ASMR: Women Are Complicated

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ส.ค. 2024
  • In this ASMR video I talk about how Women are Complicated and my recent experience with one. I hope you have a great day/night. Enjoy.

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  • @emily-hp9ih
    @emily-hp9ih 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    hiii woman here haha. when things are right they won’t be complicated 😊 im in college like you and the best thing we can do at this age is meet new people, go on lots of first dates, and find out what you like! keep being sweet and you’ll meet a girl who gives that back to you 10 fold if you keep putting yourself out there 🫡💪

  • @nala8219
    @nala8219 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    From a woman's perspective, we go through the same things if we have a crush. A lot of men seem to think that we're a different species, but we're just humans and humans are complicated and each one is unique. We overthink and we doubt ourselves and we get nervous and that's normal. It seems like you don't really interact with her that much and that might confuse her a little, it's better to try and spend time with and get to know her better and just ask her out or at least give her your number and see where it goes. Good luck 🤞🏻

  • @user-iu9vg9ub1n
    @user-iu9vg9ub1n 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I fw this content heavy covering mens mental health and issues a young g could experience much respect g

    • @microcosm8
      @microcosm8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Women also go through this wtf

    • @rawanzf
      @rawanzf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@microcosm8i think their just implying that men don’t talk about their mental health enough so it’s good seeing him talking about this kinda thing

    • @microcosm8
      @microcosm8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rawanzfin my experience women dont talk about it neither

    • @rawanzf
      @rawanzf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@microcosm8yes that’s true. but in this video it’s literally a dude talking so we’re just on the topic of that

    • @microcosm8
      @microcosm8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rawanzf i just dont understand what for people separate women’s feelings from men’s. We are one beings. I think it just a stupid trend that started from Andrew Tate

  • @aneesashariff
    @aneesashariff 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The best advice is to go for it and not try to be too careful or be nervous. Go for the “what ifs” rather than holding yourself back. It’s better to give it everything you got and then be able to say well it didn’t work out despite my best efforts rather than u don’t fully go for it and then wonder forever whether she actually would’ve liked u back or not!

  • @enchantedcats
    @enchantedcats 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    That’s so sweet that you drew something for her 🥹 I think because there was a long break between giving her the art and her working again, it put a lot of pressure on your guys interaction. She’s probs nervous too. You’re cute so don’t be nervous to talk to her, you got this!! 🫶💗

    • @its_me_sirius
      @its_me_sirius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes it's true, just talk with her and ask what's happened

  • @simplynayeli8731
    @simplynayeli8731 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can't wait for the "ASMR with my girlfriend" typa videos. But go for it man!

  • @onexonesie
    @onexonesie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    The least she could've done was acknowledge your drawing just from a human point of view. She doesn't sound as decent as you're making her out to be imo. You deserve better. Being nervous is nothing to be ashamed of, just goes to show you care. Narcissistic and toxic people are the ones with no emotions because they don't care about the outcome.

    • @nala8219
      @nala8219 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Woah that's a lot of assumptions you're making out from a short story time. You don't know these people in real life so you shouldn't say that anyone is narcissistic or toxic in this situation. Humans are complicated and you never know what someone is feeling or thinking or going through.

    • @mp3sos4
      @mp3sos4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@nala8219ur absolutely right

  • @stevun1298
    @stevun1298 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    im happy to see that you’re staying consistent, the first video will always do really well and the best way to capitalize is staying consistent and keeping your name out there, good job !

    • @ASMRTreezy
      @ASMRTreezy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I appreciate it!

  • @realTlkReafahh
    @realTlkReafahh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I liked the soft speaking and you talking about real shit. Super relaxing & I wish you the best no matter what ❤️🙌🏼

  • @novacane3407
    @novacane3407 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Met my wife at work, took a long while for us to get going, had a huge crush on her but constantly was telling myself she was being friendly and there wasn’t any way she was interested in me. Eventually it worked out, go with your gut, wait for the right opportunity to ask her out and you don’t know what may happen. GL my guy!

  • @MikzCPT
    @MikzCPT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I did relate to all of this and still kind of do but its normal as a guy to think abt the "what ifs" and being cautious but in my opinion I think shes working things out ( probably her feelings or she might even be going through things like family drama etc) so try not to over think even tho it catches onto ur mind easily

  • @RatatouilleBooty
    @RatatouilleBooty 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Coming from a woman’s perspective, I think she trying to play it cool. She might be thinking like "am I trippin…does he like me or is he being nice to me and I’m taking it the wrong way". She might be trying not to mess things up in the case that you don’t like her like that. It don’t help that you both get nervous around each other lol I would say fuck it and be straight up with her. Whatever happens at least you know. You got this dude!! Please update us I’m invested 😂

    • @marissa630
      @marissa630 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Right! Women arent nearly as accustom to rejection so playing it cool is the way we go to avoid it!

    • @RatatouilleBooty
      @RatatouilleBooty 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@marissa630 yesss !! That’s exactly what I meant. Hopefully our boy can make the first move we want him to win 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

  • @savagetingz6959
    @savagetingz6959 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Boy math:
    -Tell the internet How much you like her.
    -Don’t tell her how much you like her😂
    But in all seriousness you should go for it. As a girl, I wish a lot more men would speak up and express themselves bc we aren’t mind readers and your actions are usually opposite to how you feel. Which leaves us thinking you guys are js as complicated. My advice is to take yolo literally. You have nothing to lose by shooting your shot and everything to gain by possibly making it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @originaleslie
    @originaleslie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    as a girl I become really nervous with the people I like and normally want them to start the convo, especially if they're attractive lol. hopefully that's how shes also feeling or she just doesn't know how she feels so far. I think the biggest tip is to js be confident

  • @SALOHCINASMR
    @SALOHCINASMR 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    damn i feel u bro i didnt realize that we all go thru the same shit at times. U got that brodie good luck u a cool guy🙌🏼

  • @real4ev3r2
    @real4ev3r2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yo mane great video fr and just know you a dope ass dude and don’t stress about messing up fr cuz if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be but if not don’t dwell on it yk and just know that u trying your best frfr 🖤🤞🏽

  • @lazylucid
    @lazylucid 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    off topic but i’d love to see the art you do! or a possible art/drawing asmr also for you Q&A
    • How long have you been doing art?
    • What got you into art?
    • what are your inspirations? art or in general

  • @loose167
    @loose167 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My partner acted goofy at the start and then thankfully told me he was worried about messing shit up which made me relax A LOT. We’re still together after 8 years! Communication and honesty are soooo important! Good luck Treezy!

  • @MichaelSteinbach-mq8rv
    @MichaelSteinbach-mq8rv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love your videos and i really like how u changed it up a little today.❤❤👍👍

  • @its_me_sirius
    @its_me_sirius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The high voice 🥺🫶 perfect!
    Thanks for the video 😊

  • @giocasin
    @giocasin 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We all going thru the same motions fr 🤝Never rush love and put yourself out there regardless of what girls think. Overthinking is your mind painting scenarios of what could and could be but have never been, and 9.9/10 the situation you paint in your head is never what actually happens. We still young and got a whole life to experience ✍️💫

  • @marissa630
    @marissa630 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My parents, all of my friends parents, and all of my parents friends have been married 30+ years. A few had divorces (mom included) in her twenties. But they’ve all told me the difference is choosing to love the other person. Choosing to deal with the bad months and to get through it. To not give up- you’re married. You become one.
    My boyfriend is from Jersey and does not know a singular friends parents that are married. Everyone has been divorced. He says our relationship just feels diff because we use our words, and I haven’t just left him when we’ve come to a crossroads. It’s been about 3 years now and there’s a lot to go. But it’s a hard climb up to a long marriage when you come from an area where you everyone gets married and divorced :/ getting married young and finances are the top reasons!

    • @vlonethugger2094
      @vlonethugger2094 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her not deciding not to compliment or. Thank him for the drawing is kinda weird

    • @ASMRTreezy
      @ASMRTreezy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thankyou for sharing this 🙏🏽

  • @marijaxg
    @marijaxg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    pls that's so cute. 😭
    what i do to engage with a person is i basically disconnect from my feelings for a minute and act like i feel neutral for them and then ask them some trivial shit like the date, time or talk about the event we're at.

  • @djmusiq
    @djmusiq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Haha I found myself actually paying attention more than relaxing. I think I like the whispers better for sleep tho.

  • @b1tchasf
    @b1tchasf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    4:50 RELATABLE AS FUUUCK

  • @auggieboyy
    @auggieboyy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been having a very similar experience and the most helpful thing for me is to remind myself that if it is meant to be , then it will occur.

  • @monirenee6877
    @monirenee6877 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m light skinned and so is my husband!! There’s hope for y’all lol!!!!

  • @angusmacgyver4981
    @angusmacgyver4981 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dude we've all been there, it's all good. You're an observant and very internal personality I get that I'm similar. When I was younger I would get super nervous around girls I had a crush on and do the same ignoring thing. Try not to read into that meeting too much. She might be really nervous too and girls are usually more passive than guys meaning they won't stick their neck out for rejection. What does your gut say about your previous interactions with her? At the end of the day though my advice would be to ask her out on a date. Have something in mind like bowling or something. One on one time is where you can cultivate a more intimate relationship and be vulnerable together which is key to getting closer to one another on that level. Make her feel safe, and be a warming presence for her and she'll love you

  • @flacko426
    @flacko426 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the pain of regret is far worse than the pain of discipline

  • @andyfam3221
    @andyfam3221 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I 100% relate to the part where you are blinded from red flags when you are in love with someone. There is this girl I knew since 8th grade and im going into my junior year of high school and we dated until freshman year, I still talk to her but the thing is we go to different high schools now and she found someone new after we was done cuz shi was toxic af. But when we found our way back to each other me n her do things like falling asleep otp now, and say we love each other after all this time. It makes me think that she's a bad person bc she got a boyfriend and she ttm. I fr can't find myself with anyone else smh

  • @angelzzzASMR
    @angelzzzASMR 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She could’ve complemented the drawing…that’s rude of her ..But maybe she’s confused on what it means …I’d say be straight up and let her know you wanna get to know her.

  • @istxz_8492
    @istxz_8492 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Real ass video 😭😭😭

  • @carterelam2484
    @carterelam2484 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just keep being yourself bro that’s all you can do. Keep that small talk. Keep becoming more comfortable with her. You seem like a smoove ass dude, you’ll be alright.

  • @shaelynnwilliams1291
    @shaelynnwilliams1291 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aw this is dope I hope you get her love 🙌🏽🤗💯

  • @Bellybutton19
    @Bellybutton19 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    BRO NGL U SHOULD DO STORYTIMES WITH TINGLES TYPE SHI U MADDD GOOD AT IT BE MRBALLEN BUT ASMR STYLE But story time of ur choice you’ll be very successful 👌

  • @cryptoexe6776
    @cryptoexe6776 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    recently ive became much stable from a mental health perspective, and i thought that this might be the time where i try to get a girl, but same as you when i see one , i overthink , its like if she doesnt make eye contact , she's not interested, i mean im really scared taking this step cause i really dont wanna ruin myself over this, but again i want to confess. your experience is FR relatable due idk waht to do

  • @danningyuen-tg8mn
    @danningyuen-tg8mn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ask for her number or socials! u can do it. as a girl i would want the guy to ask for my number or scials if i like him. bc we’d think its like a guy thing to do so. yolo so ASK!!!!

  • @mr.gray189
    @mr.gray189 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very understandable I always fumble to man , I’ll be nervous as heck😔

  • @loneytwin3274
    @loneytwin3274 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    bro i m from Russia but i love your videos so much, also your situation with girl is close to me damnnn

    • @microcosm8
      @microcosm8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Называть всех женщин complicated опираясь только на свой личный опыт,серьезно?🤦 и почему это ее вина,что она не заговорила с ним?Может она тоже боялась? Хорошо ты умеешь обесценивать чувства других

    • @user-fq9hv9rp6x
      @user-fq9hv9rp6x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ⁠@@microcosm8where did he say all women? ☠️and he didn’t really blame her for not talking but another thing, he probably doesn’t even know how to act since it can be his true first love which makes him confused ☠️ so don’t be quick to hate 😂.

    • @ASMRTreezy
      @ASMRTreezy  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate that

    • @microcosm8
      @microcosm8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-fq9hv9rp6x im not even hating,he didnt SAY it,but look at the video’s name. So I don’t understand where is the connection between his story and the title of the vid

  • @its_me_sirius
    @its_me_sirius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    14:32 yes do it guy
    Its better for u now
    When she"ll be prepared she'll come to u and talk about all 😊

  • @oscarrr.2k
    @oscarrr.2k 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My exact situation rn

  • @keira-vf9kr
    @keira-vf9kr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hes too fine to be dealing with this

  • @skylarbrown7305
    @skylarbrown7305 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i think she should have said thank you or acknowledged it in some capacity but maybe she was hoping you’d say something! you’re right she could be nervous too so next time try and make another move and talk to her

  • @its_me_sirius
    @its_me_sirius 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    8:39 do u like her? It's possible that she is confused about her fellings about u. I'm a girl and sometimes I do this things ;( it's bad but it's comum to a girl

  • @zachrabey727
    @zachrabey727 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She was probably waiting on ya to start the convo! Seems like a lot of women like it when a dude takes charge. I know im late to this but i hope it worked out some typa way

  • @LAZZ21
    @LAZZ21 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am in this situation Right now

  • @valentynesounds
    @valentynesounds 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    treezy the goat with another video, bro I think you gotta just commit and talk to her fam. if you not gonna go up and talk to her someone else will, and you don’t wanna live with the regret of "what if" like you said. you got this broski, just gotta say fuck it and shoot your shot

  • @Diegotooofade
    @Diegotooofade 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My ex cheated on me with 3 diff guys she said that it was just kisses but I don’t believe it like just simply don’t understand how those type of ppl feel or think do they just not care ?

  • @ryanbaseball9875
    @ryanbaseball9875 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is hittin deep for me rn, I’m tryna see what’s up with this one girl which my friend said thought I was cute, but she started goin on about an ex with me and a friend, and it just has me confused idk, but this helped me a lot tbh

  • @Kaorii2x
    @Kaorii2x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    TREEZY YOU SHOULDVE ASKED ABOUT THE PAINTING. (YOU STILL CAN), IF SHE LIKED IT OR NOT, IF SHE ACTIN LIKE THAT SHE REALLY FEEL SOME TYPA WAY BOUT YOU ‼️

    • @Kaorii2x
      @Kaorii2x 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You shot ur shot by drawing the picture and giving it to her, you can’t stop now bro straight up, I know how you feel bru. You gotta keep shootin bro, don’t stop.

  • @iiTzTanna
    @iiTzTanna 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m not sure if there was a specific spot you wanted ppl to ask you questions so I’ll just ask here!/ What is it you’re going to college for?/ And How did you get into ASMR?

  • @Eldenringlife
    @Eldenringlife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I reall feel you when you need to talk to woman that you like, in 2 days im going into my girlfriends house for the first time and i’ve o ly talked to her 3 times so im really nervous that what if i cant find anything to talk about but that whats life fof

  • @bladespataro9486
    @bladespataro9486 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In the same boat as u. I like a girl at my work alot but nervious to try and ask her out since if she don't mess with me it would be hella awkward to work with her afterwards

  • @aoclaocl8851
    @aoclaocl8851 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Should’ve left a note w ur number the gesture would have me head over heels with or without that note tho but I’m gay so 😂😂

  • @wallycpt
    @wallycpt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don't lose hope bruv. She'll come around 😰😔😇🫡

  • @microcosm8
    @microcosm8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So I didnt get it,where is the connection between the video name and ur story? U called all women complicated,but you was talking about one specific girl. And why is it her fault that she didnt talk to you? Cuz u didnt talk to her neither. So you can be scared to talk to her and she cant? What if she feels the same feeling? What if she also scared to talk to people she likes? May be I lost some words from your story cuz im not a native speaker,but i dont think so

  • @hmmm3622
    @hmmm3622 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ayy ur an artist W

  • @JlSOO1
    @JlSOO1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    imo, she could’ve said something about the drawing..😭😭 like that was really nice of you to do and she didn’t say anything? but there could be a reason idk😭 when i like someone i do the same thing as you, i refuse to talk to them, make eye contact, etc. cause im so nervous 😭 so maybe that’s what’s she’s doing…??? anyway you should just go for it fr, hope it all goes well🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @Noname-vw7vj
    @Noname-vw7vj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro on his consistent bag

  • @stevevlossak2443
    @stevevlossak2443 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your chilling bro

  • @Lebronbon
    @Lebronbon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah bro i know this girl liked me but I was to scared to ask or talk to her

  • @alejandraaranzolo4493
    @alejandraaranzolo4493 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    4:50 ughhh i do this too 🥲

  • @natekonz8572
    @natekonz8572 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This dudes hella cool

  • @gonzalomontana2704
    @gonzalomontana2704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you are so charming

  • @SaAmoAragon
    @SaAmoAragon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching these asmr videos bro is starting to go through the things im going through right now shits crazy w vids

  • @enka..
    @enka.. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's kinda weird she hasn't said anything about the drawing but maybe she's nervous bc you ignored her.🤷‍♀️
    As a woman, my best advice is to talk to her more. Get to know eachother a bit better before going on a date. Then she's going to know you like her as a person and the date would be less awkward imo.
    Anyways, you have a nice voice for asmr. Best of luck!💚

  • @marieroxy616
    @marieroxy616 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my boyfriend is an artist,and we’ve dated for five years,and he still hasn’t drawn me anything,l
    ol

  • @asmrwubz
    @asmrwubz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    calculator is good , and go for it worse thing she could say is no and that’s better than the what ifs👌👌

  • @itsokayrozay
    @itsokayrozay 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    You’re absolutely right. Women are complicated. That’s why you need a man like me in your life daddy 💋💋

    • @aoclaocl8851
      @aoclaocl8851 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      SCREAMINGGGGGGG U JUST LIKE MEEE😭😭😭

    • @ragnabolt683
      @ragnabolt683 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      LMFAOOOO stoppppp!!!! 😭😭😭💀

    • @shu_000
      @shu_000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you trippin

    • @a.jamesson
      @a.jamesson 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      AYOOO 😭 😭

  • @mrswag-
    @mrswag- 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    damn treezy u real asf

  • @Tastelessmagic
    @Tastelessmagic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just switch to dudes, much easier (jk no it's not)

    • @K7MGEE
      @K7MGEE 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hear me out 😂

  • @8way2fast
    @8way2fast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You know 😂

  • @user-ot9nw7dh5l
    @user-ot9nw7dh5l 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yo wassup treezy

  • @paperboy8865
    @paperboy8865 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You wear a size 12 shoe. I’m sure you’ll have no trouble finding a lady.🤔Am I the only one who wants to know what he drew her?

    • @onexonesie
      @onexonesie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Stop being weird. There's more to love than s3x

    • @vlonethugger2094
      @vlonethugger2094 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Weird ass

    • @paperboy8865
      @paperboy8865 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus, relax already.

    • @thomasthomasthoma
      @thomasthomasthoma 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@onexonesie honestly.. that man comments the weirdest things..

  • @pipapupat
    @pipapupat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey

  • @moonfairy7709
    @moonfairy7709 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my boy has girl problems HOW

  • @tfcole98
    @tfcole98 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is my opinion man, you should have tried to get her number & set up a date, instead giving her a drawing. You pretty much told her that I like you so I’m giving you this. Women are more attracted when your feelings are unclear to them. You are young & should focus on your purpose, the right one will come along 👌🏼

    • @skylarbrown7305
      @skylarbrown7305 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      hii uhm women are not more attracted to you if you’re feelings are unclear!! it’s great to make you’re feelings clear 😊😊

    • @tfcole98
      @tfcole98 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@skylarbrown7305 Oh yeah? How well does that turn out for you? Please man, enlighten me

  • @angelac293
    @angelac293 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m gay and I know what you’re going thru. I was seeing a dude for like 2 months, I bought him a plant w a flower on it, he really appreciated it. We went our separate ways. We ended in good terms. It’s been a month now and I still think of him everyday 🥹 I hope you gain the courage to talk to her and ask her about the drawing. If she denies you than she denies you, you’ll never know until you try!
    But since things didn’t work out w me and that dude, b a homie and link me up w Gary 😉 haha jkjk 😅

  • @daytradingking1210
    @daytradingking1210 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I the same mane when I like a girl , I over think and shit , 🥲