Amennn amazing!!!! I love the points that Patti referenced that we are constantly learning and evolving, some things are mysterious; as to why some people marry successfully and happily; while others struggle in this dating world etc; there are no one size fits all solutions to this world of dating and i agree that we need to cultivate an open mind in this!!!! I believe in karma, God, and getting quiet and still to see what is in our hearts uniquely and keeping a journal, cultivating correct habits for success and the rest is smooth sailing!
Wow I didn’t realize love was so complicated I thought you’re attracted to someone and you just went out and hopefully it manifested into something serious
I love the logic behind look at their track record! So so good I agree we must look at their track record to understand if this is a right match for us, !!!!! I also love take the power back as women,
I also love the idea of asking for what we want if it is marriage anddddddd valuing ourselves a lot a lot, we are queens and princesses destined to reign uniquely; men are kings too, the key is finding the man who protects not the boy= key points referenced
Violet, I really like what you and Patti have with one another! I’m not sure what “it” is but it’s so good. Seems like it’s an unspoken understanding or something idk. I wish I would have had all these outlets to learn from when I was out here being a promiscuous mess🤭! I have been married for 15 years now but I definitely got some good insight and knowledge here. Plus humor! It was a win win for me! 💞
My friend got married this way; of demanding or a ring or she will leave him, she told the man she was dating; that he must give her a ring after 6 months -1 year after they were intimate because she will not continue to be intimate with him and he gave her the ring!!!! Win win
This is so accurate. If any of you is interested in learning more about your type of affection, I recommend reading the book attached by Amir Levine. And of course her book that I haven’t read
Loveee the Straight Talk and and the words she use to educate. The Ultimatum Strategy. WOW! Wakeup call effect. So down to earth, valuable information and so funny at the same time ❤❤🎉🎉😅😅😅
I realize that your podcast was 2 years old and this one is fresh so I wanted to tell you that your podcast is very entertaining Violet and my name is Jason
I nabbed myself a Millionaires son once. After the first date he asked me out on another date and I replied "you should be so lucky"! He told me as our relationship progressed that is what made him more interested! He was gorgeous but too young for me and I ended it. Sadly. ❤
Patty here en Puerto Rico (USA) we all use whatsapp, there's no such a thing cheating app. Its easer send pics and gif videos and voice memos whithout the bunk of data saving on your phone unnecesary. And the business whatapps ist a great way to connet with others possible potencial clients. Its not a bad thing here and we do have apple and android phones.
Welcome to my world, Patty. You described very accurately narcissistic relationship. This is basic psychopathology of relationship with narcissist. No empath is immune to narcissist. Patty is super empath and that's why is so good in matching.
This was so helpful. I literally ordered the perfume and book immediately after! I’m so curious to know what to do if you are older and wasted so many years (11 years I wasted and now I’m in late 30’s). on the wrong person. Is there always hope even if you’re not necessarily in your “prime” anymore? Should we settle for less because we’re older or do the rules apply for all? Also what to say to a guy when you are communicating your feelings and they make it seem like you’re arguing and try to shut you down and tell you you’re too much? It starts feeling like I can’t even speak sometimes without being told I’m too much.
The rules do apply for all. And if a guy is not comfortable with you expressing his feelings, he isn't for you. His emotional range of a teaspoon can't handle yours, so don't try to stoop down to his level, Britanie. Uou'd be doing a disservice to yourself.
Someone who argues with you when you're expressing your feelings is not the person for you. You cannot flourish in such a limiting environment where someone is trying to control you. Look up "signs my partner could be a narcissist."
Nah don’t settle. You’ll just become bitter. That being said, what are your expectations? Cause if it’s a handsome billionare who falls in love with you the first time he sees you and immediately takes you to the maldives and proposes to you.. great in bed, genius and a psychologist too.. yea that’s delusional. But i think it’s perfectly understandable to want someone you’re attracted to and feel great when spending time together, feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with + financially secure (it doesn’t mean paying for your shit, but that he’s reliable and can take care of his finances).
Love bombers once they've claimed you? They stop all their Love,/etc. all of it.. one day to another!!! Then you're trapped..That's a real Narcissist Love Bomber😡
Yep red flags are right at the start.. if you’re chasing them, that means you have your love goggles on, hence you won’t see the red flags even if they hit you in the face! 😂 it’s a shame it took so many years to realise! 😬
I like the segment. It's pretty powerful but only because of Patti. You asked good questions but without her, you'd be leading your followers down the wrong path. Stating TikTok as a resource into thinking you love bomb people and whatever it is you're reading.. you're extremely far off from the mark for what narcissism and things related to it are really like. I suggest reading from reliable sources and books on the matter 😕. It'll make you sound more credible as a podcaster too. We shouldn't really dropping these words left and right if we don't know what it means. It causes situations where people aren't believed and don't get treated for ADHD, for example, bc so many people use that word willynilly. Good topic though!
I got a good question ⁉️❓ What if you're with a great guy he has good qualities but the sex drive is very different. 😅 Also what if he is a good guy but need work and support to be a better guy ?
This is so old fashion, i loke your podcast but this guest thinks like a grandma and not in a good way. This is the opposite to empowering women's. Also I love how she talk about postponing sex and later say she and her guy f*** after seven days lol
What has Patti done to her fac???? Looks like bad eye lid surgery and something with her nose. I love Patti, but please leave your face alone!!! You've always been beaitiful❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love Patti Stanger. She's a truth-teller!
She is so brilliant. She has made herself into something so amazing and has shifted her life. Love you Patti!
“You get the ring when you have self respect,”. I get the ring, I earn the ring, the ring is mine, amazing quote
YOU ASKED GOOD QUESTIONS HERE!!! THANKYOU.😊
I love Patti!! Thank you for bringing her Violet ♥️
I love the raw honesty and realness of Patti, thank you!!!!!! A world of wisdom and knowledge in her!
Patti Stanger 100% legit AF!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Dropping truth bombs. Facts. 💥💣💥💣
I love this so so insightful👌🏽 Every young woman should have a friend like you ladies, speaking 100% facts 👏🏽💗
Love this upfront advice and for sharing your experiences. Insightful with todays times.
Amennn amazing!!!! I love the points that Patti referenced that we are constantly learning and evolving, some things are mysterious; as to why some people marry successfully and happily; while others struggle in this dating world etc; there are no one size fits all solutions to this world of dating and i agree that we need to cultivate an open mind in this!!!! I believe in karma, God, and getting quiet and still to see what is in our hearts uniquely and keeping a journal, cultivating correct habits for success and the rest is smooth sailing!
Patti you look beautiful not over done just perfect
Patti is so inspirational and knows and knows her stuff lol. You go!!!!!
Love this! Patti’s so knowledgeable and fun to watch!
Wow I didn’t realize love was so complicated I thought you’re attracted to someone and you just went out and hopefully it manifested into something serious
I am so grateful for my relation! I am 12 years in my best relation ever! feel super super lucky !
I love the idea of healing and doing the inner trauma work, thank you!
I love this one: “you don’t want to give up sex unless you know where you are going,”. Gold!!!! Great quote tyyyyy
Awwwww I completely agree; about, your energy level going up when you are with someone. 💋
Best advice ever !
I love the logic behind look at their track record! So so good I agree we must look at their track record to understand if this is a right match for us, !!!!! I also love take the power back as women,
I also love the idea of asking for what we want if it is marriage anddddddd valuing ourselves a lot a lot, we are queens and princesses destined to reign uniquely; men are kings too, the key is finding the man who protects not the boy= key points referenced
Violet, I really like what you and Patti have with one another! I’m not sure what “it” is but it’s so good. Seems like it’s an unspoken understanding or something idk. I wish I would have had all these outlets to learn from when I was out here being a promiscuous mess🤭! I have been married for 15 years now but I definitely got some good insight and knowledge here. Plus humor! It was a win win for me! 💞
My friend got married this way; of demanding or a ring or she will leave him, she told the man she was dating; that he must give her a ring after 6 months -1 year after they were intimate because she will not continue to be intimate with him and he gave her the ring!!!! Win win
She is wise and no BS
Omg this is so powerful! Both are 👸 thank you for your wisdom
I love her sm.
Thank you so much for this.
This is so accurate. If any of you is interested in learning more about your type of affection, I recommend reading the book attached by Amir Levine. And of course her book that I haven’t read
Loveee the Straight Talk and and the words she use to educate. The Ultimatum Strategy. WOW! Wakeup call effect. So down to earth, valuable information and so funny at the same time ❤❤🎉🎉😅😅😅
Thank you so much - fantastic conversation.
I realize that your podcast was 2 years old and this one is fresh so I wanted to tell you that your podcast is very entertaining Violet and my name is Jason
This was a good conversation ☺️😉. . . Damn I need girlfriends like this.
BECOME THE PERSON U WANT TO DATE.
so true. ask yourself : would i want to date me. If not, time for change
I nabbed myself a Millionaires son once. After the first date he asked me out on another date and I replied "you should be so lucky"! He told me as our relationship progressed that is what made him more interested! He was gorgeous but too young for me and I ended it. Sadly. ❤
Is the book she’s referencing the “8 easy steps for attracting your perfect mate?”
Patty here en Puerto Rico (USA) we all use whatsapp, there's no such a thing cheating app. Its easer send pics and gif videos and voice memos whithout the bunk of data saving on your phone unnecesary. And the business whatapps ist a great way to connet with others possible potencial clients. Its not a bad thing here and we do have apple and android phones.
Mind fish. Now that's a new one hahaha. So true
Welcome to my world, Patty. You described very accurately narcissistic relationship. This is basic psychopathology of relationship with narcissist. No empath is immune to narcissist. Patty is super empath and that's why is so good in matching.
It's NOT a "smell".
It's an AROMA.
This was so helpful. I literally ordered the perfume and book immediately after! I’m so curious to know what to do if you are older and wasted so many years (11 years I wasted and now I’m in late 30’s). on the wrong person. Is there always hope even if you’re not necessarily in your “prime” anymore? Should we settle for less because we’re older or do the rules apply for all? Also what to say to a guy when you are communicating your feelings and they make it seem like you’re arguing and try to shut you down and tell you you’re too much? It starts feeling like I can’t even speak sometimes without being told I’m too much.
The rules do apply for all. And if a guy is not comfortable with you expressing his feelings, he isn't for you. His emotional range of a teaspoon can't handle yours, so don't try to stoop down to his level, Britanie. Uou'd be doing a disservice to yourself.
Someone who argues with you when you're expressing your feelings is not the person for you. You cannot flourish in such a limiting environment where someone is trying to control you. Look up "signs my partner could be a narcissist."
Nah don’t settle. You’ll just become bitter.
That being said, what are your expectations? Cause if it’s a handsome billionare who falls in love with you the first time he sees you and immediately takes you to the maldives and proposes to you.. great in bed, genius and a psychologist too.. yea that’s delusional.
But i think it’s perfectly understandable to want someone you’re attracted to and feel great when spending time together, feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with + financially secure (it doesn’t mean paying for your shit, but that he’s reliable and can take care of his finances).
Love!
Love bombers once they've claimed you? They stop all their Love,/etc. all of it.. one day to another!!! Then you're trapped..That's a real Narcissist Love Bomber😡
I’m seeing this was a year ago, is patti still in that relationship? I hope so, she deserves a good man.
Yep red flags are right at the start.. if you’re chasing them, that means you have your love goggles on, hence you won’t see the red flags even if they hit you in the face! 😂 it’s a shame it took so many years to realise! 😬
Please can you link the video you mentioned at the beginning - side chick to main chick!!? Xxxx
💯🔥🦋
I like the segment. It's pretty powerful but only because of Patti. You asked good questions but without her, you'd be leading your followers down the wrong path. Stating TikTok as a resource into thinking you love bomb people and whatever it is you're reading.. you're extremely far off from the mark for what narcissism and things related to it are really like. I suggest reading from reliable sources and books on the matter 😕. It'll make you sound more credible as a podcaster too. We shouldn't really dropping these words left and right if we don't know what it means. It causes situations where people aren't believed and don't get treated for ADHD, for example, bc so many people use that word willynilly. Good topic though!
The technology has changed, not the biology 👏👏👏
What did Patti do to her face she looks like a completely different person? I recognize her voice but that's it.
fully agree - she did way too much work I dont recognize her either
Top lip was done for sure
Sad. Not necessary at all.
Did i hear that right? 150 thousand for a membership 😮
This is terrible advice, follow this and you will be single and alone in appartment full of cat food and antidepresants
wooow ♥
I am single and looking ..... omg Natalia is perfect ... 💋
I got a good question ⁉️❓
What if you're with a great guy he has good qualities but the sex drive is very different. 😅 Also what if he is a good guy but need work and support to be a better guy ?
This is so old fashion, i loke your podcast but this guest thinks like a grandma and not in a good way.
This is the opposite to empowering women's.
Also I love how she talk about postponing sex and later say she and her guy f*** after seven days lol
She said seven dates, not seven days
@@karenschell9822 thanks :) but Doesn't chance the fact that I really dont like her
Patti is the hottest person ever!!! SO FUCKING PRETTY!!!!
Omg Is that Patti? What the heck happened to her face? She looks crazy! Oh Patti. You look scary!😟
What has Patti done to her fac???? Looks like bad eye lid surgery and something with her nose. I love Patti, but please leave your face alone!!! You've always been beaitiful❤❤❤❤❤❤
This doesn’t even look like Patty
She admitted to plastic surgery. Made a huge difference.
ok don't do lips
naturale is better