can get a 30 year lease in your name.Any thing you paid for cars motorbikes put in your name. What is yoir before a marriage remains ypurs
@@clivebaxter6354hardly life changing if you have the balls to make sensible decisions. His situation is nothing to do with Brexit and everything to do with his own bad decisions.
Long term exchange to usd was 1.45 to 1.65 it has been 1.15 to 1.35 post Brexit. Brexit has ruined the British economy--they fell pray to a Russian PsyOp.
You can't marry a girl in her 20's when you're in your 50's and expect smooth sailing. She still wants to have fun and new experiences so there's a great chance she'll stray towards people her our own age where she can find what she's looking for.
There's been stories of guys getting fleeced by 40 year old women as well.
@@reigninblood123 For sure! But why not at least TRY to increase your chances for success via something crazy like....gosh, I don't know...maybe having a little something in common? Even having the same aching back might be a start!!
@@beverlyweber4122Asian women don't have anything in common with American men
She was also a 20 something that worked in A BEER BAR.
No right minded man in their 50s should want to get involved with a woman in their 20s
This happens to a foreign guy ever hour in Thailand. Remember 3 day rule guys. Just rent by the hour.
So that's 24 guys a day times 365 days a year = 8,760 guys per year getting fleeced. Seems way too low an estimate! 🤣
I think you're probably right.@@TruthTellerTH-k3w
1965-s8p is proud to be a sex tourist.
I'd make it a 2 day rule to be honest.
@@H.1965-s8p Sad, sad, sad man.
Another fool who became dizzy with bar girl snatch. Next thing he is building a house and handing over his money.
Desperate white men
These stories are never ending. There’s a lot of guys out there that can’t handle being alone. These women provide a service for lonely old men with money. It’s a never ending tale.
Joe didn’t waste 3 years of his life, he gained valuable experience about Thailand and its inhabitants. Joe can now move forward living the life he always wanted, with the experience of what to be aware of going forward.
“IF IT FLIES, FLOATS OR FORNICATES, ALWAYS RENT IT, IT'S CHEAPER IN THE LONG RUN”
FELIX DENNIS
PERFECT! That should be on every bumper sticker and billboard GLOBALLY!
🤣🤣🍺🍻
You knew it would go downhill when Pattaya and a bar girl came into it
😂😂😂 ikr
You get dizzy by even walking those streets as a tourist. Now some one after a 'peaceful retirement ' decides to make Pattaya home and visit those bars...with an engagement ring in pocket😂😂😂
I am in US and dating a Thai woman and your story is making me think twice about continuing it. Thanks for sharing your story.
@@stevefrank8564
You mean dating her in the US or online dating & she's in Thailand?
@@stevefrank8564 Pre nup if getting married
She's a 304! What do you mean she didn't look for a job? You do realise what her profession is, right?
what happened with giving women number labels? it is way too kind...what! the algos don't like gold digger, hoe, slut, bitch, user?
Everyone who has built a house in their partner’s home territory has ended up badly.
And say absolutely no to single mum’s.
It’s satisfying hearing stories about idiots learning a lesson.
Exactly no sympathy.they are victims of their own egos
😂😂😂😂😂
And then to whinge about Brexit for your stupid mistakes .. ha ha .
If he'd married in England he'd have lost an awful lot more (says he after losing 2 houses to ex wives)...
Divorce in Thailand they only get half of any assets acquired after the wedding, it's fairer here
you lost TWO houses? I don't think I could bare the idea of marriage again if that happened to me even once.
@@HairyPixels Well I don't beieve in doing things by half LOL, I've now been single for 18 years!
@@michaelj3282 For the better I suppose. Hope you were able to recover well enough.
The golden rule : Don’t get married and have kids in Thailand. Stay single in Thailand and enjoy the country and what it has to offer. Don”t cohabit either. Just keep a bunch a women in your phone and rotate them depending on who’s available.
Thanks for another good story John 😅
don't blame the girl, everyone knows this is their game
Blames Brexit for the financial problems unbelievable.
Retired with insufficient funds is the problem here
This kind of girls are present in every country of the world
I don't care where a woman's from it's my money my wallet and every woman is replaceable it's a hard truth but learn it your life will be much better
So he was 55+ and she was 24 ??? What do some of these guys expect, really ....
The only possibility is that he found his goldilocks way to destroy himself that he thought was just right.
‘never expected any of her demands’ … 😅
Her money is her money. Your money is also her money.
And for your noble deed of handing over your life savings, you get placed at the bottom of the totem pole and then eventually discarded when the well has run dry.
Dont let go of what you;ve got, especially financially
I have the habit of not trusting anyone but my dog, since she passed, now I don't trust anyone. I always assume there is an angle that I can't see yet. Life is like having fun in a casino, only bet what you can lose. I follow this policy and escaped two divorces, which is also a lesson. I might have a partner again, but I will never marry again. This was the only good thing he did.
Another desperate fool who thinks Pattaya is Thailand.
A 55 year old guy who wants a 20 something as his girlfriend what society would approve this relationship.
This guy literally did everything wrong in the book, and then took it to another level of stupidity. 3 years of your life? Should never have gone past 3 days.
Recently on the Thairish Times channel he interviewed a guy who took his wife to court during divorce over the house and got back 60% of the value for it. You need to be legally married to do this of course. If you're legally married though I think it's possible if the women was savvy enough to take you to court in your home country and could do crazy things like get a part a pension or who knows what else. I don't see the average Thai women having the means to travel overseas and hire lawyers, spend days in court etc.... but that is in theory possible depending on your countries laws.
Never marry them, keep it short time if you must and don't let them move in with you.
Don’t forget the lawyers fees. He most likely paid in the vicinity of 300K THB +
I saw that episode. Good to know there is law in Thailand. On the other hand, most of these idiots give away their money by choice, so technically there is never any crime in these situations.
@@TheJay37 it was a multi million baht house if I recall so worth it. Many guys just want things done and dusted so they abandon everything for the quick out.
insanity , kitty really be making these simps do crazy things
You made ALL the stupid mistakes one could possibly make.
😂 girls don’t ruin anyones’ lives
YOU let the girl do that !
Take responsibility !
She turn his life to a living hell.
He lies about her not having a job... draining him of everything he had was her job and she was employee of the month lmao
Hey, post a few pictures from your village wedding 😁😁😁
That was your buy in to Thailand, she taught you a life lesson. Now you can live peacefully, having paid the farang tax.
It's tough when you become the family ATM. I been there. The white guy is "rich" and everyone is desperate for cash.
This is a typical sad SE Asian story, at least for the man involved. There is nothing wrong with these sorts of relationships if both members of the couple have their eyes wide open. It is a transaction where youth and beauty are traded for money and passport. As Tina once said: "What's love got to do with it?".
4:48 "Why are they all from Isaan?"😂😂😂😂
Most of them are from Southern Isan (Surin and Buriram ) 😂. Some of my relatives are married to farang guys. One of them now lives in Denmark
You don’t need a three day rule just common sense don’t go if you can’t afford it and don’t think a prostitute is your ideal woman. It’s painful to listen to this guy go from bad decision to bad decision. Never gets a clue. Blames it on the pound value and the girl. Who invited her to live with him. How is this different than other relationships that fall apart and break up. All the comments yes no one cheats on their partners in England? There are not demanding girlfriends outside of Thailand. She could say the same wasted 3 years of her life with a stupid old man.
Even the local monks taking a cut lol , one born every minute !
Take on a Thai girl and everyone knows you take on her family…tough lesson learned fella
I'll say it again why buy the book when you can take out the library GET THE MESSAGE 😊
Can't stop 😄😄😄, village wedding 😁😁😁just another old farang & young Thai girl ........endless repetition of the same story !!!.
Learn something from local men; Bargirls are for bars, not for home.
Very sad story, unless woman! always look for red flag and put your feet down say No! No matter how beautiful or caring she is! Don't trust them! Glad you are doing Ok 👌👍
Another typically sad story for the guy joe .my take is when she was wanting more money demands it probably was for her thai boyfriend. As joe said he found out shed been seeing a thai boy ..40 k to loose on a house he built is really sad but if hed stayed how much more would she have bled his private pension for ..i think hes okay on his private pension now single guy in pattaya. 1700 a month ..when u think a retired uk pension is only 840 a month from 65 ..
If you are looking for a relaxing change from Pattaya, there is one nearby changwat I can think of just the other side of Rayong, by the name of Chanthaburi. After a decade in Thailand, from Rayong to Nong Khai to Hat Yai to Loei to Nonthaburi to Suphanburi to Mukdahan to Phuket and quite a few places in between, I'd rather be in Chanthaburi for the long term 'normal' life all things considered. Just don't tell anyone or all the tourists will turn up and wreck the place.
Thai catalogue brides. She had aids and my cousin's father was an MP in Bern. She spent only Sunday with my cousin. My parents, Sri Lankan and Zwiss, met at zpeaker's Corner London during the festival of Britain. We moved to DC, and mummy returned to Marble arch area when she was diagnosed terminally ill with cancer. My husband had an affair when I had my 2nd bout of 3. Cuts two ways. So sorry.
Wow. Wouldn't put his foot down because he agreed to put all his savings into someone else's house then became afraid of offending them. Just wow. Into self-loathing much? You must be to place yourself in that powerless and subservient position.
Rule 1 through 10: You rent them, never marry them.
There is no rule 11.
This guy had nowhere near enough. Would need 3x this amount.
I have some relatives from Buriram who married farang and they built these mansions for them. Guess what? The guys ended up broke, lost their jobs, and got cheated on. It's quite sad but it's not entirely the woman's fault. The old fart had it coming. 😂
£1,700 => 76,500 baht is sufficient money to live reasonably well in Thailand.
I would suggest Rayong if you want a cheaper and quieter place to live.
It’s an amble amount.
I am hooking up with issan lady I think but she is famous you tubers her site is called Queen of Pattaya Thai girl been watching her 7yrss now and find out she has same likes as me for most part and she was not bar girl but working girl. I am also us navy 7th fleet man going back to Thailand on vacation first time since my navy days in 80s. Looking forward to hooking up with my future Thai lady if we hit it off
Be smart. Don't trust anyone with your monies.
This is the best, also with some european women, you give and give and if onetime you do not want to give, you are selfish! The other person was only takeing…. Some people cannot look at their own self- image!
Old guy, younger bar girl. What did you think would happen.
What a weak spineless person, never passed his adolescence, even after this experience I'm not sure he is mentally a grown up person. Very difficult to listen to this kind of stories. Makes me sick.
is that part of the scam, a village wedding instead of a real wedding
Hua hin is a great place to move good like
Brexit to blame, been under 50 and lower 40's before brexit
These are stories of man that dont act like men. This is simp behavior.. she took u away from Pattaya so u wont have other options.. and u are a yes man... this story is good to show other simps that when they ask u for everything and everyone.. buying a house in her town wss a way thst if u break up ur not gonna want to live there and move. Sorry to hear all this it saddens me that men arent raised to know all these things in advanced..its other simps raising their son as a simp.. now u learned and living like a man
Lols marry most east Asian girls, no you don't even have to marry, but just date her and you are also dating her and her extended family and their extended families 😂
Just rent the snatch , then you will have no problems , if you *need* a Thai girlfriend / partner don't look in a bar etc.
Why do people put their home in their wifes name. You can get a 30 year lease in your name.Any thing you paid for cars motorbikes put in your name. What is yoir before a marriage remains ypurs
Not a golden Goose a Simp 🤔
isn't there an economic principle called cumalot spendalot and one called cumlittle spendalot?
Remoaner: 'Som Nam Naa'😆
Lol women can see them coming a mile away
Surin>Pattaya
self inflicted
Single mom😅😂
My money very very góod from us govt pay so I can move easy to Thailand I just do not speak thai
It's half toursts, half locals?😳
Same story again and again. Keep it short time.
Brexit didnt knock the value of the pound down, wtf is he talking about?
It did, I transferred just before it was 50 to the pound a month later it was around 40
@nuttiputty is probably a Reform supporter. I recall the pound dropping from $1.60 USD to $1.30 USD overnight.
Absolutely correct. Some people will cling on to anything to blame anyone but themselves for their own bad decisions.
@@clivebaxter6354hardly life changing if you have the balls to make sensible decisions. His situation is nothing to do with Brexit and everything to do with his own bad decisions.
Long term exchange to usd was 1.45 to 1.65 it has been 1.15 to 1.35 post Brexit. Brexit has ruined the British economy--they fell pray to a Russian PsyOp.
Once a bar girl always a bar girl