My childhood was as least as bad, probably much worse, and I'm not a psychopath. Sometimes I wish I was and my life would have been easier without feeling empathy for my abusers. I think psychopathy is something you're born with.
This woman looks like she interviews anyone who says they're this or that. The man says he's a psychopath then goes on a mad tangent about his feelings for ages.
Meh, he doesn’t seem particularly strong on the psychopath continuum but hey, calling himself one is making him money so who am I to judge? Guy says he fell in love and flipped out after a break-up..
Yea I agree. And saying he was in a vicious cycle of doing bad things and feeling bad about it.. a psychopath just would not care at all. He isn’t a psychopath, there are too many emotions
@@sophiashmia6587yes, he definitely would NOT feel bad about anything other than what affects him directly (for instance when a psychopath gets convicted of a crime and has to go to jail… they’ll feel pretty bad about that,lol).
Probably using sociopath and psychopath interchangeably. There’s no concrete evidence for either outside of behavioral patterns and brain scans, but there are emotions present. I was always bothered by people who say they have no emotions. Maybe the severely abused ones, like, unbelievably seriously abused. But even then, there are emotions. Blatantly obvious
"my dad said hurtful things" "there weren't any hugs" "my mom was emotionally unavailable" this is rather mild, imo. he has a significant degree of emotion in his voice.
Please consider providing video(s)that covers the following what and how of any relationship in order to be in a “state of readiness” for varying degrees of narcissistic behaviors, conduct and abuses: Fact: There are only two questions that must be asked and will be answered 1) What does this person(s) want ? 2) How will this end ? Based upon those two questions the next question going into the relationship will determine your level of self control : What is the only “ known and sustainable premise” into entering this relationship ? The next is the how and this is what will determine the magnitude and level of potential suffering. I will only initially meet or engage with this person face to face in real life, not with electronic technology. Reason being outcomes will end up being in totally different paths.
i thought, as a licensed psychologist, you'd know that psychopathy is pervasive and not triggered by "abuse" or "childhood trauma". seriously, we need to really question these self proclaimed internet psychologists cuz they should've known better.
There's a distinction between psychopathy and sociopathy (the category Lewis falls in), but for some incomprehensible reason, there are professionals as well as pw/AsPD who use the terms interchangeably. Bugs the s*it out of me.
@@yurizafurizaki5574 No I'm telling you it's due to abuse and childhood trauma. Pervasive is not the opposite of that. The effect of the abuse can be pervasive. But it's not inherent or learned behaviour. If you want to summarize it with a word that's not even precise this discussion is too complex for you. I don't have to prove anything to you. You can live in ignorance your whole life, it's fine, you managed thus far.
@@Jessica.Souths it looks like there's a mix-up about psychopathy. It's not something caused by abuse or trauma; it's more about genetics and brain structure, like issues with the amygdala (abnormal/dysfunctional amygdala). My dad is a diagnosed psychopath and has NPD, and I've got some of those traits too, along with my youngest brother, who has NPD as well. NPD can be partly genetic too. What you’re describing is sociopathy, which is usually linked to abuse or trauma. It might help to check your facts to make sure we're talking about the right thing.
Anybody feels a bit unease cus the therapist seems to got charmed by this person and downplaying problems. Such as "it's all just trauma" also the cult thing gets so downplayed.
Absolutely. I haven’t watched it yet but you are correct about psychopaths being born that way. Sometimes people with aspd and psychopathy are called sociopaths, it’s better to say he’s a sociopath than psychopath because he was probably not born with it.
He can also been born with it AND suffered bad childhood :). The one does not shuts out the other. If how you experience him in his talking and feeling he gives you when you see him, makes you think he cannot be a psychopath: yes, also people who walk talk and act like him, can be it. That is why it is so dangerous.
I know nothing about the person in the video and am only 17 minutes in but within 4 minutes, he mentions that he remembers or was told that he was quite mischievous and naughty from as far back as nursery and primary school. Of course, no one, including himself, knows if that’s from being neglected/abused from his infancy or if he was born like that. So, not saying he’s necessarily one vs the other, just saying it’s a definite possibility. A major difference between psychopaths and sociopath is that psychopaths are methodical and calculating whereas sociopaths are impulsive and explosive. I know this because I was trying to figure out what a family member is and decided he must be a sociopath based on his movements. I think it’s also very difficult to discern a narcissist from a sociopath. I think they say all psychopaths and sociopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are sociopaths/psychopaths … it can be very confusing. In the end, I think the important thing to know is that, like anything else, ASPD is on a spectrum but, in general, youre probably better off keeping your distance. Maybe they’re your boss or someone you have to deal with on a regular basis, just DO NOT enmesh.
@@zelzabez593 We're all armchair psychiatrist's and psychologists these days. It appears to be the cultural zeitgeist of modern times. A fixation with pseudo diagnosis. I do wonder why this is the current collective contagion
Wow, what an inspiring story Really enjoyed this! 🌈☘️
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very interesting interview
My childhood was as least as bad, probably much worse, and I'm not a psychopath. Sometimes I wish I was and my life would have been easier without feeling empathy for my abusers. I think psychopathy is something you're born with.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
This woman looks like she interviews anyone who says they're this or that. The man says he's a psychopath then goes on a mad tangent about his feelings for ages.
Yes they have less activity in the frontal lobes. I think it will be fixable with neural chips ìn the future.
@@dr.beckyspelman are you sure he's not borderline?
@@Deano0o well. It’s not like a psykopath don’t have feelings
Meh, he doesn’t seem particularly strong on the psychopath continuum but hey, calling himself one is making him money so who am I to judge? Guy says he fell in love and flipped out after a break-up..
Yea I agree. And saying he was in a vicious cycle of doing bad things and feeling bad about it.. a psychopath just would not care at all. He isn’t a psychopath, there are too many emotions
@@sophiashmia6587 sounds like a narc and boarderline
@@sophiashmia6587yes, he definitely would NOT feel bad about anything other than what affects him directly (for instance when a psychopath gets convicted of a crime and has to go to jail… they’ll feel pretty bad about that,lol).
Probably using sociopath and psychopath interchangeably. There’s no concrete evidence for either outside of behavioral patterns and brain scans, but there are emotions present. I was always bothered by people who say they have no emotions. Maybe the severely abused ones, like, unbelievably seriously abused. But even then, there are emotions. Blatantly obvious
"my dad said hurtful things"
"there weren't any hugs"
"my mom was emotionally unavailable"
this is rather mild, imo.
he has a significant degree of emotion in his voice.
Psychopathy is a spectrum like everything else. Like a radio tuned up or down , autism radio and adhd is tuned way up in certain ways.
He remimds me so much of Spencer Matthews, looks and personality
Please consider providing video(s)that covers the following what and how of any relationship in order to be in a “state of readiness” for varying degrees of narcissistic behaviors, conduct and abuses:
Fact: There are only two questions that must be asked and will be answered
1) What does this person(s) want ?
2) How will this end ?
Based upon those two questions the next question going into the relationship will determine your level of self control :
What is the only “ known and sustainable premise” into entering this relationship ?
The next is the how and this is what will determine the magnitude and level of potential suffering.
I will only initially meet or engage with this person face to face in real life, not with electronic technology.
Reason being outcomes will end up being in totally different paths.
i thought, as a licensed psychologist, you'd know that psychopathy is pervasive and not triggered by "abuse" or "childhood trauma". seriously, we need to really question these self proclaimed internet psychologists cuz they should've known better.
There's a distinction between psychopathy and sociopathy (the category Lewis falls in), but for some incomprehensible reason, there are professionals as well as pw/AsPD who use the terms interchangeably. Bugs the s*it out of me.
Haha. Funny how you arranged that statement. "I thought you'd know that", *made up facts*. Haha! Get outta heeeere with that nonsense
@@Jessica.Souths you telling me psychopathy is not pervasive?
prove it.
@@yurizafurizaki5574 No I'm telling you it's due to abuse and childhood trauma.
Pervasive is not the opposite of that. The effect of the abuse can be pervasive. But it's not inherent or learned behaviour. If you want to summarize it with a word that's not even precise this discussion is too complex for you.
I don't have to prove anything to you. You can live in ignorance your whole life, it's fine, you managed thus far.
@@Jessica.Souths it looks like there's a mix-up about psychopathy. It's not something caused by abuse or trauma; it's more about genetics and brain structure, like issues with the amygdala (abnormal/dysfunctional amygdala).
My dad is a diagnosed psychopath and has NPD, and I've got some of those traits too, along with my youngest brother, who has NPD as well. NPD can be partly genetic too.
What you’re describing is sociopathy, which is usually linked to abuse or trauma. It might help to check your facts to make sure we're talking about the right thing.
Bless him
Anybody feels a bit unease cus the therapist seems to got charmed by this person and downplaying problems. Such as "it's all just trauma" also the cult thing gets so downplayed.
@@yuanyuansun3521 Definitely not charmed.
@@dr.beckyspelmanmaybe you could do a video on how you approach morally questionable people and why.
@@dr.beckyspelmanCould you elaborate?
Hes a tall CHAD, so what did you expect
What in the hell is a psychopath coach
It’s a psychopath who tells YOU how to live your life 😂😮 , give him a call and let us know feedback.
lol
Someone who helps you navigate your condition to coexist as best as possible
Whats the point in letting people know you have ASPD?
??? What??
@@NolanBakerOficial what did you not understand?
@@NinaZeffari Your question. Sorry, what do you mean?
I don‘t think his a psychopath. Psychopaths are born with it. He might have sociopathic traits.
Absolutely. I haven’t watched it yet but you are correct about psychopaths being born that way. Sometimes people with aspd and psychopathy are called sociopaths, it’s better to say he’s a sociopath than psychopath because he was probably not born with it.
Thr DSM name the condition Anti social personality disorder which contains psychopathy and sociopathy under that umbrella
He can also been born with it AND suffered bad childhood :). The one does not shuts out the other. If how you experience him in his talking and feeling he gives you when you see him, makes you think he cannot be a psychopath: yes, also people who walk talk and act like him, can be it. That is why it is so dangerous.
I know nothing about the person in the video and am only 17 minutes in but within 4 minutes, he mentions that he remembers or was told that he was quite mischievous and naughty from as far back as nursery and primary school. Of course, no one, including himself, knows if that’s from being neglected/abused from his infancy or if he was born like that. So, not saying he’s necessarily one vs the other, just saying it’s a definite possibility.
A major difference between psychopaths and sociopath is that psychopaths are methodical and calculating whereas sociopaths are impulsive and explosive. I know this because I was trying to figure out what a family member is and decided he must be a sociopath based on his movements.
I think it’s also very difficult to discern a narcissist from a sociopath. I think they say all psychopaths and sociopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are sociopaths/psychopaths … it can be very confusing.
In the end, I think the important thing to know is that, like anything else, ASPD is on a spectrum but, in general, youre probably better off keeping your distance. Maybe they’re your boss or someone you have to deal with on a regular basis, just DO NOT enmesh.
@@zelzabez593 We're all armchair psychiatrist's and psychologists these days. It appears to be the cultural zeitgeist of modern times. A fixation with pseudo diagnosis. I do wonder why this is the current collective contagion
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