SOMETHING EVERY MOM NEEDS TO HEAR: No Such Thing As The Perfect Mom | The Gifts of Imperfection

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  • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
    @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Any other recovering perfectionists out there? Do you feel like your perfectionism is better or worse since having kids?

    • @businessbraniac8827
      @businessbraniac8827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mom Life At Its Finest oh yeah!

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's rough. But knowing we're not alone is something that's really helped me.

  • @homewithava
    @homewithava 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video! Your exactly right. I had no clue of what mom guilt was to a became a mom. Thanks for sharing and encouraging💕🌸

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      JourneyWithAva mom guilt is so vicious! Definitely struggle with it and have to talk some sense into myself. ❤️

  • @businessbraniac8827
    @businessbraniac8827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have no idea how much I needed to hear this today! Thank you!!!

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm thrilled to hear that! I know I tend to be so hard on myself and I figured I can't be the only one--even though I hope everyone remembers to give themselves grace cuz there really ISN'T any such thing as the perfect mom. We're all doing our best!

  • @MiaDetomaso
    @MiaDetomaso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh gosh exactly it’s when they always pile up! That’s when it makes me struggle too.

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's brutal. Like we can handle individual things but the compound effect is just TOO MUCH!

  • @juliannenichole
    @juliannenichole 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this!! I can relate so much! Great video ❤️

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's so hard. We're so hard on ourselves! Hope this gives everyone inspiration & encouragement. We got this, mamas! Thanks for watching!

  • @MiaDetomaso
    @MiaDetomaso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this honesty 🤍🤍🤍 today was rough and I needed this! Sometimes I feel like I failed and it’s so hard to forgive myself for not being “perfect”

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad it hit home with you but sorry to hear you had a rough day, too. I'm right there with you struggling to remind myself there's no such thing as perfection!

  • @tiffanygreen4524
    @tiffanygreen4524 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this message it needs to be said more thanks for sharing ❤️

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We're so hard on ourselves! It's so hard to reconcile our expectations with reality. Thanks for watching!

  • @MyHomeFoodsCrafts
    @MyHomeFoodsCrafts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou for sharing very useful information

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really hope it helps! Always something I wrestle with and I know I can't be the only one. Thanks for watching!

  • @MiaDetomaso
    @MiaDetomaso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You need a podcast 🤍🤍🤍 this was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you!

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That made my day! Thanks for saying that. I dream of starting one but obviously short on time & energy these days, haha

  • @jasminemedrano231
    @jasminemedrano231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I needed to hear this as a first time mom

  • @LauraValverde.
    @LauraValverde. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm looking through your videos and I absolutely love the topics your are bringing light to. I definitely believe my perfectionism has gotten worse since having a baby because I focus on so much more than getting something done. I want it PERFECTLY done. Thank you for your insight

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Perfectionism and mom guilt are so vicious! After having kids I've really struggled with feeling like there must be "one RIGHT way" to do everything and it's taken me a long, long time to realize that is NOT true. We've gotta give ourselves grace and know that we are the BEST MOM FOR OUR KIDS! No one else's opinion matters. Thanks so much for watching! If you have any ideas of videos you wanna see, just lmk. :)

  • @awkwardlyamy1228
    @awkwardlyamy1228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advice. Thank you for sharing. ❤️

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really hope it's something every mom takes to heart! I've wrestled with it a lot. Thanks for watching!

  • @kyrstengrass5002
    @kyrstengrass5002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks amber❣ loved this!

  • @Mrs_Turner2013
    @Mrs_Turner2013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely loved this message ❤️

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks, Amanda! Glad it resonated with someone else. I feel like I hold myself to an impossibly high standard and it's so important to step back & give ourselves grace.

    • @Mrs_Turner2013
      @Mrs_Turner2013 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mom Life At Its Finest yes exactly and I always try to teach my kids as well that we are all not perfect and I mess up too

  • @MyHumbleHome
    @MyHumbleHome 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your amazing, thanks for sharing this topic, loved it , ❤

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We all struggle with this, don't we? We're SO hard on ourselves. And it's easy to feel pressure from society to be "the perfect mom." Yet we KNOW there's no such thing! Why do we forget? Thanks for watching!

  • @AshleySonder
    @AshleySonder 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this message Amber. I wish more people talked about stuff like this cause it’s so important! 💛

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, Ashley! I agree: we need to spread the word to each other more!

  • @mommyjaslynn
    @mommyjaslynn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤️

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching! I really think this is SUCH an important message. Please do share with any other moms you know who need to hear it!

  • @alyssabaur6177
    @alyssabaur6177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a recovering perfectionist! I think I might’ve passed some of it onto my oldest though 😭

    • @MomLifeAtItsFinest
      @MomLifeAtItsFinest  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really? I worry I've done the same to my oldest, too. (And I'm the oldest in my family so maybe there's a pattern there....) Thanks for watching!

  • @SolutionsforSimplicity
    @SolutionsforSimplicity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For anyone interested, I share 5 ways to combat mom guilt in this video on my other channel. I think it's soooo important to talk about this and know we're never alone! th-cam.com/video/0KPWjWCdPts/w-d-xo.html