In a way it’s good that she wasn’t like other women that cleaned house or be nice just to get you. She showed you her true color so you got to thank her for that.
No one is perfect. There will always be flaws, things you dont necessarily like about the other person. You just have to find what you can accept and what you cant. Each person can tolerate something different. It's good that she does not pretend to be someone she is not.
Yes I agreed! Mostly about 90% of all ladies that look extremely pretty & dress very nice when they go out are lazy. When you go to their house, it’s messy, smelly. I know a lot of them that are like that.
Li no thiaj li hais tias - pom nquab ya tsis pom nquab zes - no ntag lau. It doesn’t matter if it’s ladies or guys, seeing their public version is only half of who they are. You have to get into their private vision to see the other half. One’s self is only a half of the person. One’s nest is the other important half to make a whole person. We don’t need perfect white groves-able nest or barbie doll physique and appearance. We need balance. When we’re balanced as a whole, it’s when life is good and at peace.
Good thing u went to visit her,a clean person and a not clean person will never work out. Ib tug poj niam zoo li no xwb ces yuav los yeej tsis zoo. Yuav ua lub neej caum tsis cuag luag. Tau poj niam tub nkeeg ces yuav lwj lwj siab xum tsis yuav zoo dua.
You made the right decision by openly having a discussion with her. You're smart to not let her beauty blind you into believing you can marry her and get her to change. And you are lucky that she is an honest person that didn't try to fake it.
Omg gross ! With her logic of cleanliness then she shouldn’t care about her body. Since her body is going to get nasty anyway so why take a shower and clean herself. Bwarf! Please take care of your house. It’s a sanitary issue.
Ib co txiv neej los yog most txiv neej tiam 21 no ua neej rov qab lawm xwb ces nyuam qhuav haum cov txiv neej no xwb. Poj niam tab cuab , hlub niam hlub txiv tabsis lub mi siab mas xav ntsia cov zoo2 nkauj es khob puab Lis noj loj li loj hos plastic surgery los ua txhua yam hos tu rawv nws lub mi cev xwb mov tsis ua kiag ces kawg yus ua xwb Lis yus nyiam puag Tus cev cuag cev mis días hos 2 lub txiv yob ntoos chim cees ces yus kawg uv ua nws qhev los yeej ua tsis taus ntev thiab haha
Maybe you should help her clean her house. Lol. It’s either her beauty or her laziness. One or the either, cannot have both. If she cleans and cook all the time, she’s not gonna be pretty, then you won’t like her either.
Yeah, muaj ib cos poj niam mas tub nkeeg li koj tiag2 li nawb! Tsis yog dag li os! Kuv twb muab ib tug neeg kuv paub nkees li koj tiag2 li ho. Yuav tsis tau cov poj niam zoo li koj li os tus brother aws.
I have an aunt and uncle when they are out in public they look rich and clean but in their house the carpet is ancient, floor dirty, the house about to fall apart, the bathroom smells so bad- no different than what this uncle described.
You can't have it all, dude. women who look decent + live cleanly are rare. Keyword "look decent!!" Not supermodel material. you need to re evaluate your wants and standards. 🙄🙄
This reminds me of a hmoob girl I went to college with - she wore so much makeup can see her makeup crease when she smiles. She always bragged about how she is always cleaning and cooking for her family and they don't do anything. She is the only one who cooks and cleans out of her 4 sisters. Went to her house and it was a mess, she didn't let me go into her bedroom. Her exact words 'my room is a mess so we'll just stay out here'. So I sat awkwardly in the living room with her family 🤯
It doesn’t take long to figure out a person true self. I have a friend like that too. Her car is as dirty as her house. Nws qhov excuse ces yeej always busy li tus pog no ntag 😂 Neeg tub nkeeg ces txog twg, tham leej twg los yeej tub nkeeg unless they want to changed for a better. I feel bad for her kids.
Well, I guess you and I can’t complain if she isn’t hiding her laziness. Just be glad she show her true self to you and not later. I am the same like you, I like a clean home and I mostly like home cooked and I also take care of my own self. Not everyone are both, pretty/handsome and like clean home etc.
Some pojniam only know how to do zoo zoo nkauj. Most people who cook and clean don’t spend too much time on their appearances unless there’s a special occasion.
Cov pojniam zoo li tus no, zoo ua xwb tsis zoo ua niam tsev vim nws paub kho nws tus kheej zoo xwb tsis muaj hlwb los kho yus lub tsev yog kuv los yeej muab nrauj thiab lau.
Cov zoo y nkauj no ces zoo saib xwb tsis zoo noj.kev zoo nkauj zoo zoo nraug noj tsis tsau twg tau poj niam tub nkeeg ces neej pool qab thiab koj ua nws qhev xwb
😂😂😂 😂 cov ua nyiam ua zoo zoo nkauj ces zoo li ko los mas. Tu nws tus kheej xwb tsis quav ntsej txog tu tsev thiab tsheb 😂😂😂. Qhov nws pheej mus eat out ces twb yog tub nkeeg thiab tsis niam txawj ua noj 😂😂😂😂 zoo kawg uas koj tsis yuav nws. Nws zoo li ntawv es thiaj tsis muaj leej yuav. I know people like this always post nice pic and video on fb partying but their house and car is messy and smelling😂😂😂.
Lol, it doesn’t make sense that she will smell good but her car and house stink. If that’s the case then all her clothes that she wears would stink too right 😢 And if her car stinks then she would be all stinky like her car too once she got out of the car!!
Menyuam hmoob meskas thiab pom niam hmoob meskas tsis paub cai tsis paub xaj aj li meskas. 😂 meskas tseem paub cai thiab xaj aj vaj tsev nyob tau du dais xwb.
I have 3 SILs that do not take care of their appearance and their house. At least you have a pretty woman even if her house isn’t clean. LOL. It could be worse. She could be ugly AND lazy. 😂😂😂
I have been with someone like that before and I hope and pray that I don’t ever end up with someone like that ever again. I totally understand where your coming from.
What do you expect?!😂😅 It takes time (hours )to put her together to look that good for you and everybody. You know there is only 24 hours a day.😂😂 8 hours make up, 8 hours work and the rest for her beauty sleep. No time to clean.😅😊 but she is too much!
Gosh I get what he talking about, hygiene and living in a clean home is healthier, but really tho i know how these OGs are, for someone who don’t feel obligated to clean anything men have such high standards for cleanliness and superficial beauty.
I know everyone has flaws but from his story telling she beyond disgusting. I mean her car is filthy and smells, bathroom and sink hasn’t seen a cleaning in years, and her bedroom stinks with billions of clothes. He was a gentleman but it’s good he finally told her the truth. I hate to be negative but from his point of view her living conditions are that of a homeless person. I don’t know it’s possible to look so good but neglect the rest. I think she’s an honest and good person. Every guy would die for her but once they see her flaw every guy would run from her.
Yep..that's why she's still single no matter how awesome she looks at 40. And she said other men have said the same to her as he had said. So my guess is that the house is filthy as filthy can be.
Ikr! I was feeling sick and disgusted when it got to the detailing of her house, bathroom, bedroom and kitchen ewwww!! How does someone live in a place that is never clean on a daily basis . A house that filthy and she still allows her BF to come visit. She really has no goals in life
In a way it’s good that she wasn’t like other women that cleaned house or be nice just to get you. She showed you her true color so you got to thank her for that.
Bro the girl is right. You see, you like, you buy her for who she is. I am glad she was real and honest with you.
😂😂😂..u see u buy u seeu take 😅😅
Beautiful women only takes care of herself nothing else
You said you want a pojniam zoo zoo nkauj that makes all the men turn around when she walks by, she's what you wanted. You can't have both😆
Lol lol
I feel you. I do know some people like that, and it's disgusting.
If you love her enough, you'll see past all that mess... lol she was testing you
No one is perfect. There will always be flaws, things you dont necessarily like about the other person. You just have to find what you can accept and what you cant. Each person can tolerate something different. It's good that she does not pretend to be someone she is not.
Yes I agreed! Mostly about 90% of all ladies that look extremely pretty & dress very nice when they go out are lazy. When you go to their house, it’s messy, smelly. I know a lot of them that are like that.
Agreed… lol 😂 they don’t have to be pretty but dress nice and carry expensive items lol
Kuv muaj ib cov txheeb ze ces yog kiag Tus neeg zoo nkauj no ntag🤣
Not just women, men too. Like my nephew haib kawg tabsis ma don't go into his bedroom. You will get lost😅😆
Umm, I also know women who doesn’t dress up, brush their teeth, or take care of their appearance and still have messy house and spouse. ✌🏼
@@pakoulee4188That’s why she said 90%.
Li no thiaj li hais tias - pom nquab ya tsis pom nquab zes - no ntag lau.
It doesn’t matter if it’s ladies or guys, seeing their public version is only half of who they are. You have to get into their private vision to see the other half.
One’s self is only a half of the person. One’s nest is the other important half to make a whole person.
We don’t need perfect white groves-able nest or barbie doll physique and appearance. We need balance. When we’re balanced as a whole, it’s when life is good and at peace.
Cov poj nrauj es zoo zoo nkauj ces yeej tub nkeeg li no nawb lawv aw...
Good thing u went to visit her,a clean person and a not clean person will never work out. Ib tug poj niam zoo li no xwb ces yuav los yeej tsis zoo. Yuav ua lub neej caum tsis cuag luag. Tau poj niam tub nkeeg ces yuav lwj lwj siab xum tsis yuav zoo dua.
Lub tsheb twb tsis tu, tsev ces haj yam tsis du lis lug.
Who else listening to this story and went to clean their bathroom right away. Lol
Some details of her house sounds like mines bwahahaha😂
Lol
You made the right decision by openly having a discussion with her. You're smart to not let her beauty blind you into believing you can marry her and get her to change. And you are lucky that she is an honest person that didn't try to fake it.
Omg gross ! With her logic of cleanliness then she shouldn’t care about her body. Since her body is going to get nasty anyway so why take a shower and clean herself. Bwarf! Please take care of your house. It’s a sanitary issue.
Ib co txiv neej los yog most txiv neej tiam 21 no ua neej rov qab lawm xwb ces nyuam qhuav haum cov txiv neej no xwb. Poj niam tab cuab , hlub niam hlub txiv tabsis lub mi siab mas xav ntsia cov zoo2 nkauj es khob puab Lis noj loj li loj hos plastic surgery los ua txhua yam hos tu rawv nws lub mi cev xwb mov tsis ua kiag ces kawg yus ua xwb Lis yus nyiam puag Tus cev cuag cev mis días hos 2 lub txiv yob ntoos chim cees ces yus kawg uv ua nws qhev los yeej ua tsis taus ntev thiab haha
Cov neeg zoo nkauj ham tsis yeej tub nkeeg ntau xwb mos.
Vim lawv huas lawv txoj kev ua Kom zoo nkauj tshaj plaws thiaj tau nej cov txiv neej uas tsi muaj neeg mas😂😂
Very good 👍 👏 👌
Maybe you should help her clean her house. Lol. It’s either her beauty or her laziness. One or the either, cannot have both. If she cleans and cook all the time, she’s not gonna be pretty, then you won’t like her either.
I agreed. I been to people's house are like that too. There is too much stuffed everywhere. I don't think any man would take her, hahaha.😮
Tos tsis muaj neeg twg yuav nws. Not all but most extremely pretty and well dressed ladies are not into cooking and cleaning.
Cov poj nrauj tam sim no zoo deev xwb tsis zoo yuav los ua niam tsev nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
Cov neeg zoo zoo nkauj ces nws siv nws lub sij hawm los tu nws tus kheej xwb tsi khoom los tu tsev nas lawv..
Peb sawv daws puas leej muaj 24 xuab moos xwb, yog peb siv sij hawm tus peb kom zoo nkauj thiab lom zem, ces tag cov sij hawm lawm.
Hehehe😂😂😂😂😂😂 xav luag tiag2, ntsaw2 neeg zoo nkauj ces kawg zoo li no xwb tiag brother.
Zoo nkauj ces zoo saib xwb tsis zoo noj
I just want to say wow
Lmaaoo!!! This guy is funny, whats that saying in hmong. You see the pigeon but you don't see the pigeons home. 😂😂😂
Lmao! Dude wasn’t impressed with the pigeon’s home. 😂
Lol this reminds me of Ross dating that one girl 😂
Qhov koj twb yog qhov nej cov txiv dev ntshaws 2 npaus suav toog xwb ne...🤣🤣
I believe you brother lol…I know women like that. She has money to eat out all the time but no money to hire a cleaner lol . She’s just pure lazy.
Yeah, muaj ib cos poj niam mas tub nkeeg li koj tiag2 li nawb! Tsis yog dag li os! Kuv twb muab ib tug neeg kuv paub nkees li koj tiag2 li ho. Yuav tsis tau cov poj niam zoo li koj li os tus brother aws.
I know lots of women like this. Lmfao! Mus club thiab tawm rooj mas khws kawg tabsis tsev ces npua lub zes...lol
I have an aunt and uncle when they are out in public they look rich and clean but in their house the carpet is ancient, floor dirty, the house about to fall apart, the bathroom smells so bad- no different than what this uncle described.
You can't have it all, dude.
women who look decent + live cleanly are rare. Keyword "look decent!!" Not supermodel material.
you need to re evaluate your wants and standards. 🙄🙄
Zoo nkauj heev os.
Well, they have to spend 2 hours everyday to put on their fake, 4 layer makeup face
This reminds me of a hmoob girl I went to college with - she wore so much makeup can see her makeup crease when she smiles. She always bragged about how she is always cleaning and cooking for her family and they don't do anything. She is the only one who cooks and cleans out of her 4 sisters. Went to her house and it was a mess, she didn't let me go into her bedroom. Her exact words 'my room is a mess so we'll just stay out here'. So I sat awkwardly in the living room with her family 🤯
It doesn’t take long to figure out a person true self. I have a friend like that too. Her car is as dirty as her house. Nws qhov excuse ces yeej always busy li tus pog no ntag 😂 Neeg tub nkeeg ces txog twg, tham leej twg los yeej tub nkeeg unless they want to changed for a better. I feel bad for her kids.
Well, I guess you and I can’t complain if she isn’t hiding her laziness. Just be glad she show her true self to you and not later. I am the same like you, I like a clean home and I mostly like home cooked and I also take care of my own self. Not everyone are both, pretty/handsome and like clean home etc.
😂😂😂😂
Feem ntau cov poj niam ua zoo zoo Nkauj yeej tub nkeeg tus vaj tus tsev vim nw tus nw lub sib hawj tag nro los ua qhov nw zoo zoo ntawm xwb
Some pojniam only know how to do zoo zoo nkauj. Most people who cook and clean don’t spend too much time on their appearances unless there’s a special occasion.
Run while you can
Could of told you that lol!
Cov pojniam zoo li tus no, zoo ua xwb tsis zoo ua niam tsev vim nws paub kho nws tus kheej zoo xwb tsis muaj hlwb los kho yus lub tsev yog kuv los yeej muab nrauj thiab lau.
Hahaha so funny, especially the son’s hair is oily. Lol
This story is hilarious!!😂
I cannot imagine such home. It would be nice to make it into a movie. Lol
Cov zoo y nkauj no ces zoo saib xwb tsis zoo noj.kev zoo nkauj zoo zoo nraug noj tsis tsau twg tau poj niam tub nkeeg ces neej pool qab thiab koj ua nws qhev xwb
Time to change that mind and marry an average lady
😂😂😂 😂 cov ua nyiam ua zoo zoo nkauj ces zoo li ko los mas. Tu nws tus kheej xwb tsis quav ntsej txog tu tsev thiab tsheb 😂😂😂. Qhov nws pheej mus eat out ces twb yog tub nkeeg thiab tsis niam txawj ua noj 😂😂😂😂 zoo kawg uas koj tsis yuav nws. Nws zoo li ntawv es thiaj tsis muaj leej yuav. I know people like this always post nice pic and video on fb partying but their house and car is messy and smelling😂😂😂.
SOME WOMEN LOOK GOOD BUT HAVE BAD HABITS AND ARE NOT CLEAN AND ARE LAZY
Tus poj niam ko zoo noj xwb tsis zoo yuav os 😮
Lol, it doesn’t make sense that she will smell good but her car and house stink.
If that’s the case then all her clothes that she wears would stink too right 😢
And if her car stinks then she would be all stinky like her car too once she got out of the car!!
Cov ntawm nej ces yog cov nej hais tias niam dev tsis yog niam tsev ntag los mas
Hahaha, yog tus pojniam es mus
yuav txiv lwm haiv neeg xws li dub
thiab dawb xwb ces ntev los muab
5 xyoos xwb ces nws ua homeless
lawm. xwb tiag.
Menyuam hmoob meskas thiab pom niam hmoob meskas tsis paub cai tsis paub xaj aj li meskas. 😂 meskas tseem paub cai thiab xaj aj vaj tsev nyob tau du dais xwb.
Tej no qhia tau tias nws tsis yog ib tug niam tsev paub tab los sis tij lim
Some women and their excuses to being messy. It's just laziness. No one's life is too busy unless you're working 2 to 3 jobs 7 days a week.
I have 3 SILs that do not take care of their appearance and their house. At least you have a pretty woman even if her house isn’t clean. LOL. It could be worse. She could be ugly AND lazy. 😂😂😂
Cov poj niam ua zoo2 nkauj ces tsawg2 tus thiaj li tu vaj tsev du lug xwb os, cov coob ces tau qhov tu nws tus kheej nkaus xwb🤭
I have been with someone like that before and I hope and pray that I don’t ever end up with someone like that ever again. I totally understand where your coming from.
Women don’t wake up looking like that 😂
Thankness you did not married her without seeing her at her home, bro.
That 's how lazy people, yeej tsis tu tsev tsis open windows lub house ma smell so bad.
Nco ntsoov tias tus zoo zoo nkauj ces nws tsuas paub tha make up xwb
Muaj ib txia tib neeg lawv tu ces heev tabsis lawv lub tsev mas tsi tu li nawb tabsis yus nyob tsi tau li no os lawv es.
What do you expect?!😂😅 It takes time (hours )to put her together to look that good for you and everybody. You know there is only 24 hours a day.😂😂 8 hours make up, 8 hours work and the rest for her beauty sleep. No time to clean.😅😊 but she is too much!
Question...would you rather someone like this woman in the story of someone who is OCD and overly clean and organize?
Haha I’m the OCD type you’re talking about 😅
Sorry, I'm not living like pigs!
Feem ntau cov ua zoo2 nkauj ces zoo soj xwb tsis zoo naib lis os.
Gosh I get what he talking about, hygiene and living in a clean home is healthier, but really tho i know how these OGs are, for someone who don’t feel obligated to clean anything men have such high standards for cleanliness and superficial beauty.
She's hoarder. ...
I know everyone has flaws but from his story telling she beyond disgusting. I mean her car is filthy and smells, bathroom and sink hasn’t seen a cleaning in years, and her bedroom stinks with billions of clothes. He was a gentleman but it’s good he finally told her the truth. I hate to be negative but from his point of view her living conditions are that of a homeless person. I don’t know it’s possible to look so good but neglect the rest. I think she’s an honest and good person. Every guy would die for her but once they see her flaw every guy would run from her.
Yep..that's why she's still single no matter how awesome she looks at 40. And she said other men have said the same to her as he had said. So my guess is that the house is filthy as filthy can be.
Kwv tij koj puas kam muab nws tus FB rau kuv..kuv hov tau mus saib thiab os
Sorry! You have a bad experience. Made us single mom, who have OCD of cleaning house look bad. There's only few of us left are clean freak.
I am so glad u did not marry this lazy woman. I know plenty of beautiful women but lazy as heck and it doesn't get better when the guy marry her!!!
Some People who wears cologne or perfume are just to cover their stinky butt. Couldn’t stand that smell of mixture
Omg 🤮🤢🤮 listening to the story while eating make me want to puke. Definitely lost my appetite when I got to the part about the bathroom. 🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢
How disgusting! 😝 😵 nausea
Ikr! I was feeling sick and disgusted when it got to the detailing of her house, bathroom, bedroom and kitchen ewwww!! How does someone live in a place that is never clean on a daily basis . A house that filthy and she still allows her BF to come visit. She really has no goals in life
😂😂😂
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