@@MrJbee73 You just asked this channel "He dated you?" and this channel = judge so you just asked the judge if the defendant dated him while married for a year...
@@wildemperor1521 🥴🥴what dumbest thing I’ve ever read if we ain’t go in no more divorce me please not bout to be running around legally married doing everything under the sun
He was married and cheating on his wife with her. She didn’t realize he would do the same to her? She had 3 kids with a sex, drug, and gambling fiend? And wanted to put their business on FB Live while driving? She has major self esteem issues. smh
Well...this is bizarre. This woman was obsessed with him even tho she was his sidechick. She knew that he was broke but somehow decided to have children with this guy. Crazy, man. Just crazy. Why? 🤦♂️
pat22nasty I was tired as hell getting off work when I wrote that so I don’t give AF how it’s spelled. Ignorant people always trying to come for somebody 🙄🙄🙄
There is something wrong with the judge in this case…..and he didn’t listen to the plaintiff, she said she didn’t actually have it on Facebook live. She was faking it. This is the problem with liberal judges like him….,he wants to side with the criminal.
Wait...What?! I’m sorry if I’m in a possible domestic violence situation & the only way I felt I could get him to stop is to put him on live or record him that’s exactly what I would do! Completely disagree with Judge Mathis on this one!
Finally I see someone on here talking about something besides his dumb self being married and her dating him and throwing off on her ! JM was way off on this one and he had no right to put his hand on her throat and he didn't even ask him about it he just concluded it was an invasion of privacy ??? Like what ? He's in public in a car so he's invading his own privacy then. He could have grabbed that phone without laying a hand on her at all and JM actually just defended his domestic violence actions. I didn't realize a potential domestic violence situation being recorded or put on live was invasion of privacy considering you feel your life might be in danger or he might hurt you period. Screw privacy rights when it comes to domestic violence. I didnt realize that domestic violence situations actually fell under violation of privacy. Oh wait thats because it dont ! If that were the case then you telling somebody or people about a man beating on you would be a violation of privacy. Just because you got a temper does not give you the right to put your hands on anybody. And JM just justified a clear domestic violence that could have turned worse if she had not threatened him with Facebook live because if he thinks people are watching him he acts innocent and like she's the one with the problem. JM needs to go read some law books again cause this is mind blowing to me.
Sometimes you ain't got time to call the police he put his hands around her neck and got her phone didn't he ? How she gone call the police and she did call them after she put him out of the car and even said he owned the phone just because of this BS about privacy. This is ridiculous
Yep, And he's not even on his toes yet, that's why he claims to still love her & want her back.. Beta ass lil boy SMFH .. What the heck did she see in him.. he looks like a moocher.
Yep stealin from those that work hard for it - DISGUSTING! Those who work hard for what they have, have spent their time (in their life) working... Which means a thief doesn't just steal stuff; they steal the time it took working for it too!
Married when you met him, you continued to date him for a year, gets divorce, then cheats on you repeatedly. No surprises here. What could you have expected?
Why do women found out fairly quickly that a man is married, pursue the relationship anyway, marries him after he finally gets a divorce, then expect different treatment than the first wife......?
The lady is gorgeous her face is very pretty& she talks well educated sometimes we always get fckd up with the wrong man but she seems like she got it together like she will bounce back.
She had to learn the hard way trying to be down for the guy ..he lied going in to the relationship n she didn't know he was married..by that time she was ALL IN!🤷♀️ He gave all these promises and she held on to them like wishful women do . Her heart and mind was wanting to believe if she stood it out they would have something. NOTHING FROM NOTHING LEAVES NOTHING☝️💯
Yea with 3 KIDS DRAGGING BEHIND HER.. TO EITHER TAKE CARE OF BY HERSELF OR HAVE HER NEW MAN HELPING HER TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS.. BECAUSE THAT BOY CLEARLY IS GIVING.. DEADBEAT.. WOW.. WTF DID SHE EVEN SEE IN HIM. HE WAS MARRIED AND IS FOUL, THE UNIVERSE REVEALED THAT TO HER EARLY ON.. AND SHE STAYED, ACCEPTED HIM & HAD 3 KIDS WITH HIM.. SMH.. NOW SHE LEAVING WITH 3 EXTRA FULL BAGS OF RESPONSIBILITIES.. WHEN SHE SHOULD'VE LEFT BEFORE THEY COULD'VE EVEN BEEN THOUGHT OF.. STAYING WITH HIM BLOCKED HER BLESSINGS.. THE MAIN ONE IS... SHE COULD'VE HAD KIDS by a MAN WHO WAS WORTHY.. WOMEN GOTTA STOP CHOOSING THAT STRUGGLE.
Judge Toler would have scolded the woman for her fertility choices and that she entered a relationship with him while he was married. That says something about his character even he said he was "separated" during his marriage.
Sis, heal, get some therapy, realign with what you need in a man. Set new healthy standards, pray about it, then your new and improved husband will come. Let go and let God ❤️
LADIES THIS WOMAN WANTED WHAT MOST EDUCATED WOMEN WANT, a good man, Family etc... You cannot build a future for yourself with a man that’s already married. God does not and will not honor this. A good man loves God, will honor you and your body and lead you. Stop paying for men to be with you. If they came to you pitiful , they will be pitiful. You sow what you allow.
Why people don't think it's crazy to date a married person? Like what tells them this is a viable, positive pathway? I don't care if the divorce is pending. It isn't final. This character wasn't even pending divorce and she claims he was still married a year later. Women with trifling boyfriends/spouses always trying to help the neighborhood chic instead of strategizing on how to leave that terrible relationship. Soon as she brought that neighbor over he looked at that as an opportunity to get involved with her. They both are slow.
Quit always blaming the man!!! She looking at him crazy like she didnt lay down wit him or go on bc... Like she didnt stay with him after he continued to disrespect her. Ill wait 💁🏾
Domestic violence is very serious and some women are afraid to do too much when they are in a DV relationship. And JM justified Domestic violence in this situation talking about some privacy BS and you just don't do that. Is it private when you walk around with balck eyes and bruises all over your neck face and body??? Nope Didnt think so everybody sees it.
It might happen privately but the results aren't private so screw this whole privacy BS. Ive been there and I know what it's like to be cut off from everybody and lay and wonder if he's gonna beat your brains out right now or at what moment its coming and if you will survive the next time it happens and then worry about him going thru on his threats to kill you if you try to leave him because those exact things happen everyday and even for no reason they just flip and kill their partner usually in a divorce or something like that. I got out of it thank God but it took him going to jail for me to literally leave the state with my child and never look back and that SOB still found me , found where I lived , where I worked , even my house number which was unlisted everything and made my life hell.
Yep, WOMEN have to take accountability for what they allow.. 3 kids?? It should have NEVER got THAT FAR.. SHE SHOULD'VE BEEN GONE THE FIRST MONTH.. NO MORE THAN 2 TO 3 MONTHS MAX.. SHE MAD HER BED AND NOW SHE HAS TO LAY IN IT.. THIS IS HOW GENERATIONAL CURSES ARE PASSED DOWN, AND KEEP REPEATING..
@@jordanbutler3422in the same time it took her to login to fb, go to the live and start recording all the while driving she could’ve called the police. Then when police are involved she doesn’t press charges or get help 😑. When does accountability come into play? Especially after being involved with a married man and knowing he wasn’t supportive with you and your 3 kids for years. She stated herself the honeymoon period was only 6months so again accountability comes in, why continue to bring 3 more lives into the world when you’ve been getting disrespected. Now the kids suffer. It’s not like he was a good guy coming into the relationship. The judge wasn’t condoning dv he was stating logical questions. What grown adult in there right mind does that? What sense does that make?
I disagree with the judge. If she was actually recording him, it could be used to document his abuse or aggressive behavior towards her as she could've felt threatened. That's not an invasion of his privacy when his behavior was negatively affecting her. I completely disagree with the judge on this. The judge has viewed probably hundreds of videos on this show that displays inappropriate/aggressive or abusive behavior. So I don't understand why the "fake recording" in this case was dismissed for invasion of privacy. So confused. But I hope this woman cut ties with that scrub
Ummmmmmm oh after a year find put he IS MARRIED I GUESS IT WAS A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE 3 BABIES WITH HIM smh no money no job no NOTHING than in absolute shock he was no good smh 😔
It’s so pitiful. All of the “men” like this use the same tricks. It’s sad to be tied to someone like this. Praying for her. She has super low self esteem.
This world is crazy for particularly we the Blacks. Why can't we the Brothers, stand firmly behind strong sisters like this one and stop producing Kids rather Building Wealth Which is our only freedom
But u do have to look down at a phone to open it, operate it, go to a specific app, then begin to get to a specific function, and begin to point, shoot & record.. On top of them arguing. ..no way she was not ultra distracted while driving.
Stop settling for less! No child. You discover he's still married. Run should be your first option. First child. Second child. Third child. No marriage. He used her car and stole her money. Girl, bye! Let me keep working so the tax payments can continue rolling so these kids can be maintained.
I don't know why people subject themselves to such scrutiny. NEVER go before a judge if you don't have to. Woes the man who allows another man to pass judgement on you or your case BECAUSE they are humans w/ flaws, additudes, and any other human behavior we might possess. Since he was so HARD on her, she should have chalked it to the game and leave that joke of a boy alone.
Girl you ain't never had no honeymoon stage. Why you think you got a man you can send to help a female neighbor? Girl slow as a broke down bus. Lawd I need to start a school and just begin with defining words. Ladies these days have no clue. If she thinks she was in a honeymoon phase in the beginning of sumthin with this character? Whew.. Stealing, married, cheating, broke, assault. Now these are the things she telling. Can you imagine what she is not telling?
She should never have continued in any type of relationship with a guy you "date" have 3 children, abusive and still married. He's a Loser, cheater, theif, and a deadbeat.
So you hook up with a player and get mad at him for being a player? How could you expect him to be anything other than what he actually is? If a man chooses a stripper and then complains about her stripping society will look at him like he's crazy. That's how most men feel when we hear women like this complaining that the man is being what she chose. She didn't go to a church and find a man she found a brother in the streets and then got upset with him for doing what brothers in the streets do. It makes no sense
Judge Mathis is not the correct person to handle these type of cases....smfh dang I miss Judge Lynn Toler logical wise advise & judgements, we need her back lol
I can tell he says the right thing at the right time. Whether that's to get her back. Stay outta jail. Or keep his employment. Tbh, hes probably a "good guy" that simply needs to learn restraint.
Sooo if someone was being abused and they pulled out the phone to record for evidence, would that also be considered invading someone’s personal space??
No not really but why pull out your phone and go on a app then press live when in that same time you can call the police if it’s so terrifying? At least by you calling and reporting to the police there is a recorded trail for his “abuse”. A person can literally call the police and say nothing but as long as the phone is on they will trace your call and come or pinpoint your location. She said she didn’t even record him. Soo what’s the point? And all the while she was driving.
I don't like that judge Mathis didn't understand that she was pretending to go live, so he would stop assaulting her and leave her alone. It wasn't to humiliate him it was to scare him, for her own safety. smh. I hate when JM gets bias when he hears ONE thing that sets him off, this time it was the phone in her hand while driving. now would he have said the same if she was dialing 9-1-1?
Let me say this, married doesn’t mean he was cheating on his wife. There are people that are married but separated and working to end that marriage. I have a good friend whose (now ex) husband contested their divorce for 5 years. She had the right to move on with her life. Also, I think Judge Mathis unintentionally made her feel that it was ok for him to put his hands on her because he thought he was being recorded. I totally disagree!! Plus, he never addressed the money that man took out of her account without her consent. She needs a redo!
So according to JM the defendant had the right to do whatever was necessary to stop her from broadcasting that dispute, which she clearly thought was going to escalate and showcase his bad behavior. How is that any different than bystanders recording and broadcasting the police when they suspect malfeasance and misconduct? I know JM has supported the latter... what’s the difference?
She stated she was recording for protection. But in the time it took her to go on fb, login, go to the live and press record she could’ve just called the police and at least had a recorded trail of his “abuse” on her. She only recorded him because she thought she could embarrass him. Only to further embarrass herself. He is what he is and he came into the relationship already like that. She continued to see and have children with a married man for years, already knowing he was no good. That says something about her character. JM was basically like don’t bring up domestic abuse now, when you’ve been in it this long and continued to be with this man for years. The difference is she was in some type of relationship with the defendant. She knows the defendant personally. She has kids with the defendant, she continued seeing him while he was legally married and she is suing to get money in return. If you’re a Bystander you are not in relationships to police. If you’re a bystander you do not know the person or people (or police) you are recording. If you’re a bystander and you record you’re doing it from a third party view. If you’re a bystander that means you were going about your day and happen to observe the incident. You’re not a party in the dispute.
That man walked in the courtroom like he could care less about purpose
🤣
Man walked in all floppity😭
@@KiiC. 💀🤣🤣
😂🤣😂🤣 this comment just really made me crack up heavily 😂🤣😂😂😂
Ashy assf lol
Girl how many red flags do you need? Lol
lol
Women like that I have zero sympathy for!! Can’t blame no one but self.
@Connie Bevell Q
🤦🏽♀️ All of em.
Apparent all of ummm 😭😂😂
He dated u while married for a year? No comments needed.
Why u asking the judge this is Judge Mathis channel
@@7-up813 ?
That part !!
@@MrJbee73 You just asked this channel "He dated you?" and this channel = judge so you just asked the judge if the defendant dated him while married for a year...
@@7-up813 Well I didn't. I'm referring to the female.
So she knew he was married and thought he would do better for her?!!
Sometimes you’re legally married but not physically or emotionally. I been there.
That part !!!!!
@@wildemperor1521 exactly.
@@wildemperor1521 🥴🥴what dumbest thing I’ve ever read if we ain’t go in no more divorce me please not bout to be running around legally married doing everything under the sun
@@memebeauty6835 🤣
God is somewhere tired of showing people red flags only for people to ignore . And on top of all that she kept procreating with him😔.
Blocking her blessings tho
Very True! That whole *keep having babies* crap is for the birds
@@kayalso2722 facts. BC does exist and then they keep saying they struggling
Perfect critique
Frfr...ain’t no way.
I almost thought he was Kat Williams when he first walked in the court room 😂
Bootleg version
@@conniemoore1786 lls 😂
Scat Williams😂😂
@@myfathersson3751 🤣😂
Im glad i saw this comment now i dont feel silly for thinking the same thing
What did she expect? She already knew what it was
I agree 💯
Right🤷
They both wrong! Women need to protect their hearts from predators.
He was married and cheating on his wife with her. She didn’t realize he would do the same to her? She had 3 kids with a sex, drug, and gambling fiend? And wanted to put their business on FB Live while driving? She has major self esteem issues. smh
Meat deal
Some people never even think it'll happen 2 them especially criminals and women
Yes unfortunately instead of indulging in facts women choose lust
Now c'mon. Im not the only one to know someone, who's been separated from their spouse. Has yet to legally divorce. But yet will-date-people🤷?
amen!
she has NO! self esteem & he's TRIFLING! WHAT?! is she teaching her children?!
To be desperate for love and to let people use and disrespect you as much as they want.
She needs my daddy to teach her some things about street smarts & being her own woman. I don't depend onn no man nor did I ever fall forthe bullshit.
Trifling indeed 🎯🎯🎯
The fact that he was married and dating the plaintiff should have let her know he was a dusty
Well...this is bizarre. This woman was obsessed with him even tho she was his sidechick. She knew that he was broke but somehow decided to have children with this guy. Crazy, man. Just crazy. Why? 🤦♂️
That meat deal
some women are desperate for a man
He was married while cheating on his wife with you and now that you two are together you expect a thief to be faithful 💁🏼😃💁🏼😃
Right!! SMH
That like saying I didn't think the water was wet
Idk the exact wording but what’s the old saying “ you lose em the way you got em “.
“Lose” my black people, it’s “lose”
pat22nasty I was tired as
hell getting off work when I wrote that so I don’t give AF how it’s spelled. Ignorant people always trying to come for somebody 🙄🙄🙄
That saying goes for a whole plethora of things
Amen!!!
pat22nasty THAT PART.
I feel sorry for young sisters whose low self esteem puts them in these messed up situations.
That's exactly what it is
This! 😔😔😔
Well majority of them must have low self esteem then. Cause they will open they legs up for anyone
Low self-esteem esteem and no father. That part too!
There is something wrong with the judge in this case…..and he didn’t listen to the plaintiff, she said she didn’t actually have it on Facebook live. She was faking it.
This is the problem with liberal judges like him….,he wants to side with the criminal.
Wait...What?! I’m sorry if I’m in a possible domestic violence situation & the only way I felt I could get him to stop is to put him on live or record him that’s exactly what I would do! Completely disagree with Judge Mathis on this one!
💯💯 how else do you get proof! J/s
Yeah i agree and also hope you get out of your situation ❤️❤️❤️
Of you’re in a domestic violence situation you call the police not go to Facebook.
Finally I see someone on here talking about something besides his dumb self being married and her dating him and throwing off on her ! JM was way off on this one and he had no right to put his hand on her throat and he didn't even ask him about it he just concluded it was an invasion of privacy ??? Like what ? He's in public in a car so he's invading his own privacy then. He could have grabbed that phone without laying a hand on her at all and JM actually just defended his domestic violence actions. I didn't realize a potential domestic violence situation being recorded or put on live was invasion of privacy considering you feel your life might be in danger or he might hurt you period. Screw privacy rights when it comes to domestic violence. I didnt realize that domestic violence situations actually fell under violation of privacy. Oh wait thats because it dont ! If that were the case then you telling somebody or people about a man beating on you would be a violation of privacy. Just because you got a temper does not give you the right to put your hands on anybody. And JM just justified a clear domestic violence that could have turned worse if she had not threatened him with Facebook live because if he thinks people are watching him he acts innocent and like she's the one with the problem. JM needs to go read some law books again cause this is mind blowing to me.
Sometimes you ain't got time to call the police he put his hands around her neck and got her phone didn't he ? How she gone call the police and she did call them after she put him out of the car and even said he owned the phone just because of this BS about privacy. This is ridiculous
Lol he was just using her to get back on his feet.
Ouch
#facts
Yep, And he's not even on his toes yet, that's why he claims to still love her & want her back.. Beta ass lil boy SMFH ..
What the heck did she see in him.. he looks like a moocher.
I freaking hate thieves 😤
Absolutely 💯
Right and I hate Cheaters...
HAATTEE THEM!!!
Yep stealin from those that work hard for it - DISGUSTING! Those who work hard for what they have, have spent their time (in their life) working... Which means a thief doesn't just steal stuff; they steal the time it took working for it too!
The only ones I have sympathy for are the ones that steal food because theirsevles or a family member is starving to death.
Married when you met him, you continued to date him for a year, gets divorce, then cheats on you repeatedly. No surprises here. What could you have expected?
Why do women found out fairly quickly that a man is married, pursue the relationship anyway, marries him after he finally gets a divorce, then expect different treatment than the first wife......?
“You got caught twice a year” Damn he got stats on his cheatin🤣
😂
The lady is gorgeous her face is very pretty& she talks well educated sometimes we always get fckd up with the wrong man but she seems like she got it together like she will bounce back.
She had to learn the hard way trying to be down for the guy ..he lied going in to the relationship n she didn't know he was married..by that time she was ALL IN!🤷♀️ He gave all these promises and she held on to them like wishful women do . Her heart and mind was wanting to believe if she stood it out they would have something. NOTHING FROM NOTHING LEAVES NOTHING☝️💯
You're about the only one who is seeing past her own mistakes and you're totally positive and supportive type of person🦋
@@conniemoore1786 What??
Alll
Yea with 3 KIDS DRAGGING BEHIND HER.. TO EITHER TAKE CARE OF BY HERSELF OR HAVE HER NEW MAN HELPING HER TAKE CARE OF HER KIDS.. BECAUSE THAT BOY CLEARLY IS GIVING.. DEADBEAT..
WOW.. WTF DID SHE EVEN SEE IN HIM.
HE WAS MARRIED AND IS FOUL, THE UNIVERSE REVEALED THAT TO HER EARLY ON.. AND SHE STAYED, ACCEPTED HIM & HAD 3 KIDS WITH HIM.. SMH.. NOW SHE LEAVING WITH 3 EXTRA FULL BAGS OF RESPONSIBILITIES.. WHEN SHE SHOULD'VE LEFT BEFORE THEY COULD'VE EVEN BEEN THOUGHT OF.. STAYING WITH HIM BLOCKED HER BLESSINGS.. THE MAIN ONE IS... SHE COULD'VE HAD KIDS by a MAN WHO WAS WORTHY..
WOMEN GOTTA STOP CHOOSING THAT STRUGGLE.
Judge Toler would have scolded the woman for her fertility choices and that she entered a relationship with him while he was married. That says something about his character even he said he was "separated" during his marriage.
I am sure that she would have scolded him too! Do you think he forgot he was married??? He knew he had a wife.
Wreckless "fertility choices" indeed.
He's a 🐕
Broke and cheating .... 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐 #howcriag
Right! The audacity of him!
And short
@@brooklynbitch2202 😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
@@brooklynbitch2202 lmao
I'm weak 😂😂😂
Sis, heal, get some therapy, realign with what you need in a man. Set new healthy standards, pray about it, then your new and improved husband will come. Let go and let God ❤️
Chile some of these women are weirdos who believe God already sent them somebody else's husband. They have no clue about what you are even implying.
She's just as Stupid for allowing this Boy to do what he did! I hope this lady has grown up and Upgraded to a Real man since this 💯
LADIES THIS WOMAN WANTED WHAT MOST EDUCATED WOMEN WANT, a good man, Family etc...
You cannot build a future for yourself with a man that’s already married. God does not and will not honor this.
A good man loves God, will honor you and your body and lead you.
Stop paying for men to be with you.
If they came to you pitiful , they will be pitiful.
You sow what you allow.
FACTS 💯💯💯..
Btw.. It's called you REAP what you sow..
Amen 👏👏
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573
'Sow what u allow'?🙄🤔 LMBO
(Thanx for the correction)
Why people don't think it's crazy to date a married person? Like what tells them this is a viable, positive pathway? I don't care if the divorce is pending. It isn't final. This character wasn't even pending divorce and she claims he was still married a year later. Women with trifling boyfriends/spouses always trying to help the neighborhood chic instead of strategizing on how to leave that terrible relationship. Soon as she brought that neighbor over he looked at that as an opportunity to get involved with her. They both are slow.
How he beat you to the house and you was driving ma'am?' 🗣👀
Exactly. 👏😒
😁 exactly
I died 😂😂
Ikr😂
She said she met an officer at a restaurant 30 seconds from her house to tell him what was going on
Quit always blaming the man!!! She looking at him crazy like she didnt lay down wit him or go on bc... Like she didnt stay with him after he continued to disrespect her. Ill wait 💁🏾
Her self esteem is on the floor
Domestic violence is very serious and some women are afraid to do too much when they are in a DV relationship. And JM justified Domestic violence in this situation talking about some privacy BS and you just don't do that. Is it private when you walk around with balck eyes and bruises all over your neck face and body??? Nope Didnt think so everybody sees it.
It might happen privately but the results aren't private so screw this whole privacy BS. Ive been there and I know what it's like to be cut off from everybody and lay and wonder if he's gonna beat your brains out right now or at what moment its coming and if you will survive the next time it happens and then worry about him going thru on his threats to kill you if you try to leave him because those exact things happen everyday and even for no reason they just flip and kill their partner usually in a divorce or something like that. I got out of it thank God but it took him going to jail for me to literally leave the state with my child and never look back and that SOB still found me , found where I lived , where I worked , even my house number which was unlisted everything and made my life hell.
Yep, WOMEN have to take accountability for what they allow.. 3 kids?? It should have NEVER got THAT FAR.. SHE SHOULD'VE BEEN GONE THE FIRST MONTH.. NO MORE THAN 2 TO 3 MONTHS MAX..
SHE MAD HER BED AND NOW SHE HAS TO LAY IN IT.. THIS IS HOW GENERATIONAL CURSES ARE PASSED DOWN, AND KEEP REPEATING..
@@jordanbutler3422in the same time it took her to login to fb, go to the live and start recording all the while driving she could’ve called the police. Then when police are involved she doesn’t press charges or get help 😑. When does accountability come into play? Especially after being involved with a married man and knowing he wasn’t supportive with you and your 3 kids for years. She stated herself the honeymoon period was only 6months so again accountability comes in, why continue to bring 3 more lives into the world when you’ve been getting disrespected. Now the kids suffer. It’s not like he was a good guy coming into the relationship.
The judge wasn’t condoning dv he was stating logical questions. What grown adult in there right mind does that? What sense does that make?
I disagree with the judge. If she was actually recording him, it could be used to document his abuse or aggressive behavior towards her as she could've felt threatened. That's not an invasion of his privacy when his behavior was negatively affecting her. I completely disagree with the judge on this. The judge has viewed probably hundreds of videos on this show that displays inappropriate/aggressive or abusive behavior. So I don't understand why the "fake recording" in this case was dismissed for invasion of privacy. So confused. But I hope this woman cut ties with that scrub
She needs to grow up and stop chasing men
Ummmmmmm oh after a year find put he IS MARRIED I GUESS IT WAS A GOOD IDEA TO HAVE 3 BABIES WITH HIM smh no money no job no NOTHING than in absolute shock he was no good smh 😔
When people show you who they are...
It’s so pitiful. All of the “men” like this use the same tricks. It’s sad to be tied to someone like this. Praying for her. She has super low self esteem.
She is gorgeous. I hope she gets her self worth issues together.
This world is crazy for particularly we the Blacks. Why can't we the Brothers, stand firmly behind strong sisters like this one and stop producing Kids rather Building Wealth Which is our only freedom
Amen preach
Nope, she was sleeping with a married man...she cant then be the poster person for a good strong woman.
Exactly
@@Mrstookie101 he was seperated they had three kids during a legal separation
GOSH I FELT SO SORRY FOR SHE SOUND SO SWEET I HOPE SHE IS HAPPIER THAN EVER IN LIFE NOW ❤️
Mathis acts like he doesn't understand simple things sometimes. You don't have to look in a direction to point your phone that way
Stay off Facebook while you driving, period.
He old, he does
But u do have to look down at a phone to open it, operate it, go to a specific app, then begin to get to a specific function, and begin to point, shoot & record.. On top of them arguing. ..no way she was not ultra distracted while driving.
He walked in like his knees are wood😂😂😂
Stop settling for less!
No child. You discover he's still married. Run should be your first option.
First child.
Second child.
Third child.
No marriage.
He used her car and stole her money.
Girl, bye!
Let me keep working so the tax payments can continue rolling so these kids can be maintained.
I don't know why people subject themselves to such scrutiny. NEVER go before a judge if you don't have to. Woes the man who allows another man to pass judgement on you or your case BECAUSE they are humans w/ flaws, additudes, and any other human behavior we might possess. Since he was so HARD on her, she should have chalked it to the game and leave that joke of a boy alone.
Judge Judy would kick ass on this situation
Who cares about Judge Judy 😂😂😂
I believe she would too
Girl you ain't never had no honeymoon stage. Why you think you got a man you can send to help a female neighbor? Girl slow as a broke down bus. Lawd I need to start a school and just begin with defining words. Ladies these days have no clue. If she thinks she was in a honeymoon phase in the beginning of sumthin with this character? Whew.. Stealing, married, cheating, broke, assault. Now these are the things she telling. Can you imagine what she is not telling?
She should never have continued in any type of relationship with a guy you "date" have 3 children, abusive and still married. He's a Loser, cheater, theif, and a deadbeat.
She's a loser as well
These woman really be having low self esteem...like he was still married, cheating on you, and stealing and you still had 3 kids with this man 😒
Seek God’s will daily.
Titus 2:11-15
So you hook up with a player and get mad at him for being a player?
How could you expect him to be anything other than what he actually is? If a man chooses a stripper and then complains about her stripping society will look at him like he's crazy. That's how most men feel when we hear women like this complaining that the man is being what she chose. She didn't go to a church and find a man she found a brother in the streets and then got upset with him for doing what brothers in the streets do. It makes no sense
Oh no not all church men are Godly, this I kno 4 sure, their actual usual worse
Truth
@@Goldenmelinated you ain't never lied.
“ i’m happy she got her laptop back”😂
Judge Mathis is not the correct person to handle these type of cases....smfh dang I miss Judge Lynn Toler logical wise advise & judgements, we need her back lol
She signed for what she got. Willingly and happily. Accountability is lacking😅
Yessss she’s less emotional and very level headed you can’t get her worked up so easily n most her verdicts are rational. I miss her. Judge faith too
@@ivonned32y’all are all about accountability until it comes to the men
He becoming so toxic. Its sad. He didn't hold this creep accountable.
Lmao a person will treat you bad if u allow him too.
She has so much control of herself about this cheating issue. Were it another woman, he wouldn't survive the first case.
I can tell he says the right thing at the right time.
Whether that's to get her back.
Stay outta jail.
Or keep his employment.
Tbh, hes probably a "good guy" that simply needs to learn restraint.
He dated her while he was married. You lose em how you get em.
Judge To Funny🤣🤣🤣
I don't think there's rehab for lying, that's church lmao😂🤣
Doyle so funny , he loves working with Judge Mathis their bond is amazing
Dude walked in like he did not have time for this. Lol
What a pitiful man
That man sound like he drunk or high or something! His speech is slurred and he don’t make any sense.
"You gone spend the next year in rehab" 😂
So she thought them flags was six flags 🤣😂😂😂 GIRL HE WAS ALREADY MARRIED AND BROKE and have a bunch of children with him.....that’s smart lol
I’m confused. Ppl record other ppl every single day & post it on social media. But JM said she can’t do that??? Since when?
Sooo if someone was being abused and they pulled out the phone to record for evidence, would that also be considered invading someone’s personal space??
Angel Drew Thomas Be gone roach.
No not really but why pull out your phone and go on a app then press live when in that same time you can call the police if it’s so terrifying? At least by you calling and reporting to the police there is a recorded trail for his “abuse”. A person can literally call the police and say nothing but as long as the phone is on they will trace your call and come or pinpoint your location. She said she didn’t even record him. Soo what’s the point? And all the while she was driving.
Po pimping at it's finest .
Broke azz ninja
Dude reaction 1:05 after she said things got rocky after 6 months lol
Lol the judge been threatened to be put on live by his wife and tore up a phone
This man became a laughingstock.
Rehab for scratch offs imagine that.. smh 🤦🏽♂️
Hell half of black folk need that
Still a great big gambling problem for some people
@@conniemoore1786 suppose so.🤦🏽♂️
I don't like that judge Mathis didn't understand that she was pretending to go live, so he would stop assaulting her and leave her alone. It wasn't to humiliate him it was to scare him, for her own safety. smh. I hate when JM gets bias when he hears ONE thing that sets him off, this time it was the phone in her hand while driving. now would he have said the same if she was dialing 9-1-1?
How low can you go, lady your self esteem is on the floor.
Plaintiff: I’m down I don’t want nothing to do with him!
Everyone: girl y’all got three kids together!!!!
He looks like a fiend
She really needs healing.
He is not even remorseful 🥲
Phone and Driving caused the Judge turned on her. Take the phone while she is driving so wrong
Judge Judy would never! 😂
Forget Judge Judy o
Took her damn laptop 💻 like a crackhead 🤣😂
I cringe when cheaters say "I love you"
God is the spirit of love! Smh
Why doesn't he ask women if they can afford all the kids they have?
Exactly
Clearly she can... this fool was living with her stealing her shit....Can’t move these dusties in baby daddy or not. ...
😂😂😂😂 why was Greg listening to her with his head thrown back like that, looking like LongBeach Griffy in them glasses ....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Don’t blame him , blame her momma
Terrible there's always a man looking to use a women it's so sad.
Doyle is on a roll lol 😂
U right. My grandmother said a woman will take anything jus to say they got a crackhead man
“Let’s not miss that broke part” 🤣🤣
Got counseling with your mistress
Nahhhhhh I don't like sticky fingers period!👎🏿
Let me say this, married doesn’t mean he was cheating on his wife. There are people that are married but separated and working to end that marriage. I have a good friend whose (now ex) husband contested their divorce for 5 years. She had the right to move on with her life. Also, I think Judge Mathis unintentionally made her feel that it was ok for him to put his hands on her because he thought he was being recorded. I totally disagree!! Plus, he never addressed the money that man took out of her account without her consent. She needs a redo!
Well in the eyes of god its cheating because you are still married.
@@michelle-loraejones5169 ok but thats to you. If we're separated, we're separated whether the paper is official or not
Black folks don't get divorce they just move on with their life.
@@michelle-loraejones5169 I agree. It's cheating
So according to JM the defendant had the right to do whatever was necessary to stop her from broadcasting that dispute, which she clearly thought was going to escalate and showcase his bad behavior. How is that any different than bystanders recording and broadcasting the police when they suspect malfeasance and misconduct? I know JM has supported the latter... what’s the difference?
its not illegal to record 12
She stated she was recording for protection. But in the time it took her to go on fb, login, go to the live and press record she could’ve just called the police and at least had a recorded trail of his “abuse” on her.
She only recorded him because she thought she could embarrass him. Only to further embarrass herself.
He is what he is and he came into the relationship already like that. She continued to see and have children with a married man for years, already knowing he was no good. That says something about her character. JM was basically like don’t bring up domestic abuse now, when you’ve been in it this long and continued to be with this man for years.
The difference is she was in some type of relationship with the defendant. She knows the defendant personally. She has kids with the defendant, she continued seeing him while he was legally married and she is suing to get money in return. If you’re a Bystander you are not in relationships to police. If you’re a bystander you do not know the person or people (or police) you are recording. If you’re a bystander and you record you’re doing it from a third party view. If you’re a bystander that means you were going about your day and happen to observe the incident. You’re not a party in the dispute.
So easy for others to bash them. Meanwhile have done the same shit. Just learned your lesson like she doing. Both to blame.
Judge mathis's whipped😂😂
She's ah "bbw" in the year 2020 and still being tricked by nickel slick bony dudes! Smh" 😆
Not a piece of paper, a folder, a lunch box.. nothing.. just breeze through with no motivation and no prospects
Judge Mathis is a mess! LMFAOOO
I would love to meet him one day! You can't come into his courtroom saying anything. LOL
I thought that was Katt Williams 😂😂
Wow you are like me don't like to go out that much, I think that I was the only one 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🇨🇲👍
Judge Mathis annoyed
She's too long winded! Get to the point ma'am!
Livestreaming while driving is dangerous.
Wait a minute I haven’t even finished yet, she said she has 3 kids w him?🧐
how yuh get em is how yuh lose em 🤣!
09:28
Dudes leave women so defeated WITH a bundle of kids.