*1-1 Mentorship Information: Price & Structure (Maximum Capacity = 20 Clients Per Year)* It's an absolute pleasure to film these TH-cam videos, and I feel fortunate to receive an abundance of meaningful messages every week, but I am unfortunately faced with the disappointing reality of turning away the vast majority of people who want to work together. I have significantly limited availability and can only support twenty people per year because I do not offer one-off calls or drop-in consulting sessions. Twenty individuals might not sound like maximum capacity, but the last few years of teaching have taught me the importance of maintaining tight energetic boundaries if I want to keep uploading these free videos in addition to serving my current clients to the best of my ability in 2024. To minimise confusion and enhance transparency, I've spent several hours writing this ridiculously long comment to help you decide if my Inner Work Mentorship is the right choice for your development & what you could reasonably expect from working closely together. Please take the time to read this service description before contacting me on Instagram… or feel free to stop reading right now if you’re not interested in my fees, session structure, client expectations, etc. ... *READ BEFORE SCROLLING FURTHER:* I'm interested in long-term change and structural transformation, which is why I've never offered one-off sessions. Complex issues cannot be resolved in a few hours, but we likewise need to define an upper limit for containment and collaboration. I've learned that deep and enduring self-integration requires at least four months of immersive effort. Why four months? It's enough weekly contact for us to work through multiple complex issues and developmental possibilities, but short enough to mitigate against unconscious co-dependency and motivational stagnation. I'm currently accepting a maximum of two new clients per month - message me after reading the following section to check my availability. ... *HOW I WORK & WHO I WORK WITH* Unlike other coaches and teachers who take an understandably more relaxed approach to healing and integration, my mentorships are characteristically intense. This is a highly-demanding, high-investment process which requires our consistent combined effort over a period of four months. If we were to start working together, I would reasonably expect you to be excited to show up for a minimum of 10+ hours of self-motivated transformative practice per week (daily reading, fitness routine, creative exercises, spiritual reflection, etc.) while also maintaining full-sobriety (no drink, no drugs, no cigarettes, no vapes). These strict standards of discipline and sobriety are plainly unsuitable for most people in most situations - even genuinely motivated individuals who resonate with my TH-cam videos may not be the right match for four months of structured mentorship. If you want to get deeper, I've noticed that there's a certain type of ‘temperament' & 'timing’ to get the most out of me. I'm interested in alert, creative and purpose-driven individuals who aspire to exceptional standards of self-maturation and would enjoy the feeling of going through week-on-week of progressively stacked transformative experiences for a third of a year: my ideal client is somebody who is willing to bring forward their internal complexity with a sense of courage and transparency with the intention of nothing less than full-spectrum transformation & rapid acceleration on their personal path. I am yet to discover another supportive figure who offers something comparable to this mentorship: a four-month, structured yet flexible 1-1 container which is simultaneously therapeutic, academic and action-oriented; with primary focus placed on tangible improvements in your felt sense of self-knowledge and self-integration; in addition to making consistent and meaningful progress towards your unique goals and mentorship aspirations. I prioritise contact, compassion and accountability, which means that your work never really 'ends' at the end of your session. You can reasonably expect to be fed dozens of customised reading suggestions and follow-on perspectives outside of the formal sessions via friendly and informal messenger contact, where I am active and available four days per week to cultivate an intimate personal connection while likewise enhancing your positive momentum via accountability check-ins and additional support as required. By way of conclusion for what feels like an extraordinarily long comment and service description, I feel compelled to once more emphasise that working directly with me is unrealistic for most people in most situations. I often support people who are accustomed to wrestling with the emotional challenges associated with working through complex wounds in previous therapeutic relationships before we begin our coaching work together. Even individuals without 'hard trauma' can expect moments of pressurised darkness and heaviness during periods of shadow contact as you begin to restructure your personal unconscious. We will be exploring your psyche and soma at scale and depth, and it will be your responsibility to keep me informed about the emotional texture of your internal reality, especially if you encounter negatively charged experiences, and I will of course do everything in my power to support you through the hard times as we integrate the darkness and move forwards together. TH-cam is a wonderful place for me to share free research resources and offer accessible inner work invitations; my private mentorships, however, are the place for collaborative partnership and emotional security as we identify, navigate and restructure oftentimes confronting and challenging conscious and unconscious physical, emotional and mental material. Ultimately, this is a highly-demanding but highly-rewarding process which requires the best of our shared intentions. ... *SESSION STRUCTURE & FEES:* The total fee for an Inner Work Mentorship (including 12 x 2 hr sessions) is £7,400 GBP or approximately $9,400 USD. This is my only coaching programme, and my mentorship pricing is liable to adjustment over time.
Each private session lasts two hours, and is facilitated via Telegram video call at an ideal time for both of us. Your mentorship extends over a linear four-month period, with a total of twenty-four hours of structured session time, in addition to four days per week of unlimited messenger availability for accountability updates, voice note exchanges and informal calls upon occasion. I do not work on Mondays, Tuesdays or Wednesdays, but I am fully-available across all timezones for regular calls and messenger contact on Thursday - Sunday. If you’ve scrolled this far, and resonate with what I’m offering, I invite you to message me on Instagram. It would be my pleasure to start exploring your goals and intentions in real-time. IMPORTANT: I am an intentionally independent coach, and not a licensed therapist or associated with any professional bodies or coaching institutions, and therefore enjoy the freedom to collaborate with my clients across all areas of life in an intimate, direct and highly involved coaching style. I work with no more than twenty people per year, and am currently accepting a maximum of two new clients per month. I also manage my own inbox and do not use automated systems or employ people to pretend to be me on Instagram, which means that it usually takes four to six weeks for me to respond to new messages and begin the interview process. Although my approach takes time, I hope you ultimately appreciate my personal emphasis on authentic and confidential communication from the very beginning of our relationship. I once again encourage you to message me immediately if you want to start working together within the next two months - bump yourself to the top of my inbox, and I’ll send you some voice notes to get our conversation started.
I've gone no contact - can't have a decent conversation with narcissistic family members - if you're a scapegoat, you'll know this!!! My mental health and well-being are so much better & I'm living oh so authentically. Just wish I'd done it decades ago - damn I regret not doing it sooner. No more DRAMA, mental stress, anxiety, or masking - phew 🙌🏽🐞🙌🏽
Jordan, thank you for this video, I feel better about spending Christmas with my family after watching it. I'll take a silent, no resentment approach. Although we know how hard it is to be happy, talkative and to pretend that it's all great, when underneath the surface it's dark and you feel all alone and that only you remember those awful things someone should apologise for... Sincerly, a watcher from Poland - have a great Christmas Jordan!
Honestly. I just get angry around the holidays when at family gatherings. Everyone is all smiley and happy then after the holidays it’s back to chaos and victimhood mentality. It’s like you’re at a bar and everything gets really quiet and spacey and you lift your head and “wake up” and ask yourself wtf am doing here? wtf is going on here?
At a place in life where I see the wounding of the parents and see the kids acting out in them. It's not that their unconscious triggering towards me has ended, it's just that I've become better at handling it and at standing up for myself. Have quit acting as the savior too. Learning :)
I’ve not talked to both my children since November 2023. Last week I posted Christmas cards through their doors. My daughter invited me up & made me lunch. No response from my son. That was my way of reaching out to them & it’s then up to them to respond. Me & my daughter communicated in a healthy adult way. Sadly my son has not responded to my card & he has his reasons but if for any reason your not accepted (after you try to resolve a situation) it’s then time to be peaceful, walk away & no contact. As a father I try to guide my children but we must acknowledge when we’re not being heard.
Not a problem any longer. The unsafe fam members are no longer an issue because I’m no contact. My next step is deleting their numbers. No really…. No more fake unsupportive unloving hypercritical peeps at my table. 54 in 3 days & it was time❤Happy Soltice everybody!
Advance Happy Christmas Mr Jordan thronton🎉 and for all the people of this community❤. All of your energy made me feel I am not alone and kinda feel this community as great gift I got for this Merry Christmas🎉🎉❤❤❤❤.
I have lost everything. My job, my marriage, my children. Now I'm back with my parents with no agency. I have even decided to move back to their town. I regret it but have already signed the contract. I can't function. Back on antidepressants. I was free but now I'm back. 53 years old. My parents are 87. I have nothing left. No motivation. Lots of anxiety. I have nothing to say to my parents. They have no support to offer.
Oh my.... sounds familiar ! I'm saying fa unless invited to share or wonder ...My 84 yr ma, md, young adults myself , all of us hoping & endeavour cautiously for a day of love expressed but no excavation of truths or otherwise. 3 generations ..blessed, brittle & swimming in & out if belonging & goodbyes.
I feel safe to tell them anything. My dad is my best friend. As a woman its so serene and healing (in hard moments of life) to have such a dad. God bless them both. I am grateful for them every single day.
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*1-1 Mentorship Information: Price & Structure (Maximum Capacity = 20 Clients Per Year)*
It's an absolute pleasure to film these TH-cam videos, and I feel fortunate to receive an abundance of meaningful messages every week, but I am unfortunately faced with the disappointing reality of turning away the vast majority of people who want to work together.
I have significantly limited availability and can only support twenty people per year because I do not offer one-off calls or drop-in consulting sessions.
Twenty individuals might not sound like maximum capacity, but the last few years of teaching have taught me the importance of maintaining tight energetic boundaries if I want to keep uploading these free videos in addition to serving my current clients to the best of my ability in 2024.
To minimise confusion and enhance transparency, I've spent several hours writing this ridiculously long comment to help you decide if my Inner Work Mentorship is the right choice for your development & what you could reasonably expect from working closely together.
Please take the time to read this service description before contacting me on Instagram… or feel free to stop reading right now if you’re not interested in my fees, session structure, client expectations, etc.
...
*READ BEFORE SCROLLING FURTHER:*
I'm interested in long-term change and structural transformation, which is why I've never offered one-off sessions.
Complex issues cannot be resolved in a few hours, but we likewise need to define an upper limit for containment and collaboration.
I've learned that deep and enduring self-integration requires at least four months of immersive effort. Why four months? It's enough weekly contact for us to work through multiple complex issues and developmental possibilities, but short enough to mitigate against unconscious co-dependency and motivational stagnation.
I'm currently accepting a maximum of two new clients per month - message me after reading the following section to check my availability.
...
*HOW I WORK & WHO I WORK WITH*
Unlike other coaches and teachers who take an understandably more relaxed approach to healing and integration, my mentorships are characteristically intense.
This is a highly-demanding, high-investment process which requires our consistent combined effort over a period of four months.
If we were to start working together, I would reasonably expect you to be excited to show up for a minimum of 10+ hours of self-motivated transformative practice per week (daily reading, fitness routine, creative exercises, spiritual reflection, etc.) while also maintaining full-sobriety (no drink, no drugs, no cigarettes, no vapes).
These strict standards of discipline and sobriety are plainly unsuitable for most people in most situations - even genuinely motivated individuals who resonate with my TH-cam videos may not be the right match for four months of structured mentorship.
If you want to get deeper, I've noticed that there's a certain type of ‘temperament' & 'timing’ to get the most out of me.
I'm interested in alert, creative and purpose-driven individuals who aspire to exceptional standards of self-maturation and would enjoy the feeling of going through week-on-week of progressively stacked transformative experiences for a third of a year: my ideal client is somebody who is willing to bring forward their internal complexity with a sense of courage and transparency with the intention of nothing less than full-spectrum transformation & rapid acceleration on their personal path.
I am yet to discover another supportive figure who offers something comparable to this mentorship: a four-month, structured yet flexible 1-1 container which is simultaneously therapeutic, academic and action-oriented; with primary focus placed on tangible improvements in your felt sense of self-knowledge and self-integration; in addition to making consistent and meaningful progress towards your unique goals and mentorship aspirations.
I prioritise contact, compassion and accountability, which means that your work never really 'ends' at the end of your session. You can reasonably expect to be fed dozens of customised reading suggestions and follow-on perspectives outside of the formal sessions via friendly and informal messenger contact, where I am active and available four days per week to cultivate an intimate personal connection while likewise enhancing your positive momentum via accountability check-ins and additional support as required.
By way of conclusion for what feels like an extraordinarily long comment and service description, I feel compelled to once more emphasise that working directly with me is unrealistic for most people in most situations.
I often support people who are accustomed to wrestling with the emotional challenges associated with working through complex wounds in previous therapeutic relationships before we begin our coaching work together. Even individuals without 'hard trauma' can expect moments of pressurised darkness and heaviness during periods of shadow contact as you begin to restructure your personal unconscious. We will be exploring your psyche and soma at scale and depth, and it will be your responsibility to keep me informed about the emotional texture of your internal reality, especially if you encounter negatively charged experiences, and I will of course do everything in my power to support you through the hard times as we integrate the darkness and move forwards together.
TH-cam is a wonderful place for me to share free research resources and offer accessible inner work invitations; my private mentorships, however, are the place for collaborative partnership and emotional security as we identify, navigate and restructure oftentimes confronting and challenging conscious and unconscious physical, emotional and mental material.
Ultimately, this is a highly-demanding but highly-rewarding process which requires the best of our shared intentions.
...
*SESSION STRUCTURE & FEES:*
The total fee for an Inner Work Mentorship (including 12 x 2 hr sessions) is £7,400 GBP or approximately $9,400 USD. This is my only coaching programme, and my mentorship pricing is liable to adjustment over time.
Each private session lasts two hours, and is facilitated via Telegram video call at an ideal time for both of us. Your mentorship extends over a linear four-month period, with a total of twenty-four hours of structured session time, in addition to four days per week of unlimited messenger availability for accountability updates, voice note exchanges and informal calls upon occasion. I do not work on Mondays, Tuesdays or Wednesdays, but I am fully-available across all timezones for regular calls and messenger contact on Thursday - Sunday.
If you’ve scrolled this far, and resonate with what I’m offering, I invite you to message me on Instagram. It would be my pleasure to start exploring your goals and intentions in real-time.
IMPORTANT: I am an intentionally independent coach, and not a licensed therapist or associated with any professional bodies or coaching institutions, and therefore enjoy the freedom to collaborate with my clients across all areas of life in an intimate, direct and highly involved coaching style. I work with no more than twenty people per year, and am currently accepting a maximum of two new clients per month. I also manage my own inbox and do not use automated systems or employ people to pretend to be me on Instagram, which means that it usually takes four to six weeks for me to respond to new messages and begin the interview process. Although my approach takes time, I hope you ultimately appreciate my personal emphasis on authentic and confidential communication from the very beginning of our relationship. I once again encourage you to message me immediately if you want to start working together within the next two months - bump yourself to the top of my inbox, and I’ll send you some voice notes to get our conversation started.
"a smart person knows how to talk. a wise person knows when to be silent.”
― Roy T. Bennett
Couldn’t be a more perfect quote for this video.
I've gone no contact - can't have a decent conversation with narcissistic family members - if you're a scapegoat, you'll know this!!! My mental health and well-being are so much better & I'm living oh so authentically. Just wish I'd done it decades ago - damn I regret not doing it sooner. No more DRAMA, mental stress, anxiety, or masking - phew 🙌🏽🐞🙌🏽
Eventually you can love your parents, forgive them. But if the abuse is still occurring… no contact is best.
Sure, time for this.
Jordan, thank you for this video, I feel better about spending Christmas with my family after watching it. I'll take a silent, no resentment approach. Although we know how hard it is to be happy, talkative and to pretend that it's all great, when underneath the surface it's dark and you feel all alone and that only you remember those awful things someone should apologise for...
Sincerly, a watcher from Poland - have a great Christmas Jordan!
Thank you for taking the time, I’m glad this video had an impact on your day already - may next week support you too 🌲
@@jordanthornton Thank you so much, Jordan! I feel warmed by your reply! All the best on your journey too 🙏💪🎄
Honestly. I just get angry around the holidays when at family gatherings. Everyone is all smiley and happy then after the holidays it’s back to chaos and victimhood mentality. It’s like you’re at a bar and everything gets really quiet and spacey and you lift your head and “wake up” and ask yourself wtf am doing here? wtf is going on here?
At a place in life where I see the wounding of the parents and see the kids acting out in them. It's not that their unconscious triggering towards me has ended, it's just that I've become better at handling it and at standing up for myself. Have quit acting as the savior too. Learning :)
Your timing Jordan.
Thank you for your work 🙏🏻
I’ve not talked to both my children since November 2023. Last week I posted Christmas cards through their doors. My daughter invited me up & made me lunch. No response from my son. That was my way of reaching out to them & it’s then up to them to respond. Me & my daughter communicated in a healthy adult way. Sadly my son has not responded to my card & he has his reasons but if for any reason your not accepted (after you try to resolve a situation) it’s then time to be peaceful, walk away & no contact. As a father I try to guide my children but we must acknowledge when we’re not being heard.
Love the way you focus on truth and resentment scales - an actual practical way to work with difficult feelings
It's a useful framework, I hope it helps you. Practical.
Not a problem any longer. The unsafe fam members are no longer an issue because I’m no contact. My next step is deleting their numbers. No really…. No more fake unsupportive unloving hypercritical peeps at my table. 54 in 3 days & it was time❤Happy Soltice everybody!
Happy solstice to you too!
Right on Time Jordan💜✨💚 Gratitude to you and Merry Yule❄️🔥🕯️
Happy holidays Jordan🎄
Merry Christmas, and stay steady next week!
Could you please make a video about the fear of success?
I’ve been feeling like this for the past year and a half since having to move back home post divorce lol
Advance Happy Christmas Mr Jordan thronton🎉 and for all the people of this community❤. All of your energy made me feel I am not alone and kinda feel this community as great gift I got for this Merry Christmas🎉🎉❤❤❤❤.
Merry Christmas, and stay steady next week.
@jordanthornton thank you 😊
I have lost everything. My job, my marriage, my children. Now I'm back with my parents with no agency. I have even decided to move back to their town. I regret it but have already signed the contract. I can't function. Back on antidepressants. I was free but now I'm back. 53 years old. My parents are 87. I have nothing left. No motivation. Lots of anxiety. I have nothing to say to my parents. They have no support to offer.
🎄
Precisely. The seasonal special.
Thanks!
Thank you, Jordan. A challenging and useful video.
It's the time for it, here for this kind of chat.
@jordanthornton Wishing you and yours a joyful holiday season! 🎉🎉🎉
Thanks .
Ultimately, you are not forcing others to change. That isn't possible. It's for YOU to change yourself. Merry Yule everyone. 😄💖
Oh my.... sounds familiar ! I'm saying fa unless invited to share or wonder ...My 84 yr ma, md, young adults myself , all of us hoping & endeavour cautiously for a day of love expressed but no excavation of truths or otherwise. 3 generations ..blessed, brittle & swimming in & out if belonging & goodbyes.
Merry Christmas, and stay steady next week.
❤🩹
Merry Christmas, and stay steady next week.
❤️🌲
My family is the only place that i feel 100 percent myself and 100 safe. By family i mean my parents.
I'm happy for you, this is a blessing.
I feel safe to tell them anything. My dad is my best friend. As a woman its so serene and healing (in hard moments of life) to have such a dad. God bless them both. I am grateful for them every single day.
@@jordanthornton thank you. It is a blessing.